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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Chronic illness, CPTSDTotally agree! I think it’s the brain trying to sort through the emotions and stuff that I shoved down. But Oo yes those nightmares hit me hard. And most of the rough dreams I have take places in the places where I was traumatized so I know that’s what it is :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Chronic illness, CPTSDYep I developed IBS, hyperhydrosis (excessive sweating) and my sleep has never been the same even now that it’s been years later :/ it really sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 47 | ...or will he?I don’t think anyone would have to worry about this dude moving fast at all 💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:22 AM |
| 4 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.YES! Can confirm this 1000% In fact just deleted a guy who I was talking to on Snapchat and when I asked him what he wanted he kept being super vague. I was like “what are you looking for? like a FwB or a hookup? Or something?” To which he quickly told me “no I’m not like that” (lmao probably smart enough to know I would Insta delete him) then I asked him “so are you looking for someone to potentially date or just hangout?” And then he vaguely responded “Not really lol” and I proceeded to ask fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:15 AM |
| 6 | The wordiness of this sweatshirt makes me just *feel* the mental and emotional stress of being in denial about an abusive relationship“He is my whole world” - Yeah nope. No one should be your whole world. You should be able to make yourself happy and fulfilled! “He’s a bit crazy and scares me sometimes” - Hell to the No!! As everyone else is saying, no significant other should scare you!! Major major red flag 🚩 I’d burn the damn jacket and leave his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Valentine’s Day Should Include Self Love 💗 How Do You Plan To Show Yourself Some Love This Valentines Day?Going to buy myself some Sees Candy, order some good food, grab some bubbly wine and do some shopping for myself (probably buy myself some makeup, a good book, or outfit) and then relax at home with a good movie ☺️💅🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 12 | Being called a lesbian is just another way guys get us to try and conform to their incredibly unrealistic beauty standardsTHIS! I actually had a job where I had a sexual harasser boss who went around telling every other employee I was a lesbian who was trying to “get at them” (I worked with basically all other females). Which I know he was doing out of spite just because I refused him and all of his creepy ass advances 🤷🏽♀️ and because he thinks calling a woman a lesbian is an insult and somehow means I was not beautiful. And that somehow calling me a lesbian equals masculinity and humiliation. Pathetic when guys … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:10 PM |
| 175 | Cuddle dates 🤢🤢🤢Yes!! I’ve had guys try and invite me over for “cuddle dates” always late late hours in the night (like one guy asked this at like midnight/1 am) and Thank God I’ve always said hell nah to those and deleted them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:44 AM |
| 22 | For the ladies who are dating... remember the sooner you cut him off, the less it will hurt. At the first red flag, block and delete.Agreed! I use to try and be “nice and polite” and give explanations and explain how I felt and all that but it only left me vulnerable, looking desperate, and them a lot of more opportunities to manipulate me. If something doesn’t sit right with you or a red flag pops up, get out quick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.I hella hope she’s just playin and that’s a sarcastic post 🤮 cause ooo I wouldn’t even do something like that in the next life. If that’s what passes for “best girlfriend” award, I’ll gladly take my shitty girlfriend crown now 😂🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:28 AM |
| 26 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftThe classy alcohol bottle and/or red solo cup “I’m just looking for an FWB” “dom looking for sub” “I’m just lookin to chill with someone” “not looking for anything serious but who knows I might change my mind” any profile with no pictures of themselves “just a couple looking for a third” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 14 | Do not be reduced to a secondary character in your own life story.“If he acts like your body is his entitlement, when you are not ready walk away from him” heck not just when you are not ready but if he acts like that EVER step away! So SO important ladies!! Glad I see the importance of it now 👏🏽👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Beyond Low/No Dating Standards I’m shook....That’s so messed up, but as I get more tattoos I can believe it. It’s so tough trying to find a decent male tattoo artist that isn’t a creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 29 | Beyond Low/No Dating Standards I’m shook....Wowwww! That’s tragic 😩right now these guys are just playing everyone like instruments in the New York version | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 13 | Men : "wat do u bring to the table" Also, men :I think or well actually I know I threw up a little reading about this “king” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 13 | The "Aspergers" talk. TWMan I feel sick reading this...a guy I had a fling with claimed this and would use it as an excuse and I actually bought it at times (until I didn’t anymore and left because I demand respect!) wow didn’t even know this was a thing! Boys are pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Funny how they never punch themselves; it's always someone or something that has to be on the receiving end. Psychopaths.I actually wasn’t horrified, I was furious. Then I kicked him out of the house lol. But yes I agree, he was never the calm “nice guy” he was always pretending to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 8 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereAND yet when a boy (cause they ain’t men!) cancels on a woman or wants to reschedule last minute on a woman to hang with the boys, they then want a woman to happily accept it and wait on them for another date 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 12 | Funny how they never punch themselves; it's always someone or something that has to be on the receiving end. Psychopaths.I had a thing with a guy once when I was new to dating and naive who would always punch things and fly into really violent fits of rage, although he always swore he would never hit me. Then one night he flew into a random fit of rage and threaten to hit me with an object actually his exact words were (“if you touch me again I’m going to beat you with this”) and I was just trying to joke and calm him down! and although He apologized a ton of times and swore he never would actually do it since I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 10 | The Power of ‘block and delete’Porn sick limp dick! They can only get it up with porn or porn like sex that’s brutal, uncomfortable and unrealistic for the woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:44 AM |
| 21 | Why is it that kissing and making out are now automatically assumed to lead to sex right afterwards? And men complaining about being "led on" and "blue balls"? What happened to just wanting to snuggle and be intimate?THIS! Last guy I was with would always do that to me! I would give crystal clear reactions and even take off hands because I didn’t want to be touched certain ways or at all and then he would always override and push boundaries. Then when I confronted him about it he turned it around like it was my fault because I didn’t verbally tell him to stop, which is such BS. STILL pisses me off to this day and I’m very glad I ended it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:19 PM |
| 4 | "johns" = Lowest life formJohns and Jon’s are typically very low level and fadora tipping “nice guys” (at least all the ones I’ve met) who love to play victim. Hard pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:12 PM |
| 32 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.Wow! I got the same lines!! Even the line of “I need something more to get me going”, “I am more into visuals” and “it just takes awhile for me” but then I totally put it together that it was heavy porn use. I even asked about it one time and he got super defensive. But yeah no fun and definitely glad I am not with him now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:37 AM |
| 9 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendThis happened to me when I found myself leaning on what I thought was a good guy when I had a falling out with my best female friend at the time. and in the end he tried to take advantage of me being in a weak spot AND when I would not let him have everything he wanted, he ghosted me so fast it was almost funny. Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | 🤮 I don’t know what’s sadder, the fact that people in the comments actually found this funny or the fact that it was posted at all...My thoughts exactly when I found it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:35 PM |
| 20 | If he wants you he would tell you - PERIODNever give relationship benefits to a guy who isn’t committed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | If someone doesn’t see your value, show them that YOU do, and like Lizzo says “walk your fine ass out the door” 💅🏻Nothing cute or attractive about begging or having to convince a guy to man up and raise the bar! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.Bet my paycheck that he also owns a fedora and will list to you all the reasons why he’s a “nice guy”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:33 AM |
| 10 | I see no lies here. Remember, a guy doing the bare minimum does not make him a HVM!Tinder dudes in a nutshell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:14 PM |
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