BlackCoffee88 Archive

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3	How do you guys stay positive and avoid things like insecurity and self-esteem issues in the face of rejection? Think about the salesman that get constantly rejected at the mall. Do they cry? NO. But they still have a performance based job to do. Otherwise they won't get paid. Now replace paid with laid, that's your job. Continue with the lead generation and improve your performance. Its not about staying positive, its about not failing your ancestors. Good luck	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/24 01:59 PM
1	Ditch the Glasses If you are out trying to get women, ditch the glasses. I don’t care what outlier opinion you have. Unless if you are really good looking, glasses will signal that you are a geek and a little bitch, even if you think you are not. Is this the way you want to be perceived? Do you think women are out there wanting to be approached by dorks? Gtfo here with that shit.	/r/askTRP	31/05/21 04:10 PM
1	Getting over approach anxiety? Do you have approach anxiety when you go buy shoes? They either have the shoes you want or they don’t. And if they don’t have the shoes you go to another store to see if they have them. Same shit. Stop thinking too much into it, as much as people want to deny that they are validation seeking, at their core they still seek validation which is why they can’t ever get over it, no matter what self help crap they tell themselves	/r/askTRP	27/05/21 06:52 PM
2	Found out my gf had a threesome with two dudes and it's making me sick Some men will be comfortable with it because their intention is to exploit her for fun and games. Their intention is not to LTR her. Other men will not be comfortable and leave her for something more pure. You obviously are not comfortable. So you know what you need to do. There’s no need to go on the internet seeking permission to let this slide.	/r/askTRP	18/03/21 07:58 PM
1	Dentist told me to consider braces at the age of 35. Not confident about it. Just do it dude. Good teeth is a sign of health and health is a sign of wealth.	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 10:16 PM
1	Social Anxiety and Drinking Don’t think of it as being an imposter. Think of it as you are putting on a performance to win the game. All you have to do is 1. Keep asking questions to keep her talking 2. Look like you are interested in what she’s saying. All this conscious effort to be a confident fun guy is bullshit is wasted energy. You can be super chill and just keep doing 1 and 2.	/r/askTRP	08/03/21 08:21 PM
2	What do y’all think about skipping leg days? Legs boost your T more than any other muscle group. You are just slowing your upper body gains not doing legs. You don’t need to be in a squat rack with huge weights and double spotters to do legs. This lack of work in one area of your life will spread to other areas and you will be exposed for your deficiencies when the time comes for you to perform.	/r/askTRP	08/03/21 02:36 AM
20	Why do girls do this? Just rub it in their face. if you see their soul burn, you just laugh. If you try to comfort them you lose. They are testing to see if they still got you.	/r/askTRP	07/03/21 03:57 AM
2	Approached this girl. Great chemistry, but has a boyfriend. [Semi-oneitis post] She gave you the IG because she wants to increase followers for her account. If she really liked you she would’ve gave the number and made it easy for you. If she really liked you she would’ve chose to be single at that moment and never mentioned the boyfriend. If you were so high value male and a god given gift to her life why would she fuck up that opportunity by mentioning the bf. Bro think. You are here speculating about her. I can already tell you will go through an obstacle course for her …	/r/askTRP	06/03/21 08:40 PM
1	Need some advice on how to handle first date in years You have to go and take the L. That's how you learn.	/r/askTRP	05/03/21 04:21 PM
14	What advice would you give to someone who is nice by default? Just keep doing what you're doing, take some L's and adjust. Gorilla pimp style is not for you. You will learn where nice does NOT benefit you.	/r/askTRP	05/03/21 08:59 AM
1	I fucked up - GF saw dating apps You had the opportunities to turn this around but you were not prepared. There are ways to salvage this but she will hound you about this every time she feels insecure. It will be stressful for you. Let her go.	/r/askTRP	04/03/21 10:13 PM
1	Getting over her while having no options? Don’t ever look back, look forward. The problem is you keep looking back. Getting rid of something that doesn’t serve you and never looking back is a powerful skill to master. People who don’t have this skill become hoarders, drug addicts, porn watchers, emotional simps.	/r/askTRP	26/02/21 07:05 AM
1	How do you not let shit like this get to you? Dude that shit happens all the time. Hot one day, cold the next. Her feelings change like the wind. You don’t let this get to you by realizing that your situation is not unique. Accept this is all part of the game. When you go to the steakhouse to have a nice steak you enjoy the experience while it lasts because it’s not forever. Same shit for women.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 06:10 PM
18	Harassment issues at LTR’s job A woman has ultimate power in the workplace regarding harassment. She is not leveraging her power properly. She’s sandbagging. I’d break up with her for holding back on her power and putting this on you causing you stress.	/r/askTRP	20/02/21 04:01 AM
2	How can I overcome loneliness? No GF and no true friends Focus on becoming a millionaire, surround yourself with people on the same path. Self improve. You can’t get girls or friends if you ain’t shit. Be someone	/r/askTRP	20/02/21 03:56 AM
44	If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it? I have friends that don’t advance in life. I can’t do nothing about that. Trying to help them actually repels them. Just accept them for who they are, but expand your network elsewhere. Increase your value to the highest degree and low key flex on them. Then they will be curious as to how you got so successful. Then they’ll realize you left them so far behind long ago and they will start to question their own value.	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 05:22 AM
49	If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it? When you are too concerned about other people’s business you go into compare mode and you start to question your own value. You are unsatisfied because right now you are questioning your own value.	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 05:08 AM
103	If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it? You are all conflicted in all the wrong ways. Other people’s success or failures are not your concern. Sounds like you aren’t in the status bracket you truly want to be in and you aren’t respected and appreciated in the way you would like to be. If you were, you wouldn’t be writing this on Reddit. My advice is focus on yourself and your network and reassess when you are a millionaire. All this online squabbling will provide you no catharsis. You should look at it as a privilege to even sit there…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 04:46 AM
3	How do I deal with my severe envy/jealousy? Keep telling yourself that their activities are not your concern. I know where you are coming from. You need to mute or unfollow everything and everyone that annoys you in your social media feeds. All my social media feeds are hot chicks, fast cars, money, fashion etc. I unfollowed everyone who annoyed me even in the slightest. I didn’t defriend them I just unfollow or mute. Do this to focus on yourself bro. Control your input to control your output. Once you become a rich then you can flex on a…	/r/askTRP	04/02/21 07:16 AM
1	The amount of betas nowadays pisses me off Their struggles are not your concern. Let them be blue. It makes it easier for you to be top 20%. Do not discuss RP things with or around blue people, just blend in. Talk normie shit with them but let your results speak for themselves. Don’t talk about it, be about it.	/r/askTRP	04/02/21 06:32 AM
1	How do you accept your ex/oneitis is getting rammed by another man? She doesn’t care about you so why should you care about her? Logic	/r/askTRP	02/02/21 01:31 AM
2	How to approach TRP while dealing with Autism Autistic people can approach TRP by knowing the rules to the game and play it properly. You should know the things you should and should not do. Know the way you are perceived. If you act like a dork you will be perceived like one.	/r/askTRP	01/02/21 11:30 AM
2	got dumped by ltr, she thought i was cheating had no proof and now i'm grieving. how do you get past this quickly? Find solace in realizing your situation is not unique, many men have gone through similar or worse situation than yours. Also find solace in the temporary nature women can be. Also realize this pain hurts because it’s probably the worse emotional pain you’ve ever felt. Imagine if you were exposed to this often, you just become cold about it. You would be able to pick yourself and move forward more easily. Oxytocin is slowly leaving your body each day. Face the pain. Stack more good memories and …	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 10:00 PM
1	How to make a home workout effective? Think of it like it’s prison. Penitentiary shit. Getting swole with Limited equipment Lots of Reps and sets.	/r/askTRP	13/01/21 07:29 AM
2	How to stay focused in life knowing I have an extremely painful surgery coming up? I had adult tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy at 30 years old for sleep apnea. I was in the position you are in, all worried, anxious, reading online reviews. After going through it I can honestly say It is just sore throat and throbbing pain. It will hurt to swallow but Not something that will make you cry and scream. There will be a max pain day usually about a week in, it’s like someone turned up the pain volume knob. Manage it with the prescription liquid narcotics and baby it with ice cream. …	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 07:12 PM
2	How to react in this kind of situation when you are being verbally assaulted? He did great man. At work, let them say whatever they want, realize they are crazy and it is their nature to act crazy. Just be cool. You don’t get mad at a baby for crying, you don’t get mad at a dog for barking, it’s their nature. Same shit. You don’t want to fuck up your cash flow over some person with no respect. Realize their life is fucked up more than you can ever imagine. Feel sorry for them. If you beat his ass then get fired, then what? how you gonna pay the bills? How you gonna eat? O…	/r/askTRP	09/01/21 01:43 PM
5	Potentially F’d up with girl at work. It never happened. Presumably you went and fucked another girl. Fuck what she thinks. For her, it was a discomforting moment. For you, it was just Tuesday. This is how you must think.	/r/askTRP	07/01/21 11:11 PM
8	Do you ever red pill your dad? As a red pill dude you have to realize that not everyone thinks like you. People want different shit in life. You don’t go around sneak dissing people just because you discovered something on the internet. The man put a roof over your head and worked long hours at work so he can feed you and buy you the shit you need so that years later you can hop on Reddit and diss your dad. What a disgrace to your family.	/r/askTRP	06/01/21 03:06 PM
4	does anyone have fitxfearless cracking the dating code? He’s just another dude like many others speaking the same principles just different style. You choose which style fits you best.	/r/askTRP	03/01/21 03:22 AM
2	Why do girls' feelings seem to change so quickly? You should know better that this is how the game is played. What’s going on in your mind is not going on in hers. Let her go. If you want to mitigate this she has to like you more than any other guy she is talking to. Based on her actions you are not at the top of her list. Enjoy it while it lasts and keep working on yourself.	/r/askTRP	01/01/21 06:52 AM
42	How to decline sex with LTR You already shot your self in the foot cohabitating. Now she knows the times you are absolutely free. Now you must fuck her. If you don’t she will find someone who will fuck her, because she feels undesirable to you. To put this off you have to be truly hustling and bringing in the bread, not just leisurely reading some book or curling dumbbells. It’s either you fuck her or you deal with damage controlling the bullshit, you choose.	/r/askTRP	21/12/20 07:12 AM
23	I Need redpill friends. You trying to red pill your friends is like you saying to a Muslim it’s ok to eat pork. It’s just not in their belief system man. Don’t even try. Blend in with the clown world people. Don’t talk about it, be about it. Being about it is the best way to red pill your friends. The results will speak for themselves and your friends may ask questions as to how you got these results. That’s how you red pill them. If you talk about it by giving unsolicited advice you will be immediately labeled a crazy…	/r/askTRP	13/12/20 04:12 PM
3	How do I prevent myself from catching feelings? Catch all the feels, if you can tank the heart break then it’s all good.	/r/askTRP	23/11/20 08:51 PM
7	How do I prevent myself from catching feelings? How about you just go through it, feel super vulnerable, feel the way you feel, catch all the feels. Then watch her toss you to the side of the road when you’re time is up. Watch yourself beg for her to take you back. She refuses, she thinks you’re too boring, too predictable. You are of no use to her anymore. Do you want this scenario to play out? You are already in a self imposed scarcity therefore you are susceptible to “catch feelings” etc. You need to be aware what women are capable of. You…	/r/askTRP	23/11/20 08:29 PM
2	Where should a self assured, confident, respectful guy look for a woman who appreciates those qualities? Just enjoy your time with them and stop expecting so much from them. If you aren’t afraid of losing her then she has no frame. If you want a good woman you must build her. All the trad villages have been wiped out.	/r/askTRP	23/11/20 02:39 PM
8	Girl flaked last night. Pissed tf off. What should I do? Flaking is apart of female nature. Assume that the highest bidder won the auction. You can’t get mad at a dog for barking. You can’t get mad at a baby for crying. Therefore you can’t get mad at a woman for flaking. It’s their nature G. This is the way they play the game. Yea it’s lame as fuck, but you gonna have to get back into your lobby and search for a new match. You can’t be sending salty hate messages, you can’t report the player in hopes they get banned from the game. All you can do is se…	/r/askTRP	22/11/20 06:01 PM
2	Anxiety Stay so busy as fuck that you don’t have time for anxiety.	/r/askTRP	22/11/20 02:03 AM
6	Positive and beaming or cold “alpha” Strong silent dude that doesn’t talk is boring as shit. Acting hard and closed off never got chicks. Women want your positive emotions not your cold and negative ones. It’s better to be the positive guy but have a high self respect for yourself that you will withdraw attention ruthlessly if the woman will disrespect. That’s where the cold side comes in. This is to make the girl try to change her behavior to get your positive energy back. Do you know what PIMP means? It means positive Intellectua…	/r/askTRP	21/11/20 01:36 PM
1	How do I make up my lost years? (v2) Realize you aren’t the only one going this. Man some people don’t get their shit together til they are 32. Immigrants from other countries come here in their 30s with nothing and they are able to build a good living here. The first step is realizing you fucked up. The second step is lighting a fire under your ass to get some solid income going.	/r/askTRP	20/11/20 01:40 PM
6	How to prevent relapsing to a BP simp? Part of being a red pill man is having the strength to hold the line. Your exes don’t respect you as they once did. Have some self respect, don’t look at their shit and hold the fuckin line. You cannot be caving in to these memories that make your soul burn. They don’t give a fuck about you anymore. You are fantasizing about the memories you once had while she is sucking someone else’s dick. Realize how how weak and ridiculous that sounds. Have strength and honor g. One technique i suggest is to…	/r/askTRP	20/11/20 05:38 AM
2	35 Year Old Living Above Mom? Need Input. Fuck what these hoes think. Do what is financially sound in your mind. Do not take a huge financial hit with your living situation trying to impress the girls. Yes you will leave some pussy on the table but not ALL. Truth is, if a girl really likes you she will find a way to fuck you no matter what the circumstance.	/r/askTRP	16/11/20 09:05 PM
1	Nightclub game? Success in nightclubs is easiest when you are astonishing in any aspect of LMS. If you are the average joe it is a shit show. Ask yourself why are you in the club to get chicks if you aren’t shit? Be astonishing because you are competing for chicks with the guys popping bottles in a section, the aesthetic fuck boys, the executives in suits, business owners, high level individuals, elite level players, the guys who skip the line because they know the promotion or staff, the guys with their super …	/r/askTRP	16/11/20 03:21 PM
4	How do you tolerate the absurd amount of simp music on the radio/charts these days? Be glad that this kind of music makes it that much easier for you to be top 20%.	/r/askTRP	16/11/20 03:11 PM
1	Is 30 years too late to start over? A lot of people fuck up so bad in their 20s and get their shit together in their 30s. You are right on schedule	/r/askTRP	16/11/20 02:51 PM
3	Is Trump really an alpha? Anyone in top positions have some sort of alpha traits because that’s what it took to get them there. For example, top surgeons are arrogant as fuck, but that’s why they are the best because they believe they are the best.	/r/askTRP	14/11/20 06:22 PM
1	How to deal with a girl who leads you on all night but won’t fuck? Man how about when y’all make out at home you grab her hand and put it on your crotch area. If she does not wanna massage it at all it’s time for you to pull back on her ass and make her soul ache of the thought of you replacing her.	/r/askTRP	14/11/20 06:15 PM
2	Women logic i can't understand? Bro stop trying to understand what they say. Read between the lines. Their nature is hypergamy. They cannot afford to tell you the truth. They don’t know honor like a man does in telling the truth. Every girl, slut or not wants to look like a good girl on the surface to protect their reputation. Do you think saying she wants to hook up outright will yield her a high quality man? Wake up bro. Be a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Gentleman in the outside, savage on the inside.	/r/askTRP	13/11/20 03:15 PM
7	How can I break up with my gf without feeling bad? Break up and tell her exactly what you wrote here and say this situation is not working for you. None of this “it’s not you, it’s me” movie vague cliche bullshit. Tell her exactly why you are doing this. She must know why she fucked up. Maybe then it will light a fire under her ass, but you must move on.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 08:42 PM
1	How do I kill the beta? Consume content, apply the content, every day. Identify beta shit, stop doing it.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 02:23 AM
7	How to deal with negative thoughts that come and go? You can’t control your thoughts. You can only choose to identify with it or not. Everyone thinks of some fucked up shit all the time. You are not your thoughts you are your actions.	/r/askTRP	31/10/20 06:27 PM
6	My ego is shot and I can’t seem to get out of the anger phase You can’t control the world around you bro. Just be different than the typical simping dude. Also now you know how women work, now you should never lose. All that anger bullshit is you holding on to a dream that was shattered. You can never get women if you are angry at them. And never try to red pill a woman by explaining their fuckery to them. Anger repels. Would you get angry at a baby because it’s crying? would you get angry at a dog for barking? No it’s their nature. Just like hypergamy is …	/r/askTRP	30/10/20 07:13 AM
2	Does dick size really matter? Dude u just have to own it. Have a got laid don’t care mentality. Fuck what she thinks, get yours.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 12:45 AM
6	Muscular vs lean and lanky - where have you had the most success? Either works just as long as it’s astonishing	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 09:26 PM
1	Red Pillers who are 30+ if you were in your 20's what would you do differently? Save your money substantially more than you spend it. Read up about personal finance and investing. Think twice about yolo spending. Every time you splurge on some bullshit it could’ve been an investment that prints money. Aside from your emergency savings, your money ain’t doing shit in a savings account. Learn how to make money work for you so In the future you don’t have to work. Also, too much hard partying and raging with drugs and alcohol is accumulative wear and tear on your body. You wil…	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 02:09 PM
3	22M - How do I turn my social life around? Identify all the traits you don’t want to have as mental illness. Identify all the traits you want to have as normal. Take the risk, you won’t die trying to start conversations with people and applying what you’ve learned. Even if it’s awkward at first you still didn’t die. A mans life is literally going through a bunch of shit and adapting for success. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Feeling insecure, inadequate, low self esteem is literally what most females go through. Do not…	/r/askTRP	22/10/20 03:28 AM
5	Don't shit where you eat You're lucky your dad is the boss, otherwise she couldve had you sacked if she ever felt betrayed by you in anyway	/r/askTRP	28/09/20 10:37 PM
13	Approach Anxiety is ruining my life Bro... you need to be able to accept no for an answer. This will set you free. All the self-help and mind fuckery motivation wont work. Go in, run the game, she says no, move on. Be like an algorithm workin tons of volume, stop trying to snipe girls.	/r/askTRP	10/08/20 03:21 AM
4	2 years later I can’t get over her. What are the remedies? You can’t get over the idea of her, not actually her. Who she is now is something you don’t want to be with. Anyone is better than her at this point because she ain’t shit if she ain’t loyal. Watch how you spend your energy, don’t waste your energy on the thought of a girl who ain’t down for you.	/r/askTRP	07/08/20 02:58 PM
1	Question for those who quit drinking/partying/drugs? Realize there are girls who are not even exposed to partying, bars, clubs and thottery. They like to stay home and read books and bake cookies and shit. Try and fuck with those girls.	/r/askTRP	09/07/20 10:44 PM
3	Question for those who quit drinking/partying/drugs? Replace drinking with hustling and working on yourself. Have more sex not more beers. Realize there are people out there who don’t even live the party degenerate lifestyle every weekend and are so successful and enjoy life. As years go by partying you have nothing to show for it in the future. Stop hanging out with degenerate people. Time is precious as fuck, don’t waste it doing stupid shit. Realize your enemies are getting stronger and richer than you. They are fucking more bitches than you. A…	/r/askTRP	09/07/20 10:15 PM
2	Daygame - cold approaches, how to create context? Think of this cold approaching shit like joining lobbies in a video game. You enter a lobby and the game starts if both players "ready up." Sometimes the other player doesn't ready up, or they just leave the lobby. Do you get butthurt by this? hell no, you just find another lobby with a player willing to "ready up" and play the game. The object of this game is to win the frame battle. She either submits or she quits. Next time you see an IOI, think "Here comes a new challenger." After the open…	/r/askTRP	21/06/19 07:58 PM
2	Why do women lie about not liking a fit man? Women fear social ostracization. Because of this, they never speak of anything unflattering to themselves. Whatever they say is whatever idealized version they want to be. It's all bullshit lies and flattery. As a red pill man, just be aware of this, but do not become bitter.	/r/askTRP	14/05/19 11:31 PM
6	Should I read The Game by Neil Strauss? NO	/r/askTRP	27/04/19 10:51 PM
1	Dudes with acne or shitty skin No cream or face wash is gonna solve your problems, the problems start from inside your body. Stop eating starchy carbs and sugar, go cold turkey. I was a severe cystic acne sufferer for years, once i went KETO it cleared up for good. The creams just help on the surface, the problem is actually INSIDE. STOP eating or drinking SUGAR. Other than that if you go to the derm they will most likely put you on tretinoin cream, this will bring the new skin out when you finally stopped the problem from th…	/r/askTRP	27/04/19 10:45 PM
2	Live In LTR - Relationship coming to an end I was in a similar situation. This relationship cannot recover. You can't dread someone when you are passed the point of no return. Desire and respect already lost.	/r/askTRP	15/04/19 11:30 AM
1	What would you tell your 21 year old self? Low spf will let some rays thru if you desire a tan but you won’t get burnt. I’m not here to say tanning is ok or not ok just protect yourself from sun damage bro.	/r/askTRP	18/03/19 05:26 AM
1	What would you tell your 21 year old self? What I say has nuance. You can get a tan if you want with low SPF sunscreen. I am talking about day to day sun beating on you with no protection whatsoever, this will age you fast.	/r/askTRP	18/03/19 04:14 AM
1	What would you tell your 21 year old self? Both man. The sun ages you and gives you lines. Acne and the scars it leaves behind accumulate little by little. By 30 your pores will show more than they did at 20. It’s all just minimizing the wear and tear on your body preserving looks smv as much as possible.	/r/askTRP	18/03/19 01:53 AM
2	What would you tell your 21 year old self? It’s mostly for anti-aging and preserving youthful appearance. I’m in my 30s and I would tell my 21 yr old self to preserve as much as possible	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 10:12 PM
4	What would you tell your 21 year old self? To live a life on your terms. Minimize distractions in life. If your phone is constantly dinging and you keep checking it every time that means you are less present to the moment, you are just present for the next notification. Slave to your phone.	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 08:07 PM
91	What would you tell your 21 year old self? Stop spending money on bullshit. Be more skillful in saving money. Don’t stop advancing career goals. Don’t wear trendy clothes that will go out of style. Don’t go out to solely to chase women. Go out to enjoy yourself first and take the opportunities as they present themselves. Lift consistently. Stay on top of your health by yearly doctor and dentist check up. Abstain from eating sugar and processed foods. Take better care of your skin. Wear sunscreen when out in the sun. Don’t do hard drugs. …	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 04:31 AM
1	Mindblown: My girlfriend just confirmed TRP to me. I feel your pain I’ve been there. Stop losing frame. Hold on to it for dear life. You’ve seen it before your very eyes that blue pill shit doesn’t work. You thought she might be an exception. Now you know female nature. Regain frame if you can otherwise you know what this subreddit will tell you, next	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/19 07:50 AM
9	Ex is now engaged. How do I get my mind right? This is not a race as to who gets married and beats life first. Being married doesn't even gaurantee you a happy life. Get your mind right by reframing. Say "glad it wasnt me, i deserve someone so much better." Be OK with being alone. Being alone is better than sharing a life of misery with a shitty partner.	/r/askTRP	03/03/19 01:46 AM
3	Literally what do you talk about with girls/people? It's basic ass questions and you make them elaborate on it. This is not complicated. After you compliment and get their name it can be so basic after. Where are you from? How did you like it there? Do you think I would like it there? What do you do? How long have you been doing that? Why did you choose to do that? How old are you? Are these your friends? How do you all know eachother? Just keep making them talk. The more you make them talk the time spent talking is interpreted as bonding. Once y…	/r/askTRP	20/02/19 12:08 AM
4	What is the best quote you have deducted from the redpill experience ? Be selfish (mental point of origin)	/r/askTRP	04/02/19 11:45 AM
0	What are your thoughts on alpha male strategies? Approved	/r/askTRP	04/02/19 07:46 AM
3	I'm done and tired of being scared all the time. You suffer more in your mind than in reality. Fix your mind.	/r/askTRP	29/01/19 10:52 PM
3	Coming out of monk mode; any particular advice? Start actively looking for ioi’s and do not back down when u see them	/r/askTRP	29/01/19 10:39 PM
9	What to talk about at bars/parties Ask the basic questions but you need to overlay with teasing. Teasing is hard to simply explain. But you inject some volatility in the normal conversation to make her react. When she keeps trying to qualify herself to you she subconsciously thinks your someone of value. If you got basic conversation down then you need to figure out teasing. There is so many angles to this I could write a novel. Beware when you tease, shit tests will come your way, be prepared to counter with agree and amplify. I…	/r/askTRP	26/01/19 02:35 AM
11	Does losing weight actually help get women? Losing weight just puts you in a better position to game. In order to game you need to pass the minimum attraction threshold for the girl. If you lose weight you pass more girls threshold thus increasing your potential dating pool therefore putting you in a better position to game. Don’t let yourself go bro.	/r/askTRP	18/01/19 06:45 AM
3	I’m in nursing school and there are lots of hotties around. Plate or not to plate? Work has HR, nursing school has the department of nursing. Dick wisely. I’m an RN myself. This is your future, shit ain’t easy. Your full brain power needs to be on conquering this shit, Nursing school gets harder every year. They keep adding all this testing shit. Chasing ass here might make you lose focus on your studies and miss test questions you otherwise would’ve got right because you were too busy chasing ass. I’ve seen people get kicked out of nursing school for venting stress and talkin…	/r/askTRP	18/01/19 06:14 AM
11	How to overcome Mateguarding & Jealousy in an LTR? If you have only one dollar you care about it so much. If you have 100 dollars you won’t care about one dollar falling out of your pocket. Got this from Tate. The lesson is in short is abundance mentality. You should be able to lose that dollar knowing you got 99 more. This is hard to mentally realize but you need to actually make it reality by putting in the work by numberfarming, platespinning etc. When u feel mateguarding behavior coming on you know it’s bad for you. Repress acting out, withd…	/r/askTRP	18/01/19 01:15 AM
20	Ltr is asking if a guy can give her personal training at the gym No respect. No attention.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 05:39 AM
2	Social media has been said to cause depression, low self esteem and anxiety, so why do girls still crave validation from it? Then that shows that men use it as a tool for a means to an end. Women use it to validate their SMV, self worth, self esteem. When a man uses it for validation then he too is a slave, validation seeking. It’ll show in his behavior toward women. Shooting him self in the foot.	/r/askTRP	05/01/19 09:50 PM
3	Social media has been said to cause depression, low self esteem and anxiety, so why do girls still crave validation from it? Women are in constant competition with one another and social media is their battlegrounds. If you take away social media from a woman you take away an avenue for which they cannot optimize their hypergamy. Alpha men don’t care about external validation. Plus a man with a purpose is able to cut things out of his life deemed a distraction. A logical man would recognize social media as a problem and put it down. Women at their default settings are not logical and don’t think about social media bei…	/r/askTRP	05/01/19 08:12 PM
8	Social media has been said to cause depression, low self esteem and anxiety, so why do girls still crave validation from it? Anything that gives cheap release of dopamine can become an addiction. Women aren't aware or woke enough like guys are to put that shit down. Women live off of external validation, slaves to other people's opinions, and social media is the cheapest way to get it. They are like little crack fiends. Thirsty betas don't help the problem either. Strip a girl from her make up and instagram filters what you get is a insecure smeagol creature scared to show her face to the world.	/r/askTRP	05/01/19 12:53 PM
1	How the fuck do you guys do it Your situation is not unique, there are many like you. Build yourself up. You are not a tree, you can move. Do not chase women. Chase excellence. Chasing women is very expensive and a waste of time. The journey is lonely, but to be alpha you have to be OK with being alone. 23 is still young. Some people get divorced raped in their 30s before they find the red pill. Take responsibility for your life. Do not blame mom and dad. Wanting a relationship should never be the goal, girls are dream killer…	/r/askTRP	05/01/19 01:42 AM