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I'm on the way to becoming an ICU nurse myself and eventually a CRNA. You aren't making good enough money as purely an ICU nurse? Whats your living situation?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:09 AM
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u/Musicgoon hit it on the dot
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:04 AM
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Eh, snapchat is for children is a crazy claim. Texting for my age is dead and has been for years, snap is much more convenient especially for hookups as it leaves zero evidence. Posting on stories and shit is childish af tho, but using it to message women is straight.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:29 AM
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Your problems* And typical female, when a female brings problems and their personal issues into the relationship men are expected to deal with it and find ways to help. But if a man brings their personal issues into the relationship they are shown the door and told to figure themselves out before bringing into a relationship. Same goes with women, if you have mental problems or personal issues - sort them out and don't put the baggage on other people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:55 AM
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Whats with this sex hurts agenda? Jesus, I feel like you guys are jumping to extreme. I've been in multiple LTRs and NEVER denied sex, they've always been wet so it wouldn't hurt for them. As a guy, if my girl isn't too horny but is taken one for the team I'm gonna try my hardest to change her in the mood (i.e. oral before, lots of foreplay). Obviously if she's sick, tired, really long day, injured, etc we're not going to push for sex. But if we're lounging around for 5 hrs or out on a date, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 02:31 AM
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Sounds like you and these other women have a load of mental problems if you're constantly annoyed, angry, tired, etc. You should probably see a therapist if you aren't happy more than 4 days of the week, seriously depression is no joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:38 AM
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No one said that you should have sex on command, what thread are you reading? Or is your thought process just so lost in your own narrative that you didn't care to read what I said? Especially if a man ejaculates inside of us I'm gonna assume you're saying men are dirty and nasty, which speaks more on your selection of men (or options considering you're probably over 200lbs) than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:34 AM
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Oh yeah, they love that ONS adrenaline after the club or a trip to Vegas. But when it comes to a relationship if you're not pampering to her every need she just isn't attracted to you. Thats not true buddy, its 2021 - hookup culture is at an alltime high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:30 AM
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How do you judge what you said about men only caring about sex? If he gets mad when you reject him? When he doesn't pay for your food? When he doesn't facetime you for 3 hrs at night? Your logic is stupid, I literally just used your own logic against you and you're questioning it. Thanks for proving point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:25 AM
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Very comparable, actually I think we can both agree that sex feels much better than cuddling? So yeah, having sex with someone you're extremely attracted to and love is 100x better than cuddling. Only way you can deny those feel-good chemicals is if you want to control the relationship and push your own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:09 AM
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How do you not have the energy to fuck more than once a week? Do you exercise? Eat healthy? Drink lots of water? 35 is literally the age where you are just leaving your physical prime - plenty of men are fighting 25 minutes inside of a cage at 35+ yet you can't find the energy to have sex? And sex is important to people who consider sex special, not "incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:02 AM
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So don't get upset when we say "women only care about what we can provide them".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:00 AM
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Dude, sex takes work, concentration, energy, time commitment.... Its funny how you say all these things like sex isn't one of the best feelings you can have in the world. Sure sex takes all of that, but with a huge reward and undoubtedly the best physical feeling you can have in the world. In my opinion, if your woman is attracted to you she should be getting horny and wanting to reach that best feeling in the world with you. Yeah you can be tired after, but you should also be feeling euphoric, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:34 PM
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I don't see how that has any correlation with what I said, sounds like you're just tryna fit a narrative into your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:29 PM
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Just like I have the right to agree that if a woman breaks up with a man for not cuddling, shes an asshole? Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:22 PM
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Thats not even the argument, I don't know what you're getting at. I'm simply saying men should be allowed to "No thank you" cuddling, going out to dinner, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:21 PM
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Man wants sex, starts making move towards sex, woman says not tonight. Woman wants to cuddle, gets closer to bf on couch, bf says not now. Is that a hard concept to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:04 PM
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Agreed. You hit it right on the dot. Relationships are about sacrifices, not everytime will you want to cuddle or have sex - but both sides have needs and realizing that your moods won't always line up is the best way keep a relationship going. Not only going on your terms when you're in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:40 PM
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But the woman is also allowed to feel upset if he often doesn't want any physical affection. Shouldn't the man be allowed the same right when it comes to the woman denying sex often. They have to be horny... you don't need to be in any specific state to hug people I agree, but same concept goes with you have to be in a loving mood to cuddle. Cuddling comes with a lot of effort in itself, no one wants to sit there and hug someone for hours on end with back scratches, head scratches, uncomfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:33 PM
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I'll be awaiting for the "men are master keys" nonsense Can you please explain to me how this is nonsense? I would love to hear your counter-argument to "A lock that opens to many keys, is a shitty lock." It takes zero effort for women to get sex - considering they have thousands of options I have no respect for women who hoe around because it takes no skill, effort, time, or self-improvement. Men who sleep around it takes time, effort, and self-improvement in all aspects of their life. Its a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:25 PM
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That mentality is exactly what women complain about - being used for their looks and body. Its 2021, being pretty is not the end all be all. At least not for all men, I know a lot of very hot women that I would never in my life date. I'm sure they can find some simps who will, but is that who they want? Not saying I wouldn't fuck them, but I forsure wouldn't take it any further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:20 PM
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I do not shame women for this, but I also believe they're terrible long term partners and should stay away from trying to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:17 PM
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Most women in this world has had one night stands or promiscuous times in their life. Most women in this world will make their potential LTR wait longer and do more for sex (only thing a woman can give besides emotional support).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:46 PM
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Most nice guys/honest guys get the short end of the stick. And thats a fact. They are forced to wait and bend to the will of the woman, while the woman won't make a "Chad" wait longer than a few hours. Definitely though, relationships are more than possible but it takes the man a lot of sacrifice to keep one going.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:45 PM
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To you it might mean nothing. But having a promiscuous past tells you exactly how the woman views sex. Does she view sex as casual? Or something special? I don't like promiscuous women because they view sex as a minimal activity that has no special meaning - when a girl got ran through by the football team, not only will she never forget each dick that went inside her but her view on sex is skewed. Ask yourself this, whats more special? A girls second time having sex? Or a girls 20th time having…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:37 PM
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Yeah when you give your rights away to the government and your wife, now she might not cheat on you. Bow down to the Queens, they are our biggest prizes and highest honor. Men deserve no respect, get on a knee if you want any at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:34 PM
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No one cares about a woman who has slept with 1 dude and thats not being leftovers. Being leftovers is a girl who got fucked by an entire frat while she was in college or was getting fucked by every football player in high school. Or she went through Tinder and had a phase. Basically all those men that fucked her are saying "You're nothing but a piece of meat to me, I wouldn't date you but I'll use you for my own benefit" That is what I mean by leftovers, I don't want some girl that was someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:16 PM
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Most "hot women" have had extreme promiscuous stages in their lives. Sorority girls, popular high school girls, cheerleaders, etc are all the "hot girls". These girls also happen to be extremely promiscuous, which is why we focus on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:09 PM
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Nothing insecure about not wanting someone elses leftovers. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:08 PM
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What did he sayyyyy
/r/askTRP13/04/21 12:18 AM
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Don't think like this - this relationship in my opinion is over. Most men don't have the guts to randomly ask people out, especially people they see on a regular basis. I don't believe this guy randomly asked her out, there's a lot of other context to it. And yes the fact that she said "Maybe some other time" is a huge red flag to me. I'd continue to fuck this girl, but know deep down this will be going no where longterm.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:29 PM
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I believe there is a lot of factors. For one, all women think casual sex is easy to get because it is easy to get for them. For two, the men who get casual sex usually have lower standards or are a top percentile. To be fair on Reddit I don't believe most people here are studs, and the people who claim to have a lot of casual sex are in actually completely different brackets of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:39 AM
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You're an idiot. Every man I know cares about a woman's promiscuity. I assume you're a female, meaning you have never been in any male only conversations. Casual sex will not deter a man's interest sexually, like I wouldn't stop talking to someone or fucking them if I knew they had a promiscuous past - but I assure you I would never move to a relationship unless they had specific characteristics that I liked longterm. I've had many conversations with many men where if a girl hoe'd around we woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:43 AM
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You're in a fairy tale world if you believe women aren't having casual sex. I don't have casual sex much, but I know over hundreds of attractive women and I can't think of a single girl who hasn't casually slept with one of my friends. I'd say for ages 16-24 casual sex percentage is 70-80%. This is realtime data, bro I wish I meet women without baggage trust me. Everytime I meet someone one of my friends have slept with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:39 AM
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Agreed. I will be the first to admit I'd be more accepting of promiscuous women if it was as easy for me to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:34 AM
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I disagree. I will stand by my grave and tell you I have straight up seen red pill be truthful in real life with females. Maybe not all of the tactics are right, such as not marrying or treating girls as bad as they say. But most of red pill is truthful, women are extremely hypergamous, will break rules for "bad boys" and make them for nice guys, and women are extremely promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:35 AM
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What do you mean? What you just said really made no sense in my opinion. Yes, men should be leaving relationships where they are not getting treated right - but here you go again as a typical female overlooking the mental health and strength it takes to leave a long-term relationship when it comes to males. If a female is stuck in an abusive relationship, she gets supported and praised when she leaves (or told to leave). Yet when a man is in a bad relationship, his mindset is questioned and he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:05 AM
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Its not news - the problem with your logic is to the contrary. Men treat their fuck buddies worse than they treat their girlfriend, while women treat their fuck buddies better than their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:32 PM
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No, just like I wouldn't if I was a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:35 PM
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What statistics are you looking at the 1920s? For my age group (21), seven bodies is an almost ridiculous number to think someone has. I can literally count on one hand the amount of girls I know with less than seven bodies. I know a lot of women - I'm sure you're gonna automatically assume I'm an incel or some neckbeard loser, but I do know a lot of women throughout the years and all of them have shown the same qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 11:53 PM
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Completely disagree that they think their "middleman" is a stud. Most women fuck the top 20%, and date the middleman. That is why we have a common theme where women will do more for their "fuck buddy" compared to their actual boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 11:51 PM
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Nice jump to the extreme you fucking retard. I'm talking about minor inconveniences like running to the store and giving a back massage and your only argument is "So would you let your girl peg you?" And listen you dumbfuck, I would sacrifice my preferences for a girl who sacrifices her preferences for me. If she gives me head despite not liking it, okay I will provide you some ice cream or smoothies when you're on your period despite me not wanting to. Its called sacrifice, I would do a lot for…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:15 PM
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Dude shut the fuck up lmfao. Its a small suffering... like does anyone want to make their bed or brush their teeth? Or does anyone want to cook food? No, if my wife can't sacrifice a small inconvenience to please me every once in a while I would not want to be with her. Literally all she has to do is suck my dick for 5 minutes, a minor inconvenience for her to make me happy. Your logic is so fucking flawed. What if my girl wants ice cream from somewhere? Should I not go get her it because I don'…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:04 PM
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If I want sex, and she doesn't for two weeks. She should compromise and suffer for twenty fucking minutes to please me. Its not a hard concept to grasp, I would suffer and compromise for her pleasure. She suffers and compromises for my pleasure. Why should I suffer for two weeks just because my girlfriend doesn't want to?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:58 PM
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Yeah so basically only please your partner when you want to be pleased to? Is what you're saying?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:44 PM
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Who said I was acting butthurt? I would let her do her thing, the wife/gf should make it up to me because she cares for me. You're literally saying that sex/pleasing your partner is only about yourself. I shouldn't please my partner cause I don't want to, I don't care about her needs or wants, only mine. Is essentially what you're saying
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:42 PM
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You sound like a liberal. Lemme explain something. We're talking about a two week timeframe here. If I wasn't in the mood one day, okay. The next day I would make it up to my girlfriend because I care about her. I would give her head, finger and seduce her to oblivion, or fuck the shit outta her. It takes me 20 minutes to please her even if I don't want to. She can do the same fucking thing for me, this is how dead bedrooms form.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:40 PM
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Yeah I'm sure the average hot woman in college getting fucked up every night is taking surveys about her "n-count". That just shows that most women who are on the internet/doing surveys is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:37 PM
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Its been two weeks dude, waiting a day is over. Get outta here with this bs that shes not in the mood. If her celebrity crush was in there she'd be in the mood. She can sacrifice her own comfortability for OP to feel pleasure. Not everytime a couple has sex/does stuff does the woman have to be "in the mood".
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:35 PM
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Explaining too much might have been your only problem, I'd simply start pulling back completely after she denied sex. Stop texting her as much, stop asking her to hangout, etc. See what she does.. in my opinion if a girl tells me "tomorrow" I'm waiting till tomorrow and if she isn't grabbing my dick trying to make it up to me I would prepare a gradual exit.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:34 PM
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Dude stfu thats straight bullshit. OP is right to leave, who tf cares if the girl is on her period. She has a mouth. What kinda beta bs response is this
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:32 PM
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The average popular girl, or attractive woman collects many bodies throughout high school. Sure, the girl who doesn't go out to school parties or hangout outside of school won't have as many bodies. But I'm talking more the attractive women who went out on party busses, after-parties, parties, etc in high school. I have seen virgins at 17, those same virgins a year later had 6-7 bodies. I apologize for my hostility, it sounded as if you completely threw what I said out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:12 PM
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I find it hilarious how you completely invalidate my experiences simply because you went to a "big state university". Is it because I'm a male? Incel (in your eyes)? You basically just take what I say and throw it out its actually comical. Have you ever heard of the concept of different circumstances? I also go to a big state university currently unlike you. You might be way older, I am currently 21. I go to the University of Florida, have friends in FSU, USF, FGCU, Valdosta, FAU, etc. All aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:22 PM
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Scenario - A sorority girl, a sorority girl is attracted to frat boys. She doesn't look to them to date, but just for short-term fun and pleasure. One frat has 100 kids, the girl fucks 5 of those 100. Another frat has 100 kids, the girl fucks 5 of those 100. Now she starts to slow down after her first two years and only fucks lets give her 5 more people in college. Lets not forget about highschool - where she probably had a few relationships and fwb/ons. At least 5-6. So here we are with a femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:45 PM
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You wouldn't last a day as a man in the dating market - and he is right by saying most women over 20 have body counts of 20+. I am 21 and know a lot of women, I can only think of one that isn't a whore (on my mother). And she's been in a relationship since Freshman year of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:31 AM
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I'd say only a good 30% of men actually have the balls to approach a woman in todays society. If you're interested in someone, make eye contact and smile at them. EDIT: my grammar
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:49 PM
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I find it funny how in relationships getting sex is an abstract thought - but when a girl gets hit up at 2AM shes down. Every girl is horny for someone, most of them not for their lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:24 PM
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If she doesn't want to have sex, she just loves you and not lust. Personally I can't be in a relationship where my girl doesn't want to have sex everytime she sees me. Obviously if situations come up that are stressful I do not expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:42 AM
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That man is a fucking pussy for being mask police holy fuck what a bitch. You did good g but don't repeat yourself I know you get caught in the moment I have done the same but you gotta realize that a calmer approach but threatening makes you more deadly. I probably woulda swung on him
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:20 AM
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If a woman told a man to fix his smell she would be praised and everyone would say the man is expected to stay clean and have good hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:33 AM
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I completely disagree - I believe that most men would choose a lifetime monogamous good relationship over casual sex/fucking multiple women. Sure, having a hoe stage and fucking multiple beautiful women would be nice but I'd much rather build a connection with one fine ass woman and fuck her everynight than fuck multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:09 PM
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I want a woman who is highly attracted to me, if she doesn't get turned on just by looking at me I would not feel as appreciated as I should in a relationship. If roles were reversed where your husband finds you less desirable, women would freak out. I understand sometimes she might not want to - but sacrificing some time (and having it feel good for you!!) just to please someone that you love and lust should be no problem. I would do the exact same for her if it came to any other situation, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:45 PM
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No you're delusional and let me explain why. First off, genuine question. What do mothers do that fathers don't (post-childbirth) besides breastfeeding? I'll go ahead and answer for you by saying NOTHING! Mothers do absolutely ZERO extra effort than fathers, and when they're breastfeeding they can be relaxed. And what if you as a woman LOVED getting head, it was the greatest feeling in the world. Your husband doesn't like giving head, but despite him not enjoying it he DOES it for you! He hates …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:31 PM
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The "suck your dick everynight" makes it sound like you dread sucking dick, why? Because you aren't attracted to your man. If it was Zac Efron or Drake or someone, you wouldn't be moaning and complaining about sucking their dick you would do ANYTHING to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:53 PM
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Women don't have to do much to raise a child. They do what? Feed the children and wake up at night? She can have off work for their first 1-2 years growing up and I will provide for the family - I will STILL help her with dishes, cooking, cleaning, and everything else. Society has brainwashed both genders into thinking that women are hardworkers and raising children is such a hard job when in reality it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:51 PM
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Woah buddy - first of all sex once a week is absolute bullshit. And women do have the same sex impulsiveness as men. Your wife is not sexually attracted to you if you are not fucking her every night, thats just the cold hard truth. If your wife is having sex once a week, its chore sex and not lust sex. My wife will help raise my kids with me. I will also be raising my kids, we will rotate nights waking up to change diapers or calm our children down so both of us get good sleep. I will help her w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:48 PM
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Of course - but you want a woman who doesn't think changing diapers and waking up in the night a few times = the weight of the world. A responsible, mature, and organized woman can handle kids and still have sex nightly or at least 5x+ a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:34 PM
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Haha good one man, just speaking the truth. Those girls now 100% think higher of themselves, if anyone got improved self-esteem from the conversation it was the women. I have nothing against it, but just pointing out the truth.
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:24 PM
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Or you're in la la land - it takes way past marriage to find out if your woman will still be consistent. She has to have a couple of kids and marry you, then you'll see her start to hold out on sex cause shes "working too hard"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:10 PM
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Now these girls ego are boosted,
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:49 PM
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90% of women will hold off sex 5-10 years down the line in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:48 PM
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Yes, finding a loyal woman who will provide sex, emotional support, and love at anytime is 100% better than dating around and I would love to marry them. Sadly they don't exist,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:48 PM
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I got you. Women get free security and protection, free pampering, free food a lot of the time, free living a lot of the time, free money, and they're protected by the government if their husband complains about sex one time (and she divorces)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:45 PM
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Bitch. Did you ignore the other manipulative ass points that she made?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:59 PM
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I would actually like to say that at least 90% of women have fucked a "bad boy" or someone who treated them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:58 PM
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Smoke weed - in my opinion weed is a fantastic enhancer of my creativity, productivity, and performance when it comes to things. THC/CBD is much better for your body than dip
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:16 AM
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No way at 27-30 will you find someone at 2-4, I'd say below 7/8 would be something to strive for (although rare). I would also be more susceptible to higher counts.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:10 AM
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I'm only 21, and although I automatically assume every woman I meet has a body count of over 20+. If I was going to look for a serious LTR, I'd want her to have 4 bodies or less. I don't mind if my girl had casual sex once or twice, but I want her to view sex as the most special thing in the world if I'm gonna be with her for a long time. Would I possibly date a girl who has a body count of 10+ or 20+? Possibly, if shes treating me right - she'd be on thin ice in my opinion. Refuses sex one nigh…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:56 PM
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Its the cherry on your milkshake while we're out here picking cherries to live, an analogy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:59 PM
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Porn and prostitutes does not give men the validation they need or want. You saying that just shows how little you know or care for mens mental health. Exactly, women don't care about sex because its not their primary focus. Men do care about it because it is their primary focus, and its their primary focus because they don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:59 PM
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And here we come full circle, the problem with modern society. Women are able to fuck exactly who they want, and men aren't. This leaves men weaker, with depression, anxiety, lack of motivation, etc. If men were able to have unlimited access to sex, this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:23 PM
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People I know seem to match their spouse in attractiveness I would agree that again spouses/relationship situations will have more of a looksmatch - but as I said in a previous comment, especially in this generation we will see relationships have the woman side be alpha widowed. This is why we are seeing a huge spike in divorces, because women are continuously becoming more and more promiscuous with people of higher level. If you by the way nature works, I completely disagree, we are talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:17 PM
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You bring up a very great problem. The woman who are "equal" to 7s and 6s are the ones getting fucked by the top 10% of men. Leaving 6 and 7s men, in the dust either waiting for women to get tossed to the side by the 9s and 10s or downgrading to 4s and 5s, which would leave even uglier men in worse distress. The problem in society is exactly this - women who are 6s and 7s like to hoe out and fuck men who are the top 10%. Men who are 6s and 7s don't want to deal with a alpha widowed, cumslut of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:11 PM
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Doesn't change your worth but it impacts your life, imagine seeing beautiful women and not being able to get any of them to like you? That hurts your self-esteem, builds anxiety, depression, loneliness, self-worthlessness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:25 PM
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Hes right. Anal and head are two completely different things, head is a precursor to sex for one of the many, if she really liked you she would. Trust, if she was head over heels wanting you it would happen - I wouldn't hard next her but give some space see how she acts and tell her straight up you ain't freaky enough
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:02 AM
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Like serious situations where you feel threatened - people approaching you with malicious intent, unwanted touching (outside of a club), forced rape, etc. I know women 100% deal with creepy men who sketch them out, but most of that is in their head when it comes to them being fearful for their life/wellbeing. It happens though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:57 PM
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Listen, theres a difference between valuing sex and being controlled over sex. Women get hated on because of exactly how you're talking, you're acting like you are so much better than men because you hold sex over them. Its like you're tryna teach us a lesson lol. I love sex, but I'm ready to give it away if it came down to someone controlling my sex life (instead of enjoying it with me) or no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:56 PM
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As long as we can agree that if the parents are responsible, well-organized, and compassionate adults there shouldn't be too much of an issue when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:24 PM
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In the scenario of a perfect relationship where both partners equally split care of the child, the ONLY factor in loss of sex-drive would be "less sleep". Less sleep as in an hour every other night, if rotated between parents one partner could easily get 8 hrs at least every other night. Woman can load up fridge with her milk and let father feed the baby, rotational care between parents. You're talking about waking up for maybe an hour out of the night to take care of the baby, with good prepara…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:43 PM
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I agree, I believe that "overloaded" mothers who do al the housework on top of childbearing could be stressful. As a man, I would have absolutely no problem cooking the dinners, doing the dishes, laundry, etc to help out - especially while wife is pregnant/just outta pregnancy. Mothers don't have to do THAT much, sure they get woken up in middle of night to change diapers for a year (father does as well). They also breastfeed, but everything else shouldn't be so stressful to the point where moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:29 PM
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The people who don't feel "on top of it" are the unprepared ones, and a reason behind the major boom of dead bedrooms and divorce. The "mother" figure has been told by society and mainstream media that they "are so strong, go through so much" and encourage mothers to be stressful celibate creatures. In reality, mothers don't have to do much post-childbirth besides breastfeeding. Everything else can be evenly split between both parents. Is a Mom really that stressed out because she has to wake up…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:27 PM
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Stress with children is just about being unprepared. No way in hell you are THAT stressed out without other circumstances being involved.. Whether that be because of unhealthy habits, bad diet, lack of exercise, procrastination in workplace, etc. No way you're stressed if you're on top of your work and life, I mean obviously a little but not enough to not want you to have sex. This is an attention-seeking method that mothers love to do to make their lives sound ridiculously hard, when in reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:47 PM
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To be fair it is a personal choice as well, yet I fail to see what women have to offer besides sex. I guess you can say she offers love and compassion, but that is not needed to me. So if a woman only has sex to offer, its a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:57 PM
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Modern society, I'm not gonna be the sucka thats getting on a knee treating women like a Queen while my friends are getting to begged to come over at 3AM when they treat girls like object. Don't get it twisted, if the right girl came around she could get treated right! But 95% of women are hoeing out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:25 AM
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If a girl wished her ex happy new year, that guy still has her soul on lock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:09 AM
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For women: •Serial Monogamist - 10% •FWB-Type - 35% •Casual Dater - 55% For men: •Serial Monogamist - 55% •FWB - 35% •Casual Dater - 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:43 PM
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How I have grown up in todays society sex is the reward, all my friends think the same way. We were brainwashed by social media, television, music, etc to view sex as the final validation from a woman. So to me, a woman wanting to have sex with me is validation, being desired, wanted, creating love, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:39 PM
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