| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 96 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male... | NICE FOR WHAT? | BlondeBeginning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?This wasn’t just me? Virtually every grade until I went to a single sex school aged 13. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Solo female travellers: stay vigilant no matter where you areI received some of the worst harassment of my life while travelling alone in Italy. I was sexually assaulted by a taxi driver near Amalfi who detoured off to a secluded place. I was also followed and stalked by local men where I was staying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 07:54 AM |
| 95 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼Anyone else think this reads like a fake post that’s been gender reversed to prove some kind of point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 19 | What was the last straw?Met a guy for a date that turned out to be a walking date in a park. On the way back, I went into his house (a shared house with other men around his age) to use the bathroom. It was the most horrendous, disgusting mess I have ever seen in my life. I couldn’t bring myself to use it. I then discovered that he didn’t actually live in the house but in collapsible garden shed in the backyard, the kind you buy at a hardware store, complete with a mattress on the floor. This was a 32 year old man with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:48 AM |
| 47 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?Literally had an ex ask if he could take a photo of me while I was crying and my mascara was running. I was crying because he was cheating on me. He was a photographer and said it looked “pretty”. There were tons of red flags well before then that I was too naive to see, but your story reminded me of this one. I was in my early 20s and it was an abusive age gap relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 982 | NYT Journalist Nicholas Kristof, whose article exposed Pornhub and instigated the unverified video Purge, has set his sights on Reddit. Reddit ALSO hosts underage rape videos, involuntary porn, pedophilic content, and extreme sexualized violence with zero verification.He has. And seemingly lots from Japanese men. From his Twitter: “I'm getting moving notes from girls who had rape videos or naked videos of themselves on Pornhub, who were humiliated, who attempted suicide -- and who can now breathe again. So I can put up with the irritation of frustrated pedophiles around the world.” HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:30 AM |
| 22 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortI enjoyed making a fuss over my ex’s birthdays and usually planned some beautiful local getaways for us along with other gifts I know he loved. When mine came around, he forgot, apologised and promised to make it up to me, but then “forgot” again and nothing eventuated. I let it slide as too much time passed and I felt uncomfortable bringing it up. The same thing happened when we exchanged Christmas gifts - I gave him something but he “forgot” to get me anything, even a card. When my next birthd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 101 | Why are fat and ugly men the most shallow?Against my will, I was once subjected to an obese guy’s 10 minute explanation of the kind of “hip flare” he prefers on a woman. Basically, the guy was nitpicking about where a woman’s hips were the widest (i.e., at the top of the pelvis versus lower down) and citing celebrities as examples. The man was around 350lbs+ and could not get any woman let alone one with whatever “hip flare” he was referring to, lmao! I wonder if it’s a type of fantasy thinking they use as cope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...Yeah... and this screenshot is old. About 19k upvotes now on the original post and counting. I’d bet money the vast majority are men who wish women would just shut up about rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 11 | Has anyone also thought all of their exes were HVM until they found this sub?I thought one of my exes was a HVM because he wasn’t outright abusive like my others. Reading FDS made me how little effort he put into the relationship (... and his life). “If he wanted to, he would” was a huge wake up call for me. The bar was on the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 4 | They think they can last a day without women, let alone a life time! Goodbye, and good luck to them!It’s been years and we are still waiting for them to go on their way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:12 PM |
| 23 | Just watched American Murder: The Family Next DoorI watched this a few days ago and I can't stop thinking of it. A reminder that even seemingly 'good' or 'average' guys are capable of killing you and your children if they are enraged enough. He really was opportunistic to the end - even had the audacity to blame his children's murder on his dead wife. I don't know how his parents could forgive him at his sentencing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Roll call! HVWs partnered with HVMs: what does your relationship look like?Saving this thread so I can read it when I feel hopeless. Thank you for sharing your stories, ladies :’) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:19 AM |
| 95 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡If a guy has had one night stands in the past but waits to have sex with you, then it’s viewed as him treating you with respect and taking you seriously. But when a woman does the same, it’s deceptive? Seems like he’s insecure and jealous about the “really hot guys”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 12 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereWhat expectations do you mean? I'm curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:01 AM |
| 8 | He’s been “seeing someone” but they’re “not dating”Clearly! Lol, don't even bother with this fuckboy. He has a lot of growing up to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 53 | Watch out for those yogabros ladies ;pMost yoga bros are Peter Pans using their "enlightenment" as a self-deception to avoid shouldering any real responsibility in their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:22 AM |
| 18 | He’s been “seeing someone” but they’re “not dating”What is “close to it”? “Close to” monogamy is not monogamy, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 9 | Grown Men with Room MatesDealbreaker. It feels like there's several life stages between living with roommates and being a mature and capable partner/husband. A man in that position in his 30s is behind the curve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 99 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereI'm also Australian and I couldn't agree more. Americans, at least in my narrow experience, have been much more direct. By comparison, I've found Australian men to be way more passive, low-effort, and having a 'see what happens' situationship approach to dating overall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:32 AM |
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