BlueAppleRedTree Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-3	Just one of many post where men get ripped apart for having a preference concerning Bodycount. Interested what the stance in a community like this is? I have a pretty high count and it's because I wanted to and not because I "can't keep my legs closed". I don't know how that equates to no impulse control. It's like saying someone who goes hiking every weekend has no impulse control.	/r/MensRights	19/01/23 07:15 PM
0	If there is consent involved, women alone are responsible for getting pregnant They're shitty feminists then, and probably immature.	/r/MensRights	10/01/23 09:15 PM
0	If there is consent involved, women alone are responsible for getting pregnant Uhhhh, I hear and see women told to keep their legs closed if they don't want to become pregnant all the time.	/r/MensRights	10/01/23 06:57 PM
-4	Ukraine: All men are conscripted and the women set up anti male feminist apartment blocks. You're talking about two drastically different cultures. Even in the US, you will find women who support both positions.	/r/MensRights	10/01/23 06:53 PM
2	If my wife cheats and has a child that is not mine, am I legally assumed to be the father? No problem! Statutes are a bitch to read.	/r/MensRights	10/10/22 07:06 PM
2	If my wife cheats and has a child that is not mine, am I legally assumed to be the father? You read it wrong. "after learning that he is not the biological father of the child" So he would have had to know he's not the bio father before signing the birth certificate.	/r/MensRights	10/10/22 02:32 PM
3	If my wife cheats and has a child that is not mine, am I legally assumed to be the father? Sure thing, but if you want a head start google "disestablishing paternity". It encompasses all situations. I'm not sure where Florida falls in progressive family law (e.g. not assuming the mother to be the default primary custodian; we use guardian ad litems) but we are a very pro se friendly state. Tons of info out there. And to answer your second question, no third party is needed. If the mother knows who the biological father is, she can file to establish paternity with him.	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 01:15 PM
4	If my wife cheats and has a child that is not mine, am I legally assumed to be the father? It's early so I'm not going through and linking the authorities. , But I worked in family court in Florida for 15 years. Married men can absolutely contest paternity of children, we even have it's own case type. We will actually issue a new birth certificate without the man's name if he's found not to be the father and wants to divest his legal rights. I've witnessed this thousands of times.	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 12:33 PM
2	Man losing 50% of his assets from a divorce? It's complicated. I've seen thousands of divorces in my 20 years working in the judicial system. There are a ton of conditions that are looked at for division of assets. I've seen homes owned prior to the marriage get divided, but the non-owners spouse put a ton of money into renovating it.	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 04:27 PM
2	women are generally helped more than men with their mental health issues, and men are seen as dangerous for having them, while women are "suffering" Have you looked into the genetic medication test? Maybe you can get that covered by insurance. I've heard people had success with the meds it recommended. Ive tried most of the medications out there for depression and tried TMS to no avail. I didn't take the genetic test but my psych put me on another new med (pristiq) that seems successful so far. At least, I don't daydream about my own funeral every night before I fall asleep anymore. Also, considering you've attempted, I am also outraged that…	/r/MensRights	21/09/22 09:52 PM
3	women are generally helped more than men with their mental health issues, and men are seen as dangerous for having them, while women are "suffering" I feel you, man. I got back on medication but not therapy because it just seems useless. Even my psychiatrist for meds is pretty bad. At this point, my goal is making it from day to day enjoying what I can enjoy.	/r/MensRights	21/09/22 07:30 PM
1	women are generally helped more than men with their mental health issues, and men are seen as dangerous for having them, while women are "suffering" Hi. Woman with mental health problems. You're first paragraph is exactly what I've experienced with the 7 male and female therapists I've been to. Make sure you're going to a psychologist and not a LCSW.	/r/MensRights	21/09/22 07:21 PM
2	"Historical oppression" of women Adding them to my list, thanks again. I may ultimately end up not agreeing, but I'm not going to disagree without understanding first.	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 05:09 PM
2	"Historical oppression" of women Thanks! I'm white but I've spent since the summer protests trying to learn in depth the history of racism since the end of slavery. So I'm always open to new reading.	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 02:49 PM
2	Man getting robbed at knifepoint wets himself. 40k⬆, people find it hilarious and mock the victim. The empathy gap is real. Haha, friends by proximity is a reality for most of us as we get older. All my friends are co coworkers. Sometimes the suck it up comment is needed. I've had female friends say it to me and I'm like "huh, maybe I am being petty". But if a man is leaving a abusive relationship, for example, that is not the time to "suck it up".	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 12:30 PM
3	Man getting robbed at knifepoint wets himself. 40k⬆, people find it hilarious and mock the victim. The empathy gap is real. I can exude confidence, but have a lot of personal issues ( who doesn't), I've had the same experience as you with women, as a woman. But, sex is a little different than the broader subject at hand. Men need to be able to be open with other men and support each other and everyone needs to be more accepting that... Life's fucking hard, man.	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 02:23 AM
63	Man getting robbed at knifepoint wets himself. 40k⬆, people find it hilarious and mock the victim. The empathy gap is real. Yeah but I think women are more unified on issues that affect them. Like, I could ask my female mortal enemy for a tampon and she'd give me one. Or I could can any female friend to talk about something troubling me. That's what men need to do to. With my male friends, I have been the friend they confide in with their trauma and emotional vunerablility. It makes me sad that they don't feel they can go to their male friends for support who could better be able to identify with what they went throu…	/r/MensRights	14/09/22 05:03 PM
0	"Historical oppression" of women Man, I would love to see that data. It was 1980, you can find the statute books for most states from that time to see for yourself. As a matter of fact, A few states still have a loophole today, if someone is married and the rape occured due to being unconscious. That's not good for men or women. I don't believe in hell so I'm not worried. Can you expand on how feminism affected the civil rights movement negatively, or point me to where I can read on it?	/r/MensRights	14/09/22 06:25 AM
-1	"Historical oppression" of women 1850 is when the first state (good job, Tennessee) outlawed domestic violence and, I was off a decade, it became nationally outlawed in the 1920s. But enforcement was still rare until the 1970s. So it took 120 years from inception. Oh, and marital rape wasn't illegal until the 1980s. We still have lingering coverture laws the same way Jim Crow laws havent quite all been peeled away. The only difference is that things are getting better for women with very little (until recently) backward slides,…	/r/MensRights	13/09/22 10:47 PM
-1	"Historical oppression" of women This whole thread is try to say that women have not been oppressed. So yes they have. And yes, men did to, for example climbing the class ladder was often not allowed. But if you were a woman, there was no ladder save for royalty.	/r/MensRights	13/09/22 08:05 PM
-1	"Historical oppression" of women Uh, no they couldn't take a loan without their husband as a cosigner and if she gambled he was legally allowed to "discipline" her. In the 1870s married women were considered dependents to their husband.	/r/MensRights	13/09/22 08:02 PM
-2	"Historical oppression" of women Hell, domestic violence was legal in the US up until the 1930s and it wasn't actually enforced until the 1970s. Women could not apply for a line of credit without a man cosigner until the 1970s In the UK, it was 1870 when any money made by women were not immediately considered property of her husband; they also were not allowed to keep custody of their children if the husband died. They had no legal rights to their children.	/r/MensRights	13/09/22 05:15 PM
3	Alimony is unfair because it only considers the financial side of marriage (explained below). Do you agree? If not why? Gotcha. Don't get me wrong, I've seen many cases I felt were unfair to one party or the other.	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 07:22 PM
5	Alimony is unfair because it only considers the financial side of marriage (explained below). Do you agree? If not why? Did you know that there can be a professional evaluation of the party requesting alimony to find their ability to become gainfully employed? 95% of the time, I see permanent alimony awarded in elderly dissolutions or long term marriages (20+ years). With elderly people, I've seen more men awarded alimony than youd guess. Bridge the gap alimony is probably the most common. And I have definitely seen less and less alimony awarded over my 20 years working in the courts.	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 05:07 PM
4	Alimony is unfair because it only considers the financial side of marriage (explained below). Do you agree? If not why? If he's still paying child support and youre over the age of majority that means either there was an agreememt to pay longer (I see this with kids going to college mostly) or he didn't pay at some point and is in arrears.	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 04:54 PM
1	The Problem with Men Yes, I've experienced it personally, funnily enough once by a woman. And in the legal system, rape is called sexual battery or sexual assault. Sorry for including other information?	/r/MensRights	01/09/22 02:26 PM
1	The Problem with Men Yes. In my state rape falls under sexual battery offenses. I don't think you realize how often all those extra charges cops arrest someone on only for the state attorney to drop most of them before a plea even comes up. But yes, I have seen jail time for women for sexual battery against a men, children and the elderly.	/r/MensRights	01/09/22 11:11 AM
0	The Problem with Men Cool thanks, I'll go look for those. UCR isn't just filed charges. I literally work with criminal data for a judicial circuit, it's collected from multiple sources like the clerk, jail, LEO, SAO and PD agencies at all stages of cases. After nearly 20 years in the court system what you say is just not true from my experience. I'm not saying that women don't get more leinient sentences in the court system, absolutely a problem. And we also need to encourage men to speak up. I have seen plenty of w…	/r/MensRights	31/08/22 07:34 PM
0	The Problem with Men Can I get those sources? That's not what I've seen from UCR data.	/r/MensRights	31/08/22 05:07 PM
-8	A woman from TwoX works briefly at an animal shelter and concludes animal abuse is caused by men... how is that allowed on Reddit? From what I've seen is men overall commit more animal abuse. Men overwhelming commit violent acts against animals and women overwhelming hoard animals. General neglect is about even.	/r/MensRights	31/08/22 05:05 PM
0	Boys are more likely to be molested than girls. Girls are probably more likely to realize/admit they were molested. Here's a study proving it. Oh yeah, agreed. It's a complex problem that needs a complex solution.	/r/MensRights	30/08/22 07:13 PM
-2	Boys are more likely to be molested than girls. Girls are probably more likely to realize/admit they were molested. Here's a study proving it. Would you disagree that males do commit majority of SA crimes?	/r/MensRights	30/08/22 05:06 PM
-3	Boys are more likely to be molested than girls. Girls are probably more likely to realize/admit they were molested. Here's a study proving it. The stat is 90% of sexual assault victims are female. Which we can assume is probably skewed a bit because males are less likely to report. What we should be looking at is why 99% of offenders are male and how do we fix that problem. Certainly one thing we can do is encourage boys to report SA so they get the resources they need.	/r/MensRights	30/08/22 02:44 PM
2	"Louisiana Mother FaceTimed her ex to show how she’d slit His kids’ throats" The rates of homicide of children by a parent are about equal. Three big reasons are separation, psychosis, and cheating.	/r/MensRights	11/08/22 07:47 PM