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The year is 2200, university attendance is 121% women, women are the only ones that can earn money, the suicide rate is 159% men, and women still talk about Love Island.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:54 PM
2

Suppose someone is trying to sell you something, like a car, and you don't want that at this moment. Should they keep pestering you until you change your mind? Or should they just give you their contact info, and if you change your mind later on, you can contact them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:52 PM
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If a person is making a choice to "pull away", respect that choice and let them do that. That's, like, the only acceptable option, irrespective of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:52 PM
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I was just looking at the "whatever comes naturally to him".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:53 PM
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While I've never had sex, whenever I masturbate I am incredibly quiet, and almost never vocalize anything. What if the man is naturally quiet during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:45 PM
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Electrical power? Attack power? Power of attorney? Exponents?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:59 PM
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The incel/femcel thing is a lot like actor/actress. No one would bristle if you called a woman an actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:57 PM
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Wouldn't the opposite of an incel be someone who has sex when they don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:46 PM
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They also don't mention elephants. Do they not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:24 PM
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What is the title of the video, maybe I can search it up myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 PM
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Don't know what to say, it's not working. Try clicking on your link and testing it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:12 PM
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Video is not available anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:07 PM
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I'm going to generate one word of this comment. Which one was not written by a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:39 PM
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Apparently it is incredibly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:14 PM
1

Hell, the browser I use has a built in spellchecker. Am I no longer allowed to post? And what about phoneposters? Most of them have that autocomplete thing above the keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:00 PM
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I suspect this post to be AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:59 PM
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Also, there is a range of sex, and it doesn't just go from "good sex" to "bad sex", but can go into "dangerous encounters".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:17 PM
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Then it doesn't matter if you have 47 other "options", the goal is to find the best person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:14 PM
2

And? What if the "right person" is number 4980 in line?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:05 PM
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The problem is that it often leads to "ships passing in the night", and encourages people to overly swipe right. I can't remember exactly, but let's say you have 30 right swipes per day as a free user. If you live in a city of 1 million people, half of which are the desired gender, and about 1% are on the app, that's still 5 thousand people that are in your dating pool. It would take 167 days of full 30 swipe swiping to go through each profile. If there are 48 people that would swipe right on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:41 PM
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Still waiting on that fossilized behaviour so we can actually measure and examine evolutionary psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:27 PM
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If you look at ancient Rome, you'll find most men enjoyed the company of other men, and found sex with women as an obligation at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:12 PM
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>evo psych bullshit Find me a fossilized behaviour. Point out the imprint an ancient person's psychology made in the mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:11 PM
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I haven't really experienced anything that would be disadvantageous to me as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:08 PM
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I would probably get a rating of n/a.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:07 PM
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You can say that about anyone or any group of people. Lots of people get hate from lots of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:07 PM
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> Clubs, bars, places where they’re actually trying to meet someone. I will admit I'm not that much of a partier. The closest I've been to a club is when I'm playing golf. But, even then, I would imagine most women go to a pub or bar or club to have fun with their friends. And, from what I've heard, most women go to those places with their friends as a safety measure. Wouldn't it be reasonable to assume a woman at a bar/club/whatever is trying to have fun with their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:50 AM
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How the fuck can anyone know the true answer to this? It's like asking "How many times were you wrong?" Fuck, I don't know, because at the time I was wrong, and probably still am!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:37 PM
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I think the expectation isn't that men make women feel safe, but that men do not do things that make women feel unsafe. It's a subtle, but important, distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:16 AM
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*Most people are not special enough to be having a selfish nasty attitude. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:57 PM
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"Huh, I never really thought about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:21 AM
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And don't get me started on black Christian men!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:20 AM
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Oh, I see, you are admitting to being an irrational and insecure person. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:16 PM
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How? Nothing about him has actually changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:29 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07GHrnVsQ0
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:46 PM
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Do they know how homosexual sex works? If you were bi, there's a 50/50 chance you would be the one penetrating the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:32 PM
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That literally does not make sense. Someone else's sexual orientation does not factor into whether or not a separate person finds them attractive. I think that Portia de Rossi is incredibly attractive. The fact that she is a lesbian, and thus would never be attracted to me, does not factor into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:29 PM
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>Single man >Actively dating Isn't someone who is actively dating... in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:25 PM
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Honestly, that just sounds... weird. Like, imagine you had two people, and you were equally attracted to both of them. Secretly, one of them is bi. Both are virgins, so haven't had any sexual contact with anyone of any gender, so there is no physical or apparent difference between the two. You do know, however, that both of these people are equally as attracted to you. How can you tell which is bi? Could you do it without explicitly questioning them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:24 PM
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If there are exceptions, why are you presenting it as an absolute? It would be like me saying "All polygons have 4 sides. Some of them don't, but they are exceptions."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:07 PM
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holy-shit-two-cakes.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:44 PM
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Even after detransitioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:38 PM
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That's strange, because I have not seen any evidence saying that this is a requirement for all women. Maybe the women that self-reported that they do not need to like to person to experience pleasurable sex with someone are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:29 PM
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Define "masculine".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:27 PM
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What about an MTF that kept their junk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:50 AM
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That's called cheating if there wasn't an agreement against monogamy already in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:31 AM
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>hit in attraction Just because someone changes sexuality over time, like becoming bi, that doesn't necessarily mean they lose attraction for their original "targets", if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:27 AM
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You contradicted yourself. You said "You really have no right to force your partner into a life where he or she doesn't get to have as much or as little sex as they want. "
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:23 AM
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Then why have the flair in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:17 AM
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Sorry, I wasn't clear. I have incredibly high standards, which I am working on lowering. As for what I did wrong, I'm not sure. I just know that whatever I did is my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:15 AM
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I had no idea. I wonder what the mechanism behind that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:11 AM
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I'm saying that even in your analogy, there is nothing inherently pleasurable about paying for someone's nail appointment. Even if the stranger man genuinely said "yes" to the person asking them, the stranger man would get nothing out of the nail appointment. The only way your analogy makes sense is if in the best circumstance, sex with someone is a net neutral for one party.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:09 AM
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If both of those statements mean the same thing, why not be more direct? If someone asks me for "something casual", there's equal odds that I will assume they mean sexually or if they want a non-competitive game of Magic the Gathering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:03 AM
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Wait, is sex only pleasurable for one party?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:00 AM
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Yes, it's the convincing part that is bad. But, if people genuinely did not try to "convince" others to sleep with them, such blunt propositioning would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:59 AM
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Does he go away? If so, then neat. I'd be more annoyed that someone interrupted me doing whatever it was that I was doing than the propositioning for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:57 AM
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What are the real challenges you personally face in dating? Me having astronomically high standards. What patterns have you personally noticed in your own experiences? Everything, even and especially the actions of others, is my fault. Have you tried dating with different approaches? Yes. Were there specific experiences that shaped that change? The previous times failing. Did online spaces or communities influence your thinking at all? Of course. Women, and other men, have told me that I am doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:46 AM
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It's the "desert vs swamp" dilemma. Neither is inherently worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:09 PM
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*People should not be given unchecked power ever FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:07 PM
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That sounds like you just don't really consider the possibility of someone being trafficked into working on a farm. Are they somehow less deserving of thought that the people trafficked in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:40 AM
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It's the desert/swamp dilemma. One side is experiencing a drought of any options, while the other side experiences a flood of dangerous options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:13 AM
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You do know there are people actually trafficked, and sold into slavery, on farms, right? It's a thing that actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:26 PM
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Isn't that true of literally all professions? You can never know if the worker who made your shirts, picked your avocados, or built your iphone consented to work, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:09 PM
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>Dude, it's like finding a job: you got to be qualified smart and keep looking and sooner or later you'll get one. And that guarantees a job/relationship? How does that work? You seem to be avoiding the actual mechanics of how this happens. >And no, I will not and cannot believe any of the guys saying "I tried for years and got nothing." They're lying. They don't want a relationship and are not ready for and refuse to do it. I can easily spot the self-sabotage every time they talk. And how do yo…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/25 03:14 AM
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Here's the thing that many people seem to forget: Other people have agency. Let's say that I want to have a GF, and I do all the "right" things. Does that cast a magic spell over a random women I meet and force them to love me? Is it like a gacha game where if I fail X amount of times the universe gives me a freebie? Is it like baking a cake, where doing the right things in the right order in the right circumstances guarantees a specific result? Or, can I do all the right things, talk to all the…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/25 02:12 AM
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You've seen countless engineered scenarios where women pretend to have romantic attraction to somebody?
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 09:20 PM
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You are tacitly saying that you have conscious free will to choose your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:01 PM
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Just answer the question: Which person or group forced you to make this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:59 PM
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Who forced you to make this comment? Which group of people strapped wires to your fingers and contorted them in unnatural shapes to bodily force you to make this very post? If you cannot point to any other individual or group, then you are tacitly saying that you have conscious free will to choose your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:58 PM
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People still have agency. Someone can actively choose to spread "red pill and sexism" or not. No feminist is sticking wires in some poor guy's brain and forcing him to believe bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:54 PM
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It's certainly one of my top seven Deadly Sins.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:02 AM
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I mean, it really depends on the specific colour and quality of the hair dye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:01 AM
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I mean, obviously I would prefer not to be actively abused. But I think you need to remember that I am an incel. One of the most common pieces of advice, aside from general shower and exercise, is for incels to lower their standards. I have been lowering them for like 10 or so years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:29 PM
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I have two main standards, though as an incel I understand I am being way too picky. Likes me. Not actively abusive often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:13 PM
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And I'd rather not have any of that done to me. But I was replying to someone saying they wouldn't let their kid near a potential predator, while they apparently didn't realise that, as a parent of the child, they are the number one potential predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:27 PM
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That's deaths, I'm talking abuse in general. https://www.statista.com/statistics/254893/child-abuse-in-the-us-by-perpetrator-relationship/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:47 PM
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In what way? The most plausible danger I could see is some form of repetitive stress injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:46 PM
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I just looked it up, and is this about her wanting to sleep with 1000 men in one day? Because I literally see no problem with that whatsoever. Is there something else at play?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:37 AM
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You misspelled "people" in your title, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:11 PM
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Ok, so just one potential predator. Got it. Thanks for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:46 PM
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It's just that you said "not letting my kid hang out around potential predators." Do you mean all potential predators, or just some?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:40 PM
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FYI, most children get abused by family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:34 PM
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That's just masking. Look up masking, especially int he context of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:32 AM
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Oh, I know. I think the idea that women should *only* sleep with those who are complete strangers is even more absurd than saying that women should never sleep with any man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:02 PM
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Actually, if 80% of SA is perpetrated by someone the victim knows, you should be telling women to only be interested in those who cold approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:56 PM
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No, submission is not earned it is given. Saying it is "earned" is implicitly saying that if one does all the "correct" things, they are guaranteed to gain submission. Think of it like an education. If I do all the right things, namely studying and doing assignments, I will have earned my degree. If I have done those things, and not gotten my degree, something has gone wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:54 PM
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Well... increasing my quality of matches isn't really applicable...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:03 AM
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> I’m sure you can find someone who gets off to FiM Oh you sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:44 PM
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Yeah, no, that's bullshit. It doesn't matter who makes more money in the relationship. If I wanted to be a provider, and even if I made extremely little compared to her, there are many ways I can do that. I am a decent baker, so I could bake or cook food. I could make something handmade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:31 PM
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Spongebob did teach me that scallops "fly" underwater. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kw6wGwKEdT8
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:15 PM
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Whoever I personally make the happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:02 PM
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It genuinely does not matter for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:01 PM
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I want a short, awkward, acne scarred, porn addled, anime obsessed, fujoshi, weirdo gf and I don't care what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:59 PM
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I just rolled a d20, and it came up 17, so I'm going to say "yes".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:15 AM
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I can't (yet) know what other people are thinking, so there's no way of me answering that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:08 AM
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Just because I find something attractive doesn't mean others do. And, just because something is advertised as attractive doesn't mean it's universal or even common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:58 AM
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How the hell can I see if she is attractive according to other people? Should I take a survey of everyone around a specific woman before I talk to her? "Ahem, excuse me everyone, I am about to flirt with this woman. But, before I do that, I want to take a few minutes to determine how attractive she is to everyone else. I will be handing out a small 10 question questionnaire, along with a series of photos. Please take your time filling them out and place them in this convenient box. Thank you, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:21 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_lactation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:19 AM
2

Society, as a group, is indeed often more impactful than individual parents, because those parents are also impacted by society. It's like asking "What affects you more on a ship, the ship or the ocean?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:25 PM
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Oh, so you are one of those people who lives on remote communes, with only your immediate family as social contact. Well, I hate to inform you that for the vast majority of humans, the parents are not the only people a child is exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:14 PM
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Are you trying to imply that behaviour is somehow 100% genetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:03 PM
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It actually wasn't. When you said "anyone", you did not mention age or education status.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:42 PM
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I'm sure you can see how the language you are using makes it seem like the sluttiness of a person is somehow important, when really it's whether or not the person cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:30 AM
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See, it seems like you hate the idea of cheating more than the idea of sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:46 AM
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And if they are working that job to pay for the secondary education to be a doctor or scientist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:31 AM
1

But... you would be fine with a non-slut cheating on you/your son?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:28 AM
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I like sluts. I wish more women were sluts, and that sex in general was something more... casual, I guess. And, of course, I would have no problem dating a slut (as long as they have no transferable STDs, of course. Even sluts can have safe sex!), and I don't really see the problem. If the idea is that their past indicates they will cheat... no it doesn't. A history of cheating is a predictor of future cheating, not a history of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:23 AM
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I disagree, because saying that anyone who has not taken the redpill has automatically taken the bluepill would imply that all blackpilled people are also bluepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:28 PM
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I would rather be picked, obviously. But it's also like asking if you want to be a millionaire or a billionaire. I'd want to be a billionaire, but honestly neither is going to actually happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:56 PM
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I am explicitly anti-pill, and I believe the pills are gross simplifications of personal philosophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:54 PM
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Sounds crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:00 PM
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The west, how is this even a question? Who would want to date a woman who had fewer rights and less education? Also, I cannot stand hot environments. At all. I would spend two days in the Middle East and be physically incapable of doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:52 PM
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Huh, it almost sounds like you are saying that gaming cannot be quality time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:50 PM
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You never thought about playing the games with your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:46 PM
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You chill with your husband from 8 to 10:30, that's a two and a half hour chunk that you can spend gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:55 PM
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You know multiplayer games exist, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:49 PM
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I work at a school library, and I'm easily able to get 2 hours a day. I wake up at around 7, and leave at 8. That's half an hour in morning easily. I also eat lunch for about 30 minutes, which I usually spend playing games. I get home at around 4, and eat at 6, so that can be another hour. Then, from 7 to like 12 is completely free. Like, what do you, personally, do for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:03 PM
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You mean you can have explicit conversations about consent without having to dance around implications and various non-verbal signs? No, surely consent must be a puzzle that both of you have to solve each and every time you have sex. /s because duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:57 PM
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If I slap you once (perhaps to kill a mosquito) that is not abuse. If I slap you many times, that is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:21 AM
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I am always and forever grateful I never have to deal with menstruation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:11 PM
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I mean, like, I have an actual literal diagnosis from a medical professional. And if you say "I'm fine," I will take that at face value because I don't expect you to lie to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:21 PM
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I have literally no idea who that is, and as such I have no opinion on them whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:20 PM
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The only "submission" I want is a base 80 power move with 80% accuracy that also has 25% recoil. Wait, no, that's stupid. I don't want submission ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:19 PM
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I just blame the 'tism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:14 PM
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I think that couples should reach any conclusion about that by themselves, and should be free to define what they believe to be monogamy. Trying to create a blanket "All should follow this standard" is never going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:15 PM
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Why the fuck would I want to have sex with a woman if she doesn't want to? The whole point is to make your partner feel as good as possible. If you both have this in mind, then you both feel as good as possible. I still get fucked up when I realise I have been talking to someone about something they're not interested in. Why would I want to literally rape someone? {Corollary: If this is a consensual non-consent thing, then... even then I would feel wary. Like, maybe at most some sort of somnophi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:12 PM
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Yes, I agree. And, these sort of precautions should not be only in the case of your partner walking out on you. What if they get into an accident and can't work anymore? What if their industry collapses and they have to basically start at square one? What if they just die?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:08 PM
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Before you even begin, you need to define what you think "porn" is. It can't be anything on Pornhub, because The B Movie was uploaded to Pornhub. How do you, personally, define "porn"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:47 AM
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No, it's because he was one of the first to jump on the hating Star Wars train. Related video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InkTc2iwYVA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:41 PM
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According to your formula, it would be 2.4494 nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah, it's fucking stupid. Also, I remember in the 2010s there was a phase of "woman up" being used, and that was equally as stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:20 PM
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I've heard an analogy that goes: Online dating for men is like trying to find drinkable water in a desert. Online dating for women is like trying to find drinkable water in a swamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:21 PM
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Whatever the hell you want to do is fine. If you want to pay for literally everything, fine. If you want to pay for literally nothing, also fine. Just communicate with your partner and come to an understanding. Don't let things be left unsaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:26 PM
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I don't see any reason not to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:03 PM
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Whoever suggests the date should prepare to pay for all of it. You could also, if there is a huge income disparity, discuss who pays for what. It might be a 60/40, it might be a "you pay for yourself", it might be a "I pay for x, you pay for y". The biggest thing, I think, should be open and honest communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:46 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:56 PM
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Then that would just be 2n = e.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:44 AM
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You know... all of what you said... is a bad thing, right? It may be true, but it's not positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:13 PM
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And I was using those specific things because not too recently, the roles were reversed. High heeled shoes were actually invented for men by French royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:34 PM
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Gender, and all the rules that surround it, is completely and utterly arbitrary. Is pink a colour for boys, or girls? Do men or women wear high-heels? What even are pants anyways? Besides, any form of discriminatory rules easily leads to rules-for-thee-but-not-for-me situations. A woman must never cheat! But, as a man, I have to say a bit of cheating is okay for men. A wife must never raise her hand or voice to her husband! But... if a wife is acting out of sorts, who am I to say the husband sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:16 PM
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Hmmm, that is a good question. I real tough scenario. Especially because the wife cannot and will not speak English. Maybe post-it notes with some rebuses or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:12 PM
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That must be the ever-mysterious "cycle" they always talk about!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:09 PM
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Do you not have a mouth? Can you not write messages? Have you literally lost all capability to communicate with the outside world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:07 PM
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And...? The rules should still be as universal as possible. Instead of "men" it should be "people." Instead of "women", it should be "people". Instead of "husband" or "boyfriend", it should be "partner". You see where I'm going?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:06 PM
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Even so, they should still be universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:57 PM
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No, I still don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:56 PM
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There is no number like that. Because, not sure how many people know this, but most abusive partners do not advertise their abusiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:36 PM
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I'm not necessarily "traditional", but I still want to give my two cents: The stay at home parent is almost always going to be at a disadvantage if the couple ever breaks up. That is why I want to normalize the idea that any parent can be the stay at home parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:16 PM
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It depends on the woman, if I'm honest. I crush on people super hard and super fast, so there's not much for me to say "no" to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:12 PM
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And yet they shouldn't. That is the wrong thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:06 PM
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If you want sex, and your partner does not want or cannot have sex, figure something out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:40 PM
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It doesn't matter if you are being reckless in a dangerous part of town, being robbed is still a crime and is still treated as such. What, is the judge going to say to the robber "Well, you did technically commit robbery, but because the guy was an idiot I'm only going to charge you with theft over $5000"? Is the judge going to punish the guy that got robbed with something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:05 PM
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I have heard of women who can't orgasm, but still find the whole thing fun and exciting. Conversely, I have heard of women who orgasm quickly having trouble with sex, because while women do not have a refractory period like most men, they do sometimes get easily overstimulated after orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:00 PM
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(n²=e) That's... not how exponents work. 1 nut would be equal to 1 effort. But 4 nuts would be equal to 16 efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:55 PM
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I agree. Any sort of rule, especially social rules, need to be made universal. If your rule includes "men" or "women", then it's probably not a good rule. For example: The man should pay for dinner. This is a bad rule. What if two lesbians go out for dinner? Does no one pay? Whoever suggested the date pays for the date. This is a good rule. It is completely universal, and can be applied to anyone with regards to gender, age, status, whatever. Women should never cheat. This is a bad rule. What if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:53 PM
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You know that is, quite literally, the definition of victim blaming, right? "Wow, so that's the third boyfriend in a row that beat you? When are you going to fix yourself?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:46 PM
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The way many people use "deserve" doesn't mean "is owed" but "has not done anything to preclude." For example, let's say that I am a shopper in a store. I deserve to not be treated rudely by the staff or other patrons. Not because I have done anything grand or worthy of respect, but because I have no done anything that should make me ineligible for being treated well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:44 PM
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True, but if its virtually all of them, the common denominator is you. I just want to say, I fucking hate that mentality, with a goddamn burning passion. Not only is it not technically accurate, it shifts the blame. Would you say that to someone who just got out of their third abusive relationship in a row? What about someone who quit their third abusive job in a row? "If the whole world smells like shit, check your shoes" no, if the whole world smells like shit look for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:40 PM
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I am someone who is friendly, but doesn't have friends, if that makes sense. I pretty much only go out to play Magic the Gathering, and while I am decently liked there, I wouldn't really consider anyone there a "friend." Even in my job, as a casual library tech (think substitute teacher, but for a library) at my local elementary schools, and I'm pretty friendly with my colleagues. But: a) It's primarily a solo job b) I'm constantly changing locations c) 99% of the people I interact with are lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:37 PM
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This is just evo psych bullshit. The human brain is so goddamn complex that it's basically impossible to determine if a certain gender has a "tendency" to rape built into their damn DNA. Just like you can't say that because one gender has an inherent tendency to rape, that the other gender has an inherent tendency to move on. In the terms of animals, it might be a genuine survival thing. If you are a female lion, and a male lion comes in and kills your mate and your children, you don't really ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:11 PM
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Men are forced to support women who do not love them. Women are also forced to support men who do not love them. Men are also forced to support men who do not love them. You see what I am getting at? Social security means that we all, inherently, support each other. Like a tent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:42 PM
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Why shouldn’t people move into widely depopulated land? Somehow, I think if immigrants today incidentally killed 90% of a population, they would have an even worse reputation than they already have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:34 PM
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While I disagree with your take on this experiment, I also don't think the failure of the women featured on this show is indicative of anything about women as a whole. I have seen enough Alone (basically like Bear Grylls' own show, except they don't have a large staff to wait on them hand and foot) to see that women can survive pretty much as well as men. It's all about the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 PM
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Whenever people, especially those in North America, complain about immigrants, I just look up the population of indigenous people in North America. And I know that there is a 97.1 percent chance the person complaining is a gigantic hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:19 PM
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What type of question is that? Any two people can be friends. (Also, of course you can be friends with former FwBs. You were friends before, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:17 PM
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I'm sorry, but I meant to say that Magic was the only hobby that I could stay focused on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:08 PM
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I've tried a number of different hobbies, but was never able to actually be interested in them. If I don't like doing something, I just wont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:08 PM
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I am incredibly sorry, I was not clear when I made my post. I meant that I went to hobby shops over a period of time, specifically around 15 years. Over that time, the number of unique women I came across during those events was probably around 20. Not that I met 20 women at once at one of those events. There were many individual cases where no women were involved in the events in any way. This is a cumulative total of every event I can remember. Again, I apologise for not making myself clear th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:06 AM
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All I know is that unless you have an N count of at least one*, you are a horrible and irredeemable loser who is apparently homophobic, transphobic, hateful, violent, and a potential rapist. *An exception, of course, is made for people who are choosing to not have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:59 PM
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It... hasn't. Granted, the only hobby group I can really stay focused on are Magic the Gathering groups, and the number of women I have met through that in over a decade an a half is probably under 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:32 PM
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I... don't. That's kind of fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:44 PM
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