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"Entitled" haha - god help us honey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:45 PM
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This sub is still in shambles I see
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:39 PM
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Pornstar giraffe throat, subscribe to my OF, love men with $$$$$ honey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:28 PM
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Male version of me would just look and act like Peter Steele so yes, I would just be a sexy low disgust outgoing male in alt spaces getting women To your second question - NO. I am very successful as a woman, more than the majority of men on my own and love life as is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:55 PM
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I have dated cops, ex-military, combat vets, CIA agents, special agents, spies, etc don't care about or read any stats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:40 AM
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Exactly. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:33 PM
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I don't find the traits of social shyness attractive. I am also none of those things either as per my personality chart: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:33 PM
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For me, shyness usually negates everything. I have no advice for him, there is a woman for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:48 AM
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Yes to the title only, but that is because I actively deal with these 'intelligent' men all the time. There are people like this around everyday. I know a man (probably a couple of them) right now serving time in prison over a borderline woman that slept with multiple men (to which he decided it was smarter to react violently toward her in response). Neither actions are excused. When I asked: "Why?" he went on to shake his head and say the familiar line, "I just have a weakness for crazy bitches…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:49 PM
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They all sound the same to me, this is often one woman, in diff stages of life, I am still waiting for the diff types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:53 AM
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A more concise question please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:07 AM
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I've personally never saw the ones I didn't want to at least kiss again for a 2nd date or encounter, now everyone is different, read the energy or ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:05 AM
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In 6th grade, either 11 or 12, that's when I started developing, that is for men not related to family Now I remember my father getting into a fist fight and kicking his male friend out of the house because he kept trying to drunkenly "sit me on his lap" and would make sexually lewd jokes, I was under 11 then, maybe 8 or 9, not sure what was happening that young, just remember he never came around the house again after these incidents
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:53 AM
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Well everything honey except physical strength, don't understand Now a woman not exercising it is not the same as lacking capacity to act, unless of course she is incapable by extreme delay, disability or handicap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:28 AM
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I prefer lusty and sensual men. It is not that I assume a man without it isn't interested, I just am not attracted to men lacking these traits, he could be in love for all I care honey, it wouldn't make a difference........... you can still find a woman if you are not a lusty man, however, for those with such the preference, these kind of men naturally enjoy attracting and being attracted to the opposite - almost more than actually having it, it would be more beneficial to you to identify lusty-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:14 PM
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Nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:15 PM
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Once or twice ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:34 PM
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Love man feet and how they look in contrast with mine about as much as I like rough man hands, also bald men with chest hair and big teeth, some long-day man sweat as long as it doesn't stink too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:26 PM
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Why are you messaging morbidly obese women? Lol. Are you into that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:20 PM
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Just read this sub in general to get your answer to this Q. That is all this sub is, unpopular opinions about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:53 AM
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Only if you're frighteningly ugly honey. If not, you can get some woman just not the woman you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:47 AM
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Yes not being an animal lover is a deal-breaker, but also not being a human lover is a deal-breaker as well. People that love pets more than animals and vice versa. Both extremes are bizarre and not my cup of tea. I'm not for the weird fuck all humans or fuck all animals shit. I'm not saving no fucking cat over a stranger and I'm not getting rid of a cat for a stranger either and I expect him to be somewhere on the same page about this. It depends on the pet and the man. I'm willing to give up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:48 AM
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You're welcome, you're so polite, I hope you're happy in life!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:10 PM
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That's not the right question honey, the question is how successful is he - the results
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:33 PM
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It's discussed in woman's only circles, talking about toxic female behavior with my female friends and I is usually done in the forming of bonding and healing because the toxicity and crazy beliefs we've got from men often hurts us and makes us unproductive in the end, for women it's a healing experience You can talk about all the terrible whamen among other men as it should be as it is a closed masculine space, plus it's the mothers job to train/teach the woman how to be a woman and come into h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:46 AM
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Do you want to be courted by a traditionally masculine female? That seems to be what is being said, if not I've misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:26 AM
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Yes, a woman that loves powerful men - know plenty that say the same honey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:19 AM
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Let me tell you something honey, that whole "I won't approach a woman just because she's cute" line you said is the real killer, in my early 20s I hoped all the men are staring at my amazing tits and walked over just for that, because I'm hot as hell and he wants to bone right there and then take me for a wild unstable relationship through that adventurous boy brain of his You not wanting to ask women out just because she looks cute would be a red flag for me, it alludes to lack of lust and driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:47 PM
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Sounds good to be babe, heavier boxes are lifted in the McDonalds stock closets, theoretically he would not be doing this for 100s of women, in the past there weren't that much options so courting didn't weigh on the man much - now with more options for men and women now it is up to him to make sure the woman he chooses to court is attracted to him and has the same intentional goals in mind so he won't be on the market courting 100s of women, he should take accountability for that, that part is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:23 PM
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No honey, the power is sexy and attractive. The power and influence he has on other people; and money generally grants people a lot of power without actually innately strong personality traits that enable power and dominance; such as men without any money but high dominance over others in general; they are typically low income criminals. It is not the money that turns off women about rich/powerful men, but the oversaturated lifestyle it would demand of her. That's why powerful men are great flin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:18 PM
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It's an easy money pot honey and men are the most materially generous by biology, even other men know it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:38 PM
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Not really ever on my feed honey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:37 PM
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He was okay, not bad, very tall but average face I'll say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:20 PM
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One of my besties hid her partner from me for months and our other friends as well, although he is a millionaire (she is a bit of a gold digger and only likes rich men), when I asked why she said because he had two kids and wasn't all that in spite of the money, when I finally met him I was like yeah I see why you went about your way LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:53 PM
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Yes that's right, this is why a lot of attractive women will often keep their relationship status mysterious or ambiguous because she still gets social privileges from being an "obtainable" attractive woman, it is a good business tactic for women tok eep her male audience invested and returning, once she announces a pregnancy, a relationship, etc... her male audience drops off over 70%, flaunting an attractive man only impresses other women The man must also be attractive to other women for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:30 PM
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I don't think women think that, men just pedastalize moral women and have an obsession with morality in women, more than women pedestalize moral men, so it went to womens heads
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:14 PM
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A lot of stuff may come back to this Q later to fill it more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:11 PM
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What does this mean, what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:10 PM
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I know some, they have a bunch of FWBs and a reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:08 PM
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I like men swarming in hot women and I like when he picks me like my partner did It goes like this Man with tons of hot women that want him > single attractive man > man with tons of women I find unattractive all around him > single unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:02 PM
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No, that is wrong, it is not that women are content, it is that the female body got used to not having sex or good sex regularly, she got comfortable in this state, it does not mean she does not desire good sex or lost all capacity for it The more a woman has good sex the more she will crave and desire it or "need it", women that have not had sex or have gone a long time without sex are used to not have sex, the female body adapted to this sexless condition The male or her partner/lover whoever,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:43 PM
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So what honey what's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:14 PM
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Who's asking seriously, the men on these Q4W want your medical records, what are you doing with all this personal data about women's gynecologist results, dating preferences and grooming habits
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:07 PM
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I think it is something to do with their own mothers and resent for them, many of them come from bitter single moms that didn't age well or they feel their mom lied and scammed them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:03 PM
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I've said a million times it wouldn't ever be "just me" - there will be a hired nanny and my mother living with us and possibly his mother if they can get along and nurses for my mother and his as they age, I would never raising kids or caring for the house alone, yes I can afford all this even if he can't with his "handsome salary" or wants to be stingy about it, my net worth is larger than his and I have more than one income source if I were to get pregnant tomorrow, I would move my mother in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:49 PM
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Has to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:25 PM
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It's over babe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:25 PM
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what's yours sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:22 PM
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I think average people are satisfied, happy is another question and depends on the day and fluctuations of life, they strive for happiness in a proximal fashion not a long-term one, through more vacation days and cheaper gas They are not "happy overall", they are satisfied overall and constantly desire for happier days, which is part of being alive and then there are other people that have higher standards that must be met in order to feel a certain satisfaction, they are dotted around the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:39 PM
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What "big picture" this Q gets asked all the time and the same 10 people answer "don't be a bad guy, don't be rich, and don't be lazy" - unless you are planning on dating one woman from Reddit I don't see how you are gaining anything from the Q
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:36 PM
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Why are you devaluing feminine and female dominant jobs, work, volunteering, skills and careers - you are just as bad as the feminists you hate, anti-feminists = feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:28 PM
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I don't understand what you are talking about, are you saying sexual dimorphism is a high standard because it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:24 PM
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Is this a question about vetting or body counts, I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:27 AM
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Depends on many factors such as career path, as mostly a rule I judge their ability to make rational and optimizing decisions on this basis and how well they seek or how much "drive" they have to obtain the knowledge to accomplish their goals, I am also more interested in how they cope, re-route and recuperate with and from failure and mistake, as well as ability to risks and managed them, which which is paramount to success, depending on career and "job" path, I am more interested in these fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:48 PM
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What in the world are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:38 PM
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Sometimes, not always, go off the moment, obviously it is situational
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:37 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:34 PM
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I am a bisexual woman and judge women far more harshly than men honey, consider yourself lucky, I couldn't deal with a woman with crusty hands, but I am fine with rough hands on man, take it as you will
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:21 PM
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I've seen him speak and he's right about that, also very handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:51 AM
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I can't tell a "fake confident man" from a "real confident man" because men's testosterone makes them have more bravado naturally by just being male regardless of it being fake or not, both men are perceived equally as attractive in the superficial, I assume a man with no natural male bravado relative to the female is either depressed or may have unchecked hormones, so this man would not grab my attention I can only tell different "types of confidence" (misplaced, arrogance (which is not fake co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:34 AM
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Nope, I'm no pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:45 AM
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It depends what you're going for honey, top male is not the same as "alpha male", the latter is an objective status point determined by society at large, the former is a dominant male of a niche, subculture, or social group, most average women are fine with the latter, if it doesn't work its because you're in a male dominant area or career, no women to bounce info to other women about you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:38 AM
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Neither, only on IG and some other places
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:34 AM
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I googled it and it said dopamine, so I'm going with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:16 AM
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No that's wrong honey, most men aren't ugly just have no sex appeal, they can manipulate the woman with their developed sex appeal to make her desire him sexually very simple babe, women are like snakes, cold-blooded and regulate by moving where ever its hot, temperamental and adaptive If we can be seduced into having bad sex with a bad man bad at sex, we can be seduced into having good sex with an average man good at sex, remember women are snakes most specifically the king cobra and you won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:12 AM
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I pick Sam, same income levels, same handsome physical attractiveness means they have equal successes in other areas of life and I'm assuming they are high in income because it's a Q4W so why use a poor man, Sam demonstrates you can be successful and still have a woman What's toms excuse other than a mental defect and/or a fundamental disinterest in women and female sexuality, is lack of lustful and romantic drive toward women supposed to be hot to me as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:56 AM
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It is not the same, you can have a ho phase in a relationship or outside of it honey, a woman can ho anytime she wants if she desires Parties are the spice of life, I love partaking and planning them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:49 AM
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Covert narcissism honey, they always think they're better and more noble than their overt narcissistic siblings
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:12 AM
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I would trim his hairs, grooming and oiling down my man sometimes is a love language of mine because I like physical touch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:05 AM
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Anyone else having a laugh fit or no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:03 PM
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Keeping her well seduced and thoroughly fucked, women are like cobras, we are cold-blooded in that way, temperamental to the environment and go towards the heat and the man is the snake charmer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:55 PM
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Anything can work if you don't make it the business of anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:46 PM
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It's all about subcultures honey
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:21 PM
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Some of us women are just riding our genetics babe, we were never health freaks to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:35 PM
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The OCD of asking this question a million times in different variations is more of a problem and very much more concerning than the masculine woman fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:05 AM
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People still get paid for doing nothing at work, even more so the remote people, no biggie really, have a coworker getting paid to watch CNN
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:54 AM
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It's up to him that's the point, don't you wanna enjoy and hand pick your woman honey, what's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:41 AM
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Go ahead honey it's no sweat off my back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:33 AM
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Assertive man is attractive if he is a lusty man - he lusts for life, for purpose, for desire, for women, he is passionate about everything or a particular thing, not just women - assertive man can look desperate and unattractive if not naturally lusty Men that desire women are hotter than men that desire sex, the latter sees escorts and has porn addictions, the former man has swagger in his walk and smoothness in his talk, that's my opinion honey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:31 AM
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Not my business honey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:26 AM
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I'd hold down the fort until he gets back and hope to the heavens he gets back My daddy was fighting in Vietnam with the marines, came back a different man but physically intact, I come from a military family except for the women, I would fight along side him if I had to but don't wanna, would probably finesse my way out of it to do something else at last minute if it was war or die, but I'd go ahead and just fight if I couldn't finesse out of it If he wants to flee I would say no, rather die he…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:57 AM
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The tradcons here are not red pills
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:05 PM
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There is no diff between these men psychologically or physically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:55 PM
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No it is not mutually exclusive its just that you become your partners "best friend" as you grow together and time happens
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:30 PM
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Because the brain is not attractive me, in how they think or lifestyle, also a lot I have seen are not attractive to me, always into weird stuff like veganism, islam, crystals, weird hair, extremely far left or from utah, the women are usually too big and the men are either very buff in their late 30s or very skinny with minimalist tattoos, boho furniture is not my style either, don't like african men that push that either not my style The only attractive poly people I've met are arabs, afgan, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:31 PM
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There is a war between low value men and low value women, the ones I see the women always have 6 kids and fat and the men are poor and ugly and they are arguing all day because neither is cooperating or want to get it together and none of them are submitting and the men aren't spending money etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:01 PM
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Well MGTOW has been around for over a decade, so is it the solution or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:48 PM
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No its fair, men pay for me cause they already know I have multiple properties and so I get princess treatment for relaxing and doing less
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:39 PM
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But the question was what is creepy and what is a creep, but you are using a gym video and sticking to this %1 bad faith examples that has nothing to do with the question, also what do you mean by "accused" there is no legal word for creep, women aren't "accusing" men of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:33 PM
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You have to maintain female attraction, stop fucking her and it dies, stop desiring her and it dies, the female body is adaptive honey, it just adapts to whatever way the male is moving and we get comfortable, don't let her get comfortable and you should be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:49 PM
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Patting my leg at work, IT tech guy did this to me when I called him to fix something, thought that was weird, why did you touch my leg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:46 PM
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Wdym by "heeled shoes" most classic male shoes are heeled or are you talking about a Jimmy Choo pump
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:40 PM
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Not with a name like Pat sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:40 PM
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Or just ask me what you want, I cannot be with a man that doesn’t know what he wants and just serves me spinelessly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:36 PM
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I’ve never cared who made the 1st move with physical intimacy or sex as I have always been sexually assertive and need physical contact as it is a love language of mine I don’t overthink that stuff as I only get involved with naturally sensual and lusty men that make me feel good I would never get involved with a man that is not of this personality type
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:29 PM
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Men have to roll the dice, women just blow on it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:10 AM
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I'm a good for nothing American sinner honey, all animal and a little human
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:00 AM
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Wtf is a female breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:52 AM
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Not interested in divorcees
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:51 AM
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This one now, I love life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:48 AM
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Thank you 💕 and do what you want honey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:48 AM
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Because I am of American culture, you can go to countries with arranged marriages for different set ups and upbringing, it is not biological
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:45 AM
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Women are crazy, men are stupid - don't listen to crazy and don't follow stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:43 AM
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Yes it can mean that too if the mistress is a consensual ltr, it is also cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:40 PM
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No it just means more than 1 ltr in your lifetime, married or unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:46 PM
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This is a good idea for men to get on top of a group without needing to be some kind of alpha male and sacrifice his sanity, this is why women say to niche it out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:40 PM
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Smarts, a few laughs, and cute ass has nothing to do with inner sunshine honey, some people find out the hard way, big hot shots with no one at the funeral but the priest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:32 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:31 PM
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If he is powerful and has status it is fine because I am attracted power in men but that's not the end all it is just an attractive trait by itself and hasn't anything to do with the hookers, a lot of powerful men have or do use sex workers at least one in their life, you'd be surprised, sex workers are seen as an extension of his power and control so doesn't lower his attraction but they aren't contributors to his attraction themselves, it could be a sign of his sexual potency, healthy libido a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:18 PM
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Allies is a better word
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:48 AM
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Serial monogamist just means more than 1 ltr in your lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:45 AM
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What do you mean by a chance, why are you giving people chances you think are ugly, value yourself and your time honey No one should be on the market long unless you're addicted to the chase and games, nothing wrong with that either, nothing like playing the field, everyone needs the experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:00 AM
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I'm still snooping around honey, really just popping in and out, good to see a question of yours again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:43 PM
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No I have those people too, you want them all, 1-2 besties, about 5 friends and then at least 4 different social circles filled with associates and social connections in different areas for other social bridges outside of mere platonicism - that is how I function, everywhere I move I'm going to create a bridge with at least 2 people, we don't have to be friends, you may or may not have to burn it later Men would benefit from the social circles not the friends groups, the latter doesn't have as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:23 PM
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You're right, there isn't a lot of good advice on Reddit period honey and many of those people are maxed out weirdos with grouchy and bizarre hysterical replies, I stay away from so-far gone subs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:31 PM
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Yes they do, but you have to offer something of value to the group, you cannot just sit there mooching, you probably don't offer anything and will eventually just be left out and they will move on, sounds you have no networking skills What do you offer of value, build your reputation, why are you even there, "fit in", relax, joke around and interactions should be smooth and organic The first mistake is assuming a social circle is always the same as friend group Men and women that get together in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:13 PM
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Ew gross no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:21 PM
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Before sex, naked in the shower, morning, imagination, etc I didn't say it is a strange man in alley
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:21 PM
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If you are over age 26 perhaps honey, its the last shot you've got
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:59 AM
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There are many ways to skin a cat honey, the only times I've felt immediate sexual arousal for a male are: deepness of his voice, hand size and his penis Physically attractive men that are "my type" I have had sexual thoughts of them sure but have never been compelled to act What compels me to act is a lusty personality Objectively aesthetically pleasing men are just that, no thoughts or feelings unless he is my type physically, and I have more than one type, the only way he can get around that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:51 AM
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Yes, women desire older men just not old men, only one guy I was with was exactly my age, there was one that was 2 years younger but rest all within 1-5 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:56 PM
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Because you're her lover, women are also responsible for making their man cum, its just may be easier to do, if we aren't responsible for making our lovers cum, what kind of sex is that honey, just a masturbation session
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:49 PM
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Feels like a warm pool inside my body, keeping everything else warm, there's a flame burning in there from inside out, it grows depending on how and what its fed For people I am not attracted to there isn't any warmth or anything there, I'm sure how you feel when a woman doesn't interest or attract you in any way, neutrality and causal nothingness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:34 PM
1

Some but I don't care how much for either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:30 PM
6

Hey honey, long time no speak, you're doing good service mentoring men both rejection and women are a part of life, learn to deal with one you can deal with the other! Too many guys without a man mentor and the women are tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:31 PM
4

If I was born a man I would be a hyper-feminine good looking bi male and be sleeping with gay males and promiscuous pansexual liberal women in multiple different niche "scenes" I would not do well with regular degular women or men, but my body count would easily be over 100 I am an extroverted woman so already naturally vainly into my looks & social fluff, the only thing that'll slow me down is my height but my height is because I'm female and stopped growing at 12, as a male I'd probably be 4 i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:48 PM
2

You don't, you stare at a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:38 PM
3

Change nothing, I would be a metrosexual man like Jeffree Star and sleep with men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:22 PM
1

I like that they are the builders of many things, I am always in awe in Dubai, I can't wait for the Vegas men to finish the MSG Sphere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:57 PM
3

He was above average value when he met me then getting with me took him the rest of the way, we're both killing it honey
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:42 PM
1

There are two types of confidence I recognize: Confidence and Misplaced Confidence. When discussing personality traits and cognition it's more informative to evaluate them to my mind by the level of degree or as a matter of degrees. Ex; people with certain mental illnesses have stages or degrees in which their perceptions are altered. Self-awareness is a requirement for confidence to manifest but what type of confidence comes about will also be a matter of degree of the self-awareness the person…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:02 PM
2

There's a market for any kind of female honey, doesn't matter what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:33 PM
0

No honey
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:30 PM
3

What's everyone's favorite fruit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:43 AM
1

They aren't delusional, there really are 10 chubby chump chasers to every fat woman, even in the trailer parks, there's a man for every woman if she wills it, these men are not imaginary and made up, they are just extreme deadbeats that the hoochies go after "involuntarily single" is not a thing for the female sex, no matter how ugly or "masculine" they are to %3 of men The concept doesn't compute, my female brain does not compute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:43 AM
1

Kevin Samuels spoke to a specific demographic of low class ghetto hoochie mamas with multiple children in their 30s by multiple diff men by equally low class ghetto for the streets-tier men that impregnate them, what Kevin Samuels was on about and this has nothing to do with the demographics discussed on this sub or Bumble, none of these people are on dating apps because their struggles are not getting/attracting the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:45 AM
1

Is it, what do you think honey, I've personally noticed all the ball-busting women with ball-busting men unless he's super rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:31 AM
1

I think I'm too self-absorbed to keep track
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:11 AM
3

Childish + productive testosterone is fine by me honey, Childish and lazy/dirty isn't The former reminds me of my daddy, he was stupid genius, kept us on our toes, strong marriage and plenty of fun to be had, big stupid risk taker and always keeping mom active and happy, a real party thrower and productive with his energy, by definition most would find him childish in personality, but what a man he was
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:01 AM
1

He has a chin cleft/chin dimple with a lusty passionate personality, the chin dimple is a bonus, lusty personality regardless of looks is non-negotiable I would bend over for a buff lusty masculine hairy guy or Jeffree Star From Zombie Boy to Mateusz Kieliszkowski
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:30 AM
1

Baggy oversized blazers and trousers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:09 AM
-1

So what honey
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:07 AM
16

I would lick his wounds and drink his blood
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:57 AM
7

Women are not concerned with this in that way, on any given day 10 men have walked by her that wouldn't mind taking her for a ride but they never made any move on her. The point is not that she expected them to or he was "supposed to" but because it didn't matter either way and his attraction no matter how weak or strong toward her is largely irrelevant to think about. On any other normal day, 20 average joe's would've been opportunists if she said open sesame. Women are clinically knowledgeable…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:56 AM
0

I want to see his car, you can tell everything by a man's car honey
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:01 AM
1

Everyone has at least one follower honey, few capitalize on it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:59 PM
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Sometimes honey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:45 PM
1

Yes, has to drive me home too and make sure I got inside Never paid for a date in my life or ushered myself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:34 PM
1

It's just a troll post honey, I can't sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:12 AM
1

You mean those guys in boring khaki's, dirty hiker sneakers and no real muscle mass, without charisma in any social dynamic nor any lusty masculine aura whatsoever that only appeal to socially awkward socially isolated average/below average female OnlyFans nobodies are struggling to get laid by multiple hot, physically fit socially dominant culturally diverse women? Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:25 AM
1

I don't ignore the flags, it's what I like honey. Powerful men with bitches to burn. I'm not attracted to good Christian boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:14 AM
1

I only befriend big assholes that could kill me, as a result they always have multiple pussy on rotation so I have a peace of mind, so do the other women in the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:11 AM
2

Now that I think about it, I noticed all my closest 'male friends' are over 6 ft tall (6'2, 6'4, 6'1). That is about the most common trait. It came up recently because they started talking about attracting decent women being easy to a shorter guy in our social circle that claimed to have "tried everything" and claimed all the women he's been with were train wrecks, I just remember saying duh; reminder you're all 6 ft and attractive. They are so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:41 AM
2

Balance honey, sometimes I'm in the mood for silence and sometimes I'm not, I have my outlets if we're in different moods at the same time, I'm extro and have plenty to entertain myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:57 AM
1

😝
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:03 PM
2

Would you like this person? Yes Would you rush to be their best friend? No Would you be proud of having them as a friend? Yes Or would you dislike them completely No only parts of them? Yes make it your job to get rid of all the qualities that make you dislike your twin until you get to the point that you completely like you. No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:46 PM
5

Not in my 30s yet, I am not remotely attracted to any of these men except Oscar from an aesthetic photograph perspective but I cannot tell you if I would sleep with him or not, he favors my Daddy in features with that jawline and hair just a bit and that might gross me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:07 AM
1

Women have more language protein in their brains than men: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/02/130219172153.htm I feel clogged up if I don't release stress by running my mouth all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:18 AM
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How common are these mysterious 'radical feminist'? I live in a city and don't know a single 'radical feminist' woman unless you go to lesbian night at the local hole in the wall gay bars. In my experience they are concentrated around obvious niche areas and follow similar sub-culture trends, if you are constantly running into these women it is the type you keep seeking out and going for. They all look similar as well, a lot like the poly people. For example, the most feminist women I've ever se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:45 AM
4

🤮 I rather him bang pornstars IRL first. I like men that FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:00 AM
-5

We can't all be intelligent, honey!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:48 AM
1

Why the comparison honey? Women care less than men in a sense that she doesn't vomit on him at the sight of him but it is still important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:10 AM
-3

Well I don't honey, I don't care anything about it. Most women I know don't even think about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:06 AM
-2

This is very off-putting to me, I'd be more attracted if he treated her like a hole or some random bitch on the street and confidently flung her to the side and never thought about it again. Just another notch in his number. It's so gross he is respectively having sex with a hooker; like he was dependent on it. Like she used a desperate chump!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:02 AM
-1

I don't care about the women at all. I care about the man and his attitude and psyche, not the act itself. There are sexy masculine "high value" men that have slept with hookers and it is about %1 of my time and his and does not effect my attraction toward him. There are also unattractive passive men that sleep with hookers with an unattractive attitude and unattractive sexual profile and sexual psyche I would never be attracted to at all. A very off-putting and repulsive personality and psyche,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:48 PM
1

No it is not bad, women are most attracted to men that have the capacity to one-up her so your post is just off. The men you describe except bullet-point 3 are sexually unattractive BECAUSE they are unattractive either perceptional so or factually so; and that is all women see, whether it is true or not. In the romantic context or when a woman is a romantic-sexual psyche or state of mind: Women are not attracted to seeing unattractive men get attractive. They are attracted to attractive men. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:39 AM
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Because that's how women work honey. It has nothing to do with chimpanzees and baboons. Women are imaginative creatures, aroused by the visceral act of mating and sex. It explains high disgust in women; a double edge sword that makes female sexuality extremely malleable but also fickle. It's because I already imagined that scenario long before it happened! Men can sway a woman like the wind if he's good at it; it's how we are lured into bed with no guarantee of orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:15 PM
1

He met her when he didn't have squat! She selected for potential and selected right. He grew into the man he was and hit it big. The attractive millionaires I know all met their wives this way. They knew her when he was a runt with $100 to his name and the business was struggling. She gave him a few kids and married, stuck it out and his work paid off later. It's a lottery game honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:28 AM
4

This is the distinction between men that love and are crazy about women and men that love sex and are crazy about sex. The former is a lusty man that loves to attract sex, the latter is a man that wants to have sex with anything wet and warm. The former is a man with healthy high vitality and testosterone; he is sensual and alive, the latter is may have a porn addiction. There is nothing like being loved and loved down by the first man honey. He's all man and then some; he moves through the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:11 AM
1

Agree! Take me on a wild ride with the top down. Let's have a good time and dance till we drop. I'll ask questions later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:07 PM
8

Criminal law honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:07 AM
7

Reminds me of that Black Mirror episode "Hang the DJ". How did that end hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:13 AM
2

Everyone starts off a virgin honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:10 AM
1

I know a lot of hot poor people. A lot of those people don't have a dime to their name yet. The most fit men I know spent years in prison. You either come out fat or hotter/healthier than you went in. Poor looks good on men but not women. We don't age well under all that stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:06 AM
2

No such thing as a fuckboy outside of high school honey. Just a man that particular woman couldn't keep. Another woman's fuckboy is another woman's boyfriend or husband easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:22 AM
1

I don't care what the Mark man has to say. None of it matters. It is the conviction, unwavering, passion and lustful drive that is attractive. It could be the god honest truth or a bunch of bullshit dressed up in sugar. Men lusty about women are also lusty about life. They'll tell a bunch of lies or swear on the bible with a blood oath. They are the most authentically unauthentic people you will ever meet or the most self-aware human being on the planet. Anyway you wanna frame it, lusty men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:51 AM
1

I think this is a Strawman out the wazoo. I could be wrong but it's what it looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:06 AM
-1

Texting is for shy teens. If I'm interested I'm calling on the phone or FT, you're going on the schedule, I'm dropping by while "in the area", and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:04 AM
1

It's wise to mistrust before trusting, but I'm not red pill. Mistrust is a neutral stance. You can't earn my trust and I won't give it to you, we create it together through organic progression of any subjective 'speed' relative to the individual, seems reasonable to me or am I looney? Mistrust allows for unbiased precaution and vetting without being distrustful. You should be moving along nicely. If you aren't moving forward, you're probably distrustful, let's get that sorted. Distrustful indivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:52 AM
3

What's wrong with anything? What does it matter others opinions?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:45 AM
3

I scored 40, but I fought for it and still am! People died, people lost, people betrayed along the way, I wasn't advantaged just wouldn't take anything less. Started from the bottom now we here! I can toss any side of the coin and make something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:44 AM
1

Sounds like me, love when he nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:22 PM
3

Women have targets honey, we just don't aim for the bullseye like men. We're shooting on the outer rings and up against the wall. If she's playing the game, she's hunting along side him. She'll make it fun and easy for you, give you a clear shot, but it's up to you to hit the bullseye. Women manipulate and regulate male attention depending on how they're feeling. Not all hunters use guns, some use traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:51 AM
3

Men are more subtle and indirect that you think; they are making moves but being a way about it. Their way of flirting is offering to do something, striking something up, inviting me somewhere, favors, doing something dangerous to be cute or alluding their money. They slide in coy. Others just stare very hard like the women, and I couldn’t be assed to know what they are thinking about. The ones that muster something up are all over the place in conservation or confess why they were staring hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:19 PM
1

I didn't put hardly anything into it. He did everything; took me around the block multiple times. Woo'd me like a princess. He was the first guy I had anything serious with. There were those stupid guys in HS, but I don't count 'em. I was clean all the way until I got to college. He was in his mid-20s when I had just turned 18. I heard all the rumors from the chicks on campus he was huge player, but that's after we'd be seeing each other for a bit. He stalked me after every class until I gave in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:18 AM
1

I can't because I don't remember them. They are about as memorable as my first poop. That's what I mean by not getting it. The men that got it good, got a special memory slot. Make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:20 AM
1

It's very catty behavior. Reminds me of an ex gf, I couldn't blink without her bursting into tears. She was jealous 24/7. All jealousy is passive to me, it's about the other man not about me. I'd prefer a little possessiveness honey, at least I know it's all about me and he's not thinking about another man. The hot ones are the most jealous, they've got a lot issues and fear of measuring up to some other man. The real attractive ones; a lot of them feel ugly so they are always fearing some other…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:06 AM
3

What do you want, an argument? Which sex looks better doesn't matter any kinda fucking way. There's no point picking and comparing between chocolate and vanilla. I'll take 'em both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:08 AM
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Well, then stop having it. Find a sweet girl to be with and call it night like most. Why keep sticking your hand in a cookie jar full of fire ants?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:02 AM
1

Then don't travel honey, stay there. It's no sweat off my back. I travel for networking opportunities, business and leisure. I always run into someone new; traveling like I am. These men and women are totes more outgoing than the regulars. They are American's too, but they love meeting people as much I do. It's a thing that happens. Stay put, the women are everywhere. When I visited other countries, the men are really something else. Totally overwhelming. Some places I couldn't wait to get out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:44 AM
2

Who said anything about moving?! You couldn't pay me enough to leave where I am now. I love America! I won't even leave the East Coast. That's why I wasn't having it. He can follow me anywhere, but I'm not budging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:39 AM
-3

So do some traveling then. Yes, go outside, but also leave the damn backyard! There's nothing but the same two fucking rabbits out there. I met a guy traveling as usual, this happens a lot. A lot of young people travel alone more. A lot of solo people. I was on Oahu this time and went sailing with him in about a few hours. Just started macking me on the beach, I was feeling hot all kinds of ways in the weather and he slanged on the game quick. I spent three nights with him. No clue who the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:28 AM
2

He would have a lot of fun with Basic Becky™. They have a lot to offer each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:26 AM
1

Just don't be a murderous criminal and you will pass the test for most people. You don't have to do too much. Active listening to the women in your life, you don't have to say a damn thing. Just let her know you're all there in the head while she's talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:19 AM
4

Sounds good to me either way honey. It's all free for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:16 AM
1

Fine. I'll take it for 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:01 AM
2

Everyone needs and loves trouble honey, but only few are missing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:59 AM
3

Flirting, giggling, submitting without intentionally meaning to, compromising, raising your voice when you talk, touching your hair, good feelings of 'smallness', how she sits, all the way down to how she flutters her hands, etc. A lot of it is subtle and involuntary. Most women don't realize they are doing it honey, they just want a man to inspire it and answer it properly. "Boss babe" turns into a kitten all the time, same concept. If she is a hard ballbuster around you, she has no respect for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:47 AM
2

"Expectant femininity" is traditional society expectations and performances. A woman conforming to society will have an easier time moving through it. Women that do not will get 'shamed' for being different. An example of this woman is always appearing pleasant, even when in a bad mood. "Reactive femininity" is how you feel, react, emote and respond in the presence of a masculine man that compliments you. Flirting, giggling, submitting, compromising, raising your voice, touching your hair, good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:33 AM
1

Openness to experience is what I like. Same hobbies don't matter to me. I couldn't care less, and I care about as much as this:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:40 AM
3

She offers a wild ride. Don't get on if you don't like it hun, the teacups are just as popular as the wonder woman coaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:32 AM
2

Well I don't know, it's a personal choice. Simple as that. There are rational reasons, but humans don't have time to think about them. Eventually people get so damn old you get stuck with that one old geezer of a man/woman you aren't married to that sticks around regardless, moved in and everything, you both take ER visits together and do nothing but watch TV and visit the Casino slots on the weekends until someone croaks and no one cares anymore. You're the one with the super great argument. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:26 AM
1

Please show pictures, without pictures I am just picturing stilts. The whole thing seems silly in my head. I remember a 5'2" meathead firecracker I was with, he had enough energy for 17 of us, I was 4 inches taller than him in a short heel. He carried me around like I was made of glass. We only had one in a half dates. Started stalking me after that, he wouldn't let up until I smashed him down a peg. The whole thing was fucking silly. He just wouldn't shut up about dominating me like a man. It w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:14 AM
1

A very deep voice, vocalizing commands, him being highly reactive and responsive, his body on me and engulfing me, his scent, skin, dick. Eye contact that swallows me up like a floor. Lets me be hungry and active, knows how to sit back and let me express myself, knows how to sit back and desire me as I satisfy my desire for him. Men not easily disgusted - toe sucking while your feet are in the air kinda men. All or nothing kinda men - they are rough without violence. Loving him makes it more pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:11 AM
2

There are 4 types of femininity that I care about: Expectant femininity (efficiency, path of least resistance, high social intelligence/high manipulation, minimal social conflict). Reactive femininity (involuntarily behaviors that occur in the presence of a masculine man) — only triggered by one type of male and only during romantic/sexual interest. Just being "male" will not bring this out nor compel these reactions. Natural femininity intrinsic to femaleness (dual hemisphere brain usage, estro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:03 AM
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I don't offer a thing but a warm body and warm meal. Sometimes a warm welcome if I had a good day. I'm an acts of service, physical touch kind of person. Some other things, I have a lot of $$$$$$ but it's on the man to care about that or not. A few have, a few haven't. Fuck gift-giving, I'm a lot of personality. Enough for the both of us. He can be can be more subtle but he has to lusty. He'll open up around me. Partners like to keep up. When I move, he moves just like that. Vice versa. No one w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:34 AM
1

It tells us that no matter how bad it gets, the food will always be good. Good food is never going to die!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:24 AM
2

I don't have answers to any of these questions. Google them or something honey. Men care but not nearly as much women do, I'll tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:22 AM
2

Because it's true and not a damn thing you are talking about makes standards "high". The real question is what's the problem? What's the problem with all these things you describe? Why in the world would any woman be fine with the opposite of these things? A man that doesn't care about my looks and is open to dating obese shemales, what the fuck kinda relationship is that!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:48 AM
1

You mean all those people I am attracted to but it never lasted over a few weeks to 3 minutes because they weren't my type? Oh yeah honey. A ton of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:05 AM
1

What is the world is F count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:49 PM
4

Which men here wanna get their face beat properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:44 PM
1

Wait, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:07 AM
1

The pill colors red, blue, pink, black and all that. I don't have any kinda color or ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:05 AM
2

Monogamous and poly individuals have different brain structures. It is extremely difficult for their brains to think in the opposite. Like, almost impossible. Like atheists and theists. There was a study many moons ago. No idea where it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:49 AM
1

Ewwww absolutely not. This is just in the case some guy asked me if he should or not. He can do what he wants honey, but I wouldn't encourage him to turn a healthy woman twisted. It's like removing strong limbs. Have you ever seen Black Alien Project? What kind of hell of life is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:16 AM
3

I don't trust Christian women. I don't believe a damn word they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:04 AM
2

I was all about games, dancing, and showing up to the party. I wasn't going to commit anywhere until I was ready. You could've been a pot of gold dripping in honey and I wouldn't stay. One man or 1500 of them lined up waiting to be shot. You can date one man or date 3,000 of them. Likewise with men, neither dating strategy matters unless the people are intentional in getting off the market. Even more so the woman. It's easy to string the boys along until they are tired; and some will even come b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:53 AM
1

It's all about mindset. It didn't matter, I could have fun with one guy at a time for 2 years or 15 of them for 15 months. When I was ready to get off the market, I just picked one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:17 AM
4

I think the pill poppers make some good points, they just get way too high off the supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:58 AM
7

So a trophy husband for your participation? 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:32 AM
1

The guy you describe sounds like a self-preserving hypochondriac to me honey. Hypochondriacs aren't always healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:14 AM
10

What do you want honey, a trophy wife for your participation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:11 AM
2

Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:04 AM
1

He can do whatever he wants to do honey, you don't need an essay to justify this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:03 AM
4

Well take some meds honey. Everything but autism has meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:02 AM
2

Too much wink emoji. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:01 AM
3

Men value consistency. Women value movement. A man will put up with anything from a woman so long as she is consistent in it. A woman will put up with anything from a man so long as he is never stagnant. Women leave when the man becomes stagnant and she cannot take it anymore, or has become bored. The idea of a woman changing or evolving is jarring for men. The idea of stagnancy in a man is jarring for women. Women do not fear him being inconsiderate, they fear that this behavior will persist an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:54 AM
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It's how they sell it not the traits themselves for me. Self-preserving clinically responsible men with political personalities are supposed to be attractive, I don't find it so. Henry Cavill is a good example, a self-preserving health freak is what makes him unattractive, not that sexy face and body of his. If he was lusty-minded, in touch with his sensual side it and his body beyond clean working kidneys he would be a different story. I'm not a medical doctor, so don't care at all about how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/lx4q7p/comment/gplcr7a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 😈 😈 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:15 AM
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I was a fast-reading snobby book bitch in my teens. Doing at least 50 books a year, these were just another needle to the hay. You could've given me a book on any kind of crazy shit and I would've read it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:13 AM
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I don't have much thoughts. Do whatever you want baby, you only live once and if you're a man that time is probably half of that. My daddy barely made it to 60 before kicking the bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:28 AM
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Find your signature masculine fragrance, understand the different notes and what goes well with your body and chemistry, get oiled based so it seeps into your skin properly, buy the entire collection and not just a single one to match the change of seasons; and to suit the occasion, dark and rich for winter, refreshing for summer because men sweat heavy, another for general occasions, something intimate for date night, apply on your neck and behind the ears. Find your signature piece; one or two…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:26 AM
0

Idk! Who cares?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:09 AM
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Well go ahead honey. Women don't care until after the fuck sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:05 AM
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My partner is in the entertainment industry and does finance and business. We met at a social event; he was the speaker. A friend of mine told me to go hear him speak, and I met him through that friend. I hated his fucking guts in a good way. We are pretty much the same speed, except I don't make as much content anymore, he genuinely enjoys it more than I do. Both of us can handle each other fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:39 AM
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Read the room, environment and surroundings! Know what you're working with and how to work within it. Men like performing and getting praise from his woman so I don't have to do anything or tell him 'how to act'. He's on his best and worst behavior always, my only job is to be with it or not and vet accordingly. Holding out a bunch of chairs won't hurt you with me, but it's not what I "vet" for either; so don't expect the moon honey. Keep it reasonable, but let loose too. I want to see and feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:06 PM
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I'm fickle and don't pause or investigate anything. If I have to dive deeper for me personally, it ain't worth finding out honey. I'm out like a light! Yellow flag is just indifference to me. 1000 yellow flag has to turn them green or I'm walking right by him, 'great guy or not'. It's not my or his fault, I've just got things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:01 PM
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There hasn't been any sex symbol that interests me personally since the 40s-80s; women and men and I am a 90s kid. Henry Cavill is hot looking, but isn't a lusty type. I get the idea he is self-preserving. He is most attractive in The Witcher because he plays the role of a more lusty man with entanglements with high lust sx-dom women like Yennifer. Lusty types aren't self-preserving, and a lot of the sex symbols today are not lusty/sexual types, they are socials/SO and self-preserving/SP dominan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:58 AM
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I have some female friends that only date and love rich men, but I wouldn't call it sugaring, they are all successful with their own status and money. My best friend was on HGTV for her work; she's got her own stuff going on and she only dates rich men, however I think if the offer was sweet enough she would take it in spite of, but she's a hard cookie to crack, it just can't be any 'rich man'. She is picky. On the opposite end, I have plenty female friends that wouldn't do anything like that. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:19 AM
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A rare quality doesn't mean anything if he can't sell it right. That is true for all aspects of a man. There are 10 tricks on a block, the woman picks the one she's going with based on how he makes her feel and the promises. This is what he's selling baby, and this is what you get for coming with me and not him. He believes his bullshit more than she does. He's got it all figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:09 AM
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Well what is your goal? To be a high n-count man, a top man or a "high achiever" because the former is doesn't require the latter, and if you want to learn the latter you aren't going to learn it listening to TRP because none of it teaches anything about business; not even the best business schools teach anything important about business. Some may not have worked for it, but a great deal created it but had to learn how to sustain momentum. You'll have to make connections for that. A majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:06 AM
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I care if you care, I do not care if you do not care. How much I care about a man's past is entirely dependent on how much emphasis he puts on it himself. Judging by your post, I would not be with a man like you; because if the assumption you have a leg up on men that do not live like you. I like men that don't give a fuck about anything but living how they want to live! Not some man with the idea they will be rewarded later in life or whatnot. There are men that've slept with tons of women thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:20 AM
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In "hypergamous dirt poor countries" the women just pick the man that accumulates the most cows or goats. How can you practice hypergamy in a westernized way if everyone around you in your country is dirt poor?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:46 AM
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Red Pill shouldn't concern women at all honey, because there is nothing women can do about it but RESPOND TO IT how she deems fit. It's not what 'he what does he have to offer', the man has made his offer already; it is now the woman's position to negotiate his terms to accommodate 'hers'. I don't mean this in a literal sense, but instead to mitigate her stress as a woman. It's less STRESS for the female. It's not about what she 'gains or loses' but the female has the power to DICTATE what she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:24 AM
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At the end of the day, who cares about the technicals honey. Does she/he want to fuck or not? If not, keep it pushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:00 AM
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More often than not, most of women are upset it's not done to their standard, not that it isn't being done. She will redo the whole thing over again. I am all about reducing as much as stress as possible, so don't know what 'split' even means really. I don't expect it, he does what he wants to do, likewise I do what I want to do - neither of us are doing what do not want to do. My relationships are not based on 'equality' but on my and his desires and the only time I think what you are describin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:28 AM
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Finally a post to have fun with! This is true if the criterion is relative to the male imperative and male desires; but a female shut-in generally will not benefit from it romantically unless she is physically attractive and can monetize herself enough to have the female imperative satisfied, which is what most of them do. I think the uptick of OnlyFans, etc.. is correlative to the uptick of neurodivergent socially awkward women, not in the sense that 'prostitution' is new, but in that socially …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:33 PM
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Why do you all care about 'accuracy' so much? Just get plastic surgery, cheat through life, put on some weight if it makes you look hotter, no one is going to punish you. There is no easy way, you have to give and take risk to get. Are you just going to stay ugly forever and die alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:06 PM
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What's the point of this question honey? Obv I love all of it, and THEN SOME. Emphasis on and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:55 PM
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It's not bad honey, but there are useful generalizations and useless ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:34 AM
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Low fitness, processed food, poor diets, unnecessary medications, neurodivergent, neuroticism, older parents, boredom, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:29 AM
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What part of the United States of America do you all live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:02 AM
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What you are describing is "swag".. a good cut, smelling good, nice watch, stylish clothing - bold presence, take up space literally and figuratively, the comedian. There are many chunky men with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:48 PM
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Duh! Who gives a fuck. I have all kinds of friends. Gold diggers, assholes, cheaters, genuinely kind people, religious freaks, etc. I get on with everyone, love people unless they hate me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:30 AM
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That's fine too, baby. Whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:03 AM
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Nope. Never single honey. Always someone, something, somewhere, somewhen. Men also have to get used to this realization when they are with such a woman and not feel bothered by it or tear the relationship apart. She will have her own coping mechanisms; either healthy or unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:43 AM
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No they are attracted, but also attracted to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:40 AM
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If they should, then men should sweeten the deal. They are the one making the proposal women are chasing all the wrong ones. Show women, don't tell what they are missing by chasing and getting with 'higher up' men. Women will follow if you show them what you are working with and 'outshine' other men. Show them how you do it better, then. Women make exceptions for a man that did it better. You are in competition with those men, not the women that love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:02 AM
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It's boring stuff and I'm tired honey; I run my mouth all day with these men. I already have male work coworkers/associates to chit chat this stuff with. The smart ass male role model and intellectual INTP male friend role is filled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:38 PM
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Women don't "use" dating apps honey, just like women don't answer their DMs on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:19 AM
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I have never once gotten into a relationship with a man I knew couldn't sexually please me first. I am honestly shocked people wait until 3 years into the relationship to talk about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:59 AM
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Why do you want me to argue with your PERSONAL feelings, PERSONAL preferences and PERSONAL desires honey?! Why? This question is so confusing, you want me to argue with your own brain like a looney?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:21 AM
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90% of women want self-esteem and self-confidence. The other %10 have it naturally. Men are coming and going either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:31 PM
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They notice all kinds of women and men adapt and adjust their behavior to all different kinds of women depending on the woman: Ugly women get X kind of treatment from men. Average women get X kind of treatment from men. Attractive women get X kind of treatment from men. Typically Girl 1 desires to be treated like Girl 3, and Girl 3 desires to be treated like 2. Girl 2 would never want to be girl 1. Considering %50 of the population is men, it is in women's best interest to appeal to both %50 of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:02 PM
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Outside of bad eating manners and self/environment-awareness, not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:35 AM
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Not being able to attract any men is women's worst nightmare, not being able to attract a hot woman is men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:31 AM
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Definitely, I'll take an average looking status-driven powerful hungry man over a nobody boring Clark Kent any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:21 AM
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Many broke men with 6 figure incomes honey. That's even worse than the poor man. Many men making less than me income wise, with wealth for years. The women you are talking about love broke men because they are broke, that is why they talk about it 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:13 AM
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Just look at those two hot chicks swirling shit in their mouth and that one guy playing jar-breaker with his ass! I'll put big $$$ there is more than one guy that's gotten off to it. Do you think that was made for women?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:38 AM
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No, that is not why they hate losing looks but a complete shift happens. A better comparison is "looks" not always sex appeal, and loosing 'attractiveness' for many woman as they age is like an inability to get an erection and having to live with a permanently flaccid dick. You get try the ED meds, in women it is botox. Obviously the majority of old men likely won't be using their flaccid dicks very often at all, but doesn't having the ability to get a nice rock hard boner just in case because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:13 AM
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This OP is obviously karma-farming, but the post fell flat. Even men know it's ridiculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:03 AM
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The point is it gives THEE woman that says yes room to express her sexuality toward YOU and say YES enthusiastically, instead of her performing for or at you. Believe it or not, I don't care baby. In this situation it is 50/50 always with the scenario you pose while you tap-dance like a monkey for her and pray she doesn't starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:58 AM
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Is a waste of everyone's time concocting elaborate lies when that time could've been spent laying in two indiscriminate SLUTS' beds. That's the difference honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:49 AM
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If you are talking about that one bamboozling women out of sex through treacherous lies thread, it is because they are poor at talking to women. Yes, to women. Not with women. Friend-zoned men talk with women. These men are terrible at talking to women, but the the most honest man will leave with one woman on the arm and without the baggage later. If you are not a smooth guy, the quickest way is to pose ultimatum statements, closed statements, and ask closed questions. Women communicate in bread…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:20 AM
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The better guy has the best pitch, honey. Read my posts/2 cents here and here. I break down the "nice guy" from my POV, why he loses against competitors and how to reduce his losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:02 AM
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Well, I’m not a grammar nazi or very detailed! I’d be editing my posts all day honey. Almost all are rushed and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:11 PM
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Women do not dislike porn because of “sex slavery” or whatever intellectualized porn thesis people are coming up with, women dislike porn when THEIR man watches it because it hurts her feelings, it’s that simple. I don’t know any woman that cares about porn in any intellectual capacity unless she is forced to think about it deeply like this Q unless she is some kind of social worker. Most women do not sit around thinking about this. The reaction is not “that poor Hungarian sex slave on the scree…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:19 PM
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Men are better experienced. In movement, in sound, in feeling, in real time, in total. I don't see how you concluded women are not sexually attracted to men when women simmer in arousal for the man in entirety. I like how muscular men take up space, enclose around me and feel for instance. I like to feel his muscular chest and I enjoy running my hands down his body is we are fucking, abs or not, it stimulates. I am not turned on by random men visually 'right away' but yes, my partner visually tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:38 PM
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Become the person you want or become the person they want. People that do neither but are unsatisfied will have to make do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:53 PM
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Creativity, innovation, building. All the success I've made so far mostly came from following, networking, communicating and listening the moves and two cents of men. There are also a lot of intelligent women that give great advice too, that I have used that to enhance my interpersonal life and navigation in the world, but there is a guy will have a comeback always at how she can be better without sacrificing as much. A lot of my female friends will say "watch what men are doing," if you wanna s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:48 PM
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Nope, I'd be a short passive feminized twink male with gynaecomastia. I'd probably be in the queer community preaching confidence and drag-queening if anything with a history of toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:42 PM
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I think you want women to be in this role; then men must also adapt and take on the feminine role. He must signal feminine IOI, and take the complete backseat. In my experience, men with healthy testosterone and high confidence do not remain in this position for long enough for the woman to "flex" from a masculine position anyway and very few women find passive men attractive in the long-term. Feminine IOI is also physiological, not simply a psychological road block, all the way down to how a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:40 PM
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I think average people do not want above average or below average people. Most of the people on this subreddit claim to be either above average or below average. Average people like to blend in, and don't want someone they cannot handle because neither is conducive in the long-term to their average lifestyle. It seems average people are rejecting above and below average people to pursue other average people — and in turn have more success because they relate to each other more. Above average peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:40 AM
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Picking up social cues is not my strong suit, although I'm a lot better in that regard than I used to be. That makes sense. That's good you've improved. I've never paid for a single thing dating wise, but then again this same man has seen me treat a group of people in entirety at a dinner party without issue; and sees how I work in certain facets of interaction with others. Intentionality is not necessarily masculine nor grand gesture; and I think intentionality is better suited for marriage-min…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:01 AM
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Women touch men they find attractive and give high amount of feminine IOI. They may not initiate grand gesture; but will use touch and a variety of other mannerism. What describe is very bizarre and not a normal experience of 'masculine/feminine' dancing - similar in Tango where there is a lead and a follow. It seems to me you are only sensitive and responsive to strongly masculine courting rituals being done toward you; and are either unaware, insensitive, or disinterested in more passive/femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:00 PM
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Hormones, baby. They come and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:41 AM
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Living in the city, catcalls are %1 of my entire day, don't think about 'em beyond that present moment or cultivate any feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:31 AM
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Wouldn't change a damn thing. I've been an attention whore since I was a spoiled little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:27 AM
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It's mostly for hookups, sweetheart. Most men break frame when they are interested in the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:24 AM
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You're free to shame anyone you want, if no one is shaming your lifestyle, you ain't doing it right, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:20 AM
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Get what you want out of life, honey. You've only got one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:19 AM
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Do whatever works for you honey. I know a man that met a shut-in girlfriend on Discord without stepping a foot out the house; two peas in a pod. Some gotta go directly to the fish, some of fine dangling bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:16 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:34 AM
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Yes, the only thing that arouses women is height, shoe size and positive canthal tilts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:29 AM
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Women treat men they just met how they want to be treated, they leave the relationship treating him how he treated her. Live and learn, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:03 AM
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I have never met a male virgin in my life offline that isn't a family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:46 AM
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No, he was an ESFP playa in and out of my life that I had to get rid of voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:43 AM
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Never mod a subreddit you actually post in unless it's yours! RIP Hazy. 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:15 AM
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Do whatever you want baby. It's no sweat off my back what you wanna do, I don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:59 PM
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Neither, I'd run off with one of my illegal possession of firearm or misdemeanor clients, he will protect me against them both and we will make lusty mid-IQ babies first with a mysterious future ahead, kept on our toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:48 PM
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I care if he has that kind of brain and is still broke as a joke with no receipts. If I am attracted to him, he can talk whatever kind of nonsense he wants to me honey. I may even offer him a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:25 PM
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Hahaha, it was non-stop going honey. Everything was fast. Not as bad as the ESTJ military man. He couldn't accept any critique! His knowledge was law! Not with my ENTJ parents, a bit more flexible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:04 PM
1

I have never listened to a damn thing out a man's mouth, I just like how they sound when they talk that shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:54 AM
1

Maybe 1 or 2. They are really just crazy people, honey. They've got issues, not no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:47 AM
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My HS was this: Cheerleaders/dance team senior girls were the "hottest" and the least sexually nasty, long term boyfriend or dating an unknown male in college. Alternative/scene/goth/emo/skater girls - slutty but only with men in the cliche. Sometimes had a group of alternative boys worshipping one funny looking promiscious emo girl with a boyfriend from another school. Overweight girls were either lesbians that slept with men or had a lot of promiscious sex with boys that didn't go to the schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:34 AM
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The Church of Red Pill did not patent or create any of these personality traits. I have no idea what those personality traits have to do with the Red Book of Pages aside from their being people in the Red religion that exhibit these same traits. It is like the Scientism religious crowd worshipping scientific methods, then claiming scientists love science because Scientism exists. Do you know how insane this sounds, honey?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:21 AM
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My parents were both ENTJ's and married UMC, Daddy a businessman/honorably discharged Marine and mom a programmer in Tech. They loved to throw parties and socialize; they were smart but very active. Both loved to drink, throw parties, and smoke. 3 of my 5 siblings turned out ESTPs with criminal records and alcohol problems; they have the bipolar gene. The rest of us turned out very well off. Daddy loved to drink and was a diagnosed bipolar; he'd be up all ours dancing with mania. Mom liked to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:59 PM
2

Let's talk about something else!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:42 PM
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I cannot agree with #2 and do not really see point of stating it, it can be removed entirely the post. The entirety of a male except for his genitals is personality. It has genetic, biological, physiological components. Bad personality in this context means unattractive, not anything ethical or moral. Men with 'bad personalities' are called women. It cannot be 'overstated' in a way that ever hurts, because you must draw reference from specific traits or forms of conduct, unless you are talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:00 PM
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I dumped a guy from Harvard that drove a impractical Mercedes because he wouldn't shut up about it or his degrees. I couldn't take it anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:05 AM
1

Hannibal - 3. Johnny - 6. Riff Raff - 7.5. Druski - 5.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:00 AM
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Their social media bios have the following or similar: [....] Poor hygiene and grooming: [...] Good ones. I am %100 out at any of these! Only books on their shelf are The Art of War, Rich Dad Poor Dad, And worshipping and attempting to seriously 'follow' anything in 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene for me. 😂 Calling me pet names like “baby” in texts right away. My habit and weakness!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:44 PM
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Green: Self-starters first and foremost. Some degree of Misplaced Confidence if I have to deal with one of the three. Sensuality or "lusty" types as opposed to self-preserving or social types, because I am a Sexual/SX type, you can scroll and read about it. Self-awareness and (sensation)-driven with future in mind. Awareness of their "position" in the environment around them. At least 1-3 hobbies outside of technology and computers involving creativity, the hands, or body. Goes a bit above avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:44 PM
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Blue Pillers talk a lot of shit, honey! Many women fall for it. A lot are sexually arousing tricks. They know what they are doing and some don't. Have you ever been macked on by a blue pill man. They smoke women out and play the long game!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:00 PM
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You don't need plenty, but you need it hun! There are many kinds of game. Playas, tricking, etc. Boyfriend/company game is different. Men with no game either get roasted by women - a laughing stock! Ignored or they find their girlfriend in a unique way, like online forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:54 PM
2

Let's talk about something else!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:29 PM
2

"Guys in relationships (providers/husbands)" or a boyfriend? Boyfriends have plenty game, especially since the majority aren't established to have 'provider' or 'husband' traits. He is a company-keeper. Men with no game don't get women at all. They are not boyfriend material. Basically men that fuck great and she can stand! That is how causal sex can turn into boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:26 PM
2

My ex man Mr. blue eyes, was in the Air Force, didn't go to college, worked on cars and loved Harley motorcycles. His only accepted form of payment was a beer and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:13 PM
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😘 🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:26 PM
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They save you more money and keep wealth in household. Through college, I strategically dated blue collars. Most had their own much younger than the tech guys. They saved me thousands and supported me almost %80 by default. Men are for saving $$$, not making it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:29 PM
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Or how about all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:25 AM
2

There is clinical "Daddy" (paternal/transactional). there is gross "Daddy" (BDSM/ageplay trauma). There is femininity affirming Daddy (animus/anima). Then there is "Damn Daddy" (non-paternal arousal). Bullet 3, 4 are fine. Pick which one sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:18 AM
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They don't practice benevolent sexism. Sexually successful men are the biggest gender equalitarians on the planet, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:54 AM
2

About caring about anything related to this! Who cares if women are angry! Who cares if a manwhore wants an 18 yo. virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:30 AM
1

I don't get the big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:18 AM
2

If I am attracted to him, IDGAF what he asks!
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:44 AM
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Everybody holds doors for everyone. That's the problem honey. Bare minimum won't ever cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:25 AM
2

False for me, personally. I only call the men I'm interested in handsome; that is one of their pet names. Give a man a compliment, he will give you the world baby. That's why only special men get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:23 AM
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I will agree this is true the majority of the time, but disagree in part that there are people that are just genetically confident and arrogant regardless of external factors and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:26 AM
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Facts are facts honey. I don't care what a man's opinion on it is. I've never met a man or been with one that discusses abuse stats in any interested way anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:22 AM
-2

Why would any woman want to use Bumble? Females are wired to be hunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:19 AM
2

B very easy. I stopped reading at virgin, no gf, weird simp-y behaviors, other odd things. I knew a few guys like that, and they made me feel so insecure, uncomfortable, etc. lots of mouth-breathers with bizarre sexualities and fetishes, could only be aroused by sucking a woman's toes and being beneath her feet, stuff like that. You realize that caring about and loving a woman has nothing to do with "worship" and other bizarre-like behaviors... and the opposite of 'worship' is not 'uncaring/call…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:08 AM
2

No, it's hot and masculine.. Shows vitality, interest in the opposite sex, lust, passion, with vivacity and a little insatiable animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:02 AM
1

I don't 'friendzone' men that pursued me romantically, male friends started as friends and stay that way forever and I don't care if they want to fuck me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:55 AM
1

Men that mean mug are the kind ones in private. Smiley men with big wide eyes are crazy af! A lot had other things going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:53 AM
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Treating her like a man means to hold frame and treat her indifferently, not like she is invisible. Like men. Yes, some women like that shit. It means to say everything you mean with your chest and let her take it or leave it, and don't apologize for it, like men do men. If you want sex, that's how it works. If you want a girlfriend that takes 3 months to make up her mind about you because she can't even tell who you are, hold the doors and do performative stuff honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:49 AM
1

😱
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:00 AM
2

Old =/= older =/= young =/= younger =/= youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:53 AM
1

So...a virgin Not necessarily. Any man not fucking for more than a few years!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:50 AM
1

Hannah Arendt, Martha Nussbaum, Hypatia, Aphrodite, Sabina Spielrein, Katharine Janeway, Annika Hanse, Mary Queen of Scots, Queen Hatshepsut, Audrey Hepburn, Katherine Hepburn, Susan Haack, Eartha Kitt, Vera Bennett, Mary of Nazareth, Cersei Lannister, Grace Kelly, Lady Snowblood/Yuki Kashima, Emmy Noether, Toni Morrison, Thai Lee, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:26 AM
0

Good question, honey. None ya bizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:59 PM
5

Not being used at all! He went to waste, so turned into a lump of waste himself by being inactive/stagnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:56 PM
1

For every bitch I've had to question or take out, there is a nice one I am getting along with!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:53 PM
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I am from up North, but have 2nd property down there I use for girl trips and rent out because I love Florida. It is all fun and games and lot's to do in Florida outside of men. I have never cheated. My girlfriends are 50/50. Some are loose enough to bring men back and others are too scared to move. I couldn't see some of them cheating, not even the most fox ones. Some of my friends are real foxes, but they'd never do it and I then I know a woman that has taken off an engagement ring to get bang…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:42 PM
1

I like to collect cigars from different travel places. Dad used to do that. My grandad was just all beat up from war. Dad was all beat up from draft and war. All heavy smokers. I think life killed them more than the smoke. Life beat the hell out of them. They needed a rest. I'm happy they are in the clouds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:13 AM
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The cigarette smoking doesn't bother me. It isn't good or pretty, I never picked up the habit but my parents both smoked. Both cigarettes and cigars. It would mix with their scents and perfumes. It is a little homely. They were strong as an ox. I just grew up around a bunch of smokers. Granddad would smoke over 6 packs a day and say about 3 words a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:54 AM
1

I cycle through friends every 3-5 years, both male and female. I change friends about every few years, associates every few months, and acquaintances are what they are. I have male social connections I maintain from networking for a variety of reasons. They are rent-a-friend for the event type of friends; call on a friend for a favor. If we need a foot in the door. Some I met traveling, some I met at work, or an event, or where ever. It really depends on what male you are talking about, and I'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:41 AM
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I would say the reproductive system and things revolving around the vagina for women in general, but not specifically for myself. I have never been sickly and prone to tons of illnesses and was, still am pretty biologically sturdy and agile, just kind of innately built for activity, although skinny as a stick, with not so bad periods. None that have knocked me around much. I also have never had large heavy boobs destroying my back or anything like that, so always sat out on the big boob problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:28 PM
6

Women like good sex whether it is 'casual' or committed. That's all I get out of it. Your question is confusing to me personally. I don't conflate "hook-up culture" with a woman that has sex with a man she isn't committed to in a formal/traditional long-term monogamous relationship, as there is plenty going on outside of this one arrangement. "Hook-up culture," have ritualized sex through cultural trend for the sake of sex with unsexy, lustless men, many in which have a transactional mindset abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:18 PM
1

I think this in particular is all relative. Meaning whether or not your looks are holding you back is relative to your social class, culture and environment. Very physically attractive people will attract all people for different reasons, but not always be able to hold attention and compel others to act, and they may not need to - because who the e/affect is all that matters. Which is why sometimes you will see attractive people disregard those that want to 'court', 'simps' or 'orbiters' to purs…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:29 AM
2

I think it is just a matter of communication/argumentative style. Every individual submits to their own style while neglecting the listener/opposing party. Either individual is bad at communicating any other style in which they refuse to adapt to. I have learned to condense and I taught how him to win any argument he engages in. He taught me how to get a direct answer people, and I taught him how to not just a direct answer, but increase the accuracy of receive the truth within that answer. I ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:56 PM
2

Haha, I was wondering where this guy went. I was hoping some good woman finally took him off the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:29 AM
7

Butterface, overweight, manly, ghetto, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:28 AM
2

hypergamous by nature It is not really like that, honey. I've just never met a man offline that doesn't at minimum have an ex girlfriend or has fucked some women. Where in the world would I find a virgin male except in high schools or putting out some kind of internet ad for male virgins? Even bizarre social outcast type men lost their virginities to overweight/strange women on FetLife or hookers. This alone puzzles me, because what kind of man in personality is voluntarily a virgin and how coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:05 AM
2

Empowering women to take the lead, reduces the opportunity for men to take the initiative. Superb! The sexually assertive man empowers the woman to be disinhibited and spontaneous with him, and that is how they rack up numbers; they create sexually assertive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:19 AM
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This is what I heard too. But even more strangely, OP means to me women are passively letting a lot of sexually unattractive men into their homes as safe options that are not turning out as planned, because for one reason or another, no sex is taking place although that was intent all along. This is truly the craziest thing for me to relate to, inviting a sexually passive/sexually unappealing male in my home to hangout and hoping he turns into a sexually attractive one. This happens when you sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:01 AM
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Many of these attempts to hint sex are very foreign to me, considering for me it is more of a physiological/hormonal event that happens with no calculated measure to "give hints", but instead my body instinctively knows what to do and how to fall into place. I've never hung out with a guy all night long and we both were obviously there for romantic reasons and he has never made any kind of move whatsoever, whether I wanted it to happen or not, his sexual desire was always active and clear, even …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:07 AM
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Everything happened pretty fast, so I don't remember. Short-hair, nice teeth. Face wasn't a modelesque type of handsome. He wore a lot of dark colors. Smelled like heaven, wore fragrance, with arms that kill. I loved his hugs. Wore jewelry. No idea the exact height, honey. I am 5'4" and my head came to his chest. That's all I remember regarding height because I used to love kissing his chest and rubbing his chest hair. He drove the shittiest car ever. Just falling apart and not a dime to his nam…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:29 AM
1

I stand corrected, there was one that I remember. We were maybe 18 and got to talking. I definitely Brotherzoned™ him. He had a lot of sibling energy. Rightfully so, he did not stick around after that. I started dating the "Ladies Man" on campus that was 5 years older than me that pursued me like crazy; would wait outside of my classes and spit a lot of game, basically hunted me down and I never went back. A whole different animal of a man. Very assertive and sexually aggressive, I lost all my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:26 AM
5

Not even when I was a virgin did I ever date virgins, they could've been, but I very much doubt it and they were always older by a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:44 AM
1

In romantic context for me, there is intentional love and unintentional love. The forms describe passive and (pro)-active. Not "conditional and unconditional". You fall into love unintentionally, but loving that person is a cultivated habitual ritual. You can also fall in love unintentionally and be intentionally in love at the same time; or performative intentionally in love - but unintentionally no other love outside of duty/obligation exists. It's simple to me, honey. I can unintentionally fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:40 AM
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An orbiter is not a simp. An 'orbiter friend' is an oxymoron and only exists within the orbiters mind which is why the female may or may not be aware as the orbiter can either ("passive secret or obvious admirers always around") but never close, whereas a 'simp friend' can be observed plausibly outside of the man's own head. Both may do similar deeds with different goals/motives. The difference between the orbiter is that while the simp is selfless, the orbiter is instead selfish and engages in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:26 AM
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I don't really see the point of this question. All men are different, so describing how I treat partners differently is highly personal to the man, so I don't know what the OP would be learning or getting out of the question other than my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:01 PM
2

You dress for the occasion, for the atmosphere, for the event, for the environment, for your surroundings, for the people, and for an individual. Not one specific gender. Who you dress for is who you affect (responsive); which is always people. You don't dress for "men" or "for women". You dress for the collective that are seduced or affected by you, which is both if you are properly dressed. If men and women were truly dressing for the only and solely the opposite sex, no one would look how the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:47 PM
4

He was hot in Walking Dead after he shaved his head. Definitely controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:27 AM
2

I don't think point 4 is that true. Women are pretty ruthless with each other; at least my female friend group is, whereas men are still navigating how to use their voice. I don't consider complaining the same as using ones voice; but simply learning how to assert yourself, assert your worth as a man and becoming comfortable with the word no. A lot of issues with men today would go away if they were more firm with women and not afraid of hurting them. It is the easiest way to get a woman to resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:52 PM
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I definitely have high narcissistic tendencies and subpar empathy levels. Most of the men I've been involved and attracted to are pretty much the same. It isn't absent entirely, but it isn't nearly at a healthy level. For every woman he's played, there is probably some guy I played like a fiddle in my past for no particular reason; and I didn't care at the time or bat an eye. I know I've hurt some men and after reflection, it still doesn't bother me that I did, but I am not proud of the behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:15 PM
1

An option doesn't become an option unless she wants him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:36 PM
10

Idk any of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:34 PM
5

I was on a new trail alone and this guy asked if he could join me on the way to the end (waterfall); starting spitting game and all that. He was attractive and funny enough, so I said sure. It was my first time, anyway. I clearly looked like a newbie. Along the way he tried to impress me. I'm having a good time watching. Cracking jokes, dancing, boasting about himself, telling crazy stories. We reached a river crossing, and he started showing off, and took a dangerous route to pass claiming he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:15 PM
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I doubt it. He also has phobic views and is not liberal. Not a traditionalist/conservative either. He'd probably get cancelled. He believes women should be able to do their own thing, but he is not 'pro-women', he's more of a blunt realist that loves bullshit if anything. He'll speak out against anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:51 PM
4

The Proof of The Honey (2009) - Salwa Al Neimi Wittgenstein's Mistress (1988) - David Markson Ethics (1677) - Benedict De Spinoza The Art of Living (1995) - Sharon Lebell Silence: A Novel (1966) - Shusaku Endo On Bullshit (2005) - Harry Frankfurt The Stranger (1942) - Albert Camus Sex at Dawn (2010) - Christopher Ryan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:32 PM
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There are older men. Then there are old men. These two are different, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:58 PM
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Status and power are hardwired to my pussy; hot as sin. Money isn't. Money is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:13 PM
3

Rubs off on me. I'm a collector and lover of vintage. A little modern pin-up, among other things. Sometimes, I'll put some pizazz in things. Some personality in it. Tell my anecdotes with some flavor. I like wordplay and metaphor. It can get heavy here and I get tired of answering with too much effort. Dad would've been in his late 70s-80's if he was still alive. He was in Vietnam. I'm a 90's kid. Old parents. Mom is pushing late 60's. Some parts of me are modern, others old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:27 AM
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Good fucking isn't love, honey but it is close. I can love a man that isn't any good for me if the sex is out of this world to the point where I am returning, if that is the question. But I can't fall in love with him; I can't be in love with someone I don't even like, but I can love 'em enough to come back for sex over and over and over again. I had a partner that was in love with me to the core. I told them I wasn't in love and it'd never happen. But I loved the hell out of the sex. I was addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:33 PM
3

Absolutely not. In my teens, I was not undateable, just didn't want any of the people in my pool. I didn't stop until I got hot enough or whatever to get what I wanted. I was a spoiled bitch to be honest. I needed everything I wanted and wanted everything I needed. I'll break my ass for either in just about any area of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:09 PM
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It’s just a little metaphor, baby. Don’t think on it too deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:48 AM
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Well, I don’t honey. You’re another businesswoman to me. It doesn’t have to be the same industry. I respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:31 AM
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You don't get it. It's the passion to hammer out all this garbage that makes him attractive, not a single thing he said. None of his traits are attractive, but he is fuckable, and he will ruin it before it even happens. Why? Because of all those bad anti-female traits he has. The ridiculousness of this profile is probably the hottest thing about him, but he wouldn't survive a day. The world is sad, honey. Don't you get it? His woman is so niche she will reach out him first from a hole in the wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:39 AM
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I think it is only half true. While hyperbolic ridiculous jargon sends anyone over the edge, I think most people that have an issue with "TRP" are more reactionary toward the speakers than the actual content, and I consider most of the speakers of "TRP" (at least here), to be extremely different from TRP in terms of theory and ideology. I read the theories and hypothesis, I don't care what the hoards of men have to say about anything. It is the difference between, for example, "feminists" and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:05 AM
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The blackpill men used to be the most diverse; all kinds of men from all corners of the planet uniting over one thing. Ugliness. The diversity of TRP is relatively new and probably coming from the more mainstream exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:56 AM
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Yep. It's hard putting words to me. People I've been with agree, too. I've been in a writing mood for a few days, so I'm adding more flavor. I have different moods, depending on the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:54 AM
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Enjoying life makes you charismatic. Hardship makes you funny. Caring less makes you free. Those are top hottest personality traits. Life makes you that way, that is why many men get more attractive with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:43 AM
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Do whatever you want with it. This took me back to my church years. Innately sexual women holding it all back, and shaming left and right. Those were the ones for me. My grandma sex-shamed like crazy; but she's a firecracker now in the nursing home making passes on the male nurses. She got around on grandpa, too. I can't shame sex workers; they are businesswomen on the grind. I respect all of 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:35 AM
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I am extremely lusty and sensitive. It's easy to overstimulate and always orgasmed embarrassingly fast. A little bit of me is always sexual, even when I am not horny. The catch, it all has to be in person. Don't show me muscles; let me feel them. Hot as sin make me horny; stupid ones, short ones, tall ones. Muscular, or skinny. Big dick, short dick. Rich men, broke men. Intellectual men; good men and shit bags. I don't give a fuck, so long as he's a man; passionate and lusty like me. But not eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:28 AM
4

To dismantle Christendom and traditional masculinity/roles, then redefine it how they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:23 AM
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A strategic, powerful man that worked for it is hot as sin. It takes street smarts and creativity for that, baby. You've got to know people, the system and be willing to fuck it. Big riskers that don't care about money and that's why they've got plenty of it. Finances are about as important as the man. Love a man with a long past that won the game. His income doesn't need a bunch of 0000's, but he has to be strategic. An activator. Even during tough times, you never feel poor with this man. He i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:15 AM
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You are thinking you have to make friends. I've got a social circle of 50, and change poeple like socks. I don't know who the fuck they even are! But talk to them daily. Befriending a woman won't work. I think befriending a woman for relationships/sex is terrible advice, but a network of randoms that don't hate having you around will do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:46 PM
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I've only ever seen this in Church. I was in the Seventh Day Adventist sect and eating nothing but vegetables before I gave them the finger at 18. The craziest by far next to the Witnesses; the ones still denying evolution. I knew a lot of deaconesses and they were very loose with a laundry list of men in the past. They slut-shamed the most. They'd always tell me to keep my legs shut. I was the most chaste of all of them; I could barely even speak back then. Too shy to move, let alone fuck a boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:39 PM
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It depends what you mean by results, Mick. My eldest brothers are both married with kids. The middle two are both in prison, unmarried but have kids by multiple women. The average one, the one three years older than me. He enlisted in the Army after HS and got stationed in Korea. He said there he fucked like a jackrabbit. I don't know how much I believe; I stopped caring beyond the stories. He always talked himself up. He's as average as it gets; maybe a bit autistic too. Didn't do well back hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:19 AM
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The only insight I got was from one of my brothers; the least successful of all of them. About as average as it gets. He is the youngest brother, but 3 years older than me. Tried out Hinge and wasn't getting any likes. I asked him to let me see is profile. The pictures were all bad, so I retook all his pictures and then took pic and him and I together. I told him to put these up. He called me the next day and said he finally had matches, and got a hookup from some school teacher. But that is abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:44 AM
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I've only asked a partner this once, I was all emotional after an orgasm and asked him wtf he thought of me, and he simply said "You're eclectic, I love how creative you are." Very much "what can't you do?" a lot of the time. I get called eclectic often, so I guess that. I don't think any of my exes can put any kind of words to me. I think they were whiplashed a lot of the time. Of course I've been told things and complimented, but I don't internalize none of it. I've already made up my mind abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:59 AM
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I've had some male associates or "friends" very bluntly make lewd comments about my looks; or hotness, or some kind of sexual pass. I used to joke with them back about it, say something either just as lewd, crude or cruel, just making passes and jokes. I never cared or internalized it beyond that. I don't remember these things in grave detail, but it was all fun to me. I grew up with five older male siblings who only had a bunch of boys for friends coming around wrestling and smoking all the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:25 AM
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Hell if I know! I don't think about this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:11 AM
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😳
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:33 AM
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That line is very terrible and unnatural. Why the bizarre self-deprecation line? What does that add to anything? Is that supposed to you sound hot or make her laugh? Women are very observant, she already knows you have quirky/bad dancing. Just ask to exchange numbers and if she declines go about your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:29 AM
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I should've been more clear, this post is about me and less about other women. I am not the voice of all women. Don't worry!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:13 PM
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I already did my job. I chose and decided to fuck his father. This is why women don't fuck men unsuccessful with women in the first place! A mother's advice is about as a good a losers father's advice; neither will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:52 PM
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No kids, but if I were to get pregnant now, I'm not raising losers and wouldn't leave them without squat. They'd both have plenty of money and treasures to throw into booze and women, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:24 AM
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Idk. I have been with men in their thirties and I am not 30 yet. I got a lot of materialistic stuff out of them, but I didn't ask for it and I don't like fatherly figures and tones. My dad was the best man and husband on the planet, a big extrovert that loved to party into his 60's before he drank himself dead straight into a tree. Mom hasn't been with anyone since. It leaves an impression. I am taking her to find a boy toy in Rio.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:17 AM
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Men can't talk themselves into pussy, only talk themselves out of it. The last time I genuinely listened to a conventionally attractive man speak was when he was saying something truly interesting, that can be a diamond sometimes. Conventionally attractive men are dime a dozen around me, so you have to find the diamond. I am not talking about Henry Cavill. I am talking about a solid looking man. A 6-8 type of guy. A masculine jawline with odd eyes, or something else missing. Short men have a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:56 PM
2

I am a bit confused by your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:48 PM
1

It is not just about makeup and face paint. It is your attitude to how you approach the world. It is an awareness of the environment and the effects you have and want to have on it. I dress for an occasion, for the people, for the environment, sometimes for an individual. You dress how you feel and I rarely feel bad. I wear jeans about once a month. I have a stylist and esthetician do all the other work while I lay up and get pampered. A full body massage and detox retreat is also the only reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:39 PM
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I think it's quite the opposite. The Blue Pill is based off status quo Christendom, traditionalism and traditional masculinity whereas The Red Pill is a response or a dissent to Blue Pill in that it dismantles and redefines masculinity how they see fit, which results in all the stuff you see here. It is why The Blue seems "undefined," because the The Red Pill is not "without Blue Pill", but a second order claim toward it. If a Blue Piller says personality matters the most and this is how a man s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:10 AM
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I will say 50/50; and men that are interested but otherwise aren't an issue can get a Google Voice number. Successful ones were not half successful, but %100 successful because I prefer cold approach to anything else so I can get a good look at him. Most men do not have to talk themselves into pussy, they just need to not talk themselves out of it. The worst of it is a pack of males approaching you at once with a smaller male in the middle that is shivering to make a move. This was the oddest ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:46 PM
3

I think women's greatest desire is to feel "special"; and men's greatest desire to feel desired. So I disagree with your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:22 PM
2

I don't really understand your question, it could be they are unhappy with the decision to not have kids; and not that they are genuinely unhappy people or living unhappily. Unless you are talking about some kind of mental disorder like depression. "Are older women depressed they didn't have kids?" or something like that. Being "moody" does mean you are lying about your moods or current moods as you fluctuate through them. I don't the majority of people that "regret" not having kids are chronica…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:18 PM
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I also think a great deal of women often exaggerate non-existent threats and inaccurately "label" men; unintentionally albeit mindlessly, when they are feeling anxious, uncomfortable or backed in a corner - or being guided entirely by her feeling and intuition. In highly intense conversations, you will often see women mindlessly sling around words, accusations, insults and assumptions - with no real intent on harming the listener; but the man interprets it differently, and she then has to backtr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:43 PM
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The is disconnect between unhealthy self-fixation (there is no hope; I will never get this, that, or this, because everyone hates me) - which is a result of extreme self orientation and on the other side, they see this as the fixation on everything/everyone but themselves causing their problems. But I think when it comes to /r/ForeverAlone, you are right in that it is mostly too much fixation on the state of self and an abnormal amount of self-introspection that has become unproductive and malad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:15 AM
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They key word is standard, not double to me. Standards are subjectively set and then "inform" (sometimes) an objective criterion, but do not have extrinsic rules in the first place they are governed by. To say that 'double standards' are innately bad is like saying all prejudices are innately or inherently bad. And surely you see the problem with that? Considering prejudices and biases themselves are not "bad" or "good" by the virtue of being a prejudice but just more of a data metric/perception…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:51 AM
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It could just be that women are hypothetically operating in a prolonged state of Dark Triad themselves which is just normal female capacity so less so considered disorderly in women as it would be in men, and so they desire men to meet them where they are. It is noteworthy to me that female Dark Triad diagnostic criteria is distinctly different for this reason, possibly because women operate with these characteristics at a normal level (socialized or physio/biological) that does not net same neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:22 AM
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For the most part, the "normal debate" boils down to no coherent or functionally universal definition of normal between the sexes, and it is not a language or culture barrier but a physiological one if any. But on this sub in general, men and women alienate what is otherwise a simple phenomena. I think it is as simple as women are looking for relational subjects via mating; because once he is operating at 'female normal' he is then eligible for her to compliment him in her feminine; they can for…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:06 AM
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It is not that they aren't normal; but instead male and female normal are distinctively different. This is why there are separate testing criteria for autism between men and women; if not most things. The female autistic female brain is "socially normal," i.e., on par with an average male, for instance, whereas a neurotypical female brain is socially functioning more efficiently than the normal brain of a male in general; meaning the average neurotypical female is functioning at her peak normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:04 PM
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This sounds like an internet relationship of some kind not an irl one. Bussing it up in sexts but making no real life moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:56 PM
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I wouldn't care which one he ends up as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:42 PM
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Never, people in "friend groups" hookup naturally, either publicly or behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:40 PM
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Exactly. I dress for the people, for the occasion, for the company, for the atmosphere, for an individual. There is never “for women” or “for men”. Whoever is responsive and effected is who I dressed for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:02 PM
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This is interesting, because I don't think I've ever dressed for other women. Women just noticed what I was wearing and I was flattered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:47 AM
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High quality men are for loving, fucking, and enjoying - not comparing. If a woman is comparing herself to a man, she has no sexual or romantic attraction to him, let alone respect for. She may sadistically enjoy or use her leverage, if anything. She may want to be the man herself, meaning she is more interested in entertaining women romantically than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:43 AM
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Women are everywhere. No one is going to give you anything you don't ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:35 AM
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Handle her like a man, treat her like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:30 AM
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Because those women are vetting for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:28 AM
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Because he is a special man. Be special.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:28 AM
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Looks: 5 Status: 10 Money: 7 Personality: 7 Intangibles: 10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:25 AM
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I used someone else's and watched free. You'll love it. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:24 AM
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It was great! 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:21 AM
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House of the Dragon anyone? 9 minutes. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:51 AM
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I don’t like her or her pseudo-philosophizing at all. Just the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:48 PM
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Nothing you describe are problems, just a series of contradictions. If I say I like red, and John says he hates red, but happens to be wearing a red shirt, and wears red shirts all the time. That is a contradiction, but not necessarily a problem to solve or something that needs to be "fixed" because John has no issue with wearing a red shirt. I would not say John needs to fix the problem of wearing a red shirt, I would say he is contradicting himself; and probably does not have any actual proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:00 AM
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I would probably just go get hotter then try again with the same type of man, but different individual. I want what I want, if I didn't have enough of something, I'd just go get it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:11 AM
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"But, in fact, a person's sexual choice is the result and sum of their fundamental convictions. Tell me what a person finds sexually attractive and I will tell you their entire philosophy of life. Show me the person they sleep with and I will tell you their valuation of themselves. No matter what corruption they're taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which they cannot perform for any motive but their own enjoyment," — Ayn Rand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:01 AM
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Aww. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:01 AM
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This made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:12 AM
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I have always been lusty and sensual. Ever since very little. By this, I don't mean the act of sex necessarily, but also that. I mastered my body very young; not just sexually, but found my talents in almost everything early. But also, I wasn't going to sleep until I did. My sexual energy manifests or releases in just about everything; and I don't like restriction. I value freedom to be lusty about everything. Life, sex, trees and crayons. I am passionate about sex and passionate about music. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:44 AM
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You can get away with murder! 😈 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:39 PM
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Learn to condition, groom and take care of his big, thick manly beard and head massages, he'll love you forever. Men love physical pampering as much as women!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:34 PM
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Aside from extremely ugly men (which is not most), I don't see what else it could be other than a sub-optimal personality. Vanity, dispositions, traits, innate/intrinsic motivators and so forth are all a part of personality. Even The Red Pill focuses on rewiring cognition, how else are you going to go to the gym everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:25 PM
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C. If I don't get what I want or can't get it, not even a piece, I'm out!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:17 PM
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I disagree. There are toll roads (direct, no competition). There are highways (competitive, rewarding). Then residential areas with tons of stop signs, speed bumps and traffic lights (unguaranteed arrival). Most people are advised to take the highways in life, although there is tons of rush hour traffic (competitive). Toll roads and highways are the same distance, but most people are jammed up on the highway. Dating is a highway for most, a daily toll road for few, and a residential area for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:10 AM
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I think it is a tone, attitude, semantic, delivery, relevancy, vague intent and unprovoked statements lacking in context that drives most women's reactions toward it. Considering n-count is personal. It serves no point or purpose for the general public to answer this specific individual person in question. You can say it's a large problem because large amounts of women are behaving in a specific way; but this still doesn't dissolve the vagueness of intent and objective behind the discussion abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:19 PM
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It is just a form of soft hunting. The static and substance in between. The build-up. The fluff. The travel. Chase is form of movement, one which includes a movement toward a desired point. That which drove or compelled you to act on X individual and not another; superficial or depth. What drives you to follow her/him to the bedroom; or to the next step or next level of desire. Does not matter. Hook-up or long-term relationship, does not matter. You are traveling. Sometimes after another, or sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:27 PM
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Big ears or ears that poke out a little. I wanna bite 'em. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:51 PM
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Parasocial or mutualistic parasitism? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:10 PM
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We are seeing men emulate female matching behaviors and patterns as they increase in romantic success (e.g., scarcity mindset, selectivity with women, increasing terms and standards she must meet, etc..) the more they increase in value. I still stand that most things taught by seduction coaches, gender-specific RP gurus, and so forth, are mostly feminine tactics used strategically by the male, therefore masculinizing the actions, but without this masculinization from male utilization, they are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:08 PM
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Therapeutic and /r/oddlysatisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:49 PM
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Attentive acts of service, preventative caring via observation, pampering, stress level management, aiding my relaxation!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:23 PM
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What's yours? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:00 AM
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Green Light: physically and psychologically attractive. The man passes physical threshold and compels me to act. Yellow Light: The man is physically attractive, but does not does not compel me to act. Red Light: The man is physically and psychologically unattractive and does not compel me to act. Broken Light: The man is neither physically or psychologically unattractive or attractive and does not compel me to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:17 PM
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A lot of women are right and wrong at the same time. It's hard to fully disagree with women as whole, it's easier with an individual woman just parading around a wrong statement or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:46 AM
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😆🌹Thanks Giga, interesting read too. I wasn’t expecting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:00 AM
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I pretty agree with this, except that the resentment isn't just from jealousy but probably some other stuff as well, like not dealing with these feelings proactively by adjusting expectations or taking any accountability outside of it. There will be losers no doubt, but that doesn't mean you have to finish in last place. Loser =/= last. Loser just means you have experienced some loss but doesn't say much to amount, which is could be 80 people of the 100 you wanted. I think this is a lot of the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:46 AM
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Female friends and family is not a good example. If the women were not the type of women I deemed attractive or interesting, I would probably keep it pushing or not even have noticed him, unless he was "working alone," to which the ball would be entirely in his court to convince me of why I should consider him a potential suitor, which isn't really a required process. It's not that other women "determine what I find attractive," but instead women similar to me in trait and personality are more l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:35 AM
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Emotional men are fine but a highly sensitive person (HSP) will be more of a preference/acquired taste: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-highly-sensitive-man/201912/is-what-it-means-be-highly-sensitive-person and I don't really have a preference for HSP men. Not that they are problematic, but instead men with normal emotional range is enough to feel satisfied, and men without "any" emotionality at all are good for describing all the idealistic wonderful relationships they can't seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:48 AM
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The woman is insane and about 5'11. She's given him black eyes, ER visits, cheated on him and used his phone to record it. I've had to have her sit outside in the car on multiple occasions when he came to visit me. Even I'm terrified of the big bitch and not much fazes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:16 AM
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If I don't like him, it is weird. You'll be surprised how many strange men you do not know inquire into your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:35 AM
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Not much with dating, but I probably sympathize most with my male clients. Choosing to go into criminal law and become a lawyer many of my male clients are simply broken men. I've seen many men at their breaking point; and I can sympathize with some of them. I sympathize with men with disabilities, combat war veterans (my father was one). He was not the same. I sympathize with men that do not have fathers, in so far as I lost mine. I sympathize with men dealing with absolutely insane/crazy socio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:31 AM
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I am with the type of extroverted man that directly and bluntly says anything on his mind; doesn't really give a fuck about your feels, he's had to tamper himself to be less insensitive. Anything can come out of his mouth, so I wasn't the slightest surprised when "I love you" came out first, I almost didn't take it seriously until he discussed it later. Telling him not to be blunt is like telling Trump not to be blunt. Not going to happen. It is like holding back a Rhinoceros. If I knew him to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:51 PM
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I see where you are going, but think you have it wrong. This is good advice for current simps, future simps and men with a fear of turning back into a simp but bad advice for intentional men. They need to work on themselves more to manifest their simp energy into intentionality. Intentionality requires a strong frame that simps lack because he must vet the woman to match his investment, something usual men do not do. Intentional men intimidate the woman 99% of the time to get herself together, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:36 PM
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Well, what else are they supposed to do? You are asking them to "select" or "accept" your offer, which requires judgment. What is this post supposed to communicate exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:37 AM
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Whores and sluts are two different types of women; and the difference isn't in n-count, but in mindset. Sluts are indiscriminate, while whores are preemptively transactional. The reasoning behind why sluts are non-transactional are all over the place, none which can be solely pinned on men - from nymphomania to boredom to 'raw desire' whatever you want to call it, it'll vary from woman to woman and men in general have less discernment for the reasons because the slut is indiscriminate relative t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:07 AM
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Niceness and kindness are two different things. You can be genuinely nice in a Machiavellian way that'll get you results for this niceness. People, especially women love nice men when they are genuine, but note that "genuine" isn't always good. People think agreeableness and conflict aversion amounts to some kind of natural goodness, but it does not. Niceness has nothing to do with moral character, but is instead a form of conduct that is used like a tool. I'll even make the crazy argument that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:47 AM
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Attractive men like women, first and foremost. If you are a woman and not ugly or extremely overweight, you can probably snag a man slightly more attractive than you if you are his right combination of ingredients (ex; personality) being a large one. It is not that there aren't hotter women around or more available; but instead she may have lacked in other areas, and next in line was a less attractive woman that had all the necessarily ingredients. I have seen attractive men with women less good…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:22 PM
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You can fumble around with semantics, but ambitious men are about as attractive as any of man of high-status and wealth; there must be more beyond that - primarily a drive to sustain himself, his environment, and others around him, which can be lacking in an ambitious man who may be motivated and ambitious about external factors but neglectful about creating secure and sustainable environments for the woman, which is where I find "ambitious men" unreliable to bet on in the long-term. I prefer se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:11 PM
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I think it is relative to your proximity. If you are surrounded by a bunch of low quality fat women I can't figure out how you rationalized you are worth more if you cannot even organically be in the proximity of people of your supposed "caliber". What is a 'quality man' with no options? Do they not see the logical error?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:46 PM
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I never had a personal use for the subreddit, but I agree with their sex essentialist views and undertones. Essentially, there is a male and then there is a female. And sometimes an intersex. And there exists distinctions between males and females that make a difference and they should be examined, but I diverge where these differences do not nullify the large amount of similarities either. I find all the content outside of sex essentialism to be mostly irrelevant, a bunch of "how I feel today"/…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:41 PM
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The government may then have the power to enact who women have sex with under the law. It's a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:33 AM
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Because it's a false comparison to begin with. From a general standpoint, isn't it obvious? Just the act of comparing the sexes is inherently gross and less traditionally masculine because it makes the implication he is competing with a woman, but not just that, he is losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:27 AM
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Holding hands, long eye contact, accidental brush in tight space, degenerate thoughts of genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:20 AM
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A complimentary cologne/fragrance elevates the man 2 notches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:16 AM
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I hear single people in their 30s complaining about this stuff the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:21 PM
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I spent a month sketching then drawing him naked in graphite and made his dick some larger than it was. He liked that part best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:11 PM
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I don't think the question is whether or not a woman's uterus can be "replaced" but instead how many men would be willing to be fathers without the assistance or care of women? As of now, it's low which is why women don't care much about this. When the role of motherhood is completely obsolete and/or loses all value, you will see more of a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:36 PM
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I agree TRP and feminism are essentially the same in both dismantling the "patriarchy," and it's traditions and wanting to re-define blue-pill patriarchal Christ/religion-dom tradition, traditional roles and castes, but disagree that Black Pill has it's foot in this same desire to dismantle this as well, they are more focused very specifically on lookism which is why they have acknowledgement and seem to be indiscriminate about culture/ethnic differences and the effects of lookism on all men. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:20 PM
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This seems like a waste of time for building a Sub-reddit, especially if you have no connections to make it that large, you're better off just making a Discord and verifying everyone that enters with pics and voice if that is the main goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:12 PM
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I am mostly split 50/50 around most things men here say, the observations are not wrong because obviously these types of women exist in RL, but the reasons behind them are completely wonky, reactionary, juvenile and speculative (from only the male mind) to give it much thought beyond that. I often think the men here are much younger than they are, but many of them are pretty old and married with the exceptions of obvious 21 year olds. I think there are a few men here that are willing to actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:06 PM
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I rate it a 6/10 if we are not using it from a Pill POV. Only because I think women habitually care indiscriminately about things that fall under the same umbrella, which is stress to agency and autonomy of subjects and persons. Men aren't special in this regard which is why men don't notice and it's not something women exaggerate for validation from men unless men specifically point fingers. What benefits a woman in public health as a matter of ethics will benefit men by implication and there s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:48 PM
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consider that considering Bob sooner can be correlated with the woman being more likely to find Bob attractive? How does this work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:47 PM
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Never. I really think the disconnect is simply men here find it inconceivable that women can be turned on by physically unattractive men. While I've never needed a comparison, I can still see that some of the men I was aroused by were not as good looking in comparison to some better looking ones that still managed to arouse me as well, if that's what men want to women to "acknowledge" I really don't see the point behind it because it seems to me they are just alluding to women having higher arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:33 PM
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The only thing that holds consistent enough to make a useful generalization is women's overwhelmingly negative response to stagnancy and stagnant men - which I think is the crux of the whole thing. Women dislike stagnancy more than they dislike the supposed weakest men alive. Stagnancy is overwhelming associated with lower utility, rest, and laziness - which holds some implications in traditional femininity, such as women expressing they do not want to take on the male role of becoming a 'warrio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:42 PM
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I really don't understand what you're trying to say with this: you say that most attractive men behave red pill a lot of the time and don't realize it, but then go on in the next sentence to claim they're attractive despite their behavior. The former is red, but the latter is black. It means essentially that attractive men's red pill tendencies are not influenced by lack of willing women to have sex with them but instead is just a matter of preference in how they choose to behave for what ever r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:14 PM
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I think the main goal is the same as feminists: to dismantle traditional masculinity roles, expectations and redefine masculinity (and femininity) as they see fit. The difference is neither agree on the way they do this. RP men overwhelming oppose traditional masculine expectations and roles because they do not net benefit for the "male imperative". The idea is to spin-plates and become more sexually successful with women on their own redefined and set terms, a complete liberation from tradition…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:31 PM
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Boyfriend material and hookup material differ very little for me. There isn't an interesting difference except I committed to the guy I hooked up with. A majority of my boyfriends started sexual first - commitment second. A majority of them broke potheads doing nothing with their life, they didn't have any utility or resources. The real question is what distinguishes "resources man" from "no resources man," and it stands I don't even think for adult women there is a 'boyfriend phase' like you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:21 PM
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From birth it's been proven boys and girls are treated differently, by teachers, medical staff, and even their own family and parents. Which is why they conducted controlled studies, not because gender bias was not observed or accepted but instead because they aimed to determine just how much of this bias does and does not effect male/female choices. I don't know what point you are trying to make honestly. No one is disputing anything against the importance of "nurture".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:41 PM
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​ You aren't even trying to understand what she said though. This user doesn't even disagree with overall premise of my post, as she stated in another of her own: I think men historically are why society sucks because...they fucking made society, and had all the power to change the rules and laws [...] Which is simply a fact. The crux is I rather live in the society they made, while women get it together to make one better, then I'll move there. As it stands, women are nowhere near doing a such …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:33 PM
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Men better that certain things, women worse at these same things that men are better at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:21 PM
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Everything I've said "exists". You just rambling on that it doesn't doesn't because you don't like what was said doesn't negate this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:13 PM
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The laziness of my post is mostly because this is a causal sub that doesn't warrant much more effort than I put in, as I don't expect people to read them in good faith if at all, make good faith arguments, add decent dissent, and I really just expect a bunch of assertions without any form of argument: "you're wrong, and this isn't true because my wife/husband isn't like that," which doesn't add much to the discussion on large scale gender/sex dynamics. That's fine, but to be fair the sub hasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:59 PM
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If appeasing the female imperative, average to below average women do not have much leverage whatsoever. Most must put out either immediately or in a timely fashion because they can't afford to make the man wait and have very little time to lose. Extremely attractive women could claim "spiritual celibacy" and still get benefits, resources and a ring from plenty men, which is why their n-counts tend to be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:56 AM
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If you say so. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:19 AM
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Women's "performance" or lack of, as I've stated is social/environmental, but a females 'disinterest' in things/objects, etc.. relative to the male, is mostly nature. Various twin studies have pointed this out, that even without 'nurture' female babies still overwhelming prefer and select subject fixation. Yes, women can do and have done - just about everything a man can do/has done except lift very heavy things, this was never in disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:46 AM
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What 'fantasy scenarios'? Women did stuff, all very important and there were many exceptions that contributed to non-traditionally feminine accomplishments, but it was not enough for society to sustain itself on purely that and a few female exceptions. This is a fact, unless you are talking about very small female only tribes in luxurious grass huts, literally like the Umoja women. Waiting on women is inefficient when we just get a bunch of men to do it much faster, as they've always done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:34 AM
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No more "made up" than this comment in response to my post. The majority of content in my post is theoretical but mostly comes from a collection of numerous studies done by scientists on the distinct differences between men and women. The most significant the twin studies done both by European and American scientists, and even in weaker studies with skeptical methodology, interesting data can still be extracted such as patterns observed between the sexes (ex; anima and animus) even though they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:39 AM
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It isn't 'exceptions' but instead novelties, contingency and entropy. For women and MEN, success, happiness, and love - romance or not, happens in novelty and small number. Love objectively occurs in small number among the smallest portion of people relative to population amount (ex: 500 million - 7 billion), and in which this occurs under the most contingent circumstances like most events because humans operate most functional on small option size with a tendency toward tribalism, familiarity a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:11 AM
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Lower class women would have no choice but to revert back to conservatism, religion and tradition - upper class women would probably have migrated to another life-zone planet with the upper class men that don't want to deal with all the bitter losers setting things on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:50 AM
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It may sound strange, but if his problem is primarily looks he should talk to Incels. Incels have in depth knowledge of dieting, cosmetics, surgeries, anatomy and other superficial-aesthetic, because they are unhealthily obsessed with it, they've gain extensive knowledge that many non-incels do not possess. Many of them speak to doctors, plastic surgeons, and do tremendous research as well as undergone some of the procedures and had good results. If you have hideous bird beak of a nose, why not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:32 AM
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It's not supposed to make things "better", it's supposed to mitigate/reduce superficiality and inauthenticity existing in an imbalanced way. Personality is more complex than physical appearance. It is like arguing which is more important; a brain or a kidney.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:53 AM
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Of course, you aren't really living if you haven't encountered this man at least once. But it is more complex than that, and more often than not a subject of misunderstanding. Example 1: A man outwardly lying about wanting "commitment" is not actually relevant. Commitment in the lie is not relevant, but instead that the man would say anything as a means-to-end to achieve sex. In other words, he'd lie about anything and commitment was the desired "want" at the time. (The woman has made no mistake…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:47 AM
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The way I see it, men on average, have a natural disposition toward things, objects, and events. There is an objective and subjective form of this. Subjective-thinking males are more geared towards algorithm, properties, and structure. Whereas objective-thinking males are more likely to steer first and foremost objective-thinking in terms of real and factual events. Algorithmic men are less focused on facts which can be logical inconsistent or untrue, but on logical consistency and truth-making.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:05 AM
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If a man wants an average and ugly woman, he is definitely not for me. It's not so much that women are more shallow, but instead we prefer shallow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:37 PM
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Those men had distinctions that made differences. It's not necessarily that the man is flamboyant or standing out to even most women. The point is a man must make a distinction that makes a difference among other men. It doesn't have to be anything crazy. There are over 8 types of 'distinctively different styles of men' that do not blend in with the crowd, but don't have a flamboyant dress style in terms of clothing. "The Bad Boy" is probably the most flamboyant of attractive male archetypes but…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:22 PM
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Back zippers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:41 AM
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Not at all; only if it fails. I am set for life before 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:32 AM
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It's a need when I am attracted to the man, the sex is good and we're having it regularly. My body physically and psychologically gets accustomed to releasing and having sex then begins to crave the lack of. Having sex for me regularly causes changes for me, none of them negative really. If I break-up with someone or regular sex doesn't happen as often as it used to, the craving lasts for a few months or so, but my body will readjust to reduced sex or just not having sex. You shouldn't let your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:41 PM
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Favorite vets: Self-starters over the ambitious; Why? Because ambition is sin-qua-non not to just ambition while self-starting (reliable/proven) - is not sin qua non to ambition (fragile/superficial), which also creates or leaves an opening for receptivity of the female "partner" whereas pure ambition does not. There are more poor ambitious men (financially, spiritually, and psychologically) than there are poor self starters. Sensuality first, over the sexual. Why? Because I always orgasm. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:17 PM
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If social media is hurting you, you aren't using it right any way. Social media is the key to strategic networking and $$$. It's one of the best tools to date. I have 3 social medias for multiple purposes and it's never caused an issue. Likewise with all my friends. It is laughable you think socially active women with a presence even answer their unimportant messages from male randoms, let alone notice them. I've written up some self tips for women/men 'addicted' to electronics harmfully and tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:36 PM
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6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:34 PM
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At a social event. He is attractive and gets mistaken for NFL players/athlete because of his height and physique. He was mostly pessimistic about women in general from this; too much women had the opposite effect. He is blunt and direct about his views and experiences with thirsty women, maybe a bit controversial. When I met him, he was all about himself, staying fit, money, mental wellness and "off women" practicing semen retention and not looking for a girl at the time. Women always make moves…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:42 AM
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Mental illness and trauma. This is what I learned from watching Soft White Underbelly on YT.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:08 AM
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His love language is me doing his meal prep: https://imgur.com/a/avucAEr and physical touch which is my experience with most men, their main love language tends to be physical touch - not just sexual, but touching and being touched in general and "closeness". Reaffirming his masculinity in organic ways, being right personality. Massaging his scalp, easing the aches, etc. Followed by words of affirmation, etc. I always greet him with "Hi handsome," and so forth - among other things, which IME is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:58 AM
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This is definitely me to an extent. Every criticism I hear on this sub I am auto-programmed to dismiss it as an excuse and still believe most of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:08 PM
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If a quality man, I'll move later when he's settled, he can fly in and visit Have been with a man like this that flew in on weekends for business frequently If a regular man, probably will just break up unless I see a lifelong future with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:41 AM
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C. stay in A, purchase land and property in B for him to live
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:47 AM
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face/brunette: 5 face/blonde: 5.5 style: 2 body: 8.5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:44 AM
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7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:42 AM
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Women have been declining in attractiveness since the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:04 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:59 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:58 PM
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behaviour, status, followed by social skills and then finally the minute details of what makes up our personality. Distinctions without interesting differences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:53 PM
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Latinas, non-Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:58 AM
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Terribly wrong post!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:47 PM
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He does not look hygienic at all with very bad grooming and posture is terrible and hunched over, lots of dead dry skin build up on the face, yellowing teeth possible gingivitis/bad breath, very bad hair cut that gives the appearance of unclean, chapped/cracked lips, clothes look smelly even though they may be clean. Looks like he doesn't bathe or wash his face even if he did so. Come on. This is what women mean by "hygiene". His chapped dry cracked lips are the worst of it, would make me gag to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:39 PM
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Whenever I was in the position to solely "choose" I have chosen not one of those males. A man that cannot negotiate his deal to make sure it is fair to him has nothing to offer. Active LOVING - instead of "being in love" .. is also constant CHOICE after choice after choice. Regardless of who 'chooses to be committed' at the beginning, you still must continue to choose THEM over the course of the relationship. I do not mean at the expense of yourself. A man or woman CHOOSES X-relationship or acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:34 AM
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Wealthy men and hot women are niche. Unless you specifically strive to be a part of this section of lifestyle and society you will be fine. Most "hot women" men show me are very basic level attractiveness to me, skinny basic face with big eyes and I've seen women way objectively hotter, some of them are even ugly or and look like 18 year old girls. Most women don't care until she is THIRTY+ or comes from a tight wealthy environment or total poverty/struggle/low income. A lot of the times, it's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:44 PM
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In my personal life, a lot of them. There are also a lot that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:38 PM
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Idc what mens standards are at all. If the opposite sex has them, it's probably for a reason and you should probably adopt some of them unless you want to be single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:36 PM
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No, idc about being catcalled or harassment in this comparison. This is like %1 of my day. I'd just move to the middle of nowhere if I cared that much. Male attention isn't just 'sexual or romantic'. There are many lost benefits and missed self-advancement opportunities by coming "invisible" to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:33 PM
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If I can tell you are 'wealthy' and 'high status' you will go BROKE along with him very soon. These men are main targets for gold diggers and the same men that go broke fast. Many owing the IRS millions, some being locked up for financial recklessness and do not conduct themselves as someone that is wealthy, but instead has "a lot of money", a lot of times, overnight or only for a temporary time in their life. Status and wealth is only attractive as the bare minimum because you are not actively …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:29 PM
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Because the presence of a man ALREADY shifts the energy and atmosphere. He could be a brother, cousin, male partner, or a male friend. An unattached woman should always be accompanied by a male to certain events as part of status change and non-verbal cues. The man with her both non-verbally and through male-male interaction naturally "handles" this by the virtue of being a male. Whereas a single woman only has this "respect" via males to a point. She cannot elicit the correct respect unattached…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:51 PM
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Uhh because I don’t like looking like a fucking welfare/food stamp using, onion pit smelling slob that wears Cookie Monster pajamas to the 7/11 to buy Newports? 😂😂😂💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:17 PM
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The men aren't strange, just unlucky. I was out on a rough trail and met a guy while I was there, it was my first time on this trail, so he approached me and offered to keep me company to the main stop point. He showed me around and we go to getting to know each other. Anyway, he started dancing and accidentally fell a few feet down into a river with sharp rocks. It's a trail people unintentionally get injured on often. I repeatedly asked if he wanted to start back or get some help because he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:52 PM
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The Dude: What hell are these, Walter? Walter: My dirty undies dude. The whites. 👅👅👅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:58 PM
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No. I've spent nights with men that were not boyfriends and been over enough guys' houses to make informed decisions before we progress to any boyfriend stage. The only thing I've ever advised "boyfriends" on is wearing more hand creams in the winter and to put bandaids on open wounds so they don't bleed all over my things or dress. Men are often careless to injury. I've also conditioned and moisturized a few beards, but that is more of a love language than a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:52 PM
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It's the little stuff and observable habits. You can go a day or so without showering and have no noticeable smell or difference depending on the person and activity level. I know an Asian guy that does not shower daily admittedly because he does not stink and no one would be able to tell. He dresses fine. Another example, I know a guy that wears sharp tailored outfits, he is well groomed, no smell. But if you are close enough to see into his ears, you see extreme wax build up and very dirty ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:17 PM
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50+
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:18 PM
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Sensuality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:07 PM
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Discuss what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:02 PM
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Yes I am, no service on mountains, no phones in court, getting nails done, hands covered in soil and lamb blood, taking a nap I never text men, if I she is texting you a lot she is trying to keep you as far away as possible but still interested to rotational date. I call it "soft-ghosting"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:48 PM
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The mantis blade stealth build with high handgun skill, ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:45 PM
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High self-confidence. Cocky in his sex appeal and sexual prowess. Extremely sensual with his body and lusty with his mind. Wore Cologne. Good exposed muscular chest for me to touch. Eye contact. Initiated kissing; kissed sensually. Direct communicator. Blunt speaker. Experienced - high n-count. Let me initiate physical touch first. Told me he was going to make me squirt. I told him to prove it. He did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:33 PM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:24 PM
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ONS: No familiarity, no relationship is present. Impersonal. FWB: Familiarity and personal without vulnerability. A relationship without formal/public monogamous [or commitment ex; poly] deal being made. Fuck buddy: Familiarity and impersonal. An impersonal relationship built off sexual utility. Romantic relationship: A commitment/monogamous deal has been made.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:01 PM
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If no one feels like doing it, then they shouldn't it. Just get someone else to do it. Make a lot of $$$$$$ and do less labor in your own home. The house/home is the last private place we have and is for relaxation, not labor. The home is endangered by public ideology and worries about the public opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:55 PM
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Not interested =/= not considering them as people. This is not normal thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:49 PM
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There are definitely women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:42 PM
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Men are so shallow there is no reason to even exude shallow energy, let alone claim it - nothing is worth it in because nothing matters; the opportunist motto. Romantic nihilism, essentially. Men's romantic/sexual nihilism shouldn't be confused with "depth", even if it isn't wrong. It instead contains meaningful information that is ultimately meaningless. Which is why women operate differently, or more "shallow" in preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:33 PM
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All I have taken from this post is that many men are proud to be willfully ignorant about how law works and feel "safe" in this place. What's new and what's the problem? My only critique to this post is that many should be most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:27 PM
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In those extremes, he's wrong, but only before she has her "enlightenment". That is basically most sex in your teens/early 20s depending on which men you go for; and how you were raised. I've seen this exist as a paradox mostly in women that are sex-positive or sexually disinhibited but 'traditional minded'. Meaning they have sex casually, but still follow traditionalism or other concepts. The paradox ends up with a stripper having sex with10 different men a night, but never orgasming or gaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:12 AM
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Because women do not "abort babies" or "terminate/avoid parenthood" via abortion - the latter claims that parenthood is already in effect at the point of conception - once she becomes pregnant, which is false for both the male and the female. No more true than a fertilized seed being a bearer of fruit. The argument from potential via 'capacity' is flawed in so far as capacity and potentiality to/for-X is being used interchangeably. The latter requires necessary indispensable attributes/substance…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:58 PM
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Broad question that does not compute, ask it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:28 PM
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Let’s keep it real The one guy that really isn't hitting LIKE THAT, but you ain't mad at him either, or at his style and game. We all know a few as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:23 PM
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I know a few women shacking up with sexually bad/medicore financially well-off men because it doesn't get much better than that - and who has the time (or wants) to jump from man to man to man. And I don't think the average man is hitting anything out of the park sexually; but he will do. Women being sexually unsatisfied is no knew trend, sex just isn't the most important for women on average when selecting a man so long as he is not repulsive and she at least found it "good enough". There isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:06 PM
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Red Pill does not take this stuff in account because it was never designed for BELOW average men. Average is at minimum; "functional" (can get women - 5'9" at minimum), etc. He just cannot bang multiple women casually and as frequently as he wants. Yes, 5'3" extreme social anxiety etc is BELOW AVERAGE, Red Pill concepts do not apply to you. The Black Pill is for genetically repulsive men and men that are below average. See Black Pill Science that takes everything you are talking about into effec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:58 PM
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I think Myron Gaines is mostly correct; not because women should be content with that, but that majority of women ARE content with financially stable, medicore performing men - or rich, or what have you attractive men with bad or "good enough" sexual performance. Being a "sexually satisfying mind-blowing man" puts you above 90% of other men but is not typically what most women seek when going in to settle; or even a deal-breaker if he is not this, they "work around it" so long as his dick isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:45 PM
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About as "valid" as music, the arts, philosophy, the law/jurisprudence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:40 PM
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Because of perceived stagnancy. Women hate stagnancy in men more than anything else. Stagnancy comes before everything as #1 most repulsive trait in men; more than weakness, childishness and even financial instability. What do all these traits have in common? STAGNANCY. Whether actual or not. An immobile man is perceived to be stagnant. Once a woman is and feels secure; men can do whatever they want. The notion is that a highly productive man will have no time for video games - but this is akin …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:22 PM
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Fundraisers, charity events, boat shows and yacht auctions, pen shows, car auctions, inventor expos, conventions, tech meets, speakeasys, jazz lounges, horse races, tennis club, airplanes, wine tastings, art workshops, rooftop parties, public libraries
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:59 AM
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Thanks, Mr. Mushy!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:55 PM
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For me it is always both, none are mutually exclusive, if the guy was just exceptionally “hot” physically - it may be an “easy” but emotionally disconnected frigid lay with a fake orgasm while he masturbates into you and thinks he’s doing something An exceptionally hot man that is also socially smooth or seductive with cologne smelling good and body language showing genuine intensity toward me etc compels me to ACT mutually, which is the distinction between an exceptionally hot guy “approaching …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:37 PM
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For me it doesn’t matter at all - men that cold approach me that are cool but it ‘doesn’t work out’ get “added” to my social circle depending on which social circle it is, everyone starts as a stranger so i don’t get being turned off by cold approach unless it’s some awful unattractive weirdo talking about your tits I do prefer cold approach for this reason because intentions are clear and you can work from there I agree with you here, would never recommend a man starting from a genuinely platon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:25 PM
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Interesting, cold approach for me is basically the first date depending on when he approaches and how much time I have to socialize sand get to know him - men that don’t past the first encounter deal breakers are on the spot through socializing - if he makes it by time I see him again i’m beyond comfortable For me there is no reason for me to go on a bunch of formal dates with a man I know “really well” by that I mean intimately organic - we just agree to be together one day, so without this est…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:03 PM
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My point is for me it never made a difference whether I met a man through a group of friends, a social circle or some pilates class because he is still romantically foreign to me just like the guy in the bagel shop who struck up a conversation about my favorite bagel, the examples don’t make any difference for me because I consider them all cold approaches because he is initiating a different form of interaction and relationship outside of a buddy - all men are “strangers” until you get deeply i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:18 PM
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I wouldn't group online dating and cold approaching together. They are not the same at all. Cold approaching has no barrier or digital shield. It is anything but cold and awkward. I don't know why everyone pictures some dangerous ugly smelly homeless threatening man catcalling you with cold approaches. It has always been organic and fluid for me. I never cared about "knowing the man really well" - I've also never cared about some man's "hobbies" until after we got close and I had a reason to car…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:12 PM
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Yes, they are either: good men, bad men, bad boys, risk takers, independents, boyfriends, "Chads", top males, "alpha males" or deadbeats. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kg558f/comment/ggcmi5p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:15 PM
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High status & sexy not just physically: No. Low status boring nobody with medicore sex: Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:04 PM
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How doesn't this make sense? Why would a young woman want some man that looks like her gross ugly father or Uncle Chuck unless she was sugaring?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:54 PM
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Regular degular average looking high income, unknown social status should split 50/50, even if one makes 90% more income because they are regular degular, unimpressive, likely sexually unappealing and average unknowns everywhere else except with the exception of some boring career.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:48 PM
1

who do you listen to? Vintage female film celebrities from the 40s-70s, anyone vintage female older than 65, old female law professors, old men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:35 PM
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It's not really some "assigned seats and split duties" type of thing. He does whatever he wants and feels like doing that day, I do whatever I want and feel like doing that day. If neither wants to do it, we get someone else to do it. It's no sweat off my back financially. I am not doing anything I don't want to do. Idgaf about 'fairness' and neither does he. I spend my money on whatever I want; he has his own money do whatever with he wants. We don't bug each other about 'do this and that'. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:13 PM
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I have no idea what "develop attraction" overtime means. This never happens to me in the way it is described; and even if it has the development was never enough for any form of sexual chemistry. Intense emotional intimacy and friendship can't get me past a guy I am repulsed by. It just cannot. I will gag, be out of it, or just wasted this guys time. This type of development always manifested for me as, "Wow, he really is a great guy. I think I can have sex with him now and maybe enjoy it. :)." …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:19 PM
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What do you mean "strengthen" the case? When was it ever a weak case that BPD women should be avoided?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:52 PM
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Probably female only areas and lesbian bars, that's all I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:32 PM
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I realized this post sounded worse that I wanted to. Essentially: The majority of people are in a perpetual state of "neutrality" (not positive or negative). The assumption that most strangers are negative or that, even introverts, just want to be "left alone" is false - in my experience. Once you dispel this myth that a social species just wants to "left alone"; you are already at an advantage. The majority of people do not feel heard or seen. The majority of people are highly responsive to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:39 AM
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Not many. I also don't think most desire harems of women and tons of casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:55 AM
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I've cut some female friends off because this is ALL and the ONLY thing they talk about. Getting fat and men. By PPD highly virtue righteously Christlike standards, my female friends would be considered immoral, horrible human beings and I don't give a fuck! They are honest about absolutely everything. Shrimp dicks, dating trash men, their mistakes and loading themselves up with plastic if they want. If my fun, caring friend wants to whore herself out, she can do that. We connect and bond about …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:47 AM
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Using your sexuality is not to get free stuff; but to regulate and gain control over its distribution. If you see attractive women using their sexuality to 'get things' it because it gives a perception of control via means of transaction over the opposite sex (men) - who are otherwise indiscriminate with their generosity with an attractive woman regardless of whether she uses her sexuality or not. Sexuality is a tool, whereas beauty "happens" to the observer. It is not hard to get free stuff out…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:31 AM
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Some of my friends are Ambers. A lot of 'em have crazy romantic lives. My bestie is one of them. She's very very attractive, intelligent girly brunette - good at wrapping men and men around her finger, but she is batshit crazy with men at the romantic level, she admits it and we laugh about it. She's rejected a few marriage proposals and only dates rich men, super picky about men's looks, pretty superficial by PPD standards. She's crazy, but it doesn't affect our friendship. A few friends I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:51 PM
1

Kevin Samuels dead? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:48 PM
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Batshit crazy hot woman gets with hot guy with untreated childhood trauma. What's new?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:08 AM
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That is not how it works. It is not an entirely conscious selection process.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:03 AM
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I think most people confuse specification or wanting 'specifics' with high. The real question is why do people that are not attracted to the people they obsess over, continuously obsess over those people they don't want and aren't attracted to and the things they like; to the point where they think it should be "regulated". Who cares if some fat 35 year old "landwhale" wants a 6'4" millionaire. Why do you care at all unless it is some kind of subconscious/envy thing. "I wish that fat landwhale l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:57 AM
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The majority of men are heterosexual. Why would I step over tons of eligible straight men to exclusively find a bisexual man at measly %4? What is the reasoning? Are bisexual men not men? Why would I reduce him to his sexuality if "women are included" anyway? How does he differ from a hetero-man if he is "bi-sexual", unless you are arguing he offers a unique experience to a woman by implication that he sleeps with other men or that he is a not a man at all, thus offers something different to a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:35 AM
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Mhmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:22 AM
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I don’t mean in the gross clingy loser way you are imagining. By “total clingers” I am using obvious exaggerated language for investment beyond sex and/or pursuing of commitment. I know you are not a total buffoon like most guys on this sub, so I shouldn’t need to break this down far.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:12 PM
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Logical fallacies only apply if there are arguments being had, which I see little. If anything, what is most common here is assertion(s) without argument. :) But there are many unchecked biases here. My favorite is of all time is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declinism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:50 PM
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I like to break this down as: Intentional/unintentional vs. uninterested/interested. Common = applies to all women. Uncommon = applies to specific women infrequently. Unique = Situation dependent. ​ (A) - Flirtation - Indirect - ambiguous. Unintentional and interested. (sexually and aesthetically motivated). Unique. (B) - Hit-on: Direct - ambiguous - intentional and uninterested. (sexually motived): Common. (C) - Cat-call: Direct - clear - intentional and uninterested. (aesthetically motivated -…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:15 AM
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Attractive women are super insecure and take many L's to get where they are, it's why they are so attractive. Do you think hotness and beauty is maintained by "I am so fine how I am?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:50 AM
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35+ women and kink communities. High liberal + radical feminist communities (non-binaries, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:41 AM
1

Being shy and passive gets you a bunch of simps and men you don't want because they just fall in your lap and sit there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:38 AM
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Slim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:33 AM
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Compassion is superior to empathy in ethical leadership. Empathy takes you down a path of highly subjective/personal decision-making. Whereas compassion does not sacrifice rationality. The former is superior in large settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:32 AM
0

Nice Guy is jargon for covert narcissism and covert, unspoken conditions/rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:36 AM
1

People still use Tinder? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:34 AM
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Low: does not like casual sex, does not pursue sexual activity in any kind. Is not a sexual being in any capacity. Masturbates only or once a month or less. Only has relationship sex. Medium: Has FWBs. Has casual sex once or twice every few months and actively pursues it. Has frequent sex in a monogamous relationship and enjoys it. High: Has casual sex and enjoys it, actively pursues sexual partners and sex/sexual activity. Prefers open relationships. Sexually deviant behaviors. High/unrestricte…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:21 AM
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Yes, because that is what men like doing anyway. Women that offer to pay know this; it doesn't make a difference. For attractive women, what they do is completely irrelevant. She can offer to pay and it does not matter. She will still benefit; even if she made for one measly date or he paid everything in full. If you are an attractive quality woman, you can sleep with him right away or 3 months later, it makes no difference, the man isn't going anywhere; most are total clingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:15 AM
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My experience is the exact opposite. As this type of woman, this only applies to religious tradcon couples or some kink relationship. Passive sissy men cannot dominant women on a personal level but have bizarre domme and mommy fantasies that naturally socially dominant women do not share. These pair rarely get together outside of some weird kink-lifestyle. Naturally socially dominant women in leadership roles tend to end up with their equal. Submissive, passive men cannot handle dominant/masc wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:51 AM
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My thoughts on this are here. You could argue under this premise, one of male "friends" could possibly be slowly smoking me out over a span of years, but he won't hit this until age 50+ and that's entirely his choice to place bets. Successful male back-ups are completely stealth to women and men - because they take the long and hard way; they also disguise themselves with a whole other life outside of their target by having other women, other relationships, and sex - even a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:15 AM
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I have 0 interest at all in my male associates-friends love/sex lives. My brothers I know quite well. They have always been successful with women, all went to prom with the limos, on the football team, had girlfriends, went on these dates, girls would come up to me "Is that your brother?! Can I have his number?" was common, I stopped disclosing we were related after awhile. Contrary to your belief, I broke this pattern. I didn't go to any of my proms and ditched school events to go somewhere out…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:02 PM
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What is it with these lazy posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:26 AM
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Men really care about this? It case by case to the extent that you meet the minimum. The only things they have in common is none of them are overweight/fat or objectively ugly/unattractive and they all have similar personality traits and personality. There are definitely men you will never catch me with and just aren't for me to which I completely woo' resistant, avoidant against and frigid toward praying he doesn't walk over because they do not meet the "base". There are men I've felt strongly …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:16 AM
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My experience is opposite, I think this is more true for non-Western/Non-Americans. The overwhelming majority of women I know like this grew up upper class and can't imagine any kind life not like it; they want to maintain the lifestyle have generational inherence and other opportunities. I have a few female associates like this that grew up poor that love money and have their own. One is Iranian who came here with her sister and left parents back in Iran, another from Afgan, another from Africa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:39 AM
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Haha. I figured as such. You did sound tall. You have my partner's build. He is also 6'5" and not "lean" but muscular with broad shoulders, no abs but firm chest and stomach that doesn't hang all over the place. His firm chest is one of my favorite things about him. It's not laying on fluffy pillows, but I like the muscular feel when embraced. So there is a great deal of bias that leaks into my Q4W posts with him on the brain, although I find Q4W to be mostly subjective. I have never not liked m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:54 AM
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It doesn't really require any self-awareness on their end really. Instead of looking for past stories and asking her to recount something, listen instead more attentively to how she talks about men, the male role, how she treats the man and the undertones and implications when she is comfortable or confiding. Then ask her to elaborate more deeply when you hear things that sound odd. Things start sounding a bit off and strange. "What do you mean 'men are X'"? Make her use her words. Make her comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:41 AM
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Muscles won't help if you don't meet the minimum thresh, I agree. I much prefer Henry Cavil face, butt chin, more square jaw and his body build to guy on the left. My ex bf looks a lot like him with the butt chin, except he was blonde. It may because I also have a little cleft chin. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:34 AM
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Indiscrimination is a far better criterion to me. A woman (let's call her A) that has sex because she can't say no, is far worse than a woman (let's call her B) that has sex because she says yes. The former woman A is a possible lesbian that sucks dicks for crack, resources and validation; the latter discriminately chooses men she desires to fuck because she likes men and sex. Woman A with "high notch counts," is more likely to stop having sex once married, impose covert unspoken rules and feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:52 PM
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I think this is mostly true. The man seemingly unaffected by me is far more alluring, so long as there is no doubt that I am desired by him intensely. I will step over a crowd of drooling desperados to get to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:36 PM
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Their ratios are just fine to me. Shoulders are broader than their hips and waist, which is a significantly masculine frame. They have nice inverted Triangle shapes, in spite holding what looks like some water weight. But they aren't particularly muscular, so the shoulders don't look as well as the guys I linked above. Toning up will help them, but they definitely aren't bad looking in frame. I've got the midsection of the guy on the left, but with broader shoulders and more upper body muscle th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:23 PM
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Men think the majority of women are Timophiliacs. Rub money on her and instant orgasm. For the women that are legit like this, you will never find her broke. They almost always have their own money too. Women that like money, get money. And also get money from men, too so she doesn't have to use any of hers. That's the way to do it. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:06 PM
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The female gold diggers I know are high status with some hefty money and income to their names; they just like other rich men and wouldn't take less. My best friend is with a rich guy and she has plenty of income from being in (non-sexual) entertainment and using her looks. She's a total gold digger; says she won't pay any cent from her pocket in spite of making plenty of bank. Thinks 100k-500k a year men are broke and uninteresting. A regular degular average career woman making 100k-200k is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:48 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/r8HSwtZ Shoulders, arms and no excess flab are everything imo. 😮‍💨 https://imgur.com/a/cJVMNxe Triangle isn't doing that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:24 PM
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So something like a fat strong man? Strongmen have broad shoulders and strong arms, even with a massive gut. https://imgur.com/a/SLki8QM I cannot see the man in my post being that much stronger without at least developing any form of muscle or definition of some kind. The man in my pic does not look healthy, he looks flabby and fat with weak shoulders. Eddie Hall's body isn't attractive to me, but it doesn't turn me off or repulsive me, either. I wouldn't reject him for his body; probably for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:03 PM
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The fat guy has a slightly above average face to me, but body is very average middle aged man in America. So the face is probably skewing things. I can see women picking him if he is good enough in some other area to distract from his weight that ages him by 10 years. I cannot see a majority of women under 30 finding this man appealing in any form, no matter how awesome the personality. I think most would pick a twiggy guy over a comparatively fat one first in the same age backet. Middle-aged wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:38 PM
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Yes, because his body is not so bad it distracts from his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:02 PM
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Thanks! Do you mean the beefy guy with traps? I like his body. It is good enough; traps are bit too big but no deal breaker. We'd make it work. I definitely wouldn't say no if he was genuinely interested. I would definitely say no to the last guy for just his body. Just not my cup of tea at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:33 PM
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Women are attracted to taken men because it demonstrates that a man of his caliber can be tamed. Meaning he is now moved from untamable hot man (unsafe) to possible tamable hot man (safe). That it is why it appears he is now "up for grabs", because his market position has shifted. If he was still single, he would still be chased after because he has attractive traits to women, but it wasn't the safety and security traits, these were additions. This means both men are attractive for different rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:18 PM
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They totally are. You'll never catch a 'blue' woman doing what blue-pilled men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:52 AM
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Arms, shoulders-to-waist ratio, and chest matter the most and more than stomach. https://imgur.com/a/8rqp8BO Both male bodies are fine, because shoulders and arms are defined and there is no large gross fatherly gut. Men at a healthy weight are also fine even if they are skinny, so long as face is passable, arms, shoulders and shoulder-to-waist ratio look good: https://imgur.com/a/AHhMyhN Abs are fine too but not 'required', so long as he has some fat. https://imgur.com/a/N2uKXNE https://imgur.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:46 AM
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The only purposes of romantic relationships: fun, relaxation and stress relief. 😊 Men not providing that, it's a 103% out and a no for me. Hasn't failed me yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:56 AM
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I disagree, but for a different reason. It is not just social status, but instead how an average man wears it. An average man that doesn't give a crap about women is always more attractive. Why? Because he uses the women, instead of letting the women use him. Men that give a crap about women are much less attractive! Banging hookers with the bros on weekend in Vegas will not hurt you. Why? Because the women do not care either because he does not care; and that is attractive. Stop caring. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:38 AM
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Men come when they are ready. They are like cats. No sense asking a man to open up or worrying about this too deeply. I do not stress over this. They will on their own, if they want, when they want, when they are ready. They always do, ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:27 AM
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OP's post is not how women think and hocus pocus. A better argument (to my mind) would be: A woman that "refuses to have sex" on the grounds that 'he needs to pay for everything before he gets the cookie' views sex as transactional, even if that isn't her intention. There are number of reasons why a woman does this. Past experiences, neurosis, shit-tests, religious, and so forth. From that point, I will agree. Toodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:05 AM
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I disagree. Withhold in the context I understand it is: Refusing to have sex after a 'deal' or 'promise' was made that sex would be exclusively had under commitment in order to exploit the the man. Just like a 'dating man' refusing to open his wallet for uncommitted non-exclusive women is not 'withholding his money'. "Dating men" are not committed men. "Committed men" are bond by promises of well-being and care (e.g., alleviating stress - physical, psychological, material, communicatively, etc..…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:57 PM
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A man so big and intimidating he doesn't have to fight other men at all is far more attractive to me. Mateusz Kieliszkowski at just 22 years old he placed 3rd in the Arnold Classic. One of the strongest men in the world and under 30 years old. He is also attractive and has the best strongman build; not completely hard-fat. I had a big crush on him and his interviews are just sweet. Just a giant, strong man that speaks bad English. My own partner is also hilariously large with a baldie head, gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:55 AM
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Many people are having babies out of wedlock. The overwhelming majority of people do not marry for logical reasons, but because they want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:24 PM
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I thought this comment was influenced by the one below. So my bad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:16 PM
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Then you are just lucky. I'm a 5'4", 120lb woman that has been in a position to fight on a few occasions. One was a large Karen with road rage that thought I scraped her vehicle. There is some truth to the reason short folks are like chihuahuas. For me, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:15 PM
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Because women don't care fighting, they care about protection. They care about him being so intimidating he doesn't have to fight. My current partner is 6'5" and heavy, never been in a single fight, grew up in a rough neighborhood because he is a big dude, overall. My ex, 6'2" average build but low BF that did MMA. Never had to use any of his "MMA" skills outside training. I then dated a 5'5" beefhead guy that has been jumped, robbed, stabbed, and in multiple fights with other men on the basis h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:01 PM
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Crazy stuff like this happens more than you think. My brothers 35+ year old baby mama cheated on him with her sons teen friend and now she's pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:46 PM
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If you were being assaulted, which guy would you rather see running to your aid? Guy 1 obviously. Man 2 can't even run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:40 PM
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Nah. I'm talking about bare minimum average men in their 20's. Not extremely unattractive men no one cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:36 PM
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Me and my friend have plotted to escape to a rural area, it's super tempting I've gotta admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:38 PM
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I don't think this far ahead about this tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:32 PM
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Balding, dick size, not being good enough, etc. I have no clue what any of them are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:26 PM
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I'm in D.C. Need I say more? Pros: High pay, worth the experience with specific people. Cons: Everything else is stupid/lazy and/or completely nuts. This also goes for VA and MD judges and courts. But still, would I leave D.C.? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:21 PM
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It is more so instead you hope to get a good Judge. Plenty are stupid and/or nuts, which is why they are Judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:39 PM
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Half the stuff men are insecure about, I do not notice or care about. Every time a man has highlighted one of his main sources of insecurity to me, I am surprised, since I wouldn't naturally give a damn about any of that. It is interesting what some men stress over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:36 PM
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Metrosexuality =/= optimization. Metrosexuality is a style, where as optimization of appearance is an improvement to a set base. Vanity is a feminine trait, which exists most in metrosexuals. Metrosexual men are an acquired taste for a specific woman (typically a woman who is also high maintenance), whereas general optimization of appearance will help all men. Getting "fit" and a "good haircuit" is not metrosexual, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:35 AM
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The most important factor (for me anyway), is whether or not I am eager to please and (wet) I am from that alone. Pleasing. Not the act of the BJ. If we are going to talk about any action, a better gauge is how eager and willing I am to take your cum. It is a need and not just part of the routine. When cum is a need, it is completely nothing but selflessly desire and hunger; and the most primal metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:10 PM
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Most things are not mutually exclusive. There is nothing inherently/innately wrong with a woman that approaches a man, but there is likely something wrong with a man that never makes a move or initiates on a woman he desires to have (and claims to want) -with equal (if not more) intensity. It is the exact same rationalization the Red Pill men use, which has always been my issue or disinterest with FDS, aside of the fact it allows for no dissent. Dissent that could optimize the very same position…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:55 PM
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Stagnancy (perceived or actual) is worse than weakness and emotions for women, IMO. Apathy is one of the causes for stagnancy and will inevitably lead to the former. Not only does it void the partnership and the woman's (supportive) role and her effectiveness in the complimentary, it makes him insensitive to her, voiding the whole point of monogamy in the first place. The relationship then becomes held together by external factors as the internal agreements have been broken. That is "fed up" and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:37 PM
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Age is important. I'd give the same advice to a partner under age 33-35, as I'd give a daughter/son and hope he'd do the same. "Mom will me fine.. Go live your life. But still check in. It's nice to hear from you every once in awhile."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:22 PM
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I think it is wonderful. Men that do not go to sex workers are a pain to women that do not work in them. They become problematic; they are not the type of men non-sex worker women want to deal with. And that feeling is mutual on their end towards non-sex work women as well. Going to sex workers is a proactive way to get your needs met and keep bitterness/hostility towards a woman's free will low. I also think these men should go overseas to find wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:09 PM
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Always like your different posts! I think this is common for women, but not much talked about as it is subtly embedded in the way women mate select. Females answer this by going for men with options and that do not simp for her. Simping and men without options is a turn off precisely because it removes her desire to be chosen and wanted above other women, which is indiscrimination. The best alleviation of this is to never go for a man without options, who is a simp, or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:05 PM
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Stagnancy is worse than weakness. Even the most weakest are never stagnant. Usually when a woman is "fed up" with a man it is because of stagnancy or perceived stagnancy. Emotional stagnancy or otherwise. A man should always be responsive to his female partners voice. If he is not, he is stagnant. No reason for a woman to stick around. Stagnancy creates no space for a woman to be a partner and uplift in trying times. If a man does not create a space for her to nurture, he will not see it. Mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:21 AM
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😊😊😊!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:35 AM
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Many drunks can handle their liquor, some even build certain tolerances. If the truth doesn't make you a sad addict, you aren't doing it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:14 AM
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Sarcasm is jarring and so common it is ineffective and easily glossed over; not given a second thought. Nor does it have to be 'recognized' bizarrely every time it happens. I think most know what it is, they just do not care about it, or care for it. If sarcasm is so jarring it is obvious, it was probably the issue of the deliverer who cannot gauge when sarcasm is appropriate in the first place, at the point where sarcasm does not fly under the radar it is then not funny or a genuine expression …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:55 PM
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Degrees of vulnerability, sexual attraction with desire to act or satisfy (either oneself or just the other) on it, inability to gauge the difference between boundaries and limitations, and the importance of limit implementation, not just "boundary" setting. This indifference comes about because they are already indifferent or careless about their actual committed partner and the risks, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:48 PM
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Women are everywhere and anywhere. Reducing women to designated social zones with 'females here signs' is unproductive because only the same type of female inhabits this space and reduces men to scarcity wondering where all the women are; a sex that naturally 'sees' women everywhere, as opposed to the female opposite. "Cold" and "warm" approach make no interesting difference to me; and as an opinion, people to stop putting so much bizarre emphasis on distinctions without differences as it has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:31 PM
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Hypergamy is not an ad nauseum involuntary biological process like sleeping, breathing, and digestion. The two 'co-exist' just fine like the way sleeping and getting only 6 hours of sleep instead of 8 co-exist. What has this OP made up today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:44 PM
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This wouldn't accomplish anything. Why not practice and fail + trial/error with legitimate women that mutually likes you because then you at least know you are trying to appease the correct woman. That is called progress. This example here is stagnancy and will not lead to any growth unless your actual phobia is any female at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:35 PM
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I talk to men of all types of crazy charges behind bars. Many them are "alright". We even share a joke sometimes. None of them seem "threatening" in that moment or these interactions. A lot of them are fathers, business owners, popular in the community, with elaborate stories and tales regarding the series of events that lead to them being in their predicament. No one is "all nice" "all good" or "all bad". There is far more going on. I do not see your point with this post to be honest. Very blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:28 PM
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Having your own shit and having it together isn't just financial or material, only broken women with broke mentalities think that, likewise for men. The leading cause of bum-preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:36 AM
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If you are even on the date, you are about 60% there. The majority of men that show interest get rejected, ignored and passed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:39 PM
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They will in college and grad school. That's why it is the best time to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:10 PM
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Because you're still some college kid. Women do not start caring about income until after college and grad school when it is time for more responsibility and family. For ex; the 1st year of law school, the majority are not working. Your situation is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:07 PM
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Not if he is hot. I'd do all the work if he's too shy. No game is fine, so long as he doesn't shoot himself in the foot with his mouth. Which is where most hot men screw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:10 PM
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Mental illness and mental disorders are considered feminine. Especially mood disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:54 PM
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They don't want average or ugly guys. Kind will not hurt an attractive man. Plenty of Chads are super kind people, never met an asshole one that wasn't low income.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:50 PM
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Well, I agree with everything except for the boring part. Boring hobbies is moot and much more subjective since I've seen chicks into doing nothing but smoke pot, watch anime and play Animal Crossing and a boyfriend that does same. Skinny pothead super depressed losers with no income are the best during your first few years of college. They are attractive empath sadboys. They were for me and I didn't even smoke pot. He didn't seem to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:44 PM
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I'm wanted for thought crimes. 😁😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:36 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy\_son\_hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:29 PM
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Well, I disagree. If you want to keep* a woman you have to have an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:25 PM
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None of these reasons I listed are his fault except the hygiene. Everything else is on her and her alone. She just wasn't feeling him. That's her thing. Another woman might feel him and he can read her IOIs better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:48 AM
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Yeah, I've changed my personal number a few times, and use my business phone for strange men. I also use a Google number for socials and the social media crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:36 AM
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Some even come back months and years later after no contact when they have a girlfriend and cannot see why it is inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:11 AM
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Women don't care about being attractive to most men or male nobodies. Stop it. You don't even have to be lean to get those men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:09 AM
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Women are poor with communicating with men in general (from my POV), because of how females typically exchange information. To me they say the same things in different ways. Because men use more concise and direct language with less nuance there is not much mystery. As a woman I understand nuanced "woman-speak", and can say it's mostly the same, it is just that men will not or ever interpret it that way. Men listen to other men and are more responsive to other men. That is why as a woman it is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:05 PM
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50% are ghosted because they are clingy and thirsty simps. 30% are ghosted for weird social idiosyncrasies and poor IOI reading, %20 are ghosted for hygiene, minor details and no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:01 PM
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What common sense Red Pill advice have men said here that women haven't said 3000x times? I don't think women do not give good advice, they just need to hear it from a man. Men and boys are more responsive and listen more to other men. Same logic with boys/fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:38 PM
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In Western society no one cares about this at all. Why would Westerners suddenly care about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:54 AM
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Duh. The majority of people do this. The ones with extreme dissimilarities in partners are usually societal outcasts, religious fundies or BDSM kinksters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:51 AM
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For me: The (3) S's. Status change, sex, and stress relief. Duh. By "status" I mean the status a man brings via his presence with others, not that I leech off his. A woman alone creates her own powerful magnetic energy, but a woman with a man is unfuckwithable. When a woman is tired of being "available" to a bunch of men, the best solution is to pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:47 AM
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Sounds a lot like my nerdy brother when he found out bitches and ho's exist and don't just exist in music.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:23 AM
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Would you let your son/daughter of 18 fresh out of high school bring home a 45 year old grown man/woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:11 PM
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Will has been showing signs of being a victim of emotional abuse for years. I hope he finds the help he needs to escape her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:07 PM
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It has nothing to do with gender roles and I am not promiscuous. It just comes with the man because the men I am attracted to have had more than 2 sexual encounters in their adult lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:01 PM
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Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:48 PM
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On what planet have people not known this for decades? When will you eggheads realize it's not a lack of knowledge, but disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:38 PM
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There was a woman in another part of Reddit that said "I don't have to worry about rape, I'm too ugly." Don't be this dumb woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:25 AM
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It is inferred in other ways through social circles/environments not random encounters. How do you think he/she got the high reputation for trashiest or best dick/head? By fucking watermelons?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:21 AM
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Personality was never "less important" and still isn't. It's just subdued and suppressed in isolated areas like dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:46 AM
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It's a whole bunch of things. Loss of attraction, diet, exercise, life hardships, stress, external factors, who knows. Take a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:21 AM
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Men with bodies are hot and my preference. But this is not a business. What determines "seasoning" and "spice" doesn't require 200 successful wins with clients. "10" is just fine and will at least get me looking your way. The real deal-breaking is whether dick is actually good or not, not how many bodies you've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:19 AM
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Men should handle other men (because a man is a man, and a man will have more effect on another man than some red-faced woman) - and he should handle thirsty women. As a woman, I should be handling virtually nothing on this front. I don't care if he's "thinking about cheating" with one of his female friends? That is some thought crime I've got no time to think about. He stiff arms thirsty women all the time by his own volition, 'other women' and 'female friend thirties' just comes with the terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:15 AM
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Agreed. This should be under automod, but I can't find it. Stop coddling men and boys for the love of god. I have 5 brothers, two in which are "intelligent", but are stupid about women and decisions around women. As the only girl, the women usually came through me. Most people that disagree with these types of posts think it says more about women than men, but this post is entirely about dumb and dumber men. They clearly haven't dealt with unmarried baby mamas with personal vendettas before. Mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:59 PM
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Agree but disagree on the "solely" part. Most are responsible, just not "solely" as quality sex takes two. There are also the exceptions of women with chronic painful illnesses or mental extremes that make them virtually unsex-able and unfuckable, but it's not "their fault" or "responsibility" it's more like who cares about them and why should/do you as a sexually healthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:44 PM
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It matters if 0 is considered a number. It's far more important to know his dick works and works good instead of who it has been working on and how many unless it is 0 or 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:37 PM
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I'll list one major reason as poor communications between men/women. Women have a tendency to communicate poorly with men. Women typically need to learn disagreeability, reduced conflict avoidance, firmness, direct language, and how to properly end ties with a man. Women are often unclear with men in that the language or communication is ambiguous and open-ended, even when she is done or checked out in her mind. Sometimes when a man becomes possessive, it is because the woman has poor communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:19 PM
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Reputation is everything, but more fragile than status. "Just status" is good for impressing people without it. There are tons of high status frumpy people no one cares about that do not do well with the opposite sex, especially men. Status puts you in a certain proximity, but it will not circle you around a room and make you the most important man or woman there. Why should anyone pay attention to you? Who are you? Why should we trust you? What do you "bring to the table"? Your status is your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:48 PM
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Never anything major. It's always the little things, like making he doesn't bleed all over things with an open wound he got working on something because it's not that bad or he is mostly indifferent to injury. Small details that add to his quality of life I don't trust him to be as attentive with, like using better moisturizer on his hands in the winter. Also plant killing from indifference to gentleness, etc. I have colleague that kills all his plants violently by chopping off healthy stems the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:36 PM
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It's only a problem if they are delusional. If you are not delusional, and your side hobby is just chasing carrots on a stick, this is not a problem, just an uncomfortable contradiction, preference or personal prejudice. No one should care. The problem with delusional individuals is that it's self-defeatist and counterproductive in the long run if they have intentional goals to accomplish. It is up to them to determine whether they should change or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:29 PM
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All you need is status, connections, reputation and associations as a man. Befriending women, truly platonically, is the worst advice I have ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:13 PM
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Plenty of these men are not sexless losers. That is laughable. I know some of these men that have FWBs, hookups, girlfriends and have plenty of women to choose from. They still live their life, but behave in this fashion. It flies under the radar for these reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:12 PM
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Tons of them are definitely betas. But they are hot betas; what men can't fathom is that there are attractive-faced and hot betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:05 PM
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I disagree with this. A sexy man is usually objective, but not universal among all women. There are two types of men that are invisible to women. Men they can't have/realistically cannot get because they do not want to put in the effort or submit to his lifestyle [and he be his "type of woman"], or because she lacks the base to be in the running. (Extremely objectively hot men). In my experience, women rate men they can't have or effortlessly seduce lower, although they are objectively attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:53 AM
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I disagree but for different reasons. Social circles =/= "friends". Half the people in social circles barely know each other that intimately, they are a group of pragmatic/fun associates with common goals, ambitions and beliefs. True platonic male friends are generally romantically/sexually gross and invisible, BUT some men utilize this tactic on one women that are oneitis' to him. Even men that are successful with women utilize this sly tactic because it easily disarms women and makes him in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:34 AM
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I completely support average and undesirable men going to hookers and prostitutes. Especially if he prefers that. Hookers and prostitutes were some of the best things to happen to women that are not attracted to these men and alleviates sexually frustrated men. I think more men should see hookers and prostitutes especially cels. I fully support sex workers because they are doing the work most women would never want to do, which is be bothered sexually with an undesirable male and appease these n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:02 AM
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I am interested in most things, and this is just one more to add to the pile. As a woman I get to play around with ideas and that is fine by me. First and foremost, I think the best way to understand what attracts these men is to approach it from the core of things or the possible causes; the 'hurt' or 'experiences' that these men endure that drive them to Red Pill are not causes, but instead should be viewed as post facto rationalizations. Rationalizing and being rational are two different thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:09 PM
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I actually think men overrate women and themselves. Men rate all humans 'high' on attractiveness, including other men. People who are very obviously average get rated high by men and models (10s) are just "models" (10s). While men use 'scales' a 6 in a man's eyes differs very little from an 8 in any interesting way. That is why all average men with nothing remarkable about them can't why women of all levels of attractiveness do not universally want him. One example is rating that nationalist wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:41 PM
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20 something men are probably the most clingiest LTR types that get serve oneitis and fall in love quickly. 30 something men are the same, but less cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:34 PM
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For me, this is true. I smile and laugh at %99 of people for politeness and etiquette, including at hideous men, elderly, women, children, random strangers, etc. so using me laughing and smiling is not a good gauge. I also smile and laugh when I am nervous to break the ice or put other people at ease to make the interaction easier, not necessarily because I am attracted to them. The only way to tell is in my eyes and body language; lot's eye contact and touching. I disagree but only partially wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:15 PM
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I am not speaking for all women. How is my post different from the other women saying "you can meet women through friends or bowling clubs" - etc.. do they also get the same response? 'You don't speak for all women, some women just go to bowl'? What in my post says all women like gymbros/muscular men, etc..? If anything my post is general. 90% of places are "go" places because there are different types of women. Who the fuck is some woman to tell men "do not approach women at gyms or do not appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:19 AM
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Define "sexism" and what is meant by this term and explain how these examples are or aren't just some form of some irrelevant nutjobs' personal prejudices against the opposite or same sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:51 PM
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It matters, but these two things are not vetted in a similar fashion. How I vet people in public life vs. private differs. Your political position is only important to the extent I am aware of where you stand in PUBLIC LIFE - on the general level - this is irrelevant to how you conduct your prejudices and private affairs. Who I associate with in public life is important to public reputation. Private vetting will be far more scruitinized and fixated on values, not JUST political standing because …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:37 PM
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I'll also add to what /u/jjlew922 said in that social interactions are purely pragmatic and goal-oriented depending on what I am doing. As an another INTJ, I know when to view things impersonally - which also translates into social interactions, networking, and getting out there and meeting new humans AND when to view interactions with more depth and intimately. The ability to gauge, adapt and adjust to this is a good life skill. All social exchanges are not to be taken personally; but hinge on …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:25 AM
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Nice post! I very much agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:24 AM
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Uh, why? If it doesn't apply let it fly. This is how I function. I know folks use the gym in summer, but I use it less then as I do more activities outside or other physical indoor activities when the weather isn't freezing. Still get same amount of exercise. Gym is a square building with weights in it, it is not the only way to get and maintain fitness and health, it's boring af. I rather play outside. Even rock climbing is a great fitness substitute. So yeah, when single I'm in the gym to look…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:52 AM
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So that begs the question: what strategies are there besides dating to find what you’re looking for? And that I will leave to discussion below All strategies involve talking to other NEW humans. In networking/social circles, you will not know half the fucks there directly until you are introduced and integrated and build a reputation among the group. It all works like that. None of them are going to be 'morally good human beings with great hearts' and some of them are - that is what 'vetting' is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:37 AM
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"Edit: stop dming for a date I'm not interested"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:10 AM
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What's wrong with validation? People that work hard for their bodies are fine with validation and people looking at it or just don't care, it is not a big deal. I do not think liking validation is mutually exclusive with other things being true at the same time, such as also having 'availability' for a man to approach, etc. My point before to the previous user talking about rapey eyes or some nonsense. If he is getting thrown out of places for rapey eyes he cannot read IOIs or something else is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:59 PM
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That's my point. It is like this everywhere you can interact with humans. If I don't want men to approach me at events, I bring a male date or male guest or my man along. It's that simple, I am not going to handle a man, the presence of a man with me will give enough respect with exceptions that don't care, but I am not going to chaste random men I don't know for what. I do not care at all. If I am at an event as a single woman and looking attractive, I am always 'available' for social interacti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:38 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:57 PM
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MMA guys are the hottest, I was only exclusively dating them for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:56 PM
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What - accomplishing goals + networking + maybe picking up a hottie depending on mood are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:53 PM
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Because she it didn't matter either way if a hottie talks to her or what ever the place; and there are many nuances in social interactions. People here just seem so black/white. Talking to hotties/another human outside of my home or "designated social zones with a sign out front that says 'come socialize'" has never impeded on having a good workout or a enticing conversation with a hot man unless I wasn't in the mood - which is not the same every day. I also talk to other women at the gym, these…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:33 PM
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Definitely, if you want to meet an educated man or woman you should probably go to grad school. You can meet men anywhere, you just have to exist in that place. Actually liking what you do is also part of it. Get a man in grad school that wants the same things and doesn't care about you having a career and admires your ambition, then stop practicing/working, do something else/stay at home when the kids pop out. I know plenty women that did just this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:21 PM
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I just eye fuck and smile, no need to say much or anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:10 PM
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I only care about being skinny, tiny and cute with a palm-able ass. Tennis, skating, cheerleading, hiking, biking, running etc.. fasting/high protein diet is all I needed and does the trick. Most girls I see at the gym have their headphones in, are focused on getting a good workout in, and do not want to be disturbed. I've had my earphones in too, all we did was make eye contact for 5 minutes, then I smiled first and he smiled, then he came over and casually started talking whatever kind of crap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:07 PM
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Yes, best and easiest time to shape the body is in teens and early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:53 PM
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Exactly, wtf is "non-social environment" even is outside of ones house. All approaches that aren't some male bestie are cold. All cold approaches are not the same, some follow by 30 minutes of mingling depending where you are. A man being my friend or cold approaching was not the determining factor for me, it was always whether or not I'm feeling him in the moment or in that time, men I never liked do not "grow on me" through friendship, you are either attractive enough to not be repulsive or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:47 PM
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Gym is a last resort for winter months and meeting hot dudes/looking cute, or meeting another hottie male gym goer or bringing my man with me You can get fit anywhere, run outside on terrain, buy a bike and hike some trails gets you fit faster and tones your ass faster than boring gym if men approaching you if hot men approaching you in a co-ed environment is so traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:02 PM
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Well I met tons of hotties there, I would just go to a feminist gym or run outside if I wanted to be ignored by men, there are women only gyms and women only places, all places I never had an interest in going
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:00 PM
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I went for both, to look cute & get approached + some cardio, you can meet men anywhere but if you want fit hotties it's a quick/easy place. I go where ever the type of men I want are and exist. My male friends are not attractive at all, I think you mean male associates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:59 PM
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I think these men should just go overseas to foreign countries in South America and Asia. If that fails, then they should focus on other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:25 PM
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So tell all the tall men to stop approaching average female height women but (short) relative to the man women then and go or someone their own height. It's not just women selecting up all the tall guys, men are still making the moves. Tall women and extremely short men are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:15 PM
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Haha, only temporarily. This is all I could find on the phenomena: https://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2015/11/doctor-hypothesis-women-orgasm-losing-their-hearing And some other one off examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:10 PM
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Putting these constraints on where men approach women is exactly the problem. 90% of places are go in my opinion. The biggest turn off is being a mouth breather that doesn't groom, not approaching women. As a single woman, I only went to the gym to catch a hot man - I have bikes, run paths outside, female fitness buddies, hike trails, etc.. don't care about getting muscular, most naturally skinny women just wanna get in cardio or tone, if even that. If she really wants to be a gym-goer, she brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:05 PM
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Used for what? What man "demands sex"? Sexy men do not demand sex, they have it. A man has never 'demanded' I have sex with him unless you are talking about orbiters and I don't know why women pay attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:03 PM
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Yeah, they were all older women but lesbians for some reason. They loved pitbulls and cats and were like animal control rangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:38 PM
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Animal shelters are filled tons of lesbians in my experience. I volunteered once for my senior high school year, and it was filled with tons of lesbians, bulldykes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:36 PM
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Bad sex is bad sex. You don't have to sleep with a football team to know that. LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:47 PM
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Pillow Princes think all the performance pressure is on them because they are fine with passive pillow princesses and not telling women how they want it and like it. I've never been with an active man that is good in bed that likes passive women or just has sex with a woman just laying there. He sounds terrible in bed just like her. Ya'll just pretend it doesn't suck and hold in tears or something? Better yet, what woman wants to be passive when the chemistry is mutually on fire? Maybe it is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:36 PM
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Dan's networth is $200 million, he is betabuxx-fucks. The only difference is now women can see his betabuxx stamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:08 AM
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Nope, Jeremy Meeks would get tons of ass without his fame for example. Fame just attracts hot women looking for betabuxx. Fame without looks = beta ugly guy with a few more options. (Disabled tik tokers) Fame + money and no looks = betabux fucks. -> female imperative takes priority Money with no fame = betabuxx. -> female imperative takes priority Looks + no fame + no money -> male imperative dominates (non-transctional/genuine hook-up sex) female has nothing to gain outside of sex Looks + fame …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:01 AM
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Nope. Will Smith and Zuckerberg are definitely betabuxx, not alpha fucks for different reasons. Zuckerberg would get no ass without money or fame. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tjl3qo/comment/i1ldwmc/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:00 AM
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It'll depend on what your goals with women are. If you couldn't get women organically without fame, you won't get chicks organically with fame either. It'll give you more exposure as a betabux! I am assuming lots of exposure, depending what you mean by that. A friend of mine has been featured on Forbes, Bloomberg and CNBC as an investor for his success. He's not THAT physically handsome feature wise, but cleans very nicely in good suits and watches with a good head of raven hair. While he has 'e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:05 PM
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My ADHD brain only holds onto important or significant things, data and events. I don't remember much between the ages of 3-16 tbh. I luckily have never had painful or heavy periods or large heavy breasts to haul around, so never cared that much about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:11 PM
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Fantastic post!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:23 AM
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I can still see mixed-sex characteristics. For example, #7 has feminine hands and feminine eyes. It's also in the voice, behavior, and mannerisms. The voice never really changes 100% and there are often slip-ups; voices altered by practice and hormones sound much different from 'high male' voices or 'low female' ones, they sound artificial, probably because male/female vocal cords are structured differently at the biological level. A deep voiced female still has femininity to her voice. A high p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:28 AM
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Transwomen also have a hard time dating. Trans people are a niche group that exhibit mixed-sex characteristics, their dating pool is smaller than even normal LGB. This is not a good example. Most cis-people do not want to date transwomen or transmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:56 AM
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Women have been saying this on here forever. This is said by a woman on here literally all the time. Men just only agree when another man says it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:48 AM
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Maybe, but leaning more towards no. My dad was a cute Japanese man with dimples who came here by his mother when she fled during the Hiroshima/Nagasaki bombings. My mother an attractive black woman that dated mostly black men, their pairing is not statistically that common so the likelihood of them pairing up today is slim. But I do think she would've swiped right on him because she has this thing for "pretty boys with nice hair," and he fits that bill. She had a thing for Yanni the musician, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:23 AM
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Actual sexually promiscuous women are the most honest women on Earth. They don't hide or withhold a thing. Men just choose to believe what ever they want to believe about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:32 PM
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Agree, the gym is filled with hotties. I mostly just went to gym (I'm an LA Fitness member) to talk to hotties and get hot guys numbers. Any other time I'd run outside and workout somewhere else less boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:25 PM
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Yes, but not for these reasons. I'll argue love from a woman doesn't even exist at all under RP concepts. It's because AWALT, which means there are no unicorn men that'll make her unconditionally love him, because there are no unicorn women that'll feel that way. AWALT. Trying to be her unicorn man will get you burned. That is why Briffaults Law is a thing. Women leave "HVM" all the time and will do so if he cuts off his utility or stops performing as he is expected to. RP men here are all scram…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:04 PM
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This point you make is completely irrelevant in so far as the high value or wealthy men "pay" because they want to, not because they need to. That is the point and why it becomes redundant that women are attracted to his utility. Women are just bonuses and that's why they are sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:58 PM
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There are tons of attractive men around me, it doesn't matter unless he stands out. Duh. Attractive men on Tinder standout because all the men around are average to below.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:53 PM
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If you don't believe in Briffault's Law or any red pill concepts, and then implement them in practice in the real world or through lifestyle, then you are not RP. I don't think there any RP's here because they still want love from a woman and arguing this is possible, although under RP this is not possible. They also don't spin plates at all because they are too critical of their food worrying about food allergies. RP men that implement the Red concepts into their lifestyle spin plates with tons…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:43 PM
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The point of my post is it's not the n-count women care about, but his fitness. A deadbeat organically banging tons of Methany's is not attractive to an above average non-promiscuous woman, because if he was competing in a higher level of the sexual marketplace with higher quality men he would not be successful because of low fitness unless he exclusively wants to impress Methany's. I assume most men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:33 PM
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Uh, the majority of men, yes young ones, have some form of male patterned baldness and most women do not notice this unless she is a dermatologist. The woman in that thread were probably picturing George Costanza or Vin Diesel type baldness. I've been with men in their 20s who complained they were "going bald" and I had no idea wtf they were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:36 PM
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This is interesting, because this is the exact opposite in my relationships. When I met him he was doing just enough, then all of a sudden he gets even more proactive about his health and staying fit and showing off for me. Partners don't want to be left behind. If you get with an active woman I can't see this being a problem. It seems this is more of just the type of relationships you prefer and your style of woman you choose. Laid back and doing a lot of eating, no hobbies outside of you, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:31 PM
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Uh, because if I was being deprived of sex that was causing such great suffering and pain, I'd want to get my dick wet not jerk off for the next 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:27 PM
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men start balding at 25. Receding hairlines and shit. You say this as if any woman gives a crap. So long as he doesn't wear his hair like George Costanza no woman is going to notice this shit. Not important, but I never gave af about man head hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:22 AM
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Unless you are talking about women nearing the end of childrearing years, and most men are not, the perfect man is a ladies man. A man's man is just that unless the woman wants him. There are tons of traditionally masculine construction workers, a "man's man" men that no chick is digging. I'd argue they make up the majority of average men and NPC, while every other man is an outlier, which is why they get tons of ass because they are standing out. A man's man makes a good sexually unattractive T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:05 AM
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Thanks! You can make your own flair from the Reddit sidebar. Exit out of this thread. Main sidebar > Community Options > Set flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:52 AM
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But this whole post is about sex. If she waited 6 months to determine sexual compatibility there was none to begin with before assessing it during the act of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:51 AM
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If a woman is hot and 35, someone is going to beat that pussy up regardless. She'll get pregnant and a man if she wants. It doesn't matter, that's just life. If I were a man, I'd just be happy my dick is wet. Either from a fat disabled whale or a Bellucci lookalike. I think men are just making excuses for their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:46 AM
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What in the world does it matter? Commitments aren't contracts. Dating a girl with bomb head is what most men do in college. They still move on and marry after breakup if that even occurs. Also who is out of shape and unattractive at 26? Sounds like a personal problem. Keep yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:42 AM
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Breaking point is the number of bodies to which it makes sense relative to him and what we know of male biology, with the exceptions of promiscuous women being indifferent. For regular degulars, N-count must make sense. If he's not hot enough to have 50 bodies for example but obtain them outside of prostitutes, he is mostly likely an average looking deadbeat with tons of baby mamas via hypermasculinity and low poverty environments. That means not only does he probably have STD's, but he got them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:04 AM
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How can you answer this in any other way besides "it depends"? It's the same for both sexes only in regards to 'it depends' on the human you are fucking and for what reason. Casual sex =/= to hookup. You can have casual sex with some dude you've been mingling and talking to in the breakroom for a bit to where you know some information and decided to fuck out of lustful boredom or a man you just met at a corner joint. All fucks and all men aren't the same, so why would a woman sucking a bag of di…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:39 AM
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Women prefer men who similarly educated or higher and not it's not because of "beta bucks" lmao. Yes it is because he is beta bux, because intelligence serves utility. A man's personality is not interesting unless it serves some utility, otherwise he can just be a hot Himbo that reads a lot and that's enough. The only intelligence that matters is the intelligence that is applied to the world; and/or has utility. What would a woman care about how intelligent a man is if he only uses it to maladap…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:27 AM
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The problem is no one wants to be with someone ugly, not even ugly men or ugly women. For the women, it is natural due to desiring fitness via her physiology, but for the men it's their own problem since they can demonstrate fitness in another way that appeals to her hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:06 PM
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No it will not. Fame will heighten them but give more freedom to make choices, some better or worse for how to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:53 PM
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The problem is not the mindset but that you are asking me to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:52 PM
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IMO, if you are doing a bunch of splitting it's because you're a "mature" woman which is code name for declining attractiveness and nearing the wall, that is not that hot or from Scandinavia. This is why young western women protest this, because it is making an indirect claim that her attractiveness is the same as a 40 year old woman that approaches the dating world like a 40 year old woman would because she is no longer of childbearing years. It's not mutually exclusive. You can still be well o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:29 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:25 AM
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She finds him to be LTR material. Nevertheless, compatibility is an issue ?????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:12 AM
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Average guy in my area is 5'8-6'1 white male between the ages of 25-65, drives a Tesla, rides a bike or city scooters, or has a family SUV if married. Partner is 6'5 bald black male with a thick beard, a degree and good job, which is above average for black men financially & educationally and white men physically Before my current partner, he was a 6 ft something blonde male with a butt chin, buzzcut and nice strong jaw in the Airforce, wore boring button downs and khaki when dressed up, drove a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:54 AM
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This has been going on since the beginning of time. It's seems more of an issue now because more men are falling behind, not because there was never a bunch of men that women were disinterested in and never ended up mating with unless indoctrinated or restricted into it. If you cannot keep up, then you don't reproduce as a man. It's always been that way. Most men historically did not spread seed. This is not a Western or civilized thing. The only reasons Easterners date different is because the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:54 AM
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Did you not read my post? I only care about ambitious chicks. All the women I'm around are literally hot women with men paying for their procedures and beauty maintenance. They maintain themselves; even natural beauty must be maintained by diet and proactive habits. My bestie is dating a rich Muslim guy and she's had tons of cosmetic work done and was proactive in getting that specific type of man. She looks good and natural, too. She wouldn't have landed him if she was an inactive lazy. I also …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:13 AM
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That part is true, but it is also a fact of the matter that DB's net worth is $200 million, and I am sure the women are well aware of that. Any other rich old fat guy would have the same effect. Being 'red pilled' to my mind, especially as a means of success, is not just a consumption of data, but implementing it through lifestyle and successfully applied to the real world. Otherwise, it doesn't distinguish itself that differently from Black Pill defeatism nor is it anything particularly interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:45 PM
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Women shame what repulses them. It is just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:34 PM
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No. That is only if she fails after actually trying. When you don't like your options, you improve to meet the needs of those you want. It is quite simple. The women in the example did none of that; instead Rebecca argues such women should settle and be more realistic - like most males and men that do not have hypergamous tendencies or female physiology. That is why she failed. To motivate fat women to get skinny, is to motivate them properly; not convince them they should date a fat guy because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:21 PM
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I do not see the connection to Red Pill per this example. DB is a great example of high status beta-maxxed blue pill, maybe even the black pill or Pick-Up Artistry in some degree. The ultimate red-pill man isn't rich but has tons of non-transactional lustful sex at will through a series of looks, game and seduction tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:14 PM
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Women are wired to want the best male relative to her social status; not the best male in the world. This then tells me that average males about a notch below her rather than a notch above her; as nature and strongly embedded socialization intended. Yes, if you fall behind a cute little woman as a male that is very unattractive. She would have better success addressing through female sexuality; instead of getting females to suppress and water down their true female desires - as this will never w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:01 PM
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This is precisely why this information is completely redundant and I have no clue why female at all should care that their friend yanks it to her every once in a while in the privacy of his own shower. This is the most useless information ever, and ultimately does not effect any of my male friendships or anyone's life at all unless the female is interested in acting on it mutually. IME, in opposite sex friendships there are lots of sexual innuendo initiated by the males toward the females and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:53 PM
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If the male is not attractive to her, this is a fate worse that perpetually singlehood. The point is a female will starve herself masochistically of men if he is not a desirable man she wants. This is not the same for men. Women are like snakes; temperamental and will go off feeding until they are skin and bones once the husbandry is disturbed, but this period without food is not necessarily enjoyable or pain free. It is just how females are wired and something that painful that is chosen to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:41 PM
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Yes. For women, attracting a male she does not want is worse than death. She rather go lesbian or be perpetually alone that be with a male that repulses her; as that is female sexuality. For men, as they fall into the extremes, one disgusting female will do. That is the point of my post. Females with such issues suffer not because 'no male human wants them'. Females instinctively weed out undesirable males. Very very low value women are not different, as AWALT, and they have female physiology. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:30 PM
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That is the point of my post. It is not to claim that both men and women are 'identical' but instead that relative to female sexuality and female desire; inability to attract the male she wants - not just any man, is a fate worse than death and there is a refusal to improve or be that woman to get her desired mate. For the male, inability to attract any female human whatsoever is terrible; but he also lacks the interest to appeal to female sexuality to get any female whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:28 PM
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Duh. But it's not for the reasons men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:02 AM
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I was just being hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:01 AM
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As usual, I disagree. We are not talking about shy passive active helpful idealized manic dream girls men always envision. We are talking about women with legitimate crippling anxiety disorders and depression disorders, which look exactly the same in women as they do in men. They are often overweight, poorly groomed, have a cluttered personal space and are socially crippled to the extent they inappropriately do not respect your boundaries in social settings with prolonged negative attitudes and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:46 AM
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Duh. Sperm is sperm when there are only 5 guys. And females imperative to procreate and instinctively desire to have babies is far stronger than it is to keep a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:28 AM
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No this analogy is not the same. No one with sense is going to pick a new inexperienced female attorney over a seasoned female attorney with a good track record.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:25 AM
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Men have embarrassingly lower standards and distinct vetting criteria from women, even for marriage. Of course it means something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:22 AM
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This is completely false. If she's leaving, there is no genuine chemistry. Women are total clingers for a genuinely sexy man and "polite" laugh, banter and smile with sexually unattractive/unfunny men all the time per socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:19 AM
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This is not a gender thing. It goes both ways. Women that cannot get a man always have a host of issues; like crippling social anxiety and bizarre social habits/behaviors, dysmorphia and entitlement to anything other than the equivalent Discord junkie that also has agoraphobia. This is also the same for the men. The men that think women are complicated don't do anything with themselves. Absolutely nothing at all but work, swipe online and enable their phobias and bizarre obsessions with eyes bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:18 AM
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Well, I love being a Western. It's my home and I'm a patriot, fat ass low-valuable people and all, I'd be with another stupid American before some random from Guam.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:09 AM
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No one is at fault. Way back when, undesireable men used to just go overseas and easily get a wife. Now they are all staying here for some reason driving people nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:02 AM
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I would ask a man successful with women and make myself hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:01 AM
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It's pretty simple. There are main factors. A man that doesn't bring me peace or actively work to maintain the peace is not a romantic option for me. My male friends, while they are are fun to hangout with, are not necessarily peaceful. We spar, we argue about stupid things, they are highly disagreeable, and challenge me often. My male friends, in spite of popular belief, have more in common such as hobbies without utility. Which is why it is easier for them to be pushed into the 'buddy brotherl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:49 PM
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I notice the people with only 1 standard or none at all that anyone can meet are always single or incels. Do with that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:50 AM
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Have you tried air plants? I also recommend my non-green thumb friends to start with those. Here is where I buy a lot of mine: https://www.neherpetoculture.com/tillandsias .. as they always come healthy and without additional chemicals. Very easy to keep alive, do not need soil, and just need to be dunked in a cup of water every so often. You can tie them to a nice piece of wood or glue them to things, and they grow just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:35 AM
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Gardening. Vegetables, fruits and flowers. Indoor plants. Snake breeder, reptile hobbyist and arachnid hobbyist with only bioactive vivarium and terrariums. Classical piano (14 years). Skating (10+ years roller), hiking, biking, motorcycles, running, fishing, knife-collecting, self-defense for women, high fashion and vintage. Drawing (Graphite/Charcoal), sketching. Social events, cocktails. Reading many books, Writing many books (Crime and Thriller). Luxury & vintage pen collecting. Corsetting, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:59 AM
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Man 11, and woman 8 and 11 are fire! All the others are dime a dozen and not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:29 AM
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I also call strangers sweetheart, doll and honey. I love complimenting people, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:03 AM
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So low self-esteem and shooting yourself in the foot before even getting started by making up scenarios that all men are disgusted by you and and ones you are disgusted by are creeps? Yes, that is a mentalcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:48 PM
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Repairing cars, motorcycles, car guys, Sports-watchers, gym bros, outdoorsy guys, MMA, knife-collecting, woodworkers, leather-workers, reptile junkies, Piantists or sax players, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:26 PM
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Because the men here are completely nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:20 PM
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No. My brothers have always had sex and gfs. I have 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:11 PM
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This is nuts. The reason women sleep around is precisely because they know men dgaf! Men's "IDGAF" attitude is one of the hottest things they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:06 PM
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Women take breaks, get ourselves together, 'work on ourselves for clarity' or go into a self-induce singlehood by removing ourselves voluntarily from the market from low self-esteem, mental issues and other delusions. There is no such thing as involuntary sexless or romanceless woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:54 PM
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You mean mentalcels? There is a post there about being a conventionally attractive woman. You people are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:50 PM
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You mean the woman that changed the definition, had no access to the internet and has also had a relationship? Lol. There is no such thing as an involuntary single or sexless woman. You people are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:49 PM
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I completely agree. That is the point of my comments. OP is more or less talking about a ‘female incel’ or an involuntary celibate women, which is a ridiculous concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:12 PM
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I do not blame them at all. I’d get it wrong too if I were a man. However, I don’t men have anything to do about it except correct their misjudgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:19 AM
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That’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:15 AM
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I honestly cannot believe it. Has she tried a disabled man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:58 AM
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And pussypetting. Don't be stingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:21 AM
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That's correct. Men that have "dry spells" are not Incels. In order for a man to be an incel, to my mind, he must have a prolonged period of desiring sex and intimacy, and an absolute inability to obtain it. Not just simply "not having sex for awhile because women are unresponsive". Otherwise, his situation is indistinguishable from the average man. I've only met one man that met this definition, a "Tru-cel" - with a severe developmental delay but still desired female companionship. Due to his d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:05 AM
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I guess it depends on the definition. If the question is if I've had a sex dream and woke up physically aroused and/or engorged, the answer is yes. But I don't really consider this a "thing" in the way men do. This would usually happen if I'm frequently sexually active non-stop for a period of time and suddenly break the pattern due to stress or another reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:51 AM
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Indeed, unless you have a severe disability that hinders your ability to consent to sex and intimacy, while still desiring such intimacy on the base instinctual level ex: those with developmental disorders, it does very well sound like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:32 AM
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Wha'..?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:29 AM
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And neither do random innocent women. That's why they are incels. There is nothing anyone can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:27 AM
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Woman A: Please stop talking to me about the struggles of male sexlessness. Man B: Continues to talk about it in spite of her asking you not to. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:26 AM
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For the ugliest, fattest, most horrid personality of a woman there is a disgusting male living in a sewer hanging his three socks to dry who would love a female companion. It's just the way of the world. This is not to say women do not have other relationship hardships, but getting a male human has never been one of them. We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:12 AM
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😳😳
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:06 AM
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The distinction I make is purposeful, because "dry spells" for women are always self-induced unlike for men, there is no deprivation or feelings of loss. Unless the woman is a masochist. The question is useless if OP if it just means "didn't have sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:04 AM
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"Dry spells" implies some form of involuntarily celibacy e.g., desiring sex but inability to obtain it. What the hell is an involuntarily celibate woman? I have never had a 'dry spell' just periods where I chose not to have sex because I didn't feel like having a man hanging off me - or wasn't in the mood for dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:57 AM
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There is unintentional love and intentional love. Unintentional love is when I enjoy your face and personality, intentional love is when I actively make sure you keep enjoying mine too and vice versa. Intentional Love for me is about mitigating or reducing psychological, emotional, and physical stress and stressors that inevitably effect your partner by just living life and keeping it at a minimum level, by not increasing it when around me or I around them by doing whatever that is. Acts of Serv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:51 AM
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Why not see a prostitute instead of bothering innocent women who have requested you stop? Some user here proposed the Hookr App idea. It doesn't sound like a bad investment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:39 AM
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It doesn't work like that. Women don't have "dry spells" just like we don't really have wet dreams. We just don't have sex for a period of time. Like, I actively choose to just not sit on a dick, LOL. It is not a dry spell, so I never feel miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:34 AM
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Both and everything in between. Do you care about the horrible, horrible, horrible struggles of attractive women you aren't interested in or committed to? MEH! Probably not. And that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:26 AM
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Oh definitely. I am around these types quite often and having them as friends, they are all kinds of absurd. Partners even worse, but I have developed a soft spot for them. I think this is some of the realities of just being with an attractive man, not to say that they aren't healthy. There are healthy ones. In spite of the "horrible evil attractive men that don't commit and are horrible to women" .. FLUFF. I've found these men to be VERY SENSITIVE, clingy, and insecure - with cravings for commi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:15 AM
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Males just look different. I think we are attracted to differences first and foremost. For example, I noticed men have more prominent and large joints. I just look like one long smooth noodle with no joints. But I think men's physical features are best appreciated when felt and experienced. I personally better appreciate muscles when they are felt; not simply looked at. A man with "hard pecs" for example doesn't sound interesting, yet they make a great support in the bedroom for holding and feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:47 AM
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The TRP is mostly similar to a religion because of all the unwarranted claims and pseudoscience. In other words, offers nothing but utility without purpose. True Red Pill men are still beasts of burden, like Briffault's Law that by implication makes true romantic love a biological impossibility for women. But like Christians, they still cherry-pick and change their own ideology to fit their idealistic narratives to hide their Blue Pill underpinnings they can't get rid of. Because even they know …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:39 AM
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I think people are going off that stupid /r/MarriedRedPill sub or whatever it is. Those people were already blue-pilled and married before they went "red". Not red pilled and got married after the fact. They now just implement traditionalism to feel better about their bizarrely odd marriages in which they took an L marrying someone unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:16 AM
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Tinder isn't so bad. I think most people don't know how to work it. Back when I was on Tinder, I never went global and only selected exclusively from the men that only Super Liked me, which narrowed thousands down to a few hundred, because Super Likes costed money and were limited. I never had to waste time swiping through random's. I put in my bio "I'll ignore all my likes and only respond to Super Likes." So I only met with intentional men, and had a boyfriend from Tinder in a short time span …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:06 AM
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I think the traditionalism inside TRP is an inability to deal and the fact that it does not work. Rather it is a cop-out self-soothing placebo for dealing with failure and that any man that wasps up into TRP cannot spin multiple plates with multiple attractive women. They too, must adopt the blue-pilled trad0con mindset to compensate, because they at least have a chance while still feeling somewhat in control or 'ahead' of female sexuality and female nature. Yet instead of claiming they were "li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:50 AM
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Why in the world would I get into a relationship with a man that isn't physically attractive? Why wouldn't he be a Chad? Do you think "Chads" never commit or something? This is definitely a lie. Attractive men are super clingy - even a tad possessive; especially after sex. They have quite a few insecurities too, usually around you leaving them for someone better. And you just sit staring at that crazy beautiful attractive man like he's completely nuts. The very attractive men make very insecure …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:41 AM
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Online dating is just a penis vending machine. If you put Reese's next to plain crackers, no one is going to buy the plain crackers. Yet, I've destroy boxes of crackers with a nice cheese or hummus on top and savory wine to go with it - so long as there are no tempting Reese's around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:31 AM
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I do not think technology is the problem. Lack of discipline is a large factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:20 AM
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You should read their books and works. What I love most about these actresses, is they are always honest. "Honey, he wasn't attractive and I hated his guts. My first husband, he knew I was underage but he knew he wouldn't get another chance to marry a girl like me. I put on my best outfit, did my make-up real nice, came off domestic not to intimidate him, went up the stairs to his apartment, knocked on his door, and asked if he was going to Hollywood. We were married next week."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:12 AM
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There are not enough sexy men for the majority of women to rack up 100+ n-counts, as the majority of women do not come into daily contact with sexy men of extreme variety. The only way this is possible, is if the majority of women are also having endless casual sex with average men, which isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:05 AM
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Men confuse sexual expression with libido. This is why Twitch thots can make boat loads of money without stepping out of the apartment. The "simp industry" is so lucrative precisely because none of these women are having sex with any of them. Some of them have more sex with women than they do men. I know a few DL femme lesbian thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:56 AM
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A victim complex regarding what? I think "victim complex" is a personal issue and a matter of how you've been raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:52 AM
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The 80/20 does not make any sense and has been long debunked. The true bottom % of men is about %10-20 and I do not care about them at all. Nor the women down there. But I am caring of those with disabilities, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:50 AM
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I do not care at all unless I am committed to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:48 AM
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It is only the superficial physical things, like prominent brow ridge, strong jawline, cleft chins, no eyelid exposure, large hands, deep voice, big dicks. I don't really point out non-physical attributes because I do not think they are mutually exclusive. I have more masculinity than most men accumulate in their lifetime by the definitions. LOL! But not a single man has ever called me masculine. The non-physical attributes are essentially useless to distinguish by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:36 AM
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I don't think this is a common trait men say, I've only ever heard broke low-valuables saying this, typically men from hostile environments where the women are often just as hostile as he is. I've never heard the average to upper class man say, "I want agreeableness" in a woman. I've heard upper class women saying they want cooperative men, because hostile men are often broke with negative attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:41 PM
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Older men =|= old men. Poor old men with high libidos hitting on young women that at him once he turns his back do not know the important distinction it seems. Young women do not like old grown ashy looking men that favor their dads, they like Harry Styles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:29 PM
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I disagree, I was approached at Walgreens not long ago. He asked me out and when I politely said no thank you, he asked, “What? You don’t like my face?” Then just stood there watching me browse for 10 minutes. This is very common occurrence in urban areas. I suggest you move further up North. Alabama is hardly a state!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:26 PM
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💋😘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:44 AM
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I've never vetted a man for kindness. It seems like a trivial quality romantically. I don't think a man has ever vetted me for kindness either or cared. Most people I know are 'neutral' or exist in a state of inactive kindness and inactive positivity, not necessarily meanness or negativity, but ultimately, just chilling. To unsuccessful men, this neutral indifference, less neurotic state of apathy toward societal rules correlates to "asshole" behaviors. Chill men and women that live life to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:11 AM
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I feel that. The beginning of the year has been wild for me, too. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:04 AM
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Yeah. 🤔 I don't like people that cap and larp in Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:56 AM
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Hey Cloudy. 😊 How's your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:50 AM
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While it exists in other cultures, this is mostly a European crisis. I think the wall means essentially, an overweight European.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:29 AM
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A will get old and annoying so fast. Men busting quick is only cute for awhile and very common - in a relationship, this can look less masculine in some degree to me, like I control everything. That gets old fast. I don't think I could stand it after a month or so, the fast busting and no variety. Fighting not to cum is more attractive than a fast buster that nuts when you touch him. So I pick B. B will just be my sex toy beta, and we can open up the relationship so I can get cum somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:14 AM
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This is wrong and you know it. Women desire strength, love (his via investment), protection and masculinity. Some get punched in the face, some get fucked silly. Whatever the case, it's for the utility. This is fact. Take the Red Pill and stop with the blue-pilled gibberish. She feels love. She is not "in love with you". Hence the distinction you made earlier; she loves your utility, which is very sexy. Being in love, as you stated, is sin qua non to romantic love. Women also love their simps an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:21 AM
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Women cannot romantically 'love' men unless he supplies utility, and still isn't romantic - but a subset of her biological duty and female imperative in relation to procreation. Sexual prowess is just part of it because it shows utility. It has nothing to do with who he truly may be or 'is'. She may lust and become devoted, but it is not "true love". The offspring need protection, and so does she. Women have always been romantic pragmaticists. Men can love women for who she truly is, so long as …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:07 AM
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I disagree, the only humans women can truly love in the way men view love, unconditionally, is her offspring. As it should be, as nature intended as she bares the womb and motherhood. Male selfishness and yearning for unconditional love projects and targets the female sexuality with hatred, criticism and resentment for this clear fact. Yes, women can become 'devoted' to men they sexually lust after, because it is correlated with protection of her womb and offspring + survival, ultimately utility…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:46 PM
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There are also many covert narcissists that look like slobs, and feel the world is personally wired against them to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:43 PM
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Female sexuality and love is different. Straight women can sleep with other women without it being a romantic gesture or a genuine attraction to females, women can also sleep with a man they do not love; she can sleep with her husband for years and years and years without romantic love; even orgasm once or twice. The reverse is also true for women, but not men. Women can also love a man they do not want sex with very easily. It is easy for a woman to turn love on and off and sexual attraction on…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:10 PM
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Any man with a personality different from me, more bold, more risk-taking, more free from societal constraints - more daring - a real man - the independent man, that garnished a social life, is an asshole. Consequently, any man that isn't as morally righteous, kind, and ethically superior as I, the best man, the good man, the golden man, the blessing to woman, the blessing to society, that should be admired, appreciated, and loved for his morally superior good deeds in this swine of culture, men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:38 PM
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Finally!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:48 AM
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I am obviously NOT talking about medications for serious and chronic illnesses. Hence: “if you can,” in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:47 AM
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Society loves injecting women with poisons. Yes, if you can, keep that stuff out of your body. It is not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:37 PM
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Women duh! I have male 'friends' but the relationships have way more boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:35 PM
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My first legit bf was a broke pothead working at pizza hut, but he was attractive with nice tats, young women don't care about salaries in terms of making him a bf unless she's 28-33. If you are betabuxxing below the age of 28, you are very very very below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:33 PM
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You can't buy your way into a woman's heart anymore unless she is tradcon or gold digging. You have to actually be interesting with hobbies and make her orgasm; the average man has put so much into making money that women don't need, he's neglected everything else. -- "Back in the old days, women couldn't say what they wanted to say, they had to fake orgasms and shit. We can tell dudes today, I WANNA CUM MA'FUCKA!" 🎶 "You're such a fucking ho, I love it!" 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:16 AM
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All my friends are lawyers/attorneys - the old grandpas that have been practicing for 30+ years are married with adult children, a real snore fest. There was a celebration about his first grandchild. The youngers are dating other lawyers or law school friends. I tend hang with other young fun female lawyers. Much more fun and love to drink. None of them are single, but dating another lawyer with the exception of one in IT. My other friends are in business or in the entertainment industry. The bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:17 PM
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Not always. Sometimes you can lust after and get wet from a body part. Like strong hands, veins and short nails. Sometimes a hot piercing pair of eyes get the body flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:15 AM
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Women don't want to be approached at the gym? I specifically went to the gym to be hit on by hot guys AND workout. They aren't mutually exclusive. I gave my number, had some chats and continued my workout. I typically run outdoors, so if I am at the gym I don't mind being social.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:13 AM
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My man doesn't like porn. When I'm not around, he does semen retention for a day or so. Says it makes him feel "powerful" and his workouts and weightlifting more effective. I'm like you do you boo, so long as that ends when I'm around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:00 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosy_retrospection https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declinism#:~:text=Declinism%20is%20the%20belief%20that,favourably%20and%20future%20more%20negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:59 PM
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A few.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:56 PM
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Narcissistic tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:55 PM
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WTF. Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:53 PM
1

In the context of that sub - Translation: Rich men love hot young sociopathic transactional gold diggers. Which isn't even false...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:51 PM
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I would stay with him, so long as he lets me have physical intimacy and sex somewhere else. Masturbation is good, but there's nothing like fucking someone else. Masturbation sucks compared to sex. Either we open up the relationship or I'm out. My response will probably differ at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:37 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:34 PM
1

"Is it possible to break the heart of someone you love?" - Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:31 PM
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Because men are talking about a physical attractive man, while women are talking about over 8 different types of attractive males. All 8 of these men are attractive to women outside of just Chad category. Gauging where most women fall under in terms of physical attractiveness [rate of chosen], status [exposure] and location [proximity] will affect accessibility and likelihood of being chosen. Good men - Community leaders, dads, husbands, low-average status :: above average personality - average …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:52 PM
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This is similar to asking if his dick is still just as sexy when it's soft after he busts as it is when it's rock hard for me. He's not supposed to be "sexy" when he cries after expressing frustration, sadness, pain and/or defeat after a competitive fight. My nurturing instincts for my man kick in, not my vagina lubricant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:38 AM
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Ofc. Women are people, some women feel insecure around certain men and reject them because they aren't ready for that type of man yet or he's too much for her lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:38 PM
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You must be fine af then!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:27 PM
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I don't see why. Most men have short hair, fades, haircuts, or are baldies in some form. I like to oil and massage his head in my lap, rub that noggin' when he's getting messy in it, wash and moisturize his thick beard as an Act of Service. It's not like he can't grow hair, many men can rock a bald head and pull it off. And they can look good: https://imgur.com/a/OxcpkQO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:26 PM
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Considering most men I've been with have/are military, ex-military, SWAT, MMA, active/competitive, etc... in some way, or just 'intimidatingly' masculine bordering ugly-ish to the point where they don't even have to fight much, winning and losing is just part of dating a competitive, active man. Expecting him not to lose is irrational. This is where nurturing comes in, it's perfectly fine. Nothing like taking care of my man after a good fight - win/lose, sexy af he's even in MMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:18 PM
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In the SMV/RMV: Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:17 AM
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Short hair or bald. Thick healthy trimmed beard. Brown eyes. Large hands, short nails. Hard beefy chest. Thicc dick, thicc lips, white teeth, voice deep asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:08 AM
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Would you be equally lenient if it was the husband withholding sex and the wife going behind his back? Every post I make usually applies to both genders. My post is not about cheating, only addressing the misusage of the term. Often, people step out on the co-habiting roommate (no longer romantic partner) - and the partner feels betrayed usually takes priority, rather the fact that the partner terminated the relationship informally and ended the monogamous deal long ago, then abusively disallowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:43 AM
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A better distinction is husband material not boyfriend material. Hookups turn into boyfriends unintentionally and can overlap all the time. There is usually strong chemistry. Boyfriends can consist of many hot sex traits. They can be low status risky dropout potheads or good guys in grad school. A man with husband traits has traits distinct from the boyfriend. The family man. Boyfriends turn into husbands when their boyfriend traits change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:51 AM
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I draw important distinctions between good men, Nice Guys, and Simps, because these are very different men. The distinction that makes a difference is intent, elements, and reasons. Which comes from analysis. Nice guy is jargon for a specific type of man that must make hard distinctions that make differences in order the label to have interesting meaning, I thought in the context of the sub we were universally and intuitively aware of this. Most people are more fixated on the shorthand words tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:28 PM
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If that's what you take from my posts, after comprehending them, not just reading and being reactionary, then fine. But I wish you read my posts in a bit better faith. I've got nothing against ya or good men and neither does my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:09 PM
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Interesting take, thanks for sharing. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:58 PM
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It doesn't justify cheating, because you cannot cheat when there is no deal in effect, from a logical or fault standpoint, just like disappointment at outcomes doesn't necessarily mean a mistake has been made. The woman may feel she is being "cheated on", but she broke her side of the deal a long time ago. They haven't been committed for a long time, in spite of them co-habiting and she just wanting a man around, this does not mean her monogamous deal terms haven't been breached because he does …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:50 PM
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It's just jargon. Most people do not have issues with good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:38 PM
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If you want to change the word, fine. Call him a pumpkin or whatever you want. The analysis is more important than the shorthand label.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:37 PM
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You don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:35 PM
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I'm friends with an Amazon best-seller male that writes books on dating, and he's mostly just saying stuff and good at categorizing most of the time. I support him, but think most dating coaches get rich off saying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:24 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:17 PM
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I was in the Discord for about 10 minutes, and the people seem normal with some odd quirks but unnecessarily hostile on the subreddits imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:16 PM
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In your case, it was probably just flyby semantics. A victim is never at fault or responsible to what is done unto them, but they do have a personal responsibility to mitigate the chance of this happening through vetting, safety and security. That is the only actual 'affect' there is on women. A nice guy is always a man that lashes out negatively and harms women from entitlement, otherwise there is no distinction that makes a logical difference. A good man that feels awful and frustration after …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:07 PM
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There is a sub for it in some variation. /r/Nicegirls These types of people are genderless, but the question is about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:55 PM
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With distinctions that make differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:53 PM
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9, 2, 1, 5, 4, 6, 3, 8, 7 8 is a special case for me. I'm extremely attracted to the Strongman Mateusz Kieliszkowski, he holds his weight well, is young, and has an appealing masculine face I can't explain. His personality is cute, too as in interviews. He's definitely a long term crush, so if I get him in specific, he can be moved up higher, but any other strongman 8 stays where it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:33 PM
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There is a difference between a Red Pill man and a man that shares similar ideas. The former has an institutionalized identity in a particular ideology/religion regarding females that manifests as a lifestyle, where as the other is just a man with personal prejudices and preferences about women. You cannot patent ideas, thoughts and values. I wouldn't get involved with a Red Pill man, but have no problem with one that holds some of the same ideas, some which are common distinctions without diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:04 PM
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Okay. I'm listening, Gimp. Explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:57 PM
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My bad, I thought this was about something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:37 PM
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The difference between a nice guy and a simp is the former has a sense of malicious entitlement rooted in covert narcissism or narcissistic traits - deeds are done selfishly with a desire to be exploitive with intent to gain. The woman must give him what he wants or else. The simp, while he does the same deeds, usually lacks this, and is a victim of not knowing how to attract and get women. His acts are often naive, but selfless nonetheless. He is irresponsibly vulnerable with strange uncommitte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:29 PM
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A woman withholding sex and refuses to mitigate or improve has broken her monogamous deal, cheating is no longer cheating as the deal is no longer in effect. Likewise, a woman that has not broken the monogamous deal and a man that steps outside of it to have sex with someone else, has broken the monogamous deal and now a cheater. Swingers, poly are becoming more common, some of it is trendy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:14 PM
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Because some are heterosexual heteromantic, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:08 PM
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Up =/= transcend. Most women will still be within a particular social class looking for the 'top' man within that social class not the best. Middle class men just have to outshine one another, not necessarily be of another status. There is a difference between a top male and an alpha male. Most women are fine with tops and striving to be a top is far more realistic and feasible, you just need to master a craft. Broke low status men do fine if they are on top of something. Most college men are br…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:00 PM
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Fucking a guy I'm into has never left me feeling empty or empty-handed. What kinda people you sleeping with? Sounds like addiction and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:54 PM
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"Red Pill Man" is different from a man that just has some ideas that align. The Red Pill man has institutionalized his identity into an religious ideology about females. A man that just likes sleeping and playing with tons of women and not attracted to chicks over 30 is no problem and mostly harmless. It is like comparing the Taliban v. non-practicing person that believes in 'spirituality'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:51 PM
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Comparing humans to nest-making small-brained animals like birds is extremely reductionist and fallacious. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:47 PM
1

Muscle men are hot to me but so are skinny men with tattoos. Attractiveness is mostly objective. So long as you aren't on the extremes, you should be fine. Yes, being beefy is much more attractive than looking sickly and unhealthy with anorexia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:41 PM
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It's mostly an aesthetic thing. Big dicks look better to me and get me wet faster; but they don't outperform smaller size penises. 4-6 inch is fine for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:38 PM
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Some women need toys and shit, but not all. Just feeling my man makes me juicy. Never had a problem with O and never needed extra help getting there. When two people are hot as fuck for each other, it comes easy ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:21 PM
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And my orgasm intensifies if he's getting off hot as fuck too. It's a mutual thang. Who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:18 PM
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Most women/females will get approached often and the frequency depends on many things. The most noticeable factor is my life is relatively easy in comparison to average women and men make it and keep it that way, aside from few bad eggs just come with being attractive to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:10 PM
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If I can, I was probably just neutral to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:02 PM
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I think I was a teenager and it was way before I joined Reddit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:09 AM
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This is not about gender, but making rational pragmatic decisions both financial and otherwise relative to the circumstances, plans and conditions. No person with sense man or woman, would maintain this lifestyle with significantly imbalanced income difference. I do not believe this is an unbiased serious question. We see the similar situation, although rare, when the woman is significantly wealthy and the poor rocker boyfriend is hanging out and compensating in other ways. His income is decent,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:02 AM
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I dont even need to watch to know its something I dont need. 😂 Right. Neurotic anti-feminist men and feminist women make me dry as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:43 AM
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Is he an ugly loser or an attractive man that just banged tons of hookers on the road with the boys? Very distinct things. Men that bang prostitutes are unattractive if they let the prostitute use them and not the other way around. 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:38 AM
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I've had my heart broken twice, by both genders. Both I played a significant role. The first, she was significantly mentally ill and psychologically manipulative and I often lashed out in verbally abusive insults toward her after. After various suicide attempts, the first almost successful follow her swallowing a bottle of pills because I left. The toxicity didn't stop there, as she committed fraud then weaseled her way back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:33 AM
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Preferences are all mitigatable, changeable, can be revised or worked around. My standards cannot (non-negotiables) but it's the man's ballpark to pose a good offer. If he has a good offer and pitch, I will either revise my own to match his or take the risk on what he is pitching if likes what I answer with because I want to keep him. You then enter a monogamous deal that exists on a series of promises to be met through healthy compromise. Men with bad offers are always deal breakers because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:03 AM
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Because it is more effective and less useless (unnecessary harm) to gas and simultaneously motivate than the former; criticize and motivate. vide Science. "Gas up" like criticism is only at it's most harmful when no optimizing techniques, tactics, or strategies follow or are deployed at the same time. And even so, the act itself is not "harmful" on it's own unless it actively encourages more harmful behaviors. If you ever wonder why women 'to look better than men,' and there are more SIMPS and N…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:59 AM
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I will first make a distinction between the Nice Guy and The Simp. Both NOT to be confused with a male orbiter, who I also view differently. Incels are more on par with The Nice Guy; than The Simp. Both The Simp and Nice Guy problematic, but for different reasons. In turn, both types of men breeds less secure attachment styles and uncertainty in the opposite sex. The Simp does not know what he wants, (outside of her) and cannot communicate what he wants, or who he is. How I define/view the term …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:26 AM
1

Ava Gardner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:32 AM
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How's the weather?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:58 PM
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Love is an unintentional/intentional emotion. Unintentional love (a month - 3 months). Intentional love (1 year - 3 years).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:57 PM
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Humans are one the most adaptive species on Earth. We will just adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:54 PM
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😂 I think women's confidence and aggression will up a bit, because it will actively reduce a lot of strength based neuroticism women have. I also see a small reduction in female-centric insecurities, such as reluctance to participate. Think of the most assertive woman you know; then magnify that toward (the male gender), in general. Attractiveness will still play a huge role in this however.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:48 PM
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It's Reddit. I sometimes get hate comments from men days later on posts I made 8 months ago in another sub-reddit. When I look at their profile, they post on a variety of other subs, but this one included. It is not just men, it is Reddit culture. I've had a female Reddit Admin try to get me and my followers banned off the entirety of Reddit. 😂 People in general offline are much better. I do not think men dislike confident women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:44 PM
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Both men are objectively attractive in the face with strong jawlines. How can I not be attracted to them even if they aren't "my type".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:26 AM
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Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:24 AM
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The dating market is for fun, games and time-killing. At least that is what I used it for. Most people from successful LTR's didn't even find their person in the dating market, it's too boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:23 AM
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It is not a myth, but there is a THIN LINE between (hyper-masculine homo-presentation) and "Chad". Cross this, and you go from sexy hetero-man to "I don't know, girl... what you think? 🤔"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:08 AM
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Simps are terribly insecure men. Why would anyone want this? Simp =/= care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:04 AM
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🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:32 AM
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Stupid. 😂 Like asking an obvious American where they're from. The only reason men asking this is because they are probably matching exclusively with fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:28 AM
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37
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:24 AM
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Assume you really connect with a guy. You like him. You've waited long enough for sex to be comfortable. He meets all your requirements for a LTR or more. Then you have sex. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:23 AM
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Three years both left and right. It's never changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:45 AM
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I have dated two male cam models and an exotic male dancer for a time for the simple fact they were HOT AF. It was not a problem, I was among the audience showing support. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:33 AM
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"Better" in this context is subjectively irrelevant. "Better" in my context is always critiqued to me; not critiqued to her. Him taking her to Paris is irrelevant because I always wanted to go Spain; and so he made that happen, and we went. Anything that does not fit my idea of "good treatment and fulfillment," would not occur in the relationship which exists independently of his exes personal wants and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:29 AM
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The first mistake is you assume first, that is the woman always getting played or mistaken in her reasons instead of the man playing himself (and not knowing it). Ex; claiming to want casual but unbeknownst of low his emotional intelligence "behaves like a boyfriend," (at his own expense); and gets burned more by the ho's he thinks he playing than reverse, happens quite often with men that deal with nothing but ho's because they are ho's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:24 AM
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Yes, but they are usually just like him (from similar environments & social classes).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:20 AM
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I am being honest; it is not attractive — and that is only because of the lingering possibility of "book knowledge-hoarding paralysis/inaction" that often happens with these types. There is also the unattractiveness of lack of filtration of data fed to him to which he becomes someone he is not. Instead of filtering data; he absorbs it and becomes it rather standing on his own to feet. He does optimize himself; he loses it — as you see with Internet men that recycle washed out rhetoric of other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:55 AM
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I was unaware calling something what it is was optimism, Idealist may be a better word, but still an optimist. 🤔 "Actualism/actuality" and then genuineness/truth and reality is uninteresting to the majority of people, most in which don't have time to philosophize. 😴 People are dreamers and then opportunists first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:50 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:43 AM
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😂 You can't tell when your partner loves you and is into you? And I disagree this cannot be "known" or at least reasonably trusted to be the case without having unwarranted doubts to said specific partner. "The (obvious) possibility of them possibility falling out of love because people change" is a neurotic anxiety, like hypochondria. Possibilities and capacities aren't equal to "probable, inevitable, factual or un-mitigatable". Relationships are a 'risk' (pain..) is like saying living is a ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:40 AM
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😂 Not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:12 AM
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This is not a matter of truth or "born this way". But if you have it; regardless of how you got there even if through cheat codes. The masses are indifferent to the journey or authenticity, most are scrambling for cheat codes like all the rest. You are too optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:09 AM
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In this game, it is just as discriminate and selective as much as it is manipulative. Reforming simps and those that practice semen retention play a different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:06 AM
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Most people aren't even wrong, they just aren't right about anything. If you are going to talk out of your ass, it's better to get paid for it. It is easy to make bullshit make sense or repeat cookie-cutter common sense lines. All the matters is the power of the person behind the words. The day I start giving advice is the day when I hit the Best Seller list. When you start diving into it you soon find out no one knows what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:52 AM
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In gender dynamics, the majority of people have observed and lived through all the same things (pain, loss, suffering) - (reality) and experienced it "differently" — and then formulated their own conclusions from their memories from these different experiences. We're all in this thing together; people just can't agree on what it means and what to do about it. The blue team says move right based off these distinctions, the red team says move left based off these observed distinctions. Those that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:26 AM
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A good way to make a friend. That is what it is; and all it is. Everything else is a byproduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:15 AM
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In the past, for me: "I'm in the area". 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:13 AM
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None whatsoever. When have laws ever been "effective" preventatives? The same men will keep on winning; because they break the laws, rules and norms. And that is a panty-dropper.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:07 AM
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Quality partners are correlative to class which is solidified in prestige, social networks and opportunity (to be healthy and to gain/maintain advantage); relative to which particular class you belong to, most people may not disagree that there is a "top quality homeless man, that rules his fellow brethren from beneath the Brooklyn bridge and gets all the homeless fat ladies." It is simply the fact that no one from other classes care. Start studying and you'll get put into your proper class. Tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:55 PM
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Love is a feeling. Both intentional and unintentional; unlike emotions. The unintentional aspect can be falling in love with a great dick attached to a subjectively great man. There is nothing else to it. The intentional aspect comes into play later; how many years are you going to sit on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:43 PM
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Meaninglessness of the terms aside, if masculinity is "void" you are probably not active at all. Masculinity (traits) is a requirement - as is the 'feminine' (traits) in both sexes - to survive and flourish in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:31 PM
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Only if she approaches him like a man - thinking she must reduce herself or transform herself into the image of a male to get his attention or else she will 'lose'; and this also means he is low-value as well - because he is insensitive to the feminine - the female - and desires the approach of a male and to be courted like a woman wants to be courted, like a cultural homoeroticism. The female that approaches a man from her female-element and only her female-element cannot be low value; he he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:21 PM
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Attractive people look like attractive people (symmetrical/aesthetic/forms/fluid) - that is objective - (male or female). Neither are better than each other, only better looking than the 'others'. The rest are "preferences, subjective, trade-offs, debate-worthy.." and meaningless getcha-back blibber blabber gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:16 PM
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Can't think of anything. I get what I want and take what I need. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:10 PM
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Most women are aware of where they stand from an early age communicated by the opposite sex - you intuitively begin to calculate male invest and what motivates this investment and trade-offs for the indifference and risk of reward through market participation - you then are faced with denying this reality until it crashes down on you or accepting reality and strategically moving within it. The imperative and desire to reproduce outweighs the relevance of having these thoughts constantly unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:07 PM
1

Same nonsensical question like the women who ask, "what's wrong with withholding myself for months for "proof of interest"? 😴 ... It's the scared insecure deer in the headlights running from possible boogy-man that's ridiculous. Likewise, it is a repulsion to men scared of women; naturally, not men with financial intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:57 PM
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In my experience, it leads to hot, toxic sex. 😂 Men that are intimidated by me are not all shy, timid. Some are challenging, reactionary, and assertive. Some fascinated, manipulative, aggressive or possessive. As a highly disagreeable woman that attracts these men, we are usually forthcoming-ly in this agreement — and we hardly bore each other. For a time, his only mission is to make me submit for once only for him; and mine for him to worship the ground I walk on because that is what we are bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:33 PM
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😂 You think women that aren't playing clout games touch and/or pay attention to simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:17 PM
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Yes, some.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:16 PM
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😂 Not at all. If you know, you know. Most women know, they just stay any way pretending like they don't. She is extracting, he is flaunting. They're all in the game together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:14 PM
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Dressing yourself is easy. Style is rare. There are cheap and poorly dressed men with style. Let's get into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:18 AM
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My post here gives some examples of the various types of "attractive men" to women: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kg558f/comment/ggcmi5p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:29 AM
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I only dated, fucked, relationshipp-ed and always preferred.. still do men that do cold approaches with direct assertiveness that couldn't care less about "how I prefer to be pursued". 😂 Nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:23 AM
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It's not a red flag, but it isn't a green one either nor do I find it attractive unless this was something that happened later in life and he's handling his business with a psychologist, to then as a partner, I support it and trust his decisions. Keywords are: handling his business. It makes him receptive to my voice and actions, allowing for effectiveness as his partner when he needs me, making him quicker to get back on his feet without me going beyond what I am qualified for. "Therapy" isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:20 AM
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Define "communicate". Communicate consists a variety of things, from verbal to non-verbal. You can sit silently and still communicate through facial expressions and body language. There are also people that communicate openly, bluntly, and directly without necessarily saying anything interesting, informative or relevant. You can also be a long-winded story-teller that adds context to the everything, and still make an informative point. The most important things to me are either: Not just speakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:13 AM
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5'4-5'7 - Perfect compensating height. (Manlets more likely to simp & prove themselves). 5'7 - 5'10 - Average confidence, average personality, good sex height, decent husband height. 5'11 - 6'2 - What's good. 👀 6'2 - 6'4' - 😎 6'5 - 6'8 - can't do shit but bounce on the dick; missionary sex out the window, too big to be practical, just coasting/tolerating, chilling looking like his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:34 PM
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Because he forgot to clock out. Don't be a fool and work extra hours. 😂 Women are free to impose contradictory preferences and you free to say no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:04 AM
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This is TRP. 🤮 ... Still wondering why who is or isn't 'Husband Material' matters to TRP that built off reluctance and opposition to marriage. Those that discovered 'TRP' in marriage are late-gamers; and there is no 'Red Pill' in effect - just performative roleplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:59 AM
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Sure. Then (re)-commit to many. But if you are going to abstain, then do so in good sport. The non-players shouting from the sidelines that they can play the game better are distractions... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:43 AM
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Living life and unlearning doesn't mean you've learned a thing. It just means you have unlearned a series of hocus pocus; now unlearning and ditching the useless faux 'knowledge' of "women are awful creatures" is a worthy pursuit to take on. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:39 AM
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"Husband traits" are irrelevant. There are plenty of ain't shit men that are husband material, but unattainable by (men's arguments) because of reluctance to commit, speaking to a redundancy on the uninteresting fixation on 'husband traits' alluding to some sexually undesirable man. It is simple to marry, and free to fuck a woman's senses out. Those that have no opportunity to fuck women are not any objectively interesting form of husband material than the "fuck boi" but instead a last option re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:20 AM
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You invest in demonstrated potentiality and proven products. Being mistaken in your investment or err in judgment is a part of the risk; but not a logical reason to abstain from participation in fear of mistake of what is demonstrated to be a worthy prospect unless you are not an investor. To that point, get off the pot if you aren't shittin' - not everyone is a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:07 AM
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The question is not "what works/does it work?" (because X does work - relative to whatever context) just like 'simping' works. The question how it works: Understanding the Pick Me, The Caring Woman, and the Distinctions: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ma4qqv/comment/grre5ah/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 The illusion is males inability to discern between the woman that 'prioritizes' his well-being over hers as a matter of goodness and habitual care above that of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:52 PM
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"What's he have that I don't have?" ;) https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/o4cgjd/comment/h2gyygb/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:28 AM
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Only men with big dicks and good strokes are husband material. The point is a value judgment and preference; not a claim of "objective or universal traits" unless you are religious Christian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:25 AM
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Humans have various degrees. To view women as a human means to view them with discernment and the capacity to make value judgments like men. It is unwise to for men to treat ho's like wives; likewise with the woman. "Husband material" means/translation: you are worth compromise, patience, negotiation, evaluation and re-caliberation, and habitual care + attentiveness in HIGHEST degree that is conditional from the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:09 AM
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Still choosin' violence and spanking dat ass I see. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:23 AM
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What I was looking for. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:06 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/l8z3sc/does\_being\_attractive\_feel\_like\_a\_expectation\_or/glfo2uo?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:30 AM
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Watching Waiting to Exhale for the first time in [...] 😎👌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:04 AM
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He also isn’t into bug eyed pale women with no hips lol. 🤣💀😂💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:57 AM
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Tf. You just went off into Pill-headspace now and lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:33 AM
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I agree with you; pure facts. 1000x, speak on it. She's sociopathic class traits in my book. I was talking to some people that were attempting to justify it; claiming she wasn't a predator, which would be interesting if otherwise, she didn't document her entire history. I'm just confused by the argument and it must make sense. 🤔 She was at his games in high school. He was a high school kid - she was at his games since he was 15. She was definitely preying on him and has history of this all docum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:24 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:13 AM
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Indeed, in spite of RP's tautologies, common sense rhetoric, folk psychology and reaffirming placebo effects, it then brings prejudiced dogmatic magical-thinking to what is otherwise non-magical, non-dogmatic facts and truths with no utility in everyday life to justify being in a completely delusional state of "comfort-seeking" called confirmation biases. Red Pill is the religion. The founding fathers and multiple disciples and Redbook Isrealites have spoken on this multiple times; especially re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:59 AM
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This post is pointless. Here is why: Simple argument. Let X = 'strong independent woman making 6 figures with 6 degrees'. Let Y = men. Let W = women. P1: Y claims that X doesn't matter. What doesn't matter is unimportant. P2: X is unimportant to men. P3: W claims to have X. P4: X is irrelevant to men; thus doesn't matter. --> she can be a 'strong independent woman with 6 figures and 6 degrees' because it does not matter. I.e., self-refuting. W w/ X is irrelevant to male attraction. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:38 AM
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The only women mostly exposed to these men are the ones on his level. Let's check the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:26 AM
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I never listened to my parents much; always filtered. And they hardly gave me any "advice" on dating/relationships and I definitely never went to them for these things either. Imagine taking your parents seriously. Imagine that. Still turned out great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:23 AM
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That's what PJ said. 🙄🤣💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:09 AM
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She got in his head. Condoms don't protect the mind, playa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:04 AM
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Na, she's weird. 🤔 She's been watching him long before he turned 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:03 AM
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An honest ho; respect. But she is sociopathic and disgusting (weirdo as hell). 🤔 Another blind young man with no guidance taking the L. He should've read her book.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:58 PM
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