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3

I know, he declares himself spokesperson for the generalized experience of other people based on his own implicit bias and weakness. It’s sad
/r/MensRights04/08/25 04:29 PM
3

Feminist
/r/MensRights04/08/25 01:18 PM
17

Well said.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:45 PM
4

Fighting the “enforcement” of traditional gender expectations has everything to do with feelings and nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s silly to assume that men’s rights would not be important to people that opt to align with traditional gender roles, and those people are not our enemy. They are the enemy of feminists that seek to undermine and dismantle the nuclear family, which is a foundation of the men’s rights movement, where rights are concerned especially. Again, fuck off with the shor…
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:43 PM
6

Fuck off. This subreddit should be focused on building bridges not burning them. Reddit leans left. Quit bitching and engage opposing perspectives with authenticity and insight and honesty and you are doing your part to push back. Making men’s rights political is an L and so is attaching the ideology to unrelated social gripes about factions that lead you to harbor unhealthy levels of neuroticism. Best of luck with your silly attempt to draw lines in the sand, but you sound like a male feminist.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 07:17 PM
2

Does married sperm donation the old fashioned way count?
/r/MensRights25/07/25 11:16 PM
1

How do you think that this sentiment would be received in feminist circles? I appreciate the nuance of your response and will add that it unfortunately is not expected in discourse with a self proclaimed feminist.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 08:23 PM
0

I respect your choices, and I can see how it might be easier. I don’t think it’s likely to be possible if you can’t kinda figure out their patterns and pick one that you have some influence over enough to prune off the cultural rot that hopefully doesn’t infect too much of their root.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 05:18 PM
1

If you subscribe to the concept of the oppressive patriarchy and blame toxic masculinity for society’s woes, we are not aligned.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 09:15 PM
1

I am glad you did because this type of positive interaction is what I am here for honestly.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 02:13 PM
8

None of this is the least bit surprising. I can’t imagine what possessed you to think it would be anything less than mildly infuriating to read, based on the title. Women are inherently contradictory. Some damaged hagglers are going to have their whiny venting sessions in an attempt to corrupt and damage otherwise positively impressionable young women (constant pressure on the veterans by the endless stream of rookies) and resonate with the aging harpies that couldn’t be brought to tow. It’s kin…
/r/MensRights22/07/25 08:51 AM
5

But that feminist that came through recently said we have the same stated goals as feminism and that we too suffer at the hands of the ever pervasive patriarchy (synonymous with men/us, or more specifically any man that is or has potential to become a father) so we should tear the patriarchy (ourselves basically) down to help women blame men for all existing problems. Then everything will work out great and fix itself. Magically.
/r/MensRights21/07/25 08:50 PM
1

So the fuck the what? Many people act as though a challenging question or sharp criticism qualifies as harassment.
/r/MensRights21/07/25 12:15 PM
-7

Why do you care what people believe about men being unhappy if they’re single? This is such a weird flex. Good for you brother. I hope you have a good day.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 03:57 PM
15

Yeah but you blanket blame ‘the patriarchy’ without defining the term or parameters, and I don’t think the patriarchy is bad, or good, but it is basically all men/fathers/prospective fathers and we don’t feel comfortable being blamed for your problems or ours..
/r/MensRights19/07/25 12:51 AM
13

It’s in the big blind spot. Right there. The patriarchy is the cause of your problems as a feminist so it should be dismantled. The patriarchy is men. We should dismantle ourselves and then our problems caused by us will be alleviated somehow. Because feminists want cherry picked equality, in an ever elusive utopia, men should dismantle the patriarchy. Have you done any research on the negative impact that correlates with outcomes for children raised in single mother households? What do you want…
/r/MensRights19/07/25 12:40 AM
19

Yeah right. It’s the patriarchy’s fault that feminists think all men are shit. So therefore it’s our fault and we should become feminists. Checkmate. 🫡
/r/MensRights18/07/25 09:14 PM
2

How would it be a courtesy for a man to be dismissed as beyond understanding, or a woman for that matter? I guess I am just confused about the idea of it being courteous to dismiss someone’s potential for being understood, based off gender or whatever other preconceived notions..
/r/MensRights08/07/25 12:14 PM
1

Ok
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:34 AM
-4

This is not really related to men’s rights. Nice story.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:31 AM
1

What assumption though?
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:48 PM
-2

Enjoy the self inflicted prison of your irrational fear and I hope you find comfort in your neurotic thoughts if they refuse to be dismissed.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:40 PM
-1

Because life is unfair and girls are mean and scary apparently..
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:38 PM
-2

I have my opinion. I expressed it. Your post is an example of a misunderstanding of the purpose of this subreddit in my opinion. I don’t really care what you intended. You are whining about inequality or unfairness in individual sexual selection and then jumping to the quasi-sociological implications and the whole thing (again, in my opinion) is an exercise in neurotic validation by the weak minded participants and is perpetuated by a hesitancy to call it out for fear of downvoting or discord. Y…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:27 PM
-4

Name one.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:15 PM
-10

This is not related to rights. This sub is being brigaded by misinterpretations of the purpose, in what seems like an effort to sow discord while simultaneously providing evidence of an echo chamber devoid of critical thinking and negative feedback. Men in general are not responsible for trends in what individual women blurt utter or report when pressed by people that appoint themselves as other people’s spokesperson.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:34 PM
-23

Your comment is a strange defense of irrational fear and outright weakness. Your validation of this neurotic fantasy is more damaging than the appropriate dismissal. This is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:46 PM
-27

They are downvoting you because you denied their petty validation. This is pretty sad.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:44 PM
1

Well said.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 12:10 PM
1

Risk is risky, cool
/r/MensRights01/07/25 12:03 PM
1

Too honest and disagreeable to engage in an echo chamber of validation and majority rule. That unity you are fantasizing about is how we got the most recent wave of delusional feminism among the fairer sex.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 10:15 PM
1

What I was saying was exactly why it’s not an echo chamber. I was saying don’t stoop to the level of people that you are trying to criticize, it’s hypocritical. That type of negative feedback is not existent in an echo chamber like the one I was telling him to avoid, dismissively. Feminist echo chambers often lack this capacity for self correction based on my perspective. Rubber glue doesn’t apply here lady.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 08:26 PM
1

That makes no sense, my comment was a suggestion to OP
/r/MensRights30/06/25 12:41 PM
3

Your identity is socially negotiated, not autonomously determined. Spare us your quasi religious proselytizing. It sounds enthusiastically delusional. Get yourself a motherfuckin’ hobby.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 12:46 PM
2

The term incel means someone that wants to get laid but is unsuccessful.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 12:29 PM
1

The UK is apparently lost. I am sorry to hear you have been reduced to this level. Yes let’s induce legal repercussions to ward off the possibility of unwanted verbal transgressions. Why stop there, let’s find out if they were daring to think such a thing let alone articulate an utterance. Pathetic.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 12:28 PM
0

Once a month
/r/MensRights25/06/25 09:09 PM
1

Are you asking a legal question or a moral one? Or a philosophical one? ‘Should’ is doing some heavy lifting and the framing is ambivalent to a degree that comes across as a disingenuous attempt to bait me into whatever category my response can be pigeonholed. I will take nibble. If an individual is concerned about abortion, they can prevent their prospective direct involvement by abstaining from consensual sexual intercourse. The use of contraception (protection from unwanted consequences witho…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 09:05 PM
1

Could you please formulate the assertion into a question? I don’t want to guess what you mean.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:32 PM
-2

Are you?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 03:09 PM
17

That’s just the harpies aging out ungracefully. They make a lot of noise.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 12:50 PM
-6

Work against? What do you mean?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 12:43 PM
-11

If you are having consensual sex with a woman, you have consented to the consequences.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 12:15 PM
1

This is not about the perceived injustices stemming from the double standard that runs just below the surface of the false equality that was force fed to the idealistic and impressionable especially through social media and entertainment over the last ten to fifteen years. It’s supposed to be more than just inverse third and fourth wave feminism here brothers.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:03 PM
4

There is no spoon.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 09:13 PM
14

Don’t stalk female echo chambers bro. We know.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 01:41 PM
1

Anti-feminism is basically female empowerment through maternity and service to their masculine counterparts. It’s not that to feminists or the people who have been conditioned to side with them as a modern signal of virtue and superior morality.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 09:49 PM
1

Why ask an individual to act as spokesperson for a giant demographic? Maybe it’s just framed inarticulately..
/r/MensRights18/06/25 10:04 PM
2

Or Ukrainians.
/r/MensRights16/06/25 01:31 PM
28

Munchausen by proxy
/r/MensRights01/06/25 08:43 PM
1

Endurance is a virtue.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 04:00 PM
7

It’s sad that so many here already follow this template.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 12:06 PM
2

Self perpetuating neurotic projection. Lost cause by your own stubborn identification with your current state until you make adjustments to your outlook. If you’re set in your ways, maybe other self identified pathetic people can see the error in your thinking and right their own course.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 11:52 AM
5

Dude, go for a jog or lift some heavy things or work up a sweat doing something useful. You don’t need to validate the universality of your negative experience to improve yourself incrementally, little by little, starting now. Don’t seek commiseration, when you can otherwise be focusing your attention on bettering your situation, taking on responsibility and positioning yourself up to be accountable to the goals you set. Don’t compare yourself to others especially if the conclusion is some nihil…
/r/MensRights16/05/25 03:20 AM
1

Maybe the dissonance you are encountering stems from the inability to project a sociological truth onto an individual’s psychological profile meaningfully in this context unless you come to the question with presuppositions and presumptions
/r/MensRights09/05/25 11:29 PM
1

50% of men have either never had sex or have not had sex in the last year. That statistic is not the same for women. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Promiscuity implies more than one partner, so half of all men are overlooked in your assessment, perhaps. Women are therefore statistically more promiscuous unless compared to a small subset of sexually successful men.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 11:26 PM
1

What are you asking?
/r/MensRights07/05/25 10:18 PM
-4

Not what it means.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 02:16 PM
1

It wouldn’t work.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 02:57 PM
-6

Dumb comparison shut down with a bad comparison.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 12:02 PM
9

Or are they just parroting what they perceive to be the commonly held quasi-progressive belief in an effort to avoid stirring a pot?
/r/MensRights21/04/25 02:39 PM
57

Then speak up and stir the pot with people who are not going to agree with you right away.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 02:15 PM
2

There’s more wrong with the planet than just this.. and people being upset doesn’t prove any point. Feelings don’t carry the weight of actions. Have a kid and don’t circumcise him.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 01:08 PM
6

Which is it? You got the narrative tangled. Don’t the dems want dei? Is that how you want to protect the country? More woke feminist fantasy about girl power and equal representation in combat? That’s a recipe for a demoralized fighting force. The republicans are on the more common sense side of things in terms of the nature of men and women with regards to warfare. What are you trying to say?
/r/MensRights31/03/25 01:44 PM
1

Yeah we should model our behavior and reactions after our heroes… Feminists?
/r/MensRights20/03/25 12:46 PM
2

Bro I get labeled a misandrist for expressing pushback and playing devil’s advocate on this sub all the time. At least the discourse is tolerated here, but the goal shouldn’t be to do it back.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 10:49 PM
1

I didn’t say that at all.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 06:50 PM
1

The whole thing sounds stupid. Stupid things happen. That’s the only contention. If that’s grounds for negative emotion you are acting like a feminist.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 06:50 PM
1

No it’s just a possibility.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 06:48 PM
-10

She was probably on molly. You brought your own assumptions to this neutral statement and then acted like a feminist with a wiener.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:14 PM
8

That’s a huge overstatement in the title.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 10:51 PM
5

Hahaha, harpies.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 12:55 PM
2

No
/r/MensRights07/03/25 01:20 PM
1

Don’t tell people what they support. Speak for yourself and avoid directing your generalizations at feedback.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 01:31 PM
1

Human sexual selection is extremely discriminatory. Get over it. Your comparison to big labia falls flat. If I don’t like big labia, I don’t have to engage in a sexual relationship with a woman that fits that description. If women use foreskin as a reason or excuse to back out of a relationship, it’s their agency and right or prerogative. That said it’s more likely an excuse. I don’t think it would be a deal breaker for a woman that was genuinely interested. If a woman has seen enough of them up…
/r/MensRights27/02/25 01:27 PM
1

Just look at the upgrade to rfk over the poor excuse for a man who was the former secretary of health and human services. You need a special department for men to be setup..? There are so many Karens here..
/r/MensRights24/02/25 01:01 PM
-1

So go earn some money. Who cares who ‘they’ care about..?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:58 PM
11

Like time to step up and get some shit done.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:58 PM
8

Groveling won’t help the useless bureaucrats keep their redundant downsized positions.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:57 PM
-1

Hyperbole augmented with italics so you can read the sentence really fast..?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:55 PM
-3

Blah blah blah. Everything is built around risk.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:53 PM
-8

Harmful? Why fixate on harm..?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:52 PM
-71

Boo hoo
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:51 PM
-45

What do you want understanding to look like..? A woman?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:51 PM
-10

Stay neurotic friends, stay neurotic. Bonus points if you have a really good hiding spot.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:50 PM
1

Who’s going to stop them and why?
/r/MensRights17/02/25 04:31 PM
3

No problem. I was just not really able to answer that.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 05:17 PM
2

My marriage facilitates my children’s needs. My relationship with my wife serves as an example to my children, and I am certain that none of the alternatives would be preferable from my children’s perspective to their parents working through difficulty with their best interest in mind and continuing to follow through on our commitment to them and each other.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 05:07 PM
2

You are asking a disingenuous question that makes the “benefits from my marriage “ an adversarial pissing contest between my wife and our children. The benefits are different for each of us, and the benefits are more meaningfully compared to whatever alternative you want to hypothesize.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 05:02 PM
2

If I don’t need to use the legal system, then the degree to which I would be unfairly treated is relatively moot. Of course marriage benefits my children’s mother, my wife, but it’s mutually beneficial, and more importantly marriage is less about me and my wife and more about my children and their future. 20 plus years with the same woman requires sacrifice dedication and work, but it’s out of love for my children that I am willing to make things work when it’s frustrating and continue the strug…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 01:31 PM
0

Marriage provides the best outcomes for children.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 01:11 PM
-1

It’s mostly for the benefit of my children.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 04:31 AM
1

Juice it, pulp it.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 09:47 PM
6

They still are.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 12:54 PM
-10

You guys are such pussies sometimes.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 11:02 PM
1

Could you simplify your argument more concisely? I am admittedly somewhat lost as far as what you are attempting to say.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 06:22 PM
2

It’s not a matter of representation or unfair discrimination, it’s a matter of quality and motivation.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 02:54 PM
2

Are you arguing that afghan women are liberated?
/r/MensRights08/12/24 02:40 PM
-1

Let’s go Brandon
/r/MensRights03/11/24 11:53 PM
2

Collective punishment is immoral.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 09:26 PM
1

I agree
/r/MensRights01/11/24 06:40 PM
1

The original post mentions women children and war. What are you auditioning to be the spokesperson of the thread for if you don’t read the original post?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 11:56 AM
-46

Tit for tat is womanly
/r/MensRights01/11/24 11:54 AM
0

The post is about war.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 09:35 PM
-5

Adversity. Combat? Protective healthy masculinity? Competence? The opposition? Whatever it is that you are scared of facing.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 12:17 AM
-19

So we are hiding behind the women and children on this sub..?
/r/MensRights30/10/24 11:58 AM
1

What is a woman?
/r/MensRights30/10/24 03:02 AM
39

Divide and conquer.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 09:47 PM
1

You are stumbling right into the trap that I was hoping you saw based on the description. You are being effectively drawn into a victimhood Olympics.. and I was thinking that you would advise not doing so instead of deferring to your perception of who started it..that’s not going to change anything especially the opinion of people that don’t agree with you.
/r/MensRights27/10/24 02:30 PM
7

I like her. She seems honest at least.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 01:46 AM
1

Question is, is the nuclear family important to you?
/r/MensRights20/10/24 01:33 PM
0

They were shipped to Siberia to die if they resisted, so no, and yes both.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 08:59 PM
3

Communism requires fascism, so we agree.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 08:58 PM
-3

Masculinity is and always has been a deterrent and a threat to socialist and communist society.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 05:17 AM
12

She lost the narrative early on when she said all incels are misogynists. Women hyper-fixate on a subset of men ignoring the rest and the more independent of male vetting (brothers fathers uncles etc) a woman is in her choice of man, the worse the choices tend to be. Perfectly decent men get skipped over in favor of their less promising counterparts.
/r/MensRights17/10/24 10:38 PM
0

Blah blah blah
/r/MensRights17/10/24 09:33 PM
2

Hahaha
/r/MensRights17/10/24 01:05 PM
2

Clown world bullshit. Disregard it as part of your ‘identity.’
/r/MensRights17/10/24 01:03 PM
4

Throw out coercion based on perceived power dynamic imbalance and the ensuing abdication of agency and the number shrinks and dwindles.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 10:21 PM
3

It does suck that the feminist sad cat lady echo chambers have enough traction to pull otherwise good women into their victimhood brainwash circle, but you have to separate the wheat from the chaff.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 12:57 PM
1

It’s an exercise in futility to generalize a relationship between two individuals. It’s obviously going to be dependent on a whole host of variables, and subjective opinions will vary.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 12:48 PM
1

You are no longer welcome on their chest.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 01:57 AM
1

Spare us your feelings homie
/r/MensRights26/08/24 11:09 PM
1

Honesty is the best policy.
/r/MensRights21/08/24 11:28 PM
2

Idle time.
/r/MensRights18/08/24 02:09 AM
1

Machismo holds it at bay. Huge contingency of the sub will not like hearing that.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 12:40 PM
1

Cool. I don’t understand the problem.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:52 PM
0

Dumb term.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 11:44 AM
3

What kinda ‘feelings‘ based question is that?
/r/MensRights27/05/24 11:33 AM
8

Brainwashed nihilistic naive narcissistic neurotic captive prisoners to an ideology that is ultimately a death cult.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:54 PM
3

Yeah duh.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 04:33 PM
25

Boys are naturally more disagreeable than girls. Girls are naturally more agreeable than boys.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 11:27 AM
-1

Luckily my wife couldn’t care less.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:28 PM
1

Pancake batter?
/r/MensRights16/05/24 12:52 PM
2

Literally thousands
/r/MensRights16/05/24 12:51 PM
-13

Kinda sound bitter..
/r/MensRights16/05/24 02:21 AM
-3

You are talking about your feelings.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:01 PM
-1

You don’t say..
/r/MensRights10/05/24 10:41 PM
1

Well they are outliers, which is why I said, “women in general.”
/r/MensRights10/05/24 09:21 PM
1

If you think it’s a matter of training, you are probably a feminist.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:11 AM
-2

Women in general are not competent warriors.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 08:52 PM
15

It’s a neurotic virtue signaling feminist circle jerk nested in delusional inversion of hypersensitive threat detection and at the core a divide and conquer technique that subtly aims at differing levels of intelligence. If it’s any consolation, my wife, daughter, mother, and sister suffer from no such delusion.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 01:03 PM
1

You chose to enter one of the more neurotic hierarchies available in ‘women’s space’ and you are surprised that you got gatekept..?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 12:12 PM
16

Most men that I know would put their life on the line to help a stranger in need. Not all of us live up to that standard but threat detection increases when neuroticism is validated and cultivated rather than dispelled and refuted.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:58 AM
23

The vast majority of people would not have time to entertain the sick fantasy and there are plenty of sane normal people that don’t feel compelled to chime in. Add to that the fact that we don’t really know how many people agreeing with this silly scenario are genuinely women and not just saying it or bots. It’s some easily refutable nihilistic fantasy perpetuating among women that lack critical thinking skills and propagated for the purpose of divide and conquer.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:55 AM
2

This is largely because 80% of men are invisible to women and they are herd like so if someone is spooked they start stampeding in validation of negative emotion. Add to that a tendency to gravitate towards psychopaths and sociopaths and the increasing likelihood of becoming jaded after 5 or more sexual partners, and you have this inflammatory perversion of statistical data amongst the shallow chattering narcissists that like to virtue signal how little understanding and grasp of statistical dat…
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:42 AM
1

Learn to spell banned
/r/MensRights01/05/24 02:46 AM
4

Let people virtue signal in their echo chamber. You didn’t change anyone’s perspective by exposing a shallow level of blatant hypocrisy, you just got ‘sickened’ by a unified army of Karens in lockstep.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 11:57 AM
1

Talking bout that Pete moss..
/r/MensRights24/04/24 02:19 AM
1

Don’t tell me what to do or how I should have interpreted your post. Clarity your perspective or don’t, but speak for yourself.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 03:08 PM
6

Why the fuck are you so concerned with how others react to your oversharing. When you describe yourself as being queer and wanting to fit in during the same introduction I am already starting to write you off as obtusely contradictory to a level of dishonesty via manipulation of semantic definitions and colloquial meanings. On some level being queer is embracing an alternative lifestyle unbound to conventional paths so it is synonymous in some regards to not caring about fitting in. It’s an inve…
/r/MensRights21/04/24 02:11 AM
11

Go easy on the Neanderthals. A handful of the best looking ones made it into the gene pool.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 07:16 PM
0

What is a femcel? Why dip your toe in a cess pool to check the temperature?
/r/MensRights20/04/24 07:13 PM
2

Better question is why.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:57 PM
8

Just goes to show that Wikipedia is captured.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:20 PM
1

Marriage is for children.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 11:36 AM
5

Neuroticism and trait agreeableness
/r/MensRights14/04/24 03:16 PM
2

Don’t disrupt the planning that goes into the oppression Olympics and our contingency that demands representation.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 12:02 PM
3

Sherlock Stockholmes
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:28 PM
0

Valid criticism can be painful to hear, but I would rather deal with brutal honesty than apathetic platitudes.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 01:46 PM
4

Negative emotions make pain worse, but you can talk yourself out of negativity and you can’t talk yourself out of pain. This doesn’t work if you only validate your emotional state. I don’t trust my emotions.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 04:38 PM
5

Maybe unintentionally or incidentally, but the biological drive to project genes into the future won out against the shallow rationalizing mind games that humans run like a program to dissociate the act from the purpose or the consequences or the possible set of outcomes. That’s like accidentally robbing a bank you happened to walk into wielding a ski mask and an assault rifle. Forgive the analogy..
/r/MensRights11/03/24 09:17 PM
8

How do you accidentally impregnate someone?
/r/MensRights11/03/24 07:11 PM
-6

It’s art
/r/MensRights05/03/24 01:44 PM
7

They couldn’t find happiness while married. Meanwhile her husband has happiness right there..
/r/MensRights29/02/24 03:15 PM
2

What else do neurotic expectations articulated as hypotheticals prevent you from exploring?
/r/MensRights28/02/24 11:40 PM
3

Thank you for bringing your perspective. There’s a lot of men here that naively overlook this possible explanation for what could be going on here. Also the presumption that the people posting these violent fantasies are female feminists is a leap as far as I see it.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 07:56 PM
1

I don’t think that was only women.. there’s a lot of internalized misandry amongst those who would forsake their manhood.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 07:51 PM
-5

Sounds more like some weirdos role playing and they sound like dudes honestly.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 07:49 PM
3

What makes you think that these are “ladies”….?
/r/MensRights26/02/24 07:48 PM
1

Had me till the last paragraph about feelings and shit.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 01:28 AM
-6

That’s how the Kenyans dominate distance running. If you didn’t have a sufficient tolerance to pain you didn’t procreate, and the same selection augmented tolerance to pain translates to success in endurance competition.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 07:11 PM
1

Deprogram a keeper.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 11:50 AM
5

She said, “all women SEEM,” owning her perception here, unless it was edited this is just nitpicking.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:18 AM
1

How should the draft work? I am curious about what the proposed alternative would be.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 07:00 PM
-3

No. You didn’t listen to the video, maybe.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:57 PM
2

No
/r/MensRights28/01/24 09:28 PM
16

Women are the primary target in the majority of advertising..
/r/MensRights28/01/24 03:27 PM
8

I have a healthy understanding of how things could be worse and an appreciation and degree of active gratitude for the blessings and gifts that I have.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 03:24 PM
1

Thanks and ditto
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:47 PM
12

I am married for the benefit of my children and my wife hasn’t worked for fifteen years but I do enough to get us by and although I don’t have much to show in terms of material wealth I have two healthy children and a partner at home that cooks cleans and handles finances.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:45 PM
1

Thanks. Happy to field any questions on the off chance that it helps any of my brothers out. I am not here to downplay the validity of the struggle by any means. I am here to help but I think affirmation is overrated.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 04:56 PM
2

I haven’t. It’s the best way to raise my kids and it’s been a manageable series of difficulties since I met and started living with their mother 20 years ago.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:27 AM
9

Itty bitty titty committee is fine, as long as itty bitty titty has got a behind.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 12:08 AM
1

Is this a general or personal question..?
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:46 PM
1

Race to the bottom?
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:40 PM
1

Irrational fear doesn’t negate adult responsibility.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:01 PM
1

Hypotheticals are not going to resonate outside of an echo chamber. Nobody should be doing these pranks and if you do try to retaliation should not necessarily come as a surprise. Regardless of gender. If there aren’t similar cases to refer to beyond generalizations about how things could have maybe been if this or that were changed is operatively irrelevant pardon my bluntness.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 11:14 PM
8

Not sure how this is relevant.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 12:44 PM
2

Not you, specifically. Part of the problem is that telling an individual to avoid something because it is bad doesn’t work. There needs to be an alternative option for the scam or a less generalized picture of what to avoid. And once young men have a higher resolution image of precisely what they are trying to avoid, they can function less neurotically in pursuit of what it is they want. This is the correct modality.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:08 AM
2

You kinda need some sort of plan for a replacement or alternative to marriage (which is for the benefit of children ideally) and military (which is for the protection and procurement of resources and territory theoretically) if you think these are scams that need to be undermined or traps that need to be deactivated or avoided. We are already starting to disengage from the bullshit going on at universities, based on the dropping numbers of male college students..
/r/MensRights06/01/24 11:45 PM
45

Exactly, men and women struggled together for eons against the harsh reality of survival, that only recently got to this point of relative prosperity in comparison.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 12:42 PM
2

Definitely some hubristic projection. I would have difficulty staying on board at that point with whatever he has to say..
/r/MensRights03/01/24 09:39 PM
1

Sounds ridiculous to the point of satire.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 05:15 PM
0

There’s a difference between blaming the victim and refusing to have a victim mentality. 100% accountability and extreme ownership are functionally useful moving forward. That shit is irredeemable and I am not one to conflate a man taking accountability for wherever the mistakes occur with the absolution of the heinous wench or the idea that she is not capable of agency.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 03:37 AM
1

If women are much more transactional, as you say, then a man treating a relationship with a woman as transactional is more in alignment with feminist ideals than masculine ideals.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:19 AM
-1

So are you saying that the transactional approach to a relationship is catering to feminist ideology..?
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:04 PM
-5

Downvoted for painful truth..which is unfortunately very reminiscent of what goes on in feminist echo chambers.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:20 PM
-16

You would be wrong to assume that your feelings are correct regarding women never being faulted or questioned when their partner has an affair. I would set feelings aside. You may have misread the situation or the character of the woman or the likelihood of things turning out this way, and I can definitely relate to all of that, but it is useless to only expect sympathetic responses, and among those that criticize you some may have a valid point that could lead to self improvement so I would avo…
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:36 PM
1

Publicly shamed for being in the tiny minority of men that have multiple simultaneous sexual partners deceptively? Public shaming is an overstatement in this context, and there would be no reason for shame if the women knew.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 01:45 AM
0

Wait why? It’s a sad but interesting way of measuring female hypergamy and really only spoils the game for the small percentage of dudes that have the capacity to cheat dishonestly. It’s a pretty clear critique of female mate selection in a way, and so I never really gave it much thought beyond that. I would honestly like to know how it is a thing that men should petition, aside from levying a grievance in the fight fire with fire sense because it’s definitely a feminist tactic to cancel shit.. …
/r/MensRights27/12/23 04:14 AM
2

Read the article. He is making the case to people that are less aware of the problem, and building an argument formulated to bring this to people’s attention. If you are already aware of the problem then I would suggest reading the introduction from the perspective of someone inclined to dismiss the struggles that boys are facing, as that seems to be who this was directed towards. He is on our side and you sound like you are petulantly searching for a false dichotomy of, ‘with us or against us,’…
/r/MensRights26/12/23 03:45 PM
0

You sound like my wife.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 03:31 PM
1

What part was ‘convoluted nonsense’?
/r/MensRights24/12/23 10:40 PM
19

Telling someone how to live isn’t bad or good. To withhold honesty is not inherently good. To offer advice is to assume the agency to decide how to incorporate said advice in the receiver. Unsolicited advice is a form of free speech. Heed it or not. I recommend Dr. Peterson’s lectures.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 03:12 PM
3

News flash?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 05:36 PM
2

Context?
/r/MensRights13/12/23 10:34 PM
12

Doesn’t seem like a problem..
/r/MensRights13/12/23 05:15 PM
1

Sounds voluntary.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 05:37 PM
16

Life is full of contradictions
/r/MensRights17/11/23 06:30 PM
2

Feminists are the ones trying to make negative descriptions ‘not okay’ whatever the fuck that means. Why adopt their grievance paradigm?
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:15 PM
1

Thank you for your perspective.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:38 AM
1

Do you expect access to female spaces?
/r/MensRights16/11/23 03:47 AM
2

I believe you went over a few heads here, but well said.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 03:45 AM
-1

Sounds cripplingly neurotic.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 02:43 PM
2

You turned the tables, but now you sound like one of them.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:22 PM
10

No a pick me is a female simp which is actually a good thing, counterintuitively.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 02:48 PM
1

Yes
/r/MensRights07/11/23 02:47 PM
1

It’s wrong to obscure the meaning of a phobia, or an irrational fear with individual psychological sexual selection bias.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:47 PM
1

Resorting to the tactics that feminism employs is beneath us.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:43 PM
1

Women gravitate towards the men that don’t fawn over them like sycophants. The prettier a girl is the more likely they are to have been put on a pedestal by the majority of eligible suitors in their orbit, counterintuitively leading to a preference for the novelty of being dismissed or having their insecurities noted or not being treated like a princess or empress.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:41 PM
1

No I judge fat people to be willing to eat more than they burn, and people who pay for augmentations or cosmetic procedures to be weak and pathetic. Why make broad generalizations when you can speak for yourself with much less dishonesty..?
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:34 PM
1

I don’t know what there is to be gained from flipping between psychological and sociological frameworks in the same thought. It’s inherently contradictory. I think women over 5’8” are behemoths, as in generally unattractive. That’s psychology. Lots of men stating that they would hypothetically be interested in a beautiful woman can be over 6 feet tall is sociology. Sexual selection is discriminatory. It’s the desire to be seen as morally virtuous that warps the stated claims.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:31 PM
1

So don’t ‘rubber-glue’ feminist bullshit by adapting it.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:25 PM
-21

I’m not a feminist but this groupthink sociological thinking is what feminists do. I think you are adopting the feminist structure of grievance and using the same principles.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 08:31 PM
-11

So many triggered reverse feminists..
/r/MensRights04/11/23 08:28 PM
-9

Yes.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 08:26 PM
2

No
/r/MensRights02/11/23 11:26 AM
21

I think we would be better off as a society if we lied to women less.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 08:57 PM
-2

Life is not fair.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 05:36 PM
2

What if you aren’t raising a feminist daughter?
/r/MensRights17/10/23 05:34 PM
2

I guess they haven’t looked into stoicism.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 09:46 PM
2

You want an echo chamber? A drum circle of positive feedback? Because you seem kinda neurotic, which is more typically associated with female traits. Theoretically you should be able to handle a reciprocal version of your opening statement.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 06:10 PM
1

Not how it works dork, marriage is for the benefit of children. What do you think it’s for? I am comfortable with risk. I make sacrifices for my children and expect my wife to do her part. You are talking about romance and feelings and happiness and that stuff is all secondary to responsibility and maintenance.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 06:01 PM
0

I cringe at the cringing at the idea of marriage.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 05:39 PM
1

Blaming externalities is toxic femininity
/r/MensRights16/10/23 04:37 PM
0

They are more likely to attempt, and we are more likely to follow through, sadly.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 10:02 PM
2

My wife is pretty magical in the kitchen..
/r/MensRights29/09/23 03:49 AM
1

It’s pretty simple. You triggered them. Friendly fox in the chicken coop.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:30 PM
9

It’s a trend that is mocked, not appropriated.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:21 PM
2

So you plan on matching the entitlement complex of narcissistic feminist bots that overreact to perceived gym infractions. Solving the real problems bro.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:20 PM
1

She made it up.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 04:30 PM
7

Dismissively
/r/MensRights21/09/23 12:15 PM
0

Part of the problem is ignorance towards the way that words and language develop. Context, resonant semantics and charitable interpretation are all very capable of logically defeating a good amount of the bullshit, but if enough words are taboo it becomes impossible if not worth the effort to string together coherent thoughts and think them let alone articulate them
/r/MensRights15/09/23 02:24 PM
6

Women got the vote without the responsibility of the draft not long after it was extended to men who didn’t own land etc.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:37 PM
7

No, you can. Retard is French for, ‘late,’ and negro is Spanish for, ‘black.’ Context is the determining factor. Freedom of speech is more important than a desire to not feel offended. I recommend standing your ground and not capitulating, because ceding territory without resistance doesn’t tend to dissuade invaders.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:21 PM
2

I personally would never get one. I feel like the ability for a man to start a new family is a component to keeping his current relationship functional. Like the idea of being capable of causing harm but choosing to do what is right and keeping that in check is what makes you good. If you’re incapable of harm you aren’t necessarily good, you’re harmless. Not the same thing. It’s cool if you disagree and opt for elective surgery. Not everyone is capable of pulling out in time..
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:46 AM
-2

I want sex all the time. I settle for once a day. I work hard and fulfill my responsibilities. I don’t feel misrepresented by the notion.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 02:52 AM
1

She sounds bright..
/r/MensRights13/09/23 01:36 AM
-2

Sounds like you had an awkward social interaction. I think you will be okay.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:37 PM
-1

Stop thinking about women in sociological terms and focus on individual psychology when trying to find a mate. Feminist ideology is hollow. Don’t expect it to work with you.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:31 PM
1

What about the effect of successful sexual harassment within the context of a marriage or relationship that produces offspring and all the incentivized societal benefits? Hard to parse out and not throw the babies out with the bath water..
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/23 07:59 PM
2

Don’t see too many building houses.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 05:02 PM
2

Who cares? It’s far more insecure to be dishonest on behalf of the supposed opinion of strangers..
/r/MensRights14/08/23 01:36 AM
1

Larping.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 11:32 AM
9

Lack of accountability
/r/MensRights18/04/23 04:44 PM
1

Married with two kids. What is wrong with settling? Nomadic existence doesn’t sound appealing. Always knew that I wanted to have kids and knew that I could make it work with the woman that I married.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:49 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/MensRights15/04/23 03:58 AM
-3

Good
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:48 PM
-4

Builds character
/r/MensRights29/03/23 11:38 AM
9

The more sexual partners a woman has the more difficult it is to pair bond in a monogamous relationship.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 11:00 AM
0

What makes them losers? What is an abundance mindset? The way that you dismiss your brother and his friends seems to be in conflict with your desire to help.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 11:27 AM
2

You should try to stop, “believing he is a wimp wholeheartedly.” How do you expect him to listen to anything you have to say if you have already decided who and what he is..?
/r/MensRights13/03/23 11:24 AM
1

It’s a man’s world.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 11:37 PM
1

I think it depends on the truth.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 02:20 AM
1

That’s all the associated implications but not the core meaning. To be aware of the related set of presumptions doesn’t require that you adopt them, and negative connotations that are ascribed to words that have a more neutral origin are disingenuous, erode the power of words and tips our cap at the authoritarian push to normalize this ‘feelings over freedom and personal responsibility’ censorship and stigmatization campaign that feminism is used to standardize.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 12:16 PM
1

When civil society breaks down, roving bands of dangerous men are a commodity and a threat. We all descend from this, and it is still the way things are in the most chaotic and tribal places on earth. To pretend that this imbalance is imposed by authorities is to be unfamiliar with the nature of the beast within all, and even worse the foul spirits that drive and inhabit the mobs. What is there to fight for if not to protect.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 11:40 PM
1

Move those goalposts real quick, this guy is definitely going to put it past our keeper
/r/MensRights02/03/23 11:02 PM
7

How dare him for articulating a perceived pattern.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 07:47 PM
1

It’s not abusive. Sex and marriage separated from having and raising children is a feminist ideal. The idea that it’s abuse is pathetic neurotic bullshit.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:07 PM
-6

It’s not the long term sex, it’s the byproduct of that relationship that the asset transfer is intended to support, ideally. Calling it abuse is applying a hyperbolic feminist concept turned on it’s head. Not sure what you are trying to say beyond expressing a neurotic perception of the nature of sexual dimorphism and disparity between men and women. Good luck.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 12:28 PM
-1

What is the nature of the permanent health condition that prevents 100% from being given in a job search, and how much of a factor is this to the relationship? Your attitude towards facing a challenge is at least somewhat in your control, with regards to how it’s portrayed. I sympathize. I am sorry about whatever you are going through, and understand not wanting to discuss it but women are wired to be attracted to strength in resolve when facing a crisis, so the portrayal of that to some degree …
/r/MensRights23/02/23 12:38 PM
1

Hardest job in the world.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 03:28 PM
-3

Here here
/r/MensRights16/02/23 09:51 PM
1

Speak for yourself.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 11:59 AM
1

I don’t think she was hating on the set of all men, I just think she was overestimating the rarity of the men that would prefer small tits to her big ones. You should have pointed that out and see where she stood. You jumped to a conclusion like a whiny feminist bitch. It’s kinda funny that her response was dismissive.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:19 PM
1

Have you seen the recent zfrank video on slime cultures. Pretty amazing single cell many nuclei
/r/MensRights07/02/23 12:01 PM
0

Who cares what you are ‘labeled’ a 24 year old woman dating 28 year old man matches the world average age discrepancy and 18 year old women are adults. I don’t envy your position, and I was already married with a 2 year old at 28, and we’ve been together since 21, and we’re basically the same age. If I had to start over heaven forbid, it wouldn’t likely be with a woman my age, and I wouldn’t really care what label third party observers threw at me.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 02:19 PM
3

Why care what other people think, especially hypothetical people, in this case? I always tell my son that he doesn’t need to appeal to the set of all girls, just one that is worth the sacrifice. It’s a private matter anyway.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 01:22 AM
-2

This question doesn’t need the presumptuous built-in assumptions. Why does it ‘seem’ this way? Probably because you are a woman and that is the popular modern narrative that individuals must learn to question to prevent themselves from ostensibly becoming ideologically possessed. If you want to know why it is being propagated culturally, one way to look at it would be to ask who benefits from this system or philosophy..?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:39 AM
3

Yes there are worse things. Tone down the hyperbole homie.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 12:20 AM
4

Fuck being a victim. I thought this was anti-feminist sub. What is this, ‘if you can’t beat ‘em join ‘em,’ victimhood promoting, feminist rhetoric mirroring drivel? Man the fuck up lads.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 09:21 PM
7

I’m not bitter. I don’t necessarily assume we agree on anything just because we are in the sub together. I try to speak for myself and avoid thinking in terms of groups, tribes, generalizations, sociology, and neurotic concerns about systemic level problems.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 05:42 PM
1

That whole accountability thing
/r/MensRights24/01/23 02:39 AM
0

Why do you turn a sociological generalization into a hyperbolic prediction? Women marry across and up in terms of socioeconomic status, but also across dominance/competence hierarchies of all sorts where men sort themselves into said hierarchies and women select from the top. In socioeconomic terms they are trying to maintain or improve the level of resources they grew up accustomed to in general. Men as providers, don’t rate resource provision as importantly as women do so they are fine selecti…
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:38 PM
2

Sounds like she did a fantastic job.
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/23 02:48 PM
11

Men can be cunts and bitches. It describes behavior choice.
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/23 12:32 AM
3

I am never getting one.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:31 AM
20

Misinterpretation and blindness to nuance.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 11:36 PM
5

Validation of phobias increases their grip on an individual. Marginally increasing levels of safe exposure to the thing that triggers it is the only way to overcome an irrational fear.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:27 AM
1

No.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 10:19 PM
21

Have a slice of humble pie. Sounds like you failed the lad.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:47 PM
9

I make my son take out the garbage.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 12:29 PM
2

No. Sounds pretty sad.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 12:22 PM
0

If you stick your paw inside a bee-hive, or a hornet’s nest for the sake of comparison, do the bees or hornets ‘viciously attack you?’ What does that even look like..? Mean words..? That is the feminist way to say that the people on that sub reacted negatively to your post or comments..we need to tone down the hyperbole, which is just a fancy word for overstatement.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:21 PM
2

So mean
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 12:31 AM
2

We need to rid soccer of it’s culture of false allegations..
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 12:40 PM
5

Bitch describes behavior choice and is gender neutral. Etymologically more related to the word witch than an oblique reference to dog breeding and puppy mills. Coon is a verbalization of perceived racial superiority. This type of false equivocation makes discourse seem futile. Have a good day.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 12:32 PM
1

Fake is gross, new is unused, adults are eighteen or older, and successful independent women don’t make men feel needed.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 08:54 PM
30

The more sexual partners a woman has the more difficult or unlikely pair bonding becomes with a monogamous male partner, psychologically. It’s not a rule and there are always exceptions, which is why I dislike the framing of sociological questions. I think it’s edging towards irrelevant with regards to individual psychology. Whether it should or shouldn’t be the way it is, is more of a discussion of human nature with an undercurrent of authoritarianism required to implement and enforce changes i…
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/23 12:59 PM
3

Straighten up and fly right lads.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 11:02 PM
3

Huge contradiction between his response to the advice and his request for criticism. I couldn’t care less what happens to him from there, as it’s his own fault, so I am confused about why he needs to be defended.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 11:13 PM
0

What if you don’t want it in that moment but you look back fondly on it when you are in a different mood..like is it ok to have an unstable personality and how much is it the responsibility of society to facilitate this particular type of imbalance..?
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 01:50 AM
18

Love femininity. Not a huge fan of feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 01:54 AM
5

My wife said yes to a $40 claddagh ring 18 years ago.
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 11:42 PM
2

That’s unreal man
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 08:32 PM
1

What a cunt.
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 11:03 PM
5

Pot meet kettle
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 08:36 PM
7

Pearl is out there putting in the work.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 07:08 PM
3

Sounds pretty trolly billy goats.
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 12:09 PM
-8

It’s kinda feminine to worry about other dudes in a dumb forum intended for venting and validation, not that I don’t agree or appreciate the sentiment. I have love for all the brothers out there, in the thick of the struggle, but what did you expect? At least have some clever break offs and maybe anticipate that kinda reaction if you are going to be throwing bait, chum, and catnip. I don’t think conceptualizing men’s problems or our rights etc in a sociological framework is very useful for any i…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:10 AM
2

Divide and conquer.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 10:57 PM
8

I am team sticks and stones.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:25 PM
3

Cope what? Crown moulding? Are you stuck on a whaling vessel?
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:02 AM
3

Were you neglected as a child? People have preferences. I think anything more than a handful is unnecessary. My wife is petite and she nursed both my kids for the first year, they worked great, were fun at the time, but I don’t miss them. There are large underage teenagers and there are small adults. Get a grip.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:05 AM
1

Psychology is the answer to your question..
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 07:11 PM
1

Sticks and stones.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 12:40 AM
1

Small tits are better than big tits.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 08:02 PM
4

Do you. Don’t get all sociological..
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/22 09:33 PM
1

Feelings…nothing more than..feelings.
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/22 04:44 PM
4

At least it’s somewhat overt in a sense.
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/22 11:59 PM
14

Pot calling the kettle black Karen.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 10:32 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/22 08:35 PM
4

To be honest I don’t understand this dude’s choices..
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 03:28 PM
1

I don’t need a Johnson.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 07:52 PM
-1

Men larping as women are still men
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 12:47 PM
1

It’s not raising ‘a’ child.. it’s her child too. Her responsibility and her choices..
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 09:21 PM
1

She should be responsible for her choices. If she expects compensation on leaving she should put it in writing in a contract so the man knows to avoid this indecisive professional victim.
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 09:20 PM
2

Bless her heart
/r/MensRights17/12/22 09:22 PM
4

RIP brother
/r/MensRights16/12/22 11:24 PM
2

The way he handled piers Morgan was pretty respectful and respectable.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 07:04 PM
-1

Speak for your self
/r/MensRights15/12/22 07:01 PM
1

Why put this on display. It deserves to be ignored out of pity not paraded and showcased as evidence of the moral superiority of the opposite conclusions. This individual is clearly disadvantaged in terms of how to articulate their perspective in a public forum tactfully. It’s a feminist pastime to use individual examples like this to cast doubt and shade on the associated categories and groups on a sociological basis. It’s a bait and switch to focus on psychology of an outlier as evidence for b…
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 03:57 PM
8

Astrology is interesting, as an interpretive medium and silly as a belief system.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 08:19 PM
1

Good
/r/MensRights12/12/22 05:29 PM
7

Simping for that non-white puss?
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/22 05:48 PM
4

You ratted out the shop because you got called out for having no tact?
/r/MensRights10/12/22 10:36 PM
3

Wouldn’t say you dodged the bullet but it appears to have missed the vitals. Best of luck and sorry that happened to you.
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/22 11:46 PM
3

Reality
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/22 10:36 PM
4

Your math is wrong.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 08:52 PM
-5

Being neurotic about it is not adhering to masculine principles. I am not claiming that it’s fair or that it should be and I am aware of the statistics but pointing out hypocrisy is only the beginning of identifying the problem and it doesn’t seem to be very effective as a method in itself. Women are often driven by a form of rationalization that many men would see as irrationally obtuse. The key is isolate the principles that maximize the freedom and responsibility of individuals. Sociology is …
/r/MensRights03/12/22 07:52 PM
2

Or men are less likely to attempt suicide but more likely to commit. Men absolutely do gravitate toward the more dangerous jobs and that accounts for their higher rates of workplace death, just as much as women tend to avoid or not even consider these types of workplace environments. It’s not a societal bias towards women that motivates me to climb a 40 foot ladder. And women and men aren’t the same. Acting like pointing out the differences discredits the blind press for ‘equality’ that third wa…
/r/MensRights03/12/22 06:32 PM
4

Sounds like she had some idea..
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 04:02 PM
5

Sounds pretty tragic.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 03:30 PM
2

So what if you are 5/16 Asian?
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 12:48 PM
54

‘Never knew’ is a lot to unpack. Sounds kinda dishonest..
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 10:19 PM
-1

Women aren’t men.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 06:17 PM
3

Generalizations like this stem from a hesitancy or fear of confrontation with nuance and that fear or hesitancy is a manifestation of toxic femininity and an embracing of that ethos. People are harsh, if you show weakness as a man you get made fun of, and it’s delusional to think that you can control other people to prevent you from experiencing that. Men are typically less patient with other men’s show of negative emotions than they are towards women. It’s not equal, but so the fuck what?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 11:06 PM
15

How simp-pathetic
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:18 PM
1

Both are part of a healthy balance. Both can be excessive.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 05:42 PM
7

People can hate whatever they want so long as they behave with dignity and respect. This thought crime bullshit mentality is a manifestation toxic femininity.
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 10:30 PM
-8

No, the concept of entitlement to consequence free sex is the problem. Don’t cum into a woman that you don’t trust. If you do, regardless of whether or not you should have trusted her, it’s a potential consequence that should be considered.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 12:07 PM
2

Weak.
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 02:55 AM
1

Very proud of them both. It’s what worked for us. You don’t get that precious time back, so it was worth it.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:12 PM
1

My wife stayed at home. 18 years together, two kids.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:45 PM
3

They should just hook up
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 03:00 AM
2

Feminazi was premature, even if it’s true.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:20 PM
2

Fatherless homes are close to the source of many of society’s problems.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 01:17 AM
2

Simps are strangely secure.
/r/AntiFeminists25/11/22 11:29 PM
2

I imagine she talks to her father like that.
/r/AntiFeminists22/11/22 01:50 PM
3

Hyperbole
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 02:13 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 09:39 PM
-1

I swear some of y’all people aren’t fucking correctly. If you were hitting it right feminism would want to marry you..
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 05:28 PM
0

Ok..
/r/MensRights19/11/22 05:25 PM
2

Don’t think in terms of sociology without considering the psychological interpretive toolkit.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 01:27 AM
1

Nah. The terfs shouldn’t have to suffer the presence of men larping in woman-face.
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/22 05:36 PM
1

Moo
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 12:35 PM
4

Is he talking about sex work?
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 05:15 PM
1

Cultural exaggeration that serves to divide
/r/MensRights12/11/22 09:39 PM
2

She afraid to grow a penis?
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/22 10:03 PM
-7

Life is not fair.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 09:52 PM
1

My wife stayed at home with my children and cooked and cleaned. She stuck with me despite my being a relatively poor but hardworking carpenter/construction worker for almost 20 years now. Helps that I am still in really good shape and I guess you could say I am a musician/artist. I had a good upbringing, I am a competent father and I have a good relationship with my kids. All that helps. I think it’s important that women recognize that this is an alternative mainstream independent woman’s lifest…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:20 AM
0

Nah.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 04:59 PM
1

“Pretty pink, baby blue. Why don’t you teach me something new. We’re all just babies in my view. Crawl baby.” Andre 3000 Honestly it’s more of a difference in personality type and perspective. I will be 40 in less than a month and there are things about me that haven’t really changed since I was 8 years old, and also plenty that has. I like the philosophy of the basic self, the conscious self, and the higher self, where they are referring to the inner child, the assimilative robot, and the highe…
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:32 PM
2

Competitive fire gets hot. Watch your mouths if you are weakly constituted, regardless of how you conceptualize self.
/r/AntiFeminists08/11/22 12:25 PM
1

Accountability.
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/22 04:51 PM
1

It talks about different types of women, so replacing ‘nymph’ with ‘woman’ would actually make it harder to read.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 04:58 AM
15

I am sorry that you are a psychopathic bitch.
/r/AntiFeminists02/11/22 04:24 PM
6

I am for equal opportunity and against equal outcome.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 12:06 PM
1

Presumptuous at the individual level.
/r/AntiFeminists23/10/22 02:31 PM
2

Sexual selection is an individual being discriminatory and prejudicial towards a range of other individuals. It’s negotiated territory. Individuals are not entitled to a life without prejudice or discrimination. It’s part and parcel to being free to choose your own mate, friends and job presuming you are willing to scale up the competence/dominance hierarchy of your choosing.
/r/AntiFeminists20/10/22 11:52 AM
20

Back peddling sounds dirtier than back pedaling..
/r/MensRights19/10/22 11:06 AM
5

Ask a man you trust what he thinks of any given dude. We know what to look for. Ask any prospective suitors to meet your father, brother, uncle, etc.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 09:39 PM
9

Sounds like eyes wide shut..
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:10 PM
-6

Conflation of fear and dislike, prejudice and hate. If I don’t like gooey butter cake does that qualify as a phobia?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:14 PM
-5

It’s a reverse euphemism.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:07 PM
-6

Why use a pseudo-phobia buzzword? Words have meaning and it’s not unimportant. Phobia means fear, not aversion, or disapproval, and it becomes an echo chamber of bullshit when nuance is abandoned.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:03 PM
1

Naruto is top notch storytelling.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:06 AM
96

Damned if you do..
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:12 PM
3

Promiscuity before marriage seems to be a correlated sliding scale. The more sexual partners a woman has before marriage, the less likely the woman will be to claim that she is happy in her marriage. On some level, the likelihood that a woman’s spouse compares favorably to her failed romantic endeavors decreases the more men there are to compare. Also it’s roughly 20% of men that are sleeping with the vast majority of women and men that are considered high value on the sexual market that have no…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:23 PM
4

I think fatherlessness is a deeper cause, ideological possession is a symptom, and the divide and conquer technique applied to the nuclear family is the end goal. Female supremacy masquerading as feminism is a brainwashing program that thrives in the absence of competent positive male leadership.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 08:18 PM
4

Fatherlessness
/r/MensRights15/10/22 02:34 PM
1

Neurotic feminist uno reverse.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 11:06 PM
8

Don’t think like a feminist.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 09:22 PM
-2

Man up refers to mastering your emotions, not bottling them up, unless you are using the feminist definition.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 09:20 PM
5

I am for equal opportunity, and against equal outcome, or equity. I think the system built by the so-called patriarchy is founded on competency not arbitrary power. I believe at its core the ideology opposed by this sub called feminism is a divide and conquer technique that relies on the banality of sociological thinking, and that the concept of the sovereign individual is under assault by a dissociative hive minded tribalism. To properly oppose this movement I believe we as men must avoid rever…
/r/MensRights04/10/22 05:10 PM
9

Sounds like satire.
/r/AntiFeminists04/10/22 02:13 PM
1

as a benefit..
/r/AntiFeminists03/10/22 10:45 PM
2

It’s more like some women want rights without the associated responsibility..
/r/MensRights02/10/22 05:38 PM
2

I have gotten called an incel, even though I am happily married with two children, and I have a statistically very healthy sex life.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 05:37 PM
26

What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/MensRights01/10/22 09:52 PM
-1

You got downvotes from a bunch of pussies on this sub that are literally the male equivalent to a blue haired feminist screaming at the top of her lungs as a mouthpiece of the cancerous ideology she is possessed by..
/r/MensRights01/10/22 12:11 PM
1

Illegitimate children get the father’s name in Latin cultures of the colonial period, not in English speaking culture though..
/r/MensRights30/09/22 08:38 PM
1

Yep, my wife can trace maternity back to prehistory through mitochondrial dna, so our kids (and her) took my last name over keeping her father’s.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 08:35 PM
2

You picked up on that, huh?
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:57 PM
2

Nope. You know who loves to talk about trigger words and validated feelings, right?
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:53 PM
0

So you consider this a male ‘friendly’ sub? I don’t think that really applies here necessarily, unless your definition of being ‘friendly’ is to validate and respond negatively to constructive criticism on other people’s behalf. It is the archetype of toxic femininity. The devouring mother that sees all criticism of her offspring as a threat to their bond, and a refutation of her need to continue to protect her child from the harsh reality of the world. That’s what you are doing when you downvot…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:18 AM
0

This sub is friendly unless you offer constructive criticism, as evidenced by the response to my perspective on what friendly or friendship should be.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 10:48 AM
-2

So, do you want women to be drafted into combat roles? Sounds less discriminatory but not more effective.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:40 PM
1

Validation. Reflexive empathy, overprotectiveness. The inability or hesitancy to offer constructive criticism on behalf of children or subordinates or peers often based on the presumption of a level of neuroticism that would prevent the recipient of said criticism from accepting it or benefiting from it. A failure to instill discipline or to reinforce the concept of delayed gratification. The archetype of the devouring mother that prevents their child or those under their influence from developi…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 06:06 PM
-9

Friends don’t blindly validate each other or avoid giving or accepting constructive criticism.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:14 AM
1

They don’t understand the concept of stoicism.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 11:13 AM
2

How do you know his mind? Some people are naturally more combative and his responses could also be construed as reaction to his question being treated as disingenuous.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 06:38 PM
2

How do you know that he wasn’t challenging in a combative tone for that same purpose? To ask a genuine question, as you say, with an open mind. Even if the packaging is damaged it seems impossible to be certain whether or not it contained a spade, so to speak. That could be a projection of a neurotic sort.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 06:14 PM
2

I appreciate your perspective sir.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 06:06 PM
0

Yep
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:15 PM
-1

I like this perspective.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:14 PM
2

I would recommend being very upfront and honest about all of your concerns. Communication is key. I think it’s unethical to record sex without both parties consent regardless of that path paved to hell called good intentions.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:13 PM
0

So you admit that your goal is to shame rather than educate someone for asking a question. This is not an effective way to address the problem. People are being shamed by the woke into an inability to answer simple questions like, ‘what is a woman?’ Is that the way this movement expects to make change, because that movement is responsible for much worse than circumcision…
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:00 PM
1

You are doing it again. At what point did I make this assertion..?
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:57 PM
1

That is neurotic
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:13 PM
1

See.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:13 PM
2

It’s the content not the framing.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:12 PM
-4

He asked a question. And being disingenuous about the the response to what the person asking a question considered an unsatisfactory answer, is not how to respond to criticism.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:08 PM
-6

That’s such a ridiculous straw man of his response. Is your goal to educate or shame the dude?
/r/MensRights24/09/22 10:09 AM
3

Fatherless homes produce problems.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:47 AM
1

Oh no not a sexist. Honestly this is an improvement over the idea that the opposite of feminism is misogyny. Sexist as in acknowledging the differences between men and women? Ooh that’s so bad/s
/r/MensRights21/09/22 11:47 AM
0

Aww you caved.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 11:44 AM
-4

Stop being rational.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 11:43 AM
1

No hard truths. Only validation.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 11:42 AM
-1

I recommend Jordan Peterson. He intellectualizes religious teachings in a way that doesn’t require dogmatic acceptance or ritualistic antisocial practices. It’s a good way to integrate spirituality in a modern philosophical context that expects no commitment.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 04:21 AM
8

I am struggling alongside you, taking care of my wife and kids. Good luck. It’s a noble pursuit, and keeping a family afloat is nothing to feel shitty about. Having enough money to stop the propagation of problems largely caused by a lack of money is the most that money can provide in terms of happiness. I hope you can find some good art to enjoy or some cheap but fulfilling experiences to orchestrate.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 04:17 AM
-21

No hard truth allowed, only validation and victimhood
/r/MensRights21/09/22 04:10 AM
2

Naruto is one of the greatest stories ever told. The protagonist is a perfect role model for my son in many ways.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 03:28 AM
-15

You are overdosing on hypothetical scenarios.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 10:09 PM
0

There are other ways to do so that don’t involve threat of law enforcement and legal contracts from the get go. That’s douchey in my opinion and I don’t care about your assessment of my supposedly nonsensical argument, which was distilled into a straw man of all attempts to prevent theft.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:48 PM
-5

Also getting downvoted in an echo chamber doesn’t hurt. See. I am enduring it without complaining on another sub.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:39 PM
0

No. It’s a philosophy of extreme ownership that welcomes the growth that comes with adversity. Jocko Willink. It’s also a reference to the parable of the Chinese farmer: https://impossiblehq.com/well-see/ Also: Good https://g.co/kgs/LwQwuR
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:35 PM
0

That’s a straw man, and one sided.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:32 PM
-28

Good
/r/MensRights20/09/22 12:25 PM
-7

Male murderers? Yes it should. And what is the point of deciding the argument won’t be acknowledged or accepted? That’s similar to not trying to win a race because you think you won’t. It’s a solid argument, regardless of whether the vocal minority signs off on it or the mob takes it on as a chant, based on the merits of the argument in terms of logic not prediction of reaction by opposition.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:00 PM
-5

Some weird ass tribalism projected onto a clearly insane person. Not a good representation of the set of all women. Sociology here is like a hammer in heart surgery. Pretty useless. Psychology of the psychopathic individual.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:29 PM
0

He wants to kill two birds with one stone, so to speak. Being called a douche is not the worst thing to be called, and it seems appropriate in my opinion. He is asking for sympathy. He got ridiculed or dismissed or something and he needed validation. That’s douche-like too. He should do as he wants but I think that going as far as having legal contracts drawn up to lease ownership of an investment jewelry collection to a prospective girlfriend that ensures the jewelry will be returned upon termi…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 09:56 PM
2

I recognize the distinction but I don’t think it’s quite that simple or colloquially consistent. I can definitely think of situations where it is more of a biological dad and a stepfather. Also plenty of situations where a father or dad is trying not to be replaced by a stand-in with better credentials. I guess it depends on perspective and being a supplemental father figure shouldn’t be a negative criticism or competition against the biological dad or whatever you want to call them. It’s too ea…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 09:10 PM
0

It’s the using the legal system to subsidize his lack of compassionate communication skills or boundary lines.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 03:23 PM
3

Whatever works for you. It just sounds pretty lame. I am calling the women interested in the exchange you proposed shallow hoes. You are basically trying to lease some pussy, and I am just giving you an honest reaction. Maybe some women deserve that kind of treatment or proposition, but not all of them.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 07:48 PM
4

She’s 8 dude.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 07:00 PM
-2

So put it away in a better place than jewelry around the neck of a shallow ho that’s foolish enough to waste time on a man that wants to lease jewelry in exchange for access to her contractually. Good luck sir.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 06:44 PM
1

I don’t think you should give them to a woman that you don’t expect to stay with unless you are comfortable volunteering your wealth (not men’s wealth) as a traditional gift. If you are offering to lease your jewelry collection to a woman that you are in a relationship with conditionally, with the expectation that ‘when’ you are no longer together you expect them back, it doesn’t sound like you are genuinely interested in a reciprocal healthy relationship of shared resources and pooled responsib…
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:58 PM
-7

No it means you are a douche.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:30 PM
0

He should pay his rent, or they could split rent somewhere else, for a lot more money. Her boyfriend sounds like some kind of feminist.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 05:45 PM
6

Some men pay for used women’s underwear. Apparently there is a market for that.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 05:26 PM
1

Terfs have an identity too. Exclusion isn’t hate.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 03:04 PM
-2

If my wife were to cheat, how would playing the victim improve the situation? I believe extreme ownership is the best course, and that means accepting as much responsibility for the failure as possible.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:02 PM
1

That’s like saying cats don’t show affection.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:23 PM
3

I wish you the best bro.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 07:13 PM
8

The little red hen is a cautionary tale that addresses this particular moral failing. The presence of a supporting role through the process is what allows the specialization and suitability in caring for young immature humans (that women tend to have) an opportunity to thrive. Once the kids are relatively self sufficient, past early childhood dependency, the style of parenting typically exemplified in the role of the father is shown to drastically improve offspring viability and success through …
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:01 PM
1

By duped, do you mean duplicated? Got two amazing kids out of this swindling, regular sex, shared assets, house cleaning, food preparation,massage and physical therapy. I have single friends, not many female friends, but I can go out and pursue hobbies like making recording and performing music. The real kicker is I am poor and work hard but don’t have a rich family to depend on. So we share what we have. She hasn’t worked for 13 years roughly, but she took care of her grandmother and the two ki…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:41 PM
1

What dumb analogy do you need me to expand upon? How does one procreate with a car or house or parachute. Interaction with you was far more miserable than addressing some hormonal fluctuations in my wife’s mood. Good luck all the same. You might benefit from taking a hard look in the mirror. Statistical analysis is a form of tribal neuroticism that I am not going to validate you with. Take this implied criticism. After all you were the one trying to tell me that your perception is blind to my sp…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:19 PM
1

What point was left to refute. I am sorry that you are so clumsy when trying to apply sociological bullshit feminist statistical manipulation to an individual that obviously doesn’t fit your narrative.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:13 PM
1

You should grow up in the sense that you are conflating sociological statistics in a way that imposes your negative presumptuous grasp of my marriage in a rigid and false dichotomy. It’s precisely the type of behavioral comparison that my wife, who is very attractive, makes for about 5-10 day of hormonal imbalances that typically occur once a month. I laughed at the idea of being accused of being in a state of misery, because we live in the state of Missouri. I am perfectly aware of the material…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:00 PM
1

Well, I push my son, and in the moment he often acts resentful but he is one of the better players on his team and there’s a level of responsibility that goes with leadership even if you didn’t necessarily ask for it. In the moment my son might act resentful or lazily uninterested but other times he will have the maturity to say he appreciates the motivation and it’s not like he has something else to do instead of practice besides hang out or play video games. Ultimately it’s good for him to hav…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:49 AM
1

My parachute works.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:42 AM
1

Got any more dumb metaphors?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:01 AM
1

Honestly you sound kinda like her on a bad day with all your false dichotomous irrational bullshit and that is about how I would tell her if she were trying to tell me how things are. Grow up. This shit is so lame.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:00 AM
2

I would focus on things that you two could do outside of that busy schedule he has got. It’s a big decision to join the military and it’s important for you as a military professional to avoid pushing him too hard in that direction. I think it should be his decision and he should know who to go to if he has questions about that. This is my advice as far as not fighting against what they have or trying to change things up if what routine they have going is functional. Instead brainstorm ways you c…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:53 AM
1

If the hypothetical climate was ideal, somewhere with really nice weather, especially compared to alternatives, it might not be unbearable to live in a house that doesn’t have walls sometimes. Similarly why not just buy a car that runs consistently for cheaper? The only reason to accept a malfunctioning vehicle is lack of options or upward mobility. That doesn’t mean a shitty car couldn’t be tuned up and maintained creating value where none was seen by others.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:39 AM
1

She still ‘runs’ when she’s being a pain in the ass. Food still tastes good.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:34 AM
8

How about the best qualified candidates regardless of sex.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 01:52 AM
1

I know what you asked me. The analogy of paying a mortgage for a house and being married to a woman is too much of a stretch. Is there any way you could reframe the comparison more meaningfully? Too many variables. What is the local climate like at this hypothetical wife/house?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 09:05 PM
1

Houses can be replaced.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 11:28 AM
1

Yeah, we’ll cross that bridge inevitably. Bout 5-10 years out.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:51 AM
1

Why would the ratios flip post menopause?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:01 AM
1

I like the idea of it as a critique of women’s behavior. And that ties into that we need to have a better conceptualization of how we would actually want women to behave in response to this criticism. There are plenty of potentially good wives out there if you are willing to be upfront about negotiating your expectations in that type of relationship. Downvote if you need to brothers.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:51 PM
1

It’s not that bad if you know what is coming and you know that it doesn’t last and the food is delicious and that she is otherwise basically ideal.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:42 PM
0

*Missouri Lol, no but it is usually an irrational form of predictably unpredictable problem solving puzzles, muttering, dirty looks, rants that aren’t going anywhere, hypersensitivity to questions or criticism. Emotional volatility. I just weather it and hold my ground and she eventually regains her senses and apologizes if it’s necessary.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:32 PM
1

The other 20-25 she is fantastic.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:30 PM
0

My wife is still hot, she gave me two incredible children and managed to learn to cook and bake over the nearly 18 years we have been together, 13 married. She is an absolute pain in the ass for about 5-10 days a month, and I have gotten used to this pattern. She stayed home with the kids and needs to help me out financially now that they are both in school all day. I think we as men need to step up and stand our ground. I wish you all the best. Not all marriages or relationships are doomed to f…
/r/MensRights30/08/22 10:21 PM
1

Thanks man. Sometimes my insecurities about the amount of resources I bring home get to me. My son hopefully understands and feels the same.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:25 PM
1

Insurance money will never replace a caring father in your daughter’s life. I wish you the best. You aren’t alone in your struggles. Make sure you are doing what you can but also take care of your self. Can’t burn the candle at both ends and keep going.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:23 PM
2

Be your self is good advice. What kind of animation? What is your question again? Obviously being street as you say has some respectable qualities, but it’s not the case only way to be a man. I would be glad to wax philosophically further on the subject if you would be kind enough to set some parameters. Are you guys talking about female attention?
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:02 PM
11

What would be achieved by getting her to look at the data or admit to the validity of the information you are sharing..? It’s delusion by the way. Not to be combined with disillusioned.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 09:50 PM
2

This guy gets it.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:22 PM
3

I respect that.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:42 PM
3

There’s an acceptably flirtatious happy medium that this woman was clumsily overshooting by a significant margin from what it sounds like. Rather than denounce it as hypocrisy you could see it as an opportunity to polish up on male to female banter, and respond more assertively and masculine in a calm polite and gracious way. She may have dealt with a lot of that when she was more desirable, decided that she liked it and was trying to share. I think we have to hold the nuanced middle ground on t…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:32 AM
6

This guy gets it.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 11:25 PM
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If my wife cheated I would definitely reflect on how I might have fucked up. That doesn’t mean I take the blame. She won’t and hasn’t, but I don’t base our relationship on sociological statistics, and I address problems as they emerge.. Good luck to you all. Find a woman worth keeping around that likes you enough to listen to you.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 10:54 PM
1

Who cares what ‘women’ respond to? If we as men abandon facts and logic to craft emotional arguments in an attempt to appeal to our presumptuous expectations of what the set of all women are likely to respond to receptively, we are conceding the argument prematurely.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 10:37 PM
3

You should use less emotional argumentation.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 11:53 AM
2

Ask them if this means they are a Pareto-distribution enthusiast. Or maybe they are connoisseurs of the hypergamy kool-aid..
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:25 PM
1

The idea that a technically neutral word can get ascribed a negative connotation and then, to treat the application of the word with euphemistic hesitancy is some right-speak Orwellian radical feminist ideology. It’s negative connotation should remain contextual.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 12:11 PM
1

Look up the definition of you don’t believe me.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 11:51 AM
-1

Colloquially. Sexual selection is discriminating. The original definition of a word isn’t just redacted, and words aren’t unimportant.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 11:45 AM
7

Well the word discrimination doesn’t have a negative connotation according to its meaning, so much as the colloquial use does. Discrimination is also recognition and understanding of the difference between one thing and another.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 02:54 AM
2

A lot of society’s problems are indirectly related to an absence of a positive male role model especially in developing minds.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 09:56 PM
1

It’s a quote from rip van winkle that stuck for some reason.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 11:07 AM
1

Caffeine
/r/MensRights11/08/22 03:53 AM
1

This sounds eerily like feminism.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:43 AM
1

A termagant woman is a mixed blessing.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 10:09 PM
0

He reminds me of milo.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:52 PM
0

I figured you would have more stats to pin on me to prove how typical you would like to characterize me as because I didn’t cheer you on while you went on your soapbox. Not compelling. Yawn.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:51 PM
1

It’s more complicated than you seem to think. https://youtu.be/33m9pN_vAI4
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:49 PM
1

You pronounce human ‘you-man’ ? Eww.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:48 PM
1

You haven’t explained why some men have precum with active sperm while some don’t. I offered an anecdotal based possible explanation as to why I haven’t needed birth control apart from withdrawal. You are trying to pass off a misstated statistic from a small scale study as an overarching anatomical fact that was never explicitly stated in the way you seem to have interpreted the data.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:30 PM
1

I didn’t. It’s been 18 years with the same woman.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:27 PM
1

How can you say it has nothing to do with health. They are absolutely correlated.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:23 PM
0

You are referring to the set of all men, but there’s no study that confirms what you assert about me. How long do my erections last? How quickly can I resume after initial ejaculation? How effective is saliva as a lubricant? You have all the answers, so tell me how things are based on your generalizations and expectations based off of averages. I am not average. Not special. But not reflective of statistical norms.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:22 PM
1

You got the results flipped. Most men don’t have sperm in their precum, possibly due to overproduction and underuse or average prostate functionality that allows leakage in combination with an inability to either feel imminent ejaculation in time to pull out or an inability to pull out at that moment, possibly. Fuck off.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:17 PM
1

Sure, there aren’t as many as in new semen, but a 2011 studyTrusted Source showed that nearly 37 percent of pre-cum samples collected from the study’s 27 subjects’ contained a significant amount of healthy, motile sperm 27 subjects huh. Ok so you know everything about all men now huh? That’s not what was claimed.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:10 PM
1

It doesn’t have ‘nothing’ to do with health. You are an idiot that speaks in broad generalizations. Have a good day. I am glad that you have your grasp of science to cling to for comfort.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:06 PM
1

Maybe I stop sperm from mixing with precum with the ole prostate. It’s not roulette either. My kids are awesome. One on purpose, one not exactly and thousands of opportunities.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 08:58 PM
1

I don’t have sperm in my precum because of prostate health and awareness then. Whatever you say. I am an anomaly in many ways. An outlier, and not everyone fits into the expectations of the average human. How do you know I am not ‘special’ as you say? You don’t.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 08:55 PM
0

That’s ridiculous. You have an orthodox understanding of anatomical variance, and you can’t isolate control variables that meaningfully dismiss my anecdotal experience. That’s not how science works at a fundamental level. I admit that it could be the case as you say, but you won’t accept that your perspective is based on averages and generalizations, built on presumptive expectation. It’s entirely possible that I am able to voluntarily control my dick and prostrate beyond the low ball expectatio…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 08:43 PM
0

Some monks can slow their heart beat down. Wim Hoff doesn’t fit models for what to expect from an average human and you are a proponent of a theory not a fact.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 07:16 PM
0

How do you know that it’s not a different variable. Maybe I have higher strength or control of my prostate, or maybe I would be viewed as a negligible anomaly by the study you cite that I have no interest in reading.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 07:14 PM
1

That’s silly. Generalizations don’t necessarily apply to individual scenarios. There is certainly an aspect of awareness involved that varies from man to man. If you can’t accept that possibility this is an exercise in futility. That theory is certainly possible but not the only possibility.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 06:54 PM
1

Self and bodily awareness are not evenly distributed. Worked reliably well for me.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 06:46 PM
2

Don’t enter a dependency relationship thinking that your provisions entitle you to love and sex. Hiring her with assumptions about a conditional relationship and an established hierarchical imbalance as the foundation is an abuse of your capacity to hire the appropriate applicant. You sound like you were closer to actual growth when you were beating yourself up for basically being a self righteous dick. You should be a self righteous dick to defend your self from attack but you misread the situa…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 11:41 AM
-6

Good pullout game is free.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 11:24 AM
1

Postpartum depression is something that might be worth researching, as I have gone through similar difficulties and ups and downs in my marriage. It might be worth fighting for the person that you thought she was before you completely give up. Maybe for the kids, maybe for her or maybe for you. I will likely be downvoted to hell for trying to offer an alternative perspective, and I apologize if my attempt at perhaps overly optimistic advice comes across as disingenuous or insulting. Wishing you …
/r/MensRights09/08/22 01:18 AM
-2

Deal with it. And probably not like this. I have no idea who you are or what you are talking about but I feel a random unexplainable inclination to find that exact post in your history and downvote it as punishment for your whininess. I won’t, out of self control, but I will say grow a pair and recognize the way that the app functions allows this type of insight into a fellow Redditors history. Sorry.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:52 AM
-2

Tell her kids.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:17 PM
-2

Cause she throws things and knocked something over? Pfff. Ok.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:03 PM
-1

That’s a lot of bias in the filter, but I salute you and your struggle.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 06:57 PM
-3

If you say so.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 06:18 PM
-7

That’s not what I said ‘bud.’ I said to try refusing to do your job until someone else does theirs at work and see how it plays out in the world. I didn’t say any of the other bullshit.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:20 PM
-7

Try that at a job then.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:54 PM
-6

It sounds like you are choosing to be part of the problem that you are pointing out. Pick a side. Yes, in answer to your first question. Saying that you won’t do your job until someone else does theirs is weak.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:23 PM
-20

Worse.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:59 PM
-40

That it’s best for the kids to mend the situation and seek help and therapy, intervention or mediation before defining it as abusive and concluding that divorce would not open the door to potentially worse outcomes. Nothing against anyone who is living with their decision to end a marriage, but to advise another to do so with so little to go on is a disingenuous virtue signal to the circle jerk, and you should be pushed back against for failing to temper a lack of concern for nuance.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:36 PM
-19

This ^ without the ‘and’
/r/MensRights06/08/22 11:48 AM
-62

Tone deaf advice.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 11:44 AM
12

Knowing who started it is not a solution, and this post refers to a pattern of behavior, not an instance. Taking verbal abuse from a spouse and not offering any rebuttal or dismissive retort or reciprocal verbal abuse, the relationship becomes unbalanced. It’s understandable to respond to verbal abuse with the equivalent rather than carry resentment or to be seen as feckless toothless weak and ineffective by your spouse if she is testing thusly. Trials and tribulations, but at the end of the day…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 11:42 AM
2

I say what needs to be said abandon the moral high ground, resist being baited into violence and say shit I will eventually apologize for saying that I don’t necessarily mean as reciprocity. I don’t apologize for saying what needs to be said and my ability to think and reason clearly under duress trumps her anger high until she either backs down or I take a nap and try again. This way I don’t walk around with resentment, and things get sorted out. Seems to be a monthly occurrence.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 11:31 AM
2

Ugh. 6/10
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:50 PM
1

A father figure as it relates to an individual, not a social concept. That is the contextual use of the word that I intended.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 07:37 AM
2

My wife uses me. I am poor, but she hasn’t had to work for 13 years. She cooks and cleans and takes care of the kids and I would say at roughly 3-5/week average over 18 years I have been living the dream compared to some guys. It’s a constant puzzle.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 04:34 AM
-12

You sound bitter. There are plenty of women worth protecting from deranged delusional narcissistic people like that dude. Either care what people think or don’t, because it won’t change their minds.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 04:29 AM
13

Pathological wokeness flourishes in the absence of a strong positive male role model patriarchal figure.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 04:20 AM
2

It’s not selfish. We are motivated to please as well as seek. Some negotiation should be possible. Somewhere between twice a day and not never. It is beneficial. Good luck.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 04:16 AM
3

The world is my gym.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 04:11 AM
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