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DiscussionBlessedRainsAfrica/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 11:22 AM
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Could you please write your responses in English next time? The last few paragraphs made sense but you're misinterpreting my post. I agree dating is about more than sex but sex is very important. There's no reason why you can't have sex immediately and see if they're potentially a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 08:13 AM
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LTR oriented women with low n-counts. lol, that is a good joke. Are you sure this is real or is it merely an illusion, a game?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:53 AM
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In small religious towns sure. Not in modernised urban areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:38 AM
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One issue with that. The women who don't put out on first dates are miniscule, only found in rural areas and secluded amish communities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:17 AM
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ugly face, weird, autism, anxiety, lack of social life, going from feeling on top of the world to feeling like life's a scam and worthless, hatred of myself, being pathetic, jealousy that every woman can/do live the sex life I can only dream of.... this is only the beginning hey ladies he's single.... yeah didn't think so At least I have zero responsibilities, there's my bittersweet outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 12:28 AM
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I can be for you babez xxoo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:09 PM
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Again as per the other user. I am a dude not a girl. Although pretending I'm a woman online is a fun pastime I don't know how I am being mistaken for a woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:08 AM
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I'm a dude FYI and no to both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:04 AM
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Majority opinion is often wrong. In fact societal opinion can often be 180 degrees out of phase to reality. In this case society is in extreme denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:28 AM
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I think the obvious question is, if this is true why are more women not fucking the whole football team? You'd be surprised If birth control is as great as advertised and there's no emotional consequence the logical extension is a majority of girls would be boning as many partners in a month as the biggest sluts I know's entire entire kill count. They do have some standards, but that's all that's holding them back these days. No need to worry about pregnancy and social shaming is dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:26 AM
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Women here regularly talk about sexual strategy specifically to avoid getting pumped and dumped at all cost Are you talking about RPW? Because I can tell you right now those women are putting on a show to attract some betabux (they're tradthots). Women who don't call themselves redpill here don't seem to care and just are talking about tactics to get the guy they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:25 AM
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I wish I could be pumped and dumped tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:23 AM
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Lets all go on and have some fun! On you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:22 AM
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Yes and some PUA saying "I'll call you tomorrow" and never does literally thinks he is causing her emotional harm when she's disappointed or upset. In reality she'll have forgotten him by the day after. Hell it's even possible she never wanted him to call her the next day too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:23 AM
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At best, they experience schadenfreude if women are inconvenienced by it. That's still a revenge fantasy. You're also talking about men who have this fantasy that women's options exponentially decline in quality and quantity ever year after 30 and they just laugh on their balcony sipping some cold beer. So it's not so far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:14 AM
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Is it just me or is a lot of this sub just people stating their opinions as fact and people who know better just going along with it? And? Would you want it any other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:11 AM
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it's vile and we need this to stop. It won't ever stop. It's like murder, sure it may be declining in the western world (supposedly) but it will always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:10 AM
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herefore your assumption that men are pursuing revenge is incorrect. Remember in my post title I specifically say "men here". Your average player who lost his virginity at 14 probably has no desire for revenge on women. He just wants pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:09 AM
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Guys just want to get some fresh pussy. That's why they pump and dump. This whole revenge angle just sounds like you have been watching too many movies. I'm referring to men here on this part of the internet. Not the majority of men who had at least some success. When you've been left out in the cold of course you'd be frustrated and angry. But their revenge fantasy is just a fantasy. "“All I ever wanted out of life was what everyone else had. Not more. Just not the less I was used to." [Ending …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:05 AM
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I disagree that it is a revenge fantasy. It is a achievement fantasy, Both are correct. What gave you the impression that they sought revenge rather than fulfilling their own desires without having to worry about someone else's first to get there? Their own words, or their own anger and frustration that manifests as a desire for revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:01 AM
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Hmmm that is complicated tbh. Just mindlessly forgiving people is weak minded and makes you a pushover. At the same time letting revenge cloud your mind makes you powerless too. It probably depends on the case whether any revenge is worthwhile or even possible. Small things should be forgotten, larger things may potentially need payback.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:00 AM
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They don't change. Only get older (as you do).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:51 AM
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constant masturbation is drainign men of their libido and sexual energy around women. women are picking up on this and its helping create the feeling that this drained juiceless male sexuality is "creepy" That's NoFap bullshit. In reality those men are just unattractive (looks, awkwardness, weirdness etc) that puts women off. Most men who do well with women masturbate and watch porn, so that is not the issue in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:11 AM
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It says men under 30 but what is the lowest age of that under 30 in their sample? Because if it's 18-30 it's not as indicative of what you think compared to say 25-30 (pretty much means you're fucked and not in the good way). I had a look at the study and it simply says men not getting sex under 30 since turning 18. But that would be guys 22 and some guys 29. A guy at 22 can still lose his virginity and just be a late bloomer. A 28 year old is almost hopeless. So a study that looks at the percen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:09 AM
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I complain because I can and it's fun. Some "bootstrappers" really need to lighten the fuck up, no wonder nobody likes them in real life. You also do realise you can try hard at something and still fail right? Effort is meaningless, what matters is results. > Generally women rate men on confidence and if you rely on apps like tinder where a woman can only judge you by a few pics and a bio, then you need to make more effort. Yes and women now have 100s of options both online and offline. No need …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:01 AM
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Well money doesn't make a woman's pussy wet. So if you suck with women before you get mullah you'll still suck after. Handsome popular DJ who couchsurfs >>>>>>>>>. Sam STEMbucks (lol at idiots who think STEM will magically make them rich)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:55 AM
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no wonder that 99.99% of socialist men are pathetic incels who will die as virgins. This is a far cry from socialism but do you think the same of liberal men? Because have a look at the wealthy and powerful. Who are they voting for? Liberal democrats. They vote for higher taxes and left wing policies. Not conservative policies. It actually benefits them because high taxes makes startups difficult so they can keep their monopolies. Look at big cities. All liberal and all leaning democrat. What pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:49 AM
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The only 30 year olds desperate for anything all happen to have a penis. No such thing as a desperate woman. Especially since most women have an unlimited number of options waiting to tell her how much of a queen and how beautiful she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:22 AM
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Men who know how to have fun don't tend to need an instruction manual on how to get women to talk to them. Agreed. Good thing most men know how to have fun. Leave the robots alone though. They're people too, even if you don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:32 AM
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​ Real men don't find it difficult Real men seek relationship and not sex Real men......... Never said anything of this sort. So called "real men" don't need to do anything in 2019. Because gender is a social construct, so men can do whatever the fuck they want. If some women want to hold men to outdated 1950s gender roles they can suck it. There are no rules now, at least no written rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:21 AM
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I miss lads mags. The best part was going up to a shopkeeper barely older than you, putting that shit on the counter and having the proudest look on your face. Nah all the get laid stuff in those magazines was just cheesy "how to get better in bed". Not actual how to make her want to fuck you stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:18 AM
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Most plumbers aren’t surrounded by hot chicks. Shoulda become a DJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:17 AM
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It is seen as predatory behavior and objectification. Only if you're unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:16 AM
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...uh, duh? Because thirsty men who want casual sex with no intention of commitment are, by their very concept, unattractive to women. Don't think so. Plenty of women will literally jump on that if she is in the mood. Even if he's thirsty, because she's thirsty too. > Just look at how confused the poor novices on askRP get about whether they're even "allowed" to have LTR's, because they "heard you're supposed to spin plates and not commit". For these dudes, anything more specific is just giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:16 AM
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See all the dudes standing there holding beers not approaching women. Doesn't sound very fun. A man can't approach 24/7 anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 02:28 PM
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Today, with unlimited nude 10/10s on tap for every man, far fewer men are willing to overcome this reluctance. The drife isn’t as acute anymore. The force impelling over the reluctance is far weaker. I actually think porn is making men more desperate (sounds counter intuitive). So if anything men are approaching more because porn is making them thirstier. Porn stimulates a man's sex drive and keeps it in cruise control. Back in the day men who didn't do well didn't have porn to keep it cruising …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:22 PM
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Who are you arguing against? You
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 12:48 PM
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They feel fine and do it all the time. Approaching in social venues that is. No one I know spam approaches women in shopping centres like RSD wants you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 11:56 AM
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are you a woman? No or a hypocrite? or just stupid? I'll give you some time to calm down and relax
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 11:35 AM
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You don't get to decide what a low smv man is or isn't. Women do. Your idea of a high smv is just a rationalisation of what you want to be true. Not what actually most men who achieve the top results with women actually do. The majority of so called top 10% men you worship. Guess what? They've probably never cold approached a woman in their life. Annoying a woman in public thinking she's gonna love your "game" is not a sign you're elite. In fact quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 10:33 AM
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At social events women welcome approaches -- on the street not so much. By the right guy yes she will make herself available as much as possible. I guess the right guy could even approach her on the street as well. But there's no need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:16 AM
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I'm not even sure the hypothetical Chad does much cold approaching, women go to him instead. That is correct. There's not any need to as this Chad has a large social circle where he meets tonnes of women. These women (majority at least) also happen to want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:15 AM
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Actually many men do cold approach. The vast vast majority never have read a PUA book by Roosh in their life. But cold approaching is usually a waste of time unless she finds you attractive from the getgo. From my experience women die to be asked out. In broad daylight, especially. Only if she wants you too. Otherwise it's an annoyance, perhaps even considered harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:13 AM
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Yes I mean what's the difference between your average city gal and a porn star? Not a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 11:21 AM
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Of those 3 probably Mia Khalifa. Because boobs...... I watched one of her podcasts she doesn't sound that bad. Sure she's taken a lot of cock, but so have most women. Rebel Wilson is fun but not attractive. Perfect friend I guess. Elizabeth Holmes would be fun to be married with, until it's not. Protip: redpillers should love pornstars + prostitutes because if they date them they (usually) will be more open minded to letting you have a hall pass. Which is perfect for you isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 11:18 AM
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That's because it's a societal sin for a man to show or admit he's insecure. Men are supposed to have zero self doubt and have unlimited confidence. This is also sexually selected by women too. Hope little Jimmy gets dad's confidence genes. If he gets Mum's self doubt he's in for a rough life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:10 AM
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unless you're G.W. Bush That's where having the right last name helps in life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:00 AM
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real degree from a real school If you go to an ivy league/top school it doesn't matter what you major in. You're set for life. Even if you major in gender studies. Going ivy shows you're well above average in intelligence or you have parents with a certain last name; all things employers love. But yes for those of us who didn't get into Stanford, a more marketable degree may be worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:11 AM
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These women are single but not single single. They have a wealth of men they are seeing. It's just that some girls miss out due to numbers (relationship wise). They probably will even have a boyfriend within the next year. Either older or younger than her it doesn't matter. More fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:05 AM
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Nothing wrong with any of those careers. In fact I often have what if fantasies of abandoning my engineering job and just doing something else in a small town away from everyone else. It's not like I really need ambition or lots of money. But that's not what smart attractive and interesting people do. I mean it explains why nearly all women upon turning 18 leave their small towns for big cities or college towns. They want to be around the cream of the crop, not the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:12 AM
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my brothers killed it in high school and do you think our fucking MOM had anything to do with that? LOL How else do you think your brother became a stud in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:05 AM
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Just knock up another bitch You'll forget she and your now deceased son ever existed. Are you having a boy or an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:36 AM
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That's because attractive interesting and successful men all live in the city. Small towns have the people who gave up on life 20 years ago. It's no wonder women flock to the cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:02 AM
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Men, as it gets really hard down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:31 AM
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Being a woman sounds great. Endless validation simply for being alive, have value just because, endless dating options, endless support, endless opportunities, people are nicer to you and not to mention no refractory periods so she can keep on going. And that's just basic Becky, imagine being a hot girl. I would masturbate over myself based on how much of a queen I am (just by being born).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:24 AM
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I was told I ought to smile more. He comes at me with the knife. "WHY SO SERIOUS?" He sticks the blade in my mouth. "Let's put a smile on that face." In all seriousness; superheros (regardless of sex) are supposed to look serious. Is it me or does Brie Larson look hotter when she's not smiling and looks serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:41 AM
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Get a hotel then. Unless you just hooked up with Ted Bundy you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:06 AM
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Also I’d be too scared to go to a private location with a man I don’t know. Make him "come" (hehe) to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:00 AM
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Ehh gave up a while ago. It's not all bad, I can get my UberEats, gym/sports, videogames and other hobbies with no issues. Might be getting a new hobby or two in the near future. But yeah my dating life never even began. On the other hand I did some soul searching and realised that the number one reason I wanted a girlfriend was so I could feel like everyone else and not defective. So it's pretty much all egotism; I don't even need a girlfriend tbh. Only was trying to cross off some bullshit thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:59 AM
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sure they get to know the guy without the influence of warm fuzzy sex hormones. That's the time after sex where you two are satisfied, laying in bed and start talking. As long as he doesn't fall asleep on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:48 AM
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Who is perpetuating that label? Not me. But if a man can't handle who a woman really is rather than the bullshit acting she puts on to seem like a "good girl", the relationship is doomed from the start. You may as well be honest from the start, save wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:39 AM
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Because the same girl who's making you wait had threesomes in college where she didn't even know the guys beforehand (or after for that matter). Besides what's making a guy wait going to do? If a man doesn't want like you on the first date he won't start liking you by giving him blue balls. If a man likes you he won't stop liking you just because you two fucked on the first date. He probably will like it because it shows she goes for what she wants rather than play stupid games. The truth is wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:30 AM
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Yeah it was interesting when I used to hear my grandpa talk about how he only went to year 6. Now college is the new grade 6; sending as many kids to college only for them to work a job that a high schooler could do. But good luck getting through HR as you face 100s of applicants to get a entry level corporate job. But yeah college seems to be a damned if you do damned if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:50 PM
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No my opinion doesn't matter. But those women do not want a ring on their finger as they want to live it up first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:16 PM
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She should fuck all the hot guys she's attracted to and then marry one of them when she's bored of new dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:13 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:12 PM
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Think I just had a long day at work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:41 PM
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“if you like it then you should have put a ring on it” I hate that song. Most overrated Beyonce song ever. The women singing that song are in their 30s. Not 20 years old (unless they're just singing it because they like Beyonce). Women are perfectly capable of doing things in their own free will. That means they're making the choices they want to be making.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:40 PM
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Our brains weren't fully developed at 20 a 100 years ago as well. That is true that the world has changed. Unless you're born into connections/money you need that college degree and prove yourself to even have a chance. Stable career may be an oxymoron today for most people. But seriously those oats need to be sowed. Otherwise she'll be angry and unhappy for missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:08 PM
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That theory is bullshit. If anything I see men more desperate for relationships than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:41 AM
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Life is not about happiness, it is about triumph. Triumph while staring into the face of the abyss. You see darkness, you see death. Then the right amount of dick makes you see the light. Tall bushy trees and a nice salty beach. You soar above your present state. You just learnt to fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:32 AM
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By after college we mean a good 10 years at least. Gotta get it all out the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:28 AM
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Out of all the losers there was certainly a clear winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:27 AM
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But do these 40 year old men still have a full head of hair, no beer gut and some life left in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:20 AM
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Where the fuck is have something interesting to talk about or show? What about have something cool about herself? Perhaps most importantly how about the ability to think against the herd? You can't just have big boobs, long brown hair and wear a sundress and think that's enough for me to be infatuated by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:08 AM
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Those women are "born again virgins" not actual virgins. Meaning they had a few wild nights in the Beta house fraternity when they were 20. But it's ok because now she's found Jesus! Jesus cleansed her vagina of all sins and now she's the purest of them all!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:14 AM
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Reddit is the 17th most used website globally and the 6th most used in america, why do you think it's impossible for an attractive person to be here? No I mean here here. On this sub arguing about sluts and "alpha males". Not all of reddit > You can have a mostly good experience but still see flaws, the same way it's possible to be a millionaire but know how bad wealth inequality and poverty is. You wouldn't be taking those issues personally though and be so emotionally invested in them. See War…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:15 PM
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You can get fat if ya want. If self improvement is a pain to you and getting no results you're better off sleeping in on Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:12 PM
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I also would say that there is no purely objective way to define who is top 10%. It's defined based on who gets top 10% results. If you could rank every guy in a percentile based on how overall attractive he is amongst all women the top 10% is on top of that. Of course nobody cares for annoying data analysis like that so we just look at guys that actually achieve the results you wish you had and that's it. Men trying to work out who's the top 10% is laughable. Because there's guys you'd think (i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:10 PM
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A guy who's been dating since he's 14 but overweight > in shape guy who's had little dating experience Sounds similar to getting a job doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:29 PM
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Only if they have other boxes checked, then it may be a nice bonus. A jacked autist is still a jacked autist. Some foreveralone type guys are actually ripped; but yeah they can't attract women otherwise. So you need the other fundamentals right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:28 PM
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Incels are a tiny minority
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:26 PM
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Luckily that only true for the very worst guys. The bottom 5% Have you considered many guys reading TRP are in that bottom 5%. Most men don't struggle so don't need self improvement to get laid; they just need to be themselves. Maybe TRP needs to let these guys know their role. They don’t. There in only 1 Male for every 1 female. Average girls can’t get hundreds of guys. You’d need hundreds of guys for every female to do that. Stop making excuses. When a woman is single she has 100s of suitors. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:30 AM
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I dunno, if he doesn't have what women want, if women find him off putting then his personality will be birth control regardless. If something just feels off to her in other words. Also autism only affects ~2% of the population so you're using a fairly extreme outlier case to support your argument. That's interesting because most men don't struggle with women. So even if we said that say 10% of men struggle with women then 1/5 of the struggling men can already be explained with autism. Wonder wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:23 AM
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I certainly agree that you can improve. But it's not about improving, what matters is results. If the average woman has 100s of guys fighting over her, and you're not one of the best of her options despite all your hard work. Your self improvement meant nothing (especially if you did it just to get girls/laid). So there's nothing wrong with self improvement for yourself I agree. But if despite your best efforts you are still left behind by your competition then it's a waste of time if you're onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:18 AM
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Most men do those things already. The average guy is not a "comic book guy" (Simpsons character) like incel. Most people can have a conversation and socialise no issues. Of course some better than others. It's very interesting seeing people claim that standards are dropping and it's never been easier. Yet somehow achieve below average results with women despite all this self-improvement stuff. On TRP for example; all these guys talk about self-improvement and how the average guy is an incel dwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:14 AM
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We're talking based on being attractive to women yeah? There are fat guys who do well with women and athletic guys who don't. Looks don't matter if your personality (to women) is a form of birth control. Because you've already been rejected from the getgo. Most women would rather a fat ugly guy with a personality they like over an in-shape autist. You're thinking how a man would rank men (fair and based on merit, accomplishment, virtue etc.). That's not how it works unfortunately; women rank men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:08 AM
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How can everyone be in the top 20%? It doesn't matter how hard you work, what matters is results. Also I'm sorry to say, you're probably not in the top 20%. As you probably wouldn't be here for 1 and 2 you'd live in a different world where you'd feel no need to be bitter about today's dating world. And I will enjoy my scraps thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:03 AM
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Nope, it's a sub filled with guys who claim "it's never been easier to be a top 20% male, just self improve and you're there". Even though the sub is filled with guys who are average at best (that's probably being generous tbh).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 08:29 AM
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Sure, Jimmy B has fixed a few areas of his life that were making his life bad. He has more options to do things now. If he's happier and healthier that's excellent. However he's nowhere near the top 10% of men. In fact he's pretty much did all that work just to be average (which is better than before I suppose). So I hope he improved his life for himself and himself only. Because if he did it to be perceived as an "alpha" he's gonna be disappointed. That is if his dating life even improved with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 08:26 AM
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No never said that. I say only improve yourself if you need to (accomplish goal etc.) or if you think it's worthwhile and there's demonstrable results. In 100 years time unless you have a wikipedia page written about you your self improvement won't mean shit. So unless you need to or enjoy it; you're better off doing other things (including hedonism).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 08:22 AM
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High value and low value are better terms. Define those. If you define high value as attractive to women then you need to be making sure what you're improving actually is making you more attractive to women. I don't know what would be a better alternative to improving yourself. Going for a jetski on a Sunday morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:57 AM
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High value is relative (as it's not an objective thing). But in our context it's what women find attractive; so high value = attractive to women. Having a bigger social circle may get you laid (even if you all are a bunch of unambitious stoners who don't do much else). Lifting at the gym or reading social skills books probably won't make much difference. But as I said in the post. Guys who are attractive from the getgo are ahead and will remain ahead because they have experience which has made t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:32 AM
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Don't have exact links. But there's plenty of TRP users who do claim that anybody can be an alpha. Can't remember all their names but Rollo does promise this and so does Gaylubeoil (hehe that name always makes me laugh).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:28 AM
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Yeesh a late 20s virgin woman. Like Nessie the Loch Ness Monster; probably don't exist except in people's fantasies or in fake photographs. Would I date one. Maybe but likely no. They don't exist and also even if they did if they have chosen (always chosen) to wait this long they probably have vaginismus by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:25 AM
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Actually reddit attracts "open" people. Also just because people don't judge you at your face doesn't mean they don't behind your back. I don't like overly tolerant people for that reason. Everyone is judgemental, including yourself (as you judge judgemental people making you judgemental). Trick is to find your tribe and tell others to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:56 AM
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No, not for being a sex worker by itself. Only if she was a heavy drug user, but I wouldn't be compatible with any woman who was a heavy drug user regardless of what else she does. Sex workers probably have similar sex lives to most women anyway. So even if I was sexually jealous or something it wouldn't be a reason to reject the sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:52 AM
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Your local town bicycle has boyfriend/marriage requests on the daily. Don't let guys here fool you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:34 AM
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Hookup culture is a myth. Also, see above. Going to a college campus proves it's not a myth Absolutely wrong. The more high-status/attractive a woman is, the lower her n-count will be - the studies are pretty clear on this. Then why is hookup culture most prevalent on college campuses? Sure it's also prevalent in other places but it certainly gets its reputation here. I also read a study that college educated women have more sexual partners AND are more open to anal sex. But I can't remember whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:08 AM
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Sex poses physical and social risks to women in a way that it doesn't to men. The more intimate partners a woman has, the more likely she is to be exposed to intimate partner violence, particularly if she's engaging in vulnerable behaviors without vetting them or as a means to get to know them without having some kind of preexisting knowledge. Being in a relationship poses the same risk. Don't you think. Also most men aren't violent or abusive, so in the majority of cases it's fine. Just gotta w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:01 AM
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Having game gives you wings
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:55 AM
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Yes, not much difference between 2019 and 2018. I see slutty women having no issues with dating and actually in the end benefit from their habits (even if sometimes it goes wrong, but that's life).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:29 AM
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> If men have a demonstrated preference to not marry women who are promiscuous, women who aim for marriage and commitment need to take it into account. Do they? I''ve never seen a promiscuous woman struggle to find men who want to marry them. Most promiscuous men have no issue with marrying promiscuous women, contrary to redpill beliefs. In fact they probably prefer each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:26 AM
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> If you are interested in a strong pair bond, you throw that possibility away by having numerous sexual partners. Women who can't pair bond never could to begin with. They're not glass who shatter into a million pieces when they receive too many dicks (and that number seems to be subjective to many men here). > "I'm educated, so I sleep around," almost everyone who heard would lose respect for her intellect, whether her statement is true or not. Most college educated circles hold liberal opinio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:25 AM
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Strange I see the exact opposite. Young women being mostly into the pretty boys. Older women/cougars being into the high T masculine types. So I only see what you're saying for older women. Younger women seem to prefer pretty boys; even if he can't change a tyre or even open a jar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:33 AM
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Men are simple creatures. Balls empty full stomach. I suppose you're not a fan of red pill women advice? There's plenty of fish in the sea. If you're a woman, a school of fish is there every time you leave the house. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:10 AM
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Letting the guys down, now where will we find our "one weird trick"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:07 AM
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Hey by all means focus on your career if that's your desire. But it's not what makes women wet. So do it for yourself rather than to be "alpha" or get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:10 AM
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Stoicism makes you a pushover. Overly emotional men (with money and power) rules the world. Just hope they're fingers aren't too close to the nuke button.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:08 AM
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The type of men I find attractive vs the type I'm going to marry is probably different. Are you sure this is a good idea for women? It's short term benefit for long term ramifications. While choosing a guy you're actually attracted to over a "logical choice" is short term pain (for long term benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:07 AM
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Zuck is married to a woman way out of his league. Think they're pretty much on par with each other. Both Harvard educated, she's a doctor he's a billionaire founder lol Asian woman, white man. Very common in San Fransisco/Bay Area/Silicon Valley
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:02 AM
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hard part.....their personality. Eeeep, there's no makeup for personality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:00 AM
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So what do women get wet over? Reveal all your secrets so us guys know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 02:59 AM
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Not a political jab. Gun to my head (force me to vote in 2016) I would've voted for Trump. I'd prefer to vote for nobody though, not even show up. Politics is a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:35 PM
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Did they want him because there were actually sexually attracted to him or for his money? Personally I don't know. I barely know who he is except for the book he wrote. During my manosphere reading days I actually tried reading that book he wrote (as it's recommended on many of their blogs). I fell asleep halfway through the book, never finished it. If it actually contains a useful blueprint in getting rich, well guess that won't be happening for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:20 PM
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Well personally I think the guidelines that TRP gives to being this attractive "alpha" are not helpful for the types of men who read the site. Judging by the results most users seem to be getting (only improving to average at best in most cases); I think a better strategy is needed. I don't know what that strategy is. My hunch is that there is no universal strategy and you have to figure it out for yourself; otherwise you're doomed. It's similar to getting rich; the secret is there is no secret.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:17 PM
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Most women have this lifestyle at least for a certain portion of their lives. They might stop it after college or even after 30 or so. But until then the types of guys she'll not only be seeing the most but also eyeing up are the party boys. Should also mention not every party boy is a stud, far from it. But it does help if it brings popularity and excitement; things most crucial for most young women not looking for mr right but more mr right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:10 PM
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That guy Chad you worship would have something to disagree about what you just said. The only transactional exchange there is body fluids and maybe validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:53 PM
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Unless you're a woman (which I don't think you are); I'm talking about these guys being put in women's magazines for them to masturbate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:52 PM
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Confronted with that Loosey Goosey guy RP would say "Carry on being loosey goosey, chicks like that. But get on a track to a high status job, and show girls that even if you are loosey goosey elsewhere you have ambition, industriousness and high status incoming even whilst you're loosey goosey elsewhere". Tough in practice, but it is theoretically possible. Demanding careers do eat into your life in multiple ways. I think our disagreement is on raw primal animalistic female desire vs relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:50 PM
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Yuck, I don't want to be her daddy. one wants a good father figure for her children; another just wants a good dicking-down. One day she wants the second, the next she wants the first, then a month later she wants the second again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:45 PM
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Those relationships are always sugar daddy style to me. Men get sex and a hot woman to present, while women get handbags and penthouses and publicity in exchange. Exactly, you said it. There will be no orgasms in that household, just fake moans. Like Donald Trump and Melania.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:39 PM
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Don't worry, genetic engineering is coming. Will be trialled in China first (they will rule the world in a 100 years when they get it right). I'm just saying that some of the things TRP is worried about is not worth worrying about. Get your looks (mainly face tbh), popularity and funness sorted out and that's all there is to it. Because that's what women seem to want, not your engineering career. Make money or publish physics papers for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:26 PM
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Lifting helps give you that body shape. It also has other benefits, it raises your testosteron which gives you more confidence, and it also acts as a "discipline check" for RP. Ok, lifting may increase testosterone (even if its only brief). But most gym goers I know aren't super confident people, in fact many are needy and desperate for attention + approval. I say this as somebody who is a gymgoer myself. Also is discipline what women really want? Discipline makes you conscientious and uptight, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:20 PM
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Talking about actual sexual desire, not golddiggers desperate for another botox injection and Fiji getaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:12 PM
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Sure, people (not just women) usually have low self awareness. But still my arguments in the post stand. Men say "women want competent/successful men"; but what do women fawn over? Or maybe men and women speak different languages. So when a woman says competent it is interpreted differently in a man's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:06 PM
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Maybe the mods will make this a CMV? Either way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 11:57 AM
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> This is a really coherent post Just sipping beers on a Saturday night
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 11:56 AM
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Yep right here with you. I'm actually happier adopting the mindset I had when I was a child. Developing a sex drive upon puberty only made my life worse. Ignoring it and accepting that I will be my only partner (me, myself and I) has given me peace. Of course it's not like I was ever attractive to women anyway. But desire was the root of my suffering, so wanting less/accepting myself has taken a load off my shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 11:28 AM
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Yes those who want it less or not want it at all have the power. Male thirst is going nowhere though so .......
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:21 AM
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Yeah dude, guys are always ripping the hair off their face, walking in shoes that ache and spending hundred of their money in cosmetics and haircare to be attractive. Oh for the last time. MOST OF THAT SHIT IS NOT NECESSARY TO BE ATTRACTIVE TO MEN. You're just scared of being judged by other women. A bit of concealer and you're good to go. Brushing your hair is optional. Don't even need heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:20 AM
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If a guy is confident and has abundance, he will be more of a gatekeeper to relationships. What percentage of men do you think fall into this category? Also women have tonnes of options too so they can walk away as well. It's not like 30 year old women suddenly lose their options. In fact 30 something men are chasing them, not 20 year old blonde cheerleaders (like some people here really think).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:00 AM
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Men want relationships far more than women though. Yeah you see what so many men go through just to be noticed by some average girl. They'd drag their balls on glass. Any women want to drag their vagina on glass for a man? Anyone? Didn't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:57 AM
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In today's society: a real man is a machine learning algorithm programmed robot that can do all your work for you while you sit back and do nothing. No need for masculinity if it can be offshored to machines. Just like there's no need for a large manufacturing economy if it's going to China.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:55 AM
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> Let’s say you have your low SMV, high RMV backend engineer. He’s 31. He’s never had a girlfriend. He’s kissed a girl once or twice the times he was able to channel some fun and not crash and burn at a social gathering / party. He has seen an escort a handful of times. He’s depressed because he doesn’t feel validated as a man because he doesn’t know how to attract women sexually. Hey that's me. Except I'm a fair bit younger than 31 and I'm nowhere near as depressed as I was a year ago. I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:30 AM
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Because you lose it when you're supposed to, in high school where it's expected. That's where it all begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:15 PM
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I never said that sleeping with tonnes of women (especially with low standards) will make you super hot with women. A guy with low standards is just a guy with low standards; but he will do better with women in his league by having experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:08 PM
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Women can tell you're a virgin, not because it's written on your forehead but because you're a loser around women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:04 PM
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Point is simple, just because you are awkward and autistic does not mean every man is. Alright asswipe, when did I say anything otherwise? I know that I am a loser, but thank you again asshole. Eh, what the hell. There's no point in even fighting online anyway. It's not like we're gonna fight IRL; even if we did it'd be such an embarrassment as both of us would be too pussy to even lay a fist on another. Even would look at us like who are these weirdos. But that won't stop you trying to be abras…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:03 PM
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Yeah but he's hot so he'll wind up with some girl who's basic and boring with little substance. The worst you can be is unattractive yet plenty of interesting things to talk about. Feels like a waste if you ask me, because no woman will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 12:35 PM
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I actually don't know what this post is. But it's discussing the idea that if you're not participating in hookup culture as much as the average woman you're probably screwed (and not in the good way).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:44 AM
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Yes I agree those that have the option to but don't are fine. But most men not participating are not by their own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:37 AM
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Yeah and having sex with lots of people is the new average, the new normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:19 AM
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I've been to house parties with 3 different friendship groups of differing types. Sporty guys (from basketball), nerdy guys and laid back cool guys who party alot and do E (tbh no idea why this group invited me). Guess who had orgies at the parties. That's right all of them. There's no escape from hookup culture. Just non participation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:14 AM
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Ok I can't take this anymore, I will change the post slightly on that line. Hold tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:43 AM
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I believe, around 5 for American women. You couldn't honestly believe this. That would mean the average woman has only had sex in long term relationships. This ain't 1819, it's 2019. If you're exclusively attracted to promiscuous women, that's your business, but own it, don't act like it's inevitable. Well by this sub's definition of promiscuous every woman is promiscuous. So that would be saying I like every woman. I do like prostitutes though, they're nice, down to earth ladies. Never met a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:42 AM
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Huh, ok that line may have been a bit hyperbolic. I have no idea what the partner count of the average woman is exactly. But following what she does every day and based on her lifestyle it's a decent number, even if it's not triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:30 AM
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Where are you walking in on orgies and why is it causing you pain? House parties, and I think you can figure out why somebody would be distressed when walking in on group sex (if they are to get distressed).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:27 AM
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Yeah but you need to at least attempt to catch up. But that's the problem, being desperate makes it worse to the point there is no catching up. You're stuck in mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:23 AM
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Mate I've walked in on a few, not the best. But the alcohol does intoxicate the pain well enough, enough until the morning comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:20 AM
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Well in my case you are correct But in general your armchair psychology is nothing more than an illusion of security to make you feel safe at night, thinking nothing bad will happen because you've got it all figured out. Reddit neuroticism is pretty gay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:19 AM
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No I mean the reason why you suck will be apparent upon talking to her. Like your awkwardness or autism or weirdness. You can't hide this shit, well not for long anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:07 AM
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You can have lots of sex, even talk about it a lot and talk about many other things too. The only thinking about sex thing doesn't exist in the real world. Even the most desperate horniest guy on the planet has other interests to talk about, even if they're basic (like sports, tv etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:05 AM
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Oh she can tell. Not because she's super smart or perceptive or anything. But because it sticks out like dogs balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:01 AM
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Depends what you're becoming successful in. If you're successful in your engineering/law/medicine career that's just beta bux material. If you're a popular good looking exciting guy then you'll probably be fuckboy material. Also it depends what age group of women you want. Redpillers want hot tight skirted 22 year olds. Who surprise surprise want guys their own age +- a few years. A 40 year old man dating college girls barring sugar daddying or daddy issues is fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:36 PM
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My post isn't just about looks. It's about the entire package men have to offer. Also I don't think men really like only being desired for the money they bring. I think men want to actually be respected by their girlfriend/wife. So if a man isn't developing his entire package he has to offer he will be left behind even more than he already was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:02 AM
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> If you're a loser at 25, just getting older won't fix that He said just getting older by itself won't fix it, not that it's impossible. To improve you must unlock whatever potential you have (hopefully there's some there). If you have no potential or you fail to unlock the existing potential you have, well you're doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:30 AM
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So you want to be a beta bux? You can't shit on guys who women only want for money yet want to be one of them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:16 AM
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Besides success in life I think confidence also is strongly linked to neuroticism. Neurotic people have naturally lower self confidence because their neuroticism makes them prone to negative emotions. Guys low in neuroticism don't/rarely doubt themselves so find it easy to be confident, even if they have nothing much to offer. Hilarious as neuroticism is strongly genetic. But neuroticism is pretty much a disability for men (in attracting women). But women can be whatever. So neurotic women are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:07 PM
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By this sub's definition of "slut" every woman is a carousel rider in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:53 PM
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A woman could be great to one guy but shit to another guy. That girl you think isn't like that could treat a guy she secretly despises like garbage but she'll treat the guy she admires well. A quality woman could be relative depending on what side of her you get to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:08 AM
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Ok sure. All I'm saying is that contrary to manosphere shit that "as a man you must LEAD" thing; if a marriage is successful and the guy is subordinate then does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:49 AM
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They literally don't. They go to college, get good careers/jobs. Well paying ones in air conditioned offices mind you; not operating on a sewage plant. Hell there's patreon and gofundme waiting for women to make money from just giving some guy attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:47 AM
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If men are becoming more subordinate and they are fine with it. Well I guess many men don't care about being a "alpha leader". Alone with cats is by choice, not lack of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:45 AM
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Live in a first world country in a major metropolitan city. Women are even starting to outearn men. This site is anglo saxon based so it maybe different where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:42 AM
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What percentage of men are "nice guys". Exactly, not many. Why don't you just go fuck a "real man" and quit bitching about loser men you hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:07 AM
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Oh Jezebel, my queen. How I missed you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:05 AM
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Yeesh you guys really are out trying to rationalise women's dating choices as inherently just and rational. Can't be flawed and fucked up can they? Can't do nothin wrong. Too much Jordan Peterson is bad for you. But someone gotta donate to his overstuffed bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:08 AM
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If it helps this is what I look like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:36 AM
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sexual chemistry I understand you want other things as well as compatibility too but this is key. Can't weasel out of this lady, you want an attractive partner. It's ok to admit it, you haven't committed a crime or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:34 AM
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As a woman, how would you go about figuring out whether a man will use oral and foreplay or just jackhammer for 5 minutes, cum and just leave? How would you go about finding that out? If it was bad I would just go "oh well" and move on to the next attractive guy blowing up my phone for my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:19 AM
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Where are all these Romeos? Right here baby. Send bobs and vagene please. If I likey likey u wan sum fuk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:17 AM
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Then declare victory. Hey. There you go. You win. You're so insecure bro. Get some confidence. And yet you call yourself an alpha male online lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:50 AM
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Most of which isn't present during casual encounters. Oh stop the bullshit. If women didn't enjoy casual encounters they wouldn't keep coming back for more and more. Who's going to be better at sex? The experienced guy or the experienced guy? I can assure you that attractive men are almost always more experienced one way or another than unattractive men. Yes there are some attractive men who only care about their own pleasure. But then again if attractive men were selfish why do women keep comin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:45 AM
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Even if she's interested in casual sex, she has the burden of finding a man that will provide good casual sex Yeesh talk about being picky. That's like me sorting through women and rejecting women who have less than DD boobs. Oh poor girl, having to spend the effort of choosing the more attractive guys over the less attractive guys. It's sooooo hard, such a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:39 AM
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unless the guys are fighting over an equal number of women. Yes, too much competition to only chase after one woman. Used to work in the olden days now women just make men fight over them (when they already know who they want in advance).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:32 AM
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This is the ultimate rationalisation and just world mental gymnastics I have ever read. This is a good play on words to make it out that everything is justified and nothing should change... ever (because it works for me). You're exactly like Jordan Peterson, just without the cult following Next week on PPD: morality = what women masturbate to, virtue = how horny she is in your presence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:30 AM
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In today's online world women meet men they would've never met otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:04 AM
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There's tones of decent guys fighting over you right now who are fine with what you have to offer in all of those areas. If you want the best you'll have to be the best. But there's nothing wrong with mr average right? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:52 AM
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Dating and relationships, probably about the same. Most women have 100s of guys (many of which are decent) fighting over them. Dating/relationships are only difficult for women if they want the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:51 AM
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"good man" So an attractive man. Most women have tonnes of decent guys fighting over her. They may not be exceptionally handsome or rich or popular/exciting but they're decent guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:49 AM
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It's a standard policy for medium sized companies. Of course no company in writing says it like I did lol Only big companies with their graduate programs can hold your hand and really mentor you. Otherwise it's get it done or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:53 PM
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I would also like to inherit billions of dollars, make myself super smart, get into phenomenal physical shape and wear a bat costume at night. When I encounter my foes I'll say "I'm Batman".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:31 PM
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You mean when you were placed at your job you never any kind of mentoring program and expected employees to figure it out as they go? That's my current engineering job. No buddy/mentoring program, just throw me in the deep end and see if I can swim. If I can't they throw me out, if I learn to swim then I stay. I'm still standing, yeah yeah yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:14 PM
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Lol my post was about all men having more respect for themselves and being less thirsty, regardless of where they fit in the male hierarchy. However it won't happen, things are trending to men being more and more desperate. Even if the more attractive the man is the pickier he can be there's still tonnes of desperation even there. I do agree if a woman wants a so called "high value man" she needs to be high value too. Hot guy with masters degree and 150K+ career ---> hot girl with at least bache…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:09 PM
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If women are to make money from their tits and ass they should have interesting things to say. Like an ugly man on youtube. He gets followers from his content. Thots need to become more interesting so if men are going to be a suckup for these E-thots have higher standards for the women you shower money with. They need more than tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:02 PM
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Women will never pursue men the way men pursue women. I've been saying for a long time that men want women far far more than women want men. Hence why men are more desperate. Especially these days, women make their own money and can get good dick without being married to some "loser".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:59 PM
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Incels and other unattractive men should be saving and investing that cash. With low cost of living due to not having a girlfriend or socialising they could have quite a nest egg and some excellent fuck you money. But no they somehow think that conservative "redpilled" E-thot (see Lauren Southern etc.) is not like other girls. LOL LOL LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:55 PM
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Then who is giving all these e-thots money? Incels? Loser men? These women are making some buck so maybe even average men despite doing fine are still sooo thirsty they need to shower these women with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:39 PM
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crap semantics. Whats "rich" Let's have a liberal definition and say 1 million+ in assets (95+ percentile of American population) Not for marriage. Just cause it appear so to you doesn't mean it's reality Find any woman with a shit personality and nearly in every case they have tonnes of guys fighting over her for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:28 PM
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Because most people are lazy and limited in thought, just living their lives. This is fine too, I'm not even saying its bad, but if you want to improve the opportunity is there. You are simply limiting yourself. There are millionaires who are lazy too. Being successful is about execution (working smart), not working hard (and going nowhere). Hence why some guy working 60 hrs a week for two min wage jobs isn't successful (working hard rather than smart). Not everyone is gifted with a high IQ or r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:23 PM
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My post is not woe is me, it's a post saying that if men weren't so desperate so many issues they have would actually fix themselves. If you really hate this post, your ticket to freedom is this way ----> alt-F4
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:57 PM
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Becoming rich or at least comfortable is in almost any mans reach if he works hard enough. Women don't get wet for money. Rich men who aren't attractive just get used. Most women have their own careers and money so you really need to be making an upper middle class+ income to even be considered being used by a woman. Also in what universe can any guy become rich? Last time I checked many guys work hard in America and otherwise yet are nowhere near rich. Thinking and growing rich doesn't seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:54 PM
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Alright Mr Economist, let me address some of these But guess what, they still don't give a shit about MGTOW beta men. They still want drug dealers, pimps etc. They want masculine men. I know this. But being a thirsty SIMP for some E-thot is not the right way to live life. If your dating life is that hopeless it's time to throw in the towel and move on rather than being overly needy for some bitch. Women are a twelfth as biologically driven to mate as men are. That's like trying to unify a nearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:47 PM
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The only shred of truth in this concept, is that women are far less likely to use online dating for hook ups, so swipe considerably fewer men. Because in general far less women like hook ups and don't often orgasm the first time they sleep with someone. I remember the days when I believed this too. Only for the real world to show me how wrong I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:29 AM
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You, and everyone else who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:10 AM
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He could afford it yes. But who wants 10 000+ children. Didn't Cheaper by the Dozen freak you out enough? 18 years 18 years, she got one of your kids got you for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:40 AM
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That's the plan
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:38 AM
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There is no point to it. Just do whatever you want with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:36 AM
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Billionaires could, if they wanted, impregnate a different woman every hour. Why don't they? Why are the ones who do almost exclusively society's "undesireables"? Not really. Yes there are many women who would be fine with getting impregnated by a billionaire (whether attracted to him or not). But there are tonnes of women repulsed at the idea of fucking Jeff Bezos for example. Too old, bald and just unattractive to her. Sure there are some women unattracted to him who will fuck him for money bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:35 AM
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You can stick your hand down your pants..... then you'll feel nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:32 AM
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"Nice guys (TM)" is more of a reddit meme than a reality. Very few men over the age of say 18 are really as pathetic as r/niceguys types. Most men do not call a woman a bitch just for saying no to him. You also ever noticed that successful/attractive men are never called "nice guys" even if they have similar personality traits. There are some guys who get absolutely pissed at being rejected and you know pretending to be friends with a woman just to get into her pants. Yet aren't considered "nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 07:51 AM
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By quacking until the humanz gives it up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:42 AM
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Never said it's a negative, that's merely opinion if you were to think that or not think that. It's unnecessary because we're just talking about sex here. Unmasculine men are getting laid, you know watching porn and playing videogames effeminate soy boys? So if you don't need to be masculine to get laid why get so worked up over it? Why not be whatever you feel like being?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:13 AM
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Because he hasn't gone through difficulties and doesn't have the emotional control, he's going to freak out and get anxious about the idea of doing it by himself. Or he calls roadside assistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 11:01 PM
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Yeesh it was a suggestion not an order. No need to take it personally. Enjoy your box as I will enjoy mine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 03:12 PM
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Why it just puts you in a box, restricts you and makes you live a limited life? Why play by stupid rules when you have alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 03:05 PM
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Well if it seems to be optional and there are guys who don't have this yet are still doing well maybe it's not an instinct after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 03:04 PM
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I've seen MRAs and MGTOWs feel emasculated if they were called wimpy or effeminate or soy. So even if they don't care about getting laid they still want to feel manly. Which I don't really understand why. Not saying that's true of all members though. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:35 PM
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They're feminine, and their first inclination is to bow to anyone and anything symbolizing pussy. Not saying this is true of all redpill men, but I've seen some so called "masculine alphas" on that subreddit bow to anything symbolizing pussy. My point is that they have the ability to flirt, approach and even attract women despite not oozing testosterone or masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:33 PM
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No I said that it's traditionally been CONSIDERED a masculine trait. I'm not necessarily saying it's masculine or not. But if women can be determined despite being feminine is it really a masculine trait? So perhaps our ancestors were wrong and it's not exclusively masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:29 PM
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They are, but only from a gender roles are a social construct perspective. Or yes "toxic masculinity" thing. They're not obsessed with masculinity and it's potential role with getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:27 PM
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Masculinity is more than just having a penis or having a Y chromosome. Also if most women can do something that some people consider masculine then it's not masculine. It was once considered masculine to be the breadwinner because most women either didn't work or only worked on and off. Nowadays most women (who aren't masculine) work, so how is having a job and being a breadwinner masculine. Same with being a leader/boss/manager. If women can do it how is it masculine? If women can confidently a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:24 PM
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Am I? That's weird. Usually I get told I make no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:19 PM
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But do you really need masculinity to get laid? Hell you don't even need masculinity to socialise, live an exciting life with many activities, or even get a job promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:10 PM
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Peter Parker sucks with women. Spiderman does not. Same with many other superheros. Those powers make all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:08 PM
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Isn't independence considered masculine as well? So that means masculinity is a worthless term because it's contingent on what women find attractive (which could vary), making it relative. Hard to be independent if you're only doing certain things to be attractive to women. It should be concrete and not dependent on the opinions of others. This applies to femininity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:07 PM
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Masculinity is probably best associated with toughness, bravery and determination. Superheros are seen as the masculine ideal and they have all of those traits so I reckon I'm spot on. So a masculine man has all of those things. The toughness part is definitely dropping in our society but it doesn't seem to be affecting many men with their sex lives. So I don't understand the obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:03 PM
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Well the bullies/jocks/frat boys while maybe more masculine than they are aren't even super manly themselves either. But yes you do have a point. I have noticed soy-boy is seen as the ultimate sin among manosphere users. So there is that fear of feeling unmasculine/wimpy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:00 PM
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Are you looking for a Leave it to Beaver type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:46 AM
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There isn't really anywhere else for men that no one desires. They used to join the military, be killed off or were slaves. Now we have no place for them because solving their problems doesn't make anyone any money nor is it easy to fix without sacrifices people are unwilling to make. Hmmm yeah. Even careers these days aren't available for everyone, so some of these guys can't even dedicate their life to work. But we do have porn and videogames, the internet and VR to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:44 AM
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They thrive on seeing themselves as the Special Forces of the dating scene and so take any opportunity to sneer and talk down to anyone who doesn't have their peculiar take on the world. I agree with this. Nothing worse than somebody who has all the answers but no results to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:35 AM
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I was more giving a general comment rather than talking about redpill. But I will address 2 I'm not so sure the thought is really growing. If anything I see millennial men becoming more feminist and more supportive of liberal thought. You'll always have your conservatives but they seem to be a dying breed. Even if the popularity is growing, feminism is growing faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:05 PM
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I agree many men get burnt. But so many men seem to come to so many conclusions based on getting screwed over. Some men double down what they were doing, some try this, some try that. I mean some men who get burnt become male feminists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:02 PM
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socially inept and autistic men. Poor autists, they get shat on alot here, don't they. What did an autist ever do to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:00 PM
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Similarly, majority of people are religious solely adhering to whatever their mommy and daddy told them to believe in when they were 4. I think religious beliefs (whatever they may be) more come down to coping with life itself and circumstances. If that happened to be what mommy and daddy told you at 4 then many people say so be it. Whether you're a theist or an atheist, life is tough. So Marx was right that religion is an opioid, what he didn't realise is that atheism is an opioid too, same wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:21 PM
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Well, first of all, is your idea that if something works really well people will flock to it? Because I find that to be questionable at best. Hey! It's a good idea to eat well and exercise! It's a relatively simple thing you can do to be healthy. Yet, how many people do that? Something like 60% of Americans are overweight or obese. I should certainly clarify when I say that I mean when it comes to getting what you want out of life. Like if you want sex/relationships then you'd want to find ways …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:10 PM
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Anecdotal but I have met a guy before who had many women chasing him. He basically sounds and acts and believes stuff that is basically the definition of blue pill. He's effiminate, he's proudly is into feminist causes, you'd nearly think he's gay. But he's straight and is a hit with women. Of course I can understand how a redpill guy could be a huge hit with the ladies too. My point is that if you tick other boxes having a redpill mindset seems optional. At least from what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:05 PM
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The premise that allows RP thinking: questioning the mainstream, is definitely growing. Alternative media is more popular than ever, and mainstream Politically Correct (PC) media is falling slowly. Look at the recent layoffs of the PC clickbait journalism, or the commercial failures of PC video entertainment. The zeitgeist is shifting. Well people may be questioning the mainstream but "their truth" may not be closer to the actual truth than what they just threw away. Questioning things is good b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 12:59 PM
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The red pill used to be for average frustrated "beta" guys who had trouble getting laid on their terms but were still average guys, before it got flooded with an influx of completely sexless "omega" guys who just use the space to complain. Right, so it very much depends on your foundation. Of course you can't control who wants to join a community. Ok follow up question for you. Why do you think the community attracts so many "omega males" rather than "beta men" who are decent guys but just need …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 12:55 PM
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Yeah I agree, this is a Becky bux. Good news is that women and men marry assortatively these days. No waitress is gonna get her hands on a 6 fig+ careerist guy. Nope she's gonna marry a working class man. Also who says you'll be undesirable at 30. I'm sure you'll have tonnes of guys wanting you. Ignore the manuresphere
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 12:23 PM
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