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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 18 | If you feel the need to text paragraphs, you've already lost. Explaining to someone who doesn't want to understand is a waste of time.I wish I found this sub before my summer pick meisha chronicles of 2019 lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 20 | I am not physically attracted to her. What to do?No. Dont mislead her. She deserves someone who is attracted to her and likes her back. | /r/askFDS | 11/05/20 04:12 PM |
| 20 | If he left that easily, he was never worth keepingWhy do men tend to leave their SO when they get ill???? Its seems so common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:43 PM |
| 15 | LVM DATING 101 🤡How so? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:15 PM |
| 52 | LVM DATING 101 🤡They are testing us when they do this shit. How little can they get away with providing and still have us? Its disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:04 AM |
| 155 | LVM DATING 101 🤡How am I still straight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:03 AM |
| 14 | Mood when I found this subShe was just trying to be funny. I love her lol. She was iconic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:02 AM |
| 6 | This national symbol for "romance" is not what it seems!!!Everytime I come to this sub I wonder how tf Im still heterosexual. Just proves you cant choose your sexuality. If I could, I would stay tf away from men at all times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:27 AM |
| 7 | FactsThanks <3 Im trying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:02 PM |
| 23 | FactsIts just embarrassing. The amount of disrespect this guy showed me and he still got the last laugh? I just hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:36 AM |
| 78 | FactsMost embarrassing thing I did was go to this losers home with a present for his birthday. Unannounced. I will never forgive myself for this. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:58 AM |
| 4 | This one hit me. We’re all learning. Growth and self-love take constant work. Forgive yourself when you do slip up and keep moving forward.Im still not all the where there, but Im close 🙂 I absolutely cringe when I think back to my pick-me days. Hate that I spend so much energy on that loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Yes yes yes yes yesIm sorry but men who call women bitches? Gag. Also we shouldnt be mocking pickmes. They need help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:26 PM |
| 39 | Men...🙃Omg why did I google this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellMen are pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Boys after you treat them how they treat you🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:08 AM |
| 10 | Boys after you treat them how they treat youRight?! lol. Ol’ dude is a 30-year old aspiring rapper with no degree or plans to get one. I asked him where he sees himself in 5 years and his answer was “idk prolly get a drivers license”. To top it off, the sex wasnt even good. Lazy arse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:02 PM |
| 15 | Boys after you treat them how they treat youYes. And I still cringe at my behavior.. but on the other hand, it was that experience, all the hurt and tears that made me seek out this sub. The guy wasn’t worth it so I didn’t lose anything of value besides my own dignity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | He doesn't have time = he doesn't want to make timeHes just not that into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 02:23 PM |
| 66 | Boys after you treat them how they treat youBless this sub. I wish I had found it before my summer of being a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 6 | What mixed signals really are.OMGGGGG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 03:10 PM |
| 19 | Eww On All LevelsOh you know. That sub is trash. All they do is moan about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:21 PM |
| 6 | When he has a decent profile until....porn king photoLmao! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | TruthYes. And I’d grab some popcorn and watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:13 PM |
| 39 | Just wow! Cut your losses sis. He dont want you!Oh I agree :) my concern is his attitude. He doesnt give a damn about her wellbeing at all? And they are dating? I bet he doesnt mind sleeping with her, yet he cant help her in a time of need? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 7 | This is why we block and don’t look back.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 08:58 PM |
| 20 | Swear to god someone went through my old messages to make this...Hello darkness my old friend... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 8 | sneak peak into the realities of a pickmeishaOh I am. Have a look at their subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:18 AM |
| 81 | sneak peak into the realities of a pickmeishaLadies over at Redpillwomen would tell her she is doing great lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:45 PM |
| 15 | LegendHer facial expression 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:40 PM |
| 36 | Honestly, what he said ‼️Ive mentioned my summer of being a pickmeisha before here but here I go again (because I was really THAT lost...). I actually thought dressing up, taking BS and going above and beyond would keep him. It obviously didnt so please dont bother! It will only invite him to disrespect you because you dont respect yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:21 PM |
| 16 | Treat her right = get in her pants, i.e. coercion rape!Most men just suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 01:18 PM |
| 4 | OOF.Zing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Beware of men who care about 'body count'Spot. on. These are the same men who are trying to sleep with as many women as they can. These are also the same men who are mad at this very sub! The amount of incels Ive had in my inbox is just crazy. All because we want to start making better choices and not be used anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 06:41 PM |
| 8 | Lifehack for this month😂😭😂😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:57 PM |
| 12 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.We have all been there with LVM men. Women who date them shouldnt be mocked, they need help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | I wonder why he "can't figure her out" ....Where was this posted? 177 upvotes? Really? Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:27 PM |
| 7 | How does anyone see this and like/share it cause they think it’s cute? BarfffffNo, he realized no one else would put up with his BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 14 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.The nerve!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 13 | Focus on yourself, always!This. A million times. The asshole I wasted my time on last summer always texted back within a second when he wanted sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: Focus on your dreams, not men.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 27 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careBeen there, done that... Its embarrassing but thats what lack of self-love will do to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:29 PM |
| 9 | "nice guys" before & after being rejected:Lmaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:52 PM |
| 26 | Mood.Same... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 99 | Mood.I got a response from one of them and its STILL not showing 😂. Thanks mods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:28 PM |
| 173 | Mood.I love all the angry scrotums commenting :) your comments arent showing up btw lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 3 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.Wow! Link to thread? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.Men are only “nice” to women to try to get us into bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:56 PM |
| 49 | Lily Tomlin know what’s upIf you smile they will think it means you want to be bothered... then they go all “nice guy” and flip out because, no a smile doesnt meant I wanna go on a fucking date. I actually had to teach myself to have a resting bitch face so they stay away. It works :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 23 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Just devestating :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Don’t make efforts that he won’t make for you! It’s a waste of your valuable time and energy!Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:05 AM |
| 3 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Did he respond? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 5 | “Can you be a HWV and like non-vanilla sex, or will that always make men see you as low value, no matter how long you wait to reveal the information?”Im a submissive who loves sex but I am always worried about expressing it too openly to a guy I wanna date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 6 | “Can you be a HWV and like non-vanilla sex, or will that always make men see you as low value, no matter how long you wait to reveal the information?”That makes sense. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:06 PM |
| 40 | No lies detectedI had a guy pinching my clit. It hurt like a bitch but I didnt say anything because I liked him. He also would breath heavy during.. he really thought he was doing something “hot” :/ ugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Matthew Hussey?Im not American but I love British accents too lol. Cant explain why but it really is attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 12 | Pickmeisha asks for advice on what to do with boyfriend who wants to hire a prostitute“Just joking LOLZ”. Eyeroll. Dump his lame ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Don't kneecap your sentences.Agreeeeeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:08 AM |
| 26 | Thoughts on Matthew Hussey?His popularity is due to his good looks. The rest is a sham. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 5 | LVMs watching Miss UniverseLmaoooooooooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:53 PM |
| 3 | But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though...No one is perfect. If she has changed her ways and she is sincere about it then shes ok in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:44 AM |
| 39 | LMAO. Man has midlife crisis. Cheats on wife. Tells her to go find someone else. She does and suddenly his midlife crisis is over.I really hope she didnt take him back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:33 AM |
| 7 | Trying to “prove” anything means they still own you. Block and move on, retain your power and stay unbothered 👸🏻💁🏻♀️This. You can tell when people dont want the best for you... they will stalk you on social media but never congratulate your efforts :). I had someone particularly bad with this. Person didnt stop until I posted a “they dont like you, but they will be checking your page religiously”-meme. A bit childish and passive aggressive maybe but it worked lol. If you dont have my best interest at heart then leave me alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:14 AM |
| 4 | There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious!I love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:59 AM |
| 38 | But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though...Shes stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you consider personal improvements like improved mental health leveling up?Its vital. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 5 | What? Just no. Dont do it.It really is. And so many “Idgaf I loooove giving bjs teehee!” Seeking validation from men online. Just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Also, “I want a guy who is financially stable. I don’t wanna be some guys mom ” = Gold-digger🤨Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:42 AM |
| 17 | What? Just no. Dont do it.They already slept together too. Dude is having the time of his life smh. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:58 AM |
| 17 | What? Just no. Dont do it.And I bet he has provided and proven nothing. She is letting him know that he doesnt need to do anything and he will still get this treatment after THREE dates! So sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 17 | What? Just no. Dont do it.This pisses me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Man laments online dating reality as he divorces ex-wife. Reaches out to her & apologizes for being a dick. She chews him out and isn't interested. He complains about being ghosted, misses companionship, and is lonely. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!Bloop! And there it is! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:07 PM |
| 35 | What? Just no. Dont do it.“I really want to move things forward”. Why the rush?! Anything you chase runs away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:02 PM |
| 42 | What? Just no. Dont do it.This. He will use her for sex until she wants more. Then he will simply dump her there and then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:56 PM |
| 33 | What? Just no. Dont do it.Six months ago I would have upvoted and “taken notes” lmao. God bless this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 26 | What? Just no. Dont do it.This was posted to r/sex that place is full of pornsick men and pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | you’re single until there’s a ringLmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:16 PM |
| 3 | ReminderTHIS!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Men do not get attached through sex - Make them work for you if you want to create love, dependence, attachment, commitmentPreach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:01 AM |
| 2 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerNo. You did good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Never do itLol same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | 7 Bad Reasons You're Dating LVMSo relateable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 12:03 AM |
| 8 | 90s PickMeishas: Myra Monkhouse builds a shrine to Urkel in her room, fights with any woman she thinks is a threat, spies on him, all while he’s clearly in love with another woman. Of course she gets left in the dust as soon as Laura decided to give Urkel the time of day.Just sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 12 | Saw this movie recently. YIKES! Is this peak pickmeisha?Did you see some of the comments? Apparently her behavior is fine because the guy is “hot”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 18 | No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on.True. Fuckboy i was seeing last summer didnt want anything serious with me. Yet he was still worried I was seeing someone else. Kept taking my phone to check it. In the morning he would always grab it to see if someone had texted me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 10 | OLD but FDS“Only if we get along lol” lmaoooo! Dude really thinks hes a prize huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡Im Black and I agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 0 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡What the verdict on aidan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Pickmes are out of control and must be stopped!😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:20 PM |
| 7 | Ain’t that the truth......Stop👏🏾raising👏🏾him👏🏾he is NOT👏🏾your👏🏾son | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:07 PM |
| 29 | Is it really “MGTOW” if you lurk in a female only forum to send unsolicited messages to women you don’t know? Hmmm... you’re not really going your own way are you?“Scrotes mad” lmaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:06 PM |
| 8 | LVM proposalsI hate public proposals full stop. Its so corny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:05 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Ok so Im not sure if this is relevant to this sub but how do you all deal with negative women in your circle? Fake ones. The ones who get salty when youre leveling up. I know a girl who acts super butthurt around me all the time. I could avoid her, but we are in the same class. I am sick of her giving me the cold shoulder and me using energy trying to be friendly to her. Not sure what her problem is but its starting to seriously annoy me. Do I just completely ignore? Or still be cordial (say hi,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Pornsick boyfriend uses IPad in the shower to masturbate daily, doesn’t take girlfriend on dates, doesn’t cook or clean after himself, plays video games 4 hours a day, has gone down on her twice in six months, and can only fuck for 15 minutes tops.Stop 👏🏾raising👏🏾him👏🏾he is NOT👏🏾your👏🏾son! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:14 AM |
| 4 | We’re leaving this behind 2020Lol! Should have replied with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 09:33 AM |
| 52 | We’re leaving this behind 2020I had a coffee date planned with a cute guy. He cancelled our first date because he was “ill”. Lol. He said “some other time?” I say sure. He claims he is busy lol. “But how about sex?” Really?! Blocked and deleted!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Accurate.Dayum! Felt this one in my soul. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Younger me earned the "Maybe he's just not that into you" BadgeRaising self esteem. Being honest with yourself and try to understand why you behave the way you do and change it... Its a gradual process. Read “why men love bitches”. Also remember that no matter how great you are and how much you play by the rules, sometimes it just wasnt the right fit and thats okay too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Younger me earned the "Maybe he's just not that into you" BadgeI know the feeling but please dont blame yourself. Like someone else stated, a hvm would treat all women with respect. You dont want someone who treats you like crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Your emotions aren't illogical, they are expressing that your needs are not being met.Well said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Love love love this sub.January 2021! So excited! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 13 | Watch out for pornsick LVM, ladies!!Lol. My favourite was the guy who didnt even try or make an effort because “women are hard to please anyways amirite”. Yet expected me to go above and beyond to please him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:39 AM |
| 19 | "Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!"Lmao. Yeah cause its so much fun being used for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Love love love this sub.I wish you well too! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Love love love this sub.Thanks so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 23 | Don’t you dare put the letters back...Reminds me of when I kept changing the name of the guy I was seeing on my phone to things like “idiot” “abuser” etc. To try and keep myself from responding IF he ever replied. I wasnt ready to let go so everytime he responded (usually to use me for sex) I changed his name back to his real name lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:21 AM |
| 7 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsOutside America. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Preach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:41 AM |
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