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yup too quick. Again not exactly the situation I would've chosen, maybe that's all the answer I need.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:19 AM
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Use a condom every time if you want to avoid these things.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:01 AM
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Not really an option. The only real negatives would be the pregnancy itself and the timing, not the child. Adoption would be realizing all the negatives and not getting to enjoy any of the positives. Like I said, the child could be supported, no problem.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:58 AM
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She is looking for validation for her choice. She hopes to see you not doing well and looking like a loser. Any time you don't it eats at her but keeps her coming back for more.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:56 AM
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LDR wouldn't be an issue.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:53 AM
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I agree with the unchecked variables. The biological clock thing is real. She's mid 20s and I'm early 30s. Part of my thinking was worst case scenario, I want kids so if our relationship blows up I have a kid with a hot woman who comes from a good family and will be a great mom. We aren't married and I wouldn't be down for a shotgun wedding, nor would she push that kind of thing.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:51 AM
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Not on the pill for medical reasons. Plenty of blame to go around for both parties. She's not exactly happy about it and is down for an abortion, so it's not like she tried to trap me.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:48 AM
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I don't disagree with any of that.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:47 AM
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I agree with what you said. The time and resources are mainly time. It's a LDR (no need for that lecture), she's only a couple hours away with a end date of a few months. Also I do enjoy having weekdays to myself to focus on work, lifting, seeing other friends etc. However I've been the one going to her a lot more. I know she appreciates it but I get annoyed after driving and working all day and she says not a word. I know it's an extremely stupid and unproductive feeling to have. I also know th…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 12:55 AM
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Thats the thing. I have no idea if she is or isn't, she seems to be but who fucking knows. I'm not ready to next her over this, just trying to make clear what my boundaries are and what won't be tolerated.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:11 PM
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I somewhat agree. It works less. But one RP principal always works. Dread game and maintaining a high SMV.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:39 PM
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She's clearly not into you but won't come out and say it. Why are you making this so hard? Girls do what they want to do. If she wanted to go out/be with you she would.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:46 PM
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Because people love other people who make them feel important, special, etc. Regardless of whether or not its sincere or fake. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:41 PM
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She's hot, but I definitely work out more than she does and she knows it. As far as raising my value, she knows I have a good career, nice car, house, etc. I work out regularly and have a nice body. I'll keep doing that, but there isn't anything I can drastically change, i.e. lose 20 lbs, etc. Keep in mind I'm 31 and she's 25. Sweet spot for me. Anyways she, displaying AWALT traits, moved on from her ex to me several months ago. He was definitely BP and didn't have a lot going for him. Hypergamy…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:07 AM
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I'm under no delusion she's getting it for me.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:59 AM
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She knows there is zero chance of me paying for it.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:58 PM
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No talk of marriage, still rather new relationship.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:58 PM
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I don't judge women based on sexual history. Don't even ask. If one is truly RP, don't try to find girls you think will be faithful. Be good enough that she chooses to remain faithful.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:26 AM
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Ah she's your ex. Sounds like she's over you, but still wants sex. If she keeps fucking you, it doesn't add to her number or make her a slut. It sounds like you aren't awful in bed so she keeps it up. This isn't a terrible situation to find yourself in. Just quit being confused and realize the relationship is over.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 09:44 PM
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I disagree. As long as he is getting something of value out of it. TRP doesn't just mean Sex = Alpha, anything else = Beta. It's about not wasting your most valuable resource, time. Sure it would be a waste of time if he were doing all this in an attempt to sleep with these women, but that doesn't sound like his goal. As stated, I'm sure he's gaining valuable information and building a great network. I do the same at work, and you know what, those women would have my back if anything ever happen…
/r/askTRP10/07/16 02:42 PM
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I wouldn't immediately jump on the negative bandwagon some have. I think this could go either way. First thing you HAVE to do is stop asking shit. She's getting defensive because she thinks you don't trust her. Next time she goes out you can only say 2 things. "Have fun" when she leaves and when she returns, "did you have a good time". She will tell you what she wants to tell you. If you don't trust her then don't be with her. You have to act cool about it. Asking questions reeks of Beta. Rememb…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:45 PM
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You are ahead of the game. You're 22, just worry about yourself. The women will come later. You have a solid decade to amass wealth and play the game before you can even stress about missing out on a family and kids. I know I'm not old (31), but again, you're 22. Don't stress you have PLENTY of time.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:37 PM
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Do they have BFs/husbands. Don't be blinded by the workplace crush. Lots of women will do it for the attention and because they literally see you EVERY FUCKING DAY. Most of them won't take it further than that. Some will. If the girl isn't worth losing your job over, few if any are, then leave it alone. Some harmless flirting is ok, just don't let it escalate.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:07 PM
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HB 7.5 aint no unicorn.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:02 PM
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Stop caring. Talk to everyone. You have to be natural. It sounds like women are picking up on you "trying" too much.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:00 PM
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Current girl I'm after told me she thought I hated her at first. I've had female friends admit they chase guys that "don't care" It's a VERY real thing. True attraction or not, it gets him in the door. At that point it's up to him to follow through. Who cares if it's real or temporary. It's like getting admitted to Harvard and not having to take the SATs. Who fucking cares, what you do next with it is up to you.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:59 PM
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Great advice. Never saw it until now. Actually went out that night with a friend thats a girl and a couple of her friends. I'd say the three of them are 7s and 8s. My goal was to have my HB9 see me with these other girls. That didn't work out, but I ended up hooking up with my original friend who was to be a wing woman. That honestly helped more than anything, gave me great abundance mentality, something I need to keep working on. Also some inadvertent preselection/dread with the HB9. I gave her…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:54 PM
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Had a moment? They shared beers and the BP dude started crying to a stranger, who happens to be fucking his girl, about his relationship. There ain't no moment there.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:47 PM
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Wow. Your story sounds EXACTLY like a situation I'm currently in, right down to the dog. I hope we aren't talking about the same girl ha. I share your view. I don't judge a girl for cheating, if she's unhappy, that isn't my fault. I generally tell them they need to do what makes them happy and suggest leaving, but would never tell them to. That's their business not mine. I also don't want to be the reason a girl breaks up with her man. I don't mind opening their eyes to the fact they need to, bu…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:39 PM
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Yeah you can't be friends on Facebook. I generally have kept exs' numbers so I at least know who it is if they are contacting me, or if something comes up and I need to get a hold of them. But yeah no social media. cut that shit out.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:12 PM
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Agreed. Of course she wants to have sex. There is no other reason in the world she would be contacting him. As it's already been said, she can't just come out and say I want to fuck you, that would make her a slut in her mind. I can't believe some of the replies in this thread, her actions were so obvious.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:09 PM
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Thanks for the advice. All solid. I guess my reaction after 1 failed attempt was not to initiate a second time and leave that to her. Sounds like a mistake. So the only play here is to just pull back completely, let her see me with other girls, and see if she comes around on her own?
/r/askTRP03/07/16 01:15 AM
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Valid points. I agree with 1 and 2. My rationale was in my area this girl is top 1% , and thats not coming from me. So I was willing to give a little more of my time. I'm usually pretty quick to spot non interest and take things for what they are, but this girl is the one initiating seeing each other. Ive told her I'm not interested in being her friend. I also know things either need to progress now or I'll be friend zoned, which I may already be.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:24 PM
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