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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:17 AM
95

I once had an ex say, “any man who’s deterred by a woman with hair on her vagina, is no man at all.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:57 AM
94

I wish I could, but it’s illegal in my dumb ass country to even own pepper spray…but that doesn’t deter me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:48 AM
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This is the real life personification of, “sir, this ain’t build a bitch.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:24 AM
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Oh I’d love the chance to do anything I wanted with his cock for an hour. My dog needs a new chew toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:13 PM
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This doesn’t make me mad, it just makes me sad. I can’t even imagine his wife’s reaction if she ever read this. He lists all the cons of leaving his job, but never once lists a single pro of spending more time with his family. The fact that his wife has cancer should have been a wake up call to him, that he may never see her again, and our time on earth is precious. This guy is warped in the head. You can’t take all that wealth with you when you die buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:20 PM
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Also, they complain about women all chasing after some impossible standard of men, but notice how ugly men never go after ugly women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:05 PM
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I don’t like weddings. I find them boring and time consuming. But damn, this takes the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:45 AM
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“Everyone should try out what’s on offer” uuuuh what? Women aren’t a bunch of samples at Costco.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:06 PM
8

Take evasive measures!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:52 PM
38

Well…just keep in mind the sexual harassment literally everywhere you go will still continue. You’ll just be safe in your hotel is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:23 PM
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I’ve never felt more seen in a post. It always felt so supremely unfair that I struggled with so many traumas as a teenager, and as a result suffered through a lot of severe depression and anxiety all through high school and most of my 20s. It’s always been one of my biggest regrets in life that I “wasted my young years” being a sad, neurotic mess, and letting so much of life pass me by. Am I not allowed to do the things I always wanted to when I was young, because now it’s not age appropriate? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:55 AM
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You’re not supposed to be in a new relationship when you are in recovery. Fucking strippers and B list celebrities is completely derailing any hope he had of getting better. His ex wife may be heartbroken right now, but John is going to have an even longer road of pain down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:59 PM
73

Ooof. I never considered that. That’s awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:18 PM
40

Why does every damn LVM say they have a “darkness inside” them? They larping as Batman or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:05 PM
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Wooow, he HATES her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:21 AM
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🎶🎵Tale as old as tiiiiimee🎵🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:59 AM
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No more men who think holidays are stupid. Had an ex who worked every Christmas for the pay, didn’t celebrate Valentine’s Day because it was “a cheap Hallmark holiday,” and thought celebrating birthdays was “juvenile.” I remember he told me to book my birthday off to spend it with him, only to get no gift (not even a card) and no plans other than sitting on the couch playing video games all day. When I left, I came home to find that my family was there waiting to surprise me with an amazing cake…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:16 PM
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There are only two reasons men date women significantly younger than them. Either they are very immature for their age, and older women want nothing to do with them, or they want a younger girl that is impressionable/ easy to manipulate. In both scenarios, they’re looking for someone who will put up with their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:50 PM
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Oop-👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:35 AM
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I wish I could have such a strong bond with my cousin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:55 AM
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Yeah my brother worked as a chef. It was always his dream job. He left after a couple years because he didn’t like “the drama” of all the chefs he worked with. Said it felt like high-school but everyone’s an alcoholic. He’s a nurse now lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:40 AM
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Not just in India, there was a news article in my country that showed Indian immigrants who sought out abortions, cited the gender of their baby as the number one reason for getting an abortion (aka, they were having a girl). It was controversial, and the news article was taken down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:25 AM
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In ancient Sparta, only people who were “worthy” were allowed to have a headstone when they died. For men, only if you died in battle. For women, if she died in childbirth. Ergo, they viewed childbirth as equivalent to the intensity of fighting in battle. If men from an ancient patriarchal society can respect mothers and the hardship of childbirth, this asshole can have some goddamn respect for the woman he pledged his life to when they said their vows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:24 AM
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Before modern medicine, 1 in 3 women died in childbirth. He should be kissing the ground she walks on for sacrificing her body and health to bring their son into the world. What she got was a man telling everyone she knew about the most vulnerable moment of her life, and MOCKING her for missing her dead mother. There’s emotional immaturity, and then there’s...this sociopathy. My heart just bleeds for this woman. I wish more than anything in the world I could wrap my arms around her and help her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:13 AM
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My last ex said “happy birthday” in the morning, and that was it. Nothing planned, no gift. When I got home later, my family had thrown me a surprise party, and showered me with so much love and kind words, it made me realize how much more they cared about me then the man who claimed to love me. I told him that I wanted to break it off that night, he drove over from 3 hours away to convince me that it wasn’t his fault because he “thought birthdays were meant for children”. I bought his gaslighti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:08 PM
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After seeing that study on beard hygiene, all I can think about is that family guy episode where Peter griffin keeps a nest of baby birds in his beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:24 PM
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What men don’t realize is that if they stopped trying to have sex with anything that moved and were more selective about their sexual partners, we’d respect them more. People always talk about women being desperate, but men are the most desperate people out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:47 AM
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In the past few months I’ve seen “pick me” become adopted into the everyday vernacular. Even if people don’t realize where it comes from (that actually may be for the better!) I don’t care. I’m just happy to see women demanding their worth, and men finally being called out on their manipulation and lazy behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:25 AM
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Only thing I disagree with, is that I don’t think men necessarily spent more time with their wives in the past. Back in the day when a family could live off of one income, it was the woman’s full time job to take care of the family and everything else domestic. And “support” her husband by being pleasant when he came home, fix him his food, and drinks, and leave him alone and not bother him with your problems, because he worked so hard all day and he needs to decompress from all the stress he’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:51 AM
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The sex of your parent, and how close you are to them has nothing to do with how confident you are as a person. Both my parents were extremely supportive in everything I ever did (in fact it was a bit embarrassing how much praise they gave me sometimes) but I still came out incredibly insecure. Mental health and society did a good job of undoing all their hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:41 AM
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I remember showing my mom the Pink music video for “stupid girls” when it came out, thinking it was so empowering, and my mom who hated swearing called her a bitch after that scene with the girl making herself throw up in the bathroom. It took me aback, and my mom told me that when she was a teenager, she had a severe eating disorder. She told me that it happened due to a really chaotic home life, topped off with bullying in school. She said that the disorder made her feel like she had control o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:37 PM
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I had an ex who could remember all my favourite foods, and could order for me at a restaurant perfectly. But then he unironically bought me a heart shaped necklace as a makeup gift for forgetting my birthday, after I had repeatedly told him that I thought heart shaped jewelry was juvenile and tacky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:24 AM
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Seriously, same! It’s the most irrational fear ever, but every once in a while, I feel the need to do a toilet inspection lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:48 PM
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It’s funny you say that, because apparently she had a real soft spot for Harry. He was a free spirit like her. She would always say “wouldn’t Harry make such a great King!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:04 PM
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Ugh, if there is one thing I’ve learned about the monarchy from this show, its that doing things in the name of tradition and duty is toxic as hell. He always wanted to marry Camilla, and his family prevented the marriage. He should have cut those toxic family members out the second they did that, screw being the next in line to be Britain’s figure head! And actually go after the woman he loves. Instead, he just took it, like a meek LVM, even though he was secretly seething with resentment. And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:00 PM
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“I like a decisive woman” Code for: I’m not going to put any effort into planning dates, so I like it when my woman tells me what we’re going to do, so I can ignore her half the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:40 PM
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For such “visual” creatures, you’d think they’d clean a dish, or buy some art to put on their wall. The “visual” sex sure likes to live in squalor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:38 PM
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This is why it’s so important to work on yourself before dating. I’m choosing not to date right now, because I’m not in a good place in my life. While I desire a HVM, I also am self aware enough to realize that he would intimidate me. So I know I’m at risk of being more attracted to men who aren’t doing well in their career (because I’m not), who are low commitment (because I am), who never go out (because I don’t). Getting in a relationship with someone who reinforces your bad habits and lifest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:44 PM
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Yeah, I can see this. I miss the days when I played with all the kids on the block, and I knew every family in every house. Now I don’t know any of my neighbours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:33 AM
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The truth is that once children become school aged, their peers become their biggest influence in their life. Especially because of groups, and the peer pressure that comes from that. Basically, you can be an amazing parent, but some of that can be undone if your kid is hanging around kids who have bad parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:04 PM
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So, my ex told me he didn’t like when I wore a full face of makeup, because it took too long for me to get ready, and it was “too much”. So I stopped wearing makeup, full stop. Then one day, I wore a full face of foundation, highlight, blush, brows, lipgloss, and mascara, and he said “I can’t put my finger on it, but you look SO BEAUTIFUL today.” Men literally can’t tell when a woman is wearing makeup, unless she’s wearing eyeliner and lipstick. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:48 PM
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For 10 years before being with her, he would tweet at all kinds of female celebrities saying he found them beautiful and wanted to date them. Glad she didn’t go through the marriage. Such an obvious clout chaser 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:05 PM
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Recently found out my ex was engaged. I told my mom, and she said “oh I’m sorry. It’s his loss, do you even realize what a catch you are” to her surprise I said “yes, I realize I’m so much better than him.” She laughed and said “good I’m glad you know it.” She knows I have serious self esteem issues, but even with my tiny sliver of self esteem, I realize how much better I am than him. Part of me even wanted to warn his fiancé, but I thought “naw, keep it classy, she’ll figure it out soon enough.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:48 PM
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This is a good practice. After I broke up with my first ex, I was beside myself with grief. Even though I was never completely sure about him, I still felt like I would never find someone better. I made a pros and cons list, and to my surprise the cons far outweighed the pros. Turns out I was making all the compromises for him, and the one lowering my standards to fit him in my life. He texted me a few months later, apologizing for taking me for granted, and saying I was the far better partner i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:36 PM
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This is so true. People don’t change that much once they become an adult. It can happen, but it usually takes many many many years to change even small habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:32 AM
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Well you are out of that now, and you’ll never be in that situation again since you’ve levelled up 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:28 AM
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YOU’RE the one with results. YOU’RE the one who knows what works for your body, and what your body’s limits are. YOU’RE the one who has successfully lost weight. Not them. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:57 PM
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Well, I used to live in a very Eastern European neighbourhood in college, and one thing I learned is that women from Eastern Europe don’t take any guff. Ultra feminine yes, traditional yes, but as a result have a high standard for men to fit their own gender role. They expect their men to be providers, and have no qualms about leaving them if they can’t provide. I remember once chatting with my neighbour and her husband yelled at her from the house when dinner was ready? She yelled at him with a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:05 PM
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I’m so sorry to hear that :( Your dad sounds like mine. Has been trying to get me to lose weight since I was 11, and talks wistfully about the time as a kid when I was hospitalized for a week, puking blood, and didn’t eat anything. He always says “I know it was hell, and you were in a lot of pain, but you looked great with all that weight off!”. He always says I’ll be more desirable to men if I lose weight. I just tell him now, “I don’t give a shit about being more desirable to men”. He always f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:53 PM
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Like how dogs chase cars. It’s cute how they think they’re gonna catch it, but alas, he’ll probably just end up being hit by one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:45 AM
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But “women are SO entitled.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:35 AM
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And they say we hit the wall at 30 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:32 AM
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To me “effortless beauty” is code for “already hot”. Megan fox may be able to get away with a tinted chapstick and mascara, but not all of us can be so biologically gifted lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:32 AM
95

Also just a reminder not to even take nude photos on your phone, even if you have no intention of sending them. Hackers are everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:40 AM
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Lol not my dad! I ran away when my dad had to brush my hair. He was so rough on my tangles and I would always end up with chunks of hair gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:13 AM
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It’s in the cards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:43 AM
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Only caveat to that I’d add is that if you are going on a date to meet a guy for the first time, a lower stakes spot like Starbucks is what I prefer. It’s a lot easier to dip out after half an hour if he really sucks than it is at a 5 star restaurant. I’ve had some bad experiences where I’ve been stuck with a guy on a date (canoe ride was a no-no lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:53 PM
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If I wasn’t so turned off by the idea of random hookups, if any guy tried to suggest an open relationship, I’d totally go along with it. But what he wouldn’t know is that I’d really be using that time to audition new boyfriends, and just dump his ass lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:23 AM
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I remember explaining to a friend of mine that I cooked every night and my boyfriend did the dishes, and that the division of labour worked really well for us because we each really enjoyed our tasks. She said there’s no way he enjoys it, you must be on him all the time to clean up. When I told her I never had to ask him, in fact he does most of the cleaning around the house, she was beside herself in shock. “He’s a real keeper!” she said, when in reality he ended up not being a keeper. Doing th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:58 AM
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I’ve never liked them as a couple. I actually didn’t really have an opinion on them, but as time went on they are constantly going on in interviews about what an amazing relationship they have. They think they’re being “real” and relatable because they talk about how at each other’s throats they are, but it’s all fine and dandy because they’re open with each other and are “great communicators.” Every time I hear them talk about the rules of their relationship and the day to day work they do, it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:38 PM
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Wooooww where did you hear that? That’s a clear sign of a dead relationship on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:31 PM
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That’s what this sub is for! As women, it’s the norm in society that we’re supposed to have low self-esteem and put literally everyone else’s needs above our own. This sub is for us all to support each other, and reprogram our brains so we can be looking out for ourselves for a change and find our voices! This sub has given me so much more confidence and has given me “scripts” for how to handle uncomfortable situations. Normally I’d lie and make up excuses if I was uncomfortable with something, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:07 PM
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This is awesome, good for you! My first long term relationship, I spent all my time either with my boyfriend, planning the next date for my boyfriend, or thinking about my boyfriend. I was slacking in school, stopped all my hobbies, stopped working out. Over time I put up with so much of his shit, because I didn’t feel worthy to be with him (i.e I stopped working on self improvement.) It’s so embarrassing to think about it now. I’ve been single for a loooooong time since that relationship, but h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:44 PM
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I’m sorry, is caring about men AND women’s history supposed to be impressive? “Caring” about women is the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:51 PM
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I am so tired of people saying women aren’t feminists if they don’t support sex work or promiscuity. They conflate being tolerant with being approving. And they think that the reason women are against these things is because they’re Puritan or prudes or jealous or any other number of insults. I for one don’t think less of women who have lots of sex, either from one night stands or from getting paid. But I do worry about them. That behaviour is high risk, is emotionally unfulfilling, can be degra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:37 PM
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I did the exact same thing with my ex. I had a key to his place, so sometimes I would go over a bit early and make him dinner or fold his laundry. One time, I even picked some wild flowers and put it in a glass for him. What was his response to all of this? He proceeded to be creeped out that I did nice things for him, and said I should stop doing that. Then when I stopped cooking and cleaning, he complained I didn’t help him out with stuff. Like wtf am I supposed to do? That’s the definition of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:51 PM
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The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:35 AM
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This sub hasn’t just changed my dating life, it’s changed my whole world view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:20 PM
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I visited my cousin recently after his wife gave birth, and I was so impressed with him. The first 48 hours, he took on most of the care of the child while his wife slept, only handing the baby over when she needed to breast feed, or she wanted to hold her new daughter. I told him he was a great father for doing that, and he looked at me with a puzzled look. He thought that was normal. He felt that he didn’t do anything during the birth, so now was his time to step in while his wife was healing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:30 PM
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Yay, I love when this sub has good examples of male behaviour. It can get kinda depressing sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:28 PM
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It sucks because I really liked him before he read his YouTube analytics and realized that most of his audience was male, and then he started pandering to men. I remember he had a speech about how women mature faster than men because women are under insane pressure to have their lives figured out by the time they’re 30 so they can keep up with their biological clock, and how in a modern society there weren’t enough mature men to match the number of mature women. It’s so disappointing and stupid …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:21 PM
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Happy divorce!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:17 AM
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One thing I’ve learned the hard way, men respect a woman who respects herself, and boys go running.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:02 AM
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Flawless logic. Woman doesn’t want to have sex= woman is a whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:37 AM
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Lol his weird pseudo-psychological negging didn’t work on you. Way to go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:08 PM
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The more I think about this, the more amazing this advice is. But also, when you’re early in a relationship, it’s freaking weird in general to ask about ex’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:04 PM
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I just watched Chris Hanson interview Shiloh about Onion boy on YouTube yesterday. Even as an older dude, Chris Hanson is still chasing the pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 11:46 PM
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The sheer amount of red pill, MGTOW, and incel communities online is staggering. I’ve tried to reason with those dudes many times, to then be dog piled on to “shut up stupid woman”. Not to mention that most online spaces are for men anyway. It makes me downright giddy to think that men are fuming about not being allowed on this sub. I don’t give a single shit about what they have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 11:30 PM
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Ugh you have no idea how happy this made me reading this. Good for you, and good riddance to that clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:21 PM
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“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, but there will always be someone who hates peaches." is one of my favourites from Dita Von Teese. I think of it all the time, and when someone isn’t interested in me, I just keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:18 PM
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