| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | How do I learn to have an abundance mentality and metabolize the pain of rejection? | BlackFlaggath | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 06:00 PM | |
| 6 | I caught feelings for a hookup. How do I know she likes me back and how do I handle it. | BlackFlaggath | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 02:31 AM | |
| 3 | How do I recover from rejection from a hookup? | BlackFlaggath | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 06:48 PM | |
| 1 | Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy? | BlackFlaggath | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 09:35 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy?I don’t think texting someone after a week is considered needy if you’re confirming plans. What would be needy is if I continued to text her until then. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy?She said I could have her next Saturday but was busy this Saturday. I’ll shoot her a text next week a couple days before then, she’s pretty receptive to some of the dirty talk I’ve said so I think it might work. Definitely do not want to look desperate or needy. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up with a girl on Saturday, how to build attraction and not get needy?I usually sext before meeting up to kind of really get girls excited to see me usually, as that’s my thing. It’s worked basically most of the time. She said she was going to be out for vacation this weekend and that next weekend would be best. She has texted me really late at night, and I get out of work at midnight so should I try to set it up to after I get out of work? | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn to have an abundance mentality and metabolize the pain of rejection?Currently looking for hookups, but my experience with this girl made me want a little bit more of an emotional connection so I’ll probably just casually date. I unfortunately failed to communicate to the girl I was with what I wanted and gave a lot of mixed signals and it frustrated her. I really like girls that are intelligent, more so than they lead on. I’m just naturally curious and like to pick peoples brains about stuff. Having actual conversations is pretty huge for me. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How do I learn to have an abundance mentality and metabolize the pain of rejection?Girl I was with is non monogamous, I am trying to be non monogamous to explore what I want out of my life. I used to be very heavy on being in a monogamous relationship. I have some issues with insecurity, jealousy, and some pretty unattractive qualities that show up eventually. I caught feelings for her and I don’t want this on my mind 24/7. It’s extremely unhealthy to fixate on just one girl when there’s many other experiences I can have, even if I still have feelings for her. I don’t know wha… | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I recover from rejection from a hookup?You’re right. I’m definitely going to refrain from texting for a while to really let her breathe and for me to stop have feelings and realize this is a purely fuck buddy relationship that was unfortunately filled with emotional confusion in the beginning. Definitely going to put more time into my life and lift heavy again so I can build my confidence. I don’t feel nearly as bad anymore, i don’t know why I caught Oneitis but I guess if you act like boyfriend/girlfriend you get the wrong idea. Thi… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | I caught feelings for a hookup. How do I know she likes me back and how do I handle it.Thank you for the advice. You just saved me from from being overly paranoid lol. I’m gonna play it cool from now on. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I caught feelings for a hookup. How do I know she likes me back and how do I handle it.That’s actually really possible. She might be doing it on purpose to get me more interested, which is working. She definitely does like me and it shows, so your theory could be right. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 05:10 AM |
| 1 | I caught feelings for a hookup. How do I know she likes me back and how do I handle it.I’d say she’s definitely an 8. I’m like a whole foot taller and I can completely manhandle her/dominate her and she loves it. We’re both into kink as well and we’re going to experiment with it. She could be doing that, and I just haven’t noticed the signs until now. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.Is it bad that im nitpicking at certain qualities that girls have that I don't really like? Its one of the ways it helps me cope with oneitis, it doesn't really make me devalue them but it helps me with not putting them up on a pedestal. I still think they're great people, I just view them as humans that have their flaws like we do. Is that a good attitude to have? | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 07:18 PM |
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