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Do yourself a favor. Sit yourself at any old dive bar and ask the older boomer guys there what they think about getting married. It's an illusion sold to guys. All "love" is conditional. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:34 AM
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Get a fake wedding band, lie to random women that you're married. If they're Cluster B, they'll try to get in your pants. I'm not kidding. Great way to filter out the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:28 AM
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>What is a man? A fully grown, adult, biological male. >Cool cool, that's not what I asked you. Don't care. You don't like the response. Men have the right to reject anybody they want, for any reason. You say "men should be willing to date girls who rejected them in high school." Again, the term "should be willing" implies you are telling them what to think and how to feel. Not your place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:30 AM
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> I have encountered real men before. Tall dudes on tinder are just as real of a man as your average 9 to 5 joe. Your opinion on what a man is does not matter. > If I say that kids should be willing to play outside with each other. Does that mean I'm saying my kid is "owed" a play date with your kid? If a kid doesn't want to play with another kid, he has every right to not want to. It's one thing to think it- but it's an entirely different thing to say "hey, your kid SHOULD BE WILLING to go on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:25 AM
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Absolutely agreed. In fact, up until the advent of "dating" (only about 150 yrs old), marriage was an emotionless affair. Emotions are fleeting, and a stable partnership can't rely on that. Nowadays, there's no reason to get married anymore. People have their own careers, lives, and do not need each other to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:25 PM
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Not really a "stacy", bc that isn't an actual category. I don't really believe in an "out of 10" scale. I cheated out of spite bc she cheated. It's a juvenile thing to do. But hanging around with toxic Cluster-B people will make you toxic yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:53 PM
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She cheated first, so I did it back. This was when I was younger. Toxic dating scene made me catch some bad fleas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:50 PM
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You hear that? That's the sound of another piece of your awful art. The mistress is using it as a toy, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:19 PM
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Projection. He's busy taking care of his mistress, which is why you ramble on reddit about men. I wonder if they're fucking on top of your smashed up pottery. Looks like shit by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:15 PM
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Your husband and his mistress is busy smashing up all your shitty little pottery, you probably should take care of that. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:12 PM
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I dated this kind of woman once. Someone who said "real men do x", to this day I don't regret cheating on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:53 PM
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Imagine actually thinking that's an insult. I would rather be alone forever than be your husband. No wonder why he has his mistress lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:47 PM
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I'll repeat again, ask my permission before replying to me. Or what, is your husband saying how much the mistress does for him again? Taking all the rage out on me? Please. Entertain me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:45 PM
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Ask my permission before you reply to me again. You're not worth anything beyond entertainment. Remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:41 PM
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Your "husband" is busy with his mistress. That's why you rage out against men on reddit. Try not being a bitch, might get you somewhere. And only narcissistic people like you think being alone is an "insult" lmao. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:40 PM
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Stick with the vibrator and leave men alone, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:37 PM
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Thanks for admitting your narcissism. Luckily for you, I wouldn't walk within 20 feet of you. You sound selfish and have an attitude. I used to tell women like you to piss off. Someone like you I wouldn't even talk to, let alone go anywhere near sexually. You aren't owed a good fingering or anybody else from anybody. Find someone who will. Grow up, bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:35 PM
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real man No such thing should be willing to date them No one is owed to date anybody. Grow up. If someone doesn't want to date someone over what she did to him in high school, that's his choice. It's probably more personal towards that individual than "women." In fact he has the right to choose not to date anybody. victims of social media Ok? Doesn't excuse their behavior. It's up to those men to forgive or not. They aren't owed anything. If he chooses to, great. If he chooses not to, respect hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:29 PM
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Of course not. But there's a difference between "I enjoy these things with my partner in the privacy of my own home" versus "If you don't do all the stuff I do, you're boring and lame."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:22 PM
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These disordered women... they're not looking for a human, they're looking for the golden calf to worship bc of daddy issues. Avoid avoid avoid at all costs!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:18 PM
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As any normal, we'll adjusted adult would.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:15 PM
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An opinion is one thing. Attempting to degrade somebody because they won't eat out some sluts pussy? Whole other thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:12 PM
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Thats your problem. Take care!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:56 PM
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"You are mad" No. Nobody asked for your opinion. You commented on somebody else's sexual preference, taking issue with it. I respond with "nobody cares" and now I'm apparently the one that's angry. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:51 PM
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"If you don't have sex 15 times a day with your mistress with straps and barbed wire chain whips, you're BOORING and VANILLLA" Like ok, we get it. They'll grow out of it in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:44 PM
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This. Say that a woman doesn't like to suck dick, and then tons of people dog piled her and told her "tf wrong wit u hoe suck your man's dick" that'd be considered sexual harassment. You can't force someone to do something they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:35 PM
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So, in other words, they aren't narcissistic and shallow and think of people as lesser for certain things they cannot control? They're functional and emotionally mature adults not rotted by pornbrain and pop culture? Holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:32 PM
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choosing to not eat pussy means I'm mentally 12 Classic cluster B projection. Mad that I didn't stroke your tiny little ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:28 PM
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Don't pursue narcissistic women. Men here complain about nice guys finishing last, but then they chase after botox filled narcs or crazy knife wielding borderlines or cheap mistresses. Hold yourself to a higher standard. Personality is more important than looks imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:05 PM
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Except if you scroll up, I got no problems interacting with the women who agreed with me or didn't take any offense. The women in these comments who said "alright that's cool, I don't even like it anyway" I'm not belittling at all. Who I'm belittling are those with probably one or more B cluster personality disorders who take offense to men not eating them out bc it wounds their fragile little ego. In other words, only people's whose asses stink take offense at someone saying they don't like it …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:50 PM
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Really? Saying that I don't want to eat pussy is "disrespectful?" That's so insanely narcissistic. The women who want me to eat them out usually have one or more cluster B personality disorder with daddy issues ☕️💅 which makes them used up damaged goods already, they'd destroy my life if they could. And in fact, the women who went "alright that's cool" I had absolutely no problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:26 PM
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It's honestly a great way to filter out Cluster B women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:15 PM
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Funny how the actual women in here are like "alright lol that's cool" and it's the guys who are getting bent out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:01 PM
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That's great! Nobody asked for your opinion. The word "yall" is repulsive to me too. Also r/ihavesex btw. Grow up. You're not a sex god.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:47 PM
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It really is disgusting, and these dumb idiot men will worship it and eat out leftovers so they can say "I HAD SEX GUYS. THAT MEANS IM WORTH SOMETHING" it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:39 PM
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Thats right. Now whenever I see an obsessive and clingy woman, I make sure to run in the opposite direction despite my feelings telling me not to; because now I realize if someone is capable of loving you that much, they're also capable of thinking you're nothing but the scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:05 PM
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Eating pussy imo is disgusting, I'd never do it. I told any woman that if she had a problem with me not doing it, she can walk right out the door. Guess what? Casual or not, it requires compromise. I've told nearly every woman I've hooked up with this and if they decide to leave? Good riddance. Means they cared only about themselves and using me as a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:03 PM
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In my case, I actually liked that she was crazy, but I was dumb and just like you, thought that she would worship and love me forever. I didn't expect that one day out of nowhere she'd flip a switch and start treating me like absolute shit for returning the affection. It's a crazy crazy disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:58 PM
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Depends. Narcissistic women don't have the mirroring talent of BPD women, so you can see some mean bitch with a prada handbag from a mile away and run like the wind. BPD crazies though? They'll mold and shape their entire personality into whatever your ideal is. If you like hot bimbo slut mistresses, they'll become that. If you like really shy, clingy, kind and sweet-hearted women, they'll become that. It's crazy but their illness functions like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:16 PM
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They really do a good job at convincing you they will love you unconditionally. Mine said once "even if you murdered a bunch of children, I would still love you." Nuts!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:06 PM
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What? Where on earth are you from where this is happening? Maybe a poor or rural area?? A lot of the major urban areas in the US (there are a few exceptions though) have a narcissism epidemic where men want the blonde hot model and women want ryan gosling. Also, how on earth is height and looks relevant to starting a family? I get employment, IQ, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:58 PM
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What if she's outwardly being a huge bitch to someone else or she gives off really bitchy or narcissistic vibes? That wouldn't be a turn off to most dudes? Like a dude can see her slap someone in the face and go "damn, sucks for him, still need dick sucked."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:50 PM
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what men do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:48 PM
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The kind of standards you are saying are moral or pragmatic standards. Believing in chastity and means to provide a family are more of an "old fashioned" kind of standard. The standards seen in the modern dating scene are more narcissistically oriented. This is more about treating someone like an object rather than a person, kind of like shopping for something. This can be seen with guys saying "She should be hot, big tits, nice ass, must suck my dick on the first date and leave me alone to hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:48 PM
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BPD girls are a drug. It's a delusional level of love and psychosis, you're literally god to them. Then several months or years later you're literally satan and you need to be abused, beaten, your tires slashed, cheated on, discarded, and dumped out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:42 PM
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Every single relationship, whether business, casual, hookup, romantic etc has some degree of power dynamics. Usually, the person detached emotionally from the situation has advantage over the person being emotionally invested. Case and point, there was one other girl who liked me, but I did not like her back. Knowing that she liked me though, it meant I knew she would do a lot more for me than the average person. Ofc I didn't manipulate or take advantage of her feelings in any way, but nearly ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:41 PM
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That explains a lot, holy shit. In college I wouldn't even speak to the hot sorority chicks bc they had an attitude, and I sensed that from a mile away and they were all really confused to why I wouldn't speak to them. I get it now lmao. Men really do think with their dicks too much and by doing so, give women all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:28 PM
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There's all kinds. Anything can be a "standard." Looks, attitude, personality, how you treat people, ethnicity, anything really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:25 PM
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A narcissistic bitchy attitude for me is a turn off regardless how pretty she is. I hope to dear god most men think this way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:22 PM
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This, unironically. I've told the story before, but I had an ex girlfriend with a Borderline personality disorder. Her form of lovebombing was her basically acting like a REALLY desperate, anxiously attached dude. She did all of the work. She aggressively pursued me, gave me constant attention and compliments, bought me things, cooked me dinner, took ME out and paid for EVERYTHING, she showed me off on her social media and all of her friends were calling me gorgeous, unprotected sex on the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:14 PM
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It's a red flag. Means she chooses low quality guys. Means she has no self respect and is low value. It means she's insecure, probably needy, and has a whole lot of issues I'd rather not deal with. She can get therapy and leave men tf alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:01 PM
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Why do women even give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:53 PM
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They read one post on social media that says "ew if ur under 6ft don't talk to me lol" and they go crazy. The thing to understand is that most of the guys who do go crazy over one post like that have probably a combination of some kind of personality disorder, overexposure to internet, unhealthy socialization, dysfunctional upbringing, etc. Instead of going "wow, what a bitch, I'm gonna go talk to women who aren't as superficial as that. Fuck that." They extol their hatred onto everybody. No dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:10 AM
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Whoever believes women are "fundamentally worthless" over the age of thirty is downright fucking crazy. Can't speak for the guys in here, but I WISH a lot of women had the over-30 attitude. I love the laid backness and maturity!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:06 AM
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Guy here. You're told from a young age if you can't "pull a bitch" you're fundamentally worthless as a human. It's extremely toxic and narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:56 AM
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Even then though, people need to be selective. I've posted about it before, but my BPD-ex experience? One of the hallmark features of BPD is mirroring, so I had thought I met a woman just like me, but in truth that was an illusion. Her disorder made her seek a sense of self through me. Yes, that doesn't mean "all women", but it does say that even if you meet someone exactly like you, you need to remain vigilant, and quite frankly I don't want to live in a world where I need to constantly have my…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:48 AM
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By this logic though, should I be able to say "look crazy cakes, not all men are gonna rape you or catcall you or do things you don't like at 11pm on the sidewalk"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:46 AM
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>audibly farting in public is inherently masculine behavior Take a long trip to appalachia, or the hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:44 AM
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You'll learn over time to stay away from any wild stories of SA. Unfortunately, you can never be too careful nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:26 PM
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In their splitting episodes (they split on everybody, not just their FP or romantic partner) their brains conjure up the most wild delusions. Don't forget in that moment, they literally see person they're splitting on as pure evil. Mine had a splitting episode on her father, and she made up all kinds of deranged stories about him. She claimed he raped her, that he threatened to "execute" her with a "gun" and held it to her head, that he would encourage "incestual acts" between her and her siblin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:17 PM
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Only people who have been through it can really understand. With BPDs? The "hypergamy" thing goes right out of the window. They cheat or develop an obsession with randoms for seemingly no fucking reason, at all. I'm nearly a year out, and she still smears me and makes playlists full of hate songs dedicated to me. (and all her other exes, btw, even the one that's dead). She's doing this, by the way, while engaged to her newest victim. Cluster Bs will seriously mess with your head. Run like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:08 PM
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I'd like you to meet my BPD ex. She'll bang within 30 minutes of meeting you and yet still discard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:04 PM
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Did you really just say that men need to fuck as soon as possible, but then say women's behavior is why STDs are spreading so quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:03 PM
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Nuance and context matters. Clearly Luigi Mangione, a killer, elicits a different kind of dramatic reaction than the average "women and children are eternal victims which ought to be protected" reaction. OP is talking about within the context of victimhood. Consider this parallel, if someone were to see a puppy being shot and killed, versus a hardened roided dude who is 6'5 with tats, I guarantee the reaction would be far, far more extreme with the puppy. Why? Because of a need to protect that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:17 PM
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Top posts from... all time? Really? Did media notoriety influence these cases? Perhaps some other factors? Stop attempting to redirect the focus of this post. It's embarrassing. If you feel inclined to comment about the situation the woman is in, the main post exists for that. This post however, is for the reaction and debate (as the rest of the sub is). You basically say "OP should not have this reaction." He has the right to react in any way. You cannot thought police him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:06 PM
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The subject of the post is not about the woman herself. Its about the reaction of the commenters on the post, saying that if a man were to go through the same situation, there would be less of a dramatic reaction. Again, this emotional manipulation and guilt tripping does not work. Stick to the actual subject pertained in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:46 PM
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That's you projecting. Who said I'm offended? They're pointing out a discrepancy, and you are trying to redirect the focus away from the main point. Manipulation like this does not work on people who have seen it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:40 PM
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Attempting to be facetious and gaslight won't work. That's no different than manospheric guys complaining about "well feminists don't seem to care when women inmates assault other women, only men." You know exactly what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:06 PM
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Then either stay single or find someone who likes peace (Cluster A women in particular). Men have agency and can make a selection too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:04 PM
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I think my experience can be unique here regarding this. Sometimes this does happen, and this indeed did happen to me. Women who REALLY like you will make it known- just like how men who really like a woman will make it known. However, she was BPD, so I got the extreme "flavor" of what you're describing. BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) women will do all of the work for you. You'll feel like the "woman" for once. She'll relentlessly pursue you, shower you with affection and gifts, ask you o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:21 PM
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If these people are saying they're "boring" that means they're emotionally immature and crave novelty like a teenager would. It's no different than my dumb ass when I was younger deliberately picking out girls with mental issues because I found normal women to be "boring." Sidenote: OP is the kind you want to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:03 PM
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Don't be facetious. The point is that a general reaction from the public would not be so extreme had the photo been of a man. He is absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:58 PM
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Then here's what I do. Immediately filter out the ones who -want money -overly narcissistic -obsess over social media Does that cut out a LOT of women (esp American women)? Sure. But I'd rather be with someone like-minded, or single, than a golddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:56 PM
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Because the ones who believe that are either brainwashed, or crazy. Either that, or they are narcissistic and they enjoy playing with the minds of vulnerable guys who need their affection, or for their money. Then you have to filter out the BPD psychos. That's my point about them. If they supposedly hold all the power (which, I'd agree for the most part), don't play with them. Walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:28 PM
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When you get to that level of power, the "rules" don't really apply anymore. It's kind of funny. Both the lowest and highest classes of society have behaviors that the majority find repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:20 PM
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Food for thought. Say this mentality is absolutely true. Why then do red/black pillers pine for the affection of women then, who supposedly see them as "disposable?" Why play the game at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:14 PM
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Before I moved, I was literally broke, car-less, unemployed, an alcoholic and a user, and severely depressed. I still didn't care about money. I cared about personality. Did then, did now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:53 PM
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Are those women sane themselves? Obviously not. It's no different than those guys who are into obsessive, crazy women with BPD. Not only are they sick, but they're more than not likely infatuated with an image, rather than the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:50 AM
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If you walked up to a random woman on the street, showed her a picture of a killer and asked if she wanted to sleep with him, she'd probably think you're smoking crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:46 PM
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No. But what you're trying to do is psychoanalyze something more sociocultural. The modern dating scene is extremely narcissistic on both ends. This can be seen in guys saying "bro I bagged 16 bitches this year lmao" to the classic "must be 6ft tall, fit, make 100k" nonsense. It's influenced by movies, television, etc stretching way back. Hell, even the incel "movement" shows signs of narcissism, particularly the vulnerable kind. It's an epidemic caused by social media, abundance mindset, emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:28 PM
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Completely agree. It goes both ways. The sub reeks of narcissism, entitlement, and an <25yr mentality of "what can I get out of somebody" or "how does this make me look good."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:09 PM
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That right there is exactly my point. This transactional mentality of "value" being indicative of external features such as money, looks, and social status is narcissistic. The kind of women you're referring to chasing after men with money are solely there for money, and you can spot these types a mile away. My own parents are an exception to this rule. My mother is the smarter, higher earning person compared to my father, who literally came from a family called "village idiots."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:28 PM
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I'm now convinced nearly everybody in this subreddit has undiagnosed NPD. Normal people really don't care about any of this stuff, especially in today's economy where everybody is struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:13 PM
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Maturing and genuine self-confidence (NOTE: Not narcissistic arrogance and flaunting yourself all over social media) will help people get rid of this. Most don't actually get rid of this desire until they are middle-aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:49 PM
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There is literally no such thing as "alpha" males beyond porn and modern "dating" culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:43 PM
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What's worse is that this mentality leaves young guys who dont want to take part in one sided relationshits extremely vulnerable to BPDemon lovebombing. Which if you haven't had the "luxury" of being with one, feels like literal heaven on earth for the first few months. She'll pay for everything, give you massages, cook you dinner, sex whenever you want, do literally anything you ask them to, practically kiss the ground you walk on, be super loving etc. Then the abuse starts when they know they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:51 AM
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Hey. Fellow abuse survivor here as well. The couples therapy thing is an extreme abuse tactic used by narcissists and Borderlines to get their victims to comply. Mine tried to get me to go. Flat out refused. The mental health system I knew fucks over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:10 PM
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I'm likely (was tested multiple times) on the spectrum and I have lied and manipulated a LOT, esp during a lot of my relationshits in the past until I shaped up. I'd pretend to be somebody I'm not just to get laid. Id push their buttons emotionally, etc. Autistic people are not a monolith. They're people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:01 PM
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Checked your post history. You are a well known lunatic who spends all her time ranting about the fuckboys she chooses to associate with. You're hyper opinionated and extremely bitchy, which is what fuckboys like. And then you complain about them being fuckboys. My bad for thinking I can reason with someone so clearly deranged. Im gonna walk away from this convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:43 PM
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You come into a subreddit known for being involved with the manosphere, with a giant attitude that seems like a teenage girl, and then complain about their manospheric opinions, in an almost entitled way, expecting some productive conversation. This isn't debate, you're not even willing to hear other people's opinions or actually counter them with alternate reasoning. You're unloading emotional hot air. It's clear as day. That would be like me going into a feminist debate sub, and then getting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:16 PM
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You choose who you associate with. I was kind of like you during the breakup phase with my BPD ex, and it sent me into a spiral where I'd complain and be all angry and stuff. Then it clicked for me: it's a mental illness. She is CRAZY. You can't make a crazy person change their behavior unless you're licensed to do that. Use the same logic with all these redpill idiots and manosphere guys. You can try and talk to them, but if they're not budging and choose to remain in their ignorant sphere of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:11 PM
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Your smartassery isnt without notice. Just saying. But you are in here complaining about a certain demographic, which to anybody with a brain can figure out you're obviously chasing after and had some bad experiences with. You're complaining about men who lie about wanting a relationship to get in a girls pants. It's shitty and I've done it myself. My point to you is, you have to be unwell yourself to not be able to tell the red flags in these shitty, dishonest dudes. You can spot these kinds fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:05 PM
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Don't like dudes who want to fuck on the first date? Don't chase after dudes who obviously only want sex. You can spot them a mile away at most. I've been one of those dudes in the past myself. You have be damaged goods and have little to no self respect to oversee red flags in dudes who want sex. Same idea with me with the BPD girl. I was an idiot who oversaw the red flags and looked for validation. A bit of accountability goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:01 PM
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Her post reeks of narcissism, entitlement, emotionality and immaturity. She complains about a certain subset of dudes behavior (this I assume is the kind she's into) and then feels entitled to dictate how they should behave, because compromise is impossible when dealing with people who have this level of maturity. Instead of taking accountability and responsibility like an adult would (this applies to red pill and incel type dudes too btw), they just blame everything on the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:50 PM
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You must be dating some pretty shitty dudes lmao. Expecting anybody to bang on the first date is a red flag and I speak from experience. It's a sign of immaturity at best and mental illness at worst. T. Dated a BPD girl. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:43 PM
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Women set the social and cultural norms for sex Who enables it? Who chases after them and gives them all the power? Who says your worth as a man is defined by "pullin a baddie"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:25 PM
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Giving sex on the first date is the BIGGEST red flag. Its a sign usually of a cluster B disorder. If she's stuffing your hand down her pants on the first date, she's done it with other people and is wildly impulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:42 PM
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If you are that shallow to judge someone by their car? Seriously? Now I can understand if the car has a meth stash or explosives inside. But otherwise who gives a shit? People really need to get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:38 PM
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That's actually true. "Husband material" is objectification and could be even considered a form of love-bombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:45 PM
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That's just a sign of BPD. Anyone who has a moticome of self-respect and people skills would run the hell away from somebody who badmouths all of their exes. That's the sign of the crazy-train.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:09 PM
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This sub is riddled with narcissistic tendencies. Not all men or women think purely in terms of transactional benefits. I have been on plenty of dates where both me and the woman contribute equally. Normal people who aren't social media addicts and do not possess the emotional maturity of a teenager aren't so shallow and materialistic. Red flags exist for a reason. If you do not want someone who expects you to do all the work, maybe avoid the women with prada handbags and gucci sunglasses who's …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:07 PM
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There is literally no benefit of getting attached. She senses when you are and its a weakness. She will exploit it, cheat, and discard. When you are detached, you can work anything to your benefit and not feel a thing.
/r/seduction07/12/24 12:19 PM
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Notice how you didn't explain how any of what I said is wrong, but rather that I just "need therapy." Is it manipulative? Sure. Is it what you need to do to protect your sanity? Absolutely.
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:06 AM
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If you REALLY want to do this, do this right. First of all, be emotionally detached. Never get attached, ever. That's the biggest rule. Second, you got a number, now what do you do? Nothing. Typical advice here is "wait 3 hours to respond" but that's just standard procedure when dealing with narcissistic mentally ill american women. Up your game a bit. Don't text first, at all. If she doesn't text you, move on. She's busy fishing for more attention. When she does text you, make it short. Keep re…
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:56 PM
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"I am obsessing over narcissistic manipulation techniques, because I think women will fill my gaping lack of identity and sense of self worth."
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:55 AM
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1 in 100 people are autistic. Some of them include Bill Gates, Anthony Hopkins, Charles Darwin, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Jack septic eye, Dan Akyroyd, some even think Hugh Hefner (yes, hugh hefner) might have had it. I most likely have it myself, though I don't really care anymore tbh. Had maybe 2-ish girlfriends in the past, I was an absolute shut in as a teenager. The third was a BPD psychopath who ruined my life and nearly made me unalive. They prey on people with personality disorders and…
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:23 AM
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