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GO TO THE GYM /thread
/r/seduction19/10/14 02:41 PM
-4

This "alpha responses" is the douchiest, stupidest thing I have ever seen. If I was talking to a guy and he responded to anything I said with one of those retarded lines I would punch him right in the mouth. The whole goal of a shit test is her trying to put you down, and you have to prevent that. But its clear a lot of these "lines" are just the guy (who chances are, is a socially awkward dork) trying to put HER down. Don't do that bullshit. If a girl has a legitimate concern, you have to addre…
/r/seduction19/10/14 02:39 PM
10

This is good. Simple openers are better, probably because the more you obsess over what words you are going to say, the more you freak yourself out and get AA. At the end of the day, she isn't going to remember what you said to start talking to her. As long as its not insanely stupid or inappropriate, it's fine. You just need to start a conversation. "Hi, I'm X" works well too. A good thing about this line is that you are taking control of the situation. You're basically saying "look, I meet peo…
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:23 PM
-1

I'm not arguing with you over this. I'm circumcising my son and you can go ficj yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:21 AM
-1

First of all, I'm a Jew and I am circumcised and I will circumcise my kind. And I don't think circumcision is "oppression." So I don't care about that. Second, worrying about male oppression is bitch behavior. It's the same victimization cult that feminism and other forms of left wing thought try to encourage. Are men given some advantages in society? Yes, but so what? You ignore it and you keep trucking and you live a happy, awesome life, while bitter shitheads on the internet complain.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:03 PM
0

I don't give a fuck about circumcision,
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 09:27 PM
23

Another way feminism has fucked women: "sexual liberation" benefits men more than women, at least in the short term, because men's libidos are naturally more short-term. Men just want a fat ass and a nice face, whereas women look for more long-term characteristics (emotional stability, earning potential, etc...). Women are also hypergamous which is inherently unstable for them because it is hard to keep around somebody that is by definition too good for you. That is why the "marriage" system, th…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:29 PM
0

If society is bending over backwards to give one gender advantages in life and not the other the first has life in general easier regardless of what they can make of their life with those advantages in comparison to those without them. Not necessarily. Let's say a high school football team played an NFL team. Let's start by giving the high school team a 30 point head start. The NFL team would still win unless they spent all day whining about the 30 points the high school team got.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:20 PM
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Being a man isn't easy, it's harder than being a woman. No, it's really not. Being a man is awesome. Being a woman sucks. Even though society bends over backwards to give you advantages, you still pretty much suck at most things. The whiny "oh its so hard to be a man" part is the thing about TRP I hate the most. If you want to whine about being a man, go to r/mensrights. When you're ready to BE a man, come back.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:40 AM
3

it is interesting that there is nothing stopping women from becoming promoters at these clubs. In fact it'll probably be a lot easier for them to do it because they are already hot. the question is why don't they?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 03:45 AM
3

I am the exception. Because my game is so awesome, I don't need to bother meeting girls at work or through my friend. Also, although am in a situation where I can meet a lot of hot girls through my social circle, it's still way less than if I just went out by myself. If I go out to a club by myself I usually approach 3-6 girls and end up getting 2-3 numbers, if I don't fuck that night. At my work I interact with 2, maybe 3 hot girls in the course of a week. Same with my photographer roommate. Of…
/r/seduction18/09/14 05:18 AM
4

Pick up artists do not have as much access to women as compared to men who integrate themselves into the upper echelons of social systems such as Greek life at U.S. colleges, and jobs involving lots of beautiful women, like fashion journalists. You're dead fucking wrong. I actually fit ALL of the criteria that you are talking about. I'm a lawyer for a major fashion brand. I don't want to say which one to give it away, but let's just say my job puts me into contact with TONS of hot girls and they…
/r/seduction18/09/14 04:15 AM
2

Having said all that, most drinking is seen as a social habit, so if you decide to opt out of it, you're going to be seen as anti-social. Disaster. You seem like one of those pussies that needs other people's validation to look cool. Fuck that. Do whatever the fuck you want. People may try to make fun of you for a second, but when they see you genuinely don't give a fuck, they will be impressed. When I go out I go out alone, I wear a fanny pack, and I wear t-shirts to clubs where everybody is we…
/r/seduction26/08/14 05:46 PM
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No we dont, most of the girls dont know what they want Ugh, anybody that says this should get instabanned. Look, girls aren't fucking idiots. They generally know what they like. The problem is that when they tell you what they like, they don't give you the full list because a lot of it is subconscious. For example, girls like nice guys who are confident and dominant. But a lot of times they don't express the fact that they like dominant guys, so they just say "I like nice guys" and then the guy …
/r/seduction26/08/14 05:43 PM
1

throw it away. On a related note, why are you having conversations with women with boyfriends? Ask them early in the convo and then pass if they do. Not hard.
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:08 AM
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There is 2 ways race can play a part. On one hand, some girls are racist and absolutely will not fuck with certain guys. So there is no hope for them. Don't even try. On the plus side, you can figure out who these girls are pretty quickly. There is another level of racism, which is stereotyping. The way out of this conundrum is to act the opposite of your racial stereotype. For example, if you're Chinese and you dress like a nerd you look like a typical Chinese dork but if you're black and you d…
/r/seduction18/08/14 02:19 AM
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no that doesn't work, girls never call you unless they are super desperate . you need to call her.
/r/seduction15/08/14 03:58 AM
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don't let your life revolve around girls' opinions of you
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:43 AM
1

This is too much thinking and effort. Girls will get creeped out.
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:42 AM
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Get out of here with that tired old "nice guy" routine. LOL that's the go-to insult on r/seduction. Fuck off.
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:42 AM
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Ewww don't do this shit. She said she has a boyfriend. IT's not a shit test. It's a rejection. You got played. You should have asked her earlier if she had a BF. Yes, maybe this works. But even it does, you're a loser creep chasing shitty girls.
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:41 AM
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Talking to someone like a person can include playing games and flirting. Do you "play games" with your guy friends? If not, why would you do that with girls?
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:06 AM
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Or she thinks "games" are stupid.
/r/seduction11/08/14 12:34 PM
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Talking to them like a person.
/r/seduction11/08/14 12:34 PM
5

talking about sex on the first date (depending how you're discussing it) is most often a turn off and often it's about subtlety. Talk about sex but: 1) Don't be a creep 2) Don't be overly aggressive 3) Don't say anything weird.
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:08 AM
1

Who cares? Ask her out. She'll either say yes or no. Either way it won't affect you. Always just fucking ask her out.
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:05 AM
4

Well most guys who try "negging" don't understand that distinction.
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:19 AM
5

Peacocking is still a good idea you just have to not be an idiot about it. Wearing weird, out of the normal shit is totally fine and helpful.
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:19 AM
5

MODELS by Manson everything else is not worth your time.
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:03 PM
1

First, stop hanging out with douches. If people think they have "power" over you stay away from them. Second, just say no.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:09 AM
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No harm in going back. But go back sooner rather than later. If you wait a while to go back she will think she is an afterthought to you.
/r/seduction06/07/14 06:34 AM
2

no don't do this.
/r/seduction06/07/14 06:34 AM
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That's not an opening line, that's something you say after the conversation has been going on for a while. You can't just walk up to a girl and say "what do you wanna do?"
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:19 AM
1

These books are written for antisocial dorks, so if shit works for you, just go with it. You're probably doing all that stuff anyway, you're just weaving it into a total package. For example, if you want to fuck a girl you have to tell her she's hot, but most dorks tell the girl they are the hottest thing they've ever seen within 5 minutes of meeting her.
/r/seduction03/07/14 01:23 AM
1

First of all, women manipulate men EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME. LOL sorry you got fucked over but you need to be less misogynistic.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:51 AM
0

This shit is outdated. The new hot shit is actually being a cool, interesting person.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:50 AM
2

Wine bar. Get her drunk and fuck her. Comedy show. Listen to dick jokes and fuck her. Art show. Be a pretentious asshole and fuck her.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:50 AM
0

First of all, if you consider yourself an "aspiring seducer" you're a douche and you're probably too outcome dependent. Second, the only thing you NEED to do is go approach. Fuck this internet nerd bullshit.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:49 AM
3

She looks back and it's the same girl I saw at the gym. We smile and chat briefly, I ask for her number and get on with my day. This is where you fucked up. You don't ask for a number after you chat briefly. You're asking for a flake. A girl isn't going to call you back unless you form an emotional connection with her. IT's not even worth asking for her number if you don't. I asked her what she likes to do for fun via text message and she said dancing, so I invited her to a salsa club. She agree…
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:48 AM
3

No 10 videos is too much. You should be out approaching. If anybody really feels like they need to watch 10 videos before they talk to a girl they have already lost the game.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:43 AM
2

Are you fucking her? If not, quit this sexting bullshit. If she is not willing to take your dick in her actual body, then she's bullshitting you.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:42 AM
1

Don't
/r/seduction01/07/14 05:00 AM
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I disagree. Game recognises game. Well I think "game" is a retarded concept in general. The key to getting girls is to be cool, relaxed, having fun, and not being needy. That's really it. If you're "gaming" you've already lost the battle and you're being outcome dependent. The fact that you even care what that fuckface thinks makes it clear you are too invested in this and overthinking it.
/r/seduction30/06/14 12:05 AM
1

You're looking thirsty and that creeps people out. There is a certain body language that works. Too withdrawn and aloof doesn't work cuz you don't look interested. Too thirsty doesn't work either. There is a happy medium you need to find.
/r/seduction29/06/14 09:32 PM
1

What the fuck is a boyfriend destroyer? Please tell me that's not a real thing. Plus if anybody can tell you're "gaming" then you're not doing it right.
/r/seduction29/06/14 09:31 PM
2

Just go meet people in real life.
/r/seduction29/06/14 09:29 PM
2

Go to the best clubs in your city and make friends with the staff, doormen, and regulars. Bam! Not only do you know have friends, you have the most high-status friends in the club.
/r/seduction29/06/14 02:12 AM
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Fuck all the other reasons you've read in this thread. This is the main reason: they are at the bar and they are not trying to fuck the girl. Period. They are nice, friendly, etc..., but they are being professional and not being needy at all. They have a place of power in that environment and if they use it right, they can look like the alpha of the place.
/r/seduction28/06/14 09:03 PM
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Let me add something to this: people are attracted to people that do weird shit (as long as its not creepy) because it shows that you don't any fucks. And if you don't give any fucks it shows you aren't dependent on other people for validation, and girls looooove that (especially because most girls are the opposite). You want to get all the pussy in the world? Ride your bike to the club wearing a pair of short shorts and a sweater your grandma knit you. Boom!
/r/seduction28/06/14 06:49 PM
0

Why reinvent the wheel when you can learn from the masters that came before you? Because there were no "masters." Most PUA shit is just wrong. It either only works for certain people, or works on certain girls, or requires an emotional state and mindset most guys don't have. It's easy to say "be confident" but that means nothing to a guy who isn't confident, so he is going to keep reading "be confident" until his eyes turn red but he still has no idea what to do. Also, the idea that you need to …
/r/seduction28/06/14 03:16 PM
0

This is a terrible analogy. No one just picks up a guitar and starts magically playing. Actually a lot of people do. There are some people that learn to play guitar with no lessons or books or anything; they purely teach themselves. They never learn sheet music, they never learn the "conventional" ways of doing things, etc... They just DO IT. Same with soccer ... most famous soccer players have never read a single book about soccer in their life. They just play. Similarly, there are some people …
/r/seduction28/06/14 03:14 PM
0

Research is the first step to acquiring a new skill No its not. What skill do you learn by "researching"? If you want to play guitar, you pick up a guitar, you don't spend 3 months reading books about guitars. If you want to play soccer, you go outside and kick a ball, not read a bunch of books about it. Sure a book about guitar or soccer, wouldn't hurt, but that's a distant second to actually doing it. The best way is to read a tiny bit, go try and use it, fail, come back, try again, read a tin…
/r/seduction27/06/14 10:07 PM
1

Also, most of the shit you read is either wrong or doesn't apply to you. Seduction is a new field, and there is a lot of wrong shit out there that needs to be cleared out as people learn more. The only way to really learn is to learn yourself.
/r/seduction27/06/14 10:06 PM
2

Women are biologically attracted to the most desirable male in the pack, the "alpha." Also a persons ego is a hell.of a drug and seeing you with another girl makes their ego go crazy.
/r/seduction18/06/14 10:59 PM
1

Leave.
/r/seduction08/06/14 03:59 PM
1

He's not even saying that. He's saying don't be needy. When you ask the girl, who you don't even know that well, a bunch of shit about her personal life, you are asking something of her. That will freak her out. Better to open up yourself first, and then if she's down have her open up.
/r/seduction08/06/14 03:55 PM
4

It shouldn't matter. You shouldn't give a fuck what people think.
/r/seduction07/06/14 03:37 PM
1

Let's hang out. That's fucking it.
/r/seduction07/06/14 03:16 PM
1

Just ask her "how was your day?"
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:08 PM
46

Waiting are you trying to tell me that guys who spent a big percentage of their life trying to trick girls into fucking them might be bad people? I don't believe it.
/r/seduction04/06/14 12:14 PM
1

How about this: all girls are different?
/r/seduction04/06/14 02:33 AM
2

There is no way of them to know unitl they agree to fuck you. After that, it does play a role in deciding whether you get another shot.
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:22 AM
-1

What I've found is best for my game is simply "live and love your life" because it will genuinely make you a more attractive person. That's exactly right. Most of the advice here is for depressed, unconfident people trying to pretend to be confident. That doesn't work, because there is just too much shit to learn. Learning how to smile, walk, talk, etc.. like a confident person is impossible because most of it is subconscious. It's like trying to learn to play soccer from a book. Also, if you re…
/r/seduction31/05/14 03:10 PM
1

These videos are useless because there is no way of knowing whether its staged or how many rejections he had to take until he got some yeses.
/r/seduction31/05/14 07:48 AM
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Here we go again. If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, she is rejecting you. She is telling you to fuck off. Now, it is possible for you to still bang her, but.... why don't you find somebody that is single?
/r/seduction30/05/14 08:04 PM
-4

Did you read the words "some people"? Can you read?
/r/seduction25/05/14 02:50 AM
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Call me an asshole, but I don't believe in "personality types." You can change who you are, and people act differently around different people. Excusing your lack of social skills by calling yourself an "introvert" is a bullshit cop-out. Here are why some people are "introverts": 1- They have social anxiety - they have been bullied their whole lives and are scared of talking to people, especially people they see as "above" them or people they don't know. If this is you, cut it the fuck out. 2- T…
/r/seduction25/05/14 02:32 AM
1

Your advice is to ignore your weaknesses? Aside from PUA, that's just terrible advice for life in general.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:18 PM
11

Too cringy to read, but I can tell from your first text you were acting too needy and aggressive. Look, when you're dating a girl she has to be qualifying HERSELF to YOU. You can't make it clear you're all in. She loses interest. She has to keep thinking that you may not want her, or that you may end it, etc...
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:30 PM
-1

Let me explain what's happening. Women constantly complain that reddit is "hostile" to them and they need a "safe space" where they can not be bombarded with rape threats and stuff. Ok, understandable. The only problem is that "women's spaces" quickly take on an extreme feminist, left-wing character and become "hostile" to men's issues or any idea or perspective that doesn't always take the woman's side. Furthermore, there are no feminist subreddits worth a shit. Because much of feminist theory …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 11:50 AM
1

Try to fuck the HB8.
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:11 PM
0

Ok, let me re-do my post. Apologize sincerely once and that's it. If she's still mad, she's being manipulative. More importantly, don't cheat.
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:51 PM
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Apologize once and that's it. If she's still mad, she's being manipulative.
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:00 PM
2

You might as well go but not give a fuck. See what happens. You have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction06/05/14 07:24 PM
7

Yeah, but so what? Sometimes a girl flakes because she doesn't like your face. But as far as shit you can control, this is the best thing to do to prevent flaking.
/r/seduction06/05/14 05:47 AM
1

Escalation is a complicated dance. It's not as a simple as "keep kinoing bro!!!" You have to gauge their interest at all times and push and pull back as necessary, with you one always being step behind them. I usually start out cold and build interest as they "earn" it.
/r/seduction05/05/14 09:58 PM
-2

Yeah if you have a good conversation, a lot of girls will ask you to take their numbers. In fact, I rarely ask for girl's numbers; usually they just give them to me.
/r/seduction05/05/14 08:03 PM
0

Sometimes girls are just busy and when I ask them out they just happen to be doing something already. If they want to hang out with you they would propose an alternative time. You're not their secretary; you shouldn't be worrying about when they are free and stuff.
/r/seduction05/05/14 07:43 PM
3

You didn't really do anything wrong (except for apologizing). She sounds like an emotionally unstable weirdo. There is nothing worse than girls that expect you to read their minds. Don't worry about it, just giev her a few days and then invite her back out on a date. This time invite her to your place.
/r/seduction05/05/14 05:01 PM
2

Become funny.
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:07 PM
1

You can't change your life overnight.
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:11 AM
3

My approach was smiling, dancing on up to them, and asking them if they wanted to dance. This is my approach. I walk up to a girl and say "Hi, I'm X, what's your name." I don't do it on the dance floor. I have a long conversation with her. If she won't sustain a long conversation I won't even bother asking her to dance. Dancing with me is a special privilege and you only get to do it after you've proved yourself. The "never ask permission" guy is wrong. That's a good way to "dance" with girls, b…
/r/seduction04/05/14 11:43 PM
1

yeah you should always have a plan B and C
/r/seduction04/05/14 12:35 AM
2

I think you actually put her on the pedestal quite a bit by talking about your friends. I disagree. He had originally wanted to hang out with her, so it's not "putting her on a pedestal" to admit that he's going to his plan B. All that said, the girl isn't really into him.
/r/seduction04/05/14 12:35 AM
1

Mystery didn't really do anything wrong; the girl was being a douche by sharing a "private" text message/video. Yes, it's silly and corny, but he's always been silly and corny. That said, he still sucks.
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:12 PM
0

It's amazing how many people here don't realize this is a joke.
/r/seduction21/04/14 09:10 PM
3

r/relationships. you see a lot of mistakes that guys make and a lot of the shitty things (girls and guys) do in relationships. The most important thing I've learned from r/relationships is that as a man you need to learn how to set boundaries for yourself. r/twoxchromosomes is also interesting too, to see shit from a female perspective and see whats' on their mind. Beware though, girls hide alot of stuff (even from each other) so you're not getting a full view.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:40 PM
1

Yeah, all Molly does is hype up your sex drive and reduce your anxiety. You have to reduce your anxiety on your own; you can't rely on a drug to it for you.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:39 PM
3

Because if you really are being loved by everyone, then you aren't being loved by the one person that matters the most: yourself A lot of people, especially shitty people, won't "love" you unless you bend over backwards and supplicate to them, and/or demeaning things for yourself. You have to forego their love and approval and instead draw your own boundaries. That way, you feel better about yourself, and they will start to respect you too.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:38 PM
2

Eh, it was ok. I would have preferred to have said "Ok, it sounds like you're busy tonight, let's reschedule." But overall your thought was right, which is that you're not going to participate in that bullshit. The second part of your sentence was a little needy though. Good thought, however.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:36 PM
0

So then is it a bunch of TRP-esque biotruths By TRP-esque biotruths you mean "science" right?
/r/seduction24/03/14 06:01 AM
1

I should be the guy that fucks her and dumps her. You got it all wrong. Your goal should be to form an emotional connection with girls. You just have to realize that girls will test you to see how confident/dominant you are. But that doesn't mean you need to be an asshole to girls or "game" them. Girls hate assholes and they hate anybody they think is trying to manipulate them.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:59 PM
1

Motion creates emotion, it's always better to be in motion because it makes you look like you have purpose and ambition. But really, none of this shit matters. All you need to know is this video.. Watch the beginning: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGoivhJ2pn4
/r/seduction01/01/14 12:13 AM
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First of all, you're going to have to ask every single girl in the world, because people have different opinions. Secondly you can't overanalyze every single word you say or you will go crazy. Thirdly what you say isn't as important as the meaning you are trying to convey - which is "I'm going to stick it in eventually"
/r/seduction19/12/13 07:07 PM
1

I don't agree. It could mean anything.
/r/seduction17/12/13 12:50 AM
0

Girls want a genuinely nice guy. By that, a guy who truly in his heart is nice, i.e., he helps old ladies cross the street, he is polite to waiters, etc... However, when most guys are "nice" it is clearly because they just want some pussy. Girls can see that, they're not idiots. A guy who buys you a drink and holds the door open for you is not really being nice. Furthermore, women are attracted to the alpha male, so they will constantly "shit test" you to see how "alpha" you are. The regular nic…
/r/seduction19/11/13 08:53 PM
2

You were more confident, but you didn't even know it. A lot of confidence is subconscious, which is why it is hard to teach
/r/seduction06/11/13 02:15 AM
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