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| 2 | Feeling weak around girls in clubsOr just don’t give excuses why someone can’t get club girls. Either way. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Feeling weak around girls in clubsSo just say that without the excuses. Your post reads like you grew a resentment for club girls and are blaming it on height and shiz. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Feeling weak around girls in clubsI don't think OP asked for your personal excuses | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 09:49 PM |
| 2 | How to handle girl that's always lateJust don't make the mistake of giving too many verbal warnings without some actual action to back it, or else you look like the boy who cried wolf and she will value your time less, not more. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Friend clocked me while we were drunkLol screw this "friend." Dude punched you over a girl. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Trying to find joy in a world the live in.joy is the mental currency of hard work. Most blue-pill shit I ever heard. Tell the Cambodian child workers who make your sneakers this bullshit. Joy is the freedom to do what you want when you want. Hard work can certainly help you get there, but not nearly as much as a $10m inheritance from your pops would, or a good investment in an asset that returned 100x gains. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Best reputation to have?A man who handles his business and takes care of himself. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Going to ask a girl out for the first time in my life tonight. How to deal with all the shit that comes during and after it, and how to escalate?Think of a specific idea you want to invite her to and just do it. I'd word it like this. "Hey let's do X at TIME/DATE". This way it's more of an invitation for her to do something with you then you pleading for her to do something. That's it. You are overthinking the rest. If she says yes, then continue to make the plans and do them and have fun. If she says no, don't act butt hurt and move on to the next girl. You have literally nothing to lose. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 09:16 PM |
| 18 | Stuck in a weird situation with my GF. Need advice?I should let her know when So that she can make concrete plans with someone else perhaps. It's honestly a complete waste of time to even wonder if she is sleeping with someone else though. If she doesn't want to sleep with you all the time anymore, next! Don't get caught up wasting your time trying to catch her cheating or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to lose fat without cardioSimply eat less dude. If you aren't losing weight then eat less. Period. You could check the calculations and data behind your calories you are calculating, or you could just simply eat less. Also I assume you drink literally nothing but water right? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Supplements/vitamins that actually do somethingThis is all you need and a good pre workout will have bcaas. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 09:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you tell if a girl in club attire is hiding fat?If you aren't sure, then she's hiding fat. Girls who aren't actually fat don't hide a damn thing. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 06:54 PM |
| 2 | is there any hope? I've wasted my life to videogames.So you spent your early adulthood playing videos games. I'm sure you had some fun. Now you realize that's not what you want the rest of your life to be about. Getting there is only a matter of time and effort. If you expect things to change overnight, they won't. If you expect everything to change at once, it won't. Some obvious things you want to do: Get a job or source of income. (I assume you aren't wealthy already? If you are wealthy, I don't see getting a job as a high priority.) Get in sha… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | is there any hope? I've wasted my life to videogames.The titanic begs to differ | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 07:50 PM |
| – | Is my Tinder game autistic or are girls just flakey?If a gorgeous girl hit you up on tinder inviting you to her house for casual sex, wouldn't you feel at least a little worried about something being up or weird about that? Best case she is a major slut and you have to stretch the condom around your balls just to be safe. Now imagine being a pretty girl going over to a 6'1 muscular dude's house? Good luck getting them to do that. It happens, but... why make it such a challenge on yourself when getting a beer is so easy and also pretty damn fun IM… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 09:29 PM |
| – | Is my Tinder game autistic or are girls just flakey?What I notice is that very attractive women are responding to you when you say dumb stuff like "Anal?" Clearly they have interest in you. You are just trying to hard to be too forward and too alpha. Ask them if they want to get drinks, they say sure, you name a time and place, you meet up and have a good time over a drink or two and then invite them to your place. It's not rocket science. It's tinder. Girls know what you are after. Stuff like "let's skip first date for sex" just kind of shows th… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | She not the one, how do I break this off?it's the best thing for the person who can really love you the way you want them to Change the word can to will, and this is a perfect damn way to do it. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 04:40 PM |
| 13 | She not the one, how do I break this off?There is no majestic way to break up with someone. You just simply have to do it. It's just like approaching a girl. The most important part is just doing it. Here is a line for you though. "I really don't know how to do this best, but I've decided that I want to break up. I've enjoyed my time with you but I'm certain that I don't want to invest much more in this relationship." Do it in a public place ideally. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 09:52 PM |
| 17 | She not the one, how do I break this off?Seriously. This should be an easy one to break off. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why we tell you not to cohabitate with a woman you aren't married to.Haha I'm saying if you didn't want to sleep in the same bed you could go home, not sleep on the couch or something. The way I worded it is fail | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 03:14 PM |
| 18 | Why we tell you not to cohabitate with a woman you aren't married to.I mean... if you don't want your LTR sleeping over, why did you invite her over in the first place? To hang out for a bit and bang and then say adios? Why upgrade her from plate status for that? Regardless, the easiest solution here would have been to go to her place when you wanted to hang out but not sleep in the same bed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 01:42 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] Why are girls attracted to low-life potheads?The most essential part of being alpha or an attractive mate is seeming content with your life. A pot head who is always happy and content with their life seems more attractive than a soon to be doctor who's life seems to be in shambles because they are working so hard on becoming a doctor. I'm guessing you are college aged or younger though. True loser potheads, not all potheads, will lose contentness with their life when real life starts calling on them. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | This Girl Offered Me A Decent Amount Of Money To Marry Her...Damn dog I hope you value yourself more than $10k. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | If you want to feel good, mostly, do you "just do it"?2-10 year goal of changing your level of happiness so much that it shows on your resting face is too big picture of a goal. Don't overwhelm yourself with such a goal. Instead focus on the next hour, the next day, the next week and so forth. Pile up all the little productive activities that you can on a day, every day, and the long term goals will start falling into place as a consequence. As opposed to expecting one big long term goal to suddenly change your daily routines. Chop wood and carry w… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How to trust women after reading red pill?Specifically in regards to trusting a woman to be faithful in an LTR... it's a fantasy. I'm not saying that every woman in an LTR cheats, but I'm saying that you won't ever be able to blindly trust them to not cheat and let down your guard and your constant pursuit of bettering yourself. You will never own a woman in that sense, so keeping her faithful will be a constant effort on your part and sometimes they cheat on you even when you are at your best. Instead, you should focus on building the … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 06:32 PM |
| 7 | 15 Books That Changed My LifeYeah he talkin bout Marcus Aurelius' book | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/16 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Are these the best 4 reasons to lift?Reasons not to lift: | /r/askTRP | 15/11/16 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Help: how do I aim higher if I am happy with the status quo?I've always found TRP pushes the idea of stoicism and the relentless pursuit of success in somewhat contradictory fashions. I'm guessing a lot of the community will advise that you never stop pushing for more but be content with what you have and don't require a big flashy lifestyle at the same time. If you are ok with where your career is, pursue other things. An instrument, new language, pursue more dates with attractive women, pursued more travel, pursue woodworking/painting, cooking, whateve… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | My first date in a year!There is nothing more blue pill than a kiss close. Kisses are for girls. You are legit ending the date in their frame. It says "I'm interested in you and I want you, regardless of sex." She has complete dominance of your relationship at that point IMO but to each their own... | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Arguing with women too much (and how to prevent it) - advice?Women in general or women you are dating? Just don't argue with women though. It can be fun to get a debate going especially if you feel like you are in the right but it's completely pointless. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 08:33 PM |
| 2 | My first date in a year!I'm bored and I want to give you advice on this since I can confidently say I have first dates mastered pretty well, especially ones off of dating apps. More details would be nice though. Age? What are you doing for the date? How long did you talk on the dating app? Do you have her phone number? Or any other details really... I can give you some general pointers though. Assume that she needs to qualify herself to you, not the other way around.This gets her ego on your side. She has to win you ov… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP cultivate negativity, doubt and fear?Kinda... Sucks to know she will inevitably cheat on me, but since I've accepted that reality I'm kinda just riding it out and trying to enjoy it. I'll take the guarantee of eventually getting cheated on over all the risks and effort that goes into racking up plates again, at least for right now. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP cultivate negativity, doubt and fear?This is exactly what I've opted to do in my current relationship. Lie to myself to be happier. In an LTR with a girl I know is not LTR worthy based on past sexual history. I like everything else about her, enjoy spending time with her, enjoy fucking her, and don't have time or want to game other girls. Also zero risk of pregnancy or fake rape accusations or any of that which is always nice. However I know she's a slut deep down and that our relationship will end with her cheating. But when I thi… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?And if that is too challenging or impractical in that moment, then just apply dread in any other way. Tinker around in your phone. Stop asking her questions. Indicate you are getting bored. The goal is just making her realize that you are not upset, but that she has lost your attention and effort level. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Lets say you're out sarging at the club and your sister is unfortunately there getting hit on.I wouldn't do anything unless she asked for help or looked like she needed help. If you get all white knight for her, she's gonna have more tingles for the other dude. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/16 11:54 PM |
| 50 | Redpill Truths: My Experience as an Uber DriverWell this was the first TRP post that made me sad. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Take a Break From the PillThat's one the ironic parts of theredpill. You have to fail in bluepill ways, or at least have enough experience in the field otherwise, to be able to see the truths we tell. You have to be broken or awoken before you will be willing to accept it. Makes me happy every time I see someone awoken before they get completely broken. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | 36 year old omega checking in. Is trp worth it?37 years old. 15% bodyfat and hitting new personal bests on core lifting exercises weekly. Entry level sales job seeing ample monetary reward for my hard work. Bald (shaved it off). Haven't had a night without a girl wanting me to spend time with her in weeks. Feeling good about life and what I was able to accomplish in one year. Thank god I didn't take the easy way out with suicide. Don't watch porn anymore. I cook myself bomb ass meals and maintain healthy eating habits. These next 10 years wi… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 04:35 PM |
| 9 | How would you respond to this text?"Well I'd hate to hang out as enemies." Then escalate relentlessly. If she denies, you next. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Chick gives me her boyfriend's number...wtf?Change your name to MrTooThick cause she is straight up toying with you and you don't seem to be grasping that. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Emotional ControlDon't focus on controlling the emotions themselves. That's nearly impossible. Instead, focus on controlling the actions that result from them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How to approach two girls at a restaurant?Keep in mind that women want a man to be overcome with "love at first sight" style feelings for them. They want to see that your level of attraction to them was so powerful that you could not possibly resist approaching them. When you realize this, you realize that what you say should really be an afterthought. The quicker you approach, the more it will seem like you were suddenly possessed to talk to them. As far as lines to use "Hey don't I know you from blah blah blah" has always worked well … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to approach two girls at a restaurant?I would have gave him a bro fist of approval. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 05:18 PM |
| 10 | Why do women say "It was only sex" when referring to their CC days?I think this was the most empowering aspect of trp: the realization that how I want to be treated, how I want my relationship to be, and how I want plates or girlfriends to treat me is not something that is open to debate. As long as I maintain the ability to walk away at any point (don't move in with a woman, have kids with a woman, or marry one), then there is no need for me to justify the terms of my relationships with women to anyone but myself. Now of course women would say "this is so mani… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I hate the feeling I get when a woman rejects me and chooses another in spite of all the signs... how can I get over this?Let her and the other guy worry about her and the other guy. That's their relationship. You and her is your relationship. Their relationship should have no effect on your relationship. If she brings it up, shake it off, who cares? Treat it like a shit test. Continue focusing on her and you. Now if you are properly escalating, and she rejects you, move on. "But what if she rejects me because she just isn't sure about her relationship with the other guy?!" Doesn't matter. Completely irrelevant. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I hate the feeling I get when a woman rejects me and chooses another in spite of all the signs... how can I get over this?Let's you see that she is into another guy? What are you her stalker? Did you not read the first part of my post? Ask her for drinks earlier. You aren't winning her over by befriending her and observing her relationships with and levels of attractions to other men. Irrelevant anyways. There are two players in the game, you, and her. Ask her for her number exactly like I said as soon as you know that you are attracted to her. It's that simple dude. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Plans mangled"Well me and my friend are going out Sat night." I would have went with: "That's a shame, maybe we can meet up after or we will figure something out next week." I think you handled it fine except for this worthless exchange: "I thought your friend had plans with my friend" What are you arguing if her plans are valid or something? Regardless, you did fine by telling her to enjoy her night out. You could have told her to hit you up that night though. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up a perfect date. Why is it what I said was wrong?"I want to bury my face, mouth and tongue in that place between your legs where many dicks have been. I want to do this for you to pleasure you, because I would consider myself lucky to have such an opportunity." Sound attractive? I don't give a fuck if you love going down on a girl more than anything, it's not manly to put pleasuring her above pleasuring yourself. Also are you plain stupid? "I want eat you out." Is not a fucking body part. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 06:57 PM |
| 2 | I hate the feeling I get when a woman rejects me and chooses another in spite of all the signs... how can I get over this?You meet her again and again and yet, when the chips are down, she rejects you. Yeah you already showed you are not the type of man who takes what he wants when he wants it. You are showing you are the type of man who will patiently wait as a friend of a friend multiple times before getting up the nerve to ask her out or whatever you are asking her that leaves you rejected. She senses your attraction from the start, and she sees you hesitant to act on it. That's not attractive. Why does it hurt … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Relationship (25M, 27F) has morphed into her being the Alpha. Fight it or...?Roll with it? Resist it? I'd end it unless you are ok with sharing her, in which case you could silently demote her to a plate and stop caring so much what she does outside of your time together. Her going out late and lessening contact with you is a strong sign she is already looking to branch swing. A mistake men often make here is that the relationship is still salvageable because it hasn't officially ended. She will not end it until there is someone else, period. Women are never truly single… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 06:18 PM |
| 2 | LTR declined sex twice, but wants sex tonight. Accept?You guys are making too big of a deal about sex and she is in total control. You seem to have thrown some redpill language and what I assume you think is alpha talk in here but you are acting far far far from alpha. Let me break this down for you: Before I could get in, she told me up front she didn't want to have sex. She knows you wanna have sex. She is taking control of it before you even get a chance. You regain power here by saying "who said I wanted to have sex?" "too bad, because I do." I… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeI'll throw my brief experience with the two out there: Started at 5'11, 155 lbs. skinny fat dude who never worked out but had "abs". Started to lose said "abs" as my metabolism was slowing down as I approached my mid 20s. Proceeded to stuff my face and lift heavy shit. Got to 5'11, 195 in 12 months. My body fat was probably 12-15%, but I didn't give a shit because I loved the way I looked in tighter clothing and just felt all around like a new man. One thing I noticed about being this size was m… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 04:06 PM |
| 83 | 35% of young adult men in America now live with their parentsGetting married is an accomplishment? How to get married: Be willing to put up with a post wall woman who wants kids. Make enough money to help support them. Attractive guys who got married have lost the game, not won it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 07:13 PM |
| 7 | What if your girlfriend is richer than you ?Yes you do it for yourself. Any change should form internally otherwise it won't last. He's asking how to hang on to her and feel valuable so I phrased it that way. Adding FOR YOURSELF at the end of what I said doesn't suddenly take it from "so far from red pill it's not even funny" to "red pill as fuck". | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 06:56 PM |
| 16 | What if your girlfriend is richer than you ?You will never be her financial provider. Accept that. At the same time, never lose your ability to be financially independent. The problem with these rich girls is that they will still expect you to be able to afford everything they can. They'll never grasp what the concept of financial hardship, or even just being tight on money means. Don't try to explain it to her. Don't expect her to understand. Make not spending as much money as her be more about you wanting to save than not being able to … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Move in with plate #1 or not ?Live on your own, live with your parents, live on some random craigslist dude's basement. All better options than moving in with a plate. She will not be a plate once you move in. She will be your LTR and your ability to walk away will be crippled along with your power in the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Mick Jagger, 72, is having a baby with his 29 year old girlfriend.Seriously, before I died and it was too late. I would not be trusting my soldiers to impregnate an egg at 72. Then again... Death is pretty close... So meh. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | The four happiness myths from The Happiness TrapIn regards to #4: How you think and feel is often a direct result of chemicals in our brain being currently balanced towards that emotional state. Even with drugs, you aren't always going to be able to control that. The goal should be controlling your actions that result from it. This is what frame is all about. Red pillers aren't all a bunch of emotionless sociopaths, as much as they may wish they were. We gots feels too. Frame is about not letting those feels control your behaviors. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is TwoX so obsessed with killing their unborn children?Who cares? The more abortion is enforced as an act of "womanly independence and freedom", the less likely I'm gonna get baby trapped. Would you rather then be pushing women to keep babies no matter what the circumstance? How does that affect your quality of life in a positive way? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Is revenge worth it?Dude she already had you. You loved her and all that stupid blue pill crap. Have you read TRP sidebar? NMMNG? Book of pook? She will not be attracted to a guy that wastes his time on her for 3 years. Period. It's beta as fuck and shows your time isn't worth shit. So you like someone and they suddenly owe you something? That is not the way it works! She probably has guilt about the whole thing but you lost all potential of her being attracted to you and be glad she finally did something to make y… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Is revenge worth it?You listened to what she said and not what she did. You fucked up. She can be the most fucked up and evil person willing to do the most fucked up and evil things. She still doesn't control you or your actions, and how your time is spent is your responsibility, not hers. You are a character in her movie that she is starring in. She gives zero fucks about you. The problem is that you did not have the same attitude. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Is revenge worth it?Revenge for what? "She did this to me", "she led me on", "she waste my time" are all blue pill thoughts. "I wasted my time", "i let her lead me and our relationship", "i did this to myself", "I am responsible for my own actions and how my time is spent" are all red pill lines of thought. This is why I've always said that the anger phase is the final milestone to pass before you can possibly call yourself alpha. If you don't take full responsibility for your actions, your failures, and how your t… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 04:25 PM |
| 72 | Once you realize what interested women will do for you with little effort on your part, you'll realize what a waste of energy it is to even talk to women who don't show immediate and enthusiastic interest.I like to think there are three tiers: Poor Can afford prostitutes So wealthy every girl becomes free and easy | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 09:48 PM |
| 34 | I've slept with over 100 women and I'm over it.Correct but it should be a celebration of success, not a means to happiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 08:54 PM |
| 116 | I've slept with over 100 women and I'm over it.Took you 100 women to realize this? Being a happy and successful person gets you women. Getting women does not make you a happy and successful person. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 07:40 PM |
| 2 | ShallITinder's advice for all guys in their 20s.Agree with it all except the "Career" thing. Go to school, pick your degree carefully, work hard in it, invest in your retirement plan, retire, die. This seems like a very blue pill, unawakened view on life. For one, just because you are passionate about something at 22 doesn't mean you'll still want to work at it at 30 or 40. Second, it's about money, plain and simple. Millionaires don't need 9-5 "careers". I would advise to develop skills that can make money, and then make money. Living your l… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date wants to meet for the first time with her friends at happy hour..."I want to meet you, not your friends." Then polarize. Don't be timid or afraid of rejection. give her a time and place. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date wants to meet for the first time with her friends at happy hour...This could be the case but this exact thing happened to me on tinder once and I simply said "No I wanna hang out with you, not your friends." We ended up hanging out and doing the dirty dirty that next night. It's a shit test really. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Being Broke is Not An Excuse: The last 7 girls I've fucked have cost me $0 on datesGood post, and yes, dating can be cheap if done right. I'd even go so far as to argue that doing a cheap date is a much better way to start a relationship with a womanZ However, let's not pretend there isn't a correlation between wealth and happiness/confidence. Getting in shape costs money even. Put in another way: if your finances aren't on lock, or at least on the way to being on lock, you shouldn't really be wasting time dating ImO. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Opinions of Red pillers on No-FapTry it out. See if it does anything for ya. If nothing else, it will be good practice in self control. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Ex texts me on her birthday 3 months laterSeriously. Was 2 years not enough? Would fucking her even be a new accomplishment? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Do girls 'spin plates?'And don't give each other STDs :P | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I overcome these feelings?Ah highschool lol. This shit don't matter mayne. Hope you played both roles to the best of your ability and that's that. If you need external validation your whole life, you are gonna be greatly disappointed and greatly taken advantage of. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do they tolerate being a plate?Yes it's a shit deal for men right now. Absolutely right. Marriage, dating, all of it. However, sex, ltr, marriage (yuck) or whatever you are after is still attainable. The beautiful part is that it's obtainable without having to worry about any of "society" or anything. Lift, educate yourself, make money, develop a skill or two, and a healthy hobby or two. Once you do this, women really will become an afterthought. There will be a phase when you bang a new girl every two days for a while becaus… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Why do they tolerate being a plate?Women would rather share a high value man than settle for a low value one. How she is treated is nearly meaningless. It's about seeing how high value of a man she can obtain. Women will consistently give sex to a high value man in hopes they will one day earn commitment. Sometimes they even know that they will never get it, but sex with a high value man is still something they enjoy a lot more than a low value man treating her like a princess. Same thing for men but flip commitment and sex. Beta… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like crap when women don't choose me and decide to stick with their betas?The whole "kino let's have fun" thing is them making you their orbiter. They know you wanna fuck em and they are gonna use that to waste your time. What you are doing wrong is continuing to give them your time. You need to actively distance yourself from them when you are rejected. It shows you have self respect | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like crap when women don't choose me and decide to stick with their betas?Because that's the kind of stuff betas pat themselves on the back for. Talking, flirting, making them laugh. It's all good stuff but you need to escalate relentlessly and find out if these girls are really into you or not, and if not, stop wasting your time on them. I don't necessarily mean grab her ass when her boyfriend isn't looking, I mean ask them out for drinks or to cook at your place. Escalate to discover what she is willing to invest in you. Then you escalate physically later. You can't… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 08:42 PM |
| 1 | 5x5 stronglifts progressGood advice but I'd just add to do the other stuff after you finish 5x5. When beginning 5x5or any linear progression routine you don't want to throw curveballs in to your main routine. Doesn't hurt to throw stuff on at the end though, and it will give you a great feeling of "I'm going above and beyond" | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like crap when women don't choose me and decide to stick with their betas?"Have a good connection with me and I still can't get anywhere with them" You are the beta. You develop "connections" (time hoe) with women that you aren't fucking. I swear to god some people must go the main red pill sub, read the words alpha and beta, and then leave without having any fucking clue what they are talking about. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 08:11 PM |
| 3 | LTR asked "Would you mind if I go to a | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?All girls know that sex will get them what they want deep down | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?Definitely not the worst thing ever if only done once or twice, just don't make a habit out of it and make sure she knows your time is valuable. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I can cope with initial rejection when approaching, but getting rejected after a few dates is horrible. How do I get past this?Weekday versus weekend shouldn't matter. Your goal every night should be to escalate as far as possible. Escalating is the only way both you and her know if you are wasting your time. This "weekday date and then try to get laid later" crap isn't gonna work. Escalate on the weekday dates. Bring em back to your place. Women sacrifice sleep for sex all the time. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 04:54 PM |
| 13 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?Dread is really simple. Whenever she asks why you aren't texting or spending time, say you have just been very busy. The other mistake you made was spending the whole day with her after she withdrew. Again, say you need to get some work done or run errands or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?This is an awful approach. You are not engaging her hamster. You are trying to reason with a woman. Too many words. You will activate her ASD. You also acknowledge that sex is a tool for her to use to get your time straight up. It's so much better to simply apply dread and let her figure out that sex is how she earns your time. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!Guys, if you are fortunate enough to be in his position and want to dodge the shaming with the most ease, remember how Henry Cavill does it in regards to his 19 year old girlfriend. Say stuff like: "it's just the most natural bond I've ever felt." "She is my light in the darkness." "She comforts my deepest insecurities." Or any bullshit like that. Obvs most people will know you are full of shit, but good luck shaming any further when you play it off as true love, couldn't live without her stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Smartest way to protect all the assets while a Divorce?Find a way to "lose it". Gambling or investing come to mind. Both you could do with bitcoin quite easily. For example, load up on bitcoin, then take both sides of a bet for the max amount. Line shop to not get raped by house cut here. Then you have a record of "losing" half of that. You just keep the other record to yourself. Rinse and repeat. Soon enough you can clearly show that you've lost it all to gambling. Just one idea, and you don't have to use bitcoin. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | What to reply when a girl suggests you buy her a drinkFor sure. Abundance mentality in action. I like it. The only other thing I'll say is that she does want it, clearly. I personally prefer a girl to put up the tiny bit of the "I'm not that easy" show that she did. If a girl straight up invites me over, I question her value and decision making capabilities. This girl is basically exactly the kind of attitude I look for on Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 08:06 PM |
| 17 | What to reply when a girl suggests you buy her a drinkI simply would have taken the lead here and sealed the deal. She is basically putting up the least amount of objectives in your way to getting laid as possible. She wants to meet you in public for one drink. "Go from there" = if you don't fuck it up we can go back to your place or mine after. I would have went with "let's do xx place at xx time on xx day." Simple. The problem with your response is that you kind of indicate a lack of reading the subtext, which indicates that you are not confident… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Work Orbiter taking LTR out for dinner this weekend and I'm triggeredBro, this is how sex "just happens" for girls. This guy is gaming her like a pro. Win or lose the bet, he gets her out at a nice restaurant to have drinks. Then it's "hey let's hit a bar after this" or "let me show you my dog or something else at my place". Then she fucks him. Best case after that, she confesses the next day. More likely though, is that she isn't sur ehe is committed to her yet, so she keeps one hand on you, the first monkey branch. However, handling this is simple. Say "i don't… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 04:19 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidI know, but it's the opposite of what he should be doing. he is letting his emotions control him. Like I already said, you can't always control your emotions but you need to be able to control the way you act. "venting" like this, is not controlling how you act. It's letting your emotions win. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidYeah I don't think it works like that. Works more like reinforcement and downward spiraling IMO. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidNumber 1 thing not to do on a down day is write an essay on how down you feel. See that shit all the time in this sub. People who think by just reinforcing all their negative thoughts in writing, they will somehow be relieved of them. That's not how it works. First thing ya gotta fix is how ya act. You can't control how you feel all the time, but you can control how you act. I used to tell people who did that in here to rewrite their whole post without all the negativity, as an exercise, but non… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidAs a 5'11 guy (yeah suck it ya short bitch! ha) who went from 160 to 190, take my word for it. It won't take you long either. Took me like 5 months to put on 20 lbs. Eat a lot, drink a lot of milk, and lift heavy shit. Posture and everything will improve. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 08:42 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidFocus on that 185 goal and get back to us when you get there. It will be a new world. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidI agree that using height is not a good excuse. However... 6'6 girls are easier to get IMO, not harder. Tall girls have the confidence issues that short guys have. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 05:29 PM |
| 8 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidBecause he won't have a need to climb the mountain once you give him provisions. We could all indulge in instant gratification to no ends if we wanted. That won't get you anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 05:28 PM |
| -2 | Good music to fuck to?Smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:49 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidRead your post. Look how little self confidence you have. Look how much pressure you are putting on yourself. Look how negative you are. Perception is reality. Change your perception. Girls want to have sex with care free guys who show them a good time. They don't want to be your goal. They don't want you to depend on them for happiness. They want you to be a happy guy who has a great time, without them. Then they come along for the ride. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | TRumPWell I'd still take the male puppet over the female one. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 07:43 PM |
| 2 | TRumPWell yeah, after 8 years of Obama being as much of a PC puppet on stage as possible, it was pretty damn refreshing to see bernie and trump have some balls when they spoke. It's also 8 more years of old people dying off and the younger generation growing up. The younger generation can sense shit ain't right whenever they aren't distracted by the flood of stimulants readily available for us all. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you engineer a system in which you won't be cheated on? NO.How do you expect to find out though? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/16 08:13 PM |
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