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| 1 | Should i break up with her?I dont think i have a problem with self confidence. I wish we can meet in person and talk so you can know who I truly am. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Should i break up with her?Oh i wish I can on this instant be the person you want me to be, not carrying negative energy, the type of man women wants. You dont know how much I want that and I am doing what I can to BE that. Tell me what else I can do..... Im sorry if I sound negative man, it’s just I dont know what else to do, if you have the answer on how I can improve my life I will do it, that is why I spend most of my time reading and learning is to find the answer | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.That is a good mindset 👍 | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.What do you mean learn how to flirt? | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.So?....... | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.It’s more like im searching for..... love itself? A woman LIKING me? I cannot find the words for it. Im into that cuddling, sweet type of thing.... so what does that mean? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.I think i got the answer? It is that i dont have “other shit”. I am 21 and dont know what my passion is right now. I know for a fact that I want to read and learn. That is what im doing right now. Basicaly= work out 3-4 times a week. Read 1-3 books a day, Learn from youtube, reddit, etc ALL DAY. About business, life, self improvement etc. I want to find my thing, but Gary vee said to not rush it, because at 22 nobody knows what they are doing in life. I am 21. I know i might be impatient.... it’… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.What i am focusin on right now is getting in shape (diet is horrible but I try to go to the gym 3-4 times a week). Read books the whole day, learn from youtube the whole day. I want to travel soon but this will take resources from me, alot of resources that maybe I can put into something better. I dont know if im doing this right, im focusing on learning and improving at this stage. I dont have a “thing” because i am still very young and dumb about life. Gary vee said “you are not supposed to ge… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.About me: Physiological needs: Im currently a little overweight but I try to go to the gym. Diet and hydration not the best (you know what man, As I am writing this you made me realize that I have to improve this. Safety: Fiancial security is where I am lacking right now. I came from a wealthy family and my mother provides everything for me so I dont have to worry. I want to discover my “thing” so I can build a business and become self sufficient. I want this to be my priority Social: im meeting… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Experience. Because i just became myself the past 2 months and the girl left me | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Taking to other girls is just not what in my core belief is..... right now... sorry man. I feel like i just need to cry thats all | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Im just needy to this one girl. I guess i just want her attention and love. Affection is what I am needy about | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.I am weak and needy 😩 RIGHT NOW. Maybe i will solve this in the future but right now that is who I am and that is why i am having this problem. Im at the point where i am no longer hurt by your words man because I am already hurt 😭 i wish you can just punch me that would hurt alot less than right now. If it matters, i am just 21, it can be a good thing. I am experiencing all this at a young age so ill be smarter when i grow up. May i know how old are you? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.You are right... it’s just at this age it is sad to think that i am not supposed to “find real love” 😔 because I will be needy cause I am still young and stupid I really liked this girl. Or maybe im just being needy. Anyway, it hurts like hell. I dont know if i should be angry or sad 😔 | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.I know the truth man 😔 the more i “be who i am” the more she will stay away. It is sad. I know what you are saying to me is hurting me, i think you know that too. Thank you i guess? 😔 Im just so sad and I really want to cry. Im close, it would mean alot if you make me cry | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.It amuses her i guess? It goves her positive emotions? Where are we going to? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Okay. I really want to solve this. Can you help me? I am 21 years old I realy dont know what my “thing” in life is or what my goals are. I dont think i am supposed to know that at this age. I am admitting that I have a problem with myself. I am needy and chody. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Banter and tease works because it conveys tht you are a grounded man who has humor in his life and doesnt take like so seriously. Whats the point? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.My honest feelings: i dont want to find another girl because I like this girl. Now you are telling me to not be honest with myself........ so?..... | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.She just left me as I am writing this. Anyway. I want to talk about it man. I had no mask the past few months. I did not make an effort to game her or to change myself. I just became who I am, I became me. Which i can describe as loving, NEEDY, chody etc. Is that what you are telling me? To be that? I did that and she left me 😔 I kindoff understand what you are saying. But man i am so tired of myself, I want to cry right now. “Why can’t i fix myself” “Why am i so needy” that is what is going the… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Okay. It is bad. So what do i do now. Work hard on myself 24/7 and NOT be myself? Then some people will say i am inauthentic etc. Fuck this hard 😩 I just want to rest this is so tiring | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.I just want to cry dude..... I dont know what to do | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.No. Look. Let me explain. What I am saying is. I DONT put on a mask that is why she is leaving me. The past months all i did was just be myself, like no effort on “gaming”. And now she is leaving. Now this is telling me i have to put on a mask to be a better man...... Man this sucks dude. I really want to cry | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.You are right man. I really needed to hear that. I promise to work hard on myself. Thanks you. I already finished RSD’s transformation mastery, to solve me baggage and traumas, i just dont understand why after all that I still get problems. Anyway, thanks man 👍 | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Thanks man 👍 | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Anyway, update on this. She is back on my place again. You guys know something fun is gonna happen. But now I just dont care about that anymore. Im reading books and improving myself why she is here doing her work in the laptop. In maintaining a healthy female-male dynamic between us. Look at that im back into the game again. Her hurting me just wakes me up to be a better person. Alright, have a good day, i hope you guys learned from my experience= Dont get caught being a chode. Coach corey wayn… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.What? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Correct 👍 | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Look no no no no no. I am not needy for sex man. You getting this wrong. Im more needy for attention and time thats what im saying. Fuck sex man I have enough of that. As I said, I really do love this girl I dont just fuck her. ANYWAY, all this talk is for nothing now man this issue is done. Im fucking done with this shit im movin on with my life. SAYONARA | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Yes that is correct. (Idk what dina mean I assume it means I can get another woman if i want). The neediness i have is not something out of control because I am not aware of it. I am AWARE of it that is why i am posting it here, so its not hardcore neediness thats the way I see it. The way i see it it is just part of who I am, and Im gonna embrace that shit. Im fucking pumped up right now, on the zone high state kind of shit, you know this feeling, because I just dont care anymore 👍 | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.I already did all that shit man. I took bootcamp, travelled the world to game etc. Im done with that 👍 What im saying is I am naturally needy. If i dont put effort I wont be “alpha”. Soooo yeah, thats hard. But i feel better now, I just dont care anymore man | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.You too man have a good life 🙂👍 | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.I understand man. Thank you. I’ve been through this phase in the past. Was so burned out of the game and just admitted that I am a chode blah blah, and really it worked well for me. It’s just I find it hard that I have to go through this shitty feeling of being needy and a girl slowly being distant from me. So I will just say what is maybe the best thing to say and do right now. “Fuck all of this game thing man, Im fucking DONE. Jesus fucking CHRIIIIST” (I said the same thing last year haha, any… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is being bitchy = shit test?Thanks man. Have a nice day | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Is being bitchy = shit test?I honestly dont know. I like to focus on my life as I am young. Currently or relationship is VERY committed. She is almost in my place every night, almost living here. The thought of long term PERMANENT commitment scares me so I want to NOT think about it and just enjoy our relationship at the present, that is why I dont want to look right now into the future. | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Is being bitchy = shit test?Can you explain to me what “making myself scarce” mean. You mean i should distance myself? I dont think i have a problem with neediness. I WANT her but I dont NEED her. The way i am tackling this right now is I am slowing down a bit. Let her do someof the work I guess | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someoneFINALLY a fucking player in this subreddit. Man why can we not create our own subreddit. If RSDnation did not shutdown then life would be better. Too many people that are nonpua in this place so its hard to find help. Anyway here is the situation. I WANTED to be exclusive with her, i dropped my girls and meeted her alot and showed her to the parents etc. I really wanted that. But suddenly this girl appears and wooooosh the dynamics changed, “feelings” now change. And I agree NOBODY is really mad… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someone🤷♂️ yeah yeah believe what you want man. Anyway, girl code.... seriously man. You know if you are also succesful with this shit you know that doesnt matter to us haha. Fucking girl code seriously, anyway man i respect ya. Have a good one 👍 | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 01:52 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someoneApplies to normal people. Not people who spend years and years doing this seduction shit 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someoneOh wait you are a woman.... nvm what i said | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someoneOkay first. No discrespect. But I am feeling that you are a little bit not on my side, the pimp pua dude who believes in abundance? If you dont understand what I just said I understand. The thing is, people like me dont buy into that mindset. We are all about abundance man 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 0 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someoneIm not gonna ghost her. I mean, it is just hard and a little bit painful to process this emotion. Because there are time that I feel that I WANT her, but then I see this girl and I somehow desire her? So it creates a “conflict” with my feelings. Like my mind cannot process that I can desire 2 girls at once..... Anyway, if no one can help me, i would just say fuck it and just go with the flow Please if you have anything in mind say it | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you think you are “getting attracted to others” while you are exclusively dating someoneWell holy fucking shit..... same bro, but for me it is HER BEST FRIEND. The fuck how do we solve this | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSAnother thing, i just laid her a few hours ago. My god my dude...... that pussy is the best that i ever had........ im feeling like im making a bad decision here 😳 but yknow fuck it bad decisions bring knowledge | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSYou know man it is my choice, there are literally OTHER GIRLS who want to talk to me erigjt now but I dont because of this girl. And my fucking god I dont know what im doing she seems controllive 😳 | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSShit that sounds dangerous 😳 i gotta keep my guards up | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 08:48 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSI think i can handle it 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSRed flags keeps on coming...... wtf.... now shes asking me to travel (WE ONLY MET ONCE) etc etc...... 😳 maaaaaan too bad shes cute and foreign | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSOkay..... maybe I will..... doesn’t look like it will do any permanent damage.... all i see is if i get hurt I will learn and be a better person..... or is there a permanent damage | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSWell goddamn that is scary and I kind of relate to that....... Honestly i dont know what to do, I am a follow my feelings type or guy...... so maybe I just get in and if I have to get out..... get out quick? Is this bad? | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | So what happens if you continue seeing a girl who show RED FLAGSShe seems REALLY eager to have an relationship...... talking about parents and going to her country in the first date..... what im worried about is HER being DESPERATE for a relationship or something like that | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to treat more than one woman as “more than someone you fuck”?I see. Okay, is it a good idea to tell her “Hey im gonna meet this girl later blah blah” I ask her in the past “is it okay if i fuck other girls” she said it’s okay as long as you are honest | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to treat more than one woman as “more than someone you fuck”?What is considered “overboard” | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to treat more than one woman as “more than someone you fuck”?How do I do that? I dont think I shall just be an asshole and not chat her and “not feel” | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to treat more than one woman as “more than someone you fuck”?She says she likes me and all, and NO im not saying anything to her that we are official so why would she assume? Am I doing something wrong? | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to treat more than one woman as “more than someone you fuck”?Yes I also do what you do in the 2nd paragraph. But how do I avoid the 1st one? I really wanna be careful, All I wanna be is to be caring and loving to them but NOOOOT in a relationship right now | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Thanks sir 👍 this is a gold mine. Will look into this sources | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I just rejected a hot girl who is ready to have sex with me. Same time last year I was a virgin.You..... give a shit about girls? How many women did you make happy last week? Last month? Last year? Did you make any woman beg for you, so excited to see you, scream your name during sex? 🙂 Of course you wont know the answer cause you are a blind man my dude, hey dont worry if you can’t make women happy. I’ll take care of them for you 😉 hahaha | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Yeah I already read that plus tons of videos from Coach Corey Wayne (the author). I dont think it’s a fuide for people who game on how to stay at a relationship. It’s a guide for regular guys on how to get ONE women and let her stay 🤷♂️ which is not my situation | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I just rejected a hot girl who is ready to have sex with me. Same time last year I was a virgin.Ohhh boy 😂 for you guys out there who is.... not really having success. I understand where you are coming from, i was like you in the past. But, acting like that wont make you happy OR get laid OR get what you want. You have a choice, to get back to work on improving yourself, or keep on being angry at people like me 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | I just rejected a hot girl who is ready to have sex with me. Same time last year I was a virgin.Didn’t feel right. Im gonna meet a girl tom who i view as someone different, you know what I mean. Plus Im note sure if its a good idea to have sex now and then tommorow, will that afgect my stamina tom? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:27 PM |
| 4 | I just rejected a hot girl who is ready to have sex with me. Same time last year I was a virgin.Awwwww, dont worry man, if you work hard enough, and also try to let go of your chodiness, you will understand why i did what i did 🤷♂️😁 | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 02:05 PM |
| 9 | I just rejected a hot girl who is ready to have sex with me. Same time last year I was a virgin.A boy who is not needy 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?What if my answer to those questions is : NO Or I dont know I dont know alot about “serious “ relationships, because RSD and my other sources almost never teaches things about it. I saw Coach Corey Wayne say “A long term relationship is not possible because people always change”. For me right now all I can feel is: As long as it is fun, she is fun and we are having fun, then it’s good. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Thank you 👏🏻 huge help | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Well that is alot of information. Is it bad if I say this? I think i will tend to just not worry about it and just follow my feelings and have a good time. For me to not “over evaluate” things. If i get hurt i will and I will learn 🤷♂️ that is what I think the choice I will follow...... That is basically what I learned from Julien’s TM | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?How do I plan to not end up in the losing end when I grow up? Im just 21 right now | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Thank you for that 👍 that really opens my mind I have been really focused on this “game” thing, they never teach me anything about what to actually do when you fall in love or about commited relationships 🤷♂️. Thanks for showing me that I still have some things to learn. Do you have a recommended source to learn about that? Maybe a book or youtube channel? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?I think it was maybe Max or Tyler who said that somewhere in Youtube. Or Max somewhere in his Courses, he said something like “ I date hundreds or thousands of women, so when I grow old I can pick the one who I like the most” something like that | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Okay 👍 so you are saying, even if i find her amazing, i should get to know her more just to be safe? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?I dont think i will meet higher quality women when im in a relationship. Im saying I WILL meet higher quality women as time passes because I am constantly being a better man everyday. “f you are looking for the hottest girl and upgrading whenever you see hotter, that is the type of superficial shit that will have you divorced 4 times by the age of 50.” This however, it kind off hits me, can you enlighten me on how to approach that better? How do I approach dating healthily in that way? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you any adults males here successful with pickup and attracting women have good social lives? (No high school and college kids allowed to answer, I explain why inside)For me, i have close friends, but as a man who focuses on success it is natural to not have many friends, you will only benefit from it. Why? You only need a few people to support you | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?Im just 21 btw, I know I will continue to be more seductive as I grow up as I am taking the right steps.... so my fear is being fixed with a girl now, but regret it when I am older because I deserve higher quality girls... | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?From the books and courses and videos I have finished. Falling in love is okay, what is not is being fixed with one person while you are young. Im fine with dating this girl exclusively, at least for now, but I am afraid that I will be fixed to her and not meet more women in tbe future..... Another fear is me being in a relationship with her but I end up wanting other girls..... 🤷♂️ Can you enlighten me? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?I am following my heart right now, going against traditional RSD teaching of becoming unavailable, because I am asking her out of dates and stuff like that. Thanks man 👍 that is what I will do | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:44 AM |
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