BlackDogRamble Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	We need divorce reform. Yeah, but usually SOMEONE has to stay home and take care of the kids, especially if they are young. Biologically, women have to do the beginning bit, but I can see it being really hard to then switch. "Oh honey, I'm ready to go back to work- so you quit your job and take care of the kids!" A lot of men/spouses wouldn't want to do that, and unless you have a ton of money to pay for a nanny or childcare until a kid is in school (depending on your schedule) it's really hard to be a dual-income fami…	/r/MensRights	17/05/12 01:57 PM
1	We need divorce reform. But that doesn't really work. It's hard to split child-rearing and keeping the house vs. having a career 50/50. You could have both parents take part-time jobs and spend half the time doing kid/house things I guess. The thing is, things in a marriage should be equitable in the first place. You make an agreement about both people doing the same amount of "work," and what that entails under your interpretation, because everything you have belongs to both of you. If you decide to pay for your spous…	/r/MensRights	17/05/12 01:43 PM
1	We need divorce reform. In a lot of these cases, is the other spouse really "getting it all?" Or is everything mostly 50/50, but then child support going to the primary caregiver gets factored in and that makes it go over the edge?	/r/MensRights	17/05/12 01:40 PM
0	We need divorce reform. No one is demanding to be special. It's just that once kids are involved, things become a lot more complicated no matter who is the breadwinner or primary care giver. It's really, really hard to break those two tasks up exactly evenly, so usually one person does one and one does the other. She's right in saying that in a healthy two-parents with children relationship, acting like one hired the other to take care of the home and raise the kids is pretty messed up. Because it is.	/r/MensRights	17/05/12 01:38 PM
0	We need divorce reform. Yes, but what about the kids? If you're the primary caregiver to younger children staying at home, it's a lot harder to "bootstraps."	/r/MensRights	17/05/12 01:36 PM
1	We need divorce reform. Are they losing more than 50% because of child support payments? I'm a woman and getting hitched soon. Right now, my fiancee makes more than me, but that may change. We're also not having kids, and are definitely going to get a prenup. We're in MD if that helps. So in the event of a divorce, if something happens like the prenup gets thrown out, it's pretty safe to assume that we would both be at risk of losing 50% of everything right?	/r/MensRights	17/05/12 01:29 PM
3	Don't like catcalls? Cover your tits Ok. So summer is coming up. When I'm walking my dog, wearing knee-length sweatshorts and a tank top because it's summer, but I'm only a B-cup, how much street harassment should I expect? No matter what I've worn, I've had men threaten me, evaluate me, and follow me. I try to minimize my sexual power and not provoke these men, but it doesn't seem to work. What do you suggest I do? How can I walk my dog without these things happening? Any tips are much appreciated.	/r/MensRights	08/04/12 09:37 PM
2	Girl in relationship subreddit asks for advice on her possible cheating - highest comment in the thread insinuates she was raped and should get some friends to "confirm" this. She got tested. It turns out she was heavily drugged.	/r/MensRights	14/03/12 12:27 PM