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Fundamentals Bitter-Theme-1487/r/seduction18/05/25 11:54 PM
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Look at the sky 🌌
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:17 PM
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Kids are nice to have anyway
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:57 PM
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I came in with my ex like selena to flex.dumping justin bieber a fever
/r/seduction10/06/25 11:04 PM
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SAT method
/r/seduction10/06/25 01:16 PM
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Buying dinner to only women you had sex with is not a flex, that’s transactional thinking. If intimacy is your price tag for basic courtesy, that’s not confidence..it’s compensation (u’re better off getting an escort). “Science says giving second chances leads to deeper love…” Sure, and science also says delayed gratification leads to better life outcomes. Giving second chances isn’t the issue, giving your time to unfiltered chaos is. I’m not dodging love. I’m filtering dysfunction before it cos…
/r/seduction20/05/25 12:18 AM
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Skipping random early-dates won’t kill you either...it saves your confidence and cash for wins that count. Missing cheap thrills isn’t a loss; real love and joy come when you date on ur terms.
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:29 PM
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In order to play this game properly, you should play to win. Under 25, dating for guys is a liability, not a lesson—you’re bleeding confidence, cash, and clarity on pointless gambles. Winners invest in themselves first (bankroll, vision, identity..) then date from power, not from desperation. That doesn’t mean avoiding women ..interact freely, but commit to none (only commit to yourself) and spend the bare minimum time, money, and energy on women : Why ? because they are your most valuable asset…
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:23 PM
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Appreciate the introspection, but this isn’t fear ..it’s strategy. Not everything that avoids chaos is rooted in trauma. Sometimes it’s just pattern recognition. I’ve seen what chasing early relationships does to guys who weren’t ready. Choosing not to play a rigged game until you’re equipped isn’t fear ..it’s control
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:34 AM
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Yeah, because nothing says personal growth like heartbreak, drained bank accounts, and identity crises before 25. Experience without direction isn’t growth ..it’s just running in circles and calling it wisdom
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:29 AM
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Meeting someone in college is great if it works ..but that’s survivorship bias. For every happy couple, there are dozens who wasted years, lost focus, or came out worse. And no, being 25 with no dating history isn’t a red flag if you’ve been building ..it’s a sign of discipline. What’s actually terrible advice is telling young guys to ‘just date’ like time, energy, and peace are free
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:20 AM
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It’s not about being incapable ,it’s about being intentional. Saying ‘plenty of men can juggle both’ proves nothing. Plenty can’t. Most don’t. And no one said it has to be cops and chaos ..but even ‘normal’ relationships take time, attention, and emotional bandwidth. If you’re under 25, those are better spent building your value. That’s not handicapping ..that’s delaying gratification to level up. Simple
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:14 AM
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You’re assuming experience automatically equals growth — it doesn’t. Most guys under 25 aren’t learning from dating, they’re coping through it. You don’t need a bunch of failed situationships to know what you want ..you need clarity, standards, and a sense of self.
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:11 AM
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Let’s agree to disagree 🤝
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:05 AM
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It’s not dramatic ..it’s reality. btw 20 and 25, time is your most valuable asset. Wasting it on the wrong person is a serious loss.
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:03 AM
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The idea that every man needs to go through messy relationships to mature is lazy thinking. You don’t get better just by doing — you get better by doing the right things at the right time. And for most guys under 25, dating isn’t it. It’s not about fear ..it’s about not making dumb trades during your prime building years
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:57 AM
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It’s not fear ..it’s discipline. I’m not avoiding pain, I’m avoiding unnecessary setbacks. There’s a difference between taking risks that build you and ones that drain you. Dating too early is the second kind
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:54 AM
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Calling it ‘experience’ doesn’t make it smart. Most guys under 25 date before they’ve built anything and end up broke, distracted, or broken. That’s not growth ..that’s self-sabotage sold as maturity
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:52 AM
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Nah, what’s risky is thinking every mistake is necessary just because you made it. You don’t need to crash 5 times to learn how to drive. Same with dating ..you can observe, reflect, and build yourself without handing your future to emotional chaos. If you’re under 25, life is a trade-off — and trading your focus, time, and peace for unstable chaotic relationships is a bad deal.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:38 AM
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You call it experience — most guys just get drained, distracted, and stuck. Dating under 25 doesn’t build you if you have nothing to stand on yet. If you’re broke, lost, and unsure of who you are, love isn’t a lesson ..it’s just a liability
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:30 AM
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Sure, some people juggle both. But they’re the exception, not the rule. Most guys lose time, focus, and energy chasing unstable relationships before they’ve even built a solid base. If you’re not already stable, relationships usually slow down the grind ..mentally, financially, or emotionally.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:26 AM
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You’re not a guy ,the experience isn’t comparable. U should defo do the opposite.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:24 AM
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Solid take ..The idea of a supportive woman early on is powerful. But the reality? Most guys don’t get that. They get distractions, drama, and detours that kill momentum and blur purpose.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:21 AM
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That’s exactly the point ..you need to be sharp enough to spot low-quality women. Most guys under 25 aren’t. They get attached fast
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:17 AM
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For guys, yes ..better to hit your late 20s with purpose and leverage than waste your prime building years chasing love with no foundation. Experience means nothing if it slows you down.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:14 AM
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Totally fair to disagree. But for a lot of guys, dating under that age doesn’t build them — it distracts them. It leads to chasing validation, losing focus, and settling too early.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:07 AM
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Not insane — just unpopular. There’s a difference. Yeah, relationships can teach you things, but so can failure in business, pushing past your limits in the gym, or grinding through your goals. The idea isn’t to never date ..it’s to recognize that for most guys under 25, the cost of dating outweighs the benefit by a lot.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:02 AM
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Are u guys having sex?
/r/seduction05/12/24 12:27 AM
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IG is a tool , use it wisly ,otherwise you should delete it
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:39 AM
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you unfollow them unstead of totally delete IG. All kind of content are out there .Pick who you think he deserve to be followed and unfollow the rest. Delete it's not the best solution imo.
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:37 AM
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well this is awsome
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:18 AM
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