Blondefairy25 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other lovers Tbh, I’ve known some experienced “chad” men and even they prefer women that aren’t as sexually promiscuous. It truly seems like a deeply ingrained preference that most (not all) men have. They don’t like really promiscuous (their definition of promiscuous can vary a bit) women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 07:16 AM
1	Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies? Pilates and brunch	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 07:06 PM
–	Cheating is bad no matter your gender Men and women are quite different but that still doesn’t excuse cheating	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:36 PM
1	People who are casual about sex get laid more often than people who aren't Quality over quantity	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 02:27 PM
2	The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl That’s reassuring. Some people make it sound like a barren wasteland out there	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 02:06 PM
0	The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl I wouldn’t have thought so. Not in this day and age anyway. But apparently it is still difficult and the men try and date younger than their age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 01:57 PM
3	The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl Damn I’ve missed the boat by one year	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 01:55 PM
0	The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl Not many, I’m in my twenties. I’ve just heard from older people that it gets much worse and harder to find people after a certain age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 01:49 PM
1	The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl But is that because they can’t get anyone else and don’t have options anymore??	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 01:34 PM
2	Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to be I don’t think it can be trash but there is more leeway	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 06:03 AM
1	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. I don’t know many men that love that. Not for the long term anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 04:46 PM
2	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. I literally never have casual moments. Haven’t done in years. I tried them out a handful of times in my youth (because I thought that’s what everyone was doing) and wish that I could take them back with all my heart. I go on dates now but never have sex until we are committed. Has worked well and my last relationship was two years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 08:55 AM
4	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. You’ve hit the nail on the head here. Common autistic traits in men are just inherently unattractive to the majority of women. It depends where on the spectrum the woman falls but female autistics are typically better at blending in and if she is quite pretty then she will still do fairly well. I’m autistic myself but wasn’t diagnosed until very late because of “masking” and I thought I just had an anxiety disorder. I’ve never had problems with getting dates and most men don’t seem to mind that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 08:21 AM
3	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. Back in the day 80% of women reproduced and only 40% of men did. Although I just want to say that just because women have more options for sex and reproducing doesn’t mean it will be with someone of quality that cares for her and the child. A lot of women find themselves in truly fucked up situations that are worse than just being alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 08:09 AM
10	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. They will discover the grass is not greener	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 08:06 AM
1	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. “Undesirable” women are more likely to be used sexually or be in relationships that are extremely toxic where they are being taken advantage of in all manners of ways. I don’t know how men see that as preferable to just being left well alone. I bet if they were to swap like a freaky Friday situation then they would want to swap back. It’s true that women do initially get more attention than guys but they will see that it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Especially when you have a female brain an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 07:55 AM
7	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. Exactly! It literally doesn’t mean anything. Getting casual sex from men is worthless. Getting a loving and valued relationship from a decent man is the hard part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 07:22 AM
18	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. Autistic women are more likely to be used sexually and then discarded. Your typical woman does not enjoy sex in this way at all. That is where men and women often differ. Men are much more likely to be fine with and seek out casual arrangements. This is why men outnumber women a whopping 5:1 on casual hookup apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 07:15 AM
1	Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 + I don’t think she was hideous. Just kinda plain/average. The chubbiness didn’t help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:15 PM
1	Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 + New York?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:13 PM
2	Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 + I think thats more the extra weight she’s put on though. Have you googled pics of when she was slim?? She was actually average to kinda cute	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:09 PM
1	Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 + Where do you live??	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:08 PM
–	Isn't it shameful or at least weird for a woman to let herself used like a human fleshlight? I just want to clarify that I don’t mean that if a woman has sex out of strict marital or LTR boundaries that she automatically has issues but I mean if she lets herself be used sexually by men that don’t care for her and she is just doing it to try and find love or fill a void then it is probably best she tries to get some therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 01:12 PM
–	Isn't it shameful or at least weird for a woman to let herself used like a human fleshlight? Yes, it’s usually a form of deep psychological issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 01:05 PM
5	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy How underweight were you?? Like some people can hold being slightly underweight or a bit overweight better than others. When I was underweight I looked gaunt and frail and people (apart from a handful of creeps) were not attracted to me at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 02:25 PM
4	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy Some guys have some weird fetishes (like for super underweight or super overweight) but the majority like and are attracted to a healthy weight. They don’t want someone too far on either ends of the spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 01:32 PM
15	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy This. We want healthy mates to procreate with! I wouldn’t want a man that is dangerously skinny or overweight and I think most men feel the same. Some peoples idea of what super skinny is (when it’s still on the healthy BMI scale) is skewed because everyone is so fat these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 12:18 PM
9	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy Idk. When I was super underweight I kind of looked like a greyhound and guys didn’t find that attractive. I’m now at a BMI of about 22 and get much more attention now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 12:15 PM
–	You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why. Fair enough 👍🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 09:25 PM
–	You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why. I think you triggered it	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 09:19 PM
2	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional If a guy is super funny or rich then he can get away with being a bit uglier and more women will be forgiving. But yes looks are still important to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 08:50 PM
–	You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why. It feels almost unnatural	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 04:23 PM
2	Women get respected less, men are wanted less. Women are wanted more (on average, there are some outliers) but it can often be for the wrong reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 11:37 AM
–	Thought dump re: Pump and Dumping/being used for sex, and Casual Sex It sounds like a huge cope	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 02:27 PM
–	Modern men are NOT protectors or providers A lot of men are worthless in women’s eyes these days (and same the other way round) It’s a big shit show	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 11:43 AM
–	How would you feel if a guy didn't take you on the same quality of dates as previous suitors? Exactly. It’s annoying when men try and compare the two. Sex (for most women) is not just a harmless fun activity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 09:23 AM
–	How would you feel if a guy didn't take you on the same quality of dates as previous suitors? I think it still sounds like a nice date tbh 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 09:21 AM
1	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women So funny and true 😇	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 09:44 AM
1	Do you care about morals when choosing a partner? Yes, it’s extremely important. Although some people pretend to have them for a while unfortunately 😢	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 07:02 AM
1	CMV : For a woman to want to commit most of her mortal life to a man and grant him exclusive access, he SHOULD be pretty impressive, not just a guy who exists Exactly. I’m not letting any man in, even just for sex. Let alone one I want to be with for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 07:01 AM
–	Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's character “Chasing after attention whores in yoga pants” Lmao the story of many guys lives	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:39 PM
2	In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise? I think what people really want and what they can actually get is a very different story	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 03:24 PM
2	In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise? Exactly. Cold hard fact of life that almost everyone has to settle at some point. There are a minority of people that have pick of the bunch but most people have to severely compromise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 03:12 PM
4	Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women? Life is never going to be 50/50 fair and square. Men and women (on average) have different strengths and weaknesses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 01:08 PM
–	There is nothing wrong with todays dating world I’m not talking to you anymore. Have a nice day 👍🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 06:48 AM
–	There is nothing wrong with todays dating world Maybe you can’t find a relationship because you’re this weak and whiny in real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 06:47 AM
–	There is nothing wrong with todays dating world Grow up	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 06:42 AM
22	There is nothing wrong with todays dating world A lot of men struggling to date aren’t actually the overweight basement dwelling incels that we imagine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 09:36 AM
2	How to go from wife material to permanent fuckgirl. There definitely seems to be a pattern	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/05/23 08:32 AM
0	It wont be men abandoning women when the AI sex revolution hits. We both need eachother. Men and women need to work together	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:20 PM
1	Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy? Yeah I have unfortunately. Just couldn’t get attracted	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 08:00 AM
16	CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.” Oh it’s Armageddon out there. I fully acknowledge that	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 02:57 PM
3	Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy? I’m only 5’6 and I prefer the guy to be taller but it doesn’t have to be by a super wide margin	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 10:36 AM
9	Why are so many child free women not pet free? It doesn’t make sense to not want kids but want pets instead. Pets are way less high maintenance and complex than raising a human child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 10:21 AM
1	Is sex tourism a hidden gem for men who want causal sex? You’re taking advantage of women that are likely trafficked or forced into it because of extreme poverty. This is disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:05 PM
4	Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a man True. Women are much more complex sexually. I think that’s why some men assume (very wrongly) that sending a dick pic will turn us on. As a simple picture of the opposite sex really is all it takes for them. There are also men that send it just to be gross and get off on intimidating women but I don’t think that’s necessarily always the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 02:51 PM
4	The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignore Third wave feminism became quite extreme and there is always a Ying to a Yang in this world. Andrew is the other end of the spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 04:13 PM
3	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition I’m a woman but personally I would rather be hit with the truth than comforted with a lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:45 AM
2	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition This sounds like a lovely utopia but many women are also great at being fake, disingenuous and cunning too	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:44 AM
1	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition If I’m honest, I have had women that I genuinely thought were “friends” start getting very bitchy and try to sabotage my weight loss when they saw I got slim and fit. Not all women do this obviously but it is quite common unfortunately. They suddenly see you as a threat if you go from a bit overweight to hotter looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:43 AM
1	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition I would find someone trying to tell me I look like Brad Pitt (when I clearly don’t) either completely ludicrous or a bit of a slimy snake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:40 AM
-1	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition Yes ❤️ I believe that tactful honesty (often spoken in private where they won’t be too embarrassed) is the best policy. I’ve had friends hate me for it at first but then thank me later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:35 AM
3	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition I love giving compliments but I won’t compliment someone’s figure if they’re obese (nor will I bully them) but complimenting unhealthy bodies (overweight or too underweight) gives the wrong message.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:29 AM
1	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition Exactly. Unfortunately life will humble people in many ways if they think they are above their stations. It’s best to be (tactfully) honest with people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:26 AM
1	Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition I don’t believe in bullying but I won’t tell a friend she looks hot when she is very unhealthy. I will privately and tactfully talk to her about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 11:25 AM