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Being able to separate your self and others is an important thing, along with that disagreement is not a direct attack. It likely stems from a lack of self value and self determination, if you felt in control of your life, was valued at work, and had a stable future with a partner and kids, it’s very likely you would not give a shit. How you find value and worth is hard, and very personal, but family, friends and work is where most find self worth.
/r/MensRights11/07/26 06:21 PM
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Let’s not forget about the men in this story, the farther who reported them missing, and the man who picked them up and took them for ice cream before getting them to the police.
/r/MensRights22/05/26 08:21 AM
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It’s ok to hurt, and it will take ages to heal, and that’s ok. Try and remember who you are. I’m a gamer, HEMA practitioner, GM, and Board games player. Whatever makes you, you outside of work, rediscover it, as it’s likely been on hold with partner drama. Be that gym, sport, skills, making things, or just spending time in nature etc. And don’t be afraid of trying new things too.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 12:29 PM
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Well done, proud of you <3 Who knows what comes next, but I’m rooting for you. If you get the chance I’m sure you would be a good farther.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 12:55 AM
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“Accurate summary” Jesus…
/r/MensRights28/04/26 08:54 PM
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Yeah, you’re likely right with that, I don’t understand such fetishisation at all, and I’m likely using terms wrong. And yes you’re right about the furry thing in this specific instance. In this specific case people claiming to be trans were involved, but you never know if something is a false flag, or if lying itself is part of the fetish. Tarring with the same brush is an issue as ever, though I think that’s a reason to call out problematic more not less, but people can be horrid with associat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 12:47 PM
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Yeah, it’s a shit show. And thank you, all the best with your own struggles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 10:55 AM
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I firmly believe it does not go far enough, we know the world was run by a pedophile ring, and that the largest online game for kids is developed by at best those who protect pedophiles, at that at least some of the low levels have been in prison for pedophila. Forced MtF of kids (not their own, finding and grooming boys to be kittens) is something I’ve had the displeasure of bumping into online, and it’s really sad how acceptable I found people find it. Maybe because I’m U.K. I’m not exposed to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 10:27 AM
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Yeah, it’s a skill to learn to keep a cool head, keep practicing it, and it gets easier.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 09:17 PM
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19 men minimum… 10 were the ones involved in the case.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 12:45 PM
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Seriously, if you want something to just throw yourself into and eat your time. Dragonball Z.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 01:23 PM
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How everyone used to do it.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 12:45 AM
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She helps me with spelling sometimes, and we talk about most things. Sadly for some being a MRA along is radical, but she supports me in that, however shit a job I do. She also tells me off when things get messy, and I get upset, and pulls me away from Reddit, though these days I focus on helping people over anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:27 AM
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I’m grateful the only feminists I’m around, who I talk politics with, agree MGM is unacceptable, even if we disagree on other things. It’s always sad when people feel the need to make little of others suffering, to make themselves feel more valid.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 02:09 AM
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Just checking you got mod permission for this?
/r/MensRights11/01/26 02:43 AM
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It’s ok, things happen. I’m more trying to help explain why things happened the way they did. I’m not super acute at picking up social stuff too, so I learnt the hard way as well.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 02:45 AM
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Yeah it’s not easy finding good groups on Reddit.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 10:47 AM
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It’s fair to criticise one person for how they behave, but not ok to hold others accountable for someone’s actions, hence my comment. I’d recommend making sure you’re free to respond for few hours after you post a debate styled OP like this, 16~ hours is a long time till first replies. Obviously life comes first, but from what you say it sounds like you were aware you were not going to be able reply for a while, instead of something coming up. If you can’t reply for long period of time after pos…
/r/MensRights09/01/26 10:43 AM
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Simply not true, your comment history shows you clearly do not engage in good faith.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 12:52 AM
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Jesus Christ man, blankest statements like that are not helpful or accurate. Please call out the OP, but saying women are “all the same” is the very shit I’m here fighting against, as tarring all men with the same brush is one of the big offences feminism makes on the regular.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 12:47 AM
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Anyone who wants to debate in good faith and open to learning is welcome here. We practice freedom of speech and thought here. Excluding people because you don’t agree is not who we are, I’d recommend taking a refresher on the rules here as this breaks rule 3 and should be in the meta group.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 02:15 PM
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Keep being the best mom your little boy can have. It’s going to be tough, but he will need you when things get bad, and I’m sorry, things are going to get worse for him before he comes out the other side.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 11:02 PM
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Hay man, at least know we are here to listen even if I don’t have an answer. You’re worthy of love and peace, no matter what your family says.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 12:40 PM
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If that’s how you genuinely feel. I would ask you to consider how your son feels about this too though, and the example this will have given him. If he is anything like me, which from what you say sounds close, this will have a lasting effect on him. It took my five years of depression to get past that, and I’d wish that on nobody. Unsure if you work in safeguarding, but this example is not inline with how we I’ve been trained, and actively hurt a child (taking an upset disabled child away from …
/r/MensRights17/12/25 10:41 AM
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Leave a review. Keep it accurate.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:39 AM
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I can discuss and disagree with basically anyone and anything. But I firmly believe keeping people around you who disagree is important. IRL I’ll chill with all kinds, anyone who treats me at least half decent, I’ll go the 50% for, and I’m part of many groups where we do activities where I know full well I fundamentally disagree with some of their politics, but they are honest, well meaning, and kind, which is all I’m after. Online it’s definitely worth being a bit more guarded, no point it argu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/25 07:31 PM
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I would be very sceptical of people siding with a convicted abuser, especially when the evidence (including her own) also paints her as the abuser. It’s quite clear she had powerful backers (signed latter from many feminist groups), and had a lot financially to gain from it. I’d be careful around the areas where that is happening.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/25 07:23 PM
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It’s really not hard to do right. I’ve seen one school policy got it bob on, explaining students can be victims of each other and the dynamics that can lead to both sexes being abused or being abusers, and how that’s interlinked. Another feels like it written by a terf, and feels like a feminist arguing a strawman, without anyone else disagreeing. Just class that as sexism and make the teachers as responsible for that as sexist policy against girls.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 11:27 AM
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Glad it’s working out for you! Gutting to hear those eggs are not making it to manhood. Thanks for your support.
/r/MensRights28/10/25 12:56 AM
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Respect for being clear about the focus of the post instead of assuming everyone knows you’re talking USA focused stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/25 12:58 AM
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In the U.K. Labour has been looking to cut things such as payments designed to allow people heat their homes in our winter, for OAPs and the very poorest. They are also trying to change the definition of who is disabled enough to receive benefits, so instead of having mutiple compounding factors, you have to have at least one major factor. Luckily they have faced a lot of push back on this, with the pushback against the winter fuel payments being headed by what people call our far-right party, r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/25 10:42 AM
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Yeah, this is not on topic, said as a past shoe enjoyer.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 05:40 PM
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I would recommend reading through r/thetinmen You mention a lot of things you believe are backed up by stats, but the truth behind the numbers is often obscured. The UN for instance considers women having better development index than men to be ideal equality, regardless of how much advantage they have. It’s also be found that all AI recruitment software favours women over men, something that is in mainstream use by industry giants.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/25 01:13 AM
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I think it’s to do partly with looking at research for the results one wants, instead of using it as a way to learn and broaden one’s own understanding. I’ve certainly been guilty of this in the past.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 04:40 PM
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Blankest statements and putting each other down is definitely something that still holds us back. You could have easily waxed lyrical about how good the group is without having to put any other men down.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 11:08 AM
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Yep, the answer is both.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 10:43 AM
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Interesting, thanks for the insight.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 12:54 PM
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Odd the change is just for that… feels like something that’s base to a legal system
/r/MensRights12/09/25 11:55 AM
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Look after yourself mate, do what you need to do.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 11:50 AM
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I do not want men to be generalised by women for their behaviour. I’d be a hypocrite to do the reverse. People who “care” both men and women will do so for all kinds of reasons, from steeling government money, to fighting just because they feel it’s right. I’ve seen no major pattern, and will treat people with respect and honesty till they prove themselves not worthy.
/r/MensRights06/09/25 12:11 AM
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This is perfection
/r/MensRights02/09/25 05:47 PM
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This fucker is the equivalent of a pig who thinks all women belong in the kitchen and you need to shout at them to keep them in line.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 12:26 AM
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Hay, welcome. Don’t mind the stinkers, there is room for you on the MRA bus.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:55 PM
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That we know of, sadly the real number will be bigger. Thank you for sharing.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:04 PM
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This is a “domestic violence-related case”. DV against men, especially ones responsible with children is most definitely men’s rights issue.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 01:51 PM
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No idea, ask the mods. Give the rules a read first to make sure it was not an obvious rules break.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:29 PM
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Yeah, it’s looking like my partner might be too… Just need to get a diagnosis.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/25 04:12 PM
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Ignoring sex differences is arguably the most sexist take of all. Would be similar to forcing an autistic person, and someone with ADHD to work in the same way. They just don’t, despite to an untrained eye they show similar and overlapping symptoms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/25 09:43 AM
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Saved, thank you!
/r/MensRights23/07/25 07:50 PM
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Ooo got a link to this/article talking about it?
/r/MensRights23/07/25 07:26 PM
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So glad where I am you still just call a cab.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 07:09 PM
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“Active listening includes further understanding and closeness between the listener and speaker. The more basic ways this is done are through paraphrasing, reflective emotion, and open-ended questions. Paraphrasing involves putting the speaker's message in one's words to demonstrate one's understanding and continue the discussion. Reflective emotion involves identifying the speaker's feelings, whether expressed or not, and responding to those feelings that will further validate the person's emot…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 04:54 PM
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Objectively incorrect: “Active listening is the practice of preparing to listen, observing what verbal and non-verbal messages are being sent, and then providing appropriate feedback for the sake of showing attentiveness to the message being presented.” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_listening
/r/MensRights15/07/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah, just thought it was worth saying. Also got to look out for the Reddit staple of asking specific questions designed to get you close enough to no no words, so they can invalidate your stance based on that.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:05 PM
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Active listening should be encouraged, checking meaning, interpretation, delving deeper are all parts of listening.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:00 PM
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• ⁠Firstly, are you around a lot of women who treat you in ways that are sexist? I was brought up a feminist, only after I learned how two of the kindest men to me lost everything to a women, they brushed aside my SA, told me was not good looking enough to grow a beard, falsely accused their own loyal friends, used their friends SA as a weapon against her will, and I found out the law favours women did I fall into depression for 5 years and fix my mentality, realising men were in-fact the oppres…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 09:01 AM
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“Real respect” is super subjective. For me it’s based on what you do for society, and how kind you are to strangers. The idea that people would need to jump through all kinds of stupid hoops to be worthy of that is baffling to me. Everyone I’ve seen be described as a “high level man” is self declared and a fucking twat at best.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 10:16 AM
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It’s a tough world for all of us. Your mom sounds like someone who is not blinded by agenda, and you want to teach the Yong one as best you can to survive this world. Can’t protect him forever, so you need to give him the tools to thrive as he grows up into a man.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:45 PM
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Get video/sound of it if possible and keep records.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 01:17 PM
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Last time I remember was the minister for men and boys preposition. But missed the timing for that. Sadly little came of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/25 12:51 PM
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Dam only just seen… Send a personal email for the first time to my MP.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/25 10:42 AM
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Do go see a doctor who is intact friendly. You really need to hear it from someone who knows their stuff and can explain it to you, so you can get him the medical help he needs now, you advise for the future and the knowledge of how to defend your position from a medical perspective. You’re not alone, and your always welcome here to ask for help and advice whatever happens.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 10:52 AM
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So I don’t take kindly to people deleting replies. I’m going to post my response to your last one here (your comment was asking why none of mine are totally free from involving women): For me? Na, all my touch points are society ones. Even the whole make clubs for men thing involves women by excluding them. Reality is anything about men includes women, even telling men to be more supportive of each other involves women, as many men white knight to get women’s favour whether they know it or not. …
/r/MensRights10/06/25 04:42 PM
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MRA was part of me working out who I really was along with an autism diagnosis and coming to terms I was both mentally and physically disabled. So for this two points I’d say yeah, it was part of me finding my place, learning to love myself, and learning to love again.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 04:25 PM
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An easy one for the people who have that power, restrict the predator companies that pray off it. Flat out ban dating apps with a sexist component. Bring back youth groups, keep sexes mixed. Make misogyny = misandry in legal standing, and have a department in government for men and boys that’s job is to look after them and encourage them.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 04:17 PM
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Guycry is way for an Excon to exploit money out of the US government. Search it up on here, there was a big drama about it years ago.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:36 PM
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In the U.K. raping a man is only classed as sexual assault and he will then have to pay a significant portion of his income to the rapist till the child is 16.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 11:48 AM
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Barbie movie was a turning point, for awareness of men’s rights and female entitlement. I can’t put a year on it but when I came of age 15~ years ago things were already dire. Two of the kindest and most helpful teachers I had growing up lost everything to their ex wife, (bar ones adult kids who also agreed she was horrid). I’m glad the movie coming out was a watershed moment for you, but female bias have been recorded and in law since at least the Middle Ages, and the present trend of female pr…
/r/MensRights08/06/25 11:40 AM
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This is your first post/comment in any men’s right sub. There is no “still” about anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/25 10:27 AM
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Another brilliant post!
/r/MensRights04/06/25 11:09 PM
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Keep speaking out man, we need more people to hear this, both the unfairness and the hope you can get through.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 11:52 PM
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That was MGTOW. Turns out that was not allowed as well.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 07:56 PM
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Hate how badly they mess up redpill. It’s about seeing the reality, not false fucking gods.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 07:55 PM
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7 and a half years is more than I dared hope. I’m sure she will be out way sooner, but I guessing she was going to get 1-2 years at most, with a suspended sentence more likely.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 03:16 PM
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Yeah, sounds like you need some proper in person debating club or the like. Modern tribalism is a huge problem, and I’m worried it’s only going to get worse…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:17 PM
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That is interesting… Reddit is a crazy place with very little transparency with how it’s run, so it’s not necessary anything to do with you, it could be all kinds of things and people who removed/deleted it.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:13 PM
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Just read your post on 2X. Really impressed, very brave (well braver than I) and you debate well and have good points.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:07 PM
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Huh interesting. As in an original post or just a comment? If it was an OP I’m sorry for spreading incorrect information, and will amend my comment. EDIT: looking through your posts I can’t see an OP on r/mensrights so if you have it’s now deleted.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:00 PM
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Yes, I was responding to your comment that was comparing women of different social brackets and saying they were the same. And I go on to compare a men and a woman, as with my original comment you’re not responding to my comment as a whole, but instead around 5-10 worlds of it out of context to the rest of my point.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:51 PM
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I think that very much depends on your culture and country. Here in the U.K. many are treated quite badly compared to middle class women. But your right gynocentric laws and legal systems favour all women, but from what I’ve seen of the unemployed class here through relationships, is the law is only for the rich here, with both my parents in law to be being domestic abuse survivors who’s lives were on the line, and the state did nothing but endanger and hurt them both, just in different ways.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:36 PM
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Yep assholes going to asshole.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:25 PM
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In this moment she lost her cool, and from my understanding was not a woman bent on killing men or the like. Just another woman who has been brought up by a world focused on her feelings, that doesn’t punish her mistakes and transgressions; finally snapping and finding out women like her are quite capable of horrid acts of violence, and ending someone’s life. If she had been brought up in a world where her feels did not matter more than men’s lives, I doubt this would have happened. I hope she g…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:23 PM
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That is disappointing but not unsurprising. I’m glad she stood up for us, I’m sad she is taking punishment for such transgressions against the established order.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:10 PM
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Yeah, you’re right, it’s ironically a misandrist take!
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:44 PM
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It’s fine, I’m glad you’re here adding high quality debate to this group. We seam to be getting popular of late, and it’s going to take the best of us to steer us away from being co-opted or turned into a cynical jerk fest without reason.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:21 PM
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False equivalence, you would be banned on XX just for posting an OP in this sub. I’ve upvoted some of your posts here in the past. Being able to take downvotes is a test of character, and complaining about it is not a great look. If you had been less dismissive and more objective and kind with your response, maybe quoting numbers or referencing an unbiased paper, I doubt you would have been as downvoted. And even if you had, you would have done right by OP and the community, which in my mind mat…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:09 PM
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It’s a cultural thing too, it’s far from just OPs experience. One so prevalent it’s ingrained in the English language. From people above sleeping on the couch is a thing, but I know it as “in the dog house”.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:58 AM
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Glad to hear it. Not nearly enough pushback yet, as this is still common place and can be said without risk of serious repercussions.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:53 AM
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The stats show women are more likely to start physical domestic violence (only a little mind you, it normally is started by both), and as forcing a men to penetrate you does not count as rape in many countries. When you include manipulation and getting men to commit suicide or kill each other the numbers get even more mixed, and obviously each country is different, but it’s far from as clear cut as mainstream media would have you believe.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:07 AM
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Sorry should have been more specific, you said it was unintentional only, wiki says i can be intentional and unintentional.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 10:41 PM
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To be clear that’s not the definition you linked: “Microaggression is a term used for commonplace verbal, behavioral or environmental slights, whether intentional or unintentional, that communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative attitudes toward (groups)” other than my edit to of the effected demographic, it’s quite clear intentions don’t effect if it’s a micro aggression, only that it’s perceived as such. Probably the worse ones in my mind are assuming men are the problematic one in relations…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 03:36 PM
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Yeah, it’s very odd. Kinda funny it got banned on the feminist sub, and so instead it’s just up here on an MRA Reddit being anti MRA and arguably anti feminist and definitely anti intellectual.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:48 PM
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Hay, enjoy your stay. It’s a pleasure to have you. Men and women are in this together, everyone gains when everyone does well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 09:56 PM
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I understand you don’t like how I used the data, and can’t blame you, but wanted to be clear I was meaning I think 20-40% of accusations lodged with police are false, which I should have been clearer on. I then go on to explain it does not reflect women as a whole, as bad apples are more likely to be ok with going through the system then people genuinely effected, so this hyperbole is not reflective of any lies to reality ratio as so many SA and rapes go unreported. I’ll edit my comment to remov…
/r/MensRights26/05/25 11:08 AM
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Completely wrong, you’re innocent until proven guilty. With provable false accusations and proving on gilt both in single digits it’s not a big reach to assume that 20-40%~ false accusations of those that are taken to the police is not far off. Sadly assholes are far more likely to bring a perfect lie to the police that a good woman is to want to deal with explaining their trauma again, so it’s a massively biased cross section of of what happens to women behind closed doors, but this is the real…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:59 PM
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I this case I don’t believe so, the female bias is hard programmed, as they did not like it being objective.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:23 AM
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Can’t remember the research but I believe women in power in societies where that is prevalent (Matriarchal societies) enforce gender roles harder than men, as men without strict rules would take power.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 11:25 AM
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Yep, it would be so simple and easy to drop the misandry. Back peddle just a little.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 08:14 PM
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Feminism believes privilege to be a zero sum game. Therefore, anything pro men is anti women if you follow those writings. It’s also very convenient when you don’t like what people say, to paint them as bad people, to justify your world view and behaviour towards them. What I’ve seen more of late, is people new to men’s rights joining in, some to troll, some to hate, and many trying their best to see through their untreated dogma and struggling to comprehend how biased our Overton windows is, mu…
/r/MensRights07/05/25 11:53 AM
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I normally use Wikipedia, which has mixed quality of articles. I’ll check these out, thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 11:58 AM
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Thank you, appreciated. Slowly trying to learn the names of poor argument techniques.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 11:55 AM
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This is what I like to call shotgun fallacy, talking about a billion points with random arguments with the only uniting factor being they back you up makes an argument hard to engage with and dishonest, not water tight like people often make out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 07:23 AM
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Left and Right in the rest of the world is not as messed up as they are in the USA. Men need society, jobs, and future prospects. It’s really that simple, stop the hate, give hope, through opportunity. Break down any barriers that exclude men, stop AI from taking any more jobs, and stop the global elite from exploiting each country for clout, wealth, and power. People reflect the world, and if anything men need rigidity now, not openness to deal with the hell that’s coming, as I know full well p…
/r/MensRights29/04/25 01:18 AM
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In many countries as a man that would result in your arrest as the default law enforcement action. Plus men are allowed to be scared, not everyone is logical in fear. Took me 15 years to process my own situation, you often don’t really understand or realise what just happened.
/r/MensRights29/04/25 12:55 AM
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Good on you Son. Stand up for yourself. If you can, write to the governors.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 11:39 PM
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Apologies, had to edit my comment as I get the link wrong.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 04:05 PM
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Just want to say thank you for listening. May I recommend r/thetinmen his content is really very good and easy to digest and fact check.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 04:03 PM
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That’s a no real Scotsman fallacy.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 01:51 PM
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Feminism is about female empowerment. Has been from the start, with many such feminist writers throughout the ages calling for female supremacy, often at the cost of men and trans communities, as is presently going on in the U.K. The patriarchy argument is a fallacy as it assumes men in power look out for other men, which is not the case. Men tend to look out for women, and women in power tend to look out for other women. Other than being able to bear out chests in public, men have no rights in …
/r/MensRights27/04/25 01:49 PM
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Check out r/thetinmen
/r/MensRights20/04/25 12:40 AM
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Thanks for going against the grain with this. It was turning into a convent scape goat for many to avoid the needed introspection of the lefts overall stance on men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 12:59 PM
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You have good grasp of words. Not managed to read it all now, I’ll finish it later. Thank you, this has put into words what I often see happening to men, and I’m sorry you have been treated so badly, by people who should have been there for you.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 03:02 PM
10

Come on, black out the sub and their name at the very least. I’m guessing girls answer is a tag to want only answers from females. Starting off any rebuttal with no is not a good start… You want to argue specific points without making any assumptions or logical fallacies. All I can see is three people disagreeing on perspective and generalisations, which are really weak arguments, and incredibly hard to change other people’s stances on.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 07:35 PM
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I highly recommend checking out r/TheTinMen for easy to digest and slightly left of centre takes on mens issues in the U.K. He also has a YouTube channel if you’re interested. EDIT: link now fixed, as I suck at using Reddit…
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:31 AM
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It would be worth reading through these new sentencing guidelines, as this would be formalising decriminalisation against natives, in a system that already heavily biased against men (how harsh men compared to women are sentenced for example). I’d also look up how they want to keep women out of prison, and are going to stop sending girls to prison at all. https://www.gov.uk/government/news/womens-justice-board-begins-plans-to-send-fewer-women-to-prison https://www.gov.uk/government/news/governme…
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:18 AM
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Tone, your wording is what is used by people trying to undermine an argument of gullible people, by getting them to show their hand in good faith, and then cherrypicking the bits to attack someone on.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:00 AM
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Stop spamming groups. Limit yourself to one post a day per group. Do not “reply” to a entire group by starting a new post talking about some other post and your interactions in that post. Groups are not monoliths, and the argument should stay within that original post. Write your posts in a word processor first, and use the automated features to help you get grammar and spelling up to par. Proofread before you post. Punctuation, capitalisation, and paragraphs are non debatable; if you’re trying …
/r/MensRights08/03/25 11:35 AM
1

Ok streight up can’t find the one I wanted to share, but this kinda covers it? https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/tUcHorhmRO
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:20 PM
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Not what I was after, but he did this 9 days ago:https://www.reddit.com/r/TheTinMen/s/bHhXNHL52P Sorry on phone so a bit of a pain to get stuff
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:15 PM
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Thetinman covered this a while back. There is a much lower amount of dedicated male research done for their own benefit in recent years. He did a really crude composition, put the picture was there. Should still be on his website.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:10 PM
0

Encouraging Brigading is well against the rules of Reddit and this sub. You’re a false flagger or an idiot.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 07:25 PM
17

Yeah, she is great. I’m blessed with kind and caring close family.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 05:15 PM
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Only women I’ve interacted with today are my amazing mother who is very worried about the war in Ukraine today, and my great GF who loved the crackers and cheese with her morning coffee I got her. But that’s because I’ve closed myself off from general social media and anyone who I’d view as toxic. I’m sad to hear the people around your stomping grounds are being entertained pigs.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:29 PM
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Both my grandmothers went to uni… from working class families and my mother has three degrees… from a very poor background.
/r/MensRights06/02/25 11:54 AM
7

Autistic spaces for men as far as I’m concerned is specific interest groups. There I do feel at home.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 01:34 PM
3

Please please get him involved with conservation and wildlife preservation. Canals, museums, rivers, bogs, railways, and woodland need massive amounts of management. They need old men and women who can give time and attention to look after and work to preserve the past and present for the future.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:35 PM
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For me it’s my most active community, you can see from my profile. It was not listed as part of the “unwrapped” thing.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 01:26 PM
14

This is the critical bit, how it’s implemented.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 05:09 PM
2

Make time to make friends. At 18 you’re still figuring out the world and your place in it. I can jump on any table top discord and make friends, but that’s my jam in my native environment, and years of experience. Find your people, find your thing. I love HEMA, science, and plastic minis. Learn who is worth your time and who isn’t. Watch out for those very one sided conversations, where after listening to them talk about themselves for 30 min, you turn the attention to yourself for 30 sec and th…
/r/MensRights23/11/24 01:05 AM
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Make sure he knows how you feel. Those thank yous, you make me feel safes, and I care and are here for you make my world go around. And have his back when things go wrong, same as he would for you.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 12:17 PM
1

Don’t forget about “you hate X” with no basis, or argument of why hating X is bad.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 12:25 AM
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We have an FAQ as part of our wiki. Feel free to read it if you’re genuinely interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/sa2vkoSsEw
/r/MensRights14/11/24 12:56 PM
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It’s very simple. Deal with them case by case. Don’t take sweeping statements for fact. Ask who has, as they may well have correct examples if they know there stuff, in which case you can have a good discussion on the many people who had their IP stolen from them, as it’s a big problem for anyone creating or inventing, from past to future. But if they ant willing to talk real events, and just hyperbole, ignore them. And if they incorrectly credit discovery or development, then do your due resear…
/r/MensRights14/11/24 12:51 PM
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Sorry to hear you were getting the suicide watch treatment. Please do report it when that happens, people misusing that system is abhorrent. I also feel the US political dominance as a UKer, it sucks, and glad you’re sticking around mate. Hope to see you around.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:51 PM
3

Totally agree with you here.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:28 PM
2

Sadly the entire of my reddit Reddit bar my wargaming groups has been crazy these last 5 days. Ive seen death threats and calling people sub humans in the 24 hour run up to election for anyone thinking of voting trump, and I’ve removed myself from said groups before the election happened. So if the worst we have is a some circlejerking, then I think that speaks well of this group especially when it’s not rising to the top, and more serious debates are holding centre stage. Unlike other reddits s…
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:16 PM
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Nothing to do with men’s rights is a straight up fabrication. In the top posts here we have an Asian man venting about his lot in life, talking about 4B, a Korean apologising for 4B, stats relating to the dead in Gaza, and a talk about how rape is not just a female problem. All of that has to do with men’s rights, and even if we assume everything mentioning 4B is women hate, which it is not, then it’s still out numbered by other discussion in the present top 5 posts.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 11:58 AM
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You have never posted here, and the only comment you made in that last month was heavily downvoted for being combative and aggressive towards the messenger. You did accept your mistake which I commend, but you were barely here. I’ve not seen the posts you’re talking about, but I highly doubt they are as problematic as you make them out to be.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 11:49 AM
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What misinformation? https://qz.com/quartzy/1230002/sandra-bullock-and-cate-blanchett-had-a-penis-facial-its-not-that-strange
/r/MensRights09/11/24 10:52 AM
3

Change the definition of rape, so it includes forcing yourself on a man. (Obviously country specific)
/r/MensRights09/11/24 10:48 AM
2

Stories, tell stories. Ideally your own.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 11:40 AM
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Ah ok, when I looked up “trump tax ending 2025” what I can find is tax cuts in 2017 that some people did not think were good for the working class. Not really got time to dig deeper, and the USA tax system scares and confuses me. An entire government can go by with no tax reforms though, that’s crazy to my euro brain…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:19 PM
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Arguably the best thing he did was nothing, by not starting a war for once. Never heard he raised taxes before, could you explain what he did with the presumption I don’t get USA’s tax system.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 10:25 AM
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I just wish you guys did not have to choose between two people, and could vote in good faith for candidates that were not pre chosen for you.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 11:45 PM
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It’s just the done thing in some U.K. communities.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 12:23 AM
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Yeah, yeah right, it’s definitely an issue. You are right that a lot of people here are going off topic to make a political point or win an argument.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 08:05 PM
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I’m presently consented about the growth of the sub, and the newer members being less able to take different points of view, without labelling it evil. Along with the constant calling anything “right wing” they don’t agree with, as can already be seen in the comments here, there is a growing lack of acceptance of political takes outside of the USAs black and white stance, which is something we used to avoid unlike mainstream Reddit.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:52 PM
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That’s simply not true “everyone” is a huge sweeping generalisation. There is hard evidence of people disagreeing, and discussing topics here, even on this thread.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:46 PM
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“Depending on the context and intent behind the action” “Can be considered” Quite clear it’s not cut and dry, and other factors are needed. I’m sure the LLM can help you with that too. You can look up the cases for obstruction and baring entry if you want, but it has been ruled as assault to go through them in the past as well. I believe all my points still stand.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 01:32 AM
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Putting your hands on someone in the U.K. does not constitute assault by itself. There is no mention the OAP did more than stand in the way. Article does state gender of the person they want speak to, with no one else in custody and no caveat of not being the perpetrator. Which is you’re not used to U.K. reporting, means they are the present key suspect.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 01:08 AM
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Oh it won’t, but justifying appalling behaviour and accepting its reality are two different things, and OP is in the former camp. Fighting against social norms is not excuse to excuse assault with serious bodily harm.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 04:20 PM
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Mate, he did not try to get past, he shoved an OAP to the floor breaking his hip. It was assault. It’s fine to not agree with someone’s actions but you don’t get to permanently disable an 80 year old because you disagree!
/r/MensRights15/10/24 10:44 AM
4

Name of the person they are replying too.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 10:24 AM
2

It’s a quote from the article… a screenshot of it…
/r/MensRights28/09/24 12:15 AM
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Due to the way Twitter works, it would be far better for a non MRA to add one, as community notes take into account the biases of the writer and voters. If you would be willing to spend time writing it out with good references, I’d be very grateful.
/r/MensRights20/09/24 11:08 AM
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Far more than just one, sadly echo chambers of bias is normal for the political side of Reddit, and dominate its top posts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/24 11:36 PM
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Glad you’re making a stand, it’s got kinda bad here of late. It’s inevitable as we grow, it’s good to stop it before the culture gets too pervasive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/24 11:32 PM
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Online? No, every time ignored or blanked even when it’s on topic. IRL? Decently, sometimes.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 11:58 PM
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If you want male opinions (and a few female ones) r/askmen is great.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:05 PM
2

Well education is key to any future you have, don’t waste it. Is my advice. I changed my education path for my partner, and it went very wrong and we broke up within 2 months.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:03 PM
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Could you clarify what this has to do with men’s rights? Fetishising trauma is very dangerous, and you sound way too young and naive to be dropping out of education.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:56 PM
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Robin Williams. Arguably someone who lived too much helping others.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 02:14 PM
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Don’t do that mate. And really sorry to hear it hit you that bad, I get how much it can hurt. And no it was not misogynistic, it was just not within the very narrow Overton window they allow, and thus taken as threat to all women kind, when it was nothing of the sort. This group is quite open to both left and right views, and you will find MRAs of all walks of life, politically. As long as it’s in good faith we will always be happy to talk.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 12:40 AM
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Fuck me, I should not be surprised, but dam do they not see how bigoted their words are…
/r/MensRights28/08/24 12:22 AM
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Being so combative is not a great start, plus paragraphs are helpful. But to your point: You’re right, both are deflections to take away from real points and issues. However, not all men, can be relevant if the argument was based on the fallacy of “all men do/are x”, as being a man is not a choice. Unlike being a feminist, who chose to associate with feminism, and also not a protected characteristic under law in the west.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 04:32 PM
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I did not, but I was not really sure what to search for as stated. But wanted to at least try, and show willing. I was actually after an article/publication stating that argument and statistic to be easily digestible by others. I was aware of the mortality rates already, sorry for not being clearer.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 02:53 PM
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Could I have a source for the 1 death per three days average. I’m U.K. based, so would not know what stats/government body to be looking for/at. Google is not bring anything relevant up.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 12:25 PM
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I’m saying everything but give up. Change the game, don’t play by the rules when they don’t help you. If you struggle with doing good with fashion, stop following treads, find your own eternal look. Not playing the game is the first step to that freedom, to defining yourself, instead of being defined. This was very much an invite to be self reflective, to kind what system you feel you need to be free of. If blame and hiding is where your brain is taking you, that’s not a good sign, but hiding an…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 09:39 AM
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I prefer not to give people specific life advice, without having the specifics of that person. If the systems not working for you, and you feel that’s the optimal choice for you right now, having done solid research, that’s your move, make it happen.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 02:15 PM
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It’s one of those cases where the system is broken, so don’t do the system, unless you can win it easy.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:17 AM
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Yeah, alienating perfectly functional members of society is a big issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/24 01:11 AM
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Also not working for me, am in Europe.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 07:52 AM
10

That would entail that it’s a bad thing there are too many y in x.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 11:03 AM
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My views are based on the men and women I interact with, online, politically, and IRL here in Europe. Things are quite different here to the USA. I don’t believe either USA party care one jot about its people, both ignore the plight of men and don’t even pay lip service to men’s movements. The White House is propped up by the blood of its citizens, and men are the ones who pay the price more often. It’s people like Sanders and Vivek who speak logic, compassion, and policy who I want to see runni…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 12:58 AM
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So you’re doing amazing. It’s took me around 10 years to even realise I was being abused in similar ways to you. Don’t be hard on yourself, you’re doing grand. Do allow yourself to hurt, what you need to try and keep on top of it effecting other parts of your life. I really struggle with it, and it’s not easy, but you will get there <3
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 12:07 AM
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You quite right, Neoclassical (I’m guessing that’s what you meant) liberals exist. Sadly their voices are drowned out, and few are willing to stand up to their own side, and so are silent. I made a choice a while back to not be one of the quiet ones. It takes a toll on my mental health so I won’t blame people for it, I totally get the appeal of moving with the group, and not rocking the boat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 11:44 PM
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Yeah, I’m glad to hear. Science is conclusive that letting people speak (and importantly feel Heard) is of one of best ways to encourage them to agree with you, or at least listen. I think a lot of us have experienced this ourselves in some way or other. And it’s not easy, I won’t lie about that, especially if your in power in the situation, it takes effort and balls to drop your own anger, and actively listen and try to understand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 10:46 PM
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Really good point, and honestly this sub does that mission grand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 10:31 PM
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Thanks for clarifying, but I still fundamentally disagree the the left is able to change while the right is not, and the right gets the issues wrong. The right marks out some issues that the left will refuse to accept, white the left will blame the patriarchy or white privilege, even for men’s own issues, even ones directly as a result of feminism. Yes sometimes they will get it right, but through the lens of left wing critical theory, being white and male makes you one of the least oppressed pe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 10:26 PM
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I’m not sure I agree, people who have looked out for men’s issues have often been from the right or centre, while left leaning media and political activists have at near every turn eaten away at men’s rights. Kangaroo courts and vilification of men as Perpetrators as two examples. Two comments down you have someone blaming incels and implying they are right wing whites, when staticky they are more often than no left, and disproportionately black. Is a dog whistle against men who struggle to find…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 08:31 PM
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That’s not a good argument, a human does not owe another human anything for not doing anything for that human. The argument should be about what do cis men have to lose or gain. Sadly I see a good few f to m trans individuals still bound by feminism and female privilege that they themselves subconsciously believe they are owed. Some who are bread tubers go as far as try to define masculinity, using their trans state within intersectionality to out shout cis men, sometimes doubling down on that b…
/r/MensRights31/07/24 10:18 AM
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Almost anything in good faith about male issues fits here, so don’t worry about that. Changing culture and the world is a big thing for anyone. But if we stand up for the little people in our own little part of the world, people as a whole can change. Being kind, and refusing to accept the mainstream narrative about men goes a long way. Others have already talked about the political ways, but above all, helping the men and boys whoever they are in your life, is the greatest thing you could do.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 03:18 PM
1

No, but the first step to healing is letting it go.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 11:50 AM
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In group bias as a result of dogma. Sadly one of the most human (and damaging to society) things out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 11:26 PM
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Oh god, it’s even worse than the headline…
/r/MensRights29/06/24 12:28 AM
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WT absolute F!
/r/MensRights29/06/24 12:25 AM
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It’s goes hand in hand. It’s easy to justify being horrid to people, when you believe you can’t be horrid to people.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 09:09 AM
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Stick to small subs with very specific objectives. Anything mainstream is just cursed.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 08:34 AM
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Fuck man… I’m so sorry…
/r/MensRights16/06/24 11:29 AM
1

Google seams to agree with you, I’ve been reacting to shit takes with it… oh well, my own fault.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 02:18 PM
1

Well… that’s concerning… I’ve been misinterpreting it for years…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 02:06 PM
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I’m confused, skull means it’s a bad take right? How you reading that into something homophonic?
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:57 AM
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The issue is two fold, first female violence (including social, that can lead to the victim committing suicide) often goes unpunished. The second is boys lack father’s, male teachers, schools that reward male interests, and fall behind in education, while getting less government support. Then they are expected to do a major lifting in dating, bread winning, and protecting, while having less opportunity, in a very bad jobs market. The result is men with no chance of employment, who need to make m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 12:40 AM
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Unfortunately they are far from fringe, I was surrounded by them growing up. I was brought up a feminist, but after years of my seniors and leaders lording those views over me, my validity their discretion, it put me into depression for years. Lucky I am no longer there, and such stuff does not bother me much now, but I understand why it bothers others having that lived experience. The zero sum game comment is interesting. I totally agree that we, humanity, mutually gain from anything todo with …
/r/MensRights09/06/24 12:48 PM
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The two articles I link discuss how it does negatively affect many men this tight notion of what is acceptable masculinity, and how toxic masculinity is used or seen as a criticism of masculinity as a whole. We live in a world where #yesallmen and #killallmen existed in the mainstream for years. It’s very much affects most men regardless of any toxic traits they might have.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:44 AM
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I provided evidence for the former, and the OP provided evidence for how being hyper masculine is a positive trait. You moved the goal posts to make this about dominating women, and not talking about feelings.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:33 AM
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You have not addressed their points directly or fairly, your argument relies on the unhelpful and outdated term used for a specific sub group of prison inmates, and you provide no backing evidence.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:24 AM
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Because it’s a “quote”. E.g. reporting what someone else said.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:03 AM
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Yes it’s deeply unfortunate on all points. My own journey through academia was what set me on the path of men’s rights, it took me many years to unlearn the dogma I had been taught. Which I can’t put down just to feminism, the lack of valuing men and boys is far more deeply rooted in society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 07:45 PM
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Yes, you are quite right. Without context (and for anyone without a passing understanding of feminism) its use here would be inaccurate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 07:38 PM
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I would argue the “left” in the US and many other places has already dropped left wing vales, as only then is dropping meritocracy and replacing it with state sponsored segregation and discrimination possible. Desire for justice and a free and kind world have been replaced with a stronger power structure than the right, based on identity, and race. Vigilance is already rampant, with many preaching its justification, using class war logic of the 0 sum game from Marxism. Its just so common now, ev…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 10:48 AM
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It’s sadly a core part of the ideology. I often hear the argument that feminism is for sex equality from feminists. That simply can’t be the case while the name includes the word femi, yet the same feminist will often defend keeping the name. I hope in time this stance changes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 03:43 PM
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Boys is a different matter I think. I was talking about men to be clear (E.g. 18~ plus depending on country), to avoid any confusion. As a guardian or teacher you have a massive responsibility for a child’s upbringing, and sometimes you have to be clear and absolute, in a way it’s not suitable to do with an adult pier. I would say your example is very much show not tell, which is the ideal learning scenario in almost all situations for any age. Most Men and boys all need role models as you say, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 02:16 PM
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I do think the term “toxic masculinity” no longer really has any potential for good, and would be best to be retired in favour of just using toxic where appropriate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 01:49 PM
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I believe any form of policing of masculinity is a bad thing, telling men what they should not be is straight up not helpful or good at encouraging change. Show people what they can be, and how it can help them. It’s sometimes worth being critical of peoples logic, but don’t say x = bad. Help them be who they can, not punish them for being who you don’t want them to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 12:51 PM
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Yeah, it’s just worth keeping in mind, as it’s an easy counter argument I’ve seen tried before. At least it’s not international toilet day being on the same day as something important, that the UN forgets about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 02:14 AM
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November is mens mental health month here in the U.K., which is when I’ll be making a noise about things. I’m really glad the US is finally getting its act in, but chosing a different month to the one already established and observed elsewhere is going to create no end of issues, and arguments against it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 01:44 AM
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Yeah, no you’re right in this regard. Sorry that’s my bad. I should not have assumed it was behind you. That would effectively amount to gaslighting yourself which is one of the worst things possible. I can’t imagine how hard that is, not being able to move on. My partner was in a similar situation of not being able to move on, and even though her situation was far better than yours she started going mad in lockdown. So we live together now and her mental health issues cleared up in three years.…
/r/MensRights02/06/24 11:14 AM
2

CBT from everything I’ve seen fails due to being done by morons. From my own perspective it’s if anything more effective for autistic adults, as we can rewire our brain given time, while also struggling to see other perspectives that could help us. But that’s just my unscientific opinion. Best of luck on getting assessed, having to rewire your brain after gaining that new perspective on yourself was the hardest bit for me.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 02:16 AM
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Really sounds like you were, where I was a few years back. Stuck in the system of mental health, when what you just need is someone to listen and not po po you. Breaking out of your own gaslight bubble you put on yourself as the only way to justify others behaviour towards you is hard, but you got to. CBT I highly recommend, but only with more modern professionals. Fucking older female professionals will use it as a chance to use a mental cane on you. Self help in doing your own requiring could …
/r/MensRights01/06/24 11:27 AM
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I agree about what you’re trying to say, but I don’t believe suicide is not equal to murder. They are quite different beasts, and each can be worse than the other depending on circumstance.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 08:09 PM
1

I disagree with that interpretation of my extreme simplification of Blackpill, as I did not use absolute or generic terms referring to their choice to act, instead stating it could “potentially” lead to a lack of action, clearly inferring it does not have to. I also tried (and somewhat failed) to keep it separate from any specific political slant or situation, hence the lack of specifics. If you have your own interpretations that you feel need explaining, I recommend you post them as a separate …
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:10 PM
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XD
/r/MensRights28/05/24 01:12 AM
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Large Language model, it’s what people call “AI” these days but really isn’t, it’s just a very complicated parrot.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 01:02 AM
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Most of the people I see conflating them have never watched him (or really know anything else about men’s rights for that matter), and instead just parrot what they are told.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 01:00 AM
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More like they gain by not stepping out of line/keeping the narrative going, despite they see the harm it’s creating, but only when it’s useful to them. And obviously not limited to only sex rights stuff, can be used to apply to all kinds of things in life. Must admit, you gave me a fright, sounded a bit like a LLM there.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 12:57 AM
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People often say similar, but I don’t really see it that way. When you see reality and the damage that is being done to people and turn a blind eye because it’s benefits you in some way, I feel that is worse than blackpill, as at least they don’t believe acting would do anything. Obviously my opinion, but I’ve yet to see a non toxic person take the purple stance.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 12:38 AM
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Best of luck to you and for his education!
/r/MensRights28/05/24 12:30 AM
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Blue pill - the comforting lies that we matter in the grand scheme of things, and that the world is the nice place it presents itself to be. Red pill - seeing through the comforting lies, revealing the ugly truth of reality (in its many forms), and accepting and acting on it. Black pill - seeing the ugly truth and despairing, potentially to the point of not acting. Purple pill - seeing some ugly, and potentially acting on it, but still living lies, maybe knowingly to have a happier life.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 12:25 AM
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From what little I’ve seen it is equal opportunity? Or am I missing something?
/r/MensRights26/05/24 02:14 PM
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Yeah sorry my bad, “Sweet true lies” was the Beast in Black song I was after. Link if your interested: https://genius.com/Beast-in-black-sweet-true-lies-lyrics
/r/MensRights24/05/24 01:53 PM
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That might be, but it’s a common argument used against men. (The smarty thing for instance). I’d not assume it’s not satire without confirmation. On a more Serious note, it’s a real issue, putting people who will not parrot one’s own dogma in with the most repugnant of what you hate. I don’t really see how we can move on as a society till we get past this, without total system collapse, so it’s something I highly agree needs to change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 08:23 PM
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Brigading is also against Reddit rules, I would recommend editing your comment to avoid future flak this Reddit might get, despite no link has been posted.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 04:14 PM
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It’s 2am here, so can’t sort through them right now, but Beast in Black have a bunch of songs on the subject. Blind and frozen being probably my favourite. Smash to pieces - toxic, is also one I’ve got into lately. Aviators - Never meant to be, is also one I used when I had my first breakup, along with another song I can’t for the life of me fine.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:23 AM
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NAL/NLA Paying her for her services is legal. Paying anyone else for her services is not.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 02:16 PM
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U.K. gets this right, a woman can sell herself, but no one can sell her.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 11:02 AM
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I honestly wish MGTOW was a more positive choice, and not something men did when other options don’t work out. I wish I had a solution to the gynocentric worldview and standards so many people hold. Change can’t happen fast, but I hope it’s starting too. I wish I had some advice, but all I’ve got is your worthy. It’s ok to want to not give more than 50% all the time, and be supported the way you would help support her.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 03:02 PM
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Why are you being so negative? You say you are open to different views yet you can’t even correctly name what you don’t like here. Redpill is seeing things as they are, the good and the bad. Blackpill is where you don’t see a fix and give up. Instead of dismissing people based on your flawed understanding, maybe engage with them and try to learn why they feel that way? Reminder though, be tolerant, as there is likely good reason why they feel the way they do, and not everyone will be willing to …
/r/MensRights13/05/24 11:16 AM
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This. Play smart, look after yourself, keep clear of high risk threats, and hopefully at some point you find someone special. But only if you want to and are in the right place to.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 11:05 AM
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I’d argue this is not biased against women. It’s reflective of people experience and feeling. This is not women bad, but men suffer. It is however blackpill which i don’t believe it helpful, we need to change the game so it’s better for the majority of men, but at the same time it’s important not to bluepill that’s it’s all ok, which would only result in more men getting hurt.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 11:01 AM
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Yeah, you’re quite right with that being a separate issue that unfortunately compounds in a very joined up way to create… well… what you had to face. EDIT: sorry forgot to comment on your situation. I’m so glad it worked out for you. The people who stand up for justice and looking out for the downtrodden despite going against the system are amazing people. Any progress on either front would be progress, and likely help with the other. As peoples perceptions and what is acceptable in society foll…
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:40 AM
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No, as some women do commit the legal definition of rape (well close enough). But for the majority of men raped in the U.K. even if they get justice, the women won’t get sentenced for rape, but sexual assault instead.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:29 AM
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Men in the U.K. who at gunpoint are forced to have sex with her are legally sexually assaulted, as rape requires penetration of the victim. Till that changes I will not give up fighting for our basic human rights.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 12:57 AM
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First by stating what stats you are talking about. I’m guessing USA by your spelling? Is so sorry I can’t really help as I’m U.K. focused, but looking up white papers would be a start. I’d also recommend setting out to learn about the situation as a whole before trying to prove stuff. When you have a holistic understanding of a subject, you far less likely to make mistakes while arguing a point.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 12:08 PM
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Both? Single mothers and a female dominated education system fails to teach them how to be a man, and society punishes them for being one. I never met an incel that was not just trying to hide their hurt and pain, or cover their own learned inability to socialise. I admire those who can pull themselves out of that, but they should not be required to, us as a society have failed them every step of their lives.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:19 AM
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Your argument seams to hinge on both men and women having it good in the western world, and a perception that both having minor issues makes it fair. I believe that’s a false premise. Men suffer institutional discrimination as soon as they go to school, and will do so for the rest of their lives till they become a statistic, make it big, or leave the system. Unhappiness, depression, and suicide are rampant throughout the western world, and our birth rate dropping, we are heading towards becoming…
/r/MensRights22/04/24 11:42 AM
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I think this would not fly as well these days, we are making progress I feel, and I don’t believe this relic from 8 years ago would be flack free if made tomorrow. It might still be made, but it would not just be accepted as wrote.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 01:04 AM
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There is a big difference between being paid to make money, and being paid due to your identity to lose money.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 11:12 AM
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Interesting to see that the US and U.K. lack any conservatives at all (Bar like three very near the middle). Very odd data… and honestly deeply worrying assuming it’s correct.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 11:25 PM
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I’m not very Reddit savvy myself, but I believe using a file hosting website and then linking to the hosted images would be the easiest way to do this if your not allowed to host them directly on this Reddit.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 11:29 AM
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Why are you doing what you are accusing others of, without even backing up your own complaints? You’re dismissing male suffering, because someone somewhere that you have not linked did not agree with you. Your last post here was to say many men here are not really men’s rights activists, without justification or explanation. You throw around buzzwords, and now you’re back again invalidating men for reasons unrelated to themselves.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 09:57 AM
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Holy clickbate, Batman!
/r/MensRights22/03/24 05:25 PM
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None of that is exclusive to women, it’s a disingenuous argument based on a false premise. No point trying to unpack stupid dogma.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 12:26 PM
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Interestingly funerals are one time it’s probably most important to avoid crying, with so much grief and sadness, if your not close family it’s well worth trying to not cry to make things easier for them. Was the only time my mother stopped me crying as a kid (outside of being a wimp about pain), and looking back I see where she was coming from.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 05:59 PM
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Yep, if she won’t stick with you when you’re at your lowest, you can bet she won’t stick with you when you’re broken and useless. Spent 6 months useless and with no income after breaking my hip, she looked after me the entire time without question. That’s what I’m after in a partner.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 05:55 PM
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When the term mansplaining is outside the Overton window, we will have equally. While 1/4 of homeless being female is seen as a female issue and women avoid jail for murdering boys, we will be trying to convince the world our lives matter, and our existence is worth respecting. That’s starts with us, respecting ourselves and others, and not standing for hatred and bigotry towards men, because they are XY.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 04:37 PM
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Let’s make this clear, a men can’t be raped in law by a woman who is not trans. Being forced to penetrate a woman is not classed as rape in the U.K.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 04:30 PM
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It’s a very common dog whistle here to just talk about “why are you not doing anything?” Missing how dangerous it can be to threaten the present order, or without offering up any solution or direction themselves. The U.K. parliament has just talked about some mens issues in a side room, and the only woman to turn up who was not taking notes as their job (or in the gallery) was the representative for the government… They sent a woman to talk about men’s issues, or rather run interference. I’m sup…
/r/MensRights19/03/24 04:27 PM
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Most certainly, some people will state you are no longer a man for having feelings. And that’s across the entire spectrum. Only a few days ago we crashed a trad con here, who had some harsh strict restrictions of how a man should be.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 02:58 AM
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FB tracks you outside of your FB habits, get on top of that so it’s can’t track your other activities, and then train it to not show you the content you don’t like. Unfollow and block as needed. My personal opinion is drop FB outside of when you have to, it’s not worth your time or the privacy issues. Messenger is all I still use when I have to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 06:59 PM
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Thank you wondering stranger.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 02:50 PM
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The subject of this discussion is the meaning of the word, based on its entomology. Not inferred meaning. EDIT: the comment replying to this was deleted within seconds, waisting my time. I don’t take kindly to that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 02:07 PM
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I’ve never bumped into any of the acronyms you’re using. Would be helpful to explain what they mean.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 02:02 PM
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That is simply not that case. Feminism means women-belief. https://medium.com/media-theory-and-criticism-2017/the-etymology-of-feminism-4ca3caec9ad0 https://www.babbel.com/en/magazine/meaning-of-feminism#:~:text=Origin%20Of%20The%20Word%20'Feminism'&text=Its%20origins%20are%20in%20the,a%20practice%2C%20system%20or%20doctrine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 01:10 PM
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Fundamentally it needs to be the norm for men down in their luck to be worthy of support and sympathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/24 06:20 PM
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…is the way.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:36 AM
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Brilliant, that’s super great evidence.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 01:10 AM
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The first time I went on a trip without my parents a gay man from another class (age 19) pressured me into a sexual encounter. I was 15 at the time. Man was disgusting and creepy constantly wanking off in a shared bedroom. Told me not to tell anyone.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 12:49 PM
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Really sorry, was meant as a reply to OP. will delete.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:40 AM
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Im honestly a bit confused, for me hobbies are things I love doing, and whenever I bring myself to push to find IRL people to do them with I’ve always been pleasantly surprised at how nice they are. For me it’s an end in itself, and I don’t expect to make friends from it. I often do though. Kinda feels like you’re looking for something that’s not there? In places where you know it’s not? Without sounding too obvious, have you done much digging looking for what you really enjoy? Not just looking …
/r/MensRights01/03/24 01:35 PM
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Considering white males have now fallen behind black males in school, and many white children are very underprivileged, I’m not sure. Why does the native poor population go without support, due to their skin colour? It should be based on need, not race.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/24 02:23 AM
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I would not have to pay my uni fees if I identified as black. Systemic racism is alive and kicking, and I’m poorer for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/24 01:48 AM
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I would say the mainstream internet is. IRL I often find kindness and nice people. Online? Misandry is so normal it’s not even registered by most people.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 03:22 PM
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When they do the thing they want to do away from home, with no lifeline or parental backup. When things go wrong, and you can take responsibility and fix your own and others mess, that sets you up well for life.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 01:44 PM
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6 hour old Smerf that calls people the R world. Not even worth your time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/24 01:11 AM
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Ok fair. Not context was given, so was unsure if it was a strawman or you had just misread.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:16 PM
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Hence my comment not to blame the victim for not speaking out?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:11 PM
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It’s critical men speak out, but we can’t just blame the victim, it’s the entirety of society job to make men heard, respected, and allowed to critique their partners and our legal system.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:58 PM
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Yes, on mobile click on the three dots and then click save. Unsure of desktop.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 03:51 PM
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It’s something my auto correct started to do a while ago, now I just let it happen as I think it’s amusing.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 10:19 PM
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It’s so ducking hard to brake conditioning like this, you have done well!
/r/MensRights22/04/23 11:47 AM
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Those are words I really need to learn to use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:37 PM
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They very much have not. I’d advise you not to assume they are the default though, but they do still exist. Me and many of my friends have them, even if my close friend group is has a bunch of of very unconventional relationships, they still exist and work. Partner selection is key if you want any kind of long term stability, and it’s critical you are both on the same page.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 12:25 PM
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It’s been a crazy few days… job trouble and building work on our house. But I’ve organised a trip to see my favourite metal band so it’s working out. I’ll see if I can manage a response. EDIT: Oh and thanks for asking
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/23 11:20 PM
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You say traditional, but then list many things that are not. It feels like you associate traditional with preconceptions and behaviours you don’t like. Traditionally in the U.K. you live and let live, and help those in need. Gender rolls were firm, but were so for both male and female. Both male and female were expected to work hard, be it home or factory or farm. Being a princess is a modern thing, men providing for a women with nothing in return is modern. Real princess had to work their entir…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/23 12:22 PM
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You are more real and worthy than you could ever imagine. Your first priority is yourself, followed by your biological kids. Then your adopted kids. Anyone else is bellow you and them in priority. You have got this, you can get through hell, and you will do it again.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:04 PM
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It’s 2am here, I’ll try and remember to respond tomorrow. When I can think straight.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 01:14 AM
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I’ve already linked it here once to say but it’s very relevant to what you say. What is considered acceptable discourse is changed, and words that are powerful are banned. Remove the opponents weapons and you have already won. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overton_window
/r/MensRights08/04/23 11:15 AM
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How the hell did that article make it about gun rights? Threatening political violence (e.g. terrorism) as part of a governmental body is fucking nuts, guns not required.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 10:14 AM
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Political correctness itself is outside the Overton window. It’s well worth talking about this concept as a political move to remove opposition without valid reason or justification. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overton_window
/r/MensRights08/04/23 10:04 AM
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It really sounds like you could do with a larger friend circle. Having people to bounce off and learn from helps so much with world view and getting good at communicating and keeping relationships up. They are also a better safety net than relationships, and from experience, your first relationship or two is likely to go south so friends are arguably a much better investment of time for long term success. They are also a way to meet new people, and it’s very possible to find partners though them…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/23 10:33 AM
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I want to have an opinion on it, but today I’m burnt out, and all I can process reading this is an overwhelming sadness at her words. Maybe someday, loving, decency, and kindness will be valued again.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 01:03 AM
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The wage gap in the U.K. is only if you ignore hours worked. As soon as you factor that in women in the U.K. on average earn more than men per hour by just over 2%~. Which considering how the top earners are nearly all men speaks volumes for how undervalued the working class man is here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 12:33 PM
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It’ ok. It’s ok to feel, and have emotion. It’s ok to have a few days of being in pieces. But this is your life, you have to pick up your bits and move on in time. Be proud people like you enough to defend you. You are worthy and loved, this is not the end, just another bump in the road of life.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 03:02 PM
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The Prim Reaper on YouTube is amazing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 12:07 PM
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I know a bunch of people who are in long term relationships, some are very happy, others just making it through. Most don’t brake single units of alcohol a month, if they even drink. I don’t know a single single person who is happy though, they all feel left behind. I don’t know a single alcoholic who is happy. But then I keep away from such people as a general rule.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 10:20 AM
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That’s California law, not really comparable when we are specifically talking about U.K. law.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 10:43 AM
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Wow, that’s depressingly accurate…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 09:15 PM
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It is how it is, you do what you need to do to stay safe sister.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 03:03 PM
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Been having a crap few days, thank you, I needed to hear something positive <3 You have painted a target on your back by posting here, it sucks but that’s how it is. Stay safe out there.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 12:22 PM
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Jesus no! Hating your audience is a new thing.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 02:04 AM
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Check out r/guyscancry pinned post, it will explain a lot. Basically x felon scammer is pretending to help men for government money. The reality is it’s mainly a bunch of women shitting on men for struggling. The only fucker I saw stick up for the poor dude of the first thread I read was a trans man, bless his heart.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 02:35 PM
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r/guyscancry is the better version made by the old mods who realised it was a money scam.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 02:25 PM
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Sorry it’s kind of off topic, but it sounds like you are doing an amazing job bringing up your kids. We need more thinkers in this world, wishing your entire family the best.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:15 AM
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It’s most likely ankle tagging. Little GPS device that keeps track of you strapped to your ankle.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 12:08 AM
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The honesty here is both saddening and uplifting, thanks for sharing a little of your life. I’m really glad to hear you have turned your studies around, I myself am battling to get a decent job trying to go though the open uni but it’s mentally quite hard, as I’m having to face the failure of my past self. It’s great to hear your exploring your interests and pushing those, and sorry to hear about your relationship troubles. Life is not fair, it will deny what you most want, and when you finally …
/r/MensRights20/02/23 02:28 PM
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Yeah, I was going to add a personal anecdote to my comment that women when they get physical, more often than I see in men, go violent. I deleted it however, as I had nothing to back it up. It might be down to men having more experience in dealing with said emotions, and society not teaching women to restrain themselves, but I don’t really know. Edit: both my parents slapped me once, and both regretted it so much they never did again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/23 12:14 PM
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In our household of 5 my mother has the worst temper. We all have a temper and it’s tied into feeling and passion. I would say though with men it often comes out in a more physical way, but not nearly as much as we are made to believe. Edit: also physical does not equal violent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/23 01:04 AM
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The better prepared they are, the less likely they won’t be able to answer or deflect an attack on you. Info to them is ammo, it helps defend and attack.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:13 PM
1

Yeah that sucks, honestly not sure the best approach to get anything done, Uni (I’m guessing anyway) is tough enough without drama and students of sudo courses have way too much time and anger to be trifling with. I used to love dance too, was into modern dance, but also my family heritage of barn dancing. Sadly depression did that in for me, and I just don’t have the strength for modern or the time anymore.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 09:21 PM
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Well done, picking your battles is a important skill, and it sounds like you chose a good fight. I hope this helps their relationship long term.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:52 AM
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yes, to de-radicalise them they first need to be heard. I’m not saying outside of context you should give them the time of day, but it’s critical for therapy for them to express themselves, once a human has done that and feels listened to, they are far more open to other conflicting ideas. It’s on quite a different level to the topic however, which feels a bit disingenuous. So what’s your stance on both, and why do you think that is better prevention solution?
/r/MensRights09/02/23 02:45 PM
3

Please link stuff properly.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 02:17 PM
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This is the fucking worst thing, when the people you should be able to trust say you’re wrong and a liar with no evidence or care. The apathy for me is what stings most, how irrelevant my experience is.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 01:09 PM
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That is the definition of a safe space. Being able to talk freely without being assaulted for being nonconformist. You can’t deal with something if your not even allowed to talk about it. Science shows saying people are wrong does not change their views, but listening and trying to understand can. It’s ok to talk about your fucked up shit here, because we are trying to help men, not restrict them into pre-made boxes till they snap and kill themselves or others.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 12:59 PM
14

This describes feminism perfectly. Everything it lists I fight against.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 03:17 PM
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Forgiveness should be core to any society, and is fundamental to improving society. Left philosophy relies on it heavily, and if the right is more forgiving than the left to the lay person who they have nothing to gain from being merciful to, then what do we stand for? No longer the people or any kind of fairness that’s for sure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 11:31 PM
14

I unsure about that, but being taller does make you die sooner.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:43 PM
3

It’s from a while back, this is a repost.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 11:46 AM
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First Reddit post that google found. Goes against your argument: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/qkb97q/tradcons_are_not_our_friend/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights28/01/23 12:40 PM
9

14 hour old Smurf you got anything to back that up?
/r/MensRights28/01/23 12:28 PM
2

I’d recommend just googling his name right now. Reddit was buzzing with it for ages (He wrote stuff in a newspaper people did not like is the basics).
/r/MensRights19/01/23 05:36 PM
2

XD
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:59 AM
11

Jeremy Clarkson
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:58 AM
1

I mean it’s happening to JC.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:53 AM
2

Likely a CnP job from another news site.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 02:08 AM
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Your most welcome man
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:34 AM
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That fucking sucks… You are allowed to care, it’s the only body you get, anything lost is gone forever. Im 3 teeth down and boy do I mess them. I can’t blame you with the story, I’m sure it’s not easy keeping a clear mental right now for you. Im glad you have someone who understands (I think if I read that right), I’ve heard gay dating can be brutal with looks, so you have every right to worry. I would be too, and am mainly interested in females. I really wish you the best, I wish I could offer …
/r/MensRights17/01/23 01:15 AM
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Ah, yes, the old I’ve never known anything else, so it must be true. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/ You’re a wrong perverted man, looking at children’s dicks.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 01:02 AM
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Many people hate places like this, they are scared of being shown to be wrong. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2021/10/11/a-botched-circumcision-and-its-aftermath This is a story you might find relatable. You are not alone, many man have suffered as you suffer now. I sadly have no personal advice to give, you deserve resolution and to live pain free.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:53 AM
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Being honest, you got fuck all replies. Not enough to make any sweeping statements. Relationships are delicate and confusing things, putting effort in and getting nothing out sucks, but it’s far too complicated for me to comment more. I honestly don’t think we as internet randoms can help with this, other than shit just happens sometimes, if it’s a trend you need to work stuff out, both of you.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 11:47 AM
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I could have sworn she was convinced of assaulting or something her past female partner?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 05:50 PM
10

"Saying many words without saying anything" My points are clear and if you don't find them so you should ask for clarity. On the other hand, you're attacking a straw man, of who you think I am with no basis other than your own hate.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 08:50 PM
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If you had some idea of my beliefs, you would have been able to argue against them, other than to say they are "failing" and "easily unimpressed". I have given you the benefit of the doubt. You gave me nothing but derision and sweeping statements based on nothing but prejudice. You have failed to even show basic self restraint and respect, both to me and many others. You call me out for dogma without using the word, yet you are the one using it to discredit and insult, when you should be trying …
/r/MensRights07/01/23 08:32 PM
7

My criticism is clear, you attack me instead of addressing my points or asking for clarity/evidence.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 07:03 PM
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Your missing the point, she suffered from body shaming, she asks not to be body shamed saying it’s not ok, then she body shames others. Yes, when you are abused you often lash out at others in the same way, but you know how it hurts, you know better. She should know better. EDIT: dude just deleted his reply about small dick energy not being body shaming being a hill he was willing to die on, and how no one takes offence at your mom jokes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/23 01:49 PM
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Really unimpressed with how people are behaving over there. People getting down voted for not towing the feminist line and people getting updoots for telling people to “suck it up”. Anything but a safe place for men, just more mainstream Reddit.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:50 AM
10

That’s what he just did to you mate.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 11:03 AM
2

Yep, it’s a good point. I wish I had more to add as I really don’t personally know more about Tate or Trafficking.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 01:27 AM
3

Thanks for the apology. Yeah, considering Epstein is dead and how near everyone else sled into their holes I’m with you in that, I doubt Tate has as many high up friends though, and I’m expecting for them to try and make an example of him. You are right it is an oxymoron, but it’s the reality with live in from my perspective. Being touched by anything like this, you are marred forever. People say clear their names with rape cases, but some will still call the accused a rapist even after seeing i…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 01:25 AM
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What bias? Your comment feels like it’s not making a solid point, pulling in multiple directions. He has been arrested. Verdicts don’t reflect the truth, only what can be proven. That’s how legal systems work.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 12:46 AM
2

I would hope everyone here wishes he gets a fair trial.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 12:41 AM
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This is a good thing in my mind, gets to clean his name or finally faces the music for what he has done. Man has enough money to afford a good legal defence, I just hope the case is fair and verdict without doubt.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 12:32 AM
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The very fact you use the world sub human tells a story. For every abusive man there is an abusive women. It just looks different and the western world only cares about what it looks like if it’s a man. None are sub human, (with very few exceptions) we are just people blindly running around in the dark hurting each other. That’s just life. Mistakes are the norm. With how unhappy we are as a society these days it’s no surprise shit happens as people lash out not realising they are hurting themsel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 11:37 AM
1

Sport I find kind of meh, racing and e-sports I love. Most sports just don’t have interesting metas, it’s the same min max every team every year.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 11:44 AM
1

It’s a kind of fucked up place, does not look well moderated, but it’s a mess of AMTA (yes, your using your disability as an excuse) and “my special interest” (like that’s autistic only? It’s called a hobby or passion and most people have one).
/r/MensRights26/12/22 11:22 AM
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I don’t think so…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:08 AM
2

Protests that are mainly resulting in men dying. You can cherry pick almost anything you want from those protests to back up near any agenda.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 12:56 PM
1

In the U.K. I never tell the truth to mental health professionals, I’m here for a service, not that stupid suicide checklist to waste this valuable time. Just avoid a solid answer and get into whatever the meeting is for.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:42 AM
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Agree with you, but not being able to take downvotes has earned you mine.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 03:11 PM
15

Becouse it’s a 4 hour old Smurf made for arguing here.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 03:09 PM
0

When it’s as ok for boys to draw a talk as girls to draw a flower, we will be in a better place.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 12:11 PM
8

We are still at a stage of trying to not lose more rights. Criticism of MRA stuff is commonplace elsewhere including mendslib so why the double standard on the criticism of feminism?
/r/MensRights10/12/22 11:26 AM
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Ignoring the joke, sadly you have to prove innocence in cases like this, and wearing something like that would be used against you.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 01:36 PM
23

Would explain why he made a r/mensrights account that day.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 01:20 PM
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How could you prove you did not?
/r/MensRights09/12/22 01:14 PM
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Go you! Hope it gets somewhere!
/r/MensRights09/12/22 12:14 PM
6

Reminder to everyone that testosterone is the go getter hormone, be it partner, job, fun, or family. People who don’t like rebellion, striving, or progress will be against it.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 12:10 PM
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Hard disagree, control and degrading over masculinity is a key part of this, this form of transphobia would be impossible if the idea of a man and what they stand for was not hated.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 12:06 PM
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Thinking of you Joey, you got a good head on you I can see that. You got time to heal and move on, life is waiting for you.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 01:26 AM
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1915 according to r/movies
/r/MensRights08/12/22 12:48 AM
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The USA has the default one as ever, France has one, but personally I don’t know the other non English language ones.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:03 PM
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r/legaladviceuk
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:16 AM
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I’m with you on this one, you need to compare like with like. 26%~ conviction rate it’s likely over inflated, but let’s take it for now. With a 8%~ fake rate I’ll take the top end for ease and ignoring all the undetermined results that’s almost 1 in 4 being false, which is an astonishing amount. India has massive issues with rape, so my uneducated guess from these numbers is most women who are raped don’t go to the legal system/law about it. While those who wish to exploit someone are far more l…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:54 PM
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Sorry to be brutal, but you can’t afford not to, you need out or to stand up for yourself. Chose one or both. Head down plow on is only going to make this worse.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 11:53 AM
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Pay no heed to racists on Twitter.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:48 AM
2

It’s a 7 hour old account, made for baiting here, not worth arguing with.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 06:28 PM
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Sorry, second try I’m tired. It’s invincible ignorance fallacy.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:27 AM
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Yes, I think for you worrying about upsetting him is what’s holding you back. It’s a tough skill to learn how to manage to cut to the chase and talk though stuff clearly and objectively when you and others stressed, while minimising upset. It’s probably going to be a mess, but it’s better done sooner than later. Best of luck. Just try and keep it objective and from your perspective. If you can talk about your feelings, try and specify what is making you feel that way. Try and get him to do the s…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 01:50 PM
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It’s really complicated, and I’ve been struggling with similar these last three years. The first thing is he needs to know he is valued no matter what happens. For me it took braking my hip running my own business and having to be looked after for 6 months to get that home. I hope you can get it though his head before something like that happens. I would be tempted to frame it that his hardships are negatively affecting you, and you want him to sort them out. Whatever you do, he will struggle wi…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 01:27 PM
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Sadly they are very human, and as objective as we try to be, it’s important to remember our dogma and own biases are hiding around every corner, wanting to leak out. For example you equate it with religion, yet I see it in social media and politics daily, that ideal of being blameless and totally justified in one’s actions. In religion I’ve not seen that, other than history and on the news. Does that make me biased? Does that make you biased? Likely both, along with our own lived experience bein…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/22 09:31 AM
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Because we often turn a blind eye without really thinking about it, because they are on our side, doing it for the ‘greater good’, your afraid of the confrontation ms fallout with your own friends, or you can see the justification behind the act that negatively affects others meaning we let it slide. When it come back it’s likely as a group you get blamed. Maybe higher standard is imperially wrong, but it often feels like a higher standard when it’s your ‘own’ people or those who have helped you…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 11:37 PM
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I used “tribes” specificity here to make people think about the kind of points you raised. Your very right constant gatekeeping and judgment is very detrimental, but it is good practice to hold those nearer to you to higher standards than those who oppose you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 10:04 PM
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Blaming the right for the failure of the left is a very dangerous (and common) line of thinking. There are many reasons men’s rights are not taken seriously, but the reason the left does not stand up for mens rights is down to the left itself. If the right is doing better then shame on the left for failing men, and it’s for the left to improve itself instead of whataboutisam. But keeping it real, the world is no left/right divide. We are starting to see a bunch of younger influences from far rig…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 12:15 PM
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I’ve supported them for years
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/22 12:33 PM
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Brake the one message up into proper paragraphs, with a conclusion at the bottom, saves ages of re explaining.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 11:56 PM
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I don’t agree as people did raise a point when it was 9 men and made the choice to put women in it. We live in a world with forced quotas and when something becomes female dominated that’s fine as it’s meeting those quotas, not caring about any decriminalisation against men or the lowering of quality/standards/results. We literally don’t allow qualified men into positions when an under qualified women is available. As long as it makes those gender numbers better, that’s all that matters. Costing…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 12:36 AM
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Said this in my head as I was waiting for this thread to load.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 10:37 PM
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I think the words a lot of us are looking for when talking about this is dogma. As that’s the tactic being applied here. Say something with enough force, appeals to logic and degrade the opposing views enough and people will blindly follow.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:30 PM
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Love your username
/r/MensRights26/10/22 06:39 PM
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Anyone else feeling it might be better to use archive links to not give these people clicks?
/r/MensRights26/10/22 12:11 PM
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I’m likely making wrong assumptions, but I won’t be the only one doing that. Which is my worry. It’s very close to things people are taught to look out for with relationships, including police training (obviously you need to look to see if that’s relevant where you are, but in the U.K. their is dedicated training for it, met especially) and even if both of you think it’s ok, others might not.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:15 PM
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No, restricting who they can talk to and about what can be seen as abuse by the law. Obviously I’m not talking about flirting etc. But stoping them from talking to their friends/colleagues/officials would be abuse.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:05 PM
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Many things here are not legal, and may have been where you came from (like hitting children as punishment for instance, in banned in many places). Trying to restrict who they talk to is getting very close to abuse, be very careful with how go about this. You could end up in trouble with the law as it could risk her safety. I would recommend be as forward as possible about this, and understand that most women will very rightly have no interest.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:00 PM
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Be the safe space they never had.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/22 12:17 AM
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Likely yes, but other forms of death may be higher for them. This is just a comparator of one groups death rates.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 10:22 AM
1

Here people have far more freedom of speech, including saying stuff people might not like. At the same time Hatred of entire groups is not welcome here, unlike many feminist places, it may be left up however, instead of removed, so people can argue against it. As a gay man you’re not free in a feminist space, only accepted while you tow the line. As soon as you step over a line your another generic bad man, with no rights or redeeming qualities. My friends have experienced this first hand, just …
/r/MensRights20/10/22 09:49 AM
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Yeah, I’m just confused, you’re not USA are you? Maybe we just have a different stance in the U.K. (we do have a bad rep of letting kids get away with shit though, I’m not going to lie). You can be fired here for just touching a kids shoulder, or obviously not everywhere but, some places take stuff very seriously.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 08:42 PM
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Where I’m from that carries a prison sentence, never mind the assault/rape. I’ve no idea how they would get away with that if it’s within the last few years, unless where it happened they had very different rules. It would make national news here as MSM followed the case.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 08:35 PM
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I like it, just tuck your shirt in!
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:56 AM
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Getting a breast cancer screening as a man is stupidly hard :(
/r/MensRights08/10/22 11:08 AM
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About 5 years of self searching, getting diagnosed as autistic, and learning to be less of a pushover, while still being kind.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 05:09 PM
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Yep, used to be full on part of the cancel culture mob, fell into deep depression not really knowing why. Turns out I hated myself.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 05:05 PM
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So is blood sex and Necrophilia. Does not mean it’s ok, and both are outlawed for good reason, it has awful consequences for the people involved.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 11:47 AM
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Brand new account and nothing but trolling here. You have no point or argument, just stupidity and one liners.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 11:44 AM
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Do keep in mind they are surveys, so are only a representation of what the target group wanted to say. Men are not bought up to question when forced into sex by a women, so they may not be aware due to a lack of understanding of their own rights and that they are allowed to say no. The same Tom, Dick, or Harry will however feel very much not ok with having a man forced upon them as being gay bad as they have been conditioned that way.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:03 PM
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No worries, you picked up a good point about the criteria not being open, which I missed.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 10:59 AM
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Um, the quotes in the story say she does not have relevant experience. The other two are said as having experience that is relevant. All I did was sum it up and state genders.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 10:54 AM
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https://theshiftnews.com/2020/09/17/exclusive-chamber-of-advocates-perplexed-by-appointment-of-victoria-buttigieg-as-ag/ Female candidate without needed experience beats two men with relevant experience.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 10:13 AM
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https://theshiftnews.com/2020/09/17/exclusive-chamber-of-advocates-perplexed-by-appointment-of-victoria-buttigieg-as-ag/ Female candidate without needed experience beats two men with relevant experience.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 10:13 AM
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Yeah I consider Tate a con artist praying on downtrodden men, and JP a man who genuinely tries to help men who are down get back up again.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:46 PM
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100% worth listening to his lectures, 100% worth being critical of his views and justifications.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:44 PM
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Lots of stuff I can’t really give advice on, but male support groups tend to be interest groups, there are a few dedicated groups by they are rare. Try and find a hobby if you can, something that fits your time and money budget. And if possible something that gets you out of the house and spending time with others. For many people it’s sport, for others it’s volunteering but anything goes.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 10:09 AM
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Getting banned for being courteous? Interesting, normally respectful comments get a lot of upvotes here. EDIT: well a lot by our standards, we are very small.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 11:42 PM
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14 hour old account… wow. No comments other then this group… have a spine and troll with your main account.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 11:35 PM
1

Avoid the call to reason and false equivalence. This article highlights how even when in the wrong some women still blame men for what they themselves as a women did, it’s far from the only example out there of similar behaviour often blaming the male victim. That is not equivalent to blaming women, for what women are doing. That’s generalisation, something humans are prone too do and perfectly normal, but feminists take as reason to base laws and their behaviours on.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 09:36 AM
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Yes sorry that wording was confusing. I’d like it to, but I highly doubt it it would. Mentally ill lone wolves has become something of a joke when a new shooting happens. I don’t think many places in the USA these days could afford the public lashback.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:04 PM
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I don’t understand how humans can use this logic, but it’s been normalised of late. Critical thinking has been replaced with critical theory and we are paying the price.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:55 PM
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Does this argument hold for male murders? I would argue no, and it would be used as a reason to be scared/not trust men. Poisoned smarties and all that, despite its horrid origins it’s still used as a reason not to trust men.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:53 PM
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This was not a conversation though. But a stand alone tweet. I personally think everyone should be included in this conversation. A white unarmed criminal is more likely to be shot by police then a black one in the USA for instance, and that’s without getting onto the shit indigenous people suffer from. Their is nothing wrong with looking at it from a specific point of view, as long as you’re not actively telling others they are not valid etc. (which BLM are known for). Black men trying to live …
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:21 AM
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Yet higher rates indicates a difference. Stating one thing about one group does not indicate anything about the other.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 09:50 AM
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It does not back anything up with any evidence, and is full of opinions and misinformation? EDIT: looks like a ult made for being shit here.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 08:47 AM
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To take one example, a women forcing herself on a man in the U.K. is by law as written sexual assault not rape.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 09:17 PM
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Does racism need to be systematic to be racism? No, it does not. Calling someone some specific insult to the culture, religion, race, sex etc is horrible based on that alone. Misandry is most definitely systematic, it’s written into the laws of the western world.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 08:26 PM
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Thanks for the reply!
/r/MensRights12/09/22 11:55 AM
8

For future reference would an archive be ok as well?
/r/MensRights12/09/22 11:53 AM
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I agree bar the others who are wrong mindset. Reflecting stuff when your being bullied and belittled is really important else you end up hating yourself. Men need to stop forcing themselves to fit into others unrealistic standards. As you say he needs to get out of there and get some better friends/media. When you’re out of there you will be able to think a bit more rationally, and over years slowly unpick what happened. This is the time to work on the built up hate, when you are safe.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 10:00 AM
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Pimping is exploitation of sex workers. It’s banned in the U.K. for a good reason. Sex work? It’s a business, yep some people will be exploited by those stronger than them, but the goal is to exchange goods for service, and when that works well it’s a good thing in my book. Why the service is so needed is another kettle of fish, but that’s not relevant to a job needing to be done.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 11:36 AM
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Women have control over their pregnancies. Getting someone pregnant is less worse than getting pregnant, as both the legal system and peoples opinion are against you. You have no ability to back out, in some places even if it’s not your kid! All your expectations stuff is based on feminist perception, women have value outside of making money, men don’t. Women can use makeup to cover up their blemishes, men can’t. The list goes on. It’s simplified to fuck, but that’s reality.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:53 AM
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It’s ironic really, considering the allmen yesallmen hashtag. OP never even said all. It’s not all feminists, I’m not one who subscribes to blankest brushes. But unlike ‘men’ it’s an ideology, it’s a choice, and something I see good people are moving away from more and more. So when feminists (not all, but as a general collective) can stop saying “all men” and gate-keep others who use it, we can have this discussion, and agree what’s appropriate way to talk about MRM activists and feminists.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:46 PM
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That is a really poor argument, as it relies on your judgment not being biased, and generalises based on your own perception. This Article might shed some light. Anti-male rhetoric is very much part of western culture, as seen here.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:49 PM
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I’m a bit sceptical, as this seams to be giving results of girls react, boys don’t, if you step back and look at it as a whole. Which to me indicate they were measuring reaction by ways that females trigger a 1 and boys trigger a 0.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:31 PM
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My account is quite old, but I was only on hobby subs for most of it. So almost inevitably.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 12:03 PM
10

WTF is a gender critical lesbian? Is this TERF by another name?
/r/MensRights28/08/22 11:41 AM
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How do I be a man? Yo I'm Black, 17m and an Animator. I like to indulge my time in Art, and animation You already are, you have a passion and you’re following it, for me that’s the most key part of being a man. Your head is screwed on well enough you are doubting and asking questions, keep doing that and learning, making mistakes, stand up for what matters to you, and be kind.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 09:34 PM
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Happy sailing, random Redditor!
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 08:02 PM
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“Algorithms” For real though, you’re welcome here too. Bans are not handed out here for just being X.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 07:51 PM
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At some point it time it will start to separate from the bellend. Make sure he knows not to force it, I’ve got a permanent mark from where I forced it to peal back and it’s got less sense than the other side (well other than pain).
/r/MensRights20/08/22 11:05 PM
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I really don’t know what to tell you. You need to get rights to see your child, record everything she does to you. You can’t fix her, don’t try.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 10:23 AM
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Bojo fucked up again and again, it was more a braking the canals back situation, Ukraine was the only reason he was not outed sooner.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 10:19 AM
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Love how clear and direct this take is.
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 12:39 PM
3

When I read the rules there was? Sorry on phone now and just about to have a shower but I could have sworn there was a rule about stalking people.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 01:47 PM
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People definitely are being persecuted for those things, but as you say it’s not yet happening in the west.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 09:12 PM
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Gaming groups is how I met the two people I ever called a partner. Don’t worry too much and focus on yourself and your friends. You will bump into cool people in time. At 23 I was very ill with depression, with no income after being fired from my perfect job and the worst meds I’d ever been on. I had no idea I was autistic, no idea I had been abused for years, and did not even know my own sexuality. Now 5 years later I’ve a girl who has looked after me though a work accident and how supports me …
/r/MensRights02/08/22 12:23 AM
1

Link works, just 12 days of showing?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 10:34 AM
3

Yeah that is fair, it’s an very wide term even in its classical meaning, and these days is used to mean nearly anything correctly or not.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 07:40 PM
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You totally misunderstand me. Liberalism itself is defined in the enlightenment, leading with way with rights and philosophy. My comment is literally a round about way of stating how bringing USA politics into this discussion is undermining and works against our principles of Liberalism.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 12:10 PM
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SC and FL are in the USA right? If so sorry all my knowledge and info is U.K. based.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 09:54 AM
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This comment for me is so Jarring, as mens rights is fundamentally liberal. It’s about freedom is speech, thought, opinion, and is about trying to regain objective justice. We fight against authoritarianism and to have a place where we’re are not only valued by our ability to submit. You probably mean it as in the left of the USA, but few of them are anything near the meaning of liberal now, as they have been chased out.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 09:05 AM
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Listen, and don’t force people to speak when they don’t want to. Men often learn not to say anything to keep themselves safe, and a whole bunch of anger and self worthlessness could be hiding in plain sight. Making it so it’s safe for them to talk any anything, while also not forcing them to talk is key. Andy’s Man club is a great resource if you want an example of a very successful support group.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 10:11 PM
4

I had to read it twice, it could be a lot clearer XD
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:46 PM
5

Yeah it’s a tough one, but you sound like you’re doing an amazing job without knowing. Without knowing the dude it’s really hard for me to give advice, but checking on him regardless of why he is off is probably the best course of action other than keep being amazing.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:27 AM
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I’m so sorry for your loss. Don’t worry about crying, she deserves to know as soon as you can manage, she already knows things are badly wrong, little ones pick up on things fast. God bless both of you, and keep being an amazing Dad, you’ve got this.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:32 PM
1

Jesus this is a bit out of my depth. The history thing is an interesting point though, as we are finding things were not as one sided as many people made them out to be. It seams odd to not try and preserve the narrative of men have always been the oppressors. As it undermines some of the retaliation slant of modern day policy and thinking.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 05:14 PM
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Those are some very good points on some of their differences, the pro-life/choice is a great example, as is the anti trans thing being another branch of anti male bias. I’m still not sure I agree with them all having the same opinion of men, but I’ll concede a majority despite their division are unified by their biases against men, be it anti male or pro women. I just don’t want to lump someone who wants all boys aborted in the same bag as someone who wants good treatment and rights for themselv…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 04:41 PM
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I guess I disagree, a TERF is going to have some different takes on feminism to that of a trans feminist. I’d agree they are on the whole not very good at accepting issues and calling out bad feminist behaviour (other than to disown).
/r/MensRights16/07/22 04:24 PM
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Feminists say a lot of different things and have a lot of different options, but I’ve yet to meet one IRL that does not consider MRAs to be anything else than something that needs to be stamped out. (I’ve met a few feminists online who are supportive, but they are not a majority from what I can see) I learnt of the existence of MRAs though a hate group on FB dedicated to their erasure. Which in my mind is very sad.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:40 PM
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It’s not cleaner, it’s been disproven many times. For many man it massively affects sexual enjoyment and sometimes function. It has no benefits and has high risk of negatives.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 08:57 PM
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Good job, stay classy and kind
/r/MensRights11/07/22 08:35 PM
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I never said they were not valid or tried to infer it. I did not try and I can't work out how you inferred. I said "but I don’t see how it’s a problem worth fighting over." I state its my opinion, an opinion the OP asked for. I literally was answering the question "what is your take?" and I get straw manned multiple times to be doing what you are literally doing to me? Are you implying I should not have a voice when I'm doing as OP asked? Because you don't like it? Because That's what is coming …
/r/MensRights10/07/22 09:03 PM
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This is my opinion. I never said healthy debate was anything. I meant it as “putting effort in” with the connotation of “better things to put effort into and the need to focus efforts into easer wins” “not a hill worth dying on” is an apt saying here. Even if you think that is negative, it’s critical for discourse’s validity to be able to critique criticism. If you disagree that is fine, but are you I’m playing I should not be standing up for my own point of view? As that’s how it’s coming acros…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 07:29 PM
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As in “putting effort into making a point, stand or argument”. Saying someone is fighting for or against something does not make it a fight. You can fight to be elected, but you don’t need guns for that.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 06:47 PM
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Don’t tolerate sexism. Simple as. That has nothing to do with your other harf and everything to do with their cognitive biases and internalised hate.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:02 AM
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Thanks! Means a lot!
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:15 AM
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Here in the U.K. it’s November, so don’t get confused brits
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:13 AM
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If someone wants to be single, that’s up to them. I really don’t feel this is a good hill to die on, I don’t agree with what she has to say, but I don’t see how it’s a problem worth fighting over.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:57 PM
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You think that a man wanting rights instantly makes it about restricting woman’s rights? You’re literally the issue, you’re literally the thing we fight against, people wanting others to not have nice things regardless of who they are.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:49 PM
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One reason you may often see them as reactionary is they have to justify their existence at all times, while also struggling to understand what they want and instead focusing on fighting what they don’t. Feminists do it a lot too, with such things as yesallmen and the constant attacks on anything seen as masculine (so much so I don’t even know how to spell the word without spell check). From a very young age they have been conditioned both by traditional values and feminism that they can’t do an…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 12:14 AM
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Had a friend who had his sister do this, she ended up getting violent and the police had to get involved. Luckily it’s was clear cut and she has been removed from the families life and has an assault conviction now.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:49 PM
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“Joe Let’s abortion be removed as a right and then heads out on a beach holiday” Na instead of protesting I’m going to ban this random dude for calling old Joe shit.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 12:17 PM
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Male birth control has been a hot topic for ages and sadly after some failed attempts (you might remember the one that increased suicidal tendencies) there is a promising cream looking to be close to ready. (Whether it’s adopted widely is another thing). Anyway with the rights thing. A women can get impregnated by a man without his consent and then keep and raise that child against the man’s will using his money. Women have control over that if they get impregnated against their will and could e…
/r/MensRights05/07/22 10:19 PM
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Men don’t get a choice in if they have a child or not. For most of the world men have no temporary contraceptive method to use along side or instead of condoms (which is likely to change soon thankfully). Women have control over both of those in civil countries. Here in the U.K. both are available for free.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 10:09 PM
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Yeah that was a good few years ago, lost three teeth to it, but I’m in a much better place now, thank you!
/r/MensRights05/07/22 12:08 PM
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You have on average worse sex, more medical issues. In my opinion it’s ugly, even when not botched. I hate the sight of flaccid bellends.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 10:04 PM
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Stay clean? I’m complete and in depression went over two months without washing it at all. No issues, despite I’ve got a bunch of other skin problems.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 10:02 PM
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