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| 1 | What's something you've learned that seems obvious in hindsight?Yes you are right, i do need things i need to improve. Thanks for the heads up actually. Any tips on not learning this happen again? | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | What's something you've learned that seems obvious in hindsight?I shouldn’t have said “agreed to a date” i said that to shorten the post. the way I asked her out went like this: She was talking about mixed drinks, I said, aye well I drink beer and i never have chosen a mixed drink but shi I should try some. She mentioned that she liked that energy and I used that to say “shi well we can mix our energies this weekend” she said it sounded like a fun time. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 11:28 AM |
| 12 | What's something you've learned that seems obvious in hindsight?Trust your gut I recently was chatting up this cutie and we agreed to a bar date. She works 50 hours a week as a nurse, and overslept a little. She said sorry and there was absolutely no signs of her planning on ghosting me or standing me up. We clicked like a chainlink fence. She was very flirty with me, plus some good lines from myself and we were bound to be together. Whenever I said something that would allude to making her being mine she would say “do you promise? :)” and honestly it was cu… | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | 30 Quick Tips for using TINDERIve used tinder for a few months now, i use it as a testing ground to sharpen my blade, so to speak. Ive noticed a pattern in girls’ profiles. Often times, girls want to fit in with the rest, and will say “looking for short, open to long” or “still figuring it out” when in reality they want a long relationship. This is not always true of course. Then theres girls that dont care about fitting in, and are clear with what they want. Short term fun, or long term relationships. These two are the bigg… | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Acknowledging FlirtsYes. Typically if she does not reciprocate, she is not interested, and using you for an ego boost. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating abroad is the best decision a man could makeNew to this subreddit, i see alot of lingo that I dont understand. Could you explain some to me? | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Does rejection therapy works? if yes is it worth itYeah I can actually second this wholeheartedly. When i would first start approaching girls and get rejected, it devastated me. Over time i noticed that after a rejection i actually felt better than before, and I think its due to the fact that I just proved to myself that Im more confident than I think I am. So you 100% do get used to rejection, and I think it also helps with people that get attached too easily. Im at the point where I can analyze what I did wrong and what I should/shouldn’t have… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Shocked girls approachYes absolutely, thats why I mentioned “keep your intentions clear” | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 10:48 AM |
| 6 | Shocked girls approachOkay, girls typically dont like when you are direct. Girls typically like when a guy is charismatic, and can say things that are flirty, but can mean multiple things. But it still keeps your intentions clear. Which can be a hard skill to learn, it took me a few months of experimenting on tinder to get good at it. Instead of saying something like “i think youre cute, do you want to go out” say something like “we could be friends but that would be boring wouldn’t it?” And see her reaction, if its … | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 05:07 AM |
| 1 | I need to help being more sexually appealing/how to turn my convos sexualThis is arguably one of the hardest stages of talking. Its genuinely a skill you need to build, keep trying and try to be creative with it. I learned by using Tinder, and just experimenting. You want to start off with lighthearted flirting, girls dont respond as well to direct compliments like “youre cute.” Instead of saying that, try twisting it to say “when I saw you i could have sworn time froze for a second.” Each girl is a little different. Shoot me a DM and i can help you a little if you w… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Shocked girls approachWe need more context about what you look like. Im 22 year old male with a good physique. When i approach a girl ive never experienced a shocked expression. And instead of asking them out, ask for her number. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:46 AM |
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