BlueBaals Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was nice Can you summarize what you felt was most personally relevant to you and how exactly awareness of this has made you change with any examples of behavior before vs now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 04:16 PM
2	A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissists I’d be curious to see before and after dating experiences of these super short to super tall bros	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 12:59 AM
1	Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexual Can you share a link to your social media?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 03:20 AM
1	Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop. I mean, that’s literally what everyone is doing here, whether red pill or purple or blue or whatever - arguing they are right and the other pill is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:32 AM
1	Would you prefer a society governed by Islamic law and norms over the status quo? Can you link to this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 12:57 AM
2	Metal illness and loneliness is now a joke, glamorized by sexless teens. (Reposted) I agree that the future will see the rise of tradition we once thought on its way out. If not Islam, then fundamentalist Christianity. I feel like Islam will win the battle, their faith seems so much stronger than conservative Christianity which is mostly fiscal abundance glamor worship (Mammon; the Second Master under Lucifer, of this earth served in place of Christ - a battle of the Venusian morningstar’s). I think this is the case because many men will be without reciprocated love, affection,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 05:45 PM
1	Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30s At 27 I was with a 36 year old hotty. Trust me, she had zero trouble finding and engaging in relationships from casual to open to monogamy, before and after we broke up. She had been married over a decade before I met her, and she definitely had some wild oats to sow after, which was why we met anyways, casually blossomed into her having feelings, but I was still into my ex who I was concurrently sleeping with - almost like my other ex (30 when I was 27) was the “alpha” unwilling to commit to me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 05:08 PM
5	Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t like Healthiest & best relationship I ever had was with a woman 10 years younger than me. No one in the real world asked or gave a shit. Her age wasn’t a factor I sought out, either. I was surprised when I learned it tbh, and I made a concerted effort to ensure I wasn’t manipulating her in any way someone might if they had more experience than their partner. This necessary mindfulness actually made me a better partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 05:57 AM
-1	CMV: Most of this subreddit is just pointlessly gendered observations about whatever sex the poster wants to demean. Can you link to an example comment, I’m a casual passerby	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 06:53 AM
1	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? Multiple women I’ve dated grew their leg and armpit hair out and showered as often as me, as we often showered together. Their leg hair was nearly invisible and sparse in more than one woman, and armpit hair made me laugh but I never paid much attention to that area of their body anyways. And they rarely wore makeup, if any it was eyeliner. And it barely changed how they looked. Not only did I not notice any of this, but one even had to point it out during sex, that she stopped shaving, expectin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 01:57 PM
1	Female women, do you also have those "They only go for jerks" thoughts? different terms often used synonymously and implicative of the other. It’s rare, like the names of women you mentioned I’ve never heard of, that some will argue fat people are attractive because of their face, not because of a highly individualized fetishization of the diseased body of an obese human as sexually arousing, like “Feeder Porn” where some are turned on by the notion of immobilizing their partner by making them so obese via high calorie diets they become dangerously obese over short …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:12 AM
3	Any Tinder experiments that prove blue pills or disprove red pills? As a woman you have this leeway and opportunity - you basically know ahead of time you’re mlikely going to match with the dude, if you’re attractive, 9 times out of 10, so you can be picky and inspect profiles. Men, on the other hand, know 9/10 they will not match with the women they are swiping on, so it’s merely a numbers game + the most basic of filters for looks (if a man even filters at all) like “not fat,” is my only rule, really. It’s so rare that I see an average to above average chick t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 06:14 PM
3	Any Tinder experiments that prove blue pills or disprove red pills? That was interesting & a solid example because he actually went through their responses & included the No’s. Most of the Maybe’s I’d chalk up to a No. Regardless, it certainly didn’t prove any Blue Pill points. One chick even asked how big his dong is before committing to being slayed by the Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:59 PM
1	Everyone’s talking about the rise of male loneliness but not the huge decline in testosterone levels which could be a major contributing factor. So what’s the solution? ATM	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 05:11 PM
–	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. Nope, if anything she was a breath of fresh air who exhibited traits I’d never seen in women before. Principally, my capacity to trust her even existed from day 1 and didn’t waiver until the bitter end, when she became a spitting image of my borderline ex. Which I found hard to grasp at the time. hence being all the more traumatic as deja vu. I suppose in hindsight I could conjure red flags but it’d be reaching. She was my 3rd LTR & I truly believed would be my last. Nothing until the last coupl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 01:22 AM
2	Women who don’t have casual hookups are only appropriated online How do you even end up in a squat though? That’s such an incredibly small niche of humans who can handle that lifestyle or will even end up in that situation (safely?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 12:31 AM
–	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. Can’t be predicted lest it’s programmed, right? I dunno. Seems most are programmed to follow certain behavioral patterns and trends. Date enough women and you can piece together the commonality, the golden thread that weaves them all into the same narrative. If you’re lucky you are blind to these things and just carry on in good faith not all are bad actors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 12:12 AM
–	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. Thanks for the kind words. Youth certainly makes things easier. Hope you find a chill partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 12:11 AM
–	Do you actually think dating was better in the past? I wish it were this way. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone out with that hope and attitude. Fuck. This. Let’s have fun. and I was met at empty bars or by people who wanted to drink 1 craft beer with an appetizer and take a picture for insta. The only people getting wasted were 60+ whose night ended when mine began. The bars were fucking closing at 10PM. So I tried drugs. Nope. It’s either a depressing addiction shoveled away in the shadows or a pseudo-spiritual experience you gotta pay $…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 01:38 AM
–	Do you actually think dating was better in the past? Man, this all is so relatable. For me there was the cafe as mentioned but also my friends house, and what I’ll call for privacy sake “The Hut” (we had a different name for it but you get the gist) which was literally a play house converted into a weed smoking hangout area that we’d crowd in and around night after night. There were the usual suspects like myself and 2 others who were basically guaranteed to be there after 6PM & then when we had too many people we had his neighbors house to chill …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 12:53 AM
–	Do you actually think dating was better in the past? This so much as a 35 year old male. I was a sophomore in high school when MySpace came out. And I remember this moment my friend and I had where we realized we could add people (girls) we didn’t necessary know as friends. And so began a race for each of us to reach 200 friends. He lost his virginity two weeks later. I had hooked up with 3 girls from 3 different high schools in the same amount of time. But even then, we barely communicated online. We met at cafes - our go to hangout place - where…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:29 PM
4	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. Sound like me, especially the “made sure I was serious” bit. My last serious relationship essentially reconverted me from almost pure RP mentality (I mean years of experience in LTR’s or FWB’s or ONS or all 3 at once on rotation) to believing in a BP dream of love & a future (& family) together. It took a while to convince me, but I truly began to trust her with all my being. I thought I was lucky I had finally found a home. It was then, of course, and only then - when my prior learned distrust …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 01:58 AM
1	The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifier Pretty sure he’s implying the rich one gets pussy	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 04:41 AM
3	Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocrites Where is this happening? The furthest I’ve seen men describe what you just described in detail is the all-encompassing yet actually quite vague use of the word “Chad”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 09:09 PM
8	Since more women are working now than ever, and casual dating is more acceptable now than ever, will we see more “trophy husbands/ boyfriends” in the future, are we already there, or would women argue they would never tolerate a lesser man long term? Do you really wonder why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 05:11 AM
–	The idea being pedaled here that good looking men do not struggle is a myth. Women regularly reject attractive men, sometimes for no reason at all. I don’t know, really. I don’t think it’s complicated but I’ll try to explain. What do women offer men, that men want, besides sex & exclusivity? Financial contribution & resource sharing, help managing household affairs. Companionship & reciprocity. Ideally for most monogamous couples - you would offer children. With that dutifulness to being a mother and partner. A positive non-nagging attitude. Generally I think men desire a woman that is happy to be with them and pleasant to be around, who en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 01:34 AM
–	The idea being pedaled here that good looking men do not struggle is a myth. Women regularly reject attractive men, sometimes for no reason at all. Like the comment of yours I saw on another post exclaiming not needing to offer (provide) anything to “MEN”, yet expecting they offer (provide) nice things for you. And that they even demonstrate this on the first date. I imagine that’s the type of entitlement or ego-inflation people have in mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 07:06 PM
1	Q4A: Male loneliness, what is it to you? I’m 35 and can speak on this directly. If I didn’t have my family I don’t think I would have had a single person even text me in the last 8 years. I am so incredibly alone it is not fathomable to most women what this is like. I have gotten from women “you look like a player” as reasons they avoided me. I have had those years where I was definitely not a “good guy”. But those are long gone and all I want is for one woman to enjoy my time with. Since I’ve been single for a few years now at age 35 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 05:36 AM
1	Why are sex workers seen as exploitative? That’s so crazy that that many people watch porn weekly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 02:13 AM
4	What's wrong with average men? I recall talking to a guy on here on an older account about this sorta thing. To me he looked like “an average - moderately attractive” male. Like, just a normal, fit, male that took care of his physique. But he was lamenting his appearance. He was rating, or grading his looks like it could be measured objectively with points by him and other black pill men. He knew surgical terms for his facial muscles and was arguing for how certain surgeries would increase his appearance value. Overall it was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:00 AM
1	For redpilled men, what does consent mean to you? My solution from an early age was to simply let women make the moves. Granted I’d position myself (not like literally move my face in front of hers, but as in general vibe / location etc..). Like, if a girl is coming over and has already enthusiastically engaged with me flirting, and we move to the bedroom, and she lays on the bed, it’s not like one should be left questioning what to do. Make yourself and your own body language open & receptive correctly or just lead the conversation & body lang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 10:13 PM
2	Anyone ever feel like modern dating is more trouble than it’s worth? As someone whose lost love, and the chance for a family that was aborted with it, past a certain age I’d say you’re right. When the best years of your life were in the past with someone who chose to not be there in the present, knowing you’ll never have something again that haunts your every step is better than being hopeful you may find something or simply not looking at all. I feel like alongside the decline in dating on average has been a decline in the quality of women in the West. For us br…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 04:14 AM
1	Men are emotional. No one is saying men come out of the womb without emotions. All the blue pills and feminists keep thinking we are saying men have no emotions I don’t agree for hardcore red piller reasons. I agree because this is my lived experience. Although I wouldn’t say all men are true romantics, I’d say most men are given at least one chance to lose their faith in it. It kinda works like males are raised to believe women are the ones who provide or offer a magical thing called Love that men can’t have without it coming from a single woman, and this thing is presumed to be entirely reciprocal and equivocal because both the man and the woman use t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 04:00 AM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? No. It is not wrong for anyone to have preferences. It’s just a silly one given most women you’ll come across actively dating are not virgins. I think most men also mistake the mythical Virgin for equating to Ultra-Committal or “Safe” due to inexperience. What men who desire this generally want is just a woman who will love them with the same Disney idealism around monogamy the men believe a woman should have. And this is just a pipe dream nowadays. I’d wager most attractive women have had 5 par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 05:37 AM
0	CMV : young men today should spare themselves torment by not getting emotionally invested in one day becoming a father Does anyone legitimately know why this is and when it started? Is it something to do with trans rights?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 05:45 PM
5	Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do this There’s a large amount of evidence that points towards Greeks being against the few how had such relationships. I can’t recall the video but there’s a nice lecture on this somewhere out there, which demonstrates how that notion being public ‘common knowledge’ was after a 1970’s book came out and made the claim - which the lecture/video does a nice job of refuting. And Roman orgies are classically tied to their extravagant downfall. See Caligula, for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 04:34 AM
1	Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at all I’m just fucking around, it’s not supposed to make sense or mean anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 05:09 AM
1	Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at all Words have definitions which offer expansive insight into the synonymous & syllogistic reasoning of an non-axiomatic etic: within linguistic bounds these combinatorial equations qualify as numinous quantitive qualia symbiotically attaching themselves to the parasitic rhizome of cultural decay, that leaves in heat the ash of burning & in logos the ethos of becoming, as the gnosis of what value is ascribed meaning given complete understanding of the permutations of letters and their cardinality si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 04:53 AM
4	CMV: "Emotional vulnerability" is true, albeit misleading I think people who use the wording “trauma dump” to describe another humans relation of “heavy” information have a selfish EQ and likely minimal to no experience with real trauma. I also firmly believe it doesn’t matter what you say, as much as how you say it, for those who believe hearing another persons experiences is an energetic affront. Their mind was made up before any emotional information was communicated, any way. People with low IQ & EQ are often easily hurt by aesthetics. A dent is a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 04:42 AM