Blackmagician Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	3 dates and won’t do anything more than kiss This is exactly why you’re not getting sex; begging for sex and complaining other guys got it faster is a turnoff. Its either you like her enough to move at her pace for sex or you don’t. If you don’t then don’t be whiny about it, just move on to someone who wants to have sex faster.	/r/seduction	19/07/26 01:47 AM
0	Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up? Bad for your self-esteem and growth to be subjecting yourself to people you don’t find attractive. I can understand doing it once or twice to get out of a slump, but if you’re consistently dumpster diving…	/r/seduction	29/03/26 09:50 PM
1	Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see me Only invite her to your house. I’d straight up ask for fwb if she doesn’t want to date.	/r/seduction	28/08/25 08:17 PM
1	Sex with older man If it’s just sex or going on dates there’s nothing wrong with it. For a serious relationship the odds are stacked against you. In any relationship it’s nice for the two sides to be somewhat equal and that’s rarely possible for a teen or super early 20s. You hit a point in your 30s where the maturity and life experience difference is heavy and tangible and can put a damper on real connection. Outside of the sex a lot of things become one sided and it turns more into a caretaker/teacher role. Whic…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 05:16 PM
0	Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date? In front of my face? Never I'm 6 ft so I don't know what its like to be short, but I'd work out heavily if I were you. Best not to fight with randos but you can absolutely check people for disrespect. People are probably doing it because they think you're the type of guy who won't retaliate for disrespect. You don't have to physically retaliate but there should be a fear in people that you might.	/r/seduction	23/06/25 09:40 PM
1	Glasses in pickup Just get contacts. Especially if you’re self conscious about the glasses you may be unconsciously projecting lower value to both yourself and others.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 05:25 PM
11	any advice on how to better my chances with white women? Your problem isn't getting white women specifically it's just relatability. While race is tied into relatability and how easy it is to get someone to like you it's not the sole defining factor. If you were going for white women from your same country, town and culture it would be easy to relate to them, strike up a conversation and go from there. But if you're trying to go for girls in Hungary and they don't speak English it's the language that's the biggest barrier and not race. This is just a …	/r/seduction	07/07/22 11:58 AM
2	Too many incels overtaking the forum ? I hear you. It wouldn’t be bad to have a subreddit rule against doomer and black pill language.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 07:04 PM
5	Too many incels overtaking the forum ? It’s both too many incels and too many women giving bad advice. The incels at least you can hope to steer away from their problematic thoughts, better them coming here and getting a reality check than them congregating with other incels.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 06:21 PM
2	How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent? No even with written consent it’s not worth the potential trouble. She could give written consent at 1 am and then the alcohol hits her harder or she drinks more by the time you get there. You did the right thing. If this is a stranger, you’ve never been around them while drinking and you’ve never had sex with them you really don’t have an accurate way to judge how drunk she is. If she’s really interested you can try again later. If someone only wants to have sex with you while drunk then it’s a…	/r/seduction	18/06/22 01:59 PM
6	How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent? This is wrong and people need to stop repeating it. First and foremost(in the US) not all states laws are the same. Most of them are worded around being incapacitated. The issue and debate is what is incapacitated? Someone blacked out is definitely incapacitated, but barring that you don’t know people’s personal tolerance and you can think they’re not incapacitated when they are so it’s best to avoid situations like that of the OP. But to think that all sex with even a drop of alcohol is noncons…	/r/seduction	18/06/22 01:55 PM
1	casual heterosexual sex is most likely to be a negative experience for women who want to be happy That’s not meeting a one and only that’s making your relationship work and no relationship is guaranteed to work. You’re not guaranteed to find the person you’re going to spend your life with on the first try. That type of magical thinking is what destroys people’s lives or leads to toxic behaviors because they think there’s no point in living if they can’t have their “one and only”. The people you met who have been with each other for decades did they meet each other as virgins and not be with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 10:25 PM
2	casual heterosexual sex is most likely to be a negative experience for women who want to be happy It’s bad because there is no one and only. There is no special women. There are many special women and you may be missing out on experience and someone you would be truly compatible with because of an arbitrary rule. Unless you’re doing this for religious purposes just live man	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 09:56 PM
0	Your ideal partner should be like another version of yourself in standards Attraction isn’t symmetrical. I agree with some of your standards but some others aren’t universal and it’s simply not the way the world works. Things like job/place/hygiene most women will not overlook. But conversely if a guy is into you he’s not going to care much about your job or if you have a place, he’s not going to care if you have a sports car and in all actuality will probably be looking for the women who don’t have a sports car. For the bottom of the barrel attributes obese/broke/poor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 03:05 PM
4	"Kiss and fuck" You’re going to get some dude locked up. I say this as someone who doesn’t subscribe to the “you can’t give consent if you’ve had one drop of alcohol” ideology. Some of these dudes can barely tell when women are interested in them, much less be able to ascertain how drunk someone is. People hookup all the time when drunk contrary to what they teach on college campuses but the truth is we’re not human breathalyzers so you do have to approach the situation with caution. The girl passing out in his…	/r/seduction	26/05/22 02:29 PM
25	"Kiss and fuck" Yep, he navigated it correctly so far. The situation always varies in terms of intoxication and consent but the girl passing out in the bed makes me think he definitely made the right move not having sex with her. Even if she’s embarrassed if she likes him she’ll give it another go if he pursues.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 01:17 PM
4	If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her? I disagree, because of slut shaming women inherently know about sexual social dynamics within a group, even more than guys do. She was receiving attention from both guys and was probably eating it up all these months. This really comes down to accountability and her wanting to blame the guy for not making a move instead of being responsible for her actions. She could have just slept with a rando and still pursued this guy but she chose to sleep with his roommate out of all people.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 12:21 PM
9	If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her? Yes you were being selfish. You had a decision to make between being more forward with the person you really liked and fucking that guy’s roommate because you needed attention that night. Because of fear of rejection or whatever else you chose temporary pleasure over what you wanted to be a longer term thing. It sounds like you regret that choice but you have to live with the decision you made. Most guys abhor the idea of their girlfriend having slept with one of their friends even in the past. …	/r/seduction	26/05/22 12:04 PM
6	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? Yeah because that was an entirely different time period where women’s lives were devastated by divorce. People that are dreaming of the past are in for the rudest of awakenings. Your young virgin bride is going to take you to the cleaners in divorce court now when she realizes she never got to find herself lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 02:38 PM
2	Dating quality through ages Most people unless they're extremely ugly or their lives aren't put together will have options. The question at hand is will those options be the options that you want? That is going to depend on the specific individual. I believe most people are willing to accept options that are around their range. The ones who don't are self-selecting for a life of loneliness or frustration. These spaces attract a lot of people who can't get what they want and are upset that they're alone. With a lot of polis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 06:23 PM
3	Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us. I think a lot of these ideas are just basic acknowledgements of what goes on in society. From my short time here the disconnect in a lot of these arguments stems from guys mad that women don't care that it's unfair and there's no amount of arguing that is going to get them to care. What are you going to do about it? The reason that many people equate RP with !nc3l ideology is because many people who say they believe in RP(on this forum) are whiny. Guys who don't frame their worldview through a p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 04:31 PM
0	Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating. I’m sorry but this is just ridiculous. What is more damaging, going through hearing no or remaining single for the rest of your life? Life is about progressing past temporary failures. There is no factor of your life where you will get automatic yesses without working for it. Out of those 100 women how many are taken, how many are having a bad day, how many are single but have a guy they’re currently interested in, how many of them their grandmother just died? I can already tell your problem fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 02:30 PM
7	single guys, do you spend time with girls you're not attracted to? I have one female friend that I consider to be a true friend, the rest are acquaintances. We don’t hang but once in blue moon but we text a lot and sometimes call if we want to pick the other’s brain about a gendered question or life update. I’m open to female friends but in the past it’s been messy if we were really close. And I think others have been disqualified out of the friend role because women tend to require more upkeep and ask for more than guy friends do. The reciprocal value most of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:19 AM
1	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? It’s the reading comprehension that’s your problem. You asked how sex can be used as a weapon like it’s some incredulous idea and for some reason you took the answer super personally. It’s a form of emotional abuse if people use it in a specific way to control. You took me saying it can be used as a weapon as saying anytime someone turns down sex for any reason its abuse. It’s not my fault your comprehension was off. I even said from the beginning it’s a signal of an unhealthy relationship that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:55 AM
1	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? Nope, if your partner tells you they’d like more hugs and you purposefully don’t give them hugs to control them that’s not manipulation because it’s your body. Oh yeah and if you say they’re abusive for doing that or choose to walk away you should check your “entitlement” /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:47 AM
1	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? Yawn Reading comprehension is a good thing, try it sometime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:38 AM
3	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? The crux of this is their poor comprehension. I specifically said “there are people” aka some people who ration sex for compliance. They took that as any time you deny sex for any reason you’re automatically an abuser. It’s either poor reading comprehension or they’ve been abusive this way and there’s some cognitive dissonance going on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:35 AM
2	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? My opinion of your logic is not a deflection. It’s my fucking opinion People's terrible opinions don't negate fact, sorry. People use withholding sex as a weapon and it's emotional abuse. That you can't understand that just makes me think of people who don't understand consent or refuse to accept it because it's something they've violated in the past. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/k2atjp/why_is_withholding_sex_a_form_of_abuse/ https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifyin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:27 AM
2	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? You're deflecting right now by trying to claim I'm entitled for saying people should walk away if they're being manipulated, bruh. I'm not trying to convince you I'm stating a fact, you can close your ears and cover your eyes but it doesn't change that it's fact. We're talking about a specific situation, purposefully withholding intimacy whether it's warmth, a hug, sex, w/e in order to manipulate someone. That is textbook emotional manipulation and it's sadly far too excused. https://themendproj…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:02 AM
3	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? Exactly. Emotional abuse and manipulation are far too commonly accepted behaviors in our society. Withholding intimacy is just one of the common ones I see people try to justify because they've done it and don't want to see themselves as a manipulator. In a healthy relationship none of that is going on because there's communication about needs. But for toxic people I can see how they can rationalize withholding affection if it's giving them control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 04:32 AM
1	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? Do you know what deflecting means? All I did was repeat what I said over again for the second time Yes and it's still a deflection because you asked a question but can't accept the answer. If someone is being purposefully manipulative with money, affection, hugs, w/e. It is abusive. Purposefully withholding affection is a textbook definition of emotional abuse. Giving a hug is a personal choice because it's my body, that has nothing to do with me witholding them to control a partner's behavior. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 04:21 AM
2	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? Here we go with another deflection. You asked how sex can be used as a weapon and you got an explanation for how it can be used as a weapon. Enacting a reward/punishment system using sex is manipulation. That's a fact, it's abusive behavior. Your continuously spouting the obvious doesn't change it being abusive behavior. If my partner likes hugs and I'm purposefully rationing hugs just to get compliance from them I don't get to retort "You're not entitled to my body" like it's some moral high gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 03:30 AM
0	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? No one is owed good treatment. You're not entitled to anyone else's actions. The only thing you can control in your life are yourself and your standards. That means you walk away from people who are abusing you or purposefully using manipulation. It's absurd to try to justify people using manipulative behaviors in the context of a relationship. If you're using sex specifically to try to control someone's behavior or as a reward/punishment system then the entire relationship needs to be reevaluat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 02:51 AM
6	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? Your question is like asking how emotional abuse can be used as weapon. There are people who purposefully ration sex for compliance. They can be in the mood and deny themselves and you as a form of control. Now obviously that is an unhealthy relationship that someone should exit if they identify that as a behavior, but it's what some do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 02:12 AM
0	Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating. What exactly is the problem with this, something so hard so you give up? Even for naturals it’s still a numbers game, some people may have better odds than others but they’re not getting automatic yesses from from every single person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 11:27 PM
1	Paying for sex, am I a loser? Got it, take whatever obvious personal baggage you’re carrying and go troll somewhere else.	/r/seduction	28/04/22 08:23 AM
1	Paying for sex, am I a loser? He’s 23.. He was trying to lose his virginity out of desperation. Which is fine and dandy. However a 23 year old consistently paying for sexual encounters and not organically talking to women is going to hurt him long term. Whether he’s looking for sex or a relationship right now you’re giving terrible advice by encouraging this behavior. Because he’s never getting true interactions with women whether it’s long term or short. Why be on a sub dedicated to self improvement in order to get women an…	/r/seduction	27/04/22 10:59 PM
1	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing Get you someone who is on the same page as you. It definitely can be done	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 10:55 PM
2	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing Get you someone who can understand your love of nesquik	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 10:54 PM
3	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing I'm new here, yall mean lol. Earlier someone accused me of sympathizing with incel behavior and I'm like wait, I don't know nobody here. Let me come in with my innocent nonjudgmental eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 08:29 PM
6	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing Technically, your criticism applies to all studies, even those in high regards. Everyone can bullshit their results and you wouldn't know. That's why I "stupidly" relied on quantity. It doesn't. Because studies held in high regard are reproducible in terms of data gathered and argument made. There literally isn't enough evidence here and the stuff that is here is pretty shoddy. There are ways in which we can seek to get accuracy in studies, multiple studies can even conflict but the entire goal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 08:22 PM
6	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing So all of them were in Minnesota? Yikes. Just learn what reliable data is so you don't make yourself look silly having to defend poorly put together articles. Well duh. It's an article, not a peer reviewed site. I would think that's obvious. This has a "science" flare and you're trying to make a point that's not actually supported by what you posted. When people questioned the accuracy you went on a tirade. Do better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 08:00 PM
5	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing No, because they're not offering enough areas. If we saw for example the same thing(generally) in Hennepin County, Minnesota and New York City and Chicago and Nashville, across a much wider set of people then the claim would be stronger. For something to be accepted as scientific data it has to be something that is reproducible among enough people and enough areas. You could make a claim for instance from the data that divorce in Hennepin County is a result of the men refusing to milk the cows a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 07:58 PM
20	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing That's what I would be leaning towards as well. We live in a unique time period where women aren't reliant on and are even exceeding men if they have the ability and drive. Outside of social tradition there's no reason for them to stay in marriages they don't deem benefit them financially or emotionally. I believe there is a bit of cognitive dissonance that is leading people to wind up alone. Whether men will have to step up to fill additional roles to secure partnerships or women will have to a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 07:37 PM
4	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing Only thing that article is missing a study on polyamorous, vegan, furry couples who live in Alaska and are divorcing. Because that surely is strong evidence that applies to national trends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 07:20 PM
9	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing Another one of their studies is taken specifically from 886 people in one particular county in Minnesota... Another one geared towards people in their 50s, twenty years ago... This stuff is like basic college 101 level stuff to identify whether something is credible or not to an argument. Just reading the abstracts alone is enough to know it's a hard sell to make these arguments as scientific or even a compelling arguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 07:16 PM
9	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing What's so different about marriages now that the studies from 2000 to 2013 can't apply? You don't think our society has shifted massively in the last 20 years? You don't think the things people want and accept from their partners now are massively different? Especially when we're going to the extremes of 70 year olds who have completely different societal makeup, attitudes, and economic realities? Thank goodness they also referenced a study with 1,000 people and it showed similar results to the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 07:11 PM
13	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing I would call analyzing multiple studies on the topic pretty comprehensive It's really not when you look at the age and exactly what those studies were researching. It's referencing to other sources and the one with people 52 comes from the most reliable source Yes it's referencing other sources but I'm saying those aren't even entirely conclusive and some of them have extremely outdated data. The AARP source is geared for people 50+ and it came out in 2004, those people are in their 70s now. I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 06:46 PM
2	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates I have a decent sample size as I'm the youngest child and I have a lot of nieces and nephews from my siblings. So I've found that the middle school>early college years are comfortable with snapchat with a hard turn to instagram sometime during college. After that it's seen as weird to still be on snap. The girls catch on much faster than the boys and I'd be willing to bet the person who said the above quote is a young girl haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:54 PM
48	Multiple American Surveys show common factors leading to divorce: Lack Of Commitment, Adultery, and Constant Arguing I don't agree with the idea that women are divorcing men for ego or hypergamy reasons but I don't think there has been any real comprehensive study on the reasons why people are divorcing at a high rate currently. A lot of this article is referencing really old surveys and some with as little as 52 people. I wouldn't say this article is a reliable source as it's basically thrown together just to promote divorce services. They did the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:48 PM
1	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates They may be using snapchat as it's more casual. It's almost a requirement at this point and I'm trying to impress this on my 20 year old nephew to save him the headache later on. His sister is younger than him and she already gets it. I think a lot of the younger boys that age don't see the value in social media so older dudes are the ones sliding in the DMs of girls that age if the boys around them are not adept enough to realize that's the game now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:35 PM
2	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Can you point out where I've sympathized with an incel? Me saying something is a fact isn't sympathizing, it's simply stating that it's a correct fact. Maybe you have some history with the poster and have info that I don't know but regardless of if they're an incel or not it's a correct fact. What they choose to do or how they take that fact is none of my concern, it's correct whether it's coming from a shitty person or not. I don't know what's up with the rage but good luck with that fam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:27 PM
4	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Can you point out where I've complained? I'm just saying what people are saying is basic fact. It's not a good thing or a bad thing imo, it just is. Is everything okay with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:19 PM
3	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates You realize approach isn't just cold approach right? You'd do far better at actually analyzing what people are saying instead of jumping to misinterpretations. verb "speak to (someone) for the first time about something, typically with a proposal or request.". If you're at a party and someone asks you if you want to dance that's an approach. Anytime two strangers interact with each other to show romantic interest that's an approach and in western society men are the ones primarily responsible fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:15 PM
5	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Younger people judge follower count, whether you follow more or have more followers and who you're following(as a way to keep tabs on you if it's a smaller social circle). I'm a middle millennial and I don't think some people even slightly older than me understand how much instagram and snap are used as dating apps. It's just as relevant as Hinge/Bumble/Tinder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:00 PM
5	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates Women don’t want to be approached I thought you were trolling above before but maybe you just have an extreme differing view than the general population. Most women prefer men to initiate, whether that's talking to them on the street, party, club, DM on an app w/e. If you don't understand this basic fact you're living in an alternate reality. No one said women have it "easier in life" that's a strawman you're making up because you misinterpreted what the person you were replying to was saying. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 04:42 PM
2	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates It's not at all. Social media especially for the younger generation is far more important to dating and "social proof" than ever before. For a lot of people social media is their version of Tinder/Hinge/Bumble. Snapchat/Instagram is given out instead of phone numbers for a lot of people you're even meeting in the wild now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 04:34 PM
7	The More Popular You Are, The Easier it is To Get Dates They absolutely have it easier. You can take the same level of attractiveness man and woman, put them in the same situation and the woman will get more eyes, attention and potential dates. Whether it's an average girl on social media who is getting way more followers, DMs and likes on her pics. Or it's a handsome guy/beautiful girl working at target. In either case the woman is getting more attention and actual approaches. This is simply established fact that's why he's asking if you're trolling…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 04:29 PM
1	Do people genuinely think only women “hit the wall?” Across a spectrum of ages as things change between ages. So everyone I've seen has their own definition so I'll just give my own. I view desirability as a combination of attractiveness, intelligence and compatibility. The common way I see a lot of people refer to it is mostly attractiveness and compatibility. There is a gendered difference in that ratio between men and women though. Most men will prioritize attractiveness over compatibility, women don't tend to prioritize looks over compatibilit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 03:59 PM
0	Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives? If we’re talking about prudish because of moral/religious reasons then we’re not discussing sex in terms of pleasure. Sex is more about procreation and establishing mates for the society, not for fun. And if we’re talking about sex in those terms it’s less about if the sex is satisfying and more about if the overall quality of life is satisfying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 03:11 PM
1	Do people genuinely think only women “hit the wall?” There have been studies that have shown male desirability peaks even at older ages like 50. Because of social dynamics men get away with more even as their bodies start to age. For both biological and social reasons it’s always been acceptable and maybe even pushed for women to seek men older than them. If we’re just talking raw physical then two people taking care of their body will mostly age at a similar rate. There can be some differences like men having more collagen and thicker skin which …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 02:55 PM
35	A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating apps Don’t let women you’re not dating use you as an emotional tampon. Women often just want to vent, they don’t want actual help with fixing the problem. So if you’ve correctly identified they want to complain about the same thing over and over without learning then you’re doing the right thing by brushing it off.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 02:32 PM
2	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? Be authentic and let them know you’ve given up drinks for a while but don’t mind if they do. Sip on a virgin drink though and not just watch them drink. Only way it will feel like a weird vibe is if it goes from one drink to maybe a couple if the person is a complete stranger. Safety issues may start to creep up in their mind as we’re designed for reciprocation and whether they admit it or not you not mirroring will cause you to lose “points” that you’ll have to gain in other areas. Once people …	/r/seduction	26/04/22 11:08 AM
5	Trying to seduce someone feels like manipulation Life is a series of small and big “manipulations” as you call it. What you really mean is a performance. If you’re interested in sociology read something like Goffman’s The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life or get a YouTube distillation. We are all performing when we’re out in the world. No one is perfect and when you meet the right women they will not expect you to be perfect all the time. You just have to be trying your best. When women wear makeup to look better or flip their hair or stan…	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:58 AM
0	Paying for sex, am I a loser? And now you’re older and given up you’re encouraging a 23 year old to give up before he’s even began. Great move. Again if you think just paying for sex is the end all be all why are you on this sub?	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:45 AM
0	Paying for sex, am I a loser? Sub is doomed	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:34 AM
0	Paying for sex, am I a loser? Why are you on this sub if you believe men should just pay and not go after women organically?	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:34 AM
2	Paying for sex, am I a loser? Yep, miss the olden days and community.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:32 AM
1	Paying for sex, am I a loser? Don’t get used to paying for it as you’ll be shelling out for more than porn, missing the intimacy of someone who actually cares about you and you’ll never want to try if you can just get it on demand by paying.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:31 AM
3	Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt? Bingo. This is the game, if you tell a woman you just want to fuck you’re eliminating yourself from a significantly large pool of women. Most women do not want to hear I just want to use you for the night, it eliminates the adventure aspect for them. You have to go into it both not making any promises and being aware of the people that really equate sex with being committed to them. White lies are fine except for those who are truly vulnerable.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 08:19 PM
1	Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt? Be honest. If you’re the type of person to feel guilty over a lie then stick with your integrity as that’s ultimately more important than a one night lay. It’s part of the game and society to at least act like the possibility may be there of something more. I’d maneuver as usual and if sex is about to happen I’d stop and tell her that I’m not looking for anything too serious and I don’t want to let her down. She may be so horny herself that she doesn’t care and any consequences thereafter is her…	/r/seduction	24/04/22 08:12 PM
0	Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop? No means no. Have some self respect for yourself, she told you no and your ego is so hurt that you can’t take it. You already know the truth of this situation, you’ve said it yourself plain as day.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 08:24 PM
2	Tinder’s Algorithm is a scam It’s tied to your phone number/pictures/Facebook account. Even when you delete your account and immediately restart they know it’s still you. The real way to foolproof restart your account is to delete profile and stay off of it for 3 months because they delete your data then. Or get a new phone and use new/modified pics.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 05:03 PM
6	I’m now starting to realize why you not text too long before meeting You're playing into absolutes. There are plenty of people who are horrible or dry texters and they can't convey themselves over text enough to interest someone. There are plenty of women who may have attraction to you but they have 5 guys in their orbit and you're just not number 1. There are times where you are number 1 but you sit and text for too long, someone else moves up and replaces you as the one with most interest or they push for a date while you're still texting. Your last point is ag…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 06:02 PM
1	Just a reminder to not simp No, they were basically the posterchild for having an open-marriage and Will Smith not really liking women. It's been an open secret for a long time. It doesn't matter because it is simping no matter what. He could be completely disinterested in her sexually and still love her, view her as his partner, the mother of his children and have loyalty to her. Sex doesn't matter in this equation, only her power over his feelings.	/r/seduction	30/03/22 05:39 PM
4	Just a reminder to not simp I've heard the same thing for a long time now, maybe even decades ago before all of this was aired out, you guys who just are hearing this a year or two ago around the red table talk thing are late. Ultimately I don't think his sexuality matters. Whether he's gay, bi or whatever he clearly loves this woman and views her as his partner. Enough so that the table talk situation brought him to tears and he felt like he had to slap somebody to defend his marriage and reputation. This isn't a situatio…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 05:19 PM
11	Just a reminder to not simp I don't think he's gay and I don't think he was okay with what happened with August Alsina. This is a man who probably just loves his wife way more than she loves him. I don't even think I really have a problem with him defending her or getting into trouble for her, it's just that she doesn't seem like she has that same energy for him.	/r/seduction	30/03/22 04:56 PM
38	Just a reminder to not simp What are you even talking about? This is inner game and a very valuable lesson. If a woman in your life is publicly embarrassing you, or even making you feel that you have to resort to violence to be worthy of them then your self-perception is extremely low. There's no better lesson to hammer home right now. Because there's no difference between Will Smith with all the success that he has and the normal guy who gets himself locked up or loses everything he has because he's trying to supplicate t…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 04:45 PM
1	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? I hear you as well. You seem like a good dude and it might just be my morbid take on the world but a lot of good dudes don't see or understand a lot of the fuckery other people are doing. We can sometimes want to see the world for how we think it should be and not readily see what's actually going on. Before this sub turned to shit one of it's core tenets was don't pedestalize women, give them the same humanity and discernment that you give to other men so that you see them clearly. As you point…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 04:27 PM
1	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? I also don't think I'm built for a straight polyamory lifestyle, but in the past I've been okay with girlfriends seeing other women for fun while I was seeing other women for fun. I just don't think I can handle strong emotional ties or connections that they try to promote in polyamory. For f&f the type of girls that they're after and mainly promote, those girls really don't care about them being short or unattractive, it's the lifestyle and status. In all aspects of life people settle and put s…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 04:03 PM
1	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? There are plenty of “real” women who do respect themselves who do. Let’s not invalidate women as being doormats because they make a choice you don’t agree with. These types of posts everyone tries to put their own morality on other people and ignore the facts of what’s actually going on in this world . The world isn’t black and white, there are going to be some women who it’s a deal breaker for, some women who don’t care as long as it’s not in their face and some women who straight don’t give af…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 03:19 PM
2	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? I think a lot of people are misunderstanding the take. What they’re saying does not apply to the average person. It does not apply to the majority of people reading this post. For the average person infidelity will never be accepted, because women will feel like they have other viable options and they’ll give you hell for it or leave. Now if you’re talking about someone super successful or a millionaire? There are plenty of women who will put up with it because they’re not willing to let their l…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 02:47 PM
1	if young men in US are having sex 3x less than they were a decade ago but female rate has stayed the same, how are we supposed to believe there’s any hope for us?? Less competition if you’re one of the ones who don’t give up. If you’re a teen or early 20s it probably seems hopeless but it becomes much easier as you age and work on yourself. Giving up now just means you’re fucking yourself over in the present and giving up on future you.	/r/seduction	03/01/22 03:46 AM
1	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Did you go to college? That’s part of the experience, if he’s a virgin and nuts in 10 seconds then let him nut in 10 seconds. You’re giving him awful advice that would cause him to talk his way out of the pussy. Make a move and be assertive. Be the leader and don’t expect the girl to guide you, especially when she may not be extremely experienced herself. Now you have two inexperienced people twiddling their thumbs and feeling awkward af after he asks her to “guide him”. Stop it man.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 04:31 AM
2	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm It will come off as the total opposite of confident. These are college age young people. Him telling her he’s inexperienced is just going to make him look like a weirdo as it’s plenty of people’s first experiences and they’re navigating the newness. No need to make the situation awkward af.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 04:21 AM
1	[deleted by user] You still sugar daddying for this girl who let you hit once?	/r/seduction	01/11/21 04:55 AM
3	[deleted by user] I think I'm using her to get thru this rough patch. (She doesn't know that) The truth shall set you free, because she's not the one getting used. It's some other guy out there that's blowing her back out and not waiting multiple dates and $2k trips to do so. My criticism is not you spending the money, it's you deluding yourself as to what this arrangement actually is. You believe that she's the best you can do right now so you're willing to spend to sustain that. If you have to take a girl on tr…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 12:27 AM
2	[deleted by user] You're falling for the bs. He may not be going into the negatives, but anyone who can drop $2k like it's nothing isn't going to be asking for advice on whether he should spend it or not and isn't going to ask the girl if she can cover it. This is a textbook case of neediness. He's went on a bunch of dates with her, had sex once and it blew his mind. So much so that he believes having sex with her again will keep him happy all the way until next year. He's older, freshly divorced and obviously do…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 12:15 AM
2	[deleted by user] Good luck with your future simping and sugar daddy lifestyle. You've had a plethora of advice telling you not to do it, but I realize you might be in a place emotionally where you'll take whatever crumbs you can get it, even if it comes with a price tag. Dont you need a few dates before fucking. I shared that we have been together on a few dates. No you don't, if you were on this sub in better days you would have realized that for someone that age multiple dates throughout a month and sex only o…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 11:57 PM
3	[deleted by user] I'm pretty sure I saw a comment from you saying you're putting it on your card=debt. If 2k was nothing to you then you wouldn't be here making a post asking for advice, it's not a negligible amount of money. Simp is getting no pussy and spending money on her. Agreed No, not agreed. What you're doing is simping, you have a post from last month talking about this same younger girl and in that month's time you've only fucked her once. You fucked this girl one time after multiple dates and you're no…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 11:11 PM
6	[deleted by user] This sub is completely dead, the simps have taken over. Going 2k in debt just for some pussy is being upvoted… This topic has nothing to do with game and has fully entered into the realm of simping and prostitution. You are 100% in sugar Daddy territory if you do this. If you’re willing to put 2k on a credit card for sex because that is exactly what this situation is then at least be honest with yourself about it. You’re going to end up continuing this behavior and buying gifts for the girl’s at…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 10:05 PM
2	How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating? This sub has gone to shit over the years because people are taking advice from self-described incels and people who are new to game that think they know everything. It's the blind leading the blind. The topic at hand is someone who has only been on one date in his life and is admitting he has no idea where to start. If he's scared to talk to people in a bookstore and thinks its a bad idea to approach people on campus then telling him to just ignore that and do it is bad advice. He's not socially…	/r/seduction	15/09/21 04:10 PM
4	How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating? That’s on the assumption that his campus is big enough. You could be right I could be wrong. However for a PHD program that he most likely busted his ass to get into and is spending a pretty penny it’s not worth the potential trouble. This is specifically for cold approach as well not trying to meet people through student social circles. For an average person I’d generally think it’s not a big deal. But he self describes as a beginner and even he admits he doubts approaching students is a good l…	/r/seduction	15/09/21 03:29 PM
-2	How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating? I’d actually disagree with this and say he should be cautious. He’s a PHD candidate and admittedly has not been successful at dating. Depending on if his inexperience translates into awkwardness it would not be a great thing for him to be known on campus as the weird guy hitting on women if his cold approaches don’t go well. Not worth risking his slot in a PHD program.	/r/seduction	15/09/21 03:10 PM
9	Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do? It’s not about morals. Or at least that’s not where I’m coming from. It’s about social status in his friend group. The girl chose him for the same reason that he’s coming and asking for advice, she saw him as someone who didn’t know a lot who she could rope into her messiness. It gets even worse if she was just flirting with him with no intentions of actually having sex. He makes a serious move, she shuts it down and now he’s known as the creep in their friend group. No matter how “fun” it would…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 03:28 PM
19	Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do? I can tell you’re socially inept so try to learn some things. They all know each other, it will come out that he had sex with her and knew she had a boyfriend. If she stays with the boyfriend OP will get the blame instead of the girl who initiated the flirting, from that point on any other women in the social group will not help him get other girls or be an active hindrance. You’re talking about clicking with her and losing out because your numbers are probably low. There are millions of women o…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 03:12 PM
31	Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do? No he should listen. They’re in the same social circle and it could cost him more girls in the future. Never shit where you eat. Anyone that has to come here and ask for advice isn’t socially calibrated enough to weather the shitstorm that will come after. Stop encouraging desperation.	/r/seduction	06/09/21 03:00 PM
3	Success rate with women skyrocketed as soon as I moved up north. Does location have that much to do with it? Big thing to note is that areas like nyc have a much larger mix of people from all around the country and world. So you're dealing with people from Ny, Georgia, Virginia, Texas, Boston. In essence it's a numbers and variety thing.	/r/seduction	04/03/18 12:57 PM
1	just found this dude - some good daygame infields and instant date infields "Lucifer son of the morning I'm going to chase you out of earth"	/r/seduction	23/04/16 02:55 PM
1	How should I go from kissing to sex? You're being downvoted because you're trying to equate his inexperience with being gross and him being a sex offender. Your advice was good but you don't need the unnecessary damning labels, especially when we don't know much about the situation. As the other person who replied said, some women really are passive. As you said it's bad with some women because going cold or being quiet means something is wrong. The thing is we don't know which it is with the scant information provided to us. I wou…	/r/seduction	17/02/16 08:34 PM
1	Underestimating friendship Did you even read that link and the responses? People were getting on him for potentially pursuing something physical with a woman with a boyfriend. I've never seen people on this sub advocate not being friends with women. What people have said is that trying to be friends with someone that you really like is a no go.	/r/seduction	27/01/16 04:43 PM
2	Facebook friend, tinder girl Sounds like you do have oneitis. If she matches with you on tinder definitely hit her up. Outside of that I wouldn't put too much stock in it.	/r/seduction	04/01/16 03:23 PM
2	Running game on black girls. How is it different ? It depends on where you live. I'd say for Black women especially in urban areas you might have to differ the way you approach a tiny bit. Any black girl in a city has been mercilessly hounded by black guys to the point where most approaches are annoying to them. If you come off as genuine and confident with a smile I'd say it's not much different than any other girl. Just have to disarm the shield a bit.	/r/seduction	01/11/15 03:10 PM
1	I've had to tell 6 girls to go get tested for STDs in the past three weeks, four so far are positive. Always wear a condom from the beginning of sex, you big sluts. Good luck with that	/r/seduction	28/05/15 01:03 AM
2	Should I do this? You should have joined even if it was playing with the bisexual one. Lesbian may not have gone for it but you could have both been playing with the bisexual girl.	/r/seduction	24/04/15 12:22 AM
36	my TEN COMMANDMENTS of seddit.... You're going to get a lot of shit for the "my sisters taught me about a pussy orgasm but some solid stuff otherwise.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 09:50 AM
2	Would you be interested in an AMA with Honest Signalz? Your youtube videos are very entertaining and informative. I'd be interested.	/r/seduction	23/08/14 03:34 AM
2	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche "In the real world the guy who is better at beating your fucking ass says whatever the fuck he wants and the other dude backs down" Make up your mind dude, either this is true or false. I saw someone clearly backing down in the video.	/r/seduction	01/02/14 02:04 AM
2	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche You honestly believe the skinny effeminate guy is the type of person going around knocking people's teeth out? "In the real world the guy who is better at beating your fucking ass says whatever the fuck he wants and the other dude backs down" Yet you can't believe what happened here with the smaller guy backing down?	/r/seduction	01/02/14 12:26 AM
3	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche You can have an opinion. Recognize when your opinion might be biased. I don't say "Black people act ghetto" and follow it up by saying it's just my opinion and it's valid, it doesn't work that way. Examine why you think he's douchey, examine why the guy in the video called Tyler douchey in the first place. You and the guy in the video aren't thinking objectively, it's a very subjective opinion. How are two people having fun and not bothering you douchey? Was Tyler being called a douche for haras…	/r/seduction	31/01/14 10:33 PM
4	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche Exactly, hell of a guilty conscience sobes must have.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 08:43 PM
3	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche Exactly, he has the white knight mentality so I'm sure the video struck a chord somewhere in his heart and he felt like it was an attack on himself. White knight mentality=victim mentality. Even when you blatantly bully others you can still twist it to make yourself the hero or the underdog in the situation.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 08:38 PM
3	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche Your problem is exactly the guy's problem in the video. You said "I totally agree that the guy was being a douche and there is nothing wrong with thinking that" which means you are looking at this under the lens that Tyler was doing something wrong so the guy was justified in feeling Tyler was a douche. What the video is saying is to examine why people think and do these things. Tyler's method in the vid might have been over the top for me, but I would never judge someone for expressing themselv…	/r/seduction	31/01/14 08:34 PM
5	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche The guy who antagonized him in the first place could have gotten his ass kicked, you're defending someone who went out of his way to start something with a stranger. Seriously, what's your point, the video was to educate people about the mentalities people have, even the mentality that people learning may have. It's an incredibly rude thing to equate people having fun as anti-social behavior and even more incredibly rude to try to call someone out, shame then, then insult them for having fun. Th…	/r/seduction	31/01/14 07:01 PM