Black_Widow14 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Is it ok to just want casual sex? straight up, you will most likely be judged with consideration of how old you are, but if you're up front about it it's best. My best (girl) friend is in the mode of just wanting a casual sex partner and is hooking up with someone. I'm forgetting how she met him though. They talked about protection and if they both wanted to hook up with other people.	/r/seduction	14/03/19 05:44 PM
3	35 Reasons Why You Should Stop Worrying & Just Be A Man Who Hits On Girls 10- sometimes she might honestly be busy so a caveat of "respectful interruption " might be better? I've been made flustered and anxious and uncomfortable when it's not a good time. Just my experience.	/r/seduction	24/02/19 03:49 PM
2	I've got the date, now what? Engaged listening. Eye contact. Smiling at her.	/r/seduction	23/08/18 01:35 PM
2	i keep bagging girls with emotional issues and feel too guilty to try make a move Yes that's the gist. I think in your post you're also touching on how their issues trigger your issues and whether it's healthy or not. Yours play a factor just as much. How are you responding to neediness and clinginess, is it a good use of your emotional resources and how does it fit in with who you're trying to be? Who you want to be? Personally I'm trying to make the world suck less, by making those around me that I care about happy. My "need" to help has caused issues, so I have to learn to…	/r/seduction	10/03/18 04:14 PM
3	i keep bagging girls with emotional issues and feel too guilty to try make a move I've heard the saying somewhere, "we all have baggage, but we're looking for people whose baggage matches". Or something to that effect. Every girl has baggage. Instead of feeling guilty what's more important (imo) is what they wanna do about it, if anything, and of you're willing to hang around/deal while they're doing it.	/r/seduction	10/03/18 02:55 PM
3	I get very nervous around very attractive girls, how to fight this? how is it inappropriate? you look at other people right? they're just PEOPLE. Normal people.	/r/seduction	09/01/18 05:18 PM
10	I get very nervous around very attractive girls, how to fight this? Pretty doesn't mean they don't have insecurity issues like everyone else. Just treat them like normal people .	/r/seduction	09/01/18 03:00 PM
4	Questions to ask a girl to really get to know her better, and at the same time get her excited to talk about herself? Find out if she's traveled. Where she likes to go and what the most interesting thing she's seen or eaten is.	/r/seduction	08/10/17 01:35 PM
3	Questions to ask a girl to really get to know her better, and at the same time get her excited to talk about herself? I would counter and say it's a good way to share music you love with her if she's open to it, and potentially create a common interest.	/r/seduction	08/10/17 01:33 PM
2	Need some guidance Ask if she's training for anything in particular. Ask her out for a coffee and learn more about her if she's available.	/r/seduction	21/07/16 05:07 PM
2	How do you be emotionally expressive yet emotionally stable? Alexbass96 has a good definition. I would also like to add being able to process the emotions and where they're coming from, and knowing how to handle them if needed. To be emotionally in tune with others around you and notice cues.	/r/seduction	21/05/14 11:46 PM
23	"Can we not do this?" Thank you for backing off. You did the right thing.	/r/seduction	12/09/13 05:32 PM