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Just because a thing is *normal*, doesn't make it the same as that thing being desired or appreciated.
/r/seduction31/05/23 08:41 PM
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Think of it like this: whatever you devote time to, you’ll get good at. Getting good at finding a girlfriend doesn’t help you get good at keeping one. So, in a way, it’s wasted time. Instead, spending the time working on yourself - sleep, diet, exercise, therapy, hobbies and skills is going to make you a better friend and coworker, someone who gets invited to the parties or asked for help in a pinch, trusted with secrets that are held in confidence. And your future girlfriends are going to see a…
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:02 AM
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50 is a very professionally unsuccessful manwhore if you think about it.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:25 PM
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Either answer honestly, politely refuse to answer, or ask them why they want to know with GENUINE curiosity. If they don’t have a meaningful underlying motivation for asking, why indulge them? And if they do, now you have the start of a deeper more intimate conversation.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:23 PM
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Just some off the cuff examples. I know a lot of guys who will only have sex with ONE specific guy, or guys who aren’t attracted to men but will sleep with trans women or trans men. Those would also be “heteroflexible” and not necessarily bi…
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:52 PM
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I mean, the gay bar thing is 100000% dead-on. Even if you don’t use it as a place to pick up women, I highly advise men to visit gay bars now and then - if only to understand what it feels like to be hit on by someone you’re not interested in, and/or have a conversation with a stranger that isn’t a contrivance to get them in bed.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:18 PM
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Heteroflexible is a bit more niche than bi. Breaking it down, it’s “heterosexual, with flexibility” - usually situational, based on being a participant in some sexual context in which being a raging homophobe is ill-advised… or in their attraction to their own gender being so rare they do not incorporate it into their identity. Think… MFM threesome in a cold tent in a forest, and when she gets up to pee, you move closer together, not further apart. Or even just closing your eyes during an orgy, …
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:15 PM
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Nope. My best relationship ever started out as a mutual hard maybe that built into a hell yes over a lot of time.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:02 AM
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Think about it: older AND just as attractive. That’s a vast improvement, even before taking intelligence and personality into account. I don’t disagree that most people have a RANGE depending on how put together they are, but Madison peaks around 8 in full regalia, whereas the others start there, sans makeup. And of course, tastes may well vary the score up or down a place. Anyway, the point is that OP is hyper-focused on not only the wrong things, but is still aiming pretty low overall.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:57 AM
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Amanda Obdam, Summer Glau, Dichen Lachman, and of course the inimitable Ana de Armas, for starters.
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:45 PM
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Just saying, a few of the things you're talking about simply do not work as 8+ tactics. It's a different game entirely, or perhaps you could think of it as the same game played in a mirror. Luckily, OP is calling 6s 9s, so he's really got nothing to worry about if he can learn to love himself and chill.
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:53 AM
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Addison Rea If those women are 8s and 9s, Your scale better go to 15. They're just youth energy and putting in the time at the makeup table.
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:38 AM
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Madison beer A 6 with great support staff and camera angles.
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:35 AM
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Re-read OP's post. We don't need to assume much at all... It's written in OP's own words.
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:30 AM
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THIS.
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:29 AM
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For the insecure ones, sure. But who wants an INSECURE 9? That's a nightmare. If you're just notching the belt, fork over for a high class courtesan. But for a relationship, AVOIIIIID.
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:29 AM
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Lol. The answer is in your post. The whole post IS the answer. The gym? Doesn't matter. Game? Useful life skill. Unrelated to seduction and dating, once you truly understand it. Tinder? Bots. Career? Save up for that retirement. Social Circle? Ooh, you've got one here! This is hugely important! But... You're still missing "mindset". You have that same beginner mindset, trying to "get" girls, and rating them 1-10. And... For some reason, your social circle is AWARE of these facts, so you're front…
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:27 AM
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15/10 superhero.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:07 PM
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That’s simply not true. If you follow the book to the letter, you’ll never even attempt anything as off-putting as OP. Like everything else, oversimplifying the book’s advice, and/or overdoing the tactic instead of integrating the idea with something genuinely YOU is what fucks people up.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:00 PM
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Are you serious, or drama-trolling at this point? Go Immediately to Therapy. Do not stop, do not collect $200.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:45 AM
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Focus on being dateable at all first. You’re definitely not really there yet, you gotta break out of this defeatist self-talk. Why would anyone want to spend time around THAT?
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:36 AM
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Except you CAN have 19 year old friends. Stop digging in your heels, and realize you’re the only one standing in your way.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:25 AM
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Sigh. You clearly don’t have a wide enough social circle. Get out there. There ARE likable people your age. There just are. If it’s fundamental resistance on your part, seek therapy. Sometimes it takes a pro or a prescription to get you where you take notice of all you DO have, and stop navel-gazing on an immutable past.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:11 PM
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No, friend. Just… no. There are worlds beyond your imagining in your late 20s, 30s, 40s. Never too late to start. Never to late to start OVER. Hell, you could jump on the college bandwagon now and fit right in. Maybe you’ll wind up sleeping with more grad students than doe-eyed freshmen, but… you just have this weird “Hollywood movie” fantasy lens in life that is holding you back.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:06 PM
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Lol. You’re imagining a lot of weird things. Most kids’ “magical college move out” doesn’t give them independence - just an escape from parental scrutiny enabling them to fuck up big time with a group of similarly stupid late teens, and survive it as both proof that sweating the small stuff is a waste, and a bonding networking experience. You can still get all that. And why are you assuming you’ll hang with people your age? Nobody has friends lining up at their door, regardless of age. They’re j…
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:57 PM
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Well, of course they aren’t is the answer to your question. But, pretending it to be true on some extremely tenuous level, it would boil down to practicality: homosexual men don’t get gratification from female genitalia, whereas many lesbians very much appreciate at least proxy male genitalia… Your other generalizations are wholly inaccurate, at least with any consistency. Perhaps it seems true where you live? The most important thing to understand is that there is no monolithic LGBTQ community.…
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:24 PM
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Why are you still sitting in the bucket, though? You think like that, you may as well just stay in high school forever. Also, if it helps, you’re the copier here, so you really have no right to judge others - who are copying not you, but definitely someone more famous/put-together/open minded.
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:59 PM
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Step one: you never unlearn anything. You accept it, forgive it, and LEARN MORE. What you call “game” is just social awareness and social engineering. That can only get you so far - past a certain point, there IS a real you… And if none of your coaches were teaching you how to better yourself in addition to all the “tactics”… you had pretty shitty coaches. That said, every little technique you learn and master can be used a variety of ways, not just in the soulless pursuit of pussy and familial/…
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:25 AM
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No. It is meaningless. Also, hiding behind a bush waiting to see if she’s interested is also meaningless. YOU LIKE HER. Start talking to her, be kind but clear in your interest, and expect nothing in return. Go ahead and just say you had fun and you’d like to continue the conversation at this cool cafe you found, or whatever. Invite her somewhere, and be clear that you want to see HER (don’t waste time trying to get together at some larger event). Boldly make a move. That’s the secret. And if it…
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:02 AM
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Relaaaaaaaaax man. You don’t marry every single one. Just date, experiment, tweak, and learn. Maybe one good lesson to start with: stop worrying about what other people think about your date. If you’re happy, your bros will be happy for you… and more attractive women will take note, and sometimes express interest because of how well you treat someone “average”. If you’re constantly looking like you’re ashamed to be dating someone average, they’ll notice that too. And… that won’t work in your fav…
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:40 PM
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I think you’re overthinking, about things that don’t matter at all. Number of partners? Douchebags? Loyalty? Safe? It’s all bullshit. Live your best life, invite people you’re attracted to, to be part of that life. Comparing yourself to her past partners is a waste of time. Definitely acting holier than thou about number of partners is not going to help you. You’re both too young for this relationship to have much chance of lasting… So just enjoy it while it’s here, and keep getting better yours…
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:48 PM
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Well, a spoon is a pretty poor knife, but just try eating soup with a knife and not poke some holes in your cheeks. Dating apps do not match you to people you are compatible with that you will probably enjoy dating. You’ll have better luck if you use them not as they are advertised, but how they actually work… Most people over-prune their dating matches, and come up empty handed, in large part because they simply want the apps to work as advertised in doing the hard part of presenting them with …
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:47 PM
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Someone who is used to dealing with unthinking meatheads who think age has any great relevance to a seduction. Do older women work differently in bed? No. In seduction terms, they’re more likely to be secure with themselves, and ask for and get what they want. If she wanted a long term relationship, there might be gotchas worth discussing… But she wants to fuck. Go. Fuck. Enjoy it. She knows what she’s in for.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:39 PM
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I think it's worth a think in your own head why three years older is "too old", but worrying about what others think about your relationships is a great way to have awful relationships.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:08 AM
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Think of it as a chance to forgive the bullies and the silent majority who kept you out of that popularity circle. And then TRULY learn forgiveness. That shit is pure GOLD for happy living. And make sure you learn the difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and accountability. They are all different, and they don’t ALL need to happen. Forgiveness is about you letting go of the energy so you can move on. You don’t always need to make things better with the other party… as you say, you kin…
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:59 PM
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Don’t build a continental railroad at a time, hoss. One spike at a time, hammer with intention and energy, and no expectations. Put another way, 30 bite sized invitations lures them in as well as one all-or-nothing piece of bait. You save face by making the questions part of a natural progression, rather than an artificial “approach script”. I’d she gives you fives yeses and a no on the close, that’s just part of your ongoing conversation, and maybe not even a negative if you’re playing the long…
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:12 PM
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MUCH better analogy. You're not trying to trap the hummingbird. You're creating an environment hummingbirds WANT to be in. Sooooo much better.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:16 AM
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double entendre that works unironically as well: oplus 100 points.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:13 AM
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Horrible toxic analogy. The only way women are like fishes is they smell bad after you kill them and leave them in the sun. You can do better. Maybe an analogy that isn't about you being a lazy predator? If you're set on fishing, at least use a spear or fly. Show cleverness and intention, laser focus and patience. Net fishing is all about hauling in the most tonnage for the least thought, skill, or effort. And that's not remotely what seduction is about. It's like thinking that fitness is about …
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:11 AM
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When therapy doesn’t work, it’s like a date not working out… it’s just a bad match, not a bad idea. Find a new therapist.
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:13 PM
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You can do whatever you want, if you’re prepared to accept the consequences. Why are you here asking us what to do, though? Why not get out in the world and run some experiments? The stuff that “works” changes all the time, and works differently for each person. You’re going to have to find your own way anyway, so why not jump in with both feet?
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:33 PM
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Just remember that there aren’t really normies. Just boringies, stupidies, and insecuries. You don’t want to date them. When they self select out of your pool, thank them for saving you time.
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:51 AM
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The goal isn’t to “be you, and then be liked and accepted by all”. The goal is to be you in SPITE of the haters, unflappably, and enjoy the company of those who stick around, or rush to you like a beacon. Watch any of the first 12 regenerations of Doctor Who for a vague outline of how to be awesome without giving a fuck. That said, the doctor would happily hang out on his own for centuries… but spends all on-camera time hanging with buds, and randos, and nemeses. So, bear in mind also that your …
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:06 AM
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Appropriate races for segmentation: human, elf, and half-orc. Sort by color is OCD racism.
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:33 AM
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yeah. Also, don't knock learning various non-profit grifts! I mean, this IS r/seduction, so at least some of us are already familiar with the concept of fighting disingenuously for a seemingly-worthy cause... And certainly even the grossest pickup tactics and community lunkheadery has valuable/tranferrable lessons to teach!
/r/seduction20/03/22 05:06 AM
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Don't knock volunteering for a bad cause. That can be all sorts of fun, and in some ways even more fulfilling.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:47 AM
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Looking for a hobby IS a hobby, if you're diligent about looking. Try all the things! Reserve some of the more exotic oand/or fun attempts for date ideas, whether they wind up being viable hobbies or not. I've had great luck with gardening, personally... But I've tried almost every board-on-water sport, painting, writing, and various types of video production. But still, I don't think I have a hobby that makes my eyes shine the way I see in others sometimes... And I may never find a discrete thi…
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:46 AM
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You're the one pigeonholing yourself with terms like boring and vanilla. Think about it another way: You prefer your INITIAL sexual encounters focus on your partner and the mutual connection, rather than a bunch of fancy yoga poses and a briefcase full of tools and gadgets. Odds are you're as kinky as 9/10ths of the world's population - you've just had little opportunity to walk and talk in circles where that's not just acceptable but encouraged... And perhaps you also have imposter syndrome/per…
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:31 PM
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Funny thing you learn after years and years of fishing the sand dunes: you're not gonna catch a lot of fish. Pretty much all the "you" stuff you describe is stuff people love in ABUNDANCE. So, the fact that you're not finding compatible people can really only mean one of two things: You're looking in the wrong places / for the wrong people; You're not flying your freak flag high enough up the pole to get noticed by "your people" It's that simple. EVERYTHING is a valid interest, and EVERY one of …
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:14 PM
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You cock-blocked yourself. Taking her into the BATHROOM? And the only one at the party, at that. My man, bedroom. Back deck. Attic. Stairwell. Basement. A freaking car. Use your noggin when you get to snoggin. If the bathroom is your go-to in a situation like this, go back to charm school and start your training over again. Fundamentally flawed - Don't obsess over it, one whiff of those party toilet fumes, and she would've been out anyway.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:41 AM
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Basically, toxic masculinity will be the order of the day.
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:55 PM
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Your advice is only really applicable in a monogamous context. For those looking to engage with multiple partners, it's a godsend to "fine tune" energy levels to match each partner. Also, it's a highly-transferrable skill. In the workplace, in particular, you just can't give everything or nothing to all your peers...
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:24 AM
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Leave it out of your profile. Having grand designs of any kind in the profile itself is somewhat useless in the face of actually meeting someone. When you start talking, definitely emphasize how COMPLETE your life is. From there, just MAKE plans, and invite them. Be confidently casually sexual, without expectations. It's not about "gaming" someone into bed. It's about finding people who want to go to bed with you. You have correctly assessed that basically no one (outside of maybe grindr) is tur…
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:13 AM
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Yikes. I had no idea they still made glass snowflakes. Best of luck, you’re… gonna need it.
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:13 AM
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The question itself is irrelevant beta nonsense. Don’t hang back in fear of rejection. All that matters is whether you’re interested - and to a lesser extent, whether you can show interest without coming off as an asshole. Ruminate over whether you can read tea leaves or eye blink rates to assess interest all you want… but it all basically amounts to simple tricks you’re using on yourself to overcome your own fears. Just be afraid, and approach anyway. So much time and energy saved.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:38 AM
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He never specified that he was looking for a trash-tier golddigger, though?
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:36 PM
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When you understand the difference between desperately looking for casual sex and casually looking for sex, a whole new world will open up to you.
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:26 AM
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Why not? That unattractive girl knows other girls who might be your type. It’s like going to the gym - if you talk to EVERYONE, it’s natural to talk to the attractive people. If you ONLY try to talk to attractive people, everyone picks up on it and labels you a creeper.
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:59 PM
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"99% of the time when I approach a girl it is because I think she is pretty"... That. Fix that. If the only reason you walk over is that she's pretty, then they're gonna pick up on that. Why do you think so much of pickup and seduction are about misdirection/re-framing conversations? You're not just short-circuiting their brains, but actually legitimate giving yourself some other reason to talk to an attractive woman other than... she's attractive. Have a better, more natural reason to be talkin…
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:00 PM
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Yikes. You don’t want to seem like other guys, or you don’t want to BE like other guys? Because based on your post, you are 110% “other guys”.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:29 PM
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As the classic song goes, “What’s your man got to do with me?” Shoot your shot. Don’t worry and wheedle and give yourself excuses to hide behind. You like her, ask her out. You’re trying to save yourself from rejection, instead of saving yourself from being lonely. What’s the worst that could happen? She declines, and unless you have weird issues, you stay friends/friendly… You haven’t got much to lose here chief, just go for it.
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:31 PM
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lolno. You’re completely missing the obvious truth - seduction isn’t about the target at all. It’s about you not being the typical piece of crap basic dude. The OP is the product of someone who has zero skills, and a million anxieties. Tame your brain, THEN create your frame. You’re doing it backwards, and it shows.
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:21 AM
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You don’t need to ask detailed questions about anyone’s history - sexual or otherwise. You ask to see their most recent STI results… if you’re paranoid, the last 2-3. That’s it. People don’t owe you their past to earn your presence. You want a quality relationship? Be a quality guy. Not a tough road, but maybe a long way off? You’ll get there though, and it will all make sense. Everything you’ve said so far is “swimming in the insecurity kiddie pool” stuff. Grow out of it, and your relationships…
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:03 AM
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Or… Don’t make assumptions. Communicate. Be curious, without judgment. Make informed decisions, that show integrity and consistency. You can’t assume your way into being a skilled seducer. Seduction is about instantly creating an image of an unsurpassed future in her mind, not about you “steeling yourself” against her past, or the idea that a woman might actually want or enact the same sexual agency as a man. OP - it’s not too late to get help, brah.
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:55 AM
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Be rejected a lot. There is no alternative.
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:46 AM
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What metaphor? You’re using 6th grade vocabulary to describe an adult relationship. Say the hard but actually true thing, and you’ll have way more success.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:01 AM
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And that whole paragraph, in your infinite wisdom, gets boiled down to “caught feelings”. It’s just sad. You’ve proven you can express your true emotions, why play it off with that grade school nonsense?
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:15 AM
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Jesus Christ. You’re STARTING to like your friend. Do you realize how stupid that sounds, to an adult, anyway? Running on that junior high note passing feel catching logic in your 20s is regressive. Life (and seduction) gets so much easier when you realize there are no neat boxes, no friend zone, no nothing. It’s a single continuous spectrum, and people can move freely back and forth over time, without any sort of anxiety or confusion, if you just stop buying the bullshit and man up. You caught …
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:57 AM
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If you’re friends and they have no feelings for you already, you have a weird definition of friendship. Also, feelings aren’t a disease. Stop thinking they can be caught. Also, poke out your eyes if you have to, but stop looking for signals. Grow a pair and ask pertinent questions. You’re clearly good enough friends that you can TALK about your concerns and questions without it being a big friendship-ruining ordeal. The ideal is to just tell her what you’ve written here. Failing that, let her kn…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:28 AM
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If you want to talk to girls at the gym, talk to the guys at the gym. Then add the girls in as “one of the guys”. Show her the respect of not pursuing her when she’s working out, and she’ll either become a solid potential pivot, or be directly attracted to your level of chill, since MOST guys she interacts with at the gym are eventually going to reveal that ulterior motive.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:29 AM
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I recommend you internalize this lesson, and let her go. If you make the scary move of asking her to her face, the worst that happens is rejection. If you “figure out her contact info” using transaction receipts… the the worst is more like restraining orders, getting fired from your job, possibly even fined or incarcerated. Next time something like this happens, JUST ASK. And heck, if SHE ever comes back into the shop, tell her you regret not asking her out last time, that you’d like to take her…
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:22 AM
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Start by having it not be a game. Keep talking to her, until those lightbulbs start going off. Share your vulnerabilities as well. You’ve been together 8 years, even if you knew each other really well day one, you’d be totally different people now. Don’t take stuff for granted, date her like she’s someone new, and show energy and curiosity about satisfying her coquettish side HER way. There’s no pre-programmed type you can just lookup and run game on. Especially when you’re already in the relati…
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:37 AM
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You’ve named two excellent times to remain calm. You are NOT threatened by your girlfriend being flirted with, or even with her flirting back. She is not a post on the street you pee on to label territory. Chiiiiiiiill. And aggressive people, what, react better to aggression? Of course you want to remain calm, and defuse the situation if possible. If not, you want to be capable of handling yourself in a confrontation so that you win/escape without blowing your top to do it. Failing all that, you…
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:32 AM
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Well, it does result in him receiving a good deal of physical touch right off the bat, and in the real world would net him a sizable award in civil court that he could then invest in learning the social arts.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:26 PM
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YES. IT IS. Because it’s either a sign that you can easily neglect important things in your life, or that you’re intentionally seeding that stack to impress me, meaning there’s something equally negative you’re trying to make up for. If you want to attract hoodrat 8s, maybe it’ll work, but don’t expect that stack to be a full count for very long.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:30 AM
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It’s try-hard. A hundred in 20s and 2 C-bills, MAX. Rich people do not flaunt their cash, they flaunt their not caring how much they will spend for their own happiness. Stacks of cash and no platinum records on the walls is low-ass value.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:19 AM
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Is that 3-4 people, or 3-4 times per year regardless of playmates? The first is actually drifting toward the high end averages, the latter would be pretty low (but nowhere near record breaking). Also, this is a useless stat to track, especially as a condensate of multiple years. What you should be looking at is your trend. Graduated high school at 18, now 21, 9 lovers since high school… is three a year, with three lays a year. Meaning, you have had 3 one night stands a year… which means your pur…
/r/seduction27/12/21 12:10 AM
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Work on your insecurities, friend. Why is this guy a threat to you? Do your thing, ignore the rest. You are not going to be able to police who she sees even if you get to that exclusive relationship status. She’s telling you she doesn’t like this guy. Trust that, or walk away. Nothing worse for either of you than engaging in a relationship without trust.
/r/seduction07/12/21 06:35 PM
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If you did everything right up to this point, you ask “Just me, or both of us?” For either response, call your girlfriend and give her an overview of the sitch so she’s not left in the dark and won’t expect you home if you live together, etc. That said, that’s only if it’s the real deal. Sometimes, really insecure women will use it to test your fidelity. But again, just calling your girlfriend and telling her the details is a pure win - even if she is not okay with it. Act above board at all tim…
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:19 AM
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Give your time and effort to people who reciprocate. Ask other people out who will actually show up. Also, don’t be attached to outcomes. You like this person, go ahead and see what you can make of it… but just silently consider it “her turn” to ask you out. If she never does, there’s your final answer. If she asks YOU out and still ghosts… well, that’s another good clear message. 🙃
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:58 PM
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Read up on past lives, and work it in.
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:49 AM
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Immigration, health benefits, and power of attorney. Everything else can be easily granted via simpler legal means (relationship LLC, for example), or simply leaving things “uncodified” - I’d love to see statistics on unmarried couples staying together compared to marrieds. Just seems like waking up with intention rather than entropy would be a good thing long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:14 PM
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Don’t be obsessed with getting hard. Go down on her until she’s wiped out, or you’re ready for action. If you haven’t had medically diagnosed ED issues in the past, lay off the pills, too. They can wreck your ability to perform without them. Bring a really nice dildo if you are (or she is) super penetration-focused... but honestly these issues can be a blessing for women, who rarely get enough attention paid to various forms of foreplay. Work on those, and leave the rest to fate. If you’re still…
/r/seduction14/03/21 10:05 AM
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Yeah, whether a woman or man, you shouldn’t dismantle “dating you” to be in a relationship. You’re just taking away the part they’re attracted to, and showing them they don’t need to put in any effort to keep your interest. It’s a terrible idea to stop networking in your industry when you have your dream job. Same goes with dating. You don’t have to “work for” anyone else at the same time, but you should show confidently that you’re still that same sexy action-oriented you, even if it isn’t aime…
/r/seduction11/03/21 12:35 AM
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Congratulations, you’ve discovered the solar power of love! The brighter that sun, the more FREE power you receive from an external source. But when life gets dark? You need some combination of batteries (memories of these good times), and a backup generator (internal self-validation) to get you through. I don’t think anyone would say to turn away from or shut down the attention and feelings you’re getting... just don’t rely on it, because chasing what you’re feeling is going to lead to a feast …
/r/seduction26/02/21 07:29 PM
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(messes up, starts watching Take On Me music video)
/r/seduction24/02/21 10:39 PM
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Not to nitpick, but you spelled Pedostool wrong.
/r/seduction24/02/21 10:38 PM
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Nope. Getting Chlamydia or Syphilis suuuuucks. And while HSV1/2 are basically gonna get got by the time you’re 40 if you’re at all sexually active, doing what you can (including getting tested) to avoid the spread shows you care. But a current HIV test is better than nothing. I tend to just tell my doc I’m sleeping with the full cast of a cirque du soleil show, and they authorize a pretty full panel.
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:16 AM
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Maybe it's just semantics. I don't disagree - I'm just saying don't withhold your feelings, feel your feelings., then use them as a signal to help you with a next move. Integrating love as a process instead of a milestone just makes everything easier, including when you don't have a deeper love for someone - it's much easier to do casual when you are upfront and open about your feelings. Giving that clarity might result in some rejection, but the people who get it will appreciate and trust you m…
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:35 AM
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If you view saying I love you as some huge hurdle or milestone, you’ve got it backwards. Give the love, receive the love, as fully as you feel it, always. I love you should never be an accomplishment, a reward, or a trap. Just love everybody according to your capacity and desire.
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:08 AM
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This. New people are everywhere always. If you disagree, go to the eye doctor. You’re just not seeing them.
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:04 AM
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These days, you bring your current paperwork to the first date. It may come up or not, but when it does, BAM. you’ve got it, and it shows reaponsibility. And yes, ALWAYS condoms, at least until you’re both exclusive and tested together. It’s not just that they could be lying about STIs, they could be lying about their age, or marital status, or any number of things you want nothing to do with in a genetically traceable way.
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:02 AM
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A lot of women will want to know that on the first date at the LATEST. It’s like talking STIs: the longer you wait, the more it’ll be seen as hiding it and wasting their time. Don’t worry too much about that - only the timer wasters worry about wasted time... but it IS good to be able to comfortably and openly talk about your intentions and boundaries from the jump, every time. Nothing’s sexier than someone who knows what they want - and it’s you - AND they’re not in a rush. If you incorporate t…
/r/seduction23/02/21 12:58 AM
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It’s important to recognize the difference between a hookup, and having sex with a “soulmate” on the first date. That you’re not in a hormonal rush to bone all breathing females is only going to help your presence and reputation... But unnaturally waiting should you ever FEEL things clicking hard can be a mistake that best case puts off an amazing time together and brings you closer... or worst case delays it past her willingness to wait, and you miss out because of your own insecurities. To the…
/r/seduction23/02/21 12:53 AM
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Then just be a good guy. Over the timespan to the heat death of the universe, their breakup is inevitable. All you can do, is make yourself even MORE awesome in the meantime - and who knows, maybe the full collapse into entropy isn't required for her to see the light? Or you may even find someone even better suited to who you are and where you're headed along the way.
/r/seduction22/02/21 09:55 PM
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Be honest to others and improve yourself would be even better, but sure.
/r/seduction22/02/21 12:10 PM
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Keep in mind that there are points, and there are vectors. You may not be at the POINT where she finds you attractive, right now. There IS NO FRIENDZONE. There are just men and women who don’t keep moving and improving. So, you get in motion, you better yourself, and she starts to think of you as a guy who is going places, who can break out of the expected norms. Maybe she wants to tag along for the ride! Maybe she likes it right where she is, though. By moving forward, you realize she’s the one…
/r/seduction22/02/21 10:28 AM
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Just... talk to them. The thing you are attracted to is these men know how to be themselves, and aren’t trying as hard to impress everyone. Be like that. Be clear and ask for what you want, no weasel words or make them go first bullshit. You’ll find your guy if you do that. It won’t even take long or be difficult. They’re out there, just waiting for you to be ready.
/r/seduction21/02/21 05:58 AM
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This is not a gendered problem. Have lots of friends of any gender that you trust enough to support you through various rough patches. Never put the load on any one, whether friend, coworker, lover, or family. Distribute it. Most people run on a support deficit. I’d say a good minimum would be 5-6 people you SOLIDLY trust and could share anything with, at least 3 of which are less than an hour away by car.
/r/seduction20/02/21 05:15 AM
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This issue is temporary. One generation after the coming of the sex robots, people will treat each other as normal humans most of the time, have sexy romantic fun sometimes, and be needy/clingy only as a sign of severe mental trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:52 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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