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66

This dude is way too far gone. No sense in trying to save him.
/r/MGTOW18/08/19 01:27 AM
1

All's we are is a meal ticket at the end of the day. Try not to get mad. It's been like this long before any of us were born.
/r/MGTOW18/08/19 01:25 AM
22

There's definitely something to the whole mesomorph/endomorph/ectomorph concept. If nothing else, it determines your likely starting point but I agree, you get the body you want by consistency in the gym and the kitchen.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 08:24 AM
24

Facts. If she speaks in social media lingo at all, huge red flag.
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 06:15 PM
1

That is reasonable.
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 02:20 PM
5

Rarely do you encounter a situation where neither the man or woman wouldn't be open to some sort of sexual encounter.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:41 PM
1

Send em when you feel like talking and have something to say. Quit tiptoeing.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:59 AM
1

I read somewhere a while back that charges typically aren't pursued on false claim makers because they don't want to discourage women in the future from coming forward about the lie. Better to eventually vindicate the man is the rationale I assume. It's all really shitty.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 05:38 PM
6

Maybe it's just me but a 40 y/o woman using snapchat is a red flag to me in and of itself.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 08:48 AM
1

I would call only for the purpose of setting up a date. When you call, come off as if you don't have a lot of time to talk. Putting in a phone call will set you apart from other guys to. It's more of a take charge maneuver too. The whole idea behind it is so you don't have to spend a lot of time texting.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:06 AM
1

Listen man, she has a bf so you will have to come at this differently. When you saw her again, you should have just played it cool and asked her out again. If she turned you down again, then you stop pursuing. No orbiting her either. If she wants to hang, she will have to bring it up. You give her very little of your non sexual attention, always keep your interactions with her brief but somewhat playful.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:09 AM
1

Just hit her up and set up the date, don't over think it. I'd call her tho to set it up. After that, don't hit her up again. The first girl clearly likes you or she wouldn't have found a way to get in contact with you. In the mean time, keep approaching and gaming women. That'll kill any scarcity mindset/ beta tendencies.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:00 AM
1

Honestly, your best bet is to keep your knowledge close to your chest. TRP is a dish best discovered by one's self. That means as lot of folks will never find it. Just use TRP to make your life better. There's no advantage to you in blabbering about it.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:51 PM
3

Honestly I think you addressed it as well as you could have. She cheats, you leave. Shit test or not, you made it clear that you're not interested in playing those games. I do think it's a red flag. This will be one of those situations where you will just have to observe things and go with your gut. Regardless, you must stick to what you said. If she decides to step out or you suspect it, she gotta go.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:47 PM
3

How so?
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 07:19 PM
12

Respectfully I disagree. It takes 2 to have a conversation. Clearly the effort here is one sided. One or two of those one word exchanges and im out. Put some value on your time. She's not worth becoming a dancing monkey for.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 05:49 PM
1

You already let her know by sending her home. Don't bring it up again. If it happens again, just cut her off.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:04 PM
1

The Red Pill summed up in one post.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:51 PM
1

Live your life as extravagantly or as simple as you like.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:22 PM
1

Facts. Its going down a bad path anyway. I think you're right.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 07:22 PM
1

I feel you. The post wasn't clear whether she was responding to them or not.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 07:18 PM
1

That works too. I'm just not sure to what extent she's entertaining these guys. If they're flirting with her and she's not really egging them on, maybe you go with my route and let her know you're not dealing with that. If it seems like she is enjoying the attention too much, I agree with you, just leave. My original point was that regardless, it's not up for discussion or compromise. I won't take any excuses. Correct it or im out.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 07:12 PM
2

Hell ya accept her back but put her in the male friendzone. Only use her for sex. No LTR, and very little non sexual attention.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:55 PM
3

Maybe just one photo of her in it. Don't risk losing your current plate to over validation trying to impress past girls.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:50 PM
0

I'd be like; "Look, I've noticed this guy hitting on you on multiple occasions. As my gf,I expect you to shut shit like that down immediately but you haven't. Either YOU stop entertaining that shit or you can be single" Leave it at that. Don't mention you're feelings, don't tell her you're mad. Give her instruction and if she doesn't listen, "bye". You have to be willing to leave in situations like this.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:34 PM
2

Body count shouldn't come up anyway. Who really cares. If she's just someone you're banging, it's irrelevant. Only insecure folks care about that. If you are looking for a LTR,a significantly high body count should raise an eyebrow and serve as a red flag however.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:29 PM
1

Why would you? If you're not intending on borrowing money from her (please don't do this), I'd say there's no purpose. Hell you really shouldn't tell your gf how much you make, how much is in your savings, or any personal financial info. If you're broke, start working towards not being broke.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:26 PM
1

Whose telling you that's wrong?
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:23 PM
3

I'm not on some moral bullshit but theirs plenty of hot single women you can mess with. There's no need to play with fire by trying to fuck taken women. If you do, you just have to be prepared for potential consequences. Unless the girl is just throwing herself at you, I'd say skip it.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:22 PM
2

Dude it seems like she's giving you all the signals to make a move. These girls wouldn't invite you to their house if you gave off creeper vibes. When you're over there, don't think too much about it n just make your move. If you meet any resistance n ask her straight up if she is down to have sex. If she says no, then stop if you're worried about false rape claims.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:16 PM
7

Do you lift? I know it's obligatory but getting in the gym and working on your physique does wonders for your self confidence as well as your smv. Start there. Once you start seeing success in that, you'll feel like you can conquer more.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:52 AM
1

Don't get depressed man. It sucks but trust me, it's not the end of the world. Get your GED. That gets you just as far as a high school diploma does. As others mentioned, you have a couple of options. I'd try to go to a trade school and learn a skill. Blue collar work pays way more than most people realize and you're not walking around with a mountain of debt like a college student. You'll also need to grow up and mature. As you're finding out, the world has less tolerance for bullshit the older…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:02 PM
1

You've already been playing around back there. Is she receptive to it? If she is I'd say just do it again tonight and in the heat of the moment, ask her if she'd be down to try.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:52 PM
8

That's how I read it as well. You're basically single now OP.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:43 PM
1

A whole lotta shit test that you keep failing. U clearly care to much. The days in that relationship are numbered if you don't get your act together.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:07 PM
1

Well I don't have much to go by. Maybe you've gotten lazy idk. Maybe you're just bored. I'm not sure how anyone here can really help you. I don't think you need anyone here to tell you how important passing exams are. I'm sure there is someone in your life who you'd hate to let down. Think about them. I'm sure you'd hate to not graduate with your class. You've made it this far. I assume you're a senior. Why risk fucking it up now.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:15 PM
2

Technically yes. Let me ask you something. Has her ex boyfriend ever come up? Does she make you insecure about your height? If not, who cares. Look at it like this, if you're good enough to pull the same chick that some stud bball players pulled, then you can't be doing that badly.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:10 PM
1

It's only a few days. Just go with what's worked for you. The problem is you're thinking rationally. Women don't lol. Go game that girl.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:06 PM
2

Again man don't beat yourself up. You responded in a way 90% of men would. It's just a matter of retraining your brain. Don't sweat it tho. You still winning.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:46 PM
2

Just shoot for a casual no strings attached relationship. Single mothers need sex too. If she's not down, next.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:26 PM
3

The fact that you're only there temporarily worked in your favor. Start gaming her and don't waste a lot of time. If you get choosing signals, make a move.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:24 PM
4

Why is she with you if it even mattered to her? You know nothing about those guys or their relationship. You're gonna end up fucking this up because of your insecurities. You have no idea how they were in bed. You're pissing yourself off. She's your girl right? So be her man and quit worrying about those other guys. Who knows, maybe your dick is 8 inches longer than theirs. Either way it doesn't matter. And stop FB stalking. That's feminine shit.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:23 PM
5

Yep, they are so impressionable around his age you'll be surprised what he picks up on.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:17 PM
1

I wouldn't read much into it. They are the same girls you walk by everyday at the store. Just be honest with yourself what you're looking for in them and game accordingly.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:16 PM
1

This is it right here.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:14 PM
2

Don't get down on yourself man. That's just an example of female nature at work. Once she received your validation (entering a LTR), you were no longer a challenge. Get back out there and start dating again. You've clearly got the skill set in you to pull women. I'm not going to tell you never to enter a LTR again, you just have to repress those beta tendencies. Stop validating women. Make them chase your validation. The first girl not sleeping with you was a shit test. What you should have done…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:13 PM
5

She'll get feelings for you again by seeing you with another girl. Don't contact her. Let her contact you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:07 PM
11

You most likely have nothing to worry about. It sounds like her dorky friends are a lot different from you. They sound like orbiters. Just continue to observe the situation from a distance. This will be one of those things where you may need to trust your gut over time. If something in the pit of your stomach doesn't feel right, you have to be willing to leave. Telling her not to see them will lower her attraction to you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:05 PM
4

Are you burnt out? Distracted? I'm sure you have some idea what's going on...
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:00 PM
2

You've been through a lot man. More in a short period of time than most can relate to so I won't pretend to "know what you're going through". The best suggestion I can give you is to remember the underlying premise behind Red Pill. It's seeing the world for what it really is, taking charge of your own circumstances, and most importantly, self improvement. Life's knocked you down but it's not holding you down. Start fixing the one thing you have control of first; You. Start eating right and lifti…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:58 PM
11

Just sit tight, do not apologize, she'll be back. Don't change a thing at all.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:48 PM
1

Where are you meeting these women? How old are they? You might wanna start there. Also I hope you are not sending relationship vibes to early on. She should be the one bringing up a relationship not you despite if that's what you want. Try to limit seeing women to no more than once a week initially. Let her miss you. Let her wonder what you're doing. You have a really good problem on your hands. Just don't rush it, trust me.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:45 PM
1

Hey man if that works for you cool. I see this topic is really split down the middle. There's a 1000 ways to skin a cat and clearly you're not alone in your thinking. If you can spin that situation into one that benefits you, more power to you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:43 PM
1

Any contact you two have should be initiated but her. It'll be better that way. Try to leave feelings out of it. As far as her being married, that's always a risky game to play on your part. If u wanna keep fucking her, literally just only be the guy she's fucking. You don't need to listen to her problems or talk about her husband. Just dick her down and go. If you sense drama coming, bail.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:18 PM
3

Ask her to meet up for coffee. You haven't really had any face to face interactions with her. You can fuck this girl if you play your cards right. Meet up, build rapport and take it from there. Kudos to your bro for hooking you up. Don't let it go to waste.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:10 PM
2

Good advice here. She is just a person. Calm your F'ng ass down. You talk about giving boring answers. Stop worrying about that. It's not your job to entertain her or any girl. Just talk to her like you would anyone else. Like this guy mentioned, ask her out on your next encounter. Fuck texting first. You can still recover.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:06 PM
3

Right now you're juggling a bunch of friends. Fuck one of them first. You seriously are about to get no ass between these girls trying to be a player. You got interest so move forward with someone.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:58 AM
2

If you want the relationship to be sexual, you gotta work on creating that atmosphere from the jump. Don't be pervy or anything, you just have to build sexual tension. If she comes closer to you, put your arm around her shoulder, keep the pitch of your voice low. Suggest taking the date back to your place. It's hard to put a finger on it. You don't need to give off the vibe of "hey I just wanna fuck" but you need to give off a vibe of "hey im not looking to be one of your friends either". Operat…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:52 AM
2

Absolutely. Like I said, it really depends on the girl. My point is there is no automatics. Don't fall into the trap of thinking a girl is gonna be a certain way just cuz of her ethnicity.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:44 AM
3

You were just something to kill time and drain validation from until she figured out what was going on with her ex. Then she tries to put you in the friendzone. You did the right thing. Move on. Talk to other women and continue to improve yourself. Do not contact her again. Do not entertain her unless she's looking to put out.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:41 AM
2

Women are everywhere. My point is I wouldn't go somewhere just to meet women. Just go about your daily life. If you run into a hot girl giving you choosing signals, make a move.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:33 AM
1

You're still not understanding. She can screw whoever she wants. Idc if she fucks 5 other guys after the date. But if im taking her out and she is out pulling numbers and entertaining other men while I'm there, im taking that as disrespect. Women have to respect you at the very least to end up in your rotation. Why don't you try getting sex from more than one woman at a time. You'll find that you have less tolerance for bullshit. You can do what you want tho. Let your girl pull some numbers on t…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:30 AM
1

I had the feeling that was the case lol.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:23 AM
5

Don't make her ethnicity a big deal. Game her the way you would any chick. Deal with resistance as it comes but don't sit on your hands forever trying to play it slow. You'll find yourself in her friendzone.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:15 AM
2

Lol. Even with them. You'll have some that display LTR characteristics, and some that don't. Just remember, hypergamy applies to all women.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:12 AM
2

Regardless you'll never truly know. I would always assume a woman has more sexual partners than she'll try to lead you to believe. Shouldn't really affect you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:09 AM
1

Sounds like you have a good problem on your hands. See your plates no more than once a week. Limit the non sexual attention.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:04 AM
10

It depends on the girl... race alone really isn't a factor.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:01 AM
4

You are still really young. It's good that you've come across these self improvement principles so early. Just keep working at it. Recognize when you've made progress and don't beat yourself up when you make boo boos. We are all a constant work in progress. You'll always strive to be better than you are. Idk if you watch sports at all but athletes always talk about the game slowing down for them. Essentially saying after a year or two of playing, they are able to digest and process everything on…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:00 AM
6

I stand by what I said. Women are irrational sometimes... I guess he could have over pursued and called her everyday because that works so well for most guys... Like I said, he made the effort. She is somebody's ex wife for a reason. It's really NBD. She'll probably hit OP up in a few weeks anyway once she realizes he's really not coming back.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:48 AM
9

I'm not a young woman but I'd imagine it being similar to one of us seeing a dude act like a dancing monkey in front of a girl.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:22 AM
9

Spot on. Betas are usually the ones DMing chicks anyway.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:18 AM
1

Idk, I'm 27 with relatively high test. I don't really get them. I wouldn't use that as a metric for anything really.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:17 AM
13

If she's gonna fuck your buddy, no amount of "boundaries" you set is gonna stop that. It's a shitty situation without a doubt. For now I would just observe but you may want to have one foot out the door if you know what I mean. Listen to your gut in these situations. If something doesn't seem right, it's usually because it isn't.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:15 AM
1

Regardless of what people tell you, her having a Male friend that contacts her whenever is a red flag. You are justified to feel the way you do. You are at a crossroads now that requires action. If it truly doesn't sit well with you, you need to consider bailing. Don't try to talk it out anymore. She knows it bothers you. Just end the relationship. Or you can decide not to let it faze you and just carry on. If you go this route, you can't bring it up again. How you choose to proceed should reall…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:01 AM
3

It's best to keep females as acquaintances if you're not fucking them. Most women just seek validation and attention from guys. You are not one of the girls and she is not one of the boys. It basically puts you two in this weird grey area where overt niceness can be misconstrued as a sexual advance.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:53 AM
13

Oral sex is subconsciously a submissive move. If she sees herself as higher value than you, she may be less likely to go down on you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:44 AM
3

You go to store right, do you hang out with friends at all? There are female everywhere. When it comes to women putting themselves in your orbit, they're very subtle. She may go out of her way to walk past you to grab a weight in the gym. A chick might deliberately make herself visible to you in the store. Sometimes you don't have a lot of time to react. If all else fails, just keep it simple and go introduce yourself. Try and spark up a convo. Even if you don't end up getting a number, you'll b…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:40 PM
2

It's just like gaming women. You have to make yourself high value. Learn a skill. I'm not sure how you expect someone to pay you money for skills you don't have. Develop a craft. There's so many resources nowadays. After that, network, create a portfolio, and talk to people.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:32 PM
2

Fix other weaknesses in your life as if you didn't have money to back you up. Get in the gym, dress well. Work on your masculine frame. Limit your spending on dates and have an abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:27 PM
1

Wait a week and hit her up again if she doesn't hit you up first.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:21 PM
4

The guy has no chance. If he's really BPed and you're RPed, she's not gonna want him anyway. Just don't be fazed by it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:15 PM
1

You probably have a better shot than you think. Just be cool and seductive. Watch how she positions herself. You stay still but if you notice her inching closer to you, that's a good sign. Watch how feminine she acts. Maintain masculine frame.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:13 PM
1

Just ask her if she wants to chill.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:08 PM
74

I wouldn't even address it. Be real cool and casual. There's a good chance she's trying to hook up but you can mess this up if you don't play it right. You needing a place to stay is her plausible deniability. She probably wants you to be a man and escalate it. Feel her out during your interaction and wait till you go to bed to try and make a move.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:05 PM
2

If you're catching feelings, she's probably more.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:01 PM
10

Unless you have fuck you money, if you have no game, it's still gonna be tough to pull quality women.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:40 PM
5

Run man. You can't fix this.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:38 PM
5

It's kinda hard to say. What are your interactions with them like? Are you staring at them all day? Do you have a reputation? Where do you work? Not enough info here to go by.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:33 PM
2

Ppl definitely like firefighters more lol. Do a ride along for a police dept and fire dept if you can. It'll give you more insight as to what direction to go in.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:20 PM
2

I'm actually a firefighter but I feel like the same premise holds true. Good luck my man.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:13 PM
1

Just make it a goal to speak to someone new everyday. You're passing by someone... hey how are you? Keep it short and concise. Work on body language and eye contact.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:50 PM
2

Hell ya you can. Just don't make your age a big deal. Work on your frame, and escalate.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:48 PM
2

Maybe it was for delivery, idk. Either way I'd try to move past that comment. Maybe ask her on a date in the next coming days. Enough messaging her. Text messages don't convey tone very well. Escalate.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:45 PM
3

I work in public safety myself. There is always a risk that you may not go home to your loved ones after a shift. If you are serious about that dream, go for it. Take your training seriously, always strive to learn something new everyday, and try not to stress it. I run calls all the time where normal, innocent people(not in public safety) lose their lives prematurely. Just cuz you decide to take an office job instead doesn't mean you won't get hit by a bus later this evening.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:40 PM
2

Of all the things you could have said, that's what popped in your head?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:35 PM
1

I agree, address it right there.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:57 PM
1

I say you have sex with both of them.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:45 PM
1

Alright well it's only been 2 hours lol. Give her some time bro. If she accepts, please wait at least a couple days before you try to reach out. Only reach out if she follows back. If she doesn't follow you back, NEXT. If you hit her up, try to build rapport but see if she's open to meet up for date or something. I get the feeling that might be a long shot but try it. You've got nothing to lose. Next time calm the fuck down. It's just a person. She's no better than you. And get the fucking numbe…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:35 PM
1

Did you actually get her number?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:26 PM
87

I don't think you made any mistakes. She is a 30+ y/o divorcee. She sounds like a nut. You made effort. She could have just as easily reached out to you. If it wasn't that, I would have been something else. Continue working on bettering yourself. You're in the gym but make sure you're eating right. That expedites results.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:24 PM
3

As an adult, you can't really solve issues with violence unless you're willing to do jail time. Like another guy mentioned, buy some headphone to block out the noise and just ignore the foolishness.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:17 PM
1

Sure but think about how many men were probably standing in the corner wishing they were them. It's all relative.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:15 PM
3

Give it a shot. What do you really have to lose... and asking for the number on the first interaction is never a bad thing. That would have been a better situation than the one you're in now by having to email her. Regardless, hit her up. You might get lucky.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:03 PM
1

Fuck yeah. You're getting something outta the deal right lol? You should keep pulling other women too. Don't let her be the only girl you're fucking.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:58 PM
1

You're not trying to wife her right? Keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:56 PM
4

I don't see the problem here lol. Just keep doing what your doing. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. You don't have to commit.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:28 PM
3

I think you're on it women realize their fertility and good looks are a ticking clock. They start to feel the pressure in their late 20s to secure a provider and have children. They also feel pressure from seeing they're friends starting families.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:46 PM
4

Just take action. Don't beat around the bush. If you like her, just keep it simple. Walk up to her, shake her hand and introduce yourself. Look her in the eye and stand tall. Avoid complimenting her. Just talk to her and see if you actually like her. Who knows she could be a bitch. The key here is to make your intentions known. Escalate. Ask for her number. Suggest you two hang out outside of school. Remember, you're not trying to be her friend. And if it all goes to shit, at least you manned up…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:25 PM
2

Man let her lead the shit. Let her talk. That's what they wanna do anyway. Interject only when you have to. Your job is to lead the logistics of shit and escalate the sexual energy. If she's talking, it's a good thing.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:05 PM
1

There you go. Remember, opposites attract. Women are dramatic and extra. Be the opposite of that.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:58 PM
7

I'm trying to see this from your point, I really am lol but your losing me. You're telling me that a lady YOU asked out and probably gonna pay a meal for is just "shit testing" by pulling a number while on a date with you? "She doesn't know you yet". "She doesn't know better". Please don't fall in the trap of trying to be so alpha that you end up becoming a huge cuck. You'll be the guy that says "women change after they get married"... instead of recognizing obvious red flags early on.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:55 PM
15

Right. Look if she wants to sleep with 100 other men, idc, just respect my time when I'm taking you out.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:47 PM
31

This right here ☝️ A guy who is used to getting pussy knows that submission has way higher value.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:43 PM
8

Does he need her pussy that badly? Again man u gotta remember, High Value. Be the guy that gets enough pussy that he doesn't have to take shit like that. Obviously he felt disrespected. It may not bother you and that's fine. Think about it like this... he's a key, she a lock. A key that can open any lock is a master key. A lock that opens to any key is useless. Should he lose his dignity over a useless lock?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:39 PM
3

You just gotta remember that pretty girls are so used to guys doing backflips for them that you stand out more when your not trying to impress them and you don't look as impressed. Don't compliment her, don't check her out, just look her in her eye when talking to her. Small subtle reactions work better than dramatic expressions. Really just carry on a conversation as you normally would. Like I said listen and let her talk. Try to build a little rapport and ask her if she'd be open to go out som…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:30 PM
4

Let's say you're 21... Your reply: (obviously joking tone) you're not 21? She'll laugh or whatever. Just leave it at that. If she keeps pressing, again jokingly ask "why do you care? " that might bring her down and make her feel immature for making it a big deal which could work in your favor.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:22 PM
2

At the end of the day, you can be sorry without having to Express it explicitly. One sorry. That's it. If it's not good enough, move on. That goes for anything. If it comes again, "look I already apologized what else do you want? "
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:13 PM
1

It's a good thing if your getting sized up. It means there's interest there. Just maintain your masculine frame. Look them in the eye, stand tall, let em talk, and don't be afraid of awkward silences. It's not your job to entertain them. Unless you are a naturally funny guy, I would avoid trying to be funny. I'd she likes you, she'll laugh at your bullshit anyway.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:08 PM
3

Man she's insecure, and so are you. You shit tested her by telling her some gay guy hit on you and she failed. She shit tested you that 20 guys hit on her and you failed lol. Someone's gotta be the bigger person here. Maybe you? Idk. This is a stupid situation lol.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:55 PM
3

Just never mention it again. Sounds like you diffused the situation a bit. It may come up again, it may not. In the meantime, stop having bad sex with her. If you fuck her better, she's more likely to forget about the bullshit coming outta your mouth lol. Let it be a lesson.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:50 PM
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Let's start from the beginning. The whole premise of TRP is to become the best, most high value version of yourself. Along with that comes recognizing self worth and realizing YOU are the prize, YOU are the catch, not her. Clearly you are not there yet... A high value man would never tolerate that level of disrespect. You're right, she doesn't owe you anything, but you don't owe her shit either. If she doesn't respect you enough to not take another guy's number while on a date with you whose to …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:43 PM
3

What did you expect to gain by telling her this. TRP is knowledge you should keep in the back of your mind that guides you in how to navigate obstacles in life regarding relationships and people's motives in general. You will meet resistance talking about this stuff with both men and women. These are just uncomfortable truths. I would suggest letting TRP be something folks find on their own. And stop talking to your lady about it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:29 PM
1

It's all good, just don't fall for em.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:20 PM
5

I mean even if she is, what does that change? You still buried your face in her tits lol. Unless you're planning on running for president in the next election and you need a VP, who gives af. Smash her SJW ass and move on.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:16 PM
5

If a girl sees you as a 10 out of 10, high smv, lots of money, and alpha lol, she will just be overly submissive and most likely very insecure. If your girl isn't overly submissive of you, you're not there yet.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:12 PM
2

It's not something you have to fake per se. It's a mindset. Stop taking shit from people and don't put women on a pedestal. Those two things alone make you more alpha that 80 percent of the population.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:06 PM
4

I say why not. Fuck with her till she gives you a reason not to. You really haven't described why you qualify her as an SJW. Sounds like you're trying to paint your own narrative about her. Just have fun with her. If red flags start to pop up, then reevaluate.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:01 PM
1

The validation they get from social media is enough to ensure that your point will never be the case. You know how many women are famous on IG just for being pretty and having a fat ass. They literally bring nothing else to the table.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:49 PM
2

You know what's good for you. Most women don't. Trying to go exclusive with this girl is setting you up for a world of hurt. Just don't pursue her. Call her bluff (not really) but have the attitude of, "if this arrangement doesn't work for you, seya". You'll be surprised how long she'll stick around. Women are F'ked up like that lol. As far as your feelings, go get some more numbers and talk to other women that are in your area code.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:43 PM
2

I think you did the right thing. Don't contact her. That's what she wants. She's looking for commitment/non- sexual attention in exchange for sex. You're in control here. Let her contact you, and most likely she will if you stick to the script. If she pulls that BS again, you drop her for good.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:34 PM
2

Your frame is gonna be what makes or breaks your situation. Because of your age, I don't think you can get away with being the cool, relatable teacher. That only works for older teachers. You essentially have to be a no nonsense guy at all times. Take no shit. Someone gets outta pocket, write em up, kick em outta class, whatever the formal reprimand is at the school. Your name is Mr (whatever it is). That's what you go by. Start with that. Don't cuss around your students. At your age, they'll ta…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:23 PM
1

Pillow talk on the phone is beta bullshit. Either set a date or move on. And why the hell are you asking for nudes. You'd get a front row seat to her body if you banged her. All you're doing is giving her validation and getting nothing in return. Give it one more try to meet her in real life, if it doesn't happen, move on. And no more sexting and asking for nudes.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:14 PM
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Who cares if she's watching... if anything you should feel good about yourself. A chick who tried to friendzone you is now so concerned about you that she needs to stalk you. You've raised your SMV. Personally I wouldn't block her on shit. Just control the conversation by not acknowledging it. Blocking her says "im trying to avoid you because you got to me." Just ignoring her says "I've got better things to do than entertain you"
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:07 PM
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I'm a fan of meeting women organically as opposed to going to places to meet women. Go about your daily life, partake in hobbies, go out with friends. If you happen to come across a girl you're attracted to, just make a move. Constantly work to improve yourself which im sure you know. Women will put themselves in your orbit for you to approach them if you raise your value high enough. You'll find that it'll be less work for you in the long run.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:59 PM
1

I think you should keep doing exactly what you are doing. Trying to make her a LTR exposes a lot of red flags that aren't a big deal if you are just keeping her as a plate. She's 90 miles away...LDRs are an uphill battle from the get-go. She's a drinker you say... drinkers tend to put themselves in "compromising" positions. She lives with a dude. She says it's not a big deal now but that combined with the fact that she drinks, and YOU'RE 90 miles away... eventually old beta Bob might get lucky o…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:50 PM
1

It sounds like you're doing a lot of pursuing here. I would really try to keep this relationship as casual as possible. The road you're going down is gonna lead to you wanting a LTR which is not ideal since she's 2 hours away. I don't think I need to explain why. You said she has friends close to you. I'd just try to be the guy she screws when she comes up to see her friends. You should try to see what's up with her friend that added you on the gram too...
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:42 PM
1

Whether she ever cheated on you or not doesn't matter at this point. She's clearly capable of it as you're seeing first hand. You should be grateful that you dodge a bullet. As for her new guy, he's opened the door to a world of hurt for himself. The red flags presented themselves to him yet he chose to ignore it. Whatever happens to him going forward is 100% on him and not your problem.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:34 PM
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How do you know they are approached by a lot of high value males? How do you know they are approached my a lot of males in general? A lot of 9s and 10s intimidate most men. They get a lot of attention but few men have the ball's to actually make a real move. If you come across a woman who you find really attractive and you're nervous, you should go back to the basics. Keep it simple and be direct. If you don't know what to say, just walk up, shake her hand and introduce yourself. Build a little …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:27 PM
1

I mean I wouldn't do it. Think of everything that could possibly go wrong... Seriously man you're overthinking this
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:19 PM
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I think you're definitely on the right path. I wouldn't really change much. Keep lifting as that will improve your physique and get your foot in the door for more women. Good on you for working on your hygiene as well. The advice I will give you is to continue working on your masculine frame. Always be cognizant of that because women are always observing it. Also while you're on dates, focus on having a good time instead of putting all your effort into ensuring that she does. The fact that you'r…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:15 PM
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Or he can have a little self respect and ghost that girl for responding to obvious advances by some guy while they are on a date. It has nothing to do with mate guarding. As far as I'm concerned, if she's that intrigued by the guy, he can have her. Scarcity mindset is putting up with that shit, abundance mindset is realizing that there are millions of women out there that won't try to pull another man's number while she's out with you.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:06 AM
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I have to disagree with a lot that's being said here. Taking another man's number while she's on a date with you is blatant disrespect. You can be honest with yourself here. It didn't sit well with you because it was a shitty move on her part. You are not beta for being put off by that. If it were me, I'd calmly end the date and lose her number. Women aren't stupid, she had to have known that entertaining that dude was outta pocket. There's a difference between not being phased by shit test and …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:49 AM
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I love that.
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