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| 4 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with? | Bladehawk | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 03:47 AM | |
| 0 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest? | Bladehawk | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 01:59 AM |
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| 5 | Got slapped in clubSounds like an east coast or Florida situation | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?Let us know how it goes 😊👍 | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?That might be my least favorite language to listen to. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 03:34 AM |
| 2 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?🤣🤣🤣🤣 good point | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?It's unfortunate, but at the end of the day it's their life and their choice. Most people have zero ambition, so as far as they're concerned the opportunity cost of having a kid is miniscule. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?Lol unfortunately I can't offer you any advice! | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?Yeah well that makes it easier 😊 | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 04:42 AM |
| 0 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?usually don't have anything in common with them Oh, another tip: hard data has shown there is 0 correlation between relationship satisfaction and common interests. The perception that couples need to have a lot in common is a myth. In reality, they only have to like each other and be willing to put the effort into keeping the relationship going. TL,DR: don't worry about commonality. Just go for it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 04:34 AM |
| 0 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?I feel ya on that. What I'm predominantly attracted to depends on where I am. I'm attracted to black women, but in the US my attraction to them pales compared to my attraction to white women. However, in the Caribbean the situation is the exact opposite (white women in the Caribbean/predominantly non-white regions have the worst attitudes, but that's another story.) Most of them are single mothers too Not sure how old you are, but once you pass 27 or so - especially if you don't live in a 1 mill… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 04:30 AM |
| 3 | What demographic(s) are you attracted to but have difficulty relating to/maintaining conversation/building rapport with?For me I'd say it's definitely Latinas. Something always seems to get "lost in translation" between us. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Don't waste your time waiting for opportunitiesJust go and get hammered with whatever comes. What will come? Doesn't matter. Whether it's a rejection or a marriage proposal. Who cares. Get some experience and enjoy jumping into the darkness. This is my favorite thing to do. Standard fine print about consent and whatnot. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | First time bringing a girl to bed, couldn't get hard.Terrific body != your type. I tell folks all the time there's "magazine" hot, and then there's what you personally find attractive. There are "magazine" hot girls I'm not attracted to. I like 'em 5'8+, thick thighs, hips, and ass. A 5'2 skinny starlet is what most guys would lust over, but does nothing for me. Sometimes it's not so much what excites you as it is what feels comfortable and natural. Once you satisfy those criteria the sexual performance will follow. 👌 Yeah as I said, comfort is ke… | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 02:39 PM |
| 0 | First time bringing a girl to bed, couldn't get hard.Are you physically attracted to her? Sometimes we get caught up "dating" people we aren't actually attracted to because we're good friends. Are you physically attracted to women? No hate here, just make sure you're not trying to do something you're not actually into. Did the situation feel natural, or like it was something you were trying to make happen? How comfortable are you being yourself in that house? How comfortable are you being yourself around her? | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 02:03 PM |
| 2 | First time bringing a girl to bed, couldn't get hard.That's unusual. I have some questions, but you'd have to promise to not be offended. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 05:37 AM |
| 4 | How much has #metoo impacted on the PUA community?1st of all, thanks to OP for posting this. Kept meaning to ask it but kept forgetting to do so. 2nd, I think it's naive to say the movement has had zero effect. If it hasn't made you think deeply about your approach, strategy, and tactics, if only just to ensure you stay in the clear, you're either tone deaf, uninformed, or stupid. I get that a lot of comments are gonna say nothing has changed because saying they've changed would imply they were doing something wrong previously. This last part i… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I am too passive when it comes to meeting women.To get women interested in you, you must be interesting. Collect fun and varied life experiences, travel, read widely, etc and practice making small talk about them with the intention of finding something you're both interested in. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 06:09 AM |
| 5 | Are crazy women better in bed?No. Crazy people are only better at being crazy. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 03:53 AM |
| 8 | Taking a girl to a 5-star hotelLet's slow down and take things back a lil bit further. If she's just a fling and already fucked you at a 3 star hotel, then why upgrade the experience? You need to be honest with yourself here, because although in your mind it's a fling it sounds like your heart really likes her and wants to impress her. Based on your totally unnecessary (in the context of the subreddit) "4%" detail, it seems you're falling into the common young professional male trap of allowing yourself to be defined by your … | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl seeks advice on how to seduce a guy with a girlfriendThat only took 74 days 😜 I'm impressed, glad you got yours! | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl seeks advice on how to seduce a guy with a girlfriend1st of all he's probably not gonna fuck you at the café. Fucking requires opportunity (timing), location, and a willing partner. You need to provide him with the 1st 2. Invite him over to your place to hang out, & exchange numbers. If he doesn't get the point, tell him straight up his gf won't find out (and ensure she doesn't.) If that doesn't work he's a lame & you were wrong about him in the 1st place. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 04:45 AM |
| 3 | I respect him enough not to do thatCan i still get it so we can connect if things change in future. Except they never change, and if they do she probably won't think of you anyway. A better reply is "That's never stopped me before" and smile brightly as if you were just talking about the weather, then continue the conversation. This forces her to come up with another reason (which she wasn't prepared for) and extends the convo. Small warning: in today's day and age some people might consider extending the convo like that to be ha… | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How to convert this into a friends with benefits situation?The way to do this is to keep doing what you're doing. Don't try to "date" her or make it any more serious than it is. "WYD later?" or "Wanna take a study break? ;)" type texts are where you wanna keep it. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 07:19 PM |
| 6 | I revert to my old self after getting the girl.Use the confidence you've gained from getting girls to be confident in being yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?I can hear the tears in your typing. Calm down, Mr. Good Man. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?wouldn't expect other people to understand what we are talking about You can tell when dudes get no pussy by what they get upset about. Only dudes who get no pussy get mad about other dudes getting some. 😂 A lot of guys are on this subreddit for the wrong reasons. Seduction & PUA is mostly for hooking up, not for relationships. As you've def seen, those 2 things require 2 different - often mutually exclusive - strategies and approaches. So the knights in shining armor dudes on here who're lookin… | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 06:02 PM |
| -1 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?Why you hating though? There are no rules to this, anything that gets you action is justified as long as it's legal. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 03:07 PM |
| 0 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?Don't Hate The Player like your username says. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 02:40 PM |
| 3 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?The latter. Most of the party girls I met when I was out raging. I met the relationship girls on dating sites. I'm not saying you shouldn't date girls you party with, but you can definitely tell who's all about settling down vs who prioritizes going out. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?🐶 | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?As J Dilla said, 1 won't do and 2 is not enough for me. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 02:34 PM |
| 4 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?Im able to bed them the hard part is keeping them around. I know that situation, man. I suspect that's because I kept trying to flip hookups into relationships. Eventually I learned to separate the girls I hung out with into 2 groups: party and relationship. I stopped trying to date the party girls and stopped trying to fuck the relationship chicks on sight. Lo and behold, I started having longer term relationships AND my hookup numbers actually went up too. You might find that useful. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How to you connect with girls?Keep being funny, but ask questions. Make small talk. Reveal stuff positive stuff about yourself that they might relate to. | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 05:30 AM |
| 0 | How to avoid going into businessman mode?Those aren't superficial questions. It's not like she's asking how much money you make. But if those questions intimidate you, you need to find a different crowd. | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Is real life REALLY that much better than online?The only difference between IRL and online dating is the latter introduces you to people you'd have never met otherwise | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Is seduction just not for everyone?Be patient with yourself. Seduction isn't something you read a couple posts about and start banging chicks from, it takes years of practice and experience talking to and reading people. Hell I'd say it took me the better part of a decade, and I'm still learning! One thing you can do is give yourself more datapoints from which to discern patterns, & social media is excellent at that. Join Twitter (good pic of yourself + pseudonym) & try striking up convo. Over time you'll learn how to be interest… | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Is seduction just not for everyone?I agree. Most of "seduction" is really just the ability to present yourself as being interesting for long enough to get what you want. Sounds cold, but the good thing about that is you don't even have to interesting all the time. It's a sprint. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you spawned offspring in your quest to get laid?It's tougher to get pregnant than you (specifically) fear (OTOH, it's a lot easier than some other people think). I'm not a gynecologist, but here goes: an egg cell is not in a woman's vagina; it's in her womb. Pregnancy occurs only when the egg is fertilized. For that to happen, a sperm cell must reach the egg. For a sperm cell to reach the egg, it has to swim there. To do that, it needs a fluid medium (usually semen. I'm not sure if sperm can swim through grool, but it would seem unlikely). TL… | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:38 AM |
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