| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The opposite of invictus - how do you know when to just cut your losses?I feel like my problem is how you can always learn something or get something out of 99% of situations. And for every option you choose the other one has its own downsides. I know its vague but I am really not sure how to put this | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedIn hindsight seems like you were right, and she was just showing off | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedI don't agree with your definition of entitlement. I got my hopes up and I'm allowed to be disappointed. But I did make a big leap there. She eventually replied Tuesday and said sorry my friends and I decided not to go to the party were going to famousBarScene instead. I had already made plans and was out that day, so I thanked her and said I wouldn't have been able to make it. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedThis is very true and you're right | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedShe said it out to the whole group, and I even asked a follow up question about whether those things were usually open invites and she said those guys were sweethearts and it would be cool. Her bf is also in the frat, I'm not interested in her but I fee a little snubbed. Fuck these fake people man, she didn't need to do that at all, sure it's my fault in part for wanting it and caring but I'll learn and live . Thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedIf you didn't have her phone, what else would you do? I figured hey if it happens I get to go, if not I will never know so why the fuck not. IDK about the last bit man, I feel like you (and largely trp) are overly cynical and I don't blame you, but cynicism furthers my negativity and I'm already really bad about that. Guess I'll never mention it and act cool. I hate this though, I'm a very genuine real person and everything I keep hearing here is that no one wants people to be real or honest the… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedWhat I meant to say was, if you didn't want to invite people you could just say I'm going to a party this weekend. Why mention Inviting other people at all? That's what I didn't get, or is that what they would consider polite? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Coworker invited me to party and disappearedWhy not? You can always have fun meeting new people, no? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:51 AM |
| 3 | How do you manage your expectations in relation to time? IE urgency without anxiety.Same position. Foreigner on american soil, so no exposure to this shit before. I worry as much as I can about making sustainable leaps forward, so that there can be no regression. No sexual shame, and I don't want some girl to be able to trigger that again. That's my perspective anyway, I have bigger fish to fry, for now. Things that will serve me better regardless of how anything else goes. I need to aggressively pursue learning game, escalation, kino and push-pull tactics but do so from a posi… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Coworkers with annoying habitsI mean this is being done by my roommate, and it's interrupting my work. Or my sleep. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Coworkers with annoying habitsI understand. You'd tell friends, though, right? Or people you live with? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 04:45 PM |
| 1 | I feel guilty about being a sexual person.This is really heartening. Much appreciated. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I feel guilty about being a sexual person.What can I do to improve on these? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 10:42 PM |
| 4 | I feel guilty about being a sexual person.My ex fucked with my head and used to abuse me if I ever looked at another girl. She shamed me for accepting any girl other than her was possibly attractive. She was BPD and I didn't know it. I lost my confidence and purpose in life in that relationship and have only recently (~7 months) got my social life To be decent. I feel like I don't deserve to be with attractive girls and think ' what girl would want me?' | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I feel guilty about being a sexual person.I don't know. It's like a voice in my head saying 'look away she doesn't want your attention' or if she's beside a guy ' that dudes gonna beat you up for looking at his gal' and I quickly look away. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I feel guilty about being a sexual person.Kind of, yeah. Started lifting after losing 25 lbs. Any recommendations for me ? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What kind of things tell you it's time to cut a friend off?What do you consider disrespect? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Being rude vs being tactfulThanks | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Being rude vs being tactfulYeah, that's it | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I have made a lot of changes in my life but I am still being seen as a beta male.Bullshit. Army generals weren't born into their mindset, they grew into it by facing shit. You can become, but you might not be the mentally toughest of them all | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What kind of guy would you break eye contact first with?Inclined to agree | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What kind of guy would you break eye contact first with?But honestly? By that point I AM scared. Lol. Of the crazy dude who's still staring with blood shot eyes | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What kind of guy would you break eye contact first with?So by showing weakness they mean not breaking immediately? It seemed weird to have staring contests for >10s . | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What kind of guy would you break eye contact first with?Guy keeps staring even after the head nod or smirk. By this point animal brain is screaming to look away. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I politely tell my friend he can't stay over?Nice, could work. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 10:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I politely tell my friend he can't stay over?Great idea thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I've never sought the attention of women, but I've always wanted men to acknowledge me - why?It's not bad with him haha he was slaving away in Europe so we could eat well. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I've never sought the attention of women, but I've always wanted men to acknowledge me - why?Ironically, dad has been making time for me now, like calling everyday. I'm 23, and he's often right with his counsel but ive become especially stubborn with him. I don't feel as if he is my friend. We're too different as people and it really hurts me to acknowledge that. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 02:53 PM |
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