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SELF IMPROVEMENTBlissfully/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 03:38 AM
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Dream of dreams ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 05:32 PM
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From the last November post - 1. I did put myself out there for the guy I had a crush on/was in the friend zone with and it did NOT turn out as planned at all. Which actually turned out to be a great thing. I DID exceed my exercise goals! For December my plan is to stay on top of and accountable for physically manifesting my femininity. So nails, clothing, overall appearance. Getting in the regular habit of skincare and makeup!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/17 03:54 PM
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Forgetting someone’s birthday is discourteous but not something to break up over or be crushed by. I’m assuming there were other monumental things that caused you to reflect and come to your realization. IMO - before you just jump right into other girls you should figure out what made you feel the way you do now and try to fix or not repeat that. Jumping into other relationship whether casual/several or another long term could be detrimental if you have hang ups/self awareness issues that are un…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:36 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m wondering too! Seemed to be going so well.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:31 PM
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What I love is that he acknowledges it lol. I have a friend who is a horrible gift giver ... they give gifts THEY like and think are cool which isn’t the point of a gift...
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 06:56 PM
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Such a great remark about shoes!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 02:36 AM
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As someone else mentioned I also was pointed to the Kibbe test because I want to change. My result was Romantic/Natural Romantic. (Which makes me smile because I’m guilty of reading historical romances lol) Currently in my closet is mostly dresses and skirts. Some casual things but they’re all in colors I hate and want to change that. I’m leaning more towards light/soft shades. Definitely more into makeup than I was before. I would say my style goal/board is this - Style Board And I used to dres…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 02:35 AM
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I love that your boyfriend follows your Pinterest board ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 02:22 AM
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I know that feeling and it sucks @game! I try to be my sincere self especially with someone I’m interested in and I hate wasting time. Not sure what you meant by that last part but hopefully we all find a little joy in this strange world.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 03:02 AM
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Men who have learned their lesson as in heart break?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 02:49 AM
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YES! Thank you for this. Also the slight shade throw in the first line of this gave me a little life. lol. Thank you <3
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 09:07 PM
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frumpy is quite easy when dressing conservatively Yes! Ok thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:51 PM
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ouch LOL! I felt that last part. Dang... and as someone who is trying to find a balance where it doesnt come across as "too much" or have me looking more mature than I want to... thats a blow. I have started looking up more girls with my body type on IG to get some more feminine style inspiration though lol. I actually follow FFA but they dont really cater to my body type so often Im just looking at photos.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:51 PM
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I meant more jeans and shirt/nice top perhaps? Vs sweats and tank top in regards to the difference between conservative and dressed down. Do you think you can be provocative and sophisticated? And when I thought of conservative I moreso thought of high neck tees and sweaters/layers. Calf length skirts etc. I guess this is why they say style is relative.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:36 PM
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Because of my body shape most things I wear either have to be too big to make sure top and bottom aren’t out there on display but if I’m going out I prefer a more provocative look but I also take into consideration what the person Id be seeing would say/style. I kind of like to mirror that. I’d hate to be dressed down/conservative and then my date comes dressed to the nines.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 07:33 PM
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Thank you for the insight. That’s why I try to be transparent and consistent as long as I’m getting that in return.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 06:15 PM
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I feel like I’m always so curious about this because being self aware... and knowing your partner can avoid lots of unhappiness and discontentment. Not speaking directly to you just generally. To me it seems like such a simple thing as long as both parties communicate well and freely without any concerns for rejection.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 04:51 PM
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Ok perfect I thought so! Yeah even I don’t gossip a lot. Complaining sometimes ok sure everyone needs to vent but talking about the girls next door boyfriends cousins sister new boyfriend is a bit much if done incessantly lol.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 11:56 AM
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Also if you have the funds for it... for the grandparents at least, a nice serving tray. In my experience older people love a good serving tray/dish ware. For sister... if she’s girlie I’m thinking a spa gift card? For mom I would do a nice perfume or something to make her life easier in the kitchen/cleaning etc.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 03:51 AM
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Just curious and for clarity - Do you mean speak like a woman would another woman friend or did you mean general emotions? Because I would hope that my partner would tell me if he’s upset/uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 03:42 AM
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This was a great one that I’m learning too. Wait for the commitment but also don’t push for it. If it’s for you, it’s for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 03:39 AM
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I really don’t wanna give you advice bc I don’t know your history but if there something that will put you in an awkward or bad headspace then DONT do it. If you like the girl and just tired of the inconsistency then tell her that and see what happens. If anything immediately feels bad then don’t do it. Otherwise good luck and report back!
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 02:35 AM
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Ah ok yes if feelings feel too inconsistent then I’m right there with you. Definitely move on, there are people who want what you want, just have to go out and find them.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 02:06 AM
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Was there anything wrong or you just broke up...?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:09 AM
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That’s 100% my thought process while reading this... I feel like his libido and masculinity perhaps was challenged when she “forced” him into the mold of relationship before his was ready. Now that they took a step back he is back in his comfort zone and able to retain his frame and live happily. I’m pretty sure they’ll eventually get back together officially how this feels/seems. I just think he didn’t like the pressure and she may have sensed that later on and did “the most” with trying to mak…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:09 AM
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I might have to check that out @period. Usually it’s only the first and second to last days that are my worse ones but how well versed you are is what I aspire to be!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 09:31 PM
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You explained this so well. Esp the part about feeling guilty. I told my friends that the other day - that I feel guilty for wanting to make a husband/man happy vs going full drive ambitious and working on career. I think it’s great to be self sufficient but you should be ok being domesticated as well!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:44 PM
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This makes so much sense. Wow and as someone highly attracted to masculine men who do manly things this explains a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:42 PM
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Wow I really love the herbs idea. I’m a good cook but I would love to be well versed in all herbs and spices and their compliments for accompaniment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:41 PM
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I’m single but I notice that when I am put together and when I’m dressed up or rather care a little more about my appearance (i.e: wearing dresses, soft pastels, heels/wedges, nails done) that I feel more pretty and confident which helps me communicate better and engage more freely. I give compliments and receive them. Men hold doors and pause to say “good morning/afternoon”; now if they’re simply doing this for aesthetics not sure but they usually are polite and it makes me feel like the world …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 05:03 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 02:27 PM
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This sounds awesome!! I can’t wait to try this in the future. I just had a thought - what about a string of polaroids if you guys throughout the year/seasons to hang in the cozy corner?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 03:03 AM
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LOL LOL no not exactly lol. My father was given the last name of another man and it was spelled incorrectly so everyone in my house had a different last name lol. My dad has asked me to go to the courthouse to change it but in my mind I’m going to get married anyway so who cares. I’m definitely not team “down with the patriarchy” lol.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 11:11 PM
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I’m going to 1. Because technically my last name ISNT my last name ... long story & 2. Because I find it terribly romantic to be a part of a named pair. Also it feels like I would “belong” to/with my partner and I like that feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 10:13 PM
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I wouldn’t classify myself as an introvert but ambivert 100% lol. I am extremely social but when I’m ready to go I’m ready to go lol. Needless to say to parties or gatherings I drive myself. I’m like 60% introvert 40% extrovert. That is an issue I’m learning to temper now - the balance vs extremes. It’s mostly a security blanket. I gotta break outta that! I’m hoping there’s a guy who is patient and consistent so I can fall freely. Most of my friends are either like me or not coupled up. I do hav…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 07:05 AM
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All your words described me to a tee lol. That was uncomfortable and soothing at the same time because you get it. I alternate... so if someone seems sincere then I’m totally interested and may come on a little strong and then to combat that I fallback completely because I may feel awkward or making them uncomfortable projecting my own insecurity so I just try to detach before I cause any damage to either party. If someone is extremely assertive then I become quiet/withdrawn... especially if I’m…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 06:36 AM
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Ha how much do I owe you for the session Doctor? My parents had a very tumultuous relationship from what seems to be the beginning. It was all I knew of them and they were together in total... about 26 years? Me suddenly becoming extremely cautious with my emotions has more to do with trusting strangers vs immediate family issues. I have been on my own since i was about 16 (long story) and unfortunately didn’t interact with people who had the best of my intentions at heart so, you adapt pretty q…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 06:04 AM
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I’m an extremely independent person and kind of “hard”. So I’m learning just with my own materials and trial and errors that for the kind of guy I would like, that’s not the best way. So for me - it would be being more vulnerable and taking a risk. The idea of trusting someone with all of your love and attention is terrifying because what if they don’t feel the same way? Or it’s fleeting? When I find a quality guy I would hope those concerns and doubts don’t arise or his actions would squash the…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:37 AM
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This is the fear that I was speaking out about with a close friend of mine. It seems like some women are lashing about in droves and this will cause men to second guess or not even approach a woman anymore from fear not only from rejection but implication! I watched a snippet from the Me Too campaign where Ashley Judd said she felt victimized because when crossing the street one day, an officer complimented her in a dress.... hello? She didn’t say he ogled her or was rude or nasty she simply sai…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 01:47 AM
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I’m really starting to question the Me Too campaign. Regret and hindsight does not mean you were sexually harassed or assaulted. A lot of these women admit they agreed... that’s consent. I’m a little confused. If you are feeling threatened and you feel strongly you are in jeopardy immediately remove yourself from the situation and report it. Not give consent. I used to immediately be on the victims side but now I’m more “I gotta hear both sides”.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 01:58 AM
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Please report back! Although I’m a few years older than you we share a lot of the same stats it seems. Good luck to you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 10:32 PM
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Some things I’ve tried that helped me out of my complacency are: Bumble/POF Going out with a coupled up friend Going to company games and meeting new people that way Going to foodie events
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 10:31 PM
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There is a lot of information on the internet about "inner child" and relationship dynamics that steem from our childhood or current unmeet needs. Unmeet needs are not always positive. Agree completely. I think when we find or start to realize something is missing... instinctively we begin to seek that out and sometimes it works out for the best and sometimes it doesnt.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 09:32 PM
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I actually have experience with this. I have gone out with guys before that never even asked about work/school in detail, just that I had gone or had a job/self sufficient and when on the date mainly flirted and built up chemistry and anecdotes. From my memory, they moreso wanted to know about home life/parents and where I saw myself in the future and how I kept my car/home. I have had guys remark on the cleanliness of my car before (Im very private and dont allow just anyone into my home.) I ca…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 09:02 PM
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I love this! Accountability! November Goals Complete reading Crucial Conversations Workout 4 days during the week Be less timid/try to vocalize how I feel about a guy that I am interested in and if that doesnt work...Get more active in my dating life - go out on actual dates
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 08:44 PM
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Do you think there's any way to combat that?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 08:39 PM
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I was actually thinking this as well... also there are some guys that may have had bad experiences in the past and are cautious or a little more reserved/shy so... what you say I agree with. Little seduction. I just hate when things get miscommunicated or misunderstood.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 08:38 PM
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Love this! I wish I had had the same upbringing. Awesome :) I dont think there's anything bad with wanting to be feminine and "knowing your place" or role. I get critiqued by some new wave feminist friends as well for wanting moreso to keep a house and home find nice Alpha/masculine guy vs run the streets and have equality by using my sex to get what I want etc. Good for you :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 07:32 PM
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<3 thank you. I still appreciate your insight :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 06:25 PM
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My dad is in jail frequently*
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 04:31 PM
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WOW this really spoke to me! This seemed like such an obvious idea that I DID NOT have. I appreciate this reply. I do need to stop comparing men altogether but definitely should be more focused on what I DO want. I am a firm believer in manifestation. I wish I could guild you gold but I don’t know how. Thank you ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 12:34 AM
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Hey thanks! I have gone to therapy but he wasn’t willing to join. Unfortunately it seems like a relationship that won’t work. I do think therapy for emotional development to avoid personal bad behaviors is a great idea though. He also is frequently in jail. Thankfully I had a great older brother and support system. Appreciate your reply :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 03:52 PM
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This sounds like something you’re itching to do and could lead to making a bad decision if left as is. If I were you, I’d tell her and try it out on your own, but if she moves on just remember this moment!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 12:06 PM
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I’m a little confused at your first point? I tried to make things work with my father and it didn’t so I decided to stop trying. I do agree with other points in your reply so thanks! I am not compliant to people I don’t feel are worthy. I end things pretty quickly. I more so wanted advice on how to not get jealous or over think. Thanks! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 12:33 AM
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Also I would add... grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Just because it sparkles doesn’t mean it’s gold.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 12:20 AM
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Thank you for your transparency but you should be as transparent with her. If you’re even for a moment viewing other women as a possibility - it seems like you may need to spread your wings a little which isn’t bad but don’t expect her to wait around while you figure it out. I would talk to her and express yourself clearly and see what happens... communication is vital at this moment. Especially since it’s already a fear of hers... that means she’s already seeing subtle signs of your attention p…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 12:18 AM
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I would add - if there’s something making you feel insecure then address it. I’m curious as to why you’re having this thought. Please don’t sabotage your relationship! If you’re thinking of something or have a concern address it. At least I would.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:54 PM
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I appreciate this comment. The analogy doesn’t quite work on me bc children are not in the cards for me but I do understand what you’re saying here. As a foodie and an amateur cook I’m so happy about your new venture!! I’m great in the kitchen but sadly can’t handle seafood bleh. Here is where I differ from you though - I used to be a super talky person on the phone but now I’ve gotten comfortable with texting! But but it’s also because I’m a sentimental person? So sometimes I’ll go back and rea…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 03:24 PM
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... I have decided to take up pottery/ceramics on top of my new gym routine to have more fun things and social things to look forward to and hopefully expand my social circle/life. (in regards to busy)
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 05:16 AM
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Yes! With your first point about comparison... I think of my brother sometimes bc he is such a delight and hes one of the rare "one woman only" type of alpha guys which I appreciate. I think some it stems from our childhood but hes a LTR guy and he just got married for the first time, at 37... he took his time making sure that the girl he pursued was the ONE but he focused solely on her and I appreciate that. OK you got me there with your second point (sorry I dont know how to format like you)..…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 05:14 AM
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Hi :) Thanks for your reply. I know this may sound weird to some but I don’t really relate guys to my father. I relate them more to my brother who I adore. Or other guys I’ve gone out with though I know that’s not great either. What makes me jealous is when I start liking a guy I want him to like me the same and if I feel like he doesn’t or isn’t being aggressive in his pursuit then I get agitated and either stop entertaining him bc I feel like he’s not as interested or perhaps call him out on i…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 04:16 AM
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Lurker here & on TRP. I’m single. Always felt weird that I prefer a more “old school” or traditional partnership (bc of my past and some other women around me, “feminism” is the way to go...). I always wondered why I wasn’t finding the guy I wanted and I see so many little mistakes that I’ve made that I want to learn to correct and put into action! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 03:35 AM
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I appreciate this post/comment a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 03:14 AM
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¯_(ツ)_/¯ I just drop by ever so often. You never know!
/r/seduction25/05/14 08:13 PM
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Well as a romantic I hope she's your soul mate. Cheers! 🎉
/r/seduction25/05/14 07:58 PM
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I loved reading this!
/r/seduction25/05/14 07:53 PM
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Someone once told me that the only difference between the two is that introverts gain energy from solitude and extroverts from being socially. That's it, no connotation attached.
/r/seduction25/05/14 04:06 AM
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I thought most people used Tinder for hook ups? Is that incorrect?
/r/seduction22/04/14 01:26 AM
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I am as well! Some of it's malarkey on both ends in my opinion but I believe in learning and you never know what advice could change your outcome on a date!
/r/seduction02/02/14 03:28 AM
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Same! If I ask how a guy is and he says "fine" I don't reply. If he asks "and yourself?" Then I will. Give what you get!
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:36 AM
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As a girl I totally agree to this. It's how my fwb got me. He genuinely likes texting and sexting but not in a perverted way so it feels organic & natural. And was very open & honest.
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