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You are her friend and she is blocking you from making any moves. Do you want to be romantic with her? If so tell her you only want to go with the two of you. See what she says. If you keep doing what you are doing you are allowing her to keep you in the friend zone.
/r/seduction22/06/17 10:27 PM
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Discuss it with her. Tell her you were hoping to spend the trip with just her. See what she says.
/r/seduction22/06/17 10:23 PM
3

Great idea.
/r/seduction22/06/17 08:53 PM
1

5-30 minutes depending on how into you she is and how you convince her to go to the next stop or your place. Have fun and watch her signs of attraction to you. If you understand that and move forward in those moments things will happen quicker for you. If you stumble and don't see the signs you will take longer and are less likely to get her to go home with you immediately.
/r/seduction22/06/17 08:45 PM
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Don't ask her. Pay attention to how she acts and responds to you. If you show her that you are romantically interested she will know that it is a date. Will she allow you to touch her, get close to her and kiss her? If she pushes back you know your answer. You need to be aware of any signs of attraction during the date. Where are you going on the date?
/r/seduction22/06/17 08:41 PM
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If you kiss her and she kisses back that shows intent on both sides. So yes that can be easier from there. Touching is good, does she touch back or squirm away? Stop touching her, then does she get closer and start touching you? She wants more. So yes that is good if you can work in touching as it gives you clear signs of whether she is into you or not. Verbalizing can be tricky. So you have to be careful. You could hint things like I really like girls that workout. Do you workout, you have a gr…
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:45 PM
2

If you can go for the kiss then go for it. So get her on the dance floor or isolated from this guy / her friends just in case there is some issue there with that. So I would only kiss her when she is showing positive signs of attraction to you. Which she was. So if she is letting you touch her, touching you, having fun with her, laughing at your jokes, facing you versus away, look at her lips, does she look back at yours, all the positive signs of attraction then its a go to kiss her. If you hav…
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:39 PM
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Go to the places with things you like to do. Join a social club with those activities. Talk to people at those outdoor activities. There were be people there in similar walks of life to meet. Pay attention to those that are open to talking.
/r/seduction21/06/17 12:03 PM
2

Get her away from the guy and ask for her number. It's not so much of what you say if you two are having fun with each other.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:53 AM
1

If they forget about you in a week and a half then they are not interested in you and you should move on. So don't do anything until she gets back unless she reaches out to you.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:45 AM
3

Hey I have to run. I've had a great time talking to you and would like to meet up with you to keep this going. Put your number in my phone so I can call to setup a time to meetup. Hand her the phone.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:02 AM
2

So something from childhood that you learned from your parents that you haven't gotten past yet? That is common. You have to start thinking about what it is you want and not what other people want so much and form your life around that.
/r/seduction20/06/17 02:59 PM
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Come from the mindset that you want to explore and learn as much as possible. So talking with tons of women. Asking tons of them out. Expecting to be shot down 95% of the time and learning along the way. That's how most guys succeed. It's going to be awkward you won't know whats going to happen next. But the next time that situation comes up you will be more experienced. Just get out there and keep trying. Do things that make you uncomfortable and push you past where you have been in the past ea…
/r/seduction20/06/17 02:30 PM
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What in your past do you think has brought about this uncertainty?
/r/seduction20/06/17 02:05 PM
1

Uncertainty of what you have not done yet like have sex? or Uncertainty if she likes you or not?
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:58 PM
1

What is your biggest fear?
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:44 PM
1

Simple, don't talk on the phone so much. Chat for a few minutes and tell her you want to talk in person. Then ask her on a date.
/r/seduction20/06/17 12:49 PM
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If she is pulling back you could be pushing too hard right there. Pull back a bit and then come back to kissing later on. Tease her and leave her wanting more like a good cliff hanger.
/r/seduction19/06/17 10:45 PM
1

If they are never initiating then they aren't really interested in you. Ask out a lot more women and pursue the ones that are more interested in you. They will text you first and make things easier for you to get together again.
/r/seduction19/06/17 10:05 PM
2

They aren't completely into you. How fast are you asking for the next date?
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:48 PM
1

Start with saying Hello. Agree with Woujo you just have to get out there and make something happen. If you just want to practice get out and starting talking to every woman you see. One isn't going to do it for you.
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:32 PM
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Break off the conversation at one point when things are going good. "Hey I have to run, but I'd really like to chat with you again. Give me your number and I'll give you a call to set something up" or" Let's meet for some food Friday night at this cool place at 7 so we can talk some more." That's about all you are missing from your great conversations. Practice that over and over in your head and let that slip out next time. If she is really into you she will go along. Keep after it.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:30 PM
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Wait a few more days and see if she texts you first. Why didn't you kiss her? How was the conversation? Do you think she likes you? Did she sit close to you? Did she face you or away? What about her eye contact with you?
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:34 PM
3

Ask more out and expect to be rejected most of the time. You will get more to say yes. Keep practicing.
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:31 PM
2

Is it causing problems?
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:28 PM
1

So I assume you are initiating most of the messages? Does she ever message you first? Have you ever talked in person or on the phone?
/r/seduction19/06/17 02:29 PM
1

If she is initiating contact then ask her on a date. Do so within the first 5 - 10 minutes of the conversation. How do you know this girl? How have you been texting with her so far?
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:51 PM
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You can make eye contact at any distance. Making eye contact from far away is less intimate and threatening however that does not come off as strong as a gesture. If you make eye contact and smile from a few feet away that is more intimate and makes both of you more vulnerable. In the club situation you can make eye contact and smile from afar. If she smiles back that is most likely an invitation to approach her and talk to her.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:41 PM
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I usually wouldn't say hello if she isn't looking or won't look. Especially in the mall setting where you just are passing by. Sometimes you can be too far away in a wide mall to really do that. If you are shopping for something in a store at the same rack as her you could say something about the merchandise or something funny. See if she responds. Same kinda thing if you want to practice talking with a cashier or waitress. Practice with any of them you get a chance to. Think about other places …
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:01 PM
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For one thing it shows that you are open and welcoming to that person. If you want to talk to them you have already displayed that you are open and willing to communicate further. You don't have to smile at everyone unless you are purposely trying to practice. You practice with everyone so that you are comfortable approaching the ones you are interested in. It makes you less nervous and more confident if you have approach problems. If you do not smile or make eye contact nothing you are displayi…
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:28 PM
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That comes off as creepy and telling her what to do. Go up to her and smile. Say hello. Ask her for her name. Ask her to dance with you. If she is at the bar ask her to the dance floor. Just focus on getting to know her and having fun. When you look at her and smile. If she smiles back she is more into you and possibly open to talking. If she looks away quickly, turns away she doesn't want to talk to you or she is taken.
/r/seduction16/06/17 12:40 PM
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Ideally she breaks eye contact first. You don't need to stare her down. Just the initial solid glance. She looks away (if not she is super strong and confident). You can look away blink whatever second. Just be natural and make solid eye contact while chatting with her. Look at her, look away, look back at her. You have asserted that you are a strong, confident male at that point. Think about that when you are talking to your friends and family, little kids, whoever you know. Then translate that…
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:33 AM
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When she asks you if you are dating anyone else and wants you to be exclusive. Then the relationship has a label. Until then you aren't exclusive until you two discuss it. I generally suggest that you let her bring it up. Are you worried about her leaving you or her not being exclusive yet?
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:25 AM
1

Basically getting to the point where you aren't thinking about this so hard. 3 seconds basically means you don't have time to hesitate and think about should I smile or not. You just naturally do it. No hesitation and be the masculine dominant male.
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:16 AM
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Better option: Don't offer your name. Make her ask you for it. If she never does she isn't interested. Ask her what her name is and things about her. Then let the conversation flow from there. It shows you are interested in her versus pushing you onto her.
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:09 AM
1

How do you typically approach them? What do you say? How do they respond?
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:44 AM
1

What kinda things are you into? Go out and do things where your target women. Any social organizations you could join in your area?
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:41 AM
1

Good one. I hope you smile more natural when you are laughing. It will get easier when you aren't overthinking it and it just comes to you. Let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:39 AM
3

Go for it, have fun.
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:27 AM
1

Don't be so serious. Be in a good mood and a relaxed state. It makes things easier. Smile at 100 women and then when you get comfortable start saying hello to 100. Start a conversation with 100. Ask out 100 that are showing stronger signs of attraction. One step at a time. Move on when you are comfortable. Do it everyday, everywhere.Always be watching their reactions. Keep practicing, you have the right idea.
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:25 AM
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What did you tell her you were going to take her home for? Studying or something more fun? Ask her out on a date. She seems interested in you. "Hey I'd like to get to know you outside of class. Let's grab dinner at this place tomorrow night at 7."
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:21 AM
2

Yes, you should be able to smile right away. So for example. I'll go on a trail in town. Tons of people walking both ways. Everyone single person I pass I will give them eye contact as I smile. Then I will say hello. It is hilarious to just watch everyone's reaction. Some won't even look at you. Some will but quickly look away. Some will smile back. Some will say hello back. Some will give you more than just a hello. It shows you are confident in yourself. It automatically makes you stand out as…
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:15 AM
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More practice. Keep at it.
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:56 AM
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