BlancheDevereauxCA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1073	Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!	ROAST-A-SCROTE	BlancheDevereauxCA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/21 06:03 PM
68	This was posted by a woman & I’m tired of movements that are positive for us being hijacked by Pickmeishas who just have to point out that mEn mAtTeR tOo	PICKME CULTURE	BlancheDevereauxCA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 07:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone. And thanks to you for confirming my gut suspicion about at least one of them. It honestly felt like he was only complaining about his wife to me in order to gain sympathy to lead to some sort of affair. I’m so glad to have cut that mess off from the get-go. Here’s to having strong boundaries and listening to instinct!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 10:17 PM
23	Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone. Absolutely THIS! My strategy is to avoid these type of men at all costs in and out of work. I do however work in a male dominated office and used to deal with these types. What I found works is to automatically shut them down by keeping the focus on work. If they continued, I took the wife’s side, suggested couples therapy and again reminded them I am here to work! I’m not here to be an office therapist and hell to the no on any sympathy scouting. Ugh, these ones are the worst. No, I’m not the o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 06:43 PM
65	Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes! I’m so sorry you went through that. Big hugs and congratulations to you for getting away from him & his shitty emotional abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/21 09:44 PM
273	Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes! https://imgur.com/a/e2fGw30 He was told this truth in the comments which of course triggered his fragile ego and sent him into his feelings. But her response was gold and more truth about his situation 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/21 08:27 PM
2	How do you get rid of narcissistic partner? The only way is complete and total No Contact. If NC is unavoidable due to custody issues, or other legal reasons, then grey rock and having rock-solid, unbreakable boundaries are musts. There is no other way and it is possible. Absolutely follow the advice of no checking in on their or mutual acquaintances' social media, don't listen when people you know give gossip or updates on what they are doing or who they are seeing. Blocking everything to do with them is another must. It will be hard in …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 03:26 PM
54	The Ick When I went to his condo for the first time and saw how messy he lives. That and finding out about his edible addiction. Both are red flags in the FDS guide which helped me to get out of that mess of a situationship before it went too far. I’m now working on continuing to level up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/21 04:12 PM
9	We deserved to be protected. We deserved to be stood up for. We deserved to be treated with respect and kindness. It got emotional reading this. It helps to know we are not alone. We have each other and our resilience. There is a quote by Frida Kahlo that I hold dear to my heart: “I used to think I was the strangest person in the world but then I thought there are so many people in the world, there must be someone just like me who feels bizarre and flawed in the same ways I do. I would imagine her, and imagine that she must be out there thinking of me too.” Thank you for this post. ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 08:11 PM
9	What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you? The man who abused me and I was impregnated by when I was a teenager (he was 26, I was 16) has pretty much all of the warning tattoos mentioned on this thread so these are all dead on. He had my name tattooed on him and then had VOID put over it after I finally left his sorry excuse for an existence for good. He also had: teardrop under his eye, my children and his other child’s name (idk why because he was an absolute deadbeat), Various quotes that I can’t remember, smile now cry later, a large…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 04:48 PM