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| 1 | Are men who gossip or make fun of others generally considered attractive to women?Yeah, but I've always felt that when a man needs to control the social environment, make fun of a specific person, and get others in his circle to go along with it, it's usually a sign of insecurity. He does it because he wants approval and validation, He also do that to create flying monkeys. By putting someone else down, he tries to position himself as higher status in the eyes of the people around him. The fact that he needs an audience to support him suggests that his sense of worth depends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Are men who gossip or make fun of others generally considered attractive to women?In my case... it's the opposite. The more attractive you are, the more you'll be excluded. Especially by this type of person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Are men who gossip or make fun of others generally considered attractive to women?Could you do some examples of what we're considering bad and good joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:10 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.I think 100% that influenced women attraction towards me. I see action, not words (from women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:56 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.This too! Please contribute to the list | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:55 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.Do you think you can contribute to the list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:55 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.Very good, you hit the nail on the head. Do you think you can contribute to the list? Can you tell us more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:53 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.Thanks for adding this. We're still trying to figure out what other confirmed and real elements are. If you have any to add, please let us know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:47 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.Ok, so what I’m trying to identify in the post is: which ones are really attractive, and we can also talk about which ones are not attractive at all. Is it possible to see this list and check if there is any content in the “safe advice”? We don’t feel close to that idea, this is why we have the post. Find the truth. Since it was easy for you to do, could you make a list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:21 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.It was truly visual in my experience, but I can't deny that the energy was also something they could notice. I can't deny that in my scenario it was so visual (they were really looking at me like no one had ever seen me before). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 09:49 AM |
| – | There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way.Thanks, but I can assure you, it's 100% IRL, not in my head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Hyperactive men are magnets to womenCould you explain how a narc woman would actually look for a man like that to do what you said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Hyperactive men are magnets to womenHow do you know if this is something you've naturally into you. Yes I think that low inibition and absence of nevroticism is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Hyperactive men are magnets to womenWhat do you mean by moving with determination. What a mature man have it's that slow and pace in his movements, just look at james bond. What you say is something from a "insecure" person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:52 AM |
| -3 | Sexual selectionI like your comment because it reflects something I've experienced firsthand. Narcissistic and sociopathic people have many "friends," yet women fail to distinguish that their success stems from their toxic personality, and they do everything they can to "change" them. Better a changed narcissist than a healthy man with less drive, if you know what I mean. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/26 09:54 AM |
| 1 | “Men love unconditionally, women love opportunistically”Explain this please | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and other ideologies are just marketing scams, but what about “mental disorders”?"Have you considered that the coach those moms were talking about is actually attractive? Or at least attractive enough that a group of slightly bored women would spend time talking about him." He's not attractive, but he's a manipulative narcissist. So very "attractive", if you mean that way. As for the asshole part, it's still unclear, unfortunately. I'd really like to understand more about this phase. It isn't hypothesis 1; I can clearly see where it depends on that. How about we talk about t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/26 02:03 PM |
| 0 | How to desconstruct the toxic idea of "She's settling for you but really wants the "hotter/alpha" guy who didn't commit to her"I'd like to say something. We were talking about this with friends, and I also got feedback online. It doesn't matter whether a woman is sane or mentally ill... in reality, if she has the opportunity to be in a relationship with a man who has a very strong emotional impact on her (not necessarily positive, but even negative), then it will be difficult for her to live without remembering these ups and downs. In fact, she will always remember this man, and will compare the next men she enters into… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and other ideologies are just marketing scams, but what about “mental disorders”?So please, feel free to write the "right" ones. Thanks | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and other ideologies are just marketing scams, but what about “mental disorders”?You explained it very well. What never convinced me about the pill is the fact that it says "all women" do certain things. If you're a smart enough person, you can understand for yourself that "not all women are like that," but that some redundant things actually happen. For example, how do you explain the fact that all women "only love what every other woman desires"? Indeed, just look at their behavior on social media. If a friend goes on a mountain trip, then she'll feel "FOMO" because she no… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 01:10 PM |
| 2 | When women actions align with certain claims about redpillYou’d just never really have to deal with those type of women. RP claims all women are this way but you can discover pretty quickly they’re not This is my goal, but it's fairly new, and I really cannot find strengt of evidence around people I know. "All women" aren't like that: how did you find out? It's just this culture and women go for the wealthy guys. This just might be the age i'm living (30/40), which is the age to make families. Maybe in the next decade people will be more focussed on ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Reddpill knowledge and it's costsEven though he talks about these topics, do you think it's the case with John Griffit (a YouTuber I've been following for a while), who still says truthful things? Do you think content creators like these identify niches of vulnerable people and make money from them? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/26 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsSorry, I didn't understand what you meant by finding healthy relationships after your divorce. Could you explain the difference between those who ate and those who didn't? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/25 01:48 PM |
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