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INSIGHTFULBlancaBianca/r/RedPillWives01/09/18 02:56 PM
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BlancaBianca/r/RedPillWives13/06/25 09:31 PM
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BlancaBianca/r/RedPillWives05/06/21 06:53 PM
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BlancaBianca/r/RedPillWives05/06/25 02:15 PM
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Do you have any books in the same vein to recommend?
/r/RedPillWives15/06/25 07:30 PM
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There is also a free pdf you can find online that outlines a lot of the ideas called Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood. The book is the best but the pdf is also valuable info A lot of my compliments towards my man are about how different we are. I tell him how manly something about him is and how attractive I find it. Or how something he's good at is something I'm weak with so I admire him for that and also comment on how we complement each other and make a strong couple When he does something I …
/r/RedPillWives29/07/21 01:10 AM
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There is no reason to get one designed for women. Men's electric shavers remove female hair as well
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 02:09 PM
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Let me clarify "not right with him" For him to talk to you like that, he is either mentally deficient or malicious and neither make for a good partner
/r/RedPillWives11/03/21 07:08 PM
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Something is not right with him. It's really surprising to me that he would openly tell you these things. He must think he has you well and trapped and that you're too dependant or stupid to leave him. Why would you support someone for whom what you do will never be enough? You are not yet married, just leave already and stop wasting your youth on this scum
/r/RedPillWives11/03/21 06:34 PM
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What wrt wanting to use his past experiences to help other people makes you think he's not 'tough enough' for mrp? Please don't try to pretend you were joking about sending him over.
/r/RedPillWives08/03/21 06:15 PM
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That doesn't merit you giving her BP advice and framing it as RP
/r/RedPillWives08/03/21 06:04 PM
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I'm going to be honest, I didn't even read the rest of the comment after he started out trying to use our sub to recruit. Now that I have, I'm upset Stop Stop Stop
/r/RedPillWives08/03/21 06:00 PM
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I think it's extremely inappropriate for a woman to "send" her man to mrp. I don't see why this advice is posted over and over
/r/RedPillWives08/03/21 02:11 PM
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Imo a woman introducing her man to mrp is topping from the botttom
/r/RedPillWives22/02/21 08:01 PM
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We don't know if he hounded her or not because she blocked him
/r/RedPillWives05/02/21 04:48 AM
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Are you going to be able to respect a man that puts up with being ghosted? (Assuming he even gives you the second chance)
/r/RedPillWives04/02/21 09:12 PM
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Oh, fuck off.
/r/RedPillWives23/01/21 05:40 PM
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I'm assuming you've googled it, but if you haven't the basics are a combination of the fact that your husband sees you every day, you are aging little by little, and he's more than a little blinded by love. It's easier not to notice these changes. It's not like a 10 year class reunion where the last time you saw someone they looked 10 years younger and 30 lbs slimmer and you are suddenly struck with the fact that they got old and fat. Your husband looks at you and still sees the girl he fell in …
/r/RedPillWives23/01/21 05:39 PM
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For reference, I am older than you. I am not at all worried about climbing the corporate ladder, so I couldn't care less about people who have a problem with how I talk, act, or dress. I am often mistaken for being much younger than I am. And to be honest, it's not a problem to me. I do subscribe to the notion that women are the oldest teenagers in the house and my man thinks I'm cute. If someone assumes I'm not capable at my job, they will quickly enough see my results. To answer your actual qu…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/21 05:33 PM
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Thank the Lord every day for wife goggles. Do you have a good skincare routine? I know a lot of beautiful women twice my age, and it generally gives me comfort to see they have succeeded in aging gracefully but in the moment when I'm having to work around my new eye sagginess during makeup application or putting on my minoxidil, it can be a little stressful facing the reality. My value may be decreasing in the dating pool but I'm not in the dating pool. All I need to do is keep up my appearance …
/r/RedPillWives23/01/21 05:13 PM
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I think you mean "Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood"
/r/RedPillWives17/01/21 03:19 PM
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Do you own a deep fryer? My ex was the same about frozen meats but he'd never refuse anything out of a deep fryer. So my freezer had chicken quarters and fish fillets
/r/RedPillWives28/12/20 11:20 AM
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Idk if email clutter is a problem for you but allrecipes can send you a digest of "types" of recipes you like, such as budget-friendly, low calorie, pasta, etc and iirc the frequency is weekly. Many recipe blogs will also offer to send you notifications for new recipes so if someone makes a favorite recipe, you might consider signing up for those. I love your idea, my routine used to involve working around whatever the closest grocer to me had in the weekly flyer and what the meat counter was di…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/20 10:42 AM
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Tell your mom you'd be willing to go to a church for her funeral, but you don't even know that baby. Just kidding. There's room to rethink your stance on attending ceremonies. Things like this come around so infrequently and the message it sounds like you want to send (I don't support the Catholic Church) is being drowned out by one you did not intend (my dislike for the building is more important to me than my family's special moments). It's actually not completely clear if you refused the invi…
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 11:40 PM
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Sorry if I sound confrontational, I'm always really curious why someone chooses to post in this sub when the other one is their home
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 01:24 PM
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You usually post to the other rpw subreddit Why would you choose this one today? And why come in with a less than grateful attitude to people trying to help?
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 12:58 PM
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I don't think it's that weird. I can imagine the situation coming about that he acts ungrateful and the kids saying "don't you like it? We asked mom what you would like." Even in the unlikely event he accepts it graciously, they could still say, "aww shucks, thank mom too since she helped us pick it." She has been conditioned to expect a negative response about this kind of thing from her husband, it's only natural she would worry herself sick.
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 12:54 PM
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I have not gotten all the way down this thread but I just wanted to suggest that you have an adult conversation with your adult children, individually as it may be, even a quick text could help. You can even phrase it as giving them a heads up not to expect much for his response. They lived with him much of their life, right? It's not going to be a complete shock to them either if his main concern is the price of things "[Child's name], you know how your father is about money. Please don't be di…
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 12:44 PM
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I have seen so many couples (who obviously had once been madly in love or they never would have gotten married) just become completely different people during/after divorce. I knew a man who co-parented with the ex wife and she waited until just before their oldest child turned 18 to sue him for child support and the state wiped out his retirement fund in a lump back payment. (I only got his side of the story but he claimed it was very difficult to prove he'd paid his fair share of the child rea…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/20 06:04 PM
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Your line of thinking looks SO MUCH like mine but worded very differently. How funny I think we would be great friends, let's go for coffee lol
/r/RedPillWives07/12/20 02:55 PM
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In the past, I stayed home and did absolutely everything in regards to the household, even lawn care, sorting out the budget, grocery shopping and errands. My husband's only duty to the household was bringing home the check at that time in our lives and when he was home from work, his every need was taken care of. And in return, I didn't have to work and my time was my own to do what I pleased and pursue my interests. That worked for both of us but we split up due to something completely unrelat…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/20 02:49 PM
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You two should have minimum three bank accounts. One for each of you with the other as beneficiary (to make taking over the account easier should the unthinkable happen) and a third where both of you are signers. Especially because you are working, your personal money should be completely under your control and you should have personal money. I know you have vetted your future husband but you can never predict the future or foresee a situation where you may need to leave. On a more fun note, you…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/20 02:37 PM
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The irony is just delicious that they have been hateful to you while you turn the other cheek and their problem with you is in part because you weren't married in a church. Stay the course and just continue to be your wonderfully pleasant self. If they ever catch a moment of clarity, they'll realize they're not being very Christlike. But that's doubtful. The other option is that it will just eat them up that their hate isn't bringing you down. I promise you, they are all incredibly bothered that…
/r/RedPillWives29/11/20 10:49 PM
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"he got a new job, left friends and family, and moved four hours to be with me" That does not mean you have to put up with being disrespected. I asked my man his opinion on the two paragraphs where you describe what you saw on the phone and his response was "That is very inappropriate and sounds like he would cheat given the chance, if he hasn't already" I'm not trying to tell you where your boundaries should be but you do need to decide whether he's crossed one. You can't be on both sides, sayi…
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 08:13 PM
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I would feel absolutely humiliated if my man spent time with another woman in private. He and I are both of the opinion that that kind of thing only leads to trouble. As does texting the opposite sex about anything non work related. That being said, not everyone has their boundaries set in the same place we do. But you must have some boundary somewhere? Where is it?
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 07:45 PM
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The sub is for women. It's only named "wives" because the redpillwomen was already taken (ironically by men) Please don't discourage people from posting
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 07:42 PM
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There may be some value to you in looking into porn studios that are not harmful to their women actresses or perhaps leaving videos behind and moving toward mainly erotica, but there is a third option you haven't mentioned and which I'd really like you to consider. If at all possible SEXT YOUR HUSBAND Sending your husband sexy texts either in the few hours right before he's getting home or a bit throughout the day could really be a turn on. You can text him about all the things you want to do to…
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 09:03 AM
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The married women of this forum don't care whether a mgtow would choose them.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/18 05:08 PM
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Nobody here gives a shit if you hate female lawyers. At the end of the day, single women may try to appeal to the broadest range of men possible to cast a wide net and find their future husband but married women only need to please one man. If you're a pick up artist, no one here is interested in you If you don't have anything helpful to say, no one here is interested in your comments. This is a forum for women's interests. We are here to discuss well functioning marriage and how to achieve or m…
/r/RedPillWives01/11/18 04:22 PM
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Wow a really insecure guy who has a problem with women earning a paycheck in the comments here. The way you act at work doesn't have to affect how you act with your husband. I'm not saying women should or shouldn't work outside the home (I prefer working in the home only, myself), but it's possible to have a relationship where you respect your husband and still have an intense job. It would be pretty important to vet your future husband properly to ensure you two have the same goals. If he wants…
/r/RedPillWives01/11/18 12:37 PM
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"you" LMAO I'm not a lawyer
/r/RedPillWives01/11/18 12:29 PM
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One of the biggest things for me personally when dressing conservatively but femininely is that I can show off my hourglass shape while still being covered up. This is especially easy with a cinched waist and flowy skirt. Depending on your shape, you may have to find a cut that works on you but I like circle skirts that hit a few inches below the knee. Many of the mods and members of this forum past and present have been professional and high earning women. You absolutely can be a leader at work…
/r/RedPillWives31/10/18 08:13 PM
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She doesn't want him to get off or enjoy it at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 06:48 PM
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No she wants to torture him. She wants him to put up with her fucking around but vehemently hate the fact that she is doing so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 06:19 PM
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Supercook is my favorite right now! Google Now (the function on andoid phones) also often recommends me recipes similar to ones I've googled before. So sometimes I will Google recipes related to diets I find interesting (like keto), copycats of favorite dishes I've had in the past or at restaurants, or use supercook to help me use up ingredients I have on hand, or see some pop up on my Google Now feed.
/r/RedPillWives18/09/18 09:58 PM
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My favorite cookbook is a journal where I copy down my favorite recipes. I don't buy cookbooks any longer. Much easier (and cheaper) to find ones online.
/r/RedPillWives18/09/18 07:26 PM
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Family name
/r/RedPillWives02/09/18 09:11 AM
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If someone knows a good Discord for topics related to the sub or if the sub makes one please let me know by reply or pm
/r/RedPillWives17/08/18 05:24 AM
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Little girls both cry easily and forgive readily. It is quite alright to use the same stern voice with her and then comfort her afterwards.
/r/RedPillWives30/04/18 07:40 PM
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You can also cook sides served cold earlier. Like potato or pasta salad. Or salad (leave out any dressing or crunchy ingredients so that you don't ruin the texture, add them right before serving)
/r/RedPillWives30/04/18 11:39 AM
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I'm sorry my advice not be accurate to your situation because I don't cook for such a large group. One thing you can try is prepping ingredients earlier in the day at a more convenient time. You might be able to boil noodles and peel vegetables etc. Then closer to meal time you might only have left mixing and baking.
/r/RedPillWives30/04/18 11:37 AM
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If you were born 200 years ago or in a third world country, you'd be hauling the laundry to the riverside to scrub it against a rock. There is a huge difference between the difficulty and stress of your 'non-stop' work and his job. If you'd rather work and pay a housekeeper with your salary maybe that's a logical option for you
/r/RedPillWives20/03/18 04:16 PM
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The only time my husband does housework is if I am so ill, I'm bedridden. There's no earthly reason I can't have the laundry (or anything else) in order while he's at work sometimes 12 hr days. If the ironing or anything else is a bit much for you, maybe you could streamline it, for example choosing clothes for yourself in cuts and materials which do not need ironing so that now you only need to iron his.
/r/RedPillWives20/03/18 02:06 PM
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All of those things are dread game
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/18 12:58 PM
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Not everyone agreed with you. Reddit doesn't show downvotes any longer, just an aggregate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/18 07:12 PM
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Wow, a woman having infertility issues around the age of forty? What a mystery! As we all know, 40 is the prime age for childbearing /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/18 02:00 PM
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It's not the guy's race keeping him from treating you right 😂😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 04:19 PM
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But men in the 45 and up category are her age. If she wants to date younger guys she should bite the bullet and go to a cougar site. Comeon
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/18 11:28 AM
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The patriarchy added social value to a strong family man. The most recent waves of feminism are destroying that social value and make marriage increasingly dangerous for a man. The culture in my small town in the Deep South is still toward marrying young and my husband has the respect of his right wing co-workers for having a happy family life and owning a home (which he bought at the age of 22). Guess what, the men who still want a family and strong marriage are making it happen. But they are d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 03:15 PM
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Nothing about your post is clear. I think I need my magnesium checked because I dozed off and gave up halfway through
/r/askMRP07/02/18 01:47 PM
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Real women improve themselves to be worthy of commitment and secure a man that will care for his children before getting themselves knocked up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/18 02:39 PM
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And anyone smaller is an anorexic bitch, don't you forget it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 09:42 PM
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Gee why is she catering her look to women's tastes if she's trying to fuck men? Baffling
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 05:24 PM
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I am suddenly reminded of my former coworker who constantly had yeast infections, thanks to her fat sweaty cunt. Much appreciated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 01:46 PM
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Don't give people compliments that do not apply to me. In fact, my exact body type is the only one I want to see spoken if positively.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 01:44 PM
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That's disgusting. You'll find the entire body of an obese woman is "the wet spot." Many of the ones I have worked with are constantly putting on lotion and sprays to try to hide their sweat stink.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 01:41 PM
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According to her comment history, she has a BMI of 36 and weighs 215. She is not overweight, she is v deep into obese class II The butthurt of calling any woman more attractive than her "cake faced and anorexic" is just really not a good look either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 12:17 PM
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They are really short podcasts too so it's kinda like... Listen to one while you do the laundry and get some motivation or binge 10 of them while your husband is at work. It is really really nice to hear that other people have the same problems you do and find out what they do about it.
/r/RedPillWives30/01/18 08:27 PM
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Hmm yes, it checks out. ATMs are always exactly where you expect them... Never head out for wings and beer at the local sports bar and leave you to fend for you own for an evening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 08:50 PM
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Wants a serious relationship but does not wish to be introduced to your friends aka integrated into your social circle If she wants someone with no friends, is she seeking codependency?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 01:51 PM
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Alrighty that's a really good example at the end of your comment. If there's something you would do differently, at the end of the day as long as it gets done you have saved time. Is he jumping to do these tasks that you would rather take care of yourself because he is just very helpful? Or is it possible that you have complained about having to do them? Men (especially masculine men) are problem solvers. They don't understand that a gripe can be a plea for an empathetic ear, rather than a plea …
/r/RedPillWives23/01/18 09:49 PM
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When he says he will handle something, does he usually follow through with it? He is trying to take something off your plate, literally telling you not to worry. So don't worry. Don't nag him for details either. Try to encourage within yourself an attitude of thankfulness about it. It sounds like you aren't responding to him with "when?? How??" Which is awesome. A good response to him might be, "thank you!" Or even get corny if you are that type of couple "my hero, you always slay my dragons" No…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/18 09:09 PM
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I don't see the doublethink.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 05:17 PM
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Google the quote to find it instead. Google is your friend
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 04:00 PM
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you lazy fuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 03:10 PM
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Could be that she was posting to childfree even though she is childless by circumstance, rather than choice, or was karma farming. Or the types of guys she imagines suitable for marriage, she also imagines wanting children. "These guys won't commit because I'm childfree" is a gentler conclusion to come to than "these guys won't commit because I rode the CC." Wild speculation though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/18 09:53 PM
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Just checked out her post history... Four months ago she was "childfree" but now is wanting to start a family. So I'm going with yeah. Retarded
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/18 09:38 PM
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38 and trying to start a family. That's lovely if you dream of spending the entire rest of your life caring for children with Down Syndrome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/18 01:57 PM
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Listening to podcasts from https://www.aslobcomesclean.com while you clean can be awesome.
/r/RedPillWives20/01/18 01:18 AM
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I don't see you in the OYS thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 10:33 PM
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It sounds like you could afford to weekend away multiple times a month, take couple of week vacations somewhere warmer or some other combination. In addition to the other great ideas (vitamin D and lamps) you might also enjoy joining some fitness classes to get yourself moving indoors during the cold months. My old gym has a sauna and I'd recommend seeing if any local gyms have one and if you can have a day pass to try it out. Some even have indoor tracks! While better winter running gear won't …
/r/RedPillWives09/01/18 10:31 PM
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/r/mrpw
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/17 06:19 PM
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I like kik
/r/RedPillWives29/04/17 03:56 PM
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Straight out of Fascinating Womanhood I prefer Domestic Goddess, as Andelin wrote.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/17 05:44 PM
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Did she delete her whole account or just the post and conments
/r/RedPillWives10/04/17 08:06 PM
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I'm sorry for not being concise. The financial difficulty she would face is exactly what I was referring to. In a less related note: If you can afford the cost of him bringing in another woman into your relationship without financial hardships, then this could work out. She might stay a while and find a better branch to swing to and get out of your hair. Or she might end up with your man if she can't do any better. Face it, she's kept him around as a "best friend" all these years because he's he…
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 10:55 PM
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What it really sounds like to me is that she has considered every option and concluded that your long term boyfriend is the sturdiest branch that she can swing to. She doesn't want to report him and has tried staying with him because single life is hard. Her other friends (if she even has them) are probably offering less help monetarily than your bf. It's one thing to say, crash at my house until the police sort out your domestic violence case, just chip in for groceries Or waving the White Knig…
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 10:29 PM
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I'm sorry I forgot that you were speaking of a boyfriend, not a husband. But the sentiment still rings true.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 09:46 PM
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Why is she out of options? Is there literally no other person in her life that can offer her a helping hand, or even an organization such as a women's shelter or a church? If she has no friends or family that can/or are willing to help her is it because she would make an awful housemate? Do they not believe her when she explains her situation? Why is she running to a married man with her problems instead of the police?
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 09:45 PM
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Bahahaha vegans like this give them all a bad name. You don't have a right to an opinion on women's rights if you're not vegan??? Lmao
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 07:12 PM
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That is just golden
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 05:29 PM
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so uh. Here's some stuff
/r/RedPillWives09/04/17 12:40 AM
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Fetishizing your own race just proves your internalised racism and misogyny. An internal two-for-one. The DP of the SJW community
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 04:04 PM
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I really need you to tone down the cultural appropriation. Mopping on all fours is how they do it in Japan. Stop fetishizing Asians!!
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 04:01 PM
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Yes but there or more impressive ones in the thread. Happy April fool's~
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 03:46 PM
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”...you have no idea... Just some fun from /r/calligraphy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 03:43 PM
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You thought wrong
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 06:47 PM
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