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Yeah, I'd agree with you over the OP, in that a neutral disposition towards your ex is better than a positive or negative one. I'd also say the focus should really remain on yourself; spending mental energy on your ex is simply a waste. However, I do think OP has a great point in how to take what could be perceived by many as a purely negative event (a breakup), and transform it into an opportunity for positive growth through introspection and applying discipline to bring about the desired chang…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 08:50 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 01:54 PM
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Single men who never married who both have and dont have regret would be the most interesting to hear from. I'm single, in an LTR and have been on the "RP path" for a little over a year. I am extremely happy with my life as it is right now, thanks to RP advice/lifestyle/etc. At this point in my life, I'm staying single, whether in an LTR or not. I think eventually I will want to have kids (I say that now, but years down the road who knows if I will still want to), and that is the only point at w…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 01:39 PM
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If I could sum up the whole book in one phrase: "YOU are the prize." You need to realize in your head that you are the shit, and if you can't realize that, then you need to fix yourself first and become the shit. Once you realize that YOU are the one with the value (and it must be real value, not delusional imaginations), then you no longer put pussy on the pedestal, approval seek, put up with unnecessary bullshit from others, etc. It all falls in place.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:26 PM
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Before TRP, I was in a relationship with an equal, LOL, so I treated her like that. Big mistake, and we both hated it, although neither of us knew why. This was a difficult mind shift for me to make over a year ago when I discovered the pill. I waffled back and forth between captain and co-captain mindset, thinking that as a captain, I was a de-facto misogynist (thanks to my BP brainwashing). The funny thing is, after a few cycles of flipping back and forth, I discovered our relationship was vas…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:01 PM
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I've been racking my brain for the past two weeks or so trying to answer that question: "What should I do?" Initially, I admit, I wanted an answer from someone or something. I realize this was extremely flawed thinking, as no one could possibly dictate what I should do. The past month I've been reading up on Stoicism non-stop, though I still have more to learn about it. It has definitely added to my toolbox, as in I can more efficiently solve problems or keep a clear head in the face of adversit…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 02:39 PM
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48 Laws of Power A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy Art of Seduction Day Bang Bang How to Win Friends and Influence People Mastery No More Mr. Nice Guy The Obstacle is the Way The Way of the Superior Man
/r/askMRP05/04/16 05:10 PM
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I plan to read it over and over again. That's a great idea. I still listen to the audio version semi-frequently to re-calibrate my stubborn mind. I'm starting WISNIFG tomorrow. This is a long, tedious read, but force your way through it. The techniques are so effective, they could have prevented this recent blow up. I bet my wife is subconsciously pissed at me for underachieving in my career. I know she's pissed at herself for that same thing. You might be right, but your focus right now needs t…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 01:38 PM
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Great breakdown point by point. Can I expect this kind of behavior from her every time I try to display the least bit of spine? No. Pass the shit test (about the water) properly and her concerns about your quality will be allayed and this won't happen. In my experience, if this is a common event, as in he gets her water every night or so, you will need to pass this shit test with increasing intensity maybe 3 or 4 times before it stops. If the boundary has been severely overstepped, she will test…
/r/askMRP30/03/16 05:38 PM
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You can get the Kindle version on Amazon or Audio version on Audible.
/r/askMRP29/03/16 05:14 PM
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My mistake, I tend to say MMA as shorthand, which I should stop doing that. I train at an MMA gym but only do boxing and muay thai currently, with focus on muay thai. I am debating doing BJJ or trying ice hockey after I pass my exams. In other words, my ground game is shit. However, I have found that while both boxing and muay thai are excellent activities, muay thai leaves me in a state of complete depletion of energy after every lesson. That is as long as you are partnered with someone on your…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 10:53 PM
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When I was lazy and out of shape, my GF was also lazy and out of shape. I started working out like a mad man and here is what happened: She resisted and tried to sabotage my efforts every single time. I resisted these efforts by her. After about 2-3 months, she began doing similar workouts to me. She would even workout with me doing the same stuff as me. I do MMA which has melted away most of the fat on my body. She does not do MMA but recently joined very intense female oriented classes. A very…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 09:11 PM
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Thx. I do recall that passage. I am hitting the books hard again after realizing I have not internalized nearly enough information.
/r/askMRP23/03/16 03:12 PM
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Thank you. I have a feeling I am unintentionally giving off the vibe that I don't give a fuck about what she does or wears.
/r/askMRP23/03/16 03:11 PM
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I'm certainly no expert and maintaining frame covers a huge territory of thought. With that said, I'll quickly reiterate what I've learned and applied through MRP, Stoic, and Zen ideas. Regarding Stoic and Zen techniques, I have only very recently read and applied anything from these schools of thought, so others can feel free to elaborate or point out my mistakes. For more detail, there are plenty of posts and books that will describe things in far greater and better detail. From an MRP standpo…
/r/askMRP23/03/16 01:03 PM
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Thanks. Identifying something specific about her outfit or work or whatever should show far greater immersion than simple adjectives like "good" or "great."
/r/askMRP23/03/16 12:31 PM
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Hahaha thank you. Taking this scenario to the extreme in a hilarious way takes all of the annoyance and anger I had out of the thought.
/r/askMRP23/03/16 12:15 AM
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I've actually gone that route as well. Still she keeps going. This isn't only with clothes. This is with anything she creates as well whether its for a presentation or a craft or something. I give my honest opinion or joke or whatever, but it's like she doesn't believe me and needs to interrogate me to know what I truly think, even though I DO state what I think.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 09:16 PM
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Good catch.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 09:06 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I've come to the conclusion that I have a large ego. I think I am so much smarter than I actually am. I read all of the sidebar. I've lifted. I've improved. Sex got great. Then it got sparse again (now). My mindset the past week or so has been: I've done all the readings, I've done the lifting. I'm better, why aren't we fucking? Waahhh Wahhh I'm going back and re-reading all the material. And I'm learning new things I didn't catch the first time around. I'm recognizing I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 02:03 PM
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Right, I could give a fuck who endorsed who, who likes who, etc. I'm here to learn from others, to take from the RP "toolbox", in order to add value to my life. And in the future, I hope to give some value back.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 07:39 PM
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