BlameitonBigDave Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	What is the fucking truth about women? Part of it is a result of experiencing and unconscious digesting the 'bragging and fakery' of the narrative that we are fed through social and mainstream media - social media's an orchestrated and touched-up highlight reel of a person's life, not the reality. Mainstream media has fed many distortions throughout the years about both masculinity and the sexual marketplace that breeds insecurity in both men and women. Your feeling of 'what's wrong with me,' just after a few missed shots is partly d…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/22 04:31 AM
2	Just be yourself and talk to women like they're human beings and you will be drowning in attention! 'Be yourself' is missing something, you're right. Maybe the advice should be 'be yourself once you know yourself - AND have knowledge of and practice game' - how many people actually know themselves, what they want, what their boundaries are, what sort of behaviour they'll put up with? What kind of person they're attracted to? Alongside that, where to find that kind of person? How many are willing to courageously show themselves and communicate aspects that are important to them, even if it feel…	/r/seduction	25/07/22 05:17 PM
1	32 year-old wizard running out of time. Do you think seeing an escort will rip the bandaid off, any other thoughts? Contact a therapist and explore the trauma and phobia you're experiencing. Developing a trusting relationship with a therapist regarding your difficulties connecting to people will do so much more for your overall quality of life, than spending the same amount of money on an escort. Also, you're 32. You feel like time is running out for you, but in the grand scheme of life, you are still incredibly young and as you make positive changes, so much can change in your life you'll barely recognise it…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 12:26 PM
13	My red flags Highly recommend a look at No More Mr Nice Guy - Dr Robert Glover, discusses the cultural implications of being raised by a single mother and among many other helpful techniques, suggests how to establish stronger relationships with men. Other books that explore it are Practical Female Psychology - Joseph South, David Clare and Franco and the Manipulated Man - Esther Vilar.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 12:01 PM
0	The Fundamentals of Sexual Communication and Attraction The same response in a different context - "I tried but failed. I went to college for a week but became super confused." Sometimes you to stick things out longer than a week, or just one try, before you give up on it.	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/20 05:13 PM
1	Why lifting is the "fix-all" advice Chiropractor or physiotherapist, see a GP - if you're only 20 and you're suffering that much, which if you can barely sit up straight, sounds to me like you are, seek medical assistance to see what's going on. There's no way you can live in that condition for the next 20 or even 40 years of your life.	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/19 01:01 PM
4	Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO! The actual act of "holding frame," when disciplining a bratty child, instead of backing down and letting the child run wild would have a paradigm-changing approach to child rearing, as well as teaching said child to hold frame in different situations (how to "be a man,"), teaching effective boundaries and discipline (handy in all areas of life), helping a child develop good game and social skills (things that will propel a child's success throughout life), as well as teaching them a critical eye…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/19 10:52 AM
2	Feminists are ugly. - I can’t think of any men my age or younger who don’t know how to cook [or] don’t enjoy cooking. This is in stark contrast to the women of the same generations, who (typically) view cooking as an indignity. The cooking is love message is powerful and true, learning to cook was a turning point in increasing my self esteem a few years ago, as taking the time to create something from scratch took on meaning, as I was doing it purely for myself it became an act of love towards myself, indicating that I could believe that I was worthy of loving and taking time for myself. In my experience with multiple ex-partners, this ignorance of cooking is an issue, but what I found made a massive change in their be…	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/19 03:31 PM
2	I've recently come to realize I was psychologicaly abused by my ex. I'm not trained to say you definitely have been abused, but recovering from psychological abuse or any situation that has affected you like that takes time, especially as you've described a long period of your ex dismantling your psyche - the worst thing you could do is confront or contact her. There's nothing to win and talking to her about it won't change her actions or make her feel any remorse. First step, DEFINITELY REMOVE HER AND HER FRIENDS FROM YOUR LIFE and consider what made you stay i…	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 08:17 AM
3	Girls Weekend - woman spills the details Great point - not OP but genuinely interested in your opinion, why do you think she told him this?	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/17 04:03 PM
1	You are the prize. Never forget that. Make of it what you will and don't take it completely literally - if it leads you to build yourself up and put the work in, to become a prize, then it still works.	/r/seduction	10/08/16 11:34 AM
1	Anyone reinvent their life and career at age 27? 27 is no age! I'm halfway through 26 and have been reinventing myself for the last year n' a half - so far I've - Picked up an instrument I'd long since given up on and got good enough to get into a band. Got a totally different job to the dead end one I had before, using completely different skills to those I'd learnt before. Learned how to eat properly and shed a fair few pounds with a proper exercise routine. Picked up a lot of new, more productive habits and started to absorb new ideas to cr…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/16 05:03 PM