Blue1ao Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	How do you guy stay centered?	Discussion	Blue1ao	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 03:47 PM

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1	Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually? Yeah my last ex wasn't the best in bed I initiated a lot of the intercourse but I usually didn't finish but I did make sure she at least did. We didn't break up because of this and I could usually just finish myself off I'm a guy it wasn't that hard to finish with my hand	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 01:01 AM
1	Have you hooked up with someone for non-sexual reasons? 1 to impress my dad hooked up with someone showing I could "wasted effort and too much drama it was my 1st 1night stand" 2 I'm from a big family raised a lot of my siblings as one of the oldest and I didn't have a pet so had no one to sleep next to. I had moved across country it was a year in while I wasn't ready for a relationship I just wanted someone next to me since I had just came back from visiting my family and sharing a sleeping space with 4 siblings and was feeling really dark back home…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 12:50 AM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? You said your only standard was not repulsive if it was not repulsive and $250k a year you probably (idk ur mans pay)wouldn't have your jeep. I honestly think both sides have harmful delusions on what they offer, self worth,and standards. The women in this example if they're actually trying to get a SO should do what they want so they can get a SO. If "lowering standards" is what they want then Tbh I think you already are to an extent. Both sides airing their problems allows more contemplation o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 01:10 AM
2	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? Yeah but settle is weird like if I promised you $300m and only could give you $250m you would be settling for still $250m. If both sides were honest from the get go no one would be expecting $300m and wouldn't have to settle for $250m. Which goes back to both sides were sold a dream and have unrealistic standards and self Worth's... Back in the day times were harder and they're wasn't a social net to stop you from dying in the streets. You go back even further and now it's necessary to have kids…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 07:29 PM
2	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? Congrats on finding your SO I hope you stub your toe. all pettiness aside I still believe a dream was sold to both males and females that isn't attainable for the majority. Like I said I don't really blame females or males for their standards or views on self worth. Adjusting to realistic standards should be encouraged and I don't think "reaching down" encourages bad behaviors such as abuse and cheating. I believe they were bad from the get go	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:48 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? I've heard 1 or 2 of these but this is like a Frankensteins monster of requirements. It's a lot for one women to have all of these. That's why it must be a joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:48 PM
17	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? This is a joke has to be	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:34 PM
2	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? I don't think it's really women fault for their standards if I was told or had it hinted I was going to get a Ferrari all my life and then was told to settle for a jeep it'll get you there and do the same job I'd feel some kind of way. I don't completely agree with lowering your standards means you can't fall in love and be in a good relationship. Also cheaters were going to cheat regardless i believe. That being said this is one of those situations where it shouldn't have been said in the first…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:33 PM
1	What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women? Black women apply for the divorce in majority of the cases doesn't matter what color the male is if the woman divorces on the 1st hardship	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:08 AM
10	Dating in 30s as a woman? She wants a husband and kids being 30 is going to make that harder cause men her age are going to aim for mid 20's the type of commitment she'll get will be for fun -_- best bet would be someone in there late 30s who gave up on the young and dumb and is just ready to settle	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:18 AM