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Some people might disagree with this but if you are going to tough this out. I would tell her hey I know I fucked up. Then STFU and make the changes..Don't give a sob story, just a acknowledgement of your mistakes as far as letting yourself go. I don't think just going to the gym and not saying anything about whats been going on is enough. Test the emotional waters a bit and then completely disengage on that front and PUT IN THE WORK while she chews on that. That way she can be earnest about her…
/r/askMRP14/10/25 03:01 PM
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Yet here you are
/r/askMRP01/12/24 06:58 PM
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If your going to be "vulnerable". Make it a heroes journey.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/24 03:47 PM
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As a generalization. I dont know you personally or what your doing exactly to pinpoint a more definite answer.
/r/askMRP15/02/24 04:03 PM
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Theres your answer
/r/askMRP15/02/24 03:59 PM
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Do you remain your mental point of origin? There really isnt to much of a difference between spinning plates and ltr. You just have one plate that may stop spinning by itself sometimes and you got to wind it back up
/r/askMRP15/02/24 03:50 PM
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This is amazing lol I definitely will let the public decide. Have fun loving a woman harder than she loves you
/r/TheRedPill14/02/24 11:51 PM
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What you said doesnt dispute anything I said.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/24 11:38 PM
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Women want and need to be the adorer. The adorer is the one who gets all the feels.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/24 08:50 PM
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.......Its a fairly useless skill outside that domain.....bro what is your point? In its particular domain it is needed. And that does not invalidate it at all. Have fun learning speaking french and still not getting french girls cause your autistic with no game lol This is called sexual dynamics. Of course its not useful in math class.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 08:03 PM
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If your gay or dont like having sex that much then just say that. Getting girls is not easy and is definitely a skill that has to be nurtured rather your in a relationship or single.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 07:40 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting a serious relationship but why would a girl want you when you have no confidence? You obviously have no game or understanding of woman, which you must obtain by DATING. With the attitude you're giving through this post you probably wouldn't even be able to keep a girl anyways. My guy all these chicks are the same. Different personalities but when you have your shit together they'll all treat you the way you want to. I've had my heart broken many times, I've los…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/23 07:32 PM
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You don't know this women AT ALL. Not even a little. You guys havent been dating that long so I would relax a bit on your investment. You decided to be exclusive, most would say early, especially considering your traveling situation. But whatever, you do you. If this isnt a clear as day sign to make a threesome happen instead of being jealous that your girlfriend loves pussy then I dont know what to tell you bro. You should be plottin! Your post should really say "How do i get my pussy obsessed …
/r/askMRP27/12/23 06:24 PM
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The gym is damn near a place of worship. Go!
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 05:55 PM
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ok bro. Your batting 10/10 huh lol
/r/TheRedPill19/11/23 04:26 AM
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Not true. It raises your chances significantly but being the most "red pill" doesnt mean anything. You can do everything right and still lose a girl or never really get a girl to submit fully for enumerous reasons out of your control, that might not even have anything to do with you.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/23 12:56 AM
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Ah ok gotcha. I misread then. You have to let it blow up my guy. Our only power is to stand our ground and walk. You said no. She says yes. Make peace with it and do what you got to do. Or concede and probably pay for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/23 11:46 PM
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If anything I feel like you should of put your foot down on the roommate and fought that battle. Much easier to accept half the deal that you kind of already agree with. I agree though. Absolutely don't let a stranger in your house. I would really stand and prove on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/23 11:40 PM
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Lmao you good bro i get what you saying forsure
/r/TheRedPill07/11/23 04:12 AM
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Well shit. Just last night I had a pretty big booty latina bring me food and we watched Attack on Titan at my house and then fucked like animals. Guess im not alpha *shrugs lol I got my shit together though so its women video games and anime for me. Dont care.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/23 10:53 PM
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Getting a girl out is never this hard. If there was strong desire to see you she would of suggested a time for you guys to spend together. Talk to other girls and free up space in your mind. Shes not worth all this. Your on a college campus bro. Sounds like you've been her orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/23 01:04 AM
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Its something to do like watching tv or reading a book. Just have fun.
/r/askMRP19/10/23 04:25 PM
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Facts.... chicks mirror you...they cant have independent emotions
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:04 PM
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Anybody whos not you and cares about your well being genuinely can give you perspective. Thats includes women, just depends on context.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/23 01:27 PM
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Find something bigger than sex. Hopefully you appreciate something more than sex from a girl you chose. Understand your own psychology and hormones and rise above it. Maybe research some eastern mind sets. You will want other pussy FOREVER. My grandfather at 70 told me he still thinks about fucking bitches. When you decide to take that journey is up you. I personally laid everything out at THE BEGINNING of my relationship. I found a bi chick and told her I could never fuck only her forever. We'l…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 01:54 PM
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My girl understands my testosterone and smv. Helps with the emotional contentment. Also having something bigger than sex in your mind. Your sex drive is infinite bro. Cant be satisfied
/r/TheRedPill05/08/23 07:40 PM
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The post you were replying too was about girlfriends. You replied to that context speaking on unicorns. I expanded on both.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 01:52 PM
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What deep seated emotions are you trying to share? Your not trying to have a girl sit down and listen to you be a bitch are you? Any girl you decide to be with should be able to hold some type of space for you. Its about how solution orientated you are. If you need a perspective theres no reason why you cant ask your girl for one if you deem necessary.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 01:01 PM
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You dont find unicorns, you create them. Stop dating and tolerating shitty women. If a woman cant drill into her head that your a human being and SOMETIMES you want to speak about your heros journey then dump her. Your the leader so lead. Grow her up or pick the weed and leave. Plan and execute your life. Predominantly you should have a strong male circle to vent and good internal skills for yourself. But the reality is a good relationship requires some bit of vulnerability, which also requires …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 12:51 PM
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I see what your trying to say bro but comparing a clown to being a man is not it imo. A clown and being socially calibrated aren't synonymous enough to use as an example of being a better man from the way I look at it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 07:01 PM
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This entire post is about clowns being synonymous with being social calibrated. Fuck off pea brain.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 06:51 PM
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That was the whole point of the post. Being a clown, someone elses entertainment, which is not synonymous with being socially calibrated. That fact that being a clown is being suggested as a better first step than simply taking steps to grow up is laughable. Soft. Pick better words/concepts. Google what a clown is and tell what that has to do with being a man A try hard funny guy isnt going to work either.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 06:49 PM
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I HIGHLY disagree. Be a good man of value first. Dont tell them be a clown. Matter of fact never be a clown. First step is always lift, stfu, focus on your goals and read the sidebar. Not become a womens entertainment. The whole point is to be your own mental point of origin.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 05:58 PM
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Like i said above. Is james bond a clown? Being a stoic righteous man is enough. And being funny and having social skills to be fun doesn't mean my goal should be to be a prideful clown. Which is definitely not a dark triad trait. Your focusing solely on what the women wants from you. Juggling and dancing.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 05:28 PM
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As have I but I would never frame it as being a womens entertainer or clown. Im not here to be a womans tv show. Being genuinely funny has elements of wit and self amusement that dont need a layer of qualifying added to it. This stuff is half true. Your downplaying being stoic and having some sex appeal. Being a good man IS enough, and it includes being fun, passionate and exciting without this notion of a clown. Is james bond a clown? I dont think so
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 05:16 PM
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You niggas wanna be a clown for a bitch lmao Be a good man and know how to socialize and have fun for your own sake. Not for pussy. Stop dealing with these low quality women for your peace and sanity
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 04:17 PM
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Have you tried maca root?
/r/askMRP31/05/23 01:50 AM
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Being stoic doesnt mean you cant have emotions or have intellectual conversations not sure what your getting at.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 10:12 PM
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Its unspoken and passive. Trying to be intentional about it is weak af. Sounds like your competing for her. LIFT, focus on your financial goals and Stfu. Have a social life outside of her. Being married doesnt change anything but raise the difficult level.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/23 05:30 PM
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Gotcha I stand corrected
/r/askMRP03/05/23 07:03 PM
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You shouldn't be seeking validation from anyone but yourself or your god. Definitely not another man. No different than a woman except gayer.
/r/askMRP03/05/23 04:26 PM
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Bro your not fooling anybody, especially not women when it comes to emotion. Everybody can tell when something is up, its about how you handle it. Vulnerability isnt dependency. You are vulnerable to relate in a relationship. Dudes need to get over this emotion connection makes you bitch perspective. Its about learning to be a calibrated human being. Being vulnerable doesnt mean you get permission to be a cry baby bitch. It means you get to lay out a heroic story of your struggles and how your c…
/r/askMRP03/05/23 04:22 PM
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................I just want to say I fuck with candace owens
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 12:28 AM
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Agreed. When i was spinning plates i genuinely enjoyed talking and hanging out. Of course sex had to always be on the table and I never gave commitment but I wasnt just using them...Unless she happened to be a legitimate annoying hoe per say n i had to tolerate some stuff lol But I like good company
/r/TheRedPill02/03/23 05:35 PM
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Bro how about you actually get to know the women you date and open up as a human being. Having options doesn't mean you use them and loving and caring about someone doesn't make you blue pill. Definitely find something deeper though, a calling bigger than yourself since you feel some hollowness. Doesnt matter what it is and dont let others try to say its too small or not big enough. Its about you and your life, nobody elses.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/23 03:07 PM
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Im glad dudes like you exist honestly. Makes it easier for me to have a few girlfriends instead of one.
/r/askMRP22/02/23 05:55 PM
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I think both ideas are existing at the same time. The contrast to how extreme a lot of men are jacking off plays out in the no-fap area. The fact that some days you can really jack off five times a day show you that you can fuck a bitch six times a day as you say Just got to work through those mental and emotional blockages of understanding yourself. The depletion angle is probably over stated. But you do have to have the calorie intake and rest to support your boners. Speaking of experience I a…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/23 03:06 PM
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Every relationship you have in life is transactional. Not one single one isnt. And transactional doesnt have to include possessions.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 03:12 PM
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Good read. Iv always leaned toward the narrative frame outlook. Never made sense to me to hold ground without some type of intellect about it. Iv used that exact same line on my girlfriend before pretty much.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 04:35 PM
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Upper 20s and everywhere bro. I dont live a life where i feel the need to stress myself about being around girls. I always hated that. Do what you want with your life and keep your eyes open. On the simplest level a bar or club every once in awhile but you should be exploring the world and talking to them on the way. Iv banged that cute waitress, girl at cash regsiter. Big booty at the gas pump next to me. Girl walking her dog at the park i saw on my own personal walk. Live a little.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/23 10:33 PM
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Does a needy nice girl bother you? Inverse attractions,modes of operations, and roles. So its looked at different and not completely 1 for 1 to judge it that way. Which is why her needing to do things for you is not completely transactional in the way your looking at it. Because giving a woman everything simply for sex is pedestaling, especially when we require so much at the get go for even a chance. Shes just a human being, treat as such. Help those who help themselves. Do things for people wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/23 10:29 PM
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Honestly after being in red pill for awhile Iv come to the conclusion men are just straight up dating shitty women(rough times forsure) and really just terrible human beings and then say shit like this to cope because they are emotionally weak, insecure, and really just have trauma and belief systems to work through. (Like everyone else) You can open up a little bit and talk about your journey as a man. Just dont be a fucking whiny bitch. Talk from a position of strength. Like that whole speech …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 05:59 PM
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I always found this confusing but another made a comment that makes it make more sense. STFU is there until or as your more efficient with your words and "picking battles". I say this because Patrice O Neal always talked about being righteous with your words and not letting a woman out logic you with her bullshit which I felt was in direct conflict with STFU and DEER.
/r/askMRP11/01/23 05:58 PM
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Agreed. Even back in my more bluer days I always instinctually knew when shit was up. Just couldn't face the confrontation or hamstered away the issue. But the signal was there, had to figure out the rest myself.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/23 04:26 PM
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Haha no your talking about OPs gf, I wasnt.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 12:17 PM
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Uuhh...Ok....Neither do you? But we can take what he said at face value. Did you not read his comment? He already did all that. Your point is true but I don't get the point of you mentioning that
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 03:52 PM
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Bro i feel what your saying but telling men who are happy and in fulfilling relationships to dump a good girl in a world like this and go bang sluts is dumb. At the end of the day our sex drives as men are infinite and cannot be completely fulfilled. At some point frivolously banging girls just doesn't do anything. Sounds like he did his time with the hoes and got what he needed.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 09:30 PM
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Ok? Or maybe i can just have girls who love and support me do it for free? What does a woman need you for? She can buy it all too. If you really wanna break it down you can buy anything? Go buy hookers and some narcissistic friends since life is all about simply buying your black holes of pleasures which dont really fulfill you. But thats not really what life is about is it? Its about exploring yourself, the world, and having authentic human connections. Companionship. Friendships. Family. Growi…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 09:15 PM
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Bro, date better women? I get what you mean though. My girlfriend is still a girl don't get me wrong. But shes genuinely smart. Pretty funny. Cute. Cooks for me. Buys me shit. Lotions my back or whatever lil thing she sees or I tell her i need. Dont force yourself to like or love someone. You can show or tell her what you need! Sometimes thats what it takes. But you should be with women you genuinely enjoy. A decent girl will hold space for you, just don't be a bitch. You should be leaning on a …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 04:57 AM
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What "beta" would you like to be? On some level your gonna have to accept like everything else, life is a competition. You gotta be your best self in every category and win over others. Or just be average and accept that. You shouldnt be sharing your life or resources with a girl who isnt doing the same anyway. Women should be earning your love and attention. Do you allow yourself to be so easily enamored by beauty and words? This will allow you to see the necessity of plates. So you can gain re…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 03:22 AM
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Kind of alot to take in. What's your issue? Address it one at a time. Women are definitely annoying as fuck but you can still have a loving relationship and have a family. I will say dont attribute being a strong masculine man to be a complete asshole douchebag. Its hard to gauge how your looking at that cause women do need tough love sometimes. Cant be weak.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 01:52 AM
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No shade but I've never had any form of social media ever and I've never had trouble getting girls. I get asked if I have social media and I just say no. Reddit is it.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 02:54 AM
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......Ok? But neway....i guess....If you asking me about children....I dont need marriage to do that. Theres no good reason to get married ever. Far as being with multiple women sure, all those are options. Plates or a bisexual ltr, or just one side like you said.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 04:45 PM
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The fact that your even asking this means you don't have much experience. So...why even risk what might be guaranteed fun. Date that first girl that you really like and leave it alone. Theres plenty of other girls you can date as well without this obstacle. Unless the other girl full stop wants to bang you where you stand I don't see the point inrisking it.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/22 02:08 PM
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Again your tryna take some moral high ground and use shame tactics for something that is simple. Men have a naturally high sex drive that doesnt need all this extra fluff to be satisfied.There is already a base level of standards for wanting to get laid that don't need to change. If shes sexually open and attractive and not a headache what fuck else do i need. And your living in some pipe dream if you think women are really out here being all "zen" about what they do. They are just more slick an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:51 PM
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Our horniness already has standards? What are you superseding that would have such a dramatic effect? Purely wanting to fuck for the sake of fucking and attraction doesn't need these so called higher standards that are going to make anything easier. I dont need to be looking for a wife to wanna get laid. Self control obviously. Doesnt change the fact of naturally inclined urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:02 AM
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Considering how much sexual access women have. If they truly were as horny as men. Theyd be fucking new guys on the regular and they damn sure wouldnt require dates. Its not even remotely close. Healthy men are horny all the time. Its annoying as fuck sometimes honestly. Not only that. Women physically cant take dick for long. There bodies get tired and sore. Vagina and all. It becomes a chore to receive. Dudes can just keep plowing. Biologically dont even make sense for more reasons than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:43 PM
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Bruh this is a reach. Horniness is the main predicater on why we pursue women. Theres no superseded standard for wanting to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:40 PM
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The more i date and age the more this just sticks. Your the same in or out of a relationship. Lift, stfu, and focus on your own goals. When the relationship no longer serves you. Get a new ltr, fwb, or plate or whatver. Nothing changes. Things like cheating or disrespect starts to hurt less. Just makes logical sense to take it to chin and move on if you truly are a guy who can get new ass whenever. New girl will be doing the same things old girl was doing.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 03:52 PM
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Exactly. Theres nothing passive or escapist about it. You face reality as a rational calm human being.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 06:04 PM
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Gs recognize Gs. Its that simple. Dont try to convert.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 06:36 PM
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And thats all you can do brother. Just go get a new girl and try again..Keep a high smv,stay stoic, and keep boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 12:10 PM
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Brother I can tell you right now even when you do everything right, you can still lose a girl because the wind blew east that day. Its always a game of probability. Don't fret over why when you lose a girl for too long. Use your smv to acquire another.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 04:00 PM
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She belongs to streets. Someone else came along and is in her guts. No big deal. Go get another girl. Dont bother trying to save a situation like this. You let it go. Going from fucking consistently to no more fucking so we can "build a deeper relationship" is bullshit. Consistent sex is a part of building. If she wanted you she would make time. She gave you all that nonsense about she didnt have it but wants you to be around for emotional support. Don't ever contact her again. Honestly rude for…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 03:49 PM
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The contrast from going from a super beta boy to a man definitely makes it seem that way. The programming is deep. Especially when you deal with these emotionally immature chicks who havent had a strong masculine presence raising them. It affects both sexes. I still deal with some of my conditioning even though I know better. Women subconsciously fuck with you and test you forsure but its not always as malicious as its made out to be sometimes. They just want the best they can get and will test …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 03:59 PM
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Bruh. Do whatever you want. Sounds like you made it. Whatever it is dont sell yourself short with a 5.5 you dont even want to commit to before 30. Sounds like your creating a issue where there is none.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 09:45 PM
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Nope. Talk to other girls And don't feel bad about expressing your feelings. Learn from them and mature. Your aware you get too attached fast now.
/r/newTRP30/09/22 03:26 PM
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???? Your not making any sense. Im assuming english isnt your first language
/r/newTRP28/09/22 03:41 PM
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Fuck whoever you want. Im a tall muscular black guy. Iv been known to fuck hot goth chicks, foreign Asian women, hippies. It don't matter. I like em all shapes, sizes and styles.
/r/newTRP28/09/22 03:01 PM
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You dont have anything to prove. Just have a good time
/r/newTRP22/09/22 09:47 PM
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WHY THE FUCK WOULD A GIRL WANT YOU!!?? and for what? You dont have a fucking life. Then when you constantly ask how to get one and people tell you what to do you fucking cry about it. For the last time. GO TO THE GYM. GET A JOB/CAREER. And honestly dont worry about getting a damn girlfriend. YOU CANNOT HANDLE A GIRL> YOU ARE NOT IN ANY PLACE TO LEAD OR SUPPORT A WOMAN IN ANYTHING!! You could MAYBE get a one night stand but probably not even that. How about you go and make some real friends first…
/r/newTRP20/09/22 06:30 PM
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So you have adopted a victim mindset, that's something for you to lookk into the mirror and dissect. Get in the gym!
/r/newTRP15/09/22 09:56 PM
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Why are you worried she will leave? Outcome independence. Abundance mentality. I know it sucks bro, your fighting programming...But you have to learn how to like and enjoy women, maybe even love, but also not give af if they leave for whatever reason. Really think about what makes her so special? Guarantee another girl could fill her spot if you guys arent compatible.
/r/newTRP15/09/22 09:24 PM
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Stop thinking in terms of forever with women. Work hard and improve yourself and appreciate right now with them. If she stays your good. If she has to be let go. You'll still be good cuz your a man who can get another.
/r/newTRP15/09/22 05:58 PM
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Your broke and unsuccessful at 28 crying about a girl in 99 percent of this post. You have more serious shit to worry about like TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF!!! BE SELFISH AND FUCKING LOVE AND FORGIVE YOURSELF, MOVE ON. THERE WAS PROBABLY LITERALLY NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT HER. You really think there isnt another cute girl to suck your dick and make you food and rub your back? They all do that for men who have their shit together. So Get a job. Go to the gym everyday. Read and absorb information to work…
/r/newTRP14/09/22 04:45 PM
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Your gonna go clubbing and hop bars drinking water all night?
/r/newTRP14/09/22 04:09 AM
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Both are valid options. Just depends on you since your the one who actually understands the vibe you guys had. Just dont be needy.
/r/newTRP12/09/22 07:16 PM
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Bro having a intimate relationship with a woman is fun af. Its a beautiful thing. Why would you not want a soft pretty naked girl to play with?. Have some ease about it. Your relationships with women are on your terms. Maybe you just havent met a smart girl you actually like. Have a human connection with these chicks. Even if your non monogamous. Makes the sex better. I feel like if you knew the depths of pleasure this question would be different. Just be productive and explore your relationship…
/r/newTRP11/09/22 03:56 PM
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Are you actually banging any girls or just befriending a bunch of them? You sound happy off of low probability what ifs. I guess if it ends up working good for you but bringing your sister in law over to help you game a girl was kinda gay. She probably thinks your gay or sees what your trying to do and gets no tingles. If you were going to walk back over you should of did it by yourself and directly asked her for her number like a man so you could talk to her and ask her out properly and not hav…
/r/newTRP11/09/22 03:37 PM
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Which is the trick. The desire to end desire is still just that.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 07:35 PM
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Make new better friends and/or express your concerns to your current ones. At the end of the day all relationships are two way streets. Its not all on you to keep a spark.
/r/newTRP08/09/22 04:28 PM
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Something Im learning now with the mommy thing. Women should be getting in where they fit in naturally. Meaning she should be trying to go out of her way to take care of you while your always taking care of yourself first. They already know if they not really adding value to your life. I used to get butthurt if she wasnt being what I needed. High entitlement. Stfu. Soft next. And being busy with yourself is enough. Communicate what you need and keep it moving. If she desires you food will be on …
/r/askMRP08/09/22 04:13 PM
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Building better and more fulfilling ones.
/r/newTRP06/09/22 01:02 AM
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???? Spend your life arguing over every lil thing and with everybody all the time. Picking certain battles is much more wise
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 10:00 PM
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Your first point really resonates with me, it's not fair so I shouldnt expect it but I guess I dont know where to go from there. I have the burden of performance to just get sex? Anything else is just extra and rewarded with good behavior? I don't know what to do with my LTR as love has seemed over rated to me for awhile now. I guess we are just friends who are respectful of each other and we fuck when it makes sense. Im having a hard time understanding what a bond with your partner is at this p…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/22 04:26 PM
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Yeah cuz thats the same thing 🙄 Go emotionally connect with A.I. and robots
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:35 PM
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You have no idea how powerful the male libido is.... imagine bleeding everyday of your life by design and men telling you to suck it up and stop getting blood everywhere. But girls are always the first ones to say care about my feelings when yall don't even give a shit about the male struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:32 PM
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Exactly what you just said
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 03:29 AM
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Bingo. Don't let your partner stray off topic and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:39 AM
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Give up bro....It takes like 2-3 full interviews to get it. Hes not that bad. Peoples entire intelligence is based off other peoples opinion videos and 60sec clips intentionally misframed. The level of ignorance on this planet has hit rock bottom. Dont try to save it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 09:56 PM
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Amused mastery. Agree and amplify. Avoid or Never speak on the topic unless your ready to stand your ground with outcome independence. Life is sexist get used to it.
/r/newTRP23/08/22 09:47 PM
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Eh hes not that bad. I honestly wonder if people have actually sat down and watched some interviews or live their lifes off 60 sec clips out of context. Hes obviously intelligent and has his shit together.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:49 PM
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Men and women are asymetrical in just about everything. Which is completely fine because it's actually complimentary. We dont need to be or are attracted to the same things. The problem is people dont wanna work and make sacrifices for each other. Love is labor and it's not a unconditional fairytale. But that doesnt take away from its beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:45 AM
3

Your confused......Good women exist. Which does not mean perfect or that you wont have to put in work or manage the relationship. Hence "unicorn". You always have the burden of performance. AWALT means they are all capable of being assholes like anyone else. If you slack, there will be consequences. Or maybe you dont and she still isnt right for you. Be prepared to walk. So again, the perspective is wrong. Unicorns don't have to exist for you to have a good women and a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:54 PM
1

Have outcome independence and clearly understand what your pros and cons are as a person, playing them righteously and respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:12 AM
1

I feel you. But Iv never heard them say that at all. Only that it is extremely harder to find a decent women than what it used to be which completely real and honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:06 AM
12

That is not a red pill perspective at all... "No good women" This is why it gets so controversial. People speaking on behalf of what they dont understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:07 AM
2

Bro..i feel you....but......do not waste your life trying to talk to girls like that....it is desperate energy and wont get you properly calibrated. Become the prize and live a life that keeps you content without women. At best maybe go genuinely window shop for an hour and BE OPEN to talking to not just girls. But ANYONE. Women are everywhere...... Talk to them at the gas station, grocery store, a bar while your catching up with friends....waitress at that restaurant or that random friend group…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 12:06 AM
3

I see what your saying...We don't look at roasting and making mockery and joking and teasing the same. One is for fun and the other is wanting to genuinely cause damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:52 PM
5

Roasting and making a mockery will trigger anybody and cause them to not like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:16 PM
3

All of that is true just as much and along side the generalizations in gender/sexes. OP post has some weight but it ignores other realities of life that make this a face palm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:13 PM
42

Dear lord. The more I read stuff in PPD the more i see how lost both sexes are. If you cant joke around and tease a girl. She doesn't like you. Its not as black and white as this. It needs grey area social calibration. I understand why women just like guys who get it now. Cant spend every waking second trying to explain every lil thing about what turns them on and keeps them bubbly. Learn how to push and pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:49 PM
1

No. You only love people because your conditions have been met.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:48 AM
1

Maybe but paying for it and getting it through seduction/natural desire doesnt compare at all...I swear dudes dont know what its like when a women is practically obsessed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:34 PM
4

The whole point of good sex is that you both genuinely desire each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:39 AM
3

The solution is for YOU to be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:19 PM
1

4 and 5 are not redpill point of views. As always people don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:28 PM
1

No. This seems like word games. If you dont stand up for anything and cater to every emotional outburst and pretty much are a YES man. On top of being a gentleman....No respect from men or woman. If you are a gentleman. But when someone does something you don't like or agree with , you stand your ground on your principles regardless of the response. Being outcome independent. You are respected. Your confusing pompous with simply being true to who you are when your confronted on things of your ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:19 PM
2

Dating women is hard and does take skill. Your not necessarily wrong. Its why when men finally get it and achieve everything we decide to just fuck everything for awhile. Its our natural drive and rewarding after PUTTING IN THE WORK to date. Which women dont seem to understand. Women date on easy mode. They dont have to put in work to do anything really. They can stand around and hope or just simply say hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:42 PM
1

???? Ok. Whats a illusion? Being brave and assertive is probably better. How does that refute what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:05 PM
0

Just live the life you envision and accept the consequences of your actions. If you wanna be promiscuous just accept that at some point a huge demographic of men are gonna tell you no for a long term relationship. Probably ones that you really want. You can explore some but don't fall for the hoe trap. I'm hard pressed to believe that women genuinely want to be hoes like men who naturally crave VARIETY and sex 24/7. Wanting good sex is fine. But if a family is what you want I would find a good m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:33 AM
1

Bro your literally just looking for validation or reasons to be a angry incel. You have to put in work to get girls. Get over it or live your life crying about it. Whatever league of man you are in you can get girls if you stop being so soft about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:50 PM
3

You approach a girl and talk to her like a regular being. Then you ask for her number. Then you ask her on a date. But number one you have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:17 PM
6

Being a gentle man is only respected when your capable of standing for something and not being nice when need be. You absolutely cant be nice rich and powerful without having certain personality traits....It comes with the territory of being self made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:12 PM
4

Yep. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:22 PM
1

The same woman who says she doesn't want a man whore will be seduced and totally in love with a James Bond type. A gentleman probably with 100 bodies. When your good with women your good with women. It doesnt matter. Stop caring so much about what they say and look at what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:12 PM
2

I dont know why people find it so hard to just accept this simple truth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:10 PM
0

Whats your point? And lets be real here, who does it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:39 PM
2

Nah. Your overthinking. Just talk to her like a regular human being. And dont exaggerate your replies... She could have genuinely got caught up and not reply she's on vacation. I'm not saying when she gets back to you reply immediately but a few hours is fine. Days would be to extra. You should only be texting to set up dates anyways this early.
/r/newTRP15/08/22 02:35 PM
5

You did not. Your just worrying too much about a girl who's not yours and you haven't known for long. She's on vacation not stressing about you. Probably getting foreign dick. You'll have your time when she gets back. Focus on other women.
/r/newTRP15/08/22 02:16 PM
6

Bro.....chill....Talk to other girls
/r/newTRP15/08/22 01:35 PM
2

And it's pretty obvious. Women are even the ones who are always trying to hide the age or think back on when they were younger. They know objectively that younger women tend to be more attractive physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:24 PM
4

Thats like one year for most these days. Maybe not even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:17 PM
7

Women can do whatever the hell they want nobody cares. You really think men don't like slutty women? We love them. Its easy sex. We just don't want to take them serious because we find them unattractive as long-term prospects. It is what it is and you can't make us like what we don't want anymore than we can make women like things. Nobody's saying you can't explore a little bit but chicks these days be having like 30-60 bodies. Take the time to count that. Accept the consequences of your actions…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:27 AM
3

Sadly you might be right. Men and women will suffer because of this. Men will die alone because they're unattractive. Women will die lonely (with men they don't even like,settling) cuz they've been completely masculine/promiscuous into their 40s and/or can't lock down the small minority of men they are attracted to. 17 women for every 1 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:46 AM
4

Im not really sure of an answer for you, youv allowed this behavior from her for so long that I dont know if you can dig yourself out of this, at least not without a bunch of turbulence. 10 years? I mean have you ever just straight up told her your issues with her? Thats probably what your doing wrong. She doesnt see a issue. Looks like she uses you for validation really honestly and emotional puke. I didnt read anything that indicated she sees you as a leader. You already know what you dont lik…
/r/askMRP14/08/22 06:43 PM
1

Ok haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:39 PM
1

Romance and kids requires what first?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:15 PM
1

??? They do. None of that excludes the other or is in opposition to my point. It starts with sex the majority of the time. Its about more or variety. Aint no man going to leave sex for no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:47 PM
4

That point of view is so annoying and intellectually dishonest. Common sense that the world operates off of generalities not the minority in all areas of life. Every person is unique obviously but we have commonalities. Not here to talk and defend the 20%. We are talking about the 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:24 PM
2

Cheating for men is simply sex. No other reason at all. Our drives are much higher. Sex for a women requires emotion and a lot more investment on her part. It needs a whole entire story. Cheating is bad period but with a women it simply takes more. You know what men need for sex. A body and raw genuine desire. Its just the pure act of it itself. Women dont get it cuz they simply arent horny like men are. If they were they would be fuckin a different man every single day without discrimination be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:05 PM
1

Whatever happens its gonna require sacrifices and work for both sexes. Love requires labor and understanding. Even with what you said we would get much farther if we accept what we are which is what your first couple paragraphs said. Dehumanization might be a little strong but there is some truth to it. In the end we are attracted to what we attracted to. Your not gonna convince men to not want less promiscuous pretty supportive women. And your def not gonna convince women to not want strong suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:48 PM
1

Well she is 22, expect some immaturity.....but I mean your gonna have to get it through her head that space away from each other is healthy and that you have work and a life outside of her. Its ok for you guys to miss each other and not act on it...But I mean you already know that. I dont think anyone here is gonna have any new answers for it. Deal with her tantrums until it clicks, hopefully you arent rewarding her outrageous behavior with more attention. Otherwise maybe suggest therapy? 3 days…
/r/askMRP11/08/22 03:57 AM
0

Troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:05 AM
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Forsure bro. And if it's really bothering you just straight up tell her she needs to stop doing so much for you and maybe move on because its a lost cause. "No way I would even consider committing to you without had sex and more time". And say that shit with your chest, with some real emotion and honesty that she can feel, you can be vulnerable about it with firmness. Cause who knows, maybe Im wrong but don't ignore reality. Deal with probabilities not possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:19 PM
0

Some of these people in here are crazy. No wonder men get taking advantage of so easily. You do not know someone or even have a fair enough assessment to commit to someone after two months of dating. 6-12 months is completely reasonable. After that it becomes extremely hard to hide things about yourself or put up a mirage. People pretend rather consciously or unconsciously and you cant just assume yal right for each other after a few nice feelings. Youl get burned and might miss out someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:41 PM
3

Commitment is earned. Thats for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:40 PM
9

You expect a man to commit to you immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:39 PM
3

Yeah pretty much this. Leave it be and enjoy.
/r/newTRP01/08/22 03:32 PM
2

https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/women-and-prescription-drug-use_n_1098023 https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2018/06/14/619338703/u-s-suicides-rates-are-rising-faster-among-women-than-men https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america Single women are happier? Yeah i dont know about that one. And its probably a little more complex than that. Alot more variables than whats stated their. Not even mentioning that without sex or …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:14 PM
6

Just because you have insecurities and cant accept certain things about the world that leave you "at a disadvantage" doesnt mean that everything has to change and be more vanilla. Fetishes are completely fine and natural between consensual adults. We can like whatever we want. You didn't have to say all that. Pretty much what your implying with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:24 PM
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Life isnt fair. Take away looks and youll just be judged by something else. Claiming fetishes are the root of all of evil is a big stretch my guy. Play to your strengths and accept the cards that have been dealt. There is no world where everyone is a winner at everything. The issues here are your own insecurities imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:14 PM
14

So everyone should change just because your feelings are hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:04 PM
5

There is a context for everything. Your not in the frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:29 PM
5

Bruh. See. Victims mentality. Cant do anything with that, infinite excuses. How many men are realistic 5ft tall...Short people date each other. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:26 PM
8

Are we talking about teenagers and college students? Yeah ok then? If your a grown man with nothing going for you why should a woman be attracted to you? Just because you say so? Get a grip on reality bud. Life is competition and it makes logical sense to fuck guys who have there life in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:23 PM
6

Im 28 and what are you even talking about? However you want to define a relationship it requires money and someone having to have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:35 PM
3

Be the best version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:00 PM
12

Yeah bro makes sense cuz in a long term relationship a women just wants to date/commit to a man who can only sit at home and do nothing. So exciting and fun. We are adults. Not kids. No wonder women dont like alot of you guys. Fucking soft. Relationships arent unconditional fairy tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:58 PM
0

Ok so go to the damn gym, get a hobby and build social skills, or be a cry baby. Your choice. Women have more complex mental/emotional attractions than us. Crying about looks is a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:51 PM
11

Are you a literal child? Of course they wouldn't. Whats the point of a comment like this? You think men are any better in there dating choices? Like we are so much more "pure"? We are just as "superficial" as them, just different. Both people have to bring something to the table. If you don't have a job you don't deserve no pussy quite honestly. What you going to do if she gets pregnant? How are you going to take care of her? There's nothing wrong with prioritizing a man's job in dating to a deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:40 PM
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Why would you want a woman who only strictly wants you for money? It's okay if it's an aspect but I'm sure even a woman will say even that's not enough. You can be a rich loser or a rich dork. So yeah she'll give you a kid and marry you and then ruin your whole entire fucking life so what are you talking about. You sound like somebody who's giving up and doesn't have respect for himself. All the power of dating is not in women's hands. If you step up and self improve and stop making excuses you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:57 PM
5

I feel you but I wouldn't base my long term relationship on if I feel like I can change someone like that onset. Its about who they are now. Out of respect for not only your own peace of mind but also her. Genuinely date her and make it known how important fitness is to you maybe? But dont bank on it. Date other women.
/r/newTRP23/07/22 01:53 AM
1

The way you describing it doesn't sound like genuine shit test. Sounds like shes just annoying and bitchy. A proper lady will shit test you a bit but not be completely ridiculous. Dont deal with her if shes annoying you.
/r/newTRP22/07/22 09:27 PM
4

If your gonna have guys waiting so long my suggestion for you is to make sure your setting up and taking care alot of the dates so they see actual interest and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:03 PM
0

Nope. Have fun with those women who will let guys nut all over them and risk pregnancy/stds within hours of meeting but make you wait weeks/months because "I care about you" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:43 PM
2

I would just set another day and do some small chit chat to get a feel and reconnect with her that way. Use that time in between to work on yourself and talk to another girl.
/r/newTRP17/07/22 02:41 AM
1

Bro.....its only been one date. Really understand and digest that. I know that you like her but you dont know her or her life yet....try not to make a big deal about it and be straightforward in wanting to meet her and have more fun and let it be for now. She got back to you and shes interested in that, set it and leave it alone. If she was your girlfriend thats different. But you shouldnt be too salty, maybe a bit thrown off sure. And please go on dates with other women!!!
/r/newTRP17/07/22 02:31 AM
2

I feel you and Im not against it cuz shes pretty attractive but you gotta understand aging and how all that weight will affect her physique in a long term relationship. Or even what comes with that in a current one. Different body types different experiences. Shed still be attractive and have the thick look and curvy shape if she decided she wanted to tighten her body up forsure and obviously would be healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:21 AM
4

Without consequences? Your literally risking everything and giving all of your intimate parts of yourself to someone you dont care about. But making someone that you care about wait or be spoonfed. Its literally backwards ass thinking. How can you actually believe that? It makes love look worthless. It shouldn't be harder to get good sex when you connect with someone deeply. Nothing logical about it. If anything you should be fucking on the first date and substantially more afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:25 AM
1

Maybe to make sure you arent a clinger or get attached to fast. How long did you wait to ask for a second date?
/r/newTRP16/07/22 09:32 PM
1

For the same reasons anyone else would. The tone and supporting comments draws the picture that it seems you shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:26 PM
2

I don''t condone but Iv been pulling out my entire sexual career. Not one pregnancy ever. Im talking over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:34 PM
3

Its always the people who dont understand red pill at all or call it crazy that come to the silliest conclusions. And say the dumbest stuff with such conviction. Being red pill doesn't mean you don't want a healthy loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:25 PM
4

Bruh im done lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:50 PM
13

No. Do you flirt with your friends? Do you have sexual interest in your friend? Do you take your friends out on dates? Do you hold your friends hand? What are you even talking about? What is your definition of a "relationship"? Romance/sex is the literally intention at the beginning. Approach women and tell them hi i want to be your friend and tell me how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:46 PM
16

Getting to know a woman for the sole purpose of a serious relationship and being a friend are completely different....your making a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:33 PM
2

The goal of red pill is simply to be on a constant path of self improve and understanding the truths of the world. What you decide to do with it is up to the individual. It has nothing to do with "manipulation". Its about walking away from things that don't align with you and stop trying to force people to change. You dont get red pill and most people dont. Most just get triggered or listen to people who preach red pill but are really just soft and hateful. Or just get mad at certain aspects of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:23 PM
2

Constant self improvement and understanding human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:59 PM
2

Just own it and apologize my guy. Your a teenager no big. "I was nervous" "I was anxious"
/r/newTRP07/07/22 11:49 AM
12

Bruh wth kind of question is this... Don't be fucking emotionally unavailable and dead inside on purpose. Being stoic has nothing to do with that.
/r/newTRP05/07/22 05:25 PM
12

Never let anyone disrespect you. Up to you how you want to display that. You can definitely do it professionally.
/r/newTRP04/07/22 07:10 PM
1

In my opinion its more about time and quality of the relationship. Sure a woman can be a decent friend maybe, but I think a brotherhood is preferable and way better for a man. Simply because men understand each other way better than a woman can for the troubles of life we deal with uniquely. When your a confident man with his shit together and can actually date women you have to make a choice with your limited time. Do you want to spend your time being strictly friendly with women? Or do you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:32 PM
2

You recognize it. Just work through it constructively and privately my guy. Eventually you wont even be phased it. Your just growing up emotionally. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/newTRP01/07/22 01:25 PM
1

Bruh do not try to validate seeing a woman six times a week.. especially as early as 3 months which is nothing. Neither of you know each other at all. Your already preparing to live with her....? Get a grip. You cannot build attraction without abstinence. You need to be away from each other to understand the relationship clearly. There is no frame to keep here. What is it that you do besides give her all your attention for free? How are you attractive when 6 nights of the week your with her?
/r/newTRP27/06/22 12:23 PM
3

......6 days a week bro?
/r/newTRP26/06/22 09:58 PM
2

4 months is not long enough for any woman to be truly invested you imo. You already broke frame to her childish behavior. Even apologized to her 😬 Soft next and be better if you see something redeemable. And ABSOLUTELY date other women.
/r/newTRP23/06/22 10:46 PM
2

Thats mitigated by just learning to have fun on your terms and enjoying a selection. Guard your commitment. Cause like you said you puttin in the work anyways. If you ever decide to be exclusive she has to too. Your devotion isnt free. And honestly bro its not as much effort as you think once your in there. Be your best self for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 01:04 AM
1

What part of the game are you mad at? You can still have something nice with a woman. You just cant be a low value bitch and expect her to be completely into you. Also what makes you think you are better than the women you are so upset about? Men and women both love conditionally, even if the scope varies a little.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/22 05:18 PM
2

You definitely should use logic and words but it means nothing without action. The mental aikido should strike hot once and then you just let it be till shes out of the emotions
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 12:48 PM
2

Keep going!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 03:21 AM
37

Just be a fun person. Good conversation skills, banter and teasing.... All my first dates in the summer are walks in the park. All my dates in the cold months have been literally playing board games. Once theres comfort you can do just about do anything and fuck. Have a meal. Watch that new movie. Play cards. Paint a picture. Go see a play. A new bar. Play basketball. Bike ride. Just simple shit to get them out their house or out of their head. And for god sake at least try to enjoy her as a per…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 03:52 AM
3

I know women have their nature but stuff like this is just like....this bitch is just a terrible human being in general and any man who accepts her knowing this is an idiot.... A good woman wouldn't do some shit like this and if you're going to argue that all would Id consider the female species pieces of shit in general and I can't and don't believe that. Women are brutal forsure but this is something different. This woman must have had plenty of red flags before this. Definitely the guys fault…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 02:18 AM
11

Effective way to get over performance anxiety as well. Just tell her what to do, you both are ready and willing. Dont be afraid to be dominate. Shes feeding off of your energy.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 05:19 PM
138

As morpheus would say. Not everybody is ready to be unplugged. The truth is dark just as much as it is freeing.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 08:04 PM
5

If work wasnt involved at all or ever, would you still maintain this relationship or would it even exist?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:55 PM
4

Yeah but I think the point is though that if you can spend time with a woman, just do it with one who is both stimulating and sexually available. And spend the rest with a bro who you can actually be 100% with. Cause mostly you should be on your purpose or hobbies anyway with your limited time. And if you're in a serious relationship you shouldn't be spending time with the opposite sex anyway so really whats the point.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:41 PM
1

Experience is the best teacher forsure. You need to be told no. You need to lose the smoke show of a woman. You need to have plates and then lose them all in a drought. You need to love a woman with all your heart in a blue pill lense so they can show you want they truly are. Dating is rough. But you become stronger.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:07 PM
3

That shit is so annoying bro. Like the relationship is going good and they just fuck it up with dumb moves like that. Obviously I like you more than sex if your my gf.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:04 PM
1

Tell me one thing you do that isnt selfish or not "living for yourself"?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 12:42 PM
10

At least your honest and accept what you want. Women aren't perfect little angels and never will be. I hope that you at least had your fun times before you settled down. My advice for men is to give up on finding a perfect women and just live and let live. If you are going to settled down just make sure your getting everything you want from the women, no exception. That perfect women that cooks fucks cleans on demand and supports you "unconditionally" could of had 20 30 dicks before you and you …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 08:57 PM
3

Bro long distance is never worth it wth are you doing. My advice. Break up with her and see a woman who is actually close to you. Life is not a disney fairytale. She is enjoying the attention from multiple angles without having to actually do anything for you. Keep her as a plate if you can but your really doing yourself a disservice.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:35 PM
1

Cold approach or die
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:59 PM
2

Whats so special about her? Probably nothing
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:25 PM
1

How would you even know that? Take their advice into the field and tell me how it works out Chase excellence not women but if you do want women at least be aware of what your dealing with. Thats all they say. Not necessarily targeting you but dudes just want to hate and not do the work. Ask for help with your life. Then you get it and wanna throw it away and downsize it. Sheesh, cant win with you people.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:02 PM
1

Bro its not even necessarily what you do, its about how you frame it and get there emotions involved. I am a nerd by every sense of the word. I like video games. I like anime. Scifi. I like philosophical conversations and finance. Do you think most girls like that shit? I'm just a fun guy to be around and I lift. Rather we on the couch or going for a walk girls fuck with me because I know how to include them. I know how to tease and make them think. So i still get my dick sucked and bang multipl…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:26 PM
26

Go to the gym and focus on your hobbies and purpose. Wait a couple days and re engage. Everything is cool now. If she brings up the situation just say dont talk to me like that and leave it be. You both are completely aware of the issue. More talking wont solve anything.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:19 PM
1

Rupert Spira
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:57 PM
1

Stop thinking completely for 30 secs...... ​ Now that you have failed ask yourself why you cant control what is supposedly under your complete control? A stance Im assuming you hold. Correct me if Im wrong.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:55 PM
4

the point of meditation is to just meditate. Thats it. What is meditation, Simply being aware. If you need to be aware OF something, the best is to just relax in the breath. Get rid of your over thinking intellectual mind and rest.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:48 PM
7

You read all that and this is what you got out of it. Unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 11:13 PM
2

I stand corrected on some things. Im not a btc or eth maxi but those can still 5x easy over the next few years or so. You can definitely stil make a shit ton if money. But thats dependent on alot more things than just the investment vehicle. So to not advise those, which have a track record and less risk is crazy. You can still build wealth through them. There are alot of good alt coins though forsure to make maybe even bigger money. Fuck shitcoins though at every turn. Its an embarrassment. Cry…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:05 PM
2

you have no idea what your talking about. Eth and btc have plenty of growth and shit coins should never be seriously invested in.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:17 PM
1

lol you have no idea what your talking about
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:14 PM
4

Yes. Don't be a orbiter.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:51 PM
2

If she has already asked you out once. Regardless of the situation theres no reason to not just walk up to her. "Hey how you doing. Been meaning to get your number?" and directly give her your phone and exit the situation. Youve established interest already, if she is into you its a done deal. She will make it easy for you. If she isnt. Forget about this girl and move on. That why I said why are you worried about flirting and creating attraction. Worry about that on a actual date where you isola…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:34 PM
3

lol no bro. I look back at that time of my life and laugh now.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:26 PM
1

Why do you have such judgement about other people who dont want to be who you want to be? Bottom feeders? Theres nothing wrong with being great or just being average. Ultimately we are all interconnected and free to do as we please while death lingers. If you want to genuinely help and lead people then look at them at eye level first, all of them, not just your "type". Its probably contributing to your lone wolf attitude and confusion. You want to help and simultaneously be away from everyone. P…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:20 PM
12

Why are you worried about flirting with her? Get a damn date and then focus on something else. Your not gonna get what you want without isolation and escalation. Build chemistry that way.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:27 PM
7

Personal choice. Its really about behaviour. But its better to just not know imo. Just dont be delusional and think your gonna get a virgin.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:25 PM
2

Do you not like genuine desire?
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:06 PM
2

Bro you can do these things that you want to do. Its just about how you do it. You have to have a genuine strong frame and independent attitude.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:47 PM
1

Agreed. After that normal women behavior is a walk in the park.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 06:06 PM
4

bruh fuck that viagra shit. Your 17. If you need something get Maca Root.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:02 PM
2

Stop worrying about women and get some money. Treat a hoe like a hoe and a lady like a lady. Each sex has their pros and cons. Nothing you can do about it except accept reality and move through the world as a free man in his own frame. I have a good ltr right now and let me tell you. I still be wanting to fuck these women to sleep but I feel i should stay and respect the opportunity to love a genuinely feminine woman. They are out there but if you aint right inside you'll never notice her anyway…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:53 PM
3

Aka women want you to lie to them lol Matter of fact. Everyone wants you to. You gotta play dumb games. I actually dont think it was that bad as others are saying. If she was a cool girl who was 100 percent into you it could of been easily played off. "haha not yet op" "';) Wow your bold" "I like you, how about another time" Its not the hard, but idk what can you expect from women. They are always victims and no responsibility and how dare a man be vocal and straight forward. Me personally thoug…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 07:05 PM
5

Good post bro. Women ruin men but men ruin women too. A good submissive women should never be taking advantage of. If you feel you cant handle the responsibility then let her go so another guy can enjoy the treasure. The whole point is being abundant. Keep plates if a ltr is too much. Its definitely harder keeping some easy access pussy. So if you cant properly lead the relationship for the both you just exit. If you don't wanna commit then be a man and say that. Dont lie. If you do your weak.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 01:24 AM
86

Why are you niggas so mad at women? Like really. Love is not unconditional. When your conditions are met be happy, when its not leave or fix it. What is emotionally bonding with a women? You want to cry on her shoulder or something? Have fun and respect each other for what yall are. Dudes think they are so superior and more special than a women just because she wants the best she can get just like a man. If yo bitch got fat or a women has no ass or tits what are you about to do? Stay because of …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:16 AM
3

If a girl told me she wasnt attracted to me. Id dump her that day. Would you stay with someone your not attracted to? think bro Are you spending money on her? Even 50/50?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:34 PM
2

bro she is cucking you. Get out of that now or at the very least go get other girls. She literally said shes not attracted to you and your sticking around. Sounds like shes begging you to break up with her.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:00 PM
5

Maca root
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:53 PM
1

This is a first for me. Probably not often...just a extra week wait it looks like.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:01 AM
1

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KYQZYJM/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_JPZRB4H8G7ZRNKZ4W4RS?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 This is the brand I use
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:47 PM
1

Take some maca root. I swear by it. Natural herb that balances your hormones and raises your energy levels, blood flow, and libido. Makes me energetic and horny as fuck personally as its prescribed.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:29 PM
5

Fresh and fit are honest and legit.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:28 PM
7

Seriously. How hard is it to enforce boundaries and state what you want and walk when you need to. Theres is nothing abusive about that. Nothing shitty about it. I think most dudes are not actually having sex and dating quality women from a experienced point of view. They go from complete beta yes man slave to, women are evil because i didnt know how to be a man and take responsibility for me. So now Im a angry douche banging bimbos. Who anyone can fuck.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 09:55 PM
10

Shes a plate. Hit her up when you want or accept her offers when they are given. Woman chase commitment and determine there position through action period. Go date other girls and stop wondering why because there could be many reasons or no reasons. None of which should really be affecting whatever is you want out of this this. If you want to see her just set something up. Or dont. Date another girl. I suggest both. Your assuming a boyfriend role that hasnt even been established and getting butt…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 09:33 PM
10

Dating apps suck for men. For reasons that might not even be under your control. Although there are probably reasons your not getting matches that are. Dont want to dive into that. Just dont let some of these answers fuck with your confidence. Obviously self improvement. But cold approach will simply always be king. Not getting dates online isnt a proper gauge of where your at. How many girls have you approached and talked to, set up dates. Youll never have to deal with fat girls in that directi…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:14 PM
13

Dont let this make you hate women. Just be more discerning. Some women really ain't shit. People really aint shit. But there are decent ones.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:03 AM
5

I really dont even think red pill is that bad or upsetting. For me personally it kind of sucked for a little while accepting it but looking back I was just being a big baby as a lot of men are. Nobody should like or want you just because.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 03:54 PM
4

More resources, more time and attention and to secure you as a success object for their ego. In the same way men go, look at me, i got a bad bitch. Look at me I locked down a high value man. Im a good girl.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:59 PM
2

Sleep on it. You might be getting rid of a good girl
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:55 PM
3

Seriously. Fucking nut up. Its really not even that bad honestly. Just become your best self and you will have options period. If you put in all the work and your a 5. Humble yourself and have 3 ways with 5 and 6s or lock down a 7. I bet most people that complain could do better if they had some damn confidence and humbled acceptance of life. Nothing is free. Love is not unconditional and all of life is transactional. Get over it and enjoy.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:00 PM
1

Whatever man idek know who that is. Decentralization isnt that hard to grasp.....all the banks and financial institutions and really every single industry in the world is now investing and incorporating it into everyday infrastructure because it is life changing tech for everyone...but you do want you want...takes minimal research to get the macro picture of whats going on... If you want to keep your wealth in complete control of someone else go ahead...crypto/blockchain changes things not even …
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:06 PM
1

Its not a get rich quick scheme....its like everything else...takes time patience and research....its 100% the future.... anybody who spends like a few hours researching would get it....anyone who demonizes it has not done their due diligence point blank period
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:43 PM
3

Crypto is 100% the future....someone who tells you not to invest in it cause its a scam or gambling is a idiot who doesnt know what hes talking about......but someone who tells you to go all in on it is probably the same.... research....diversify and put your foot in or regret it like people do every year
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:40 PM
25

Bruh....... You know what.....maybe your not gay but that is highly feminine behavior for a grown ass man.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:26 PM
2

Yep. Desire doesn't need a time frame. Matter of fact it can come and go, just examine yourself. Guarantee there's been a time in your life you didnt particular want someone or something until you did. Then you did everything in your power to keep it. Like I said your overthinking this. This isnt some mystical experience. She can 100% all of sudden burn for you at the drop of a hat for reasons that are numerous.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:44 AM
1

Yeah bro your right. Women will only like you if your nice. You can literally make that argument for everything..No matter how you look at it, you will be liked only for what you have worked to obtain. There is no shortcut to this. Even on a less superficial level making 200k a year could be indicators of work ethic, intelligence, patience etc etc etc
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:46 PM
16

All of it generates burning desire! I swear this shit isn't rocket science. Maximize yourself in every single category that you can. But also realize that you can not and will not be every ones type. Don't overthink this shit. It will literally be different for every single girl. You cannot intellectualize a creature who is by nature all over the place, there's just a basic threshold. Individually there will be differences, you cant have them all but you can get full no problem. Lift. Study. stf…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:56 PM
10

Bro dont be so doom and gloomy. Do whatever the fuck you want, there is no ultimate point of life besides what you want to do. Women arent unconditonal lovers and neither are men. Everything in life is transactional, EVERYTHING. You are no better. Just do something with your life and have fun and stop looking for a mommy and some idealistic disney fairy tale. You should be 100% independent. Financially free, physical top condition, emotionally stable, cook clean all by yourself and have hobbies.…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 11:00 AM
1

To be honest these guys should be sidebar material....it one thing to read, its another to watch women spill the beans. They are both heavily endorsed by rollo tomassi himself
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 11:55 AM
44

Gather wealth and knowledge. Have fun and spread love. Thats it, dont overthink it, just find a way to do those things. But realize by default the world cannot bring you permanent happiness and the only peace there is resting and living beyond your mind. Everything by way of perception is impermanent and cannot be fully grasped. Doesn't mean it cant be enjoyed though
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 05:04 PM
1

Let her pull away and focus on your self. It will be forgotten that anything ever happened and you continue to learn and grow and be better. Just fix the issues without speaking on them.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:36 PM
3

Me and all my bestfriends gather wealth knowledge and maintain are health. We also keep good girls around us and have have plenty of fun together and spread love. Find people who are like you and accept that people have to be let go when yall arent aligned.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:28 PM
3

Why do you think a women should love you unconditionally and who the hell do you yourself even love "unconditionally"? Usually the characteristics that make a man more attractive in "less shallow" ways automatically grant him the superficial equivalents.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:44 PM
3

"Saw her messaging a tinder hookup from before we met earlier in the weekend" Im confused. Why is she your gf if she actively use a tinder?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:57 PM
-2

Bro......Even when you dont want sex. You make it very clear that you want sex. Get me?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:45 PM
2

Keep gathering wealth and knowledge and taking care of your health. Dont give her any undeserved attention. She comes around or you find another. Shes completely aware of the dynamic. You can never ever ever convince a women to give you some pussy. Just focus on yourself and keep everything as covert as possible. While your making a post upset that you havent been getting sex, she probably thinking of ways to capitalize. Or maybe she just isnt turned on by you right now...who knows...I dont know…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:43 PM
1

To me at this point in my life love between a man and woman is nothing but a fun business contract. Its chemistry and your terms and conditions. You can still "love" but its more about lust and respect. Being adventurous and uplifting. Can't be ignorant to the realities of attraction and comfort. Its all conditional and temporary.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:57 PM
1

Crypto is the future. Anyone who argues that simply does not understand the technology at all
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 08:02 PM
7

They all the same
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:18 PM
3

Exactly. Spinning plates and Ltrs are a different ball games. You can ignore a plates feelings for the most part really. Not ltr
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:54 AM
5

I know bro, its almost like you gotta entertain a bitch instead of just being human and chatting. But women are the gatekeepers of sex, and you have to see that the average woman does have thousands of men pinning after them everyday so things can be stale for them...Luckily this should help with the idgaf mentally and abundance. If she isnt interesting to you, you can walk away as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 12:33 PM
1

Same bro. You can literally be whoever you want with the red pill. I play video games, watch anime, participate in all the scifi ,fantasy and tech stuff. But I'm also jacked with a good job, frame and have a pretty adventurous fun social life.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:22 PM
34

Bro please don't waste life away cold approaching women. Go do something fun...a activity...and talk to women that are already there and around. Cold approach is best served in a natural interaction. Not as a ultimate goal...If the need is strong spend like 20 -30 minutes enjoying a walk somewhere and chat a bit...But not hours. Women arent worth all that. Find ways to do it naturally as w like at a gas pump or grocery shopping. Otherwise just go do some cool shit.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:11 AM
1

Why do you need a piece of paper that signs your life away to have a family? I don't understand this marriage thing? For what? Find a girl you feel comfortable having children with, do it without the stress of divorce rape. Child support is enough to worry about, and cohabitating.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 03:07 PM
2

Brother sex appeal is still a edge, why does it matter. Stop looking for obstacles and Just self improve. Dont worry about all that, youl see for yourself. Im sure Il be fine. Im 27, i go out with 19 -25 year of all races, that includes white women. Brown women are badder anyways king and understand us more haha There are billions of women, a little bit of them all like you. Promise. And if your serious it will take less than 5 years, give it a year or two. Get yourself a 21 year old latina or s…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:20 AM
2

I have a entire brotherhood and its one of the best things a man can have in his life...I was just thinking about how grateful I am for them today. We all some Gs.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 04:25 AM
1

Man I really wonder what world some of you guys live in. An opportunity to save 40k in cash in two years is a damn blessing and great opportunity to bounce even higher from.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:07 AM
1

Nigga how else do you fucking gets girls. Really? Really think about what your saying here *Facepalm. Your better than this king
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:43 AM
1

If she is legitimately looking at you like that then just do it bro. She saying do what ever you want to me, that means if you need to take it slow then do that...escalate in your own comfort zone but for gods sake just escalate! Other men wish they could be in your shoes, dont let us down.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:24 PM
24

Maybe with the hot chicks you're more worried about performance and with the other chicks you're more worried about getting yours
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:12 PM
3

You can never lean on a women that way brother...Save that for your personal time or your brotherhood....Its just not what women are for, dont hate them for it...But great news, you can channel all that emotion and fuck the shit out of her. Shell love you more and you get that release and will appreciate her more. We are completely alone, but when you can find your peace with that youl obtain a deep sense of gratitude for the nice things you do have. And honestly, who wants their well being to d…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:07 PM
3

I agree its important for men to have a brotherhood, thats dedicated to self improvement and expression. I have one and its a blessing. Women simply CANNOT be your everything. A lot of things are better left for the boys.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 01:17 AM
3

Lol a deck of cards bro. A lil food or drink..Find a nice nature spot with a table or bench... sit and talk. Push and pull. Tease. Find ways to speak sexually lightly. Then take that walk on the trail and kino kino escalation. Cheap fun low investment date.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:48 AM
2

Its about who are. A park date is completely fine.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:15 AM
9

Literally my last 4 dates have all been walk in park with a drink or game to play...Its about who are and how you can amplify your time together not exactly what you do all time...Got my dick sucked or fucked on each one.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:13 AM
3

A woman is a woman. That stuff doesnt matter. She says she just scared not that she doesnt want to do it. Show her how to be brave. Just have to be calm and confident about it. Dont want to have two nervous energies. Theres only so much you can do if your already pushing and pulling properly. If your having a lot of trouble just getting a kiss bro Id soft next her. When a girl wants you theres only so much resistance that they can even put up with.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:53 PM
3

Being "mysterious" is nothing more than avoiding high investment in a girl when it isn't called for. Trust me when go on a bunch of dates ,do a ton of cold approaches, talking online for dating, you naturally keep parts of yourself reserved. Why keep giving girls so much of you when they might not even be around for long or be compatible. Telling every girl everything about you and emotionally/mentally opening up automatically will only lead to disappointment and heartbreak. You give them bread …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:09 PM
1

Text only for logistic. 3-4 date close rule. Constant escalation and pullback. "Taking it slow" is already built in. Shouldn't be seeing the same girl more than twice a week if that.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:02 PM
5

Take a break for a day? What does that even mean, are you guys living together? She wants to drive three hours away to think? If your not the cause of her stress why isnt she seeing you as a break from it all? I would dig a little bit more bro but sounds to me like something is up rather she cheats or not. Sex is a good stress reliever so a nice day with you should be fixing things. Tough situation, Id create some space and mentally prepare for a exit situation if you cant get her to stay and op…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:57 PM
2

Alternate between focusing on your pleasure and hers. Dont stress to much. Just enjoy yourself and if you "under perform" then whatever. Your in the learning experience stage, dont worry about impressing to much. You just need to do it
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:37 PM
1

Ah bro dont be like that...if shes into you shes into you... relationships take time to build like anything else...dont dread actively unless its called for...enjoy your relationship and your purpose.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:31 PM
7

Why even play this game? Just focus on yourself and some other girls. stuff like this should be passive because you're actually doing stuff you want to do and you're not texting her all the time, only for logistics.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:56 PM
20

Big facts right here. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Messy home messy car, makes me question hygiene and personal choices
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:53 PM
1

Good stuff man. Perspective is needed
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:03 AM
1

In your exact same situation bro dont even trip. You didn't over pursue and so you got rewarded for it. Im also a nerd but still take good care of myself and go out with girls. They dont care what you do if your confident in it. Matter of fact they will ask to participate. Il fuck girls and then theyll say "Can I watch you play that one game for awhile?"
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:56 AM
1

I guess man...not that big of deal...has worked for me and iv made friends
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:25 AM
1

True. Its just that my other two are 7.5 and she's a definite 9 borderline 10 so im trending carefully. Prior to the number snatch and date i had already been flirting to get to that point so I just a need a outside perspective. Guess il just keep it cordial..."hey how you doing? Cool. Enjoy your day" and keep a smile.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:05 AM
3

Talk to anybody who seems interesting when your out and about. Find more hobbies and local events. Chat those people up. Saying your new in town is a easy opener.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:55 AM
9

Hard next your sister forsure. And find a way to have a better private life. If anything just play the game if your parents get mad at the pill and say you agree with them or whatevs but continue to take it. Hit the gym. Your 16 so you should be fine.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:52 AM
3

Real shit. Emotional baggage fucks with the johnson
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:49 AM
12

No kiss on a first date after already establishing a connection prior and buying dinner on said date... I would soft next and wouldnt do anything with her until she showed higher level of desire. Shes probably sexual with someone for free right now. Keeping cool after the rejection is great but i would of pulled all the way back and not did either 1 or 2. Wait another two weeks for your date again...The next date should be cheap and an activity for plenty of escalation so this friendly stuff can…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 09:27 PM
3

Wise!
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:12 PM
4

Id add ";Appreciate Everything"
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 11:28 PM
7

Both are true and neither of them are. At the end of the day names dont matter. The relationship continues because you're getting what you want out of it as is she.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:32 PM
1

If your gonna change for what you think is your best interest and to maintain this relationship....at the very least get/stay in the gym heavy and maintain some distance for awhile,focus on you..If she comes back then you know what you need to do. Do it as unspoken action no apologies..If she doesnt move forward. But coming back with a sorry take me back just isnt worth the damage in the relationship. Especially if your super young. Other women out there bro and more growing up to do.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:06 PM
2

Feminist girls arent worth it bro trust me. Unless its a low effort ordeal and you can legimately lay pipe then go for it they are fun. Dont treat em any different than any other women, just expect more walls to break down
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:56 PM
9

This is asktrp but regardless brother respect ✊🏾 Good lesson
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:49 PM
1

Appreciate the input...Il work on it
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:16 PM
1

Learning experience
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:29 PM
1

Thats what I was feeling. .. Should I ok sexy her again after the soft next or just drop it? I could but it just bugs me. Questioning if im just being petty for not just accepting it and leaving to first name only...i just personally like the flirty nickname thing
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:22 PM
1

Other than me finding the situation odd and funny...Mostly because she had brought it up before n I pretty much just wanted her to see what she was really saying to me and I wasnt about to stop
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:47 PM
-1

Ah yeah thats just my personality...i genuinely thought it was hilarious
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:58 PM
1

Live and you learn brother, she was cool at first...Btw, your a dyke.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:55 PM
-1

Its that bad? Sheesh, il work on it
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:54 PM
-2

Yeah maybe lol thats just me though, im kinda goofy....Il work on it
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:19 PM
3

Bro feminist are out of control. One of my plates is feminist. I literally will fuck her ass for 30minutes and spend the other hour on her other holes. You know what this chick said to me the other day. "I dont like it when you call me sexy, makes me feel like your belittling me like that's all the value i have as a woman" 😂 Are you serious? Now shes mad at me at the moment cause I laughed and said thats stupid but whatever I wont call you that but honestly thats such a turn off. When she comes …
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:38 PM
8

Its a game changer. I cum when I want as well. Men need to know you dont have to keep all that sexual energy in the dick.. Breathe and share it with the rest of the body
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 02:15 PM
33

It straight hind brain triggers...even the ones with bf will at least double take
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:11 PM
1

Amen ✊🏾🙏🏾
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:21 PM
1

Agreed. Going back and forth with a women is never worth it..Most of the time they already know what they did or our doing and if not let them digest. I'm pretty sure i fucked up with a plate recently by calling out her drama which sucks because the sex was insane. Luckily i ended the confrontation in my frame but some damage has been done. She has to come to back me for this to work. Bros just lift and stfu. Enjoy your hobbies. When you not getting what you want just check out and let her fix i…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:17 PM
2

Bro it would of took you 3 mins of conversation to figure out if she was gonna waste your time
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:18 PM
9

It really is. But honestly its not even that big of a deal. Men have it better long term. Womens prime is so short lived and they waste it. Aint no 35 year old women locking down a 21 year old man. We as men can literally slay and lockdown ANYTHING we want as we age between 21 and 45, maybe even a lil longer if you really grind...Just do the bare minimum of gym, developing some type of skill and finances, a hobby you love and youll be fine.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:25 AM
1

Bruh his last 10 tapes 🔥 Keeps a G motivated
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:09 PM
5

"Took the bitch out to eat with no intention on fucking" - Larry June One of my favorite rappers...dude stays on the red pill
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:54 PM
2

Tell her your tired of her behavior in your own words and pull back for awhile..You probably give her to much attention, let her feel the difference so she can see her own bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:45 PM
1

What's the issue? Im generally confused at whats their to be upset about What you said was enough.. move on
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:36 PM
2

What exactly have you observed?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:24 PM
1

Tricky situation...Iv been there...If she is really the great girl you say she is then just create something for her since your so creative...Far as the arguments go dont even bring them up or apologize about anything...If this is a comfort thing its a simple fix...Spend like 5-10 minutes of focused attention on her today, kiss her, play with her hair, tell her something sweet and then go work on what I told you and take her out twice a month going forward....3 years is awhile man, entering that…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:32 PM
2

Number 1. Be happy just because, learn how to stop giving external situations and events so much control over you... Somethings are just fun and cool to know about, simple as that. Your personally into it, thats the point, its an expression of you,its that simple, thats the point... you miss video games and need some value out of it to justify your time with it than just fucking monetize it..Stream your gameplay, make videos on tips and tricks. Join other communities and spread the joy. Edit cli…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:03 PM
5

Do you honestly believe that people with billions of dollars, part of trillion dollar industries, big banks, high government officials, private industry technology, royalty, or nlood lines spanning centuries of wealth and knowledge live in the same reality as us? The data and common sense of this is enormous
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:58 PM
2

Curren$y and Larry June are about as red pill as it gets....i love future but he has a drug addiction ...who I mention literally focus all there time on there purpose and treat women as accessories but also they see how they are leaders to women and help them when its called for but they never simpin. Straight up hustle music
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:30 PM
3

Ok so. If your not ready to leave a girl you will never keep her... Understand that you guys arent even 100% committed like you said and shes already making demands out of you. Where do you think a relationship like this will go my man? Be honest, you think shes not fucking sucking sexting someone else? Shes tryna force your hand and already establish control before you guys have BOTH agreed to something. She already has what women want, commitment and your full attention! Now lets say she is go…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 01:04 PM
4

..........Bro she is your girlfriend and it looks like your already in her frame. Matter of fact it looks like she tricked you into it and is holding your nuts. Can you admit that before I say anything else please?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:45 PM
1

Yes AWALT. But, all it takes is for THIS PARTICULAR girl of yours to act this way. Is this what you want? I would also inquire into why your dreading for months? Doesnt sound like a relationship you wanna participate in. Might as well be a plate. If im reading this correctly. Of course one night shouldnt be a issue but there has been many? Make sure your rewarding good behavior, like you actually value her. Cant really tell you the right amount. You know her and you know you the best. Trust your…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:49 AM
5

Bro Im in your exact situation. Funny I was just thinking all these exact thoughts. Like to the exact T. Just dont give up and keep examining who you are and focus a little more on your purpose, thats what Im doing. I talk to girls wherever I go, or really just people to stay social, build friendships, get numbers, money opportunites,network. This whole covid situation has everything a little out of wack. I just got out of a 3 year relationship where I had a side bitch and strange half of the ti…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:28 AM
1

Dont over think it...its more about you than the meal...a steak dinner with a boring stale date < lunch meat sandwhiches filled with sex and laughter
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:59 PM
3

Just be aware that shes gonna be trying to get you to emotionally attach...Do not ever take her serious again...When shes fed up with the arrangement let her go no questions asked and keep fucking the other girls you should have and stay on that purpose Just dont lie to yourself, if you still got feelings trend carefully or dont fuck with her at all... abundance mentality
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:35 AM
2

Just do whatever you want... If you can emotionally handle it take the free puss but dont ever do shit for her ever again.. i dont know how people think that makes you a cuck...if you have plates they are fucking other people too so whats the difference? Ego... Abundance means its up to you and what you want to do with these girls Im fucking my ex and 3 other girls. I do not give a shit genuinely
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:37 AM
35

Id argue that its not about distracting yourself from coming....Its about BREATHING and sharing that sexual build up with the rest of the body and not keeping it in the cock. Gotta find your threshold of pleasure and stay there
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 08:35 PM
-1

Is it even okay to go to gyms at this point?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:29 PM
1

Just your turn bro, shes a plate so you cant over invest. "Iv been enjoying us but i understand if you need something more serious. Im just not ready for one" Since women are just about "right now" theres a good chance shel be fucking and sucking tomorrow when shes over it Leave it at that
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:40 PM
10

Bro you gotta find activities and talk to women in the environment. Approach the day like your just out enjoying yourself because that is actually exactly what the fuck you need to be doing. Your a tourist so be one. What did you do for those few hours? Walked around a new country, in your new city and stare off into space for women, unable to get a number. Did you really take it all in? Now say you do that for 3 days. Time wasted. Now say you go to a local concert, museum, etc etc whatever you …
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:41 PM
1

Hahaha ignore the music video brother and just listen to the song...The artist is just into sports cars and toons
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 07:51 PM
2

Most rappers are red pill but this is especially player
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 07:13 PM
2

Not that hard to believe....women throw temper tantrums to try to manipulate you and then when your unaffected they come to they senses and feel embarrassed and suck a whole lot of dick
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:57 PM
5

My nigga bumping curren$y 🤙
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:31 PM
2

Zen
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:12 AM
3

I would only read things that apply to your situation so life experience will ingrain it and you will never have to worry about remembering concepts
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:54 PM
5

Seriously...you have to sleep and eat...when I take 3 day breaks I break my records exponentially every time
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:19 PM
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I understand that rp is a toolbox but this literally creates the type of woman we combat in the anger phase...its like rp creates what we didn't like in the first place..its not that hard to be honest and have boundaries and fuck multiple women. You dont need to be a bully to do it. But the knowledge of intersexual dynamics is neutral, we are gonna get both sides in this subreddit..Women are like children right, ignorant of their nature...Would you fuck with a childs mind before adulthood for fu…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:47 PM
1

Going to need more details...what does your tinder profile look like? How are you approaching girls? Teeth hair and skin can be fixed and worked on. Forget what your friends have, what do you want? What do you mean by close relations? You aint fucking but you want too? Theres a start on how to expand on this post brother..
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:03 PM
2

Hey man i remembered this comment.... proceeded to fuck 2 girls...she brakes up with me but still continues to serve me like a gf....gives me shit, i ignore and keep fucking her and two others while she keeps trying to shame me into "treating her like a queen she is"....i wont drop the other for her so she goes full psycho lol
/r/askTRP26/10/19 05:35 PM
1

"sUck 0n th3 BLu3 p1Ll br00" fuck outta here incel...how about you be a man and actually add something of value to the conversation..you can disagree with me and not be such a tough guy...heres a example since you might be taking dicks to the head "Imho theres no such thing as a balanced view, it just is what it is...its alot to take in because (add your perspective here)"
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 06:16 PM
1

I agree...it just sucks because when you find someone decent you can end up fucking up your investment when you arent fully grounded yet..that was my situation but thats life I suppose and you just gotta roll with the punches... no such thing as soul mates anyways
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 12:18 PM
9

yeah this sub is kind of extreme, we need more balanced views. Alot of the stuff here makes men seem no different than who they complain about
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:00 AM
1

Your right, unintentional but Iv been trying to set that boundary of I don't wanna hear it all the time
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:29 PM
8

The need for a platonic relationship is what gets me...oh well
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:42 PM
3

Exactly...the line here is just so thin...but i feel like i should be enough..and now shes back tracking but i pretty much told her shes been demoted and has to compete now...way to many girls out here for this..hurts but what can you do
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:38 PM
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Bro i dont know anything about game lol you see me asking this question... what works for me is i see a cute girl, go talk to her like a human being but don't hide my sexual attraction and see if she is interesting, get number, plan a cheap date....i lift and have a purpose and goals/hobbies and try not to be thirsty and respect myself even though im raging horny...all the sidebar material is good, read it, tweak it based on your character/experience...ask questions here in this great community.…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:37 PM
12

I bought her a drink once when we first met.... Sprinkled a few things throughout our relationship to show i appreciated her...We've just had chemistry since day one, laughter and good times you know...I never really chased her, i learned even before the red pill that unless a girl is chasing and serving you then the attraction just aint there... naturally submissive in my presence
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:17 PM
6

Iv actually never done any of that ever in our entire relationship accept for maybe a few times....its more about giving her freebie attention, she gets my upgraded lifestyle...leaves things in my house...split bills on activities/vacations she cant afford on her own but i can...my life wisdom/cuddles... things like that haha this comment actually engrains the higher value concept in my head more cuz she still begging me to reach a agreement...back tracking all her comments and changing the stor…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:10 PM
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" Can we have a open relationship? I just wanna be able to text a guy without feeling like I'm doing something wrong because we are in a strictly monogamous relationship like we both know that" " Your sex drive is triple mine and would take off some pressure" "That's what I want I still wanna be around you and have sex but not all of the time. Can't we try at least?" "Can't we try something different together. I just want you to be satisfied I don't wanna lose you" I don't need anyone else it wa…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:20 AM
30

This ^ Dude is funny and keeps it real
/r/askTRP29/09/19 01:02 PM
5

Doesn't really matter what kind of test it is...If you dont feel the need to tell her about anything then dont and keep it moving like nothing happened...focus on another plate..when she wants back in she'll come around...far as a mental breakdown I hope your doing ok brother, talk to someone if you need to but definitely not a women you want to keep fucking.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:10 PM
9

You might be right but I personally dont care....when a girl decides to scream and yell in your face, trash your car, verbally assault and borderline get physical with you while your driving...which could put you both in danger...when your just trying to be cool and drop her off because you guys havent been getting along all night but she wants to make threats on my freedom....yeah I would do it again in a heart beat...i took the abuse for a couple hours and said fuck it and threw her purse out …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 12:19 PM
19

When my girlfriend did this I left her on the side of the road in the snow and blocked all communication from her for two days
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 01:56 AM
6

Why do you need marriage to have kids? If you think shes worth it just impregnate her, dont need documents
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 01:00 AM
9

Im in tears lol
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:51 AM
1

i would just continuing being you and keep the abundance mentality, it doesnt leave an ltr so be playful about other girls liking you and just love her. If you genuinely dont feel like saying you love her then dont. But still continue to be a good man and not let her try to change you..If shes being evasive just stay on your purpose and be there for her when necessary. you should just want to say it...If shes a good fit shell get over it and hamster what she needs out the situation to be your gi…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 01:52 AM
2

yep...im starting to see the short term gains and losses. But really we as men should be doing the same thing. Women have a abundance/smv mentality that they get early on thats short lived. We fucking 50+ so dread should never work on us. We have a purpose to focus on and options....and you know what else. Your mom,sister,grandma, aunty shit testing you too, just to see your character.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 01:27 AM
38

Bro you do realize we are the same
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:41 AM
4

Genuinely enjoy the relationship while it last, she has to do ALL the investing and hold ALL your standards. Otherwise boot. Contrary to popular opinion women are people too and can change,realize they mistakes and wanna be better. Cant change the past and its really up to you what you want to do. At least enjoy the perks though. If you dont want to emotionally invest then just dont and stay physical internally. Shit, if you really dont want her, before you give up ask her to bring you another g…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:57 AM
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yeah i dont understand why people are so extreme on here. I work out,play video games,read, work,go to school, good friends, watch anime and have a girlfriend that I started sharing other girls with. Trp has tools and advice to carve your own life out with. Some people dont even see women here as human beings, just like there personal slaves. I think i read a post here not to long ago about a guy who applied dread to his girlfriend of years because she had to go to a doctors appointment about he…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 08:23 PM
1

I get matches its just the following through part...could probably improve picture quality though, we are a 8.5/10 in the looks department..we both have banging bods. Maybe its in the personality? We get girls in group chats and stay flirty and sexual, set up dates but they lose interest i guess
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:04 PM
1

Lol Bro Iv literally done all that..guess I just have to be patient, my city might be the problem and have to just deal with the spectrum of my area
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:47 PM
1

Hey man Im in a similar situation but the girls me and my ltr find always flake..Any tips on how to get a girl comfortable with a couple? Have talked to about 3 girls who act interested but then don't follow through
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:49 PM
3

This. Just be sure to chase pussy just as hard as you chasing the gym,your career goals and hobbies and itl all balance out authentically for you. Indulge responsibly, dont let women take up all your head space.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:28 AM
3

I feel you...I just want men to know if you just work on your breathing and beliefs you have around sex you can open to other dimensions of pleasure..busting a nut and orgasms arent synonymous...you can share it with the whole body and experience waves instead of one peak
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 03:38 AM
1

Idk what type of sex your having but as a man you definitely can have multiple orgasm like sex and enjoy a high level of ecstasy...please dont believe that.. moaning together with a women while she tells me how much she enjoys me being inside her is great..having experience and really exploring sexually within yourself will make that abundantly clear
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 03:26 AM
1

Uh No
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:10 PM
9

Just keep spinning, just keep spinning, just keep spinning spinning spinning 🎵🎶
/r/askTRP22/03/19 11:35 AM
2

That genius man, Im going to go out and buy one of those soon now
/r/seduction17/01/13 07:45 PM
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