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MeToo focuses on the wrong sort of men. Why is there no uprising for those that got molested, raped and coerced by those rapefugees?
/r/RedPillWives15/01/18 11:13 AM
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Hopefully he knows what an amazing wife he has!
/r/RedPillWives12/01/18 04:12 PM
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Sometimes silence is indeed gold.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 04:11 PM
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Then DO something, organize demos, organize talks with true patriots. I help the local patriots and my SO cherishes that involvement.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 04:56 PM
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I gifted Salt with Rosemary leaves. It was a big hit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 04:43 PM
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We need a "I was raped by a rapefugee/AsylParasite!" #metoo! Or I am a taxpayer that is being leeched dry by asylum - teddybear throwers!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 04:41 PM
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It sounds like he gets all the benefits of a lovely wife. I would suggest gently dialing the benefits back.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:34 AM
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That might have been the case 20 years ago - and many will lie and cite a lack of workers but there is no such thing. People above 50 are not even on the unemployed list anymore! Be wise and try to cram in as much CV - Improvement as possible. Get up to date in your field of work, keep interested in politics, art, history and science. Learn a trade you can do from home of work 24 hours a week there are many ways you can go. Inform yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:37 PM
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Be there. Honestly, nothing is as important now as you being there.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:23 AM
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My SO loves the Westphalian Kitchen. So we have horse meat sausages in a heavy cabbage Eintopf.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:21 AM
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I love the albeit pricey hair accessories my mother introduced me to. Lovely Note - Key hair holder, delicate clips with semi precious stones.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:18 AM
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It helps me focus, gives me Time for myself and my needs and lets me be awesome for my Husband throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 10:53 AM
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You get ready to do something by doing it Well meaning parents who want their kids to have it better then them are the ones installing this "You are not yet Ready" shit more then anything else!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:59 PM
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The moods are directly related to his current job. I know that all too well. Was the profession something he chose for himself or was it in any way influenced by "family tradition" or "everything but this - well then of course I do it!"? This might give you an idea of wether it will work itself out or not. I would make sure to leave directly after welcoming him home and do my own stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:52 PM
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Watch your tone! She asked once or twice in the beginning but stopped. We do not know just how bad his mood is and how it shows.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:49 PM
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Well it is my first pregnancy. I have the gnawing suspicion that the request to come in for another appointment today might be about there being twins;) The doc told me all looked well, looked a bit longer and began to smile. Telling me the she would like to have another look in a few days. That was on the 28. 12. when I was 9 weeks. My Aunt (after several hushed discussions with all the other women at the gathering including my mother who manned the kitchen) took me aside Christmas Eve when I g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:47 PM
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I respect their opinions as their opinions, I try to not push my conviction on them but simply offer my own view. But to be honest, I am more anti muslim and a bit more right wing then purely red pill. Many things red pill I do not agree with completely but there is very few spaces a right wing woman can be honest and clear without being hate speeched. But of course it depends on whom you are having the discussion with.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:23 PM
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Sometimes this is exactly what is needed. He is most likely unaware of his own needs at the moment and I can not imagine gently guiding him to be disrespectful.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:12 PM
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I try to take a time out when I feel overly emotional, I found adult coloring pages to be very useful in gaining clarity and smiles;) My Dear Husband will probably frame some of the best ones for the baby room.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 09:08 PM
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From the bottom of my hormonal, crazy emotional heart... Your heart is not crazy. Your body is trying to tell you how to care for yourself. Your hormones are not something to suppress, be fearful of or hide away. They serve a purpose, to support and guide you through the process of carrying your child and giving birth.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 08:55 PM
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Do any of you ladies have any tips on asserting your traditionalist values in this kind of environment and how to feel comfortable in expressing them? Why not establish mutual respect? why become confrontational?
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 08:51 PM
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On that note, I cannot see any value in relation to the traits of femininity. That is right. but look at the evolution of the whole picture. There's a reason we praise doctors or soldiers in society, and not housewives (whose only benefit to society is sex and a clean kitchen for one person, whilst seemingly being a drain in every other way). I agree. But if parents do not raise their children to feel grateful for those jobs that fall into the scope thought of as women work they will be unable t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 08:47 PM
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after a long day of getting the opposite. "What can you do to care for yourself, show yourself gratitude and praise? How can I support you with this?" I think those questions will show him that you care in a very gentle and respectful manner.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 08:39 PM
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By first focusing on your SO's good qualities, the hurtful ones seem less important. Well, I truly tried. But it just did not work. I think some Issues need to be addressed before I can truly commit to this. I also liked that it mentions remembering what you loved about him during your courtship days. I do not recognize the man I fell in Love with, whom I vetted thoroughly and loved him still.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 05:29 PM
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“I’m glad you’re the kind of man you are. I haven’t always appreciated you in the past, and I’ve made some silly mistakes. I’m sorry, and I’m glad you haven’t let me push you around. I’m glad you’re the way you are. From now on I’m going to try to be a wonderful wife for you.” I long to say these things - but they would not be true at the moment. I need to see substantial recognition and CHANGE to be able to forgive and forget - much less praise him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 12:18 PM
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I think it is remarkable how much time some women spend thinking about stuff like this. It is honorable but I can not wonder if the time could be better spend with the kids or for themselves.....
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 01:01 PM
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Oh, I understand, someone has a sweet tooth!;)
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 04:31 PM
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What kind of frosting did you use? I always make it myself, the one with elderflower sirup was a great hit.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 04:03 PM
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If my SO said something like this it would be a the polite way of telling me it sucks. My SIL (My brothers Wife) said the same about DearBrother
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 03:51 PM
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it is a healthy dynamic for a relationship. IF the man and the woman are healthy! Many men are raised to be tyrants by their parents who let them run wild! Those men are not men but overgrown boys.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 12:09 PM
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It just needed more icing like his sister's. Well, you are you and not his sister! He basically told you you suck.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 12:06 PM
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Why is it always my fault? Well, If anything it is him who has expectations that are over the top. Instead of cherishing time spent together he expects me to arrange and host several dinner and brunch get togethers, plans down to the minute how christmas eve is to be spent and so on. But not ONCE did he consider me. I feel taken for granted and used. I voiced my feelings in a calm and respectful manner but there is no indication he even listened.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/17 07:23 PM
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Nothing to thank for.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 02:11 PM
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Not your Circus! why do you care anyway? Do you actively seek strive?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 11:54 AM
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Aspergers any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 11:51 AM
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I’m here to tell you that if you will bend to make your husband happy during Christmas, you will infuse cheerfulness in him that will drip all over you. A little sacrifice can result in a lot of marital bliss. I did this for years. This year I will do things differently. I will put my wellbeing first and not let others, including him, set me up for various thankless duties. There is no such thing as gratitude anymore, only expectations.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/17 06:45 AM
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One of the many gifts we can offer is Time. time for them. Freeing them up so they can do something they enjoy. Maybe offer to run an errand, or organize his table, make lunch in advance etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 06:38 PM
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Well he would have no leg to stand on there. He is extremely black and white in his thinking.
/r/RedPillWives11/12/17 01:22 PM
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Well, that always depends on how these roles are acted out. A weak wife that let the Husband steamroll her over - well, a recipe for disaster. Saw how that played out in my BIL´s children. His eldest is now, purely out of spite and to show that she is different from her weak mother, active in the socialist - feminist party Die Linke. I grew up learning that man and women are of equal worth and right. My Mother is a great person with a huge heart. But one thing she is not, mellow.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 04:25 PM
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WE BOTH do! He could not do it without me as the day has only 24 hours. I keep his appointments, organize transportation and boost morale by keeping him and his group well fed and watered.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/17 10:40 AM
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I have worked in a shelter for homeless for years. The truth is that you can only help those that want to be helped. Many got offered better housing, but since they would have to stay clean and sober they refuse. If we use all those rapefugee housing for the homeless we would have no problem with them anymore.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:47 PM
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I need to interject, if we do not protect our way of living, we all get overrun by those islamist brutes. (I refuse to call them men as that would be an insult to all men) These men try to open the eyes of politicians, desperate for them to wake up and see the danger.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/17 04:34 PM
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I think that safety is but an illusion right now. I try to support my partner in his political endeavors, knowing that there is a wide support base for those who want change.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/17 11:32 AM
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Yes, I am surprised just how much it affected me - but the last months have been hard for me. My SO did not realize just how much he has hurt me with his callous behaviour. I was ready to call it quits, but my MIL encouraged me to try one last time with a bit more "Pfeffer/Pepper"
/r/RedPillWives04/12/17 06:47 PM
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Sorry, will not happen again.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 02:02 PM
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There have been times when he treated me like dirt cause I let him do that. My Self Esteem was just not high enough. Things like this: "Lately I've been feeling unheard" or "I'm hurt because _______" or even "I feel like I've been repeating myself a lot and I don't want to nag. How would you like me to remind you about X next time?" Were like water on a ducks bag. I thought about ending things, but figured that I owed him one last chance and became more clearly in voicing my opinion. Well, it wo…
/r/RedPillWives04/12/17 02:01 PM
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Still, this kind of disrespect is just glaringly obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 01:57 PM
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If my SO slapped me I would be out faster then a rocket! Some I men are just unable to truly listen wich is an art that can be learned if it is not there from the beginning. That is one criteria any woman should vet for.
/r/RedPillWives04/12/17 01:56 PM
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I think that the tone is crucial, the "never" is too strong usually but saying: Please be mindful and listen to me! is not. As is "You are not listening to me - please address this issue you have.
/r/RedPillWives04/12/17 10:51 AM
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“You never listen!” It is perfectly alright to expect a spouse to actually listen to his wife. It is a sign of appreciation, common courtesy and respect.
/r/RedPillWives04/12/17 10:18 AM
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Your Husband is putting you in Danger. That is a lack of Leadership.
/r/RedPillWives03/12/17 08:50 PM
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What does he bring to the table? Lies, dishonesty and draining your shared resources? Or does he feel true remorse, stops trickle truth, any contact and becomes completely accountable and transparent to you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/17 11:45 AM
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Support him/his career. So important, offer to bake or cook so that he can bring in food, or volunteer to bake for the annual events like christmas party, easter brunch etc.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 10:17 PM
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Somewhat on topic: does anyone else have a friend that is a great friend when you’re together, but doesn’t prioritize you at all? I had to cut one of these out. Energy Vampire.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 10:13 PM
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Clubbing has never been my cup of tea. Not even when I was younger. So going now seems like a totally foreign concept to me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 11:12 AM
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That sounds so very good, we all deserve a bit of pampering every now and then. We wanted to visit a Weihnachtsmarkt" but after last years attack and recent news of stolen trucks we decided against it. Maybe a Spa day would be a good alternative for next time.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:52 PM
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In Germany we have similar articles right now wich are conditioning us to accept the mentality of those that invade our country. To accept mass rape, violence and terrorism. This one seems genuine, relevant and good! What role do you think we as women/wives/mothers play in defining/encouraging a particular flavour of masculinity, if any? We truly need to be queens of our home, we should expect our sons to learn how to control their innermost instincts, not stifle them but control them as to func…
/r/RedPillWives29/11/17 06:41 PM
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What do you bring to the table? What does he bring to it? Is it worth risking your health?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 06:19 PM
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Same principle, offered advice is a gift.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 04:26 PM
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Offering an opinion should not be seen as nagging unless it is pushy. Any man worth his salt should be eager to hear the advise of his wife!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 01:54 PM
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Well, basic biology can always be tempered by wise decisions and conscious effort. That sets us apart from the animals. That is what we should all set as our standard.
/r/RedPillWives25/11/17 01:51 PM
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I doubt the behaviour of prairie moles in in any way an indicator of human behaviour! Or at least I hope that we, as humans strive to be better then this!
/r/RedPillWives24/11/17 01:03 PM
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All is well;) I am just rightfully angry at the "we need skilled workers - NOW!" hysterics our economy is sprouting when people over 50 have no chance of getting a new job. We need not import skill as we have it already.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 12:59 PM
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Besides - the job market will always be there if you decide to seek employment/reemployment. It's not going anywhere As much as I wish it was different, but that is a lie. No one hires a 45 - 50 year old when there are younger people aviable, people that grow loyal to the company over time. Not look at retiring at 70! In germany even the unemployment office does not look for new jobs once people reach 57, they are then considered unemployable.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 10:54 AM
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Besides - the job market will always be there if you decide to seek employment/reemployment. It's not going anywhere As much as I wish it was different, but that is a lie. No one hires a 45 - 50 year old when there are younger people aviable, people that grow loyal to the company over time. Not look at retiring at 70! In germany even the unemployment office does not look for new jobs once people reach 57, they are then considered unemployable.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 10:53 AM
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If they threaten the cultural identity of the society they leech off - then yes, many women do care!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 12:26 PM
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Not overly harsh but it does reek of crabs in a bucket times x.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 12:25 PM
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Unfortunately they are also the most uncivilized.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 07:20 PM
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His Father. He has offered some very good advice on more then one occasion. Another, subjective but different, perspective can help build understanding or at least it can challenge you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 04:48 PM
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millions of slightly different black socks I would throw them into deep black dye, makes them more presentable;) and saves lots of time and nerves. My SO has to deal with the cold weather more these days and so I gave hm a thermos flask with hot, sweet tea to take along.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 04:40 PM
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several more years. You know that your SMV is diminishing and your chances are waning?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 03:55 PM
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People are selfish by nature, men are no exception. Any woman should be aware of the risk she takes by making herself this vulnerable. She can vent all she likes - people change. I have seen too many women fall into the system or through its cracks after their men thought they became superfluous but took their money.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/17 12:05 PM
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Well, controlling him would be too much hassle for me. RPW generally offers to give up that control to men as a sign of trust That is very unwise in my opinion. Every person should have a ironclad reserve and sole access to it.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/17 08:51 AM
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So doesn't that mean that on some level women must always be slightly insecure? Because to be pliable would mean you're at least a little insecure, right? There is no reason for insecurity. There is nothing "less" about being a woman, think about all the ways he profits from having you as a wife!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 08:47 AM
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I do not understand why most women pawn off responsibility for the family finances to the men. It has always been the responsibility of the Housewive to keep the treasury and the necessary goods.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/17 12:07 PM
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Pro choice, especially for those who were raped by #rapefugees. After the second trimester it is too late Make that after 14 weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:59 AM
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I think genuine intelligence and the ability to converse with elegance are highly valued - as additional traits. As a means to show off.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:55 AM
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If you’re more modest and prefer to be more covered/conservative then you’re going to have to work harder at looking feminine and not boxy and frumpy. True, I would add that color is key here, a strong, clear color is much more youthful and fresh then say a muted or washed out one. The same is true in reverse, an ensemble that is borderline trashy in strong and clear colors might not be as crass if it was a muted or slightly faded color. Brown, cream and rose are always tricky, here they are old…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 07:10 PM
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We talked and I will just add his last name. So it will be BlaueBlumeFreiheit MaidenName Lastname. So his will be the "strong end". Our kids will have his last name only. Our next child will have either my grandfathers or grandmothers given name, either as first or second name depending on it being boy or girl. (My Fathers Wish and since both names are strong, beautiful and sophisticated it was an easy decision) Our Son carries his paternal great grandfathers name as my SO´s brother wants to use…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 07:06 PM
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I always shied away from anything to do with asia. But I will give it a try nonetheless.
/r/RedPillWives12/11/17 08:09 PM
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Here in germany you need a job as a woman. Otherwise you will have nothing. There is no spousal support at all, besides a small sum that goes to the raising of children but barely covers the money for school supplies. And even if the marriage remains strong, one geriatric rent/pension is not even enough for one person. So I try to keep working and buying pension points.
/r/RedPillWives12/11/17 08:08 PM
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My SO was so happy when I made the Elderflower sirup. It is known for being an aide during cold season. He also loves lavender water on a vaporizer. Last but absolutely not least, I am so very grateful for the mix of herbs that help me during my period. It is called Frauenpower, and I love it, it takes away the cramps and I feel the power that being a woman gives me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 08:04 PM
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Feminity is for me at least, more then being a well mannered, beautiful person. It is also about typically female knowledge. Gardening, domestic agriculture, knowledge about herbs and their uses, the ability to sooth conflict, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 05:33 PM
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I know that my SO´s Family would love two or even hyphenated names, they are still weary about me being from a "white collar" family. They want to keep their Lastname a Working Mans Name. (Pharaphrase of something his father told me) I dread navigating these troubled waters.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 05:19 PM
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I wish I could do that - but in germany the name needs to be official. I hate that legislature!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 02:09 PM
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I know that one can have two last names standing behind the first name where eI am from. But that seems too much like hyphenating to me?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 02:08 PM
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Oh god, this post comes just at the right time. I am currently planning on how to go forth in my academical pursuits - meaning when do I do my dissertation. From a financial standpoint it would make sense to do it now, from a logical and logistical standpoint it will make more sense to wait until we marry next year. Cause here in germany one has to use the real, official last name for the process and the ensuing paper trail. I have already written some papers under my maiden name, they would for…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 02:06 PM
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My SO´s clothes get checked for money, smartphone and other stuff whenever I do laundry. I asked him more then once to check his own clothes but he never did. Well, I will continue to check but any loose change money will go into the family money jar.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 01:47 PM
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I gathered some lovely yellow leaf´s that I will dry and put into star shape for the windows. Some of the transparent paper stars are unfortunately teared up by moving. I always found pure beeswax candles are fantastic with a very gentle clean and sweet scent. Seconded, I found a few good ones at a Autumn Fair. This year I wanted to visit the local christmas fairs but after last years terror attack in Berlin my Husband is not so very fond of me going to any of these fairs outside. So I will visi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 01:41 PM
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Women always say that they'd "like _" or they "want _" but it's far less common for these same women to be willing to back up their words with action. Same goes for many people - men included! Your demands are many, in turn I would expect complete monogamy, any slight hint that he is whoring around would sent me to the lawyer.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 02:43 PM
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I can relate so very well. My man is a blue collar, hardworking man with low opinion of his intelligence (what a heap of bogus, he might be more inclined to work physically rather then sitting down and writing but that does not mean he is dumb) that saw academically inclined (read women that did attend university for more then the public transport ticket and party) as akin to aliens and completely out of his league. We met when I was on an assignment and hit right off platonically. We went to th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 01:04 PM
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