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Bloody_hell_Donny/r/Divorce_Men09/07/18 02:41 AM
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Everything in life is a risk. Marriage is a beautiful thing with the right partner my man, don’t let one rotten bitch take that away from you. I hope you find what I have someday.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/22 04:01 PM
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The most important thing I did was file first and refuse to move out of tue house. Stand you ground fellas. It helped that she was so batshit crazy that her lawyers quit her cs halfway through the process.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 10:08 PM
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Man. Ya’ll are some jaded motherfuckers. Sure divorce is rough but there are success stories. I have full custody of my kids, got 70% equity of the house, and now re-married to a woman I’m actually compatible with. Sure it was hell on earth going through it all but I kept my head down, did what I was supposed to and didn’t let her turn me into the stereotype she made me out to be.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 09:50 PM
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Don’t send this. Its a pretty bitch move.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/22 08:44 PM
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The most important thing you can do right now is under no circumstances move out of your house. No matter what she says, or what you think “the right thing to do” is. Once you move out you give up any leverage you have in the divorce, especially with custody of minor kids is involved. Stand your ground brother. This will suck pretty fucking hard, but in the end if you don’t do anything stupid like eat a bullet you will be OK. My divorce was a nightmare but now I’m re-married and happier than I e…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 01:56 AM
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Get a car. This situation is a necessity not a want. You’ll have to make amends for it when you settle but you won’t go to jail. Talk to your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 01:34 PM
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Best way to get over someone old is to get under someone new. Don’t go looking for love, just go get some strange tail and you’ll feel better about life. 100% if ya’ll aren’t living together she’s already ripped off that band-aid, so to speak.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/21 05:24 PM
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You can legally separate without leaving the house if that’s an issue. In regards to the home ownership you only owe her portion of the equity, if she can’t afford to live in the house that’s not a you problem (y’all will have to sell the home and she’ll get her half that way).
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/21 03:35 AM
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Dude, she’s nuts take this as a sign and get out. Remember this. You have to settle on the MDA in mediation OR have a judge decide in trial. She’s not automatically entitled to anything, including custody. Right now you both have equal right to your child and responsibility. She only has the POWER because you have given it to her. Ya’ll have equal rights until otherwise approved by the court. So any notion of “taking” your child is false, she can’t keep you from your daughter. Document everythin…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/18 03:01 PM
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That’s not the point. The law is the law, and whatever makes her look bad in front of a judge is the goal.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/18 04:47 PM
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Most states have injunctions against destroying evidence. She can delete them all she wants but still makes her look bad in the eyes of the judge, could be held in contempt.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/18 04:30 PM
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No to mention she broke state and federal hacking laws, there’s also those charges if you can prove it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/18 01:46 PM
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You can request her text messages as part of discovery and have her brought before the Judge on contempt for destroying evidence. Discovery is where you get to ask for whatever you want, it’s up to her lawyer to argue it’s not relevant. If they refuse to give it to you you can have your lawyer file a motion to compel. A subpoena would be required to get her phone records from the provider, anything interpersonal can be asked for in discovery.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/18 01:46 PM
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Don’t ever call her when you are at your lowest. All that does is show weakness. You want to project stability and strength, that’s why she married you right? I’m sure the Army did its best to work that out of you, rely on your training and your brothers. You my friend could not be in a better place to be dealing with this. There’s a whole branch of the armed forces to support you. Don’t be afraid to show weakness to your bothers or CO, that’s what they are there for. Never leave a man behind ri…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 04:13 PM
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Dude. Getting over her is step 10, let focus on step one. You said this was your first big fight and her mom is not well. I would guess she’s running on pure emotion and acting carelessly. Unless she’s always used leaving you as a way to control he relationship I would just give her space until she’s ready to talk again. Now if she has used this tactic in the past you need to nip that in the butt ASAP. She may very well be testing your boundaries. You cannot allow her to think acting by like chi…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 01:30 PM
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Here’s a great tip a mentor told me. When you’re out in woods with your dog and it strays too far ahead what do you do? If you chase it it will keep running ahead, but if you turn around and walk the other way it will follow. Let her go. You both need to understand that she is not essential to your happiness. Anyone you can’t live without is a dangerous person to have in your life. Not saying it will fix your situation, but it certainly won’t make it any worse.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 11:11 AM
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First fight? Let her calm down and come back. Last thing you want to do is chase her.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 09:49 AM
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The expectation that you NEED to see your kids less is a lie. Demand 50/50 custody and make her PROVE you can’t see them more than that. If you have to alter your schedule or lifestyle do it. Men are conditioned to accept being abused by the court system, but in reality we have equal rights as the Mom. DO NOT move out of the house or allow her to move out of the house before you have a parenting plan, that’s where most men make the biggest mistake during divorce. If you let her HAVE the kids mor…
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/18 11:47 AM
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Hearing on 7/20. Addressing all of the above, filing motion to compel her address and for temporary custody agreement. We’ll see what the Judge has to say about what’s happening.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/18 02:49 PM
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Don’t leave for any reason without a signed parenting plan. Worst thing you can do in a divorce,
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/18 01:59 AM
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I think we’re beyond the point of a default. Complaint and counter suit have both been filed. We have hearing next Friday to suspend her parental time ( she’s driving on a suspended license). At this point it might be up to the Judge what happens next.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/18 11:41 AM
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Your wouldn’t be here if wasn’t already shit show. If you’re both up front about finances then be upfront about this, but the longer she has access to your finances the more she’s going to use that to control you. If she’s spending 5 weeks with another man you don’t owe her anything, vows broken. I know this may sound harsh but it’s time to reclaim your testicles and set boundaries. Right now you’re letting her have her cake and eat it too.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/18 11:01 AM
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I would just open a new account with your next check. If she’s checking the account and harassing you about it’s not worth your sanity, especially if she’s already sleeping with other men. Don’t let her play the “I don’t know what I want” BS. It’s time to establish boundaries and take control over the situation.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/18 02:08 AM
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Take a deep breath and relax, you’ve got to do this with a clear head or it will burry you. If you have access to a good therapist I would recommend it. Nothing wrong with taking a anti-depressant or anxiety medicine. If you go down that route have your Dr. write a letter explaining why and that your need for taking the meds won’t affect the kids. If you’re a good Dad keep it up, the only way she can take the kids from you is by showing negligence through documentation. She can’t just say someth…
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/18 01:43 AM
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No divorce is simple. I’m into over a year of what was supposed to be an uncontested litigation. My advice would be to move your money into an account she can’t access, especially if you haven’t filed yet. Name of the game now is protect your ass because once lawyers involved it’s going to get ugly, I don’t care what she says. Stay on the proactive rather the defensive. Pre-filing there really isn’t anything she can do to stop you, be prepared to divulge your finances in discovery, but you want …
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/18 01:07 AM
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