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What are you talking about, subs like askwomen and 2X assure everyone they're dating "husky" and "corn fed" men. But weirdly there's never any phones supporting those assumptions...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:14 AM
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A crime that only men could ever be victims of? Of course society and feminism will unite to ignore this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:50 PM
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You're being very transphobic and I don't appreciate it. And of course you follow the typical cis method of trying to attack a person directly when they prove you wrong. I live my life according to my feelings and maybe it's unusual for YOU. But YOU don't get to tell ME how to live MY life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:52 PM
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I saw a woman comment on here that being allowed to sit on the couch and watch Netflix (note NOT Netflix n Chill) was supposed to be an award for being a good man. Wow... its a real mystery why Billy Beta Bux is pissed off that doing everything to be a good guy gives him platonic movie night while the asshole Chad who degrades women get's to hit it and quit it with near impunity. Of course Chad doesn't have a 1,000,000 karma reddit account so Billy can have that on him!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:45 PM
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They did, and after Russia invaded Ukraine IMMEDIATELY got silent and have never spoken about it since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:42 PM
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Maybe they're just trying to give advice during the refractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:08 AM
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Imagine thinking Redditors were anywhere near the top of the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:48 PM
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Redpill just gives the advice to not waste time, make intentions known early and cut losses quickly to move on if things aren't aligned. Sure they might lose out on a hook up here and there, but for most men it's a numbers game and moving on from lost causes quickly is in their benefit. Men don't benefit like women do from dating, its primarily a time and money investment for them, so minimizing investment is to their advantage while dragging things out only benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:18 PM
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Are we talking 3rd wave feminism for true equality or 4th wave feminism that advocates for putting men in camps?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:05 PM
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Feminists are just women who get bitter when their time as the most pursued demographic ends. I remember being that teen to young 20s woman and as long as it was HOT guys hitting on me it was wonderful. Its only when those HOT guys move on to younger demographics and you're left with the meh guys that it gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:10 PM
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I think it's a fair complaint for men because it's simply something no woman will have to deal with. I can 100% go get laid tonight if I accept it might be with a mediocre looking guy, a model male has a good chance of getting laid but it's never a guarantee. The supply and demand just forever favors women and too many of us refuse to at least acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:11 PM
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I only slept with people I was at least exclusively talking to. Was friends with my husband first and just 1 night, things changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:15 PM
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Believe it or not, kids don't need a big birthday bash when they're 3. Plenty of us survived just fine with a cheap birthday cake/cupcake and our favorite meal with the family and maybe grandparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:07 PM
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If women didn't put sex behind the dating "paywall" or say "I can only have sex with someone I have feelings for" then maybe men wouldn't equate love with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:36 PM
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Women often try to use the emotional labor as a get out of jail free card to shore up their shortcomings in household contributions. I'm sorry that nobody gives a shit that you spent 100 hours party planning for the holiday event, but that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:28 PM
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Why do you think so many men are angry that they've essentially been tricked into a dead bedroom? Once the ink on the contract dries a not insignificant portion of women close up shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:33 AM
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Pre Op
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:13 AM
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Assuming no shorter than.... 5'1? I'm asking for that 6,6,6.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:52 PM
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And who defines "normal", it's women. So once again women twist their own logic to try and gaslight men into acting a certain way and claiming that its no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:51 PM
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It's a great deal if you're young and just looking for fun. Older men are so thirsty and willing to throw immense amounts of cash for a small about of sexual attention. Horrible deal long term because who wants to be 40 and with someone who is retired and shopping for depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:30 PM
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So just encourage singe people to essentially live in college dorms to help pair up? We saw a handful of places begin to experiment with this RIGHT before covid and I hope it makes a comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:52 PM
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Its so funny how women are significantly less likely to be in a situation of accepting a man's children (the single father) but will claim that they'd "totally step up and raise those kids as their own". Yet, as you've mentioned, we NEVER see women step up in great numbers to actually do so. Sure they'll volunteer for events and whatnot, but they won't have those kids in their homes and provide significant amounts of their own resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:47 PM
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At its core every heterosexual relationship is transactional, male resources in exchange for access to female's reproductive ability. But with the rise of Birth Control and a wider array of ways to earn a living I think this has broken down. Its a lot more of a partnership than straight up negotiations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:13 PM
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Anything below the top 20% of men are getting ZERO matches, no shit lying and cheating your way to the top of the pile is encouraged. Being the "good guy" who is sitting at home alone while the asshole is getting laid isn't the moral win blue pillers claim it is. One is telling themselves they're the good guys and winners, the other got laid and is having a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:04 PM
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Considering the bottom 80% of men are getting little to no matches on dating sites I'd say that red pill is a very reasonable movement. As Ricky Bobby once said, if you ain't first you last. If you're not getting laid, then its all a waste of time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:03 PM
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A majority of BOTH genders are obese and it's wrecking the dating pool. Nobody wants to date a fatty but if you yourself are a fatty then you need to self-improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:01 PM
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I always saw red pill as not trying to be THE best man, but merely a man in the winners circle (ie a top 10% man who gets a disproportionate amount of the sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:32 AM
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You should talk to my friend Chris, he loves to offer people a seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:28 AM
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Every women I've known who has gone to therapy loved it when the therapist was less working through issues and more agreeing it was someone else's fault for everything. Those same women talked poorly of therapists who suggested that THEY might be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:27 PM
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Gender is a spectrum edge lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:25 PM
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I would put money on OP being that guy who is only "friends" with women in hopes that they'll sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:17 PM
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But they CAN control their weight, so there's no excuse to be angry at men who don't want a fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:25 AM
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Show me the young actress who refused a role so that an older women could have a chance. You don't get credit for saying something is bad while leveraging the very same situation to further your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:37 PM
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The issue is women are perfectly happy to flaunt their youth and beauty to get attention and stuff, but then grow bitter once they're time is up. Go look at nearly every female celebrity ever, always happy to be sexual when it advances their career and then like clockwork when they close in on 40 suddenly its all Hollywood sexism and women need a wider array of roles. Most men don't get such high profile leading roles in their late teens and early 20s, but women don't fight for men to get the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:15 PM
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It would humble them beyond all recognition and realize that the world isn't a place that inherently appreciates your presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:35 AM
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Emotional labor with young children is honestly a real part time job. But so many women drag out everything and try to make it seem as if they're carrying the world. I always see places like 2X full of women who complain that nobody appreciated the massive effort they did to put on a Christmas party. Well... did you ever ask if anyone really gave a shit about the gingerbread replica of downtown NYC you built over 80 hours and the hot chocolate you made from hand harvested beans? If men are fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:03 AM
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Why is it so hard for some women to understand that sex and intimacy is what generally separates a relationship from a friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:00 AM
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Men have used their power and resources to attract women since the dawn of time. Women have used their youth and looks to attract men with power and resources since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:47 PM
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This pretty much aligns with the overall argument here and especially in subs like r/deadbedroom. I'd also include that it's not JUST sex, it's resource sharing. I'm going to share my resources with the person I'm fucking and making babies with far more readily than any friend. A lot of the relationship aspect is just granting deeper and more exclusive access to one's resources to a potential mate for future offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:52 PM
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Life for western women is on easy mode these days by comparison and anyone who says otherwise should be forced to live those "glory days".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:42 AM
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And yet its almost exclusively women who shit on the prospect of a coffee or single beer meet and greet first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:24 PM
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Women are far more toxic because they get a mountain of passes in society so long as they're pretty. Of course a lifetime of bad decisions can and often does catch up to many of them but just like the fallacy of karma, many of those mean girls marry the rich guy and get other have a wonderful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:22 PM
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Asking women online for dating advice is like asking your 45 year old suburban mom how to date in high school. The advice you'll get is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:07 AM
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When you have an 8 figure net worth and are dating!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:05 AM
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Men often could do better courting, but women need to put in effort to be desirable. You don't get to be upset your husband isn't putting in as much effort to pursue you when you've put on 50+ lbs, stopped doing beauty standards, and no longer do "THOSE" things in the bedroom. We all get older but the amount of women who drop sex and pick up 50-100lbs shortly after marriage is a noticeable trend. What man wouldn't feel like they've been deceived, they felt they married a 10 and she turned into 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:04 PM
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Just like many people's political views, when they have the privacy of the voting booth it can be shockingly different than what is public facing. Several blue states are 25-40%+ Trump voting but walking around you'd think it was like 1% Trump voters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:59 PM
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Even when the world stops giving women the extra special treatment after age 40, they're still treated better than men. It's just they're treated 50% better instead of 10X better so to them the world seems cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:04 AM
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A woman can go out with the goal of getting laid and will 100% succeed unless she is basically the bottomest barrel of the dating pool. An extremely attractive man can go out with the goal of getting laid and he will NEVER be guaranteed to be laid at the same level as even a below average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:31 PM
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This reeks of the same line of thinking when rich people say money doesn't buy happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:29 PM
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Assuming that society also won't harshly judge me for leveraging this, or even better I get high fives for getting laid then absolutely. I'd be with the flavor of the day damn near every day if I had the guaranteed enjoyment that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:01 PM
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Hey if all the 2s and 3s of the world want to get in a big bang pile all the power to them, most people aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:58 AM
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Raw looks tends to burn bright and fast, while reliability is a smoldering fire that lasts a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:44 AM
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"Average" women is a rather generous term...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:34 AM
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This would be the case IF biology was tweaked where offspring are mainly self-sufficient after little to no time post birth. The entire draw to monogamy is that raising an offspring to the minimal viable age is well over a decade and requires immense investment. Even if pregnancy was still 9 months, if a baby was able to be released into the world and survive independently at the 3 month mark then yeah... there would absolutely be Chad harems and a hopeless beta bux slave class.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:08 PM
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You hear that everyone, the line between a good man or a bad man is a Valentine's Day card!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:27 PM
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lol, you've lost this. trying to get the last word in is just pathetic, and I'm a petty woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:54 PM
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Get a big promotion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:05 AM
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Asking women on reddit what would help a man in dating is like asking your 45 year old mom how to get girls in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:05 AM
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Why do women think just brining their presence is enough to sustain a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:36 PM
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Again, you've proven your lack of intelligence and have to result to insults. Good luck at your shift at McD's
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:31 PM
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Ah, typical bluepill, lose the argument and shift the goalposts to claim a victory that nobody else is working towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:11 PM
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As we've seen, this is only going to be a problem when CERTAIN areas of the world become more developed. Places like the Philippines or Vietnam becoming developed will end this practice, but no matter how developed Nigeria gets this won't affect the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:08 PM
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Imagine missing the allegory and thinking you're in any way intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:37 AM
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We've seen this play out in gender vs gender competitions like Survivor. Men create a functioning society, and women wallow in the mud and require saving from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:22 AM
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There's someone for everyone, it just may be a lot less of an attractive option than you may think. It may be the obese person, or single mom with 3 kids, or man with turrets. Whether or not you'd rather be single at that point... well that's beyond the whole "there's someone for everyone".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:28 PM
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Bluepill is like going into a casino and pretending every hand that isn't player won "blackjack" is proving your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:46 AM
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If we went by reddit, you'd think it would be close to 0. In reality I'd imagine it is a VAST majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:18 PM
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That's fine, but then men who either know they won't be selected or opt out of selection should be allowed to prevent women from obtaining their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:12 PM
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It's rare to find a woman who puts in more effort to dating than offering her body. I don't blame men who get annoyed that a majority of women do nothing more than "show up" and then complain that men want nothing more than their body when in reality... women are bringing nothing but their body to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:33 PM
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Theoretically we only need 1 (very happy) man to save the human race, but if there was only 1 woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:48 AM
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Sex is one of those things that's fun, pleasurable and intimate with the right person when your brain can just shut down. But if you step back and REALLY think about it, its an insanely disgusting act (that deep down we all really love doing).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:47 AM
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Talent usually means earning potential which means more money and resources to spend on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:44 AM
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Men will overlook an insane amount of BS for sex. So naturally when women stop having sex suddenly all those issues that were overlook able are not and the relationship or marriage falls apart. The reality is women don't bring much outside of sexuality to most relationships so why do they get surprised that men want to interact and have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:40 AM
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Well considering a big requirement is to just be straight up attractive, pretty darn hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:26 AM
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You're the one claiming thermodynamics applies to the entire universe outside of self-diagnosed women. So you please tell me what makes you impervious to universal laws of physics? There's no point telling you about the metabolic rate of cells and basic caloric needs when you're ignoring simple concepts like mathematics and energy inputs vs outputs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:54 PM
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Congratulations, doesn't change the laws of physics. But I too have learned to read and can do basic mathematics and understand nutrition. Calories In must be less than Calories Out and you lose weight. Stop using excuses to avoid the elephant in the room, yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:49 PM
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Great, now you know how men feel and have been complaining about! But of course rather than self reflect on the issues that women are causing, you have to make sure to turn it into men being the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:46 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:17 AM
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That is literally impossible dumbass. The laws of thermodynamics don't lie, you're either exercising less than you claim or eating more than you claim. Calories don't lie, unlike most women and their weight like you. I eat a low calorie high fiber diet of primarily vegetables and lean proteins and I'm not a chunky monkey because CICO don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:46 PM
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Bank account verifications for prospective men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:44 PM
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This has real "I want a dad bod" energy where women picture Chris Hemsworth with an extra 2% body fat but tell every man that a dad bod is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:55 PM
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meanwhile those same women will all self-diagnose thyroid and "metabolism" issues which consuming 3,000+ calories a day and doing 15 minutes of walking a week for exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:53 PM
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More like women use child birth, marriage, age, "thyroid" etc... as an excuse to get fat. Men accept people get older but when you go from a size 6 to a size 26 don't blame it on getting older and that your husband "has a problem getting it up". Stay at a healthy weight, be sexually active and be generally pleasant to be around and viola, most of a woman's work in a marriage would be complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:28 PM
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So we're in agreement that women are shallow and confidence isn't really what matters, its external factors outside of a man's control. Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:26 PM
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If you had 100 chances every day to try you'd be a lot more confident and able to shake off a no than if you only got 1 chance a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:33 PM
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Social skills are critical, but let's also not pretend that attractive people don't get a near automatic self-fulfilling feedback loop where everyone is nice to them at first contact. Likewise, there's men who are cursed in the looks department that are already starting 5 steps behind before opening their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:50 AM
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My favorite on Reddit is when people post photos of their Grandpa or Great Grandpa and then later find out there's a whole missing family lineage. Never seems to click with them that their wonderful family man grandpa left a path of destruction in his wake, lied/moved away from the problem and assumed some Beta Bux would pick up the pieces. Its a lot harder to do that today with DNA testing, social media and the internet but attractive people have always left a trail of broken people in their wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:21 PM
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Men would settle for direct communication up front before time/money is spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:12 PM
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It literally did nothing about timelines or reasonableness outside of the medical 6 weeks vaginal and "additional time" for c section. Thank god people who can't read aren't having kids. Thank you for your valueless sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:18 AM
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So where are you seeing men claiming that watching football is contributing to housework? Because that's what you're trying to claim here which is just idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:40 PM
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This article addressed absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:39 PM
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A vast majority of men understand and are willing to work around a woman needing longer than 6 weeks to recover. But men are voicing dissatisfaction when the recovery time goes from perhaps 3 months, to 6 months, and some female oriented Reddits claiming 2 fucking years. At some point, women need to either figure it out for their marriage or let their husband pursue other avenues. Otherwise they have nobody but themselves to blame when their marriages go to hell. Men want a family which includes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:56 PM
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So why are women so universally incompetent at multitasking? Every man in an unhappy marriage has the same story, they're not even remotely appreciated any longer. Men have a right to say, its bullshit that a woman completely gives up on the marriage and relationship yet as a man you're expected to give the same effort to the relationship and now more for the baby. Men aren't asking for 24/7 fawning, they're asking women put in the tiniest amount of effort to find 30 minutes once or twice a mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:22 PM
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Absolutely, plenty of my friends fucked around with the hot guys when they were younger. Usually as college ends and people enter the real world, hot Chad has 0 real skills and at best will land a mediocre job in car sales while Beta Bux Bob studied hard and landed that well paying corporate gig with benefits. My friends are content, but they absolutely traded looks for money once the difference started emerging and a handful of them still dabble in that old Chad dating well when the opportuniti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:57 PM
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Men should be forced strictly into blue collar work and white collar jobs should be reserved for women. It will keep women safely away from men while ensuring that everyone is productive for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:48 AM
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Sex work is envied in the lens of when the alternative is homelessness and starving to death. Nearly any woman can get money/shelter/money for selling her body, men are left to freeze to death on the streets if in a similar position. Unless you're working something like the porn industry, a regular 9-5 will vastly out earn most sex work, but its a field of last resort that men simply don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:09 AM
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I see a hell of a lot more women telling men they need to "step up" and accept women as they are (single moms, obese, low earning, unkempt...) than women trying to step up and be a more attractive option (fit, wealthy, flirty, etc...).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:03 PM
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Makes sense, most married men have better jobs/homes/physic which is why they're married in the first place. Who is more attractive, the obese retail worker living in a 2 bedroom apartment with 3 roommates or the married corporate man who has a nice home and enough time to keep his weight in check? Sure he's married but he's willing to take you out to a nice dinner before sex at a hotel vs the retail guy who can split half a value meal at Mcdonald's in his car before pulling around the back of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:06 PM
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No, I'm looking for someone to financially elevate my life instead of drag it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:04 PM
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So if the man loads his own dishes into the dishwasher and does laundry, what is a woman doing that's such a monumental task? Seems like women are desperately seeking problems to try and claim a high ground that men are not remotely interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:02 PM
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The amount of men who have stories that their spouse did things in the past they won't do with them OR things they did right up until the marriage certificate was signed is proof. Just because a woman doesn't outright tell her man that he's only "husband material" doesn't mean he cannot pick up non-verbal clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:01 PM
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And yet how many men who live alone are perfectly content eating the same 3 meals in perpetuity? Yes if you're a stay at home spouse the expectation is that you'll make a variety of foods, but most men could live on a very fixed diet for life. And dishes take time, but with the invention of the dishwasher it's significantly less than the past. Same with things like laundry, nobody is going down to the river with their homemade soap to beat clothes against the rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:01 PM
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Often when women write out "all that work" they claim to be doing, it's usually underwhelming or effort spent on things men could not care less on. You spending 30 hours a month on stuff like decorating isn't appreciated because men DO. NOT. CARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:42 AM
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More like men want sex but the only way for a majority of men to get sex is to be in a relationship. And since some of those men have zero interest in the relationship aspect itself they're not going to invest significant resources in something they don't even want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:39 AM
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Most men are ok with a vetting process of a couple of cheap dates, men are just pushing back against delusional women's expectations of months and months of expensive investments only to be ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:07 PM
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Typical of women, always complaining about men wanting sex but also positioning themselves as the gatekeepers who get to determine the access toll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:39 PM
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Non-club social events tend to work very well to meet women. Meeting people in a rec league, CrossFit, a gardening club, book club or coffee shop is more realistic than clubbing to meet someone. Those regular interactions give you frequent connection points where you can be in the same vicinity as someone as for awhile, start small talk and gauge interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:38 PM
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I love seeing this brought up in 2X constantly. A woman will berate her husband for not helping or appreciating that she spent something like 6 weeks straight planning and decorating for a Christmas party. Like, if your husband would be perfectly fine with 3 frozen pizzas, a cooler of beer, football on the TV and wearing a Santa hat then you spending 6 weeks creating hot chocolate drinks from raw cacao plants and building a 75 piece gingerbread village as the centerpiece for the marshmallow roas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:54 AM
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Only feature? ...no. But it's a top feature that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:54 AM
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He's broke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:20 AM
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30s were the best time to date for men who weren't the top picks in their 20s because the bottom just falls out. If you avoid obesity, have your own place, and have a decent paying job you can easily go from a 4/10 to a 7/10 simply because the majority of the competition has left the dating pool or gone from 6/10 to 2/10 by letting themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:04 PM
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"What the fuck is wrong with you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:36 AM
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The same women shaming men for not dating single moms could step up themselves and adopt all those children waiting for a family, but they won't. Because women would rather make their OWN bad decisions and expect a bail out than to help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:29 AM
2

Weird argument but women refusing to acknowledge that men are often overly nice in the vague hopes of physical intimacy is peak female hegemony.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:27 AM
2

They may still be attractive (hence good genetics) but they're still older. Because yeah, more hair on head, fewer wrinkles and sunspots is better. I don't know why anyone argues with this, look at EVERY single Hollywood actor over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:19 PM
8

Physically... 25 for your average man, maybe 28 if genetics are great. With that said money means more to women so a 30 year old man with significant financial resources AND good genetics can still date nearly as well as a 25 year old man. But Father Time comes for us all...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:10 AM
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Women give advice on what they want to see in a man they're already attracted to, not for what will make them attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:09 PM
4

The only people I know who aren't dating/married to someone in their immediate or adjacent economic group are people who started dating in college. If you're a woman with a terrible degree you better lock down that doctor while he's just a pre-med student or that window will close forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:11 AM
2

Back of a prom limo Key Party In a shed Frat party Kegger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:15 AM
2

Men have a longer time to age out of the attractive phase and money means more to women, so men can offset the physical degradation with tons of money whereas women just get older and people are less interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:32 PM
7

Social media has killed quite a bit of the "college experience" from my observation. A woman could go to college, pick up a different name (go by Katy in college instead of Catherine), spend 4 years sleeping around, and then move to a large city, go by your original name and deny any of the hoe phase til the day you die and suffer next to no repercussions. College used to be a black box where "anything goes" but since that's no longer the case, college has gone from a fun 4 years of debauchery t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:13 AM
1

Never
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:38 PM
11

So women demand money be spent on them to see IF they'll want to have sex but men going straight to sex for money via legalized prostitution is a crime against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:37 PM
15

The study that blamed a man for abandonment when he DIED? Yeah... the fact that places like TwoX straight up ban you if you dispute that survey perpetuate its shiftiness. With that said I am not surprised that men would leave a partner in more cases than a woman. Men rate things like physical attraction and sex as a higher priority than women and thus, if she can't... then it's a bigger part of the marriage that is lost. But I think we also need to look at it from an economics perspective as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:50 AM
2

Maybe if it wasn't so blatantly obvious with incompetent women were in leadership people would be more open to it. Women don't want to lay the groundwork to build a pipeline to leadership they want it NOW. So whereas a man may need a good education and 20 years of work experience proving himself with increasingly complex roles to make it to the top, a woman who goes to a mediocre school is shuffled up the ladder without much thought to get into a leadership role. There are good female leaders bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:52 PM
2

Women could dispel quite a bit of the ole virgin preference by just pushing for mandatory paternity testing to alleviate all birth concerns yet here we are...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:45 AM
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Growing up I remember birth control being a big deal and a somewhat scandalous thing to go on (the white lie was often just claiming it was JUST for period cramps or acne *wink wink*). Nowadays it seems the default is to put girls on birth control once they reach the teenage years. So kids are having less sex but we've also just accepted that putting in a solid failproof option to ensure if they have sex they don't mess up their lives is better than shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:18 PM
4

Women are valued on a depreciating asset (youth, sexuality) and must manage it wisely to get the "best deal". With that said, there will almost always be a buyer of their asset and thus the floor to fall is significantly lower for women. Because there's never a real risk of total failure many women don't bother to try very hard because something such as "marry the ok guy and be the SAHM is still an option". Men are not valued in the slightest until they've proven that they can provide something.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:10 PM
2

As long as she's held at arms length from your time and wallet as well then all is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:02 AM
24

I'd bet you nearly every man in existence would take the hardships of a woman over the hardships of a man assuming they're in a modern western nation. Now if we're talking somewhere like Afghanistan or Saudi Arabia.... yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:27 AM
3

Women gaining weight post marriage and the "cause".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:20 AM
37

If women would just be honest and say that looks matter then so much of the animosity could be prevented. I don't blame any man who was told by all his family and friends from birth to 30s that its all about "personality" or that "the girls are going to really be all over you later in life" that he becomes exceptionally jaded. An honest conversation like "looks matter, you can't change your face but you can avoid obesity and maybe put on some muscle, dress nice, perform proper hygiene, etc..." w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:23 PM
2

Nobody wants to feel like they're the top 5th round pick man...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:17 AM
1

Judging by the number of desperate single mothers trying to find a man I'd say its already pretty obvious that people don't get unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:54 PM
8

Almost every person that I saw who stayed at home would be "so busy" but managed to watch several hours of Oprah or other daytime talk TV throughout the day. I'm all for having the TV on while you're doing dishes, folding laundry or whatever but if having the TV on turns your 30 minute clothes folding exercise into a 2 hour ordeal then the issue is your watching TV with a side of chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:21 PM
13

As someone who did the housework at home for a year during covid, it was so much easier than I ever imagined it could be. I was able to hold down a full time job and still run the household with very few issues. If you're trying to cook a 3 course meal every night, sure that's not going to be a possibility but a little meal prep on Sunday and some strategic planning for Tuesday-Thursday and it wasn't very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:54 PM
29

Turns out working sucks and women just want a rich man to let them sit on the couch and watch Netflix all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:08 PM
8

Single moms <25 are absolutely going to flail in the dating market looking for men their age, especially those men who are destined for those high earning 6 figure jobs. Those men want to build their own lives, not pick up someone else's mistakes or issues and the dating pool is PLENTIFUL of high quality potential partners for those men. Single moms >35 are going to need to look at single fathers but by that age most people who wanted kids will already have some/all that they want and are more u…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:59 PM
1

When the best female athletes start beating men in physical sports then we can discuss. Until then, we're going to keep seeing high school and college boys teams beat the world's best female teams and its sad, just the WNBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:42 PM
4

Oh I know plenty of sexless men, and plenty of them are married too!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:13 PM
2

Women have spent the last 50 years attacking, tearing down or forcing open every male social group, yet its men who are the problem apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:23 PM
-1

It's no coincidence women initiate a majority of divorces after they have the number of kids they want, get them into the school system and secure lifetime alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:02 PM
-2

And women couldn't be bothered to change the Girl Scouts from a cookie selling club into anything meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:08 AM
-2

Interesting... I'll at least agree with women have ruined male spaces. Just look at the Boy Scouts. Rather than make the Girl Scouts not suck, women just forced themselves onto the Boy Scouts because women apparently cannot actually make positive changes to their own organizations that ban men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:54 AM
2

Men have testosterone and can do significantly more damage. Unless a man is marriage to peak Ronda Rousey he's going to be able to overpower any angry woman who doesn't jump him with a butterfly knife already drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:53 AM
6

I agree with the concept that a person out of work for 15+ years has missed out on raises and retirement savings. In cases such as that, yes the courts should try their best to reasonably make the spouse whole. The issue I have is that we see cases where a woman who would have been a low level administrative worker or teacher trying to make lifetime claims against a high earning man's income. If the couple hadn't gotten together the man would still be making let's say $250k as an upper level bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:52 PM
13

I've never seen a woman who "totally was going to have a high paying career" drop out to raise kids, its usually women who either wanted to be a SAHM or would have been relegated to low admin related work anyway. Women who are real go getters still work and raise kids because the net economic benefits are clear even early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:27 AM
17

I find women are plenty conservative when it comes to their own money but lefty liberals on everything else. Maybe its just a framing issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:15 PM
7

Bwomp bwomp bwompppppppp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:37 PM
16

So statistics that you don't agree with are just wrong? Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:14 PM
16

Single mothers make up a smaller portion of the population than 2 parent households so yeah... its a good indicator of who is making criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:00 PM
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Most of the baggage men have is harder to hide (like a criminal record or drug addiction). But I did know 1 guy who basically was the local gigolo and it absolutely caused issues when he started trying to date seriously but wanted to be open and honest. Men can have baggage, most just never have the opportunity to create the kind of baggage women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:47 PM
14

We see it time and time again where women get angry when their "male friend" isn't interested in hanging out 24/7, paying for everything or being a general errand boy "as a friend" once he actually asks her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:41 PM
3

So you're admitting conservative men are the physically attractive ones that women want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:35 PM
8

Its so funny seeing women seethe at conservative men but then get upset when the remaining dating pool is soyboys who don't have a single spark for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:03 AM
-3

Women overwhelming initiate divorce and a leading reason is loss of economic contribution (aka job loss). That tells you all you need to know as to why men will never get to be stay at home spouses on a level of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:41 AM
0

Step on a scale and be honest about what you see. Men can be just as shallow, especially if they know they're a "good man".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:22 AM
1

Therapy is a place to pay people money to gaslight you about issues in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:58 AM
2

There is a MASSIVE difference between someone who has familial support and decides to be a hoe vs someone who is essentially groomed into prostitution from a young age and just never knows anything better. Purple pill ain't nuanced enough for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:36 PM
1

Sex is paywalled for men (dating) so for many men if they're not getting sex they'll consider themselves single. The same is not true for women so seeing anyone romantically, which is a much lower threshold, would be considered dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:09 PM
3

The fact so many marriages end shortly after the kids are out of childcare or the public school system supports this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:07 PM
2

Women don't need no man until there's work to be done or bills to be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:46 AM
1

Women are largely attracted to money, power and status far more than men are for women. Personality doesn't mean jack if you can write a big enough check for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:40 PM
1

But that would hold women accountable for lying...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:28 AM
1

The issue is usually that she isn't treating him like one of her friends, she's leading him on just enough to extract maximum value for nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:19 AM
2

Decades of kneecapping mens' economic opportunities coupled with artificially elevating women lead to a situation where women never date down so now many men are left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:44 AM
1

There's unlimited demand for young women to date, there's significantly less demand for older men until you get to the retirement home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:24 PM
1

Men usually get so few options to cheat that saying no is easy the handful of times it happens. If men at large had such a vast array of opportunities and people to cheat with they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:58 PM
2

Easier to base things on the gender with more priors when one of the genders doesn't even get charges pressed!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:55 AM
4

I mean look at college dorm living (especially pre ~2016 social media and high speed internet). Young people who are bored, in close proximity to each other with nothing to do. Turns out when we're bored and close together with a few large social events we all go to, things happen!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:52 AM
1

Most of history has been driven by men wanting to get laid. Either by making money to impress women, earning prestige to impress women, or by going to war and taking other peoples' women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:27 PM
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Women get significantly more opportunities to make mistakes but if they make the big one (having a kid with the wrong man) its significantly more of a negative impact than anything a man would encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:24 AM
2

When only a small subset of men get to participate in the hookup culture, that can mean a large percentage of THOSE men are assholes. Most men never get to participate in any of that and can only look from the outside so they aren't part of the population of men who could, or could not, be assholes and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:23 AM
2

Then why do so many women attack the possible legalization of prostitution? In many cases, the only real bargaining chip a woman has in a relationship is sexual access. If men could get that cheaply and easily then the truth is the dating pool and amount of thirsty men who put up with anything would rapidly decrease. It would certainly knock women down several pegs in terms of relationship negotiations if general access to sex wasn't locked behind a "relationship paywall". We see that today wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:29 PM
10

*you have been banned from TwoXchromosomes*
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:11 AM
1

Well when most women's spirit animal is a table what do you expect? Most women do nothing romantic outside of sexual offerings and even then once they've locked down the man in a contract most cannot be bothered to even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:41 PM
3

It's simple, men want sex but outside of a small subset the only way to obtain sex is through relationships. And getting a relationship is typically a challenging process for them (again excluding the top of the dating pool). Women want sex less so relationships aren't as big of a priority for them because they can get all the physical benefits of a relationship on a whim, plus if they want a relationship it's significantly easier to get one (just might not be a top tier man if she wants one TOD…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:22 PM
6

More like women should be treated like men, and given nothing automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:16 PM
4

Well when women help create and support a system where their contribution is literally just to "show up", then yeah it is their fault when there aren't enough men to support their social freeloading. Bars want women to be there because it attracts men who will spend a disproportionate amount of money there. We see it all the time where women don't pay cover charges or there's ladies night on drink specials. But a bar that's 90% women and only 10% men probably isn't going to be a very fun place o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:52 AM
0

The only women I've ever seen who truly are happier single either have aged out of the desirable demographic and let themselves go so the attractive men aren't interested, OR they were married and extracted significant concessions from their man like a house and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:47 AM
1

Can you blame them? I've never experienced women hosting a general party or a sorority having a fun party, that was ALWAYS the domain of the men. Most of the frats and male dominated clubs I knew literally allowed the girls to drink for free, the reverse of that never happened. In fact most women's housing was basically off limits to men so women were free to come and trash men's places and if they didn't stay the night, go back to their clean homes and leave the mess to the men to clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:44 AM
4

Then those same women need to stop acting entitled to men's offerings. Things like giving up seats, paying for dinners, "defending" women, making "room at the business table", etc... Men aren't entitled to women's bodies but at the same time why are women entitled to men's success and efforts at running a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:40 AM
7

I cannot think of anyone who looks at the historical orphanage system and goes "yeah that's definitely the best way to raise kids".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:38 AM
0

Then women can't get angry when men have such low standards as "not obese" or "no single moms".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:24 PM
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Truth is most women just don't have much to offer other than their body. Heck in the corporate world many women only have their positions because older men threw younger men under the bus to feel good about themselves. So of course viewing physical attributes will always be a top focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:29 PM
8

I'd challenge any of the women claiming they have dating harder to make a male profile and filter out ONLY the following. Obese women, single mothers, models/sex workers, and women with a lower level education. Then let's see just how many options are left vs a woman doing the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:26 PM
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Women just want to ensure there's always a healthy supply of thirsty chumps to pick up her messes if ever needed. Funny how the loudest proponents of banning porn are single mothers while young women with options are not worried about websites watering down her dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:18 PM
1

I take it you've never been in an area with a declining population?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:23 AM
7

Women get upset when the SMV shifts in favor of men who were never the 9s and 10s in the timeframe of a woman's peak years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:59 AM
-2

There is a cheat code, it's called money. If you have enough of it you can be the ugliest person on the planet and can bag the hottest partner imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:55 PM
1

Men are only viewed by what they can provide. All women only see men as a resource to be extracted from. Find me a happy couple where the man loses his job and is unable to find gainful employment for several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:32 AM
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The doubleX subreddit will delete and ban you for pointing out the study stating men leave sick spouses at a significantly higher rate than women was redacted for being straight up incorrect. Women are always the victim, even when they're the instigator don't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:31 AM
2

SOMEBODY has to take care of all those single moms and it isn't going to be the bad boys. They're out getting fresh new rides to break in but you can have their old 2010 Honda Civic with the broken transmission and 2 child car seats permanently installed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:04 AM
-1

Both genders use weaponized incompetence but on subs like 2X women pretending like doing laundry is on the same level as the expectations that a man will fix a car is always hilarious. Once has been made easier by technology, the other significantly harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:57 AM
3

All of society is structured around family, if there's no (relative) monogamy then the foundation of civilization just collapses. We could probably make it work today, but for thousands of years being able to give your stuff to YOUR kids was the most important thing you could control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:46 PM
11

As long as you don't put in more than 10% effort I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:23 AM
26

Women will sleep with the skeeziest men who are the biggest assholes because they're good looking. Its only once looks start to fade or money buys a nice lifestyle that suddenly "personality" matters, aka money trumps looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:28 PM
3

Everybody wants to date up, and if the woman can't lock one down at least she can make a baby with one that is better than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:26 PM
2

Most women see themselves as the table and little more in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:24 AM
0

There's never been a time in history that a large amount of single, unemployed men without a roughly equal amount of women has ever led to anything other than problems in all of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:44 AM
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Just like everything else with feminism, women want all the perks but none of the responsibility or side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:27 PM
3

Isn't it amazing how often the love fades as soon as lifetime alimony or a large enough "shared" assets pool is created? I'd encourage any man to look at some of the Military subreddits and note how often a man is blindsided with divorce papers immediately at the 20 years and 1 month mark, the earliest one can draw the military pension AND as a bonus the government will send her portion of your pension directly to you so she never needs to interact with you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:28 PM
-2

Lifestyle subsidies. Once you've got that golden mindset about having no qualms getting free dates and dinners from men you'll never see again it's a nice perk you can tap for a couple years. Can easily add up to the equivalent of $10-15,000 where I live without needing to be a supermodel for the rich whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:34 AM
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Why would I give up any advantage I can get? Same reason many of us women date multiple men when we're young, we can get away with it. Life is awesome when you make $50,000/year and can get a stable of men to spend $50,000/year on dates and activities for you, that's basically doubling your income for the low price of existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:23 PM
8

I have found both my guy and girl friends say the same thing. While some people thrived and were fine not pairing up in college, a majority of my chronically single friends really laminate how much better college dating was. If you want a family, the drop off in options and quality for a partner is immense after 25 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:48 AM
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Too many of my fellow women fall into the trap of either "I want THAT specific man" or they're a plain Jane girl aiming for the rich Billionaire type who has a million (let's be honest) better options. People who date their social peers (the people they rub elbows with) tend to do just fine, its when you start wanting that top 5% of income man while being a below average looks and earnings women we encounter issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:55 AM
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