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There's a very high percentage of men into Red Pill and manosphere who are severely neurodivergent and / or have undiagnosed learning difficulties and / or have NPD or ASPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:48 AM
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You're married. Why do you give a crap? I got about 20-30 matches, almost all ghosted except for 9 of them, 3 wanted to arrange dates. All 3 were not that attractive. I'm curious how far you would have actually let this experiement go before you ghosted them yourself. It's like you're so focussed on how "bad it is for men" or whatever that you didn't care about your own conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:29 PM
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Dude this reads like a letter you should send to someone in particular. Maybe your gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:04 PM
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Lol so it's fine when you do it, but when women do it to you they're just being flakey etc.. So convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:53 AM
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That's an interesting way of saying "Women don't like me. Must be their fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:51 AM
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something akin to "love" or some shit. 😂 The way you describe it like that. Yes, it's about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:39 PM
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Camming and having sexual chats with other people is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:49 PM
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That's outright cheating imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:55 PM
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If you were female, and had a bad experience with a man, you'd be the "man-hating feminist" you probably despise. Two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:19 PM
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This is sad. You let one person influence your feelings about an entire gender. If you let your whole mindset be as easily influenced as this you're probably in for a pretty miserable existence tbh. Much better to see people as separate individuals. There are plenty of terrible men, plenty of terrible women, plenty amazing men and women, and everything inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:13 PM
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Interesting! I get the impression he's been harrassing her for some time on the train. She has a tear on her face, but it makes you wonder if she's crying because of the man's harassment, or she was crying before, and the man is bothering her regardless. He's predatory because he isn't paying attention to her obvious discomfort or desperate body language. The facial expression of the man's face in the background is also interesting. He looks so damn tired of the dudes shit, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:58 PM
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Tbh, not hard in todays economy. So many young people (male and female) can't afford to move out. Lots of people trapped in abuse relationships too sadly, as they can't afford to leave either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:52 PM
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I learned about the painting 'The Irritating Gentleman' by Berthold Woltze today. It so perfectly captures the reality of what it's like living as a teenage girl or young woman being preyed up by older men. I feel like all the men who try to pretend that predatory men don't exist, or try to defend much older men hitting on young women in public spaces should study the painting. I wonder about differences in psychological reaction to the painting too.. If men here will look at this and see nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:45 PM
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The middle ground gets too often ignored, and replaced by generalisations fueled by projection on both sides. Loneliness is very normal and widespread, but being happy with your own company (and the company of cats!) is also normal. It's healthy to be in a good relationship with someone you love, but it's healthy too to be content on your own. Some people are in miserable relationships. Some people are miserable and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:23 PM
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I wonder what a PPDover30 sub would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:03 PM
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Idk but not knowing either way wouldn't bother me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:00 PM
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Well not to be rude, but what does your experience have to do with this anyway? You might know of women who like abusive sex acts from porn or not, or whatever, sure, but men do also pressure women into copying stuff they see in porn. And that's what this question is about - why women don't like porn, don't like seeing those kinds of acts. If a woman is into that stuff, she won't be complaining, but I don't like it, so I'm saying why. What's the harm in that? But also, how are you harmed in any …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:55 PM
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What is wrong with saying what I did? Do you think it isn't true? Can you accept that all women don't like what your exes did? Or is it impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:32 PM
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No it isn't. Not all women are the same way. I'm sorry you had a bad experience, but did you know everyone has different fetishes and sexual behaviors, etc? Some women like being spat on, hair pulled, choked, etc. But not all of us do, and if you do it to a woman without consent, it's pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:26 PM
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Lol when men here defend cold-approaching us and we're saying we hate being bothered when we're just minding our own business, this is what it feels like to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:11 AM
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Maybe women's magazines don't show naked men with 6-packs cos average (even slightly below average) women can have a naked man with a 6-pack show up to them in REAL LIFE at the click of a few buttons (the same is not true for men). What planet do you live on where women order naked men with 6-packs to their door like pizza delivery service?! Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:00 AM
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I think a lot of women TRULY believe their partners aren't "good looking" and that they've settled in some way physically. Why do you think that? You think women aren't attracted to their partners? That's just weird. Weird, completely baseless take. They believe they are attracted "mostly" to their partners personality because the objectively good looking or above average guys they do date and get into LTR's with aren't quite the Adonis/Calvin Klein model they instantly think of when you say "at…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:27 AM
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I don't feel like oral fits in well with my example of why women don't like porn. I've never seen women complain about oral in porn (unless it's extreme like gagging).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:11 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:57 AM
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Imagine if we applied this to men and shit like ball torture kink play. Just because some people like stuff like that doesn't mean the entire fucking gender does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:34 AM
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Cool! Not all of us feel the same about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:10 PM
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You're still trying to drag this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:09 PM
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If you as a guy are hot and desirable enough for her to swallow her pride, then so be it lol "I don't care how she feels. As long as she does it. If she grits her teeth through pain or displeasure, that's fine!" Do you know how many things guys do in life that we dont want to do, yet we do them anyway because we have to to get what we want? Sure. No one said this was exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:47 PM
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Meh. I'm an abused woman myself but I can manage to forgive myself for my phrasing. I think it was obvious I was referring generally to "things about porn many women don't like". I already corrected myself anyway. It's not that big a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:34 PM
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Plenty of people do things they don't necessarily like or want to do to please their partner to keep the relationship together. Like this isn't a new thing. Of course it's uncomfortable, bad, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:27 PM
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Well of course..? There are women who share it with their boyfriends and husbands. There are also women who pretend they enjoy it just to please their boyfriends. And there are women who are open about their hatred and disgust of it. All women do not hate porn, but the question was asking why some women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:54 PM
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Well sure, but that's for a completely different reason. It's way more personal for a man to actually pay another woman for her nudes than get off to other kinds of porn. Many women would consider paying women on OF to be outright cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:57 PM
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Sorry, I have absolutely no idea what you're saying. Can you rephrase that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:53 PM
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So? They're hot and make men nut. "Women in porn are hot and make me cum idc if they're treated poorly" can be filed under "More reasons I hate porn as a woman", lol.. That kind of "I wanna bust my nuts to women getting fucked while not caring about them as people" isn't making a good case for us to like it. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:50 PM
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Okay ATM isn't necessarily "violence" as such, but more "disgusting shit many women don't want to do".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:46 PM
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It can encourage men to be shit lovers because they want their gf's to copy extreme acts they see in porn. A lot of stuff regular women either can't physically do, or won't / don't want to do gets normalized. Also, men can get so addicted to it they don't even want to fuck their own girlfriends or wives without it. I've seen relationship advice threads where the man will be secretly watching porn on his phone while having sex by hiding it under a pillow or demanding it's on during sex. It can le…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:22 PM
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It doesn't seem so much "insecure" as "entitled".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:33 AM
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Does this thing of fucking as many of the hottest women on the planet, (and the subsequent butt-hurt that it's highly likely to be impossible for them), actually seriously matter to guys who are out of "raging hormoes / puberty" life stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:15 AM
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If your sole goal is dating, attracting, and having sex with the hottest women regularly, quite literally nothing matters except being at the top of that ladder Wasn't this always obvious though? It seems a bit like saying "If your sole goal is finding a job that pays you £1m a year, quite literally nothing matters except being at the top of the ladder". You want to be extremely sexually desired by the most desirable women, lol. Your goal is literally enormous, so it naturally follows that what …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:37 AM
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There's nothing wrong with applying for a job, either. But if your method of applying for a job is turning up looking scruffy, avoiding eye contact and chewing gum, you probably won't get it. There's SO much nuance missing, you can't just say "there's nothing creepy" about it when the way the approach is done is key to whether it's creepy or not. And usually, when men cold-approach random women, it is. We know the man approaching us is thinking about fucking us, but women aren't wired the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:42 PM
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You're comparing women finding random men creepy for cold-approaching or complimenting them to people who are racist? Do you feel those two things are on the same page?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:17 PM
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You can't debate a personal opinion really though, can you? It's only your opinion that it's not creepy. It's my opinion as a woman that it is creepy. Especially if it's a compliment about my looks. I don't want random people to talk to me about what I look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:07 PM
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You wasted a whole load of time thinking you're talking down to me when you quite literally did not posit a rebuttal to my argument. You are arguing why older men would desire younger women. Which is not what my debate is about, if you bothered to read it. I think men just enjoy talking about how much they want to fuck young hotties than have a discussion about a subject a bit more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:20 AM
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Why is no one reading? I explicitly said - in the title no less - that older men who specifically want young, inexperienced women under the pretense of them having less baggage, actually just want women with a specific type of baggage that would make them vulnerable to those kinds of men in the first place. I did not "explicitly" say that ALL older men who date women in their twenties are predators. Learn to read. If what I'm saying too much to mentally process, I wish men responding would just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:17 AM
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Your "argument" was a huge strawman. Junk. Your response is so predictably Reddit that I bet all you needed to do is type "Wow" and the rest was auto-predictive text.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:48 PM
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Yawn. Another one who didn't read the thread.. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:55 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:56 AM
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Everyone likes beautiful people. I do agree, however, your response is a strawman. My argument is not that men don't or shouldn't be attracted to young, beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:54 AM
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what if the older man is a positive influence in her life? Then that's great and not at all the kind of man I'm referring to in this post. Definitely wanted to emphasize I was referring to a very specific type of man. So many men have ascertained that I was saying all older men are bad when that's not at all what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:20 AM
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"I DIDN'T READ THE THREAD HURDURDUR!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:28 PM
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You didn't read the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:03 PM
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You didn't read the thread dude... Literally no one is saying young hot women aren't hot. That isn't the argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:19 PM
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Did you even read the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:11 PM
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Well it's a jolly good thing that that is not what I said at all, isn't it? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:59 PM
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He literally said "your father", I likely wouldn't have been born. Meaning me personally. He didn't say "people's father". You're the one misinterpreting it. Are you a new mod or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:56 PM
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Everyone likes and is attracted to youthful, fertile, beautiful people. That literally isn't the argument here at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:54 PM
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Are you saying all older men who go after younger women, when they do so specifically because they have "less baggage," are predatory? No! Not at all. It was kind of hard to fit everything in the title / character limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:11 AM
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To be insulted here, all a woman needs to do is acknowledge that predatory men exist in the world? I didn't even say anything remotely misandrist. I feel kind of bad for you if this is how to get under your nerves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:08 AM
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I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:06 AM
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So many aren't even reading the thread properly... It's pointless responding to some of these with a serious response. It's like all they need to see is two words: "PREDATORY" and "MEN" and bam, they've already branded me a man-hating foaming-at-the-mouth feminist who thinks such-and-such about every man on the planet. It's smooth-brained and doesn't make for interesting discussion. Oh, and it doesn't change my view, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:03 AM
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Calling men predators... is just down right misandry.....and you have already assumed they are guilty before any trial.... what kind of world do you live in? Do you hold signs up saying "kill all men"? What in the fucking world are you talking about? I can keep going, but need to grab some food... Good I think your blood sugar is low as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:59 AM
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You're strawmanning my subject to suit your own agenda. I'm speaking about predatory men. Not some flawless older man who can see past a young woman's "sparkly tits" or whatever. ALL older men are not predatory, the same as not all older men are your perfect, idealised unicorn. They have energy and spark perkier tits. Sorry not sorry. C'mon dude did you type that one-handed? 😂 A younger woman is not jaded, doesn't hold grudges against men as much as older women (justifiably or not). You're speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:58 AM
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I do agree the term, like many today, is quite overused. I do want to make it clear though, that when I mean "predatory", I mean it to refer to someone who wants to extract sexual and emotional resources from someone else, without care or concern for their safety, health, and well-being. For example, a young woman with a history of abuse could want to broaden her life, get into therapy, start learning healthy boundaries, meet new friends - perfectly healthy activities - but a predatory man would…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:51 AM
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gosh the word "predatory" is now being used everywhere Well the subject is about predatory men. If you don't want to talk about predatory men in the dating world, then feel free to avoid this thread. But here, I am talking specifically about the type of women predatory men prey upon. if your father wasn't "predatory" you very likely wouldn't have been born Making this personal will get you reported. and no, inexperienced girls aren't "people pleasers" because if they pleased the men around they …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:46 AM
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Experience. It gets re-branded as jealousy, but it's the fact we single-handedly experienced these men when we ourselves were younger, and it was terrible. We learned from those experiences. Women have a youth window when they can get the best men. On what planet is that true!? The older men who wanted me when I was younger and prettier were demented pieces of shit who wanted someone naive and malleable they could control. Men here don't even make an attempt to hide that that's exactly what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:32 PM
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As an autistic woman this is why I don't even bother much with neurotypicals. I've seen it said quite a lot (and agree), that autistic people have a lot of empathy for other autistic people, while neurotypicals have a lot of empathy for other neurotypicals. I've always dated autistic men, and can't imagine myself being with an NT man. I think it's best if you're autistic to focus on dating other autistic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:39 AM
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