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Don’t overthink it…that’s not the reason. When a girl really likes you, it won’t matter. I’ve never heard of a girl who’s excited about a guy lose all interest because he didn’t text her that he got home safely.
/r/seduction15/10/22 07:24 AM
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That’s why you don’t ask questions but make statements. Power move. It’s quite easy to chat up women, just focus on illiciting emotions
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:08 PM
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I’ve done it…had to break up with the girl though. She was too freaky honestly 😂
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:51 AM
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She lost a bit of attraction and you played into it a bit… It’s a dance, if someone pulls back, you pull back too…you just failed her shit tests. This is actually very very common. Eventually, you’ll learn how to calibrate your interactions so you can sense when and why she’s pulling away.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:10 AM
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Start with what you can control. I’m sorry I don’t know about autism. Will it allow you to live on your own eventually? I’m sorry brotha. Dating can be ruthless so my advice is to just please realize that it’s tough on everyone so you’re not too hard on yourself. Take baby steps and if there are things you can improve then let’s work on it. For example…. The dead end job….Can you find a non dead end job? Don’t think of dating till you’re at a place of confidence and your confidence will rise as …
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:30 AM
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You’ll always have disadvantages unfortunately but you can maximize your efforts, don’t lose hope. I’m a black guy who moved to a predominantly white, actually super white area and I moved from Africa. There were struggles at first and still are but I’ve fallen in love with focusing on things I can control. Here are the things you can control Style Gift of Gab/Game Money/leveling up career Baby Steps (start counting the small wins and they’ll add up) Join a local group/activity that has the type…
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:21 AM
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Because you care….once you’ve passed the age of 30, random stuff women do just don’t bother you ☺️ I literally could care less, I don’t even have an IG.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:21 PM
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Welcome. I felt this and was disgusted by this at like age 22, I’m 32 now ☺️…you just try not to judge others and understand their pain. Went out with a buddy I haven’t seen in a year last weekend. He ended up chasing every girl at the venue when I only came out to catch up with him. I ubered back home.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:09 PM
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Bro….Please don’t think I’m judging but I think there’s a bit of a self talk issue that need fix here. When I was reading your post, you listed off a list of disadvantages and rarely mentioned your advantages. You have things to bring to the table bro. Please don’t fall for the illusion that you’re not worth it, you are. You just need someone kind to help you a bit. I think it’s smart that you’re taking time to focus on yourself. I think you need to find out what beliefs that are making you a ac…
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:15 PM
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Keep going ☺️ trust me it gets better…if you need help on anything dating wise PM me.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:40 PM
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Not saying you’re stunted at all brotha…all I’m saying if you can please not misunderstand is that as you age, you gain this air of I’ve been there which tends to be found attractive by the opposite sex. My statement and intent is not to make any judgement or inference on you as a person, your game, your money etc. I only commented to help OP out I understand what he was going through and I’m encouraging him to keep going because it gets significantly better.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:17 PM
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Resources don’t necessarily only refer to financial resources…there are also emotional resources, spiritual resources etc. When you’re older, you’re just more certain of yourself which can yield to more success than before. However, I’m impressed you’ve done so well financially so young ☺️ and I wish you the best in dating. PM if you need tips or help.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:04 PM
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20s is tough on men for dating…it gets a lot easier with age as you develop more resources, life experience, and internal fortitude….I’m 32 and remember 26 not being the easiest. Best of luck friend ☺️
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:00 AM
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Usually if you don’t want something, your energy vibration goes from a wanting energy to a giving energy…when you’re in a giving state, more people will be attracted to you because you now have something to share.
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:16 PM
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No.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:56 PM
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Thank you for your response. You seem to understand my frustration
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:49 AM
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I understand how to pass them. As a matter of fact, I passed my ex's by breaking up with her...I'm just tired of it is all, I guess I just have to find a girl who's worth putting up with shit tests. I haven't thus far in my life....
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:21 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:37 PM
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I'm tired of the cycle man. I meet a girl then she's on her best behavior for like 6 months to a year, then when she thinks I'm comfortable and relaxed, the subtle texts occur and then I have no choice but to next her....maybe I'm only dating narcissists. I'm a 6'4 205 pound black dude who's into hotter white women in Los Angeles. Maybe if I dated black girls life would be easier, don't know. As for my last girl, I met her at a Bar in Venice. She's 24, blonde and I'm 29. Don't know how to send p…
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:16 PM
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My intentions were clear. I was in a relationship with the girl already. I made it known that I'll walk if I sense any sort of disrespect and she did it anyway, so I promptly broke it off. She's been begging to have me back so much so that I've blocked her on my phone and social media. I've slept with TONs of women, maybe in between 80 to 100 range, not sure. I don't care about that anymore. I want a beautiful girl who doesn't disrespect me consciously or subconsciously, is that too much to ask?…
/r/seduction21/06/19 09:33 PM
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Wtf is this?
/r/seduction21/06/19 09:25 PM
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Thanks for your comment man. My question is are there good looking girls out there with decent enough morals not to play these games. I'm willing to compromise on a lot of things just not my self respect. Am I just relegated to pump and dumps?
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:20 PM
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When a girl tests your boundaries for no apparent reason. Every girl I've dated has done this but it's anecdotal as I date prettier looking women.
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:52 PM
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I went the pad route a couple years back, it definitely helps especially if you're in your 20s
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:16 AM
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Don't get advice on pickup from a woman. They are often wrong. Please go through this sub and try to find any posts that I put up. I discuss online game...I have a good amount of experience on em.
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:02 AM
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Yeah, you can't really trust a chicks confessed stats
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:49 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/wQb1Ndp.png
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:48 PM
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I tend to find something specific about their profile that I could joke about...but if I can't find one, I open with my canned response. Example, when I get a match on Tinder I simply say, "My phone said you liked me?"
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:47 PM
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Lol thanks man.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:34 PM
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-I have a faceshot, professional pic a friend did for my LinkedIn - One with my friends in Havasu - One of my trip to London this summer - One with the TMZ guy (I ran into him at a bar)
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:32 PM
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You were doing well but you fell into the rookie move of overgaming. As soon as she said Musical Sex...you should've said, here's the plan, I've booked blah, blah, and we could meet up for drinks at x, how does that sound? For a virgin, your game is actually not bad, but you have to know when to go in for a kill. A girl that gives you her number from a dating site is already interested, skip the extra fluff and ask her out. Happy Hunting!
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:15 PM
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Tough logistics man...I guess if drinking isn't an option, take her go-carting, bowling...something active. It doesn't matter what you do as much as long as you can lead.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:40 PM
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Understandable...I like your firm stance on making them choose quickly. I actually just "fake" walked away from her and she apologized for bringing it up. I'm seeing her on Fri.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:32 PM
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It depends, if it's a passable shit test, I'll pass it and keep going but if she's being an asshole, I walk.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:28 PM
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Do they not have a fake ID...when I was your age and dating 20year olds, I did a wine and beach night. Pick up a cheap bottle of wine, a blanket, portable speaker and chill, drink, and mess around at the beach under the stars (chicks love that shit)....if hot enough, maybe some skinny dipping.. Now I don't know your logistics, I live in Cali. Do you have an apartment? Do you have roommates?
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:27 PM
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If by exclusives you mean a 10 at a bottle service at a club then you need money or some sort of high status...I'm not a Club guy, I can't spit game because she can't hear me and drinks are overpriced. Over here in LA, we have a ton of other options, lounges, bars with a dance floor, dive bars, sports.bar etc...Im not really interested in the Club exclusives because that world is all for show.. As for Latinas, man...
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:00 PM
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Since I realized this is sarcasm...here's the rest of the convo. https://imgur.com/a/IUKg2
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:47 PM
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I had a rough patch in 2016. Hinge is better than Tinde r for quality. However you're only limited to 10 likes a day on the free edition...whereas Tinder has a much larger pool.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:28 PM
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Lol I just matched with her on Hinge yesterday...the problem is I don't know who her roommate is..
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:29 PM
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When you are young and inexperienced, you can't fight that lust as much...the only other course of action is to use it. How can you use it, you ask? By always having or striving to have 2 chicks you're seeing at the same time. That satisfies the lust you have and diffuses your overeagerness as you have to be attentive to 2 chicks. And if you don't have the chance to have 2 yet, strive to. Having that mindset and striving towards it will help temper the excessive lust that a typical younger man h…
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:26 PM
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Lol thanks for the buy-in
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:18 PM
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I don't do it because of race, I'm genuinely attracted to white girls. I grew up in Africa as a kid so I never saw them so they were exotic to me when I moved to the States.
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:10 PM
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Sorry just saw this....this reddit thing is kinda cluttered, easy to miss messages. A shit test is anything a girl says or does to you to ascertain your value as a man. It's anything she does to try to wrestle the frame from you in an interaction. It's often subtle but can be over the top. Google shit test, you'll find a ton of info on it.
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:09 PM
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I get the purse clutching thing daily in the U.S. it's just something that we have to deal with. No way to overcome that. Good luck out there man, remember if things don't go as planned right away...we've all gone through it, the pain and frustration is a rite of passage.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:54 PM
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I like this one too...nice reframe
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:52 PM
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Agreed..100.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:51 PM
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Good for you 👌🏽
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:35 PM
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It turned out I've banged her roommate in the past...LA is a fucking small world at times 😂 This will be a giant hurdle to overcome, I'm open to tips on how to play this....
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:30 PM
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This is the best question thus far. FRAME IS EVERYTHING. In an average interaction, 99% of guys are feeding into a girls frame. Nothing turns a girl on more than you not supplicating to her frame. You can do this in 2 ways. 1) Ignore her frame completely 2) parry her frame and reframe to Your desired outcome. Example of shit tests and how I reframe them... Girl: I have a boyfriend Me: I have a goldfish...now that we are talking about unnecessary possessions Girl: Tell me about yourself Me: Befor…
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:19 PM
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I'm the 4th guy she slept with, she was 21...I had to teach her a shit ton about sex. 4 might seem like a lot but in LA, that's a good girl 😂
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:06 PM
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That's dope...I just can't live downtown. Bums, no parking, too many people... I live in a beach neighborhood on the outskirts of the city. But yeah your logistics is money. Living close to bar areas is like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:05 PM
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Precisely...You have game if you get this.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:03 PM
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Define socially awkward...if you completely are, then work on it. Start Talking To random people at grocery stores and in your every day life. The key to not being socially awkward, ask questions about other people, people love talking about themselves. Ex: you're at a grocery store, you look at the cashier and you say, "nice shirt, where did you get it from?" The cashier will open up like a book and tell you his life story. Work on social awkwardness by learning how to use questions to connect …
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:01 PM
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You have to take action. Pickup is one of those things that you have to actively work on...you've known about Game for 5 years and you've yet to approach? Also I get it man, it's wayyy tougher if you're not tall or good looking but you have to start somewhere and build upon it.... P.S at least in Germany, they love us darker skinned gentlemen so you might not be as disadvantaged as you think. My advice, start approaching Now!!! Start small convos, hell even talk about the weather, at this point …
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:57 PM
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The top quality woman thing is a fallacy....Game works on every girl, I repeat every girl...You just have to calibrate the game to fit the girl. My ex which I picked up purely from game is a Top Quality girl...HB8, Blonde, 3.9 GPA from UCLA, recent grad about to work for a large consulting firm, my parents would've loved her. They never met her, I couldn't let her. Again, the quality girls don't respond to game is a HUGE fallacy..matter of fact, game works best on quality women as they rarely en…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:53 PM
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I'm not sure brotha...I use my fbook for most dating apps
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:48 PM
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The thing about Bumble is while the chicks there are the highest quality..most are just window shopping and Bumble doesn't clean up their profiles, meaning if a chick signed up and used Bumble once 5 months ago, their profile is still on there as if they are active. On Hinge they are active... Also, another part that I hate about Bumble is chicks messaging 1st...that's hilarious to me. Women are indecisive, they don't know what to message, especially the hot ones. If you have the looks use Bumbl…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:47 PM
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To me it is....I had to drive out to her. The return on investment is too small
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:42 PM
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Yeah if you're white, tall and good looking...dating apps gives you an unfair advantage. As for why my opener was a 10, it's because I navigated the beta bait or thirst trap. A beta bait is when a chick posts a sexy pic of her hoping to gain attention.....most guys would probably comment "you have an amazing body"....once you compliment her on a thirst trap or beta bait, you're out. The correct response to a thirst trap or beta bait is to act like you're gonna give her attention and then divert …
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:40 PM
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Struck out with Croatian chick last night. Got a makeout but that's it 😣
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:31 PM
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Game gives you points whether you agree or not...Status is important as well but to refute your point, I banged the most top quality chicks in a period when I was unemployed...I didn't have money or status, I just had game and looks and they ate it up.... As for pickup gurus, I can give 2 fucks about them. I see RSD running their bootcamps at The Bungalow Hotel Bar in Santa Monica all the time and honestly, PUA gurus are mostly fake.....whatever I preach is grounded in reality as I'm out there i…
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:44 AM
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Just got back from a shitty date...Will update tomorrow. Gnight
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:23 AM
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It's only 745pm over here. G'night bro
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:45 AM
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Omw to a date with Croatian chick I met on Tinder but once in free, I'll elaborate
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:30 AM
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My opener was a 10. I'll explain why later
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:18 AM
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Agreed....110%
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:13 AM
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Thank you g
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:00 AM
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Will do
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:59 AM
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Yessir. It's all shit tests, I have a response for all of em.
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:58 AM
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Sorry I just saw the "doors to lock and purses to clutch" part...I hate that shit. Still deal with it today, it's unavoidable....I just try to ignore it.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:17 AM
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Yeah it wasn't my best attempt. I was too verbose, I run tighter game now.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:14 AM
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I was laughable at 17. You good.
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:21 PM
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You're right..but I'm skinnier and devoid of the world-class athlete appeal. However, my point is that game can up anyone's percentage points, it's all relative and everyone has different starting points.
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:07 PM
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I refrain from daytime dates...I'm a nighttime guy, always. Dimly lit, alcohol, a girl is much more comfortable. Coffee dates feels like an outing with a coworker.
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:58 PM
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Between the ages of 17-20, I could only get 6s and maybe 7s and that annoyed me....so I went out a shit ton and tried to pick up as many hot girls as possible, countless rejections later, I'm getting a bit better.
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:57 PM
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Yeah I got most of my better tips from the earlier Roissy blogs. Glad you're aware of em. Respect.
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:25 PM
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I go with one of my coworkers...but I mostly try to use it as a means to de-stress 3-4times a week...and I take pre-workout.
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:10 PM
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Yea I want to attach one pic to this message but can't figure out how lol
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:08 PM
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Cool. What would you consider as proof and how can i attach more pics to this message? 1st day on Reddit.
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:02 PM
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Yeah...no matter who you are, if you have the confidence to walk up to a girl and just have a regular convo with slight suggestive overtone...she'll be in to you. My favorite opener when I see 2 girls sitting and having a drink at a bar. I walk up, pull up a chair and say... "Sorry I'm late, got stuck in traffic at the 405, did you guys order me a drink yet 😏..." They laugh and I'm in the set. Works like a charm.
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:57 PM
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Thanks bro. Was it 9 mins?
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:50 PM
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Well I can't know what you might be struggling with without knowing any context (height, style etc) For me, I know a lot of blacks are seen as catcallers so I make sure to pattern my game with wit and some intelligence.....try to be unique.
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:49 PM
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Dude your batting average is solid man....good job. Rejections are par for the course, rejection is the armor that insulates the player for future battles. [As for your better looking homie, don't compare yourself to him. Compare yourself to your past and see the progress you've made. I'm not a fan of wings btw] As for direct game, it's a lower level game why? Chicks are inherently indirect. All their fights with each other are Sarcastic jabs done in an indirect manner. Their language is indirec…
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:17 PM
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Also don't forget to calibrate to the level of game you're at. Sometimes it's a slow process that you won't reap any rewards in the short run, there were years I would go months without sex but I wanted my dream girl so I didn't give up. If youre a novice, work on approaching/approach anxiety. Once you can approach girls with ease begin working on escalating quickly i.e. makeouts at bars. Once you can escalate, work on same night lays and banging them within 3 dates. Once you can do that escalat…
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:08 PM
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Thanks G
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:59 PM
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Thank you. I joined reddit today.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:51 PM
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I have a lot of experience bedding chicks. Don't know what an upvote is but thank you.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:47 PM
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We do bro and thank you
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:47 PM
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Game is essentially the art and science of communicating that you have another chick in your life whether it's reality or not. When a girl interacts with me, her thoughts are usually...man I wonder how many girls he's seeing. It's the art of hitting on a girl without her being sure that you are hitting on her. Guy with no game: walks up to a girl, "you have the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen, can I buy you a drink. Girl: Yeah sure <yawn> Guy with game: walks up to a girl, *sly smile and says…
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:45 PM
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Yes I do have a bit of that advantage...but it's not the only difference maker...I'm not jacked but athletic with abs, think Usain Bolts build.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:25 PM
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Hahah that's prolly lightweight for you but homie.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:24 PM
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Phenomenal and profound question...I'm driving right now do I'll break it down in about 30 mins.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:18 PM
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I say 15% of my hookups give me an initial shot for being black...but I can't stand those chicks..There's no fun in being fetishized, it feels like the girl can go fuck another black guy when we're done just because he's black. I prefer the ones who don't have a preference for black dudes as in general they are typically hotter. (The girl I posted, she's a principal at a charter school. Has never dated a black dude. Found her this morning on Hinge, taking her out on Fri.)
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:16 PM
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Full brother. Lol its weird. I'm the only tall one in my family, but it kinda makes sense since my mom is 5'8. Both of my brothers are 5'8 and my sis is 5'10. As for the ugly/looks thing, go listen to comedian Patrice Oneal, he's a hideous fat black comedian who dates good looking broads and he knows to some extent it's a mental game.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:10 PM
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My stats are pretty good, I'm in 80-120 range. I need game a lot, I didn't use to pull and failed miserably but I just kept learning, growth happens in stages and I'm still learning. In LA tons of black dudes game aggressively with no skill so when I approach a chick, she's already looking to count me out so I have to be different. I've slept with 2 or 3 chicks who confessed that they were weirded about blacks and black culture but there was something different about me...I didn't like those gir…
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:07 PM
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There's no convincing you brotha so best of luck, I'm here as a resource if you need text tips and such. Pro tip, my brother is 5ft 8, has a crooked nose that he broke during college soccer, not rich but slightly well off and his wife's a 10, maybe 9.5....shes so in love with him that she'll do anything for him. Game matters, I know it's a hard pill to swallow.
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:59 PM
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But you assume biological indicators can't be manipulated...or that biological indicators are only physical in nature. Girls fall in love mentally while guys do so physically. That's why if you're a charming jerk, you'll turn then on because you have the mental indicators that showcases biological success.
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:52 PM
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Ok it's a myth, there's no such thing as game or learned charisma :) As for your South African example--re: Nelson Mandela
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:45 PM
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Also like I said, wasn't my best... I was too wordy but I'll post a text chat of a girl that I've taken down once a day. My intention besides validation is to help men see that it can be done and some examples of how to do it. Hope you see value in this and future posts.
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:30 PM
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I banged her...dated her for 3 months and had to break up with her to get with my ex. She's still open if I want to rekindle the flame. ....I have more proof if you'd like.
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:24 PM
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Bro, I've seen it work...but it's totally up to you but don't knock something you've never tried. I personally know some ugly guys dating hotties. Also life's relative, if you're getting 2s, then learning game to get 5 is progress. Nothing is owed to you in life and it's up to you to improve if you'd like. Game matters sometimes just as much as money (Tiger Woods had money but no game and we see how he ended up). You have a harder challenge if you're average but tons of men in your shoes across …
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:21 PM
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Hinge requires Fbook verification as it pools targets from your social media and you can only do 10 matches a day...so your message with the 10 matches has to be personalized otherwise you're wasting time. I've yet to come across one bot on Hinge, POF on the other hand.....also I started gaming at 17, I had a fake ID though so I went to bars and clubs. Kudos on starting early and good luck sir!
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:00 PM
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Sorry I missed the part about sleeping with a bigger girl...I've slept with 4 bigger girls, they were all very pretty but just big. I was on a slump and undergoing depression when I was 25 so I took down as many chicks to fill a gaping hole. Go ahead and take down a fatty as long as you know that it's just a scrimmage for the real game, otherwise you won't be happy till you get the best that you can do within your means.
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:57 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:52 PM
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No I don't know what that is.
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:49 PM
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Now you need game, you have the foundation and awareness. If you're average, it goes like thus: 0-5: Be yourself and they'll probably bang you 6-7.5: Light cutesy neg with a slight jerk attitude (My sample openers for this group on dating apps: You look like the girl next door type sprinkled with an "I'll cut you" attitude.) 7.5-10: You gotta be an aloof, devil may care guy with massive amounts of wit. There's no other way. I can give you more openers but since I'm actively gaming, I don't want …
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:48 PM
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Yeah I've been jaded too...but past the jadedness is where the girls lie. I went thru the same, awareness to rage to jadedness to indifference (now you have the power) Best of luck man and I'll let you know if I do start that blog, I'm so bad at the internet that I don't even know how to start my own blog 😣
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:40 PM
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Brotha man! Always good to see another successful one of us...I might start a blog but my only fear is one of my previous conquests finding out. As for your comments on shit test. Never see shit tests as bullshit, it's an invite to a job interview. You can't avoid shit tests, every relationship or hookup I've been shit tested. It's a beautiful thing really. A shit test is a way for a girl to discern your true value, any guy can fake the funk, but a girl will find out soon enough by your reaction…
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:29 PM
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That's fine. Build from what you have, if you don't have looks, you'll have to find a way to gain irrational self confidence....1) look at chicks as silly and goofy because not to sound sexist, a lot are. 2) Use shit tests to your advantage...especially if you're ugly. Ex--A girl says "why are you talking to me?" Your reply-- "Its ok, my dashing good looks always makes girls nervous" and smile. She'll smile and lower her guard and then you can talk to her. Girls are not us, they'll date ugly dud…
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:02 PM
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The only one way to find out is to give it a shot. It pulls from Fbook and IG....you'll be fine, it's just an additional tool to your toolbelt.
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:49 PM
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Lol in that case, I'll post one but keep it casual..you're always trying to communicate lack of effort
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:48 PM
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I get that a lot but believe me I couldn't get laid before, I read every game resource and slowly improved bit by bit...everythings relative, if you're getting 4s now, with game you can get 7s...I taught a good friend who's slightly overweight, now he's getting 9s. Game is the ultimate equalizer.
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:47 PM
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Simple answer....reply "can I bring my probation officer?" She'll realize how ridiculous her request was and come solo. Very simple shit test to overcome
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:08 PM
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Cheers to your homie! Most of the chicks in LA speak sarcasm and thot.
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:03 PM
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1) Set the right context before you got the number. 2) Don't give your number too easily, make her feel like she earned it. 3) Text something non-sequitur...my favorite? A simple text - "tag, you're it.."
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:02 PM
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I don't know. I tried a relationship but I feel like it's hard to forgo variety, for me...till I meet a girl that blows me away, I'm gaming and improving. The girls that I can get today are way better than yesteryears, I enjoy growth!
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:55 PM
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80-120 range...now focusing on quality over quantity.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:50 PM
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I game in LA...your game has to be tight and fluid. A bad wing can ruin a set with being fidgety, awkward etc. It's definitely a shit test since LA is the land of everybody being connected, who's this "loser" flying solo..however, I often go out with homies but at times, if I'm with a homie, I'll go grab 2 chicks for us so he doesn't ruin it. I like Tomassi, Chateau is darker and cuts to the meat of the matter....feigned indifference, amused mastery etc.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:27 PM
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Completely free. Pulls chicks that are friends with friends on Facebook. High quality girls so wit/banter is needed.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:22 PM
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I only have one shirtless pic with friends in Havasu...multiple shirtless is a no-go, solo shirtless can also be a no-go unless it's funny/witty or you have a Greek Gods body.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:20 PM
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Lol I ain't that big...was bigger in college and got less chicks hah!
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:14 PM
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As for chateau heartiste...Google "the best of chateau heartiste on reddit" and someone has archived some of his best articles. You'll thank me later.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:13 PM
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I can be solo or with a wingman, doesn't matter much. I dislike wingmen though, their only purpose in my opinion is for when the girl asks "where are your friends?"--a classic shit test that if I'm solo and drunk might cause me to falter a bit.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:12 PM
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I've been in the game since I was 17. Started hardcore gaming when I was 20, so 8 years. Best resource thus far has been Chateau Heartiste blog posts before all the over the top alt-right posts.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:05 PM
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Hinge Dating app... the best so far. It can't be flooded with spambots and it's higher quality girls who are active.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:03 PM
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I'm not gonna lie. I'm 6'4, black and have an athletic/skinny build, I can bench 225....however, I still had to learn game since my choice target were white girls 8+, believe it or not for online dating, a black dude has to run airtight game or the girl could get scared off...it took me a while to learn to navigate HELLA shit tests...to me whether you're in shape or not, game can boost your average pickup points by at least 2/maybe 3 (example if you're used to a 5 hitting on you, with game you c…
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:50 PM
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I'm fairly new to Reddit and I'm not internet savvy at all but I'm a 28 y/old male. I've studied game and have had my successes and failures. I just broke up with my HB8 blonde girl last week and I'm hitting dating apps hard...I'm cleaning up thus far. I have tips for anyone that has questions...
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:06 PM
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