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I believe that Confirmation Bias is a more appropriate term.
/r/seduction18/05/13 03:08 AM
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Mind if I ask what technique of meditation you are using? From my (limited) understanding, your technique seems too rigid. If you're falling asleep, you're doing it wrong. Let your breath be natural, not staggered every 5 seconds. Let your mind wander but bring it back to your steady, natural breath. Think of it as an exercise of your will power muscle and being able to focus without letting other things distract you. What you build is the ability to shut out the things that don't matter when yo…
/r/seduction08/02/13 10:23 AM
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/r/meditation worked just fine for me.
/r/seduction08/02/13 10:12 AM
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Someone watched the video...
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:00 AM
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Fair enough. Redundancy isn't always a bad thing though.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:11 PM
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You don't need to watch it, just listen to it.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:03 PM
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Have you tried asking your female friends what a guy can do to "game" them on the dance floor? Since this is a culture based puzzle, I think the solution will come from those who understand the culture.
/r/seduction19/12/12 08:22 PM
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Use your words. So simple and yet so a propos! Thanks OP!
/r/seduction30/11/12 07:00 AM
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I'm short, chubby, and consider myself unattractive. I talk to people well. I sell things regularly and my friends look to me to open people up. But when it comes to women, I have no confidence. I don't feel confident that I'm attractive and thus I don't portray attractiveness. I've been working out a lot. My confidence is coming, but not fully here. You say looks don't matter and that's partially true. I think looks impact people differently and I pray that one day I will overcome the negative …
/r/seduction16/11/12 08:27 AM
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That's a hired gun? Sounds a little pathetic to me. They aren't "guns to be hired" they're normal people at work. I think treating them like people and being a fun friendly patron is mandatory for being a good person. Will it pay off long term? Yes, but that's not why you should do it. Part of being an attractive man is being a good person. Being a good person means treating people in service positions with respect and humor. Edit: I get that it's not meant to dehumanize and that it's part of th…
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:23 AM
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Oh ok. I wasn't sure because I always make friends with the bartenders wherever I go because A) they're usually interesting B) they hook it up C) they're people. The places that I frequent I tip at least 50% EVERY time. They remember me for being fun, friendly, and a good tipper. I thought this was just being a good bar guy but maybe it's because I go to small bars (big craft beer fan) when it's not busy so I get more face time.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:19 AM
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What do you mean by hired guns? The bartenders?
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:57 AM
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It's fringe I would say. Despite the fact that it's brewed by MillerCoors, as a wit, it's ok. But there are so many better wit beers out there. Still, I'd rather have a Blue Moon than any other BMC
/r/seduction31/10/12 05:08 PM
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He's just whispering to create intimacy.
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:36 PM
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You are right, self-depreciating humor does have negative effects at times. From my understanding, disqualification isn't necessarily self-deprecating humor. You can disqualify yourself and still portray yourself as confident, in control, and "alpha" (the term is so subjective and discussion is often a circlejerk, so I use the term loosely). Self-depreciating humor causes you to be disqualified but not by yourself, by others. As /u/EricDisco said above It does have a psychological effect. It mak…
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:03 AM
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Your description of the brain reminds me a lot of Freud's description of the id (or my understanding of it; it's been a while since Psych 101). Also, thanks for this post! I needed it today and you inspired me to give meditation another shot. Edit: Fat fingers cause typos when I'm not on a real computer.
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:55 PM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:56 PM
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Just got on POF yesterday and totally needed something like this! Thanks man!
/r/seduction27/06/12 07:19 AM
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Nice. Fistbump
/r/seduction14/06/12 07:57 AM
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I think I came across this on Seddit. I wonder who sent OP this and if the sender is reading this thread right now...
/r/seduction13/06/12 08:14 PM
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Chu' got it Papi!
/r/seduction07/06/12 06:09 AM
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You never go ATM...
/r/seduction06/06/12 08:27 PM
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Troof.
/r/seduction06/06/12 08:22 PM
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Think of extrovert and introvert as right and left handiness. As a right hand person, it's possible to write your name with your left hand. It just doesn't work very well. If you practice, over time you'll be able to write with your left hand, even though you're still right handed. It's even possible that you begin to "prefer" your left hand and use it more. Same thing with introversion and extroversion. The test just measures preference but not ability.
/r/seduction03/06/12 05:30 PM
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I think there is a lot of bullshit in it, but mostly from people who take it too seriously. I was a business major and did a minor in leadership studies in college and took the test at least once each semester for one of my classes. The results I received online matched the ones I received in class. I think a lot of people don't understand how the test is supposed to work and misinterpret the results because they aren't guided through it by someone. When misinterpreted, then it becomes like horo…
/r/seduction03/06/12 05:19 PM
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Adding to that; it's called Myers-Brigg Type Indicator. It can be kind of interesting to see what you are. Dozens of free tests and websites about it. Check it out!
/r/seduction03/06/12 02:32 AM
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What was her response? I've never used the line before and I'm curious to know how it's played out for you in the past.
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:20 PM
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Graduated a year ago but wasn't nearly as successful. Thanks for the advice dude!
/r/seduction26/05/12 04:24 PM
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This article was written for someone like me, I know that much for sure. The first half makes sense to me, I get it. The second half, "You Pretend", doesn't make sense. I don't think that I can "tell myself" that I don't care when in fact, I know deep down that I do care. Practicing with no purpose of improvement seems illogical. Not caring is a big deal for me because I can't seem to do it. I've always been the type of person that "cares". I put in extra effort for my family, friends, school, w…
/r/seduction24/05/12 07:48 AM
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I miss training so badly. Did it all through out high school. Stopped when i went to college and now funds are too low to start back up again. I'm changing fields in a couple months so hopefully that will change.
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:55 PM
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Also....don't think. Learn mediation and practice becoming thoughtless, silencing the tongue. Before you approach women, pick a spot on the wall, and breathe deeply for ten to fifteen seconds. Don't think about ANYTHING. Nothing except your breathing and the spot you have picked. I took a class on leadership and being present but I've forgotten some of my lessons. This is a great technique and I'm totally trying it tonight! Thanks!
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:30 AM
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When I'm at the bar with my buddies and not in state r/funny helps liven me up and makes me more social.
/r/seduction14/05/12 11:48 PM
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Oh man, I want to see that happen so badly!
/r/seduction07/05/12 11:40 PM
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