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Omg! Finally someone gets it!!!! Can you post this on repeat everyday of the week for the slow ones. Because no matter how many people try to explain it, some guys think it’s a conspiracy and women’s vaginas are McDonald’s all ready for them, open 24/7 hence gripe about not getting pssy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:52 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:31 AM
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Lol. Explains a lot. Still NOT a nice guy. Maybe touched in the head. Take your meds. They will help, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:16 PM
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Wow…. I’m sorry western education failed you this much. Have you heard of adjectives? Do you know the difference between a noun and an adjective? Is English perhaps your second language? Or perhaps do you need your meds adjusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:12 PM
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I’m confused, do you identify as male? Or as over 200lb. What has this got to do with anything in my comment? And why do you feel any of my comment applied to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:04 PM
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Nice guys don’t storm off after being rejected. Guys who have ulterior motives do. Nice guys are those with the capacity to form friendships without ulterior motives. A guy who calls himself a nice guy is in fact NOT a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:18 PM
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You’re right. It’s part of the reason I’d rather be celibate. It’s much less of a headache than feeling like someone’s convenient cum rag. They say some guys are willing to wait for sex, majority are not and want to hit it in 3 dates or less. Seeing what many of them post about their real feelings about women and dating makes me less inclined to be about that life. Maybe if I’m really bored and horny… but more often than not reading a good book is better than getting banged by a guy I barely kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:23 PM
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Of course… and just like that. You have herpes. From a total stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:15 AM
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Lies. It just means she’s not a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:46 PM
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Yup. They are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:08 PM
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Men belligerently refuse to understand that women do not think the way they do or have the same motivations. Even if you explained it as to a 5 year old, they wouldn’t get it. I own my own home, I would not date a hot homeless man. I had a roommate who owned a home in her 20s, she didn’t date bums either no matter how fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:57 PM
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Some of the guys here are as lost as the blind leading the blind. You honestly think good looks lead to love? Idiotic. Hardworking and resourceful is way more attractive than a boy toy. But… do you. If you’re ugly theres always cosmetic surgery. If you’re fat, you can lose weight and bulk up. But you can’t make up for lazy with any amount of good looks. And broke will definitely keep you unhappy if you’re any kind of responsible. But… again do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:11 PM
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Like adult man children right. Ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:22 PM
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Speak for yourself As a single woman I’m totally enjoying my peace. I don’t have to argue, convince or clean up after anyone. I’m not arguing about splitting bills or who pays for what. If I want something, I get it. If I want to eat at an expensive restaurant, I do so. If I want to go to Europe, the only calendar I check is mine. I do what I want, I go where I want with my friends. No arguments, no stress. Sex? I get serviced by a nice vibrator, no mess. What’s a girl to be unhappy about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:40 PM
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Pure misogyny here. Poor innocent man 🙄 If you ever wonder why you can’t find a woman, read what you wrote here. Since your archetype of a perfect woman is mothers and grandmothers. Are you willing to be the type of man your grandfather was? Court a woman without demanding she pay for herself? Be patient and wait for commitment or marriage to have sex? To be the financial provider for her and your children? These are the things that made the ones you cite capable of being the way they were. Are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:31 PM
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I like men. I’ve met a lot of really nice guys who are usually married or gay. Reddit taught me about incels and redpillers and that most men really don’t like women. They will use them, whine about not getting sex, refuse to treat women with any dignity whatsoever and act like women should be willing cum dumps. Truly eye opening. Now, if a guy can’t act like a human friend, he can fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:29 AM
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I think they are better at getting pregnant and pushing babies out, breastfeeding and all the necessary stuff. A lot of women who go down the road of a stay at home husband come home from work to start mostly undone work at home. It’s not like I have a ton of house work as a single person. So he would literally have very little to do but cook. And I can buy food if I don’t wish to cook. I really have no use for a house husband, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:52 AM
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Nope. Unless for some reason he makes my life 100% better than it is now. I have no kids so what would he be sitting at home doing? It’s not like he is pregnant or something. I’m straight but I’d rather marry a woman, they make better partners generally and she can have babies and raise them as her reason for being at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:39 AM
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Im happily single and celibate. I don’t feel like I’m missing anything or there’s a whole lot a guy can offer that is worth the headache or heartache. I get dates and get compliments when out so I know I’m attractive. I’m not interested in casual sex and most men are not interested in emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. And most women value safety and emotional intimacy. You might be right in your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:42 AM
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No two guys are the same. No two dates are the same. You get to judge each individually. That said, guys are trying to do less and less these days and expecting great results. So hold on to your standards. If he is intentionally devaluing you, like many try to do these days, it’s okay not to give him more of your time. There’s a silly woman somewhere for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:10 AM
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Men use women for sex very often. Yes they do use. And discard It’s not often that women do the same but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:10 AM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:03 AM
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Truth
/r/seduction07/04/23 05:41 AM
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Wow. Women. Bitch. Really? Perhaps try pushing a baby out of your penis after it has rearranged your internal organs. And try having your rabid crotchfruit wailing at you all day and having to fetch and carry for them as well as cleaning and feeding your partner Perhaps try putting yourself in these bitching women shoes. Oh, but you can’t. As a raging psychopathic narcissist. Not to mention most women I know out earn men, out of necessity to feed the kids the men would easily run out on to be we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:51 AM
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It’s bad for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:55 AM
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Except most women do not like or enjoy the FWB situation and have other options to deal with any “ itch” that does not involve lies, deception, or feeling used for sex, or the emotional attachment some women form with it. Women who treat sex like men do of course, have selection of men to bed at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:21 AM
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Not white. Not skinny. Not desirable according to modern standards and many guys will rather cry about loneliness than reach across society red lines to date a woman of color( I don’t mean Asian or Mexican) Good thing is these women are usually successful and after a while find other things to do with their lives than pine over men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:25 PM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:53 AM
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Women have lowered their standards already. There are therefore fewer relationships. Men get their needs met and go through several women before they either get tired or stuck with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:56 AM
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Yes. We have had men shove sex in our faces for centuries. These days many men offer nothing more than bad sex and otherwise hate women even as they use women’s bodies for their pleasure and treat women like they are less than human otherwise and not worthy of care and consideration. Women see this day after day, on the internet, in chat rooms, on SM, on dating sites. A guy whom you’ve never met thinks it’s okay to ask for his dick sucked, but will call the woman every name but a child of god if…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:42 AM
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You’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:14 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:13 AM
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Are you a woman? Have you ever been a woman? Had ovaries? If not, do shut your trap. You do not speak for even one woman, not even the one that should have swallowed you or flushed you down the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:30 PM
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I call them sex predators. If you only want sex from another human you’re a sexual predator, just as if a person only wants your money they are a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:08 AM
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The women delegation could ask the same of men. Guys that don’t want a relationship… why even date. But we know the answer to that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:46 PM
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No. Most women attracted to will not approach. Perhaps if you’re an 11/10… even then maybe less than a third of women attracted to you will approach. And unlike most men, majority of women don’t act on just attraction alone. So you might be waiting forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:49 PM
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Because many men will find any reason to devalue a woman, even when he is not worth being in the same room as her to begin with. Sun Tzus art of war; Despise the things you cannot have. Many men live and breathe this. And of course women don’t know it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:03 AM
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Bwa ha ha ha… 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:27 PM
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No idea. I get ghosted on the regular by heterosexual men who start out telling me I’m the best thing since sliced bread… So it can’t be that hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:37 AM
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Those are not dad bods. Those proudly calling themselves dad bod would still be fat and fugly by 1970 standards. Them dad bod lovers can have them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:25 AM
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As a woman I really want to believe this.
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:34 AM
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They think you’re cute, there’s nothing wrong with being cute.
/r/seduction11/09/22 08:27 PM
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Because they don’t usually do that but are exploring something new at this time. In case they come across as awkward or wierd while doing it, whatever it is.
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:03 PM
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It’s a disaster. 80% of folks around don’t understand your schedule, financial matters or your logic. A disaster.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:56 PM
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Ask her why she feels the need to ask that question and what the information will do for her, personally. If she’s just being nosy, and you’re not interested in anything long term; you can tell her it’s none of her business. If you like her, tell her to pick a number that makes her happy. Either way, it’s none of her business. This is a stupid question to ask anyone.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:25 AM
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Google is your friend
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:40 AM
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Bruh… if you didn’t date then and have zero sexual interest in this person….. Tell my why the fuck anything they have to say about your physical appearance matters? Especially when you’re clearly being negged.
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:31 AM
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What exactly did she refer to as “small”? Your height or your lil buddy?
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:14 AM
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Maybe you don’t deserve the women you think you do.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:49 AM
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If you’re a great lay… this should not be a problem
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:56 AM
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Congratulations
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:48 PM
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Men. Lie. Not every woman requires an emotional connection. A combination of these
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:49 PM
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The short answer is yes. They have an overrated opinion of themselves and dehumanize and demonize the opposite sex. /redpill /purplepill /seduction If more women saw these subs. Zero guys would be getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:21 PM
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You should definitely ask if she prefers to be called and what time. Keep the calls short and sweet, under 5 minutes. Basics called to say hello/hear your voice (again), how was your day? And looking forward to seeing you soon. Dream about me tonight
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:23 PM
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I just want to fuck… Use your hand Just wanna fuck girls… well you got a sister? Maybe you and your friend can do a sister swap.
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:57 PM
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While lust is important and guys hate being “ friendzoned”, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. If you guys are now friends, you can technically now go after her hotter friends. That always creates some sexual tension. Play the long game.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:34 PM
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Then tell them both that. Hey, I’m seeing someone else and I hope you are as well. It’s that simple. If that’s what you really want, then tell her you’re not exclusive and are not trying to be exclusive
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:26 AM
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You know you’re single till married right? And so is she. As long as you keep the same “ nothing wrong energy” if your girlfriend decides to act like you. You’re doing nothing wrong if you don’t have a problem with roles being reversed.
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:22 AM
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That’s bullshit and you know it. But whatever lie you tell yourself that makes you sleep better at night is ok.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:59 AM
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Well… either have a come to Jesus with yourself and pick one you like better or keep juggling with the knowledge that this will likely blow up in your face. You are a dick btw. Just embrace it. You’re treating these girls in a way you wouldn’t want to be treated. Karma is a bitch with a long ass memory… and 10 years from now, you may remember this when your wife and mother of your kids decides to cheat on you for what seems to be no good reason. But… who cares. Enjoy your juggle.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:22 AM
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What’s a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:59 PM
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Where do you live? Cos taxes and inflation are a thing. In California with $2k/month income, you’d be homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:09 AM
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Then guys should treat the people they are sexually attracted to like the guys they claim not be attracted to but are constantly trying to impress
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:07 AM
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False. Men are angry because they can’t pick a woman off the streets and go off with her and do whatever they want. They are angry that they need to learn social skills and relationship skills. They are angry that they aren’t assigned king status and given a harem of willing women. They can resolve their issues by being better humans but it’s easier to just be angry and frustrated with women/life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:42 AM
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She doesn’t need to be your girlfriend In fact girlfriend is an arbitrary term. If you’re seeing her, you like her and are friends or friendly, that’s your girlfriend- for now. But if you’d rather treat someone like trash till they become your girlfriend, good luck with that.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:54 AM
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She checks every box. You don’t have to travel. You’d be getting shittier tickets to go with her and enjoy her company. It’s not like you’re doing something amazing here. If the thought crossed your mind, go for it. It’s an experience you both will remember a long time. You don’t need anyone to validate it or rob you of the experience with her.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:26 PM
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That’s below the poverty line. OP is saying choose poverty level income vs a husband. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:14 PM
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I never want to split. My offer to do so is just to see what kind of dude I’m dealing with. If he declines, I don’t insist. I graciously thank him for being a gentleman
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:03 PM
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This is a silly question. Many women make more money than this. Add a zero and Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:01 PM
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As everyone else says. Women are humans… not a potential cum rag or glory hole. Treat them like you’d want to your mum to be treated. Be nice, polite. Make eye contact. Chat with people, say hello. Being a decent human is a whole lot easier than trying to be a pick up artist.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:09 PM
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Grow up. She isn’t property or a pet. She is a full fledged human who is allowed to like whom she likes. She was likely into your friend from the start but you only notice it now your feelings have cooled. If she’s really your friend and you’re a decent human, you wouldn’t begrudge her or him this. Imagine if roles were reversed and some girl you weren’t into had a crush on you but you are really into her friend. Would it be fair to you if she held it against you? Or prevented you two from seein…
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:21 AM
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Well, king douche. You don’t. You ghost. What were you going to say? Sorry, if I’m not fucking you I have no interest in speaking with you? Nah, that would be stating the obvious and extra douche
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:36 PM
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Dude always made a pass. Just not an overt one. I’ve remained friendly even though I declined or ignored his passes. He didn’t just develop attraction all of a sudden. He just felt I’d be amenable at this point. I’m not.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:27 AM
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The whole no point talking to a woman if you aren’t going to get to fuck her is straight up dehumanizing. I always ask if guys fuck their male friends they spend so much time bonding with. So what’s the point of having friends or socializing. That whole concept of not being able to be friends without an ulterior motive is straight up retarded, and why men will keep failing. I was willing to travel across country just to hang out. I guess he will just have to find another friend who likes him jus…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:22 AM
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I have dated people during the time I knew him. You’d think this would be his clue I’m not into him.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:18 AM
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Guy I’ve known 5 yrs made a move. I’ve always been clear as seeing him as a friend. I jokingly turned him down. His feelings were hurt. He hasn’t spoken to me in a couple of months. On one hand, I’m hurt because I liked being friends with him and feel he has had this ulterior motive all along. On the other hand, I’m just pissed.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:25 PM
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Men should date men and women should date women. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:11 PM
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It’s no longer enough to be born with male parts. Or have a job. Women require more than that now. And most men were not properly raised into the role that is now required of them. Many are still playing old games, pua nonsense and measuring their worth by the number of women they bed without having quality relationships or even knowing what those look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:46 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:44 AM
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Nice is subjective Everyone likes nice people. Every girl wants a nice guy. There are many guys who think they are nice, but in reality are manipulative assholes. The fact you and your mom think you’re nice does not make you a nice person. In fact most self proclaimed nice guys are raging assholes. Genuinely nice guys are highly sought after. And women don’t let them go
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:07 PM
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No
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:07 PM
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Guy, you have the wrong approach to this. Most guys approach OLD like it’s a free brothel where they pick the hottest girl and BAM she’s supposed to want to come over and have her brains fucked out. Reverse roles for a sec. Say you had a daughter, or mom, or kid sister… imagine any female you actually care about. Would you want them going online to fuck random guys? No dating, no romance. M Just meet and greet, then Netflix back at dudes place eagle spread. A few women work that way, those worth…
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:48 PM
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Like…. Do whatever he likes And Let him get off first. Hmmmm
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:34 PM
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The guys responding really need to put their age, no of partners and if currently in a relationship or not.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:25 PM
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Tell her all the sexual things you’re wanting to do .
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:36 PM
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You have low self esteem and it shows.
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:32 PM
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You want to bone her, she wants to get to know you. Different priorities here. Of course, boner is more important
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:48 AM
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Your unpopular opinion happens to be a false belief. One that will keep you in the cycle of rejection
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:05 PM
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Get some fancy hobbies, do a few nice vacations and post them along with your job in your profile. Also maybe get a stylist There are very few well off guys that can pull off ugly. You’ve got to look the part.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:59 PM
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Maybe they are not with a guy. Or the guy is just someone they aren’t serious with… hence no point of him on her insta throwing off serious guys
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:33 PM
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You know this because you’re in all womens heads? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:32 PM
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Text and ask her when will be a good time
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:33 PM
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That’s not how dating works for everyone. It’s how dating works for people who date multiple people. But whatever you say pal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:24 PM
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Of course… the guy is a sleaze, it’s the woman’s fault 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:38 PM
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I’m a woman. Some women attach very strongly after sex and know that it’s not the same for men. You pointed out you’re having sex with 2 other women, she would be the third. She would rather be someone’s special someone, someone’s one and only. So far, you haven’t said anything that shows that you’re that person. To her, a commitment to an exclusive relationship is a step in that direction. But she’s not one for the harem or rotation life. Kindly respect her decision and enjoy your other women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:17 AM
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She treated you like you were an incompetent child and you enjoyed it and think that’s what you deserve. Aight king
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:41 PM
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It happens. It’s silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:53 PM
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Zero. Or very little. Dishes after dinner and the occasional picking up after the kids. Help bathe the kids and put them to bed. Cooking when I’m off. In all honesty the SAH/SAHD is not for me. It’s a set up for abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:36 PM
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Lots of people want a Fk buddy and call it FWB. Fk buddy comes over, you bang it out, they/you leave. FWB actually do friend things, travel, concerts, watch movies, or just hang out at the bar. Tbh, there’s not much of a difference between FWB and an actual relationship. Maybe in one situation you’re not in the right headspace for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:30 PM
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This would work IF: People knew what they wanted If they are actually honest. But dating these days is crap for both genders.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:08 PM
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Some people are just unapproachable hence don’t want to be approached unless it’s someone they are interested in and of course, they ruin it for everyone. I grew up in a place where catcalling and being followed by someone who wanted to talk to you was normal. I got stalked, but most of our stalkers are non violent. And men were comfortable approaching a lady they found attractive to make small talk and ask if she was single. It was also a place where men of means spoiled a girl they barely knew…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:05 PM
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Perhaps try liking the person? Or getting to know them as a person instead of a potential nut. Your values are shallow and you’re chasing folks just as shallow as you. There’s more to life than this.
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:27 PM
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Some people feel that their good looks compensate for lack of character or personality. You can’t make them more interesting. They aren’t. There’s a reason airheads make great arm candy. They are there to look good, nothing else.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:00 PM
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Yeah? I know a 40 y/o virgin. She was saving herself for marriage. Would you be interested or is she the wrong age at this time? And you’re looking for. Virgin for a long term relationship… in which you become a body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:12 AM
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Yikes. This reeks of entitlement. You’re not entitled to affection or female bodies. And it’s disgusting. You could have had your tongue in a booty hole right before the date.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:06 AM
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What exactly is a low body count? N of 1, ? 0? 1-5? <10? <20 Or just less than yours? What’s the difference between 5 and 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:40 AM
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No. Men want hot girls who drop their panties on the first date. At least that seems to be the recurrent theme
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:45 PM
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Ha ha ha I’m not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:44 PM
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Try again. Same girl, somewhere more private. Just say hi, smile a couple of times. Nothing else. Third time, hi, smile, still waiting on that number of yours.
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:16 PM
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Well. Idk. Give me a chance or not, I real don’t care because someone else will want these DDs and perfect booty. Plus I’m funny, smart, classy adventurous and have a pretty fabulous life. But I’m not for anyone who asks these kinds of questions cos I got sarcasm like the Brits and really don’t suffer fools gladly. Besides, I heal the sick and raise the occasional dead, I may not walk on water and my shit stinks unless I had wine… but what’s not to like? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:56 PM
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The first time you do something, it’s fantastic By the 50th time, it’s a bore. At least it didn’t take you that long to figure it out. Only folks who are desperate for sex or sex addicts will tell you otherwise. Now you can go on and have a productive life and form meaningful relationships
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:35 PM
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This is b.s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:31 AM
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What do you gain by marrying someone who is dependent on you? Who will take everything you worked for when you fuck up? As you will…. It goes without saying because this is a shithead mentality post. Age is but a number and sex is sex. Hope you see value in what your partner brings to the table that is beyond youth and looks. Because those two are superficial and temporary. But I wish you what you wish yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:41 PM
1

Step one: Get on cruise ship Step 2: unpack your shit, hope you have some decent clothes. Step 3: look up activities to see which sound adult friendly. Step4 hang out at the bar. Say cheers to everyone
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:19 PM
9

Generally speaking no. As a woman I agree to a date if the guy seems nice and respectful and like someone worth getting to know. I don’t need to be entertained. I have food in my fridge and wine in my cellar, as well as my own Netflix subscription. He will just have to be more interesting than that.
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:56 PM
18

How exactly did she model a thing in a public store? Did you go in the ladies dressing room with her? Ok. I understand now. This is something you wish would happen
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:28 AM
18

It’s hella dumb entitlement to think that someone you just met, have put zero effort in (as this sub often advises), have cultivated no sort of relationship with; would make you a priority. Like what do you think makes you/him so special that she would prioritize him over important things, like education, good grades, a paycheck or even quality time with her friends and family. Being priority is earned, not a given. And dumb advice like this ensures young folk stay single losers.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:06 PM
25

Everyone is different. Your pov is just entitled.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:34 PM
1

She’s a desirable woman. Likely out of your reach. The guys saying easy fuck are the ones who wouldn’t get a chance in hell with her. She has multiple options.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:29 PM
1

Focus on yourself. You’re just a horny person with an under developed brain at this time.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:31 PM
10

You coerced her into oral sex. Literally demanded it after she declined. Then decided you didn’t want to return the favor. Ultimate power move if you are trash and want to make her feel like trash. Also the kind of behavior that makes girl accuse you of sexual assault. Then you start to whine about what you didn’t do. GL asshat
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:56 AM
2

There’s nothing to tell. You have feelings for another human. Her size does not make her less human or less of a woman. It’s like saying I caught feelings for an Asian/black girl, what do I tell her? You tell her: Girl, you fine
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:32 PM
2

There are no rules. Except be cognizant and respectful and act natural. If you’re not able to tell when looks like a good time to approach, you’re setting yourself up for rejection over and over again till you can understand social/human cues. Some people are generally unapproachable anyways.
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:39 PM
1

By knowing that you’re not perfect and you’re not for everyone but that you are enough and perfectly imperfect. As long as you’re doing your best to be the best version of yourself, you should build your confidence on that.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:56 AM
6

You’ve got to work on your confidence. Winning the genetic lottery by being good looking only gets your foot in the door. Learn to make eye contact, smile and look away. Say hi to the attractive girl in class and ask her what she thought of class today. If she sounds really smart, then work the intellect angle. If you’re looking for a pretty face, they are a dime a dozen and beauty is only skin deep. You can find them everywhere, you just need to open your mouth.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:11 AM
1

And you think that those who prefer Caucasians aren’t brainwashed by societal class and Beaty standards that infer that other women are somewhat inferior despite the fact that these caucasoids will go through great lengths to obtain black features? Lip fillers, boob jobs, butt injections, tanning, appropriation of black culture to look cool. It’s all very very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:09 PM
1

That’s funny. 100% huh? I have married black friends that prove otherwise. Some even married to Scandinavian 6+ foot blue eyed guys making 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:05 PM
4

People would learn a lot if they stayed friends instead of immediately ghosting everyone that either rejected them or just didn’t work out with. The current ghosting epidemic is why people are lonely. And have no friends or social circle. More people need to get thick skin and get over themselves. Very often some friends are even more valuable than a date or just someone to fuck around with.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:55 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:51 AM
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All the misogyny spewing out of OP. Dude it’s okay to be gay. Leave women alone. They don’t have to want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:53 PM
2

Love means different things to different people. You have to figure out what it means to you in a relationship then look for that relationship. You also have to genuinely care about the other person. And for most folks that’s the hard part. They want love but do not want to show or give love. For it to work, you have to be comfortable giving of yourself. Affection, time, thoughtfulness and working on being a partner and person worth loving. Because regardless of the crap pop psychology, not ever…
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:39 PM
9

Looks like you go looking for hook ups and find hookups. When you decide to go looking for love, you’ll likely find it. But if you’re doing hookups and hoping to find love. You’re going to feel empty for a long long time.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:30 PM
1

It’s wild
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:15 PM
3

Well I’m black. Rejection is a constant part of my life. I went dancing last night and just observed as the half skilled males passed over the skilled black ladies in favor of dancing with some white girl who looked like she ran out in the middle of the night in her 1980s nightgown. In that moment, the irony struck me. Same as in life. Then those who asked me to dance were surprised at my skill in heels. Did I mention half the girls went salsa dancing in sneakers. Which to most dancers is like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:27 PM
24

I prefer to get asked. Subtly or overtly. Better than being suddenly invaded by tongue
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:22 PM
1

Yes. Many immature men do this. Some also insult the woman after she has slept with them.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:38 PM
2

Have money or at least a career. What can you offer her that a younger dude can’t? Wine and dine her. Think trip to Tahoe. Also be funny and open minded.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:12 PM
1

The girls that come over on a first date are the ones that end up as bodies and you’re the prime suspect. But don’t let that stop you
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:12 PM
1

I mean people reject for anything these days including being the wrong skin color and height. Things you cannot change. If I’m rejected for things I have no control over. It’s their problem, and I don’t care. My personality is awesome but I’m not for everyone. Same answer, their loss. I’m amazing. So female here, really don’t care. There’s someone who likes what I’m peddling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:02 PM
1

How are you going to ask a girl you don’t know to meet you at your house? Of course she needed a body guard. And hike for a first date? Y’all be wilding out these days. No concept of safety. Just pure inability to understand a woman’s perspective. She ain’t tryna die.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:13 PM
3

Simple. You’re a bad dancer. Take dance lessons
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:09 PM
1

Just go with the flow.
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:19 AM
1

Lol. For every trash woman, there are 20 men willing to ignore it for a nut
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:04 AM
-1

What’s a volcel ffs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:17 AM
1

Excitement does not equal bad boy. It’s an extremely closed mind that even thinks this. Excitement is someone who wants to get off the damn couch and do something interesting like learn to salsa dance, hike, explore a national park, go to a new country, go to a world renowned show or game Only idiots equate excitement with bad boy as it does not take being bad to have some imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:15 AM
1

Very funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:50 AM
3

Shit options are no options You have the option to masturbate with a machete which is the equivalent of these shit options
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:37 AM
2

I’d rather starve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:58 PM
5

Because it’s not easier. We have to weed through the under educated slobs The disrespectful asshats The entitled pricks The fake nice guys The upfront fuckboys The thirsty incels The low effort pricks To find a halfway decent dude. So no, not easier. All of these guys may be perfectly acceptable to you but not to the women worth dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:24 PM
2

I regret to say that if that is the case you’re likely a 3-5 in looks and or personality. Gotta turn up your inner sparkle
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:00 PM
5

Stop looking for 9s and 10s in looks and swipe right on 5-7s. This is a mind Jedi trick hard to explain. Then get a gf and other girls will follow.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:08 AM
1

You could have a bat on your head or broccoli in your ear. Who knows why she’s staring? Ask her why she is staring.
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:53 PM
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On point. But from the questions that ensue, you might as well be talking to the wall. They just don’t get it. It’s interesting to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:40 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:09 PM
2

After the first date, ask permission to call. Only text to ask what’s a good time to call. Women get tired and bored with endless texting
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:16 PM
1

The rejection is real for black women and Asian men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:27 PM
2

It means you’re not ugly. It means I don’t mind being seen with you in public. It means you can be introduced to friends without them fleeing for the hills. It means you’re potential relationship material
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:25 PM
1

Casual sex is not relaxing for most women. Unless they are working through some issues. It’s not my gig. I’m after my O and since he doesn’t know what I like, he is unlikely to get me there. Might as well lay there and be a starfish. Not really worth my energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:05 AM
0

Good for you. Other cultures are not like this. America is particularly bad and hook up culture has made it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:53 PM
1

Sounds like you found a truth nugget. Most of my guy friends try to get in my pants eventually. I just want to hang out. More often than not, I have my own shit. Most women I know have their own cars, money careers etc. It sucks that most guys are only interested in women as cum rags not as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:46 PM
11

You think women have a hard time thinking under pressure? Hilarious. The more likely explanation is true; she either has a boyfriend or isn’t interested.
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:37 PM
0

LOL The men on this sub do not represent reality and are quite entertaining I would think to the average woman. I am interested in dynamics but not chubby men, nerds are okay and I do not dislike men who are in shape. In terms of attractiveness, I’ve never lacked for a date. And hardly ever pay for one or split the bill. And I don’t do cheap dates. Make of that what you will. But yes, this perspective is interesting. I’m interested in how people think. Interpersonal relationships can be a chess …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:37 PM
1

Not as hot as Swedish guys then
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:23 AM
1

Ha ha OP is looking to get laid without any effort. Keep looking buddy. Keeeeeeepppp loooooking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:07 AM
7

Be nice. Talk to them. Go out for coffee and brunch with the girls. People are attracted to friendly people.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:16 AM
2

Wow. Something sensible But yes, make her feel special and you’re on your way to glory. If you can’t be bothered, she likely won’t be bothered with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:08 PM
2

Here’s the deal. Testosterone makes most guys raging sex maniacs. Sure, when a girl first likes you and all that newness and butterflies come into play she may be down for sex, even multiple times a day. Women who self pleasure will often get bored with a guy who is lazy, selfish or bad in bed. Simple reason, she can do better on her own or with her vib. Most women have certain requirements for the initial attraction to continue. It takes time and attention to detail as well as a desire to pleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:51 PM
0

Sure… if you like girls that stink like weed. I once dated a 420…. I don’t smoke. And I’ll never do it again. Yuck. Dude was stinking up my apartment for no good reason. The 420s can have each other, if you don’t do weed or drugs, pass on them
/r/seduction14/06/22 08:39 PM
170

Dome guys were celebrating removing FDS from Reddit. I’m glad it’s fake news!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/22 07:17 PM
1

Cute. And perfect. I hope it works out for you and you Habibi. Egypt is amazing
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:35 AM
1

As someone who has met a lot of people from all over the globe and made friends who aren’t necessarily always sexual, I can categorically tell you this; the only people who I find boring are people who want to be entertained. Your words, you want them to entertain you with stories about themselves, their passions etc. what about your own stories? Your own passions? But I digress, I’m not here to give a lecture on how to be the most entertaining and charismatic person in the room. As for sex, the…
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:25 AM
5

I think you answered your own question here. You’re boring, only interested in sex and a cheapskate. The Girls you aren’t getting see all that and see through you. The others are just easier to fool. I’d stick to the low hanging fruit if I were you.
/r/seduction05/06/22 10:41 PM
1

You hit the nail on the head here. A ton of guys think it’s about looks. It’s not.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:23 AM
-1

So you’re making out with multiple girls in the club in one night and think her friends pulled her away because they are jealous? Mmmkay. Sounds like the guy was pointing out drunk horny girls who were wasted enough to make out with anyone. That would explain the friends peeling her away. Dude saw that you were a bit of a sleaze who had no problem trying to get it in with multiple drunk girls and decided he could definitely do the same with you…. And you call him rapey… how do you think those gi…
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:41 AM
4

Are you fucking them first then asking for a relationship later? First your approach works like it’s meant to work with the kinds of girls it’s meant to work with. Perhaps change your approach as suggested previously. If they are fleeing/ghosting after you’ve had sex, it only means one thing. You’re not that good in bed. Or the experience left a lot to be desired for her. If it were moderately decent sex and you look like you say you do, then this wouldn’t be a problem
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:39 AM
0

You, and half of single people
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:44 AM
1

So you don’t think they are hot so therefore you wouldn’t sleep with them.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:42 AM
1

Question is do you find any of the women attractive who think you’re hot? If so, you should get right on it… the younger ones will come. There’s a certain sexiness to a guy who is getting it and is therefore not thirsty or trying too hard… Free game
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:09 AM
6

Um… you need to pack your package properly if you’re uncomfortable with looks. A semi erect big peen bouncing around while jogging is akin to big boobs bouncing around or those big jelly asses twerking bent over. But if you’re trying to get propositioned by randoms, this might be the way to go… or you could try wagging it… that would be impressive 😁
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:34 AM
-1

WTF is this verbal diarrhea? Get help. Professional help. Jeez. And take this shit down before people who know you start to get concerned.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:39 AM
1

Because more men want consistent sex. Women on the other hand understand the toll a relationship takes especially since men act like it’s like gods greatest gift to the woman, then act like little tyrants once in said relationship. After a while, some women realize, this whole thing is a scam run by men for centuries. There’s no need to be dependent on a man, chances her he will be dependent on her emotionally, and financially. So women have become more selfish, just like men, and are choosing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:46 AM
3

Fake news
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:52 AM
2

That’s really strange. I’m a woman and I keep it all private even if the guy asks. It’s none of his business. Some men do ask, and some women feel they have to be upfront about everything; either they think it makes them look like a cool chick or more desirable. Or they are under the mistaken impression that guys really want to know. I’m of the mindset that the past remains there, not that I have threesomes or what nots to brag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:28 AM
1

Not true. It depends on the guy. Most guys sell the FWB as an excuse to have a warm vagina they aren’t interested in as a human being. And for this reason, the friendzone is appropriate and often better from a woman’s perspective than a FWB situation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:24 AM
4

This is some backward ass logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:09 AM
2

Wow. Cumrag. That’s a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:08 AM
2

Think of it not as rejection but a declined invitation. Go play with someone else.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:03 AM
1

Hard to say. You get them interested enough to go on dates with you so it’s something you say or do or exude on your dates. Unless we get a play by play or video, there really isn’t much to offer you in terms of advice. It could be anything from being a catfish to bad hygiene, to lack of confidence, it being self involved or having no conversational skills, or not having any game.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:47 AM
3

Do you want to be with her and be a supportive boyfriend or do you want to play games? If that woman is trying to make a life and career for herself and you think all her attention should be on you, you’re downright childish. Relationships have ebb and flow, she chased you a bit, you get to chase her a bit. If she’s cooling off and you decide to go cold because it gives you more “ game” or power. Rest assured, this relationship will die especially if she has more important things shes dealing wi…
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:11 AM
1

I found an article that succinctly explains this. This should be a public service announcement https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/staying-sane-inside-insanity/202204/is-marriage-bad-deal-women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:13 AM
0

Everything you have said here is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:18 AM
2

Don’t be an asshole as suggested by guys here. Bad habits can be hard to break. When you make a habit of treating people like gloryholes, it can be hard to come off that road to start being a decent person. If she gives you a hard time or you feel she isn’t worth connecting with then, pass. Reject her outright instead of being a 2 pump chump. Imagine word getting around that you’re a bad lay after you’ve fucked half the girls in your area code. There isn’t an app for this right now, but there co…
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:30 AM
-1

Who did this study? Why do we care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:09 AM
1

Those guys are good-looking, bold, charming and have some sort of hard luck story. Turn on the charm. Be more interested in the person than the sex, bring on the spice. Idk what else to tell you. Some guys straight up beg for it, no shame in their game ( but won’t tell you this) Gotta figure out what works for you
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:37 AM
3

I know many women paying thousands of dollars to men in spousal support and alimony. Guess we should ask them this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:18 AM
1

Be asexual. And enjoy life without women as he intends. Women were not put on earth to pleasure selfish men. They have brains, money and more importantly vibrators, dildos and the options of attractive men as well as men who are interested in commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:48 AM
2

Do people write out their marraige contract then revise annually? No? Then there is no violation of contract. I actually agree that the person who cheats should be made to pay alimony and or lose all benefits financial or otherwise pertaining to the marraige. That said, I also think people should answer 1000 multi choice questions on marraige and martial scenarios and score above 90% before being allowed to get married. Plus write a dissertation on why they want to marry this person. So they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:34 AM
16

That was not the ask. He asked for help figuring out what he was doing wrong. Looking for confidence from faceless strangers is a sure way to fail in life. And that’s not what OP was doing
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:07 AM
19

Your place is a mess? You have rats? It smells? There isn’t enough room? It’s kind of a hovel? Or maybe it’s you. Try a friends place, if the same thing happens, it’s definitely you. Not the place.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:38 AM
2

Wealth you can hide. Class you can’t. I’ve tried the poor look but, high end mannerisms give me dead away. But then I’m female. I can imagine this would harder for a guy. The quality of your conversations will set you apart. You don’t even have to live in the most expensive home or drive a Porsche. If you’ve got class, you got class. And thirsty people can smell it a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:52 AM
11

Reach out and offer your hand to help. Open the door for her and “guide” her in with the other hand. Learning to salsa dance is actually a great suggestion.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:50 AM
1

Unnecessarily petty. sometimes I’ve had to cancel a date due to unforeseen circumstances but I usually don’t agree just for the purpose of ruining someone else’s day by standing them up. That’s asshole behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:27 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:20 AM
1

I would date and marry myself in a heartbeat. Average height for a girl. Nice rack, nice ass. Nice income. Badass sense of humor. Kind and compassionate in the right settings. Fair and honest. Travelled and educated. Funny and mostly fun. What’s not to like? Just haven’t found the male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:54 AM
1

You’re going to need a bigger con.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:34 AM
1

Most men already do this. They lie to make themselves seem higher quality, they mislead with the intention of deceit. You’re not suggesting anything new. And yes, most women won’t chase men. I think the better suggestion would be for men to date women at their level or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:26 AM
1

While you’re right. This belongs in r/unpopularopinion The male delegation will likely bury you with downvotes for this truth. Casual sex works for them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:08 PM
1

Workaholic. I thought that would be nice but it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:41 AM
2

You don’t need to have a high n count to know your body. That’s what masturbation is for. I know of high n count women who hardly have orgasms, have never had multiple orgasms and feel that’s just the way it is. Perhaps for some of these women part of having a high n count is searching for the great o experience. I know low n count women who have multiple orgasms and know the difference between great sex and bad sex. A woman does not need to have high n count. A high n count does not mean a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:30 AM
1

Young men and women are mostly turned on by the same thing. Good looks according to society standards. If you’re talking of kink etc. You find out when you find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:09 PM
2

Standards grow over time. 18-24 you date folks based on looks. Maybe a few based on potential and proximity. After 25-30, women look more for stability and people who treat them well…. Or at least they should. Looks are not high on the priority list at that point. For men, while younger it’s whomever they feel they have a chance with. When older, they go for who looks like the girl they would have liked to bed who rejected them 10* over when they were young horn dogs with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:38 PM
2

Zero. Maybe 1 every 6 months or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:08 AM
3

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:15 AM
7

I don’t know if any woman who actually lives like this. If they exist they are in the minority. Furthermore women have been conditioned that men do not take sex seriously or women who have sex with them early on seriously. So this theoretical nympho is going along with her conditioning and seeking a relationship according to societal norms and beliefs. While at the same time enjoying being a sexual animal with the non serious guys. We didn’t make the rules. And judging by the number of daily Red…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:49 AM
1

🙄 Here we are. Yet everyday I see a thousand guys cry on how they never get laid. If men wait for a woman to chase , some will wait their whole lifetime. Don’t take this chads advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:57 AM
14

Men are downright missing half a brain with the double talk. Pro porn anti pornstar dating bs. They cry when they are declined or asked to wait for sex. They cry when other men have been with their woman. But cheer on the other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 05:43 AM
1

Also makes it a terrible deal for women. Men have less and less to offer these days as most women are able to support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:05 AM
35

Pretty sure there are tons of men salivating over the “ poor Ukrainian women” Disgusting. I hope she finds justice. Nobody deserves to be sexually assaulted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 10:10 AM
1

What do men get out of marriage? Mostly free emotional and sometimes physical labor. Emotional security. Financial security, more and more women are financially stable, good in planning and home economics. Companionship and understanding. Intangible benefits. Sometimes it takes a grown mind to understand that, which is why men, not boys get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:21 AM
1

⭐️🌟Gold star for you, you succinctly distinguished between a low value/ no value man vs a high value man. Unfortunately most males are no value but expect women to accept them because they feel women should accept anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:53 AM
1

Exert dominance. Grab the asscheek by the punani (super uncomfortable for her) and say… “so you want this D” I promise, this will never happen again, at least not with the same chick.
/r/seduction12/03/22 12:31 AM
4

Try being a black African woman. It just sucks for all girls I guess. I’ve had cis- het Caucasian men who have never stepped foot out of the US tell me I’m mispronouncing words I grew up with. Assumed I’m African American, assumed things about being African. Then ask how many languages I speak. None that he would understand. I’ve never been asked that by a multi-lingual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:17 AM
3

Try being a black African woman. It just sucks for all girls I guess. I’ve had cis- het Caucasian men who have never stepped foot out of the US tell me I’m mispronouncing words I grew up with. Assumed I’m African American, assumed things about being African. Then ask how many languages I speak. None that he would understand. I’ve never been asked that by a multi-lingual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:17 AM
2

Try being a black African woman. It just sucks for all girls I guess. I’ve had cis- het Caucasian men who have never stepped foot out of the US tell me I’m mispronouncing words I grew up with. Assumed I’m African American, assumed things about being African. Then ask how many languages I speak. None that he would understand. I’ve never been asked that by a multi-lingual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:17 AM
8

Try being a black African woman. It just sucks for all girls I guess. I’ve had cis- het Caucasian men who have never stepped foot out of the US tell me I’m mispronouncing words I grew up with. Assumed I’m African American, assumed things about being African. Then ask how many languages I speak. None that he would understand. I’ve never been asked that by a multi-lingual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:17 AM
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Try being a black African woman. It just sucks for all girls I guess. I’ve had cis- het Caucasian men who have never stepped foot out of the US tell me I’m mispronouncing words I grew up with. Assumed I’m African American, assumed things about being African. Then ask how many languages I speak. None that he would understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:16 AM
1

Define average; Looks a 5-6 Height? Career? Income? Hobbies? Ability to be faithful ? Ability to respect and treat a woman well? You’ll need to be clear cos there many things make a guy net average. There are more below average guy 0-3 than actual average guys 5-7 when you tally up all things important to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:44 AM
2

We evolved to shallow. Many other more primal folks still prefer a strong beautiful body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:45 AM
2

So telling men to treat women as human beings is platitude vomit? Well, there really is no cure for your level psychopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:03 AM
1

Men should start being nicer to women. Genuinely so. Treat her like a lady or as well as you’d treat your friends. Get comfortable with friendship. It really helps to not see women as walking vaginas since that’s what turns most women off anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:16 AM
2

You’re not wrong… about this part. There are many in their 40s with the intellect and emotional maturity of a 20 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:52 AM
3

Men try to use women for sex. Then are worried women will try to use them for money. Then we all wonder why everyone is horny, lonely, angry and desperate. How about just being nice? Nooo… the morons will tell you; that is for simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:58 AM
1

F To see if they think it’s an “ easy smash” for them To judge by their ridiculous one way standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:32 AM
1

F no but it depends. Does he look like Henry Cavil and have the income of Bezos then …sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:21 AM
2

😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction18/12/21 03:40 AM
2

You want to know how the other side thinks, how they move…. So you can identify red flags early.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:47 AM
1

I don’t believe guys put in effort for women they don’t like. More often than not if he likes you, he tries to impress. If he isn’t trying to impress he doesn’t give a rats tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:36 AM
4

Men need to rise to the standards instead of complaining about women being picky. If they cannot and will not, then women are not obligated to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:36 PM
2

I don’t think guys realize how insane they really sound when they voice all the nonsense in their heads.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:39 PM
16

You’re being unrealistic. Think of your expectations as a man and how you project them on to women. She withholds sex, you call her a bitch and bolt after the first date. She has sex before the third date you start thinking she is a whore and counting bodies. If sex is truly meaningless to most guys, who just want to get off with any available or hot woman at any costs, why should you want a chaste woman? Even if these were all relationships, they didn’t work out. Would you prefer she emotionall…
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:42 PM
1

Depends on if you’re male or female.
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:56 AM
3

Well, we have to start with: what are you working with? Where do you live? Are you willing and able to treat the lady on the first date? Just basics. Getting a date is easy, now the relationship part. That’s the tricky part
/r/seduction30/10/21 04:22 PM
1

Someone is going to punch you in the mouth if you keep doing this. Not the desperate girl in the club though. Imagine how you’ll feel when she tells you that you sexually assaulted her. Hopefully like the big cohones head honcho
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:01 PM
5

Most insightful write up I’ve seen by a man on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:26 PM
2

You’re completely right especially the last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:27 AM
1

Wow. Dude sounds like a pedophile who is abusive toward his wife. Abusers react crazy when caught in their peccadilloes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:15 PM
9

Hospitals. The women are gainfully employed too
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:37 AM
1

Um. Just no to this gal.
/r/seduction09/09/21 08:14 PM
7

Thanks for this rec. living with limerance is not on audiobook but this is!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:01 PM
2

Cool. Thanks for the recommendation. Hope it’s on audiobook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:58 PM
4

No. Keep your head high. Don’t let their idiocy dim your confidence. My sarcasm for this level of foolishness is on 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:42 PM
4

Wow. Sounds like a LV scrote psycho who should have been flushed or swallowed rather than conceived
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:12 PM
3

If women are to be knocked up and held hostage in Texas. Then a positive paternity test should cost a man 50% of his income. That’s equality. Otherwise Texas is sexually exploiting and enslaving women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:11 PM
5

Stay strong 💪🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:57 AM
15

Wow. I once dated this selfish assscrote who makes mid six figures. He makes it a point to put down women and he would intentionally be quiet around birthdays and holidays. He was mad because I didn’t buy into his nonsensical reasons and called him out on his shitty behavior. He was madder because I didn’t fall for him no matter what else he did. Yep, some woman is going to date him knowing what he is like, have babies for the selfish bastard and get nothing in return, not even scraps of affecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:35 PM
1

They do. It’s why they chase a woman then pull away. However long she spends trying to get him back is like heaven and fuels all his red pill fantasies. No? Everyone wants to desired
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:40 AM
59

The intelligence that went into this analysis is on point and super amazing. As a professional woman with her life in order, I find myself thoroughly repulsed by the thinking of the average male. Im hoping that this intelligence catches on and all adult women realize that most men are not worth the effort. Sex is safer and likely better with a vibrator, and 9.5/10 men who try to date women do not deserve to sniff your panties much less have sex with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:23 PM
2

Lol… I’m missing context but I see your cow… perhaps 😜
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:00 PM
2

What cow?
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:27 PM
7

Some men will fuck anything like you rightly pointed out. Perhaps you’re not that type. Perhaps you have some class. Perhaps you prefer the thrill of a chase. Perhaps you’re sapoisexual. Perhaps you’re demisexual. Perhaps you’re all of the above. You have the right and power to walk away from free sex, especially if it doesn’t feel right.
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:10 AM
1

So how did it go?
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:34 PM
7

Women get rejected as much as men. Feeling sorry for yourself is not attractive. And this post is self pity. Nobody owes anyone anything. Men reject women for being the wrong age, wrong race, wrong weight, wrong body type —-> for your preferences. Men get rejected for similar reasons. Everyone is shallow. Try dating outside your own “ preferences”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:51 AM
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Good thing. That’s your perspective. Some folks are considered not suitable due to the color of their skin height how much they earn ( too much <women>, too little <men>) because they don’t have kids because they aren’t in their 20s because they aren’t interested in casual sex And some are single because they are picky. But feel free to project your issues to the rest of the world. Good doesn’t necessarily mean good for you or compatible, and the person you consider as “ good enough for you” may…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:57 PM
1

She died. If you ever run into her be sure to yell that you’ve seen a ghost.
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:00 AM
1

Try making friends with attractive women. Once you see them as human beings instead of conquests, approaching and interactions get easier. They eat, burp, sleep and fart just like everyone else.
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:50 PM
2

You’re still young. Get out there. The line I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’ve been too busy trying to be financially stable might work on a good girl out there
/r/seduction28/07/21 01:20 AM
2

There are women who prefer it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:18 PM
8

Sex is an art. It’s normal to be bad at it for a while and it takes tons of trial and error. Nothing wrong with getting a girlfriend to learn what she likes because all women are different. You learn to satisfy her and boost your confidence and safely experiment. Sleeping with different women will not make you a better lover. Every woman is different, what one likes, the other hates. They all have different erogenous zones. But if you’ve decided that poking as many as you can is the way to go… t…
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:41 PM
1

Follow up with her over the weekend to finalize your next date. The get a drink, you’ve got to be a little thirsty. Take her somewhere nice this time, after the date, invite her back to your place or go to hers if she invites you after the date. Try a hug, lean in for a kiss and let her know you’re shy and are a virgin. She may take your virginity.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:50 PM
-1

The problem is men on OLD want to date the 2% of women who could pass for Instagram models. Women want to date the 1% of men who come across as wealthy, intelligent and good looking. Then you have the really fugly guys who are just gross online with the expectation that some thirsty nympho will swipe right on them. It’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:41 PM
-4

Sounds like prostitutes are the answer after all. From your long response; I doubt anyone wants you anyways or that you can afford the prostitutes. Cheap option is the soap.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:43 AM
-4

Women are more than just sex disposables for your needs. But if it’s just sex you want, this is where prostitution should be legal so guys like you, can just swipe your atm and get sex just like you’d get your sprite, coke or whatever else catches your fancy. A side of fries with your sex, coming right up.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:08 AM
-2

Good job
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:37 PM
15

It’s bad advice for both men and women. Encourages people to remain stagnant instead of growth. I’m constantly evolving despite knowing I’m not for everyone. There’s always a better, more attractive, more compassionate version of you. And that version will attract better quality people.
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:29 PM
2

Pace yourself; It’s harder said than done. That said, you can’t build chemistry via endless texting. Gotta make phone calls, ask for dates. That’s how you build attraction. It’s kind of naive and shallow to expect that a girl will get attracted to you randomly and start chasing you, leading you to be attracted to her. That’s not how it works. That’s not how any of this works
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:36 PM
0

That’s rapey… “keep …her till you get what you want” OP will likely get sex regardless and a girlfriend
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:50 AM
6

That’s great. Women looking for a relationship love a man who isn’t pushy about sex the first time you have a moment you need to be vulnerable and sleep. You didn’t act like a horn dog like some guys would. Kudos to you. Time to build on that and have the best sex of your life and likely a relationship. You’re soon to disvirgined. Yay!!!
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:47 AM
17

In what society? Women are slut shamed, fat shamed, choice shamed, body shamed. Asked constantly to demand less and settle for less. Do we live on the same planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:08 PM
2

Good job. Some girls get hit on all the time. Sometimes they screen out duds by saying they have a boyfriend
/r/seduction25/05/21 07:23 PM
1

An app is just an app. If you decide to use it for hookups, that’s a personal choice and has nothing to do with the app. That said, you can meet people anywhere and everywhere including online and on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:51 AM
10

With my eyes With my smile or the hint of it. With hesitation, and with my gaze. With my fingers and with my hair. The trick is flirting with yourself... very often thinking of a more attractive man can be helpful if the one in front of you is not it. Practice of course, and lots of confidence. You can flirt without saying a word. The fewer the words the better
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:34 AM
3

So true. Sometimes it’s not about you. My ex pursued me, bought flowers weekly swore up and down of his love. We had one disagreement; basically I called him out on being flakey and told him how it made me feel. Next thing I’m dumped and he claimed he bought an engagement ring to boot. Later tells me it’s nothing I did, never really says why reality turned the so called perfect relationship on its head. It took a long time to accept it was not about me. It was not anything I did. I just happened…
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:20 PM
7

Only people without money are upset about this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:57 PM
8

Nice move. Deep voice is always sexy... part of why seduction experts tell you to call, not text. But these days everything is so mechanical
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:52 PM
6

All of this screams.... I have a tiny wee wee. She needs to be 4’10 or... ah well, it gets lost Never mind the predator vibe writing up his porn fantasy of a tiny teenager. I see why folks want to throw up.
/r/seduction08/05/21 11:31 AM
2

No. You’re not. You’ll be glad you were focused and had purpose. If casual sex ever becomes a thing for you, you’ll still have good genes.
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:48 PM
2

You’ll have to ask them. But I guess they are in college or trying to get ahead in life. Women in their 20s have no trouble attracting all kinds of men. The ones trolling for guys, I’m sure would love you.
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:46 AM
19

Every woman in her 30s has this same question. Where are all the guys? Not the married, taken or gay ones
/r/seduction06/05/21 05:38 AM
1

I don’t think you need to be super rich or super buff to get a girl. I think it’s almost all nonsense.
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:23 AM
1

Nice opening line. I would have laughed too.
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:12 AM
3

Being nice does not mean let yourself get exploited. You can be nice and still have boundaries. If you have no boundaries, you get exploited, nice or not
/r/seduction02/05/21 12:31 AM
5

Amen. Pretending to be nice = fail Acting nice to get something out of someone else= FAIL Telling people you’re nice =FAIL Actually being a good, genuine caring nice person. People will fall over themselves to be good to you.
/r/seduction01/05/21 07:49 AM
0

This thread is hilarious. Probably true if you’re dealing with teenage girls. The last part about eye contact often indicates interest though.
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:45 AM
6

Does this actually happen? It’s infatuation. Not love
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:46 AM
1

You’re right the story is a tad incredulous and hard to believe but if it were true. You don’t think he should be working on the reason for it rather than trying to find a walk around and possibly end up in a bad situation? I just want him to find a nice girl.
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:14 PM
1

I don’t see what you’re saying. The 35 y/o man is hitting on 19 year olds and asking how much hookers cost. He admits that he is desperate. That, is the definition of thirsty and a huge turn off to most women.
/r/seduction07/03/21 04:58 PM
1

She sounds crazy. And sex starved. If you’re looking for something long term or quality, I’d pass on this one. If not, just text her and ask if she wants to have sex. If she’s forward enough to be honest, then decide if that’s what you want to do. If she starts dicking around.... you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction07/03/21 11:02 AM
2

My mind is blown. Dude, you are creepy. Perhaps work on that. Then work on not giving a hungry for sex vibe. There are tons of single women in their 20s and 30s but I’m guessing you don’t have the confidence to approach them. Perhaps work on that too. Dating is not difficult However if hookers are your thing and you’re looking for mindless sex... go for it, and wear condoms regardless of whom you’re sexing. You my friend, are the definition of thirsty
/r/seduction07/03/21 07:52 AM
2

She was drunk. You probably sucked.... and she doesn’t want to do it again.
/r/seduction07/03/21 07:39 AM
1

I don’t know that it brings you happiness as much as it’s self gratifying. And gratification is a good thing, it boosts your confidence. Getting compliments or a promotion at work bring pretty much the same feeling. Truth is, you’ll still need to find happiness outside another person.
/r/seduction26/02/21 05:30 PM
1

Grabbing life by the balls is asking the person you’re interested in for their number and calling or texting. The passive loser approach is giving your number and expecting her to call. The first approach is likely to succeed 5 times out of 10, the second? Maybe 1 in 10
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:42 AM
1

No one here can answer the question for you.
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:32 AM
2

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:32 AM
2

She just met you. You asked her to go on a walk with a literal stranger. You could be a serial killer who will hack her head off. But she didn’t say no. Some people prefer more traditional first dates. Besides at this point she doesn’t know f she wants to go out with you or not. If you want to get all in your feelings, that’s okay. But consider that your approach may just not have been appealing and she may responded better to a different approach Like tell her something you liked about her and …
/r/seduction09/10/20 04:20 AM
1

Next time give her the origami... smile and offer a to buy her a drink.
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:09 PM
1

Whatever works for you bro
/r/seduction07/10/20 10:32 PM
1

Listen. If you want to play games go ahead. You might find a woman to chase you but you’ll end up with an unhappy woman who will end up making your life miserable. It’s counterintuitive but chasing a lady you really like is in your own best interests. If she’s chasing you.... ask yourself what exactly is she after? Penis is a dime a dozen and free for all.... soooo why is she chasing you if she doesn’t know you?
/r/seduction07/10/20 08:56 PM
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