| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Men will hit “happier alone” parity with women in the 2030s.That's a race to the bottom. Stalinist logic in more ways than one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenYeah and dating app stats shows that women will seek out sex themselves with the top 4% of men. Shows that it's not about hating men its that women are Chadsexuals who view men below 6ft with non masculine faces as asexual children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Common dating advice does nothing for the average guy actually strugglingI bet you aren't Asian though | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Asian men are significantly less likely than white men to be currently involved with a romantic partner, even after controlling for a wide array of characteristics. Our results suggest that the racial hierarchy framework best explains lower likelihood of involvement among Asian American men.I think it has more to do with % of meat in food intake tbh | /r/BlackPillScience | 19/03/26 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approachesSo only 6/10 or above males are viewed as men, got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:23 AM |
| 1 | I've been cold approaching on and off since 2020's autumn...You're lucky then | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/26 02:44 AM |
| -3 | I fear I’m going back to my incel way of thinking.No it doesn't. I read about someone that spent 100 hours a week on X for a year to build an online company. You just have to be like him, spend 100 hours a week on something that generates revenue for a year or more and you will be rich. But nobody wants to know someone like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/26 03:23 PM |
| – | Being single and paying for it is far better than being a simp these days.The problem is that women set up this whole thing. Men are just reacting. I once heard a woman saying 'I don't feel anything for my husband. Why shouldn't I cut his dick off and take his money? That's the only thing he is good for anyway' and a group of other women laughed and complimented her for being so smart. A recent article I read outright said wives are managers and husbands are employees and as managers women should give some favors to motivate their men. And these women are mostly respe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:48 PM |
| – | Change My Mind: Both the Red Pill and Modern Feminism are economically irrational. Here is the math.No one that gets $600K a year after taxes ($1.2M before taxes) so that they can say $5000/month is 10% is socializing among the crowd lol. That's executive or small celebrity level wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:45 PM |
| -1 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?Lol thats such a brutal take but real. Normbots expect average and below average men to be some tranny fahgot lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.Yeah you're right. All these factors mean that men who are significantly subpar physically due to boomer loveless marriages are now mostly closed off from the market, no longer able to find desperate women as you said. But that's ultimately a good thing in terms of improving the next generation. It just sucks for men in that excluded group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:08 AM |
| 2 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.I agree and the liberation of women's sexuality made dating somewhat harder for the bottom 30 percent or so of men in physical attractiveness. Which includes myself unfortunately. But that doesn't change the fact that for the men without this affliction, dating is still easier than the historical norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:00 AM |
| 0 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.No not nearly close lol. In the wider scheme of things dating in the 2026 developed western world is still relatively easy. No bride price. No grueling rituals. No ban on premarital sex. Much of this stuff was needed for premodern societies in general, which covered the vast majority of the last 6000 years. That already makes it a breeze compared to the vast majority of actual history. The Woodstock white middle class Americans had it unusually easy due to a very specific geopolitical situation,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How do single guys 5ft6 and shorter deal with the fact that society lacks empathy for themAnd there's no way I will humiliate myself like that | /r/MensRights | 21/02/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | The red pill doesn't want to change societyYou met the minimum looks threshold for red pill to work. About half of men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 11:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effortMost of those marriages were over from the start, the woman married for reasons other than desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 11:19 AM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.No I agree with you, DietTyrone is the coper. What he describes only happens in tech/finance megacities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:50 AM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.The copium is strong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Yes courting historically means you're the same social class as the woman and the intention is marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Um that's just like every dating app ever but more expensive?Most apps already have an option to put you on top of a person's feed at like $1-1.5 each. The idea you have is that if you pay a huge fee let's say $100 the woman will definitely show up but how would the app ensure that? Impossible. So its an app that only super low IQ simps and e thots are going to be using. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Relying on personality, masculinity, or social dominance is a crutch that will ruin your marriageIt applied in the so called good old days too. Jean-Paul Sartre's neurotic obsession about being in itself versus being for others, and his staunch belief that identity has nothing to do with biology, definitely had something to do with his looks. As Rehab Room would say, the bigger the mog the harder the cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Relying on personality, masculinity, or social dominance is a crutch that will ruin your marriageI agree because all those words just mean an establishment upper middle class lifestyle. Akaash Singh did it. NYC mini celebrity living a 1M a year elite life. Look how it turned out for him.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Case Study - Where do you categorize this man?Okay thats blatant colonialism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:20 AM |
| – | Telling a man who's average/under average that they should just be "themselves" is terrible advice.In cult like religious communities maybe. Otherwise its totally fiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:32 PM |
| 5 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herYeah thats the truth, women only require unattractive guys to be PhD multimillionaires who buy them luxury gifts every week 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Men and women are equally disposable in relationship, but for different factorsYou're being too serious with clowns jfl lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:09 AM |
| 2 | People need sex the same way spoiled brats need the newest iPhone.Yeah if you told me 'she' is an AI in Klaus Schawb's basement I would totally believe that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:08 AM |
| 3 | It's not reasonable to expect young women to have fully flushed out and mature standards in men out the gateAnd your proposal to become more like South Korea or China which have lots of those LTR men is moot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:12 AM |
| 1 | It's not reasonable to expect young women to have fully flushed out and mature standards in men out the gateBut we don't need that many LTRs marriages and children anymore. We are not in a survival mode world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Its because the women are Chadsexual 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:54 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.No the fighting back against your circumstances thing is just a myth that keeps people being cogs and which additionally fuels a made up industry. Andrew Tate lives a kinda miserable life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:27 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.Which has nothing at all to do with the empirical validity of the BP's claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenElliot Rodger wasn't good looking lol he was a 4/10. He also only had community college, that's not highly educated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 02:42 PM |
| 3 | It's All ProstitutionThey could be both prostitutes and maids though. Also, what about subsidies? Akaash Singh's wife married him to live his million dollar a year elite NYC life even though not much cash was explicitly exchanged. That is prostitution. Just because cash didn't explicitly change hands doesn't mean anything lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Can the mismatch between what women want and what men offer even theoretically be solved?That's China, they have an abysmal dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 11:31 AM |
| 13 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsYes this When it comes to giving young men advice, all of a sudden women are a hive mind now is extremely infuriating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:36 PM |
| 2 | If you’re not the most attractive dude and you don’t have the most “game”when it comes to women, being a kind and caring individual can maybe make up for thatThat's a Hiroshima Nagasaki pill you dropped lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?The statistics say women are more frequent users of hot people social media then men though. They literally say I need a boyfriend that looks like a certain celebrity or at least have typical TikTok tall white guy features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipLol so you believe ugly wife happy life?That's bluepill. Redpill says you should have a tall attractive wife to give your children better genes lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:20 AM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Ok but there are the cases like Akaash and his wife that's clearly problematic. I don't know how many marriages are like that, maybe 1 in 25 to 50? But it definitely happens lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | The dating life of an average woman and the dating life of an average man is very differentThat's real, I could easily play into say the female lead of a Virginia Woolf novel, an upper class educated lady. But because I am male I get none of those benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn't the red pill community try advocating for men's issues IRL.This is all of society. Just look at high finance and cryptocurrency. They know that it's rent seeking and value extraction. Buy before everyone else and sell before the bubble bursts. It's nothing glorious but when its the only game in town and endorsed by the President himself can you really blame them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:42 PM |
| – | We live in a Post-Alpha world where “red pill alphas” are nothing but mythologized male whores.I agree with this specific point 👍 that's brutal man. Throat sluts lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:51 PM |
| – | We live in a Post-Alpha world where “red pill alphas” are nothing but mythologized male whores.That's the naturalistic fallacy. I agree with all your factual claims but due to the is-ought dichotomy they say nothing about who we should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:40 PM |
| – | Confidence is encouraged in men, until they actually show itLol that's lowkey brutal man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Society upholds women’s standards of men more than men’s standards of women, because women’s ideal man is someone broadly admired and socially successful, while men’s ideal woman is someone valued almost exclusively by her romantic partnerFor most of history, it was customary that men were generally more hierarchical socially and sexually and also bare the responsibility of defending a group against external threats and/or advancing conquests, both in physical and non physical senses. This just means that the men lower in the hierarchy with less sexual opportunities were forced to buy into some real big copes to counter sexual frustration, which were often grand narratives that involve gaining power in non sexual ways, as a copin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Society upholds women’s standards of men more than men’s standards of women, because women’s ideal man is someone broadly admired and socially successful, while men’s ideal woman is someone valued almost exclusively by her romantic partnerI think this ties into how grand narratives are much more important psychologically for men compared to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The impetus for self-improvement does not matterYou're right, just look at Akaash Singh. He believed being an NYC public figure would get him love, what did he get ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The impetus for self-improvement does not matterUm just look at Akaash Singh, he is a former NYC TV actor and comedian, who netted over 200k dollars a year at his peak Yeah he checked all those boxes for a elite American dream life and what did he get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:01 AM |
| – | Women want high earners. But here’s why I think hypergamy should be about net worth potential instead of gross income.It came from a very specific demographic group though, Asian/Indian American college students (and sometimes young workers in tech / BigBiz). Its not like they had that much of a choice with the hidden racism... Just look at Akaash Singh for the perfect example lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypseThat just sounds like emotional compertalization. It isn't the worst thing ever but its definitely not a good life lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:10 AM |
| – | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.The machine must be kept running at all costs. That's the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?You're right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:09 PM |
| 0 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingThat's stupid, we live in an nearly absolute monoculture these days, its all cutthroat competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 12:43 PM |
| – | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.No you aren't the independent man that you say you are. You outsourced the vast majority of your social identity to institutional power- in your case, universities and their social prestige. You don't care about random people because your academic status gives you enough power to curate your social circle. That's not that different from finance bros and their escort-like trophy wives, just that the currency you wield is perhaps more subtle than just money. You pretend that it is so different but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menYes you're definitely right ✅️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:32 AM |
| 1 | For men, it isn't truly about sex.I would argue that is an institutional problem. Take music as an example. Punk music arose in postwar Britain in large part due to the British government providing funding for lower class adolescents to attend art school and create artistic output. This also provided incentives for musical firms to be more experimental. I am quite sure that lots of adolescent and young adult men got laid due to this particular subculture. When the funding was later withdrawn, the culture also correspondingly die… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | For men, it isn't truly about sex.Just be a brainrotted peasant bro LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.No its not because the economy is down it's because of INEQUALITY lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:21 AM |
| 2 | For men, it isn't truly about sex.There are still billions of people living the way you said. Just go to the slums of India, Indonesia or Egypt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 09:47 AM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Huh? What pills are you popping 👀 China's economy is a wasteland outside of the MNCs' headquarters and the central government. There are literally senior software engineers making 10k USD a year when rent is 700 USD a month. Its a joke. Japan is doing better but its not collectivist in the way China is. The people conform to social norms to an unusually high degree but it has far more institutional integrity than China. It is among the least corrupt nations in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Why is black pill wrong?Yeah but he is only attractive to her because he projected an image of the 'unbreakable model hard worker'. The moment he shows weakness like a normal human being?She has no reason to be with him anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/25 07:10 AM |
| -1 | Why is black pill wrong?Your best friend sounds like she has a toxic savior complex tbh. I have seen similar cases and it never works out | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/25 04:19 AM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.The problem is not the CCP, it's how the discourse around being human in the English speaking world has changed alot between 1960 and now. The Woodstock generation got its ideas of free love from the Romantic poets, such as William Blake, who found in love and sexuality an avenue for breaking free from the church and tradition to become free spirited human beings. The vision was aspirational and explosive in nature. This generation as a group was an active creator of possibilities of human flour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:38 AM |
| 5 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsLike 60 percent of those CS majors are Asians or Indians though. I think racism is a bigger factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 12:31 AM |
| 3 | What would you personally contribute to society if you could get regular sex from attractive women?No those technologies already exist they are just military only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 06:36 AM |
| 20 | What would you personally contribute to society if you could get regular sex from attractive women?Because he has a Madonna whore complex. Freud was correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menNo idea but in this context it would be buying a wife and there are a lot of convincing reasons why you wouldn't do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menYeah like it or not our culture is already totally enshitiffed, people are just in denial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menYeah it's politically incorrect but some ethnicities are just more stunning and attractive and then there are ones that are basically work drones and when you put them in the same city, the other class are just gonna get hurt, it's what the YouTube channel Rehab Room is all about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:21 PM |
| 2 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingThe term you're looking for is 'true love'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.Psychology explains this. Only 5-10% of people have a secure attachment style. Add in the other factors inculding attractiveness, class, religion, location and so on and its quite apparent why the marriage you want is rare for both men AND women. Modern society is just adapting to this fact instead of demanding humans to be perfect, which is an impossible task. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 06:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: BetaBucks is framed too beautifully. The reality is that when a woman settles in looks for a less physically developed man, she infatilizes the man, treats him as a child without a sex drive and also puts impossible labor demands on him, like a toxic mother-son relationship.Yeah you're right and I pointed out in another comment that the reversed gender aka Madonna situation is bad as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 02:30 PM |
| 0 | CMV: BetaBucks is framed too beautifully. The reality is that when a woman settles in looks for a less physically developed man, she infatilizes the man, treats him as a child without a sex drive and also puts impossible labor demands on him, like a toxic mother-son relationship.It's an archetype, the relationship doesn't have to fit 100% or even 70% of those traits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 09:47 AM |
| 0 | CMV: BetaBucks is framed too beautifully. The reality is that when a woman settles in looks for a less physically developed man, she infatilizes the man, treats him as a child without a sex drive and also puts impossible labor demands on him, like a toxic mother-son relationship.You're right but my point is that in a relationship, if what one person likes about the other is all quantifiable performance/labor then they are going to demand the max, much more than the other person is capable of, because they feel that since they settled when it comes to the non labor aspects (looks) then they must have compensation. This happens in reverse too, when men settle for a less attractive/physically developed woman than their standard then they start making impossible demands for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slavesUm India still has an actual bloodline based caste system based on supposed divine authority when that has been eliminated in the civilized world since like 1800? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:25 AM |
| 2 | How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their DriveSo you want to become a gray alien ? Because that's how the gray aliens became their abominable forms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 06:16 AM |
| 0 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?Yeah but if their genes aren't good no amount of technology can fix that. Mark Zuckerberg can't be a Chad even with his billions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | People who are unsuccessful at dating should learn to accept it, and be mature enough to not wrongly blame anybody but themselvesThere is a difference between broad social trends and structural oppression though. You can't just pretend they're the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?That's legit one of the only high iq comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:02 AM |
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