BittyBallOfCurly16 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examples Couldn't this perpetuate the "I can get out of this" mindset that leads to higher divorces among cohabitating couples not engaged? One reason I wouldn't want to live together with a bf is because studies show that mindset carries on into the marriage. If you get engaged and set a date but are still thinking "time to see the real him before it's too late", isn't this the same concerning mindset? Also how could you put down a deposit on a venue when you're thinking of catching him acting low value…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 06:15 PM
9	That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their words When you make a pre-nup the truth will come out. Just another good reason to do one	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 09:45 PM
6	Update: reining in the sub Glad to know I was valid in my disdain of the fatalism and outrage posting. Especially the fatalism! This sub is for dating strategies and if we're just being told to opt out, what else is there to learn or discuss? I feel like "quit dating all men suck" has been a big message going around now, which is really disheartening. As was stated in another post, that's for WGTOW. I actually want to find a good man and want to hear more strategies and success posts. Even on the podcast, I feel like we n…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 01:22 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) I do agree that prioritizing is important to find someone who is really right for you. Wanting someone no shorter than 6'3" probably isn't that important. But FDS has a no standard shaming rule, so they don't offer tips to help you narrow down what's important so you can find someone. Instead there are tips to avoid low value men and raise your standards, and being happy single until you find someone who meets those standards, or being happy single forever if you don't. I can vibe with that mess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 02:17 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) Sometimes I do feel like some of the standards I see there may be filtering out just about all men as you're saying, but those ladies don't care if that's the case and would rather be single, so more power to them 🤷‍♀️ What exactly makes you say they are filtering out the men they want and getting the ones they don't? I was actually thinking about FDS earlier today and how people have said women there sound bitter. I follow the mindset that you attract what you put out into the world, so if you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 09:40 PM
1	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) On the podcast, one of the mods actually pointed out how some article used that babysitter line to show how FDS is ridiculous, and her response is, well that one person wants that from a man so he can help her go on a date if she has a child. If he really wants to see her but she needs a babysitter he'd pay for her to have a babysitter for the night. I personally wouldn't need that, but that one lady wanted that. The point is everyone has their own standards, along with some general stuff that m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:57 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) The strategy isn't about finding a man who will jump through arbitrary hoops. It's seeing if he'll meet her standards, and actually they don't usually include the guy paying for a babysitter. To these ladies, a HVM is someone who meets these standards, so by definition it wouldn't be filtering these men out	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:31 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) Do you really think they're saying have him pay for your babysitter and then it's all clear to throw yourself at him? These are not isolated tasks to have a guy check off. And the expectations are high. Higher than what some guy just trying to get to "the finish line" to "pump and dump" would likely do	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 03:19 AM
2	This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us. Woah that is one enlightened women. You can't insult someone like her; she's above it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 01:38 AM
6	We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it? This is why I want a future husband who is actually excited about having kids, not just "open" to it or doing it for me. My dad has always been very involved in me and my brothers' health. He was the main one taking us to the doctors when we were younger even, because my mom was the one working full time (she ofc knew what was going on though and always was updated after appointments!). I can't believe stuff like this post is so common, but then again I guess I can believe it 😞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/20 06:22 PM