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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Advice needed: I think my boyfriend emotionally cheated on me. How do I proceed if I want to save this relationship? I don't think this was just a rough patch, I think it is a giant red flag. Here is why: He has a fundamental weakness of character. His response to problems at home was to spend Energy somewhere else. He chose to take the easy route, the easy conversation, instead of dealing with his problems. You are going to see that pattern repeat in the rest of his life. His work, hobbies, and relationships will be characterized by this entitled laziness. If you are looking for a leader for your family, one …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/16 11:22 PM
-4	What's incentivizing women to do better? Wrong place to be a woman asking a question. I would suggest a different sub. Most of the men here are bitter and angry at women. It's not my place to judge whether or not they are justified, but it is what it is.	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 01:59 AM
1	Keeping Score in Your Relationship To a point, yes. But there is a point when supporting someone turns into them using you, and despite what they have gone through, you also deserve happiness. Do you really not get this, or are you being intentionally obtuse?	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/16 06:13 PM
2	Keeping Score in Your Relationship Yes and no. People can change as they grow, and vetting someone at 25 does not mean that the hardships of life won't change him. Bad things happen to good people.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/16 10:17 AM
1	Keeping Score in Your Relationship This is a tough one, because it is a natural evolutionary trait, and it is not always bad. For example: if your husband refuses to get a job, help around the house, or spend any time with his children, then keeping score is an effective technique to prevent yourself from being used. Or if one person is imposing unfair standards that they are not expected to live up to. However, in a stable loving relationship, you are right. I told my husband when I met him that using sex as currency would make …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/16 08:59 AM
2	Hobbies are enriching I'm new here, but I will put in. I gave up a hobby 2 years ago. I was sword fighting and my body can't take it anymore. I went back to school shortly thereafter and didn't have time for hobbies. I just planted a vegetable garden because you are right. Not only do hobbies enrich your mind and make you a more accomplished partner, they are also medically necessary. Hobbies that you enjoy have been shown to increase mood, decrease stress and anxiety, and are a major component in fighting depression…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/16 05:39 AM

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