BlackBeltDater Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Rejection is just soul-crushing for me Every guy that I know that is slaying women left and right gets rejected, they don't care because they know 1 girl will say yes. You either have unrealistic expectations of picking up women (expecting to go 10/10 with no rejections) or you are picking up girls way out of your range for a newb. Date within your range, build a harem and then go for the hot chicks. You'll find that a lot of "hot" chicks have stinky vag's, look fatter naked, and look terrible without make up.	/r/seduction	11/01/20 12:15 AM
2	Stephiscold DATING COACH REVIEW Looks Matter Most? -TSLMiami Works in theory but won't work for guys who have no experience, are very sensitive, don't have past experiences references and are looking to get that "I don't care" mindset. If you are fat, no money and dress poorly with no social circle, this advice can make things worse.	/r/seduction	10/01/20 04:09 AM
2	What’s some real 100% authentic advice for learning game. yup and there you have it. Skepticism, snide remarks, know it all attitude when people are trying to help, no wonder you can't get women. For the record, I wear walmart white v neck t shirts with shorts. I'm that guy you're talking about. It's not what you wear but how you wear it but you should know that since you are an expert in style after watching a few youtube videos. Good luck bud...	/r/seduction	09/01/20 08:34 PM
1	Approaching at the gym ? Go for it but I would not be direct. Go indirect because chances are they will see you again.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 08:19 PM
1	What’s some real 100% authentic advice for learning game. Post a pic so we can assess your style. We are trying to help. I find it unusual for a guy who was over 300 lbs to be all of a sudden fashionable and know what "good style" looks like. People think they look good when really they don't...Dressing well and in style is something I learned in high school. Guys who dressed like shit back in day still dress like garbage.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 08:17 PM
1	What’s some real 100% authentic advice for learning game. First you say you are ugly but what effort did you put into your looks? I think you are just being lazy and don't want to put any effort by the sound of your looks. When was the last time someone complimented you on your style? Are you at 10% body fat? Do you have hobbies? Do you have a strong network of friends you can hang out with? Do you have a career? Girls look at the entire picture but at the same time it sounds like you don't have any effort into self improvement but just call yourself u…	/r/seduction	08/01/20 06:44 PM
1	Approaching at the gym ? Only approach if you are tall, less than %10 body fat and good looking. If you are average, don't bother unless she is average looking as well.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 04:40 PM
1	Approaching at the gym ? This is half true. Girls don't want to be approached by fat ugly dorks while they work out. If Brad Pitt asked them out on a date, they would leave the gym right away. My friend has no problem picking up girls at the gym since he is tall and good looking.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 04:38 PM
2	What are good goals to set? Build a social network instead of being the creepy PUA guy on campus. Join student groups, play sports, join committees with hot chicks in them, etc.. Only until you have a solid network of bros and chicks would I start picking up other chicks since now you have social status.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 04:38 AM
3	Has anyone done a workshop with The Natural Lifestyles? That's a red flag right there. All of these bootcamps are a joke and a waste of time. One night hanging out with a dude won't cement habits that will last a lifetime. It's like paying $2000 for a work out session with The Rock, and expecting to be big as him in a couple of months. You are better off investing your time building a social network and finding a reliable wingman to go out with every weekend. These companies are scammers preying on vulnerable guys needing help.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 03:51 AM
3	How do I find out what I want from "the game"? Construct a list of what you want in a girl (non-looks wise) and then go out and look for that girl who has those qualities that you are looking for. The only 1 requirement is that SHE must be reciprocal in her attraction to you. If she does not meet these requirements, like an expert salesman, you must move her out of YOUR sales funnel. She is a non-buyer. To get over your approach anxiety, you have to understand that rejection, embarrassment and getting blown out is part of the game. It's like…	/r/seduction	08/01/20 03:33 AM
2	Seriously how do you build confidence and get a girlfriend Your problem is that you don't love yourself enough. If you don't love yourself, how can any girl love you? Your self identity will always come out in the form of body language, vocal tonality and responses to "shit tests". Right now, you think very poorly of yourself and girls can sense that. Your mind set is in a "Take first" mentatlity when it should be giving. You compare yourself to others and use your friends as a measuring stick of success which is a recipe for disaster. There will always…	/r/seduction	09/07/17 10:05 PM