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BlueBrye/r/askTRP08/05/21 02:59 PM
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Thanks your post and this comment really spoke to me
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 03:54 PM
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I've felt that post covid the dating app culture has shifted. Before covid I was getting 2 dates from apps consistently every week and now post covid I haven't had a single solid thing materialize and I've changed practically nothing.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:58 PM
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Yeah it's definitely vibe dependent imo. I try to keep my dates very open ended and fluid for that reason. I don't really mind alienating girls that aren't looking to fuck on the first date though so we differ there. After all "any girl who makes you wait or by her actions implies she's making you wait the sex is never worth the wait". If she's into me the way I want and she has what I'm looking for rn she'll be down
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:58 PM
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Which is why my question was "why are you not trying to F close on the first date?"
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:42 PM
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Why are you not trying to F close on the first date?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:26 AM
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I've found a "...?" After a reasonable amount of time (recommended by Todd V) works pretty effectively for the girls that actually got busy, but are interested. If they aren't they'll be low effort still and you know you can move on.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 05:01 PM
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If she isn't accepting your date plans and or is not accepting your counter offers it's best to just go minimal effort. Be nice, but short. If you're doing things you can always just say "hey I'm going to do xyz thing want to come?" And if she doesn't who cares(only once or twice). You can also just pullback hard and if it comes up tell your friends gf that her friend doesn't seem interested so you're not going to waste your time with her.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:41 PM
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Unless you want Jody taking care of her while you're gone you did the right thing. Single military life is the best
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:53 PM
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I inadvertently had to go into a sort of monk mode while deployed due to the circumstances and the reset was very good for me. Before I deployed my self esteem was pretty dependent on how many women I was sleeping with and now ive learned to derive it from my own personal improvement. The secondary effect was I'm now more outcome independent and less upset when things don't work out or I'm in a sexual lull. My own revelation was that women are an accessory to my life not a defining aspect of it.…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:12 AM
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Fr tho nacho cheese or cool ranch?
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:23 PM
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It's really up to you, if you don't think you can still hang with her without it affecting you then don't, but I think it wouldn't hurt to try to get a few more lays out of the situation. Tell her you're down to still hang and bang even though yall can't be serious. Haha
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:04 PM
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Not sure exactly how your call with her went, but is it possible her "can we still go to the concert and keep it causal comment" is referring to just being fuck buddies? Maybe she is saying she can't do anything serious, but still wants to have fun and fuck? It seems like you didn't make it very obvious you weren't looking for anything serious yourself if you were going along to meet friends and family and what not. There's really no harm in still hanging out with her unless she really means "ju…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:49 PM
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Don't over think it. It sounds like you the only thing you did wrong is not be exactly like her ex. Also she wasn't as attracted to you as you think(if she ways she'd be banging you). On to the next one.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:14 AM
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This girl doesn't "really like you". If she "really liked you" she'd be pursuing you and not the other guy. Get that thought out of your head. It's in HER best interest to LEAD YOU ON so that she has you as a back up and can USE YOU for attention while she is fucking Chad. HER connection to you is based off the emotional feel goods you give her, and the other things you can PROVIDE. Not your stellar personality. She likes you for what you give her. Doing nothing is exactly what you should be doi…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:12 PM
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"How is it autistic to make your intentions clear from the get go?" If your goal is to actually have sex you'd never reveal your intent overtly like that. Being that blunt and direct in this context doesn't make you a man it makes you socially uncaliberated, especially when you follow it up with basic human indecency. A proper response is "I'm just having fun and seeing where things go. I'm open to more with the right person." It's not lying to rephrase "I just want sex" to "I'm just having fun …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 10:43 PM
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Met a cute type girl that had been going out with my roommates one night when they were all over pregaming, seemed submissive, innocent, felt vibes, gave her my number. Didn't go anywhere, but I thought she was relatively innocent. Then she comes over at 2am a few days later drunk with a friend looking for dick. Total hoe behavior. Completely caught me off guard because I thought I read her correctly.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 10:16 PM
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100% this. Women don't get a pass for bad behavior because they have a vagina.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:46 PM
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Misery loves company
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:54 PM
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That last paragraph hit bro.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 07:37 AM
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A little harsh? More like blatantly autistic.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 05:35 AM
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This is exactly what I've tried to convey to my roommate, the female in question has seemingly friendzoned us to try to use us for various things (we've curved most of this), but it's the main reason I don't want to hangout with her is because she's taken sex off the table. I find it pretty pointless to befriend women I haven't had sex with or don't have some sort of other relationship that precludes sexual interaction.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:48 PM
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That's a good point, I suppose at that point it's just screening for women you actually want to spend that time with.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:36 PM
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I've been in a reoccurring discussion with my roommate about this. He thinks that even if a chick is annoying, not interested in us sexually(or in our case both) that being friends with them is valuable for pre-selection/elevating our social status. It's essentially the "friendzone yourself to bide time in the off chance she decides to fuck you" strat. I'm not a fan.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:19 PM
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Do you think there is value in hanging out(strictly on your terms) with women who try to use you as a orbiter/provider, (but don't sleep with you) if their attractive? Is the constant deflecting and annoyance worth the increased social proof at the bars in your option?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:56 PM
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Tldr: Who is Chad in 2021? Chad is whoever the girl thinks Chad is (could be a total fucking loser objectively, but he checks all her superficial boxes of what SHE thinks the perfect guy is) Why has there not been an uptick in violence? It appears men are being continuously conditioned to be weaker by western society, and big point here it's socially unacceptable. I live in Florida, and even though we are inundated by vacationers, military girls, and locals alike I've had a similar anecdotal exp…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:52 PM
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Yeah I agree. my roommate isn't exactly "beta" more purple pilled. He's just indifferent to the situation because he has a indirect game style and is very extroverted so the more people who are around the better(regardless of how much they suck) and is pretty indifferent to whether he sleeps with this girl or not. He seems to be convinced it's more pre selection for women at the bars when we go out.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:16 PM
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Gotcha. We're pretty much just seeing how much utility she has rn. I would've booted her already cause she seems more trouble than she's worth, but she's permeated the friend group. It's more just dealing with the current situation as it develops now.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:08 PM
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So what you're saying is cultivate the friendship for the added benefits, maintain a strong frame (avoid white Knighting and simp behavior), but forget about sleeping with her?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:56 PM
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Thanks, cheers mate.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:55 PM
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Yeah I feel like we're entering an arena we're completely outclassed in for very little potential benefit.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:38 PM
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I mean this is an answer in it's own right. Thanks
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:31 PM
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Idk if you mean you live with eachother, or you both live in the same town separately, but. Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. Secondly, She banged him, doesn't matter why or what she tells you. She'll downplay it for days, say he's weird/creepy. Whatever she has to to make your smooth brain believe that she's totally into you and would never fuck him ever again. She's not yours it's just y…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:15 PM
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They never change. They just become disgruntled they can't continue the same behavior and reluctantly accept the wall.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:59 PM
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Not what I'm suggesting at all. What I'm suggesting is having options and choosing the better one if you have a conflict.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:12 PM
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That's very mature and well thought out criticism of the concept of abundance.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:51 PM
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You shouldn't be readily available especially on the weekend. Make plans In advance with multiple women. If neither flake then you flake on the one you're least interested in. If a girl flakes on you indifference is good "nbd I had some other friends that wanted to hangout, see you when I see you." Or something similar. Then soft next.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:29 AM
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There's nothing you can do about the past. Stop worrying about things that you can control by focusing on what you can do now and in the future. Otherwise you're just going to keep wasting your time wondering what could've been.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:49 AM
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This ties into the concept of shit testing very well.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 04:05 PM
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I'd award this if I had a freebie.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:59 PM
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You're emotionally attached to what you care about the most. If you tie your self worth to the women you attract, the ammount of girls you sleep with, and how submissive they are to you you are constantly chasing their validation which is not only unattractive, but is something that will never satisfy you and will always have you chasing the next hit. You'll also be emotional when girls cancel on dates, leave you on read, and fuck some other guy instead of you. If you care about yourself, your f…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:48 PM
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You should be emotionally attached to your future and your self improvement. Your 'purpose'. everything else is an accessory. Nice to have, but not needed.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:04 PM
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You're already hamstering this situation. It's simple. It's over. Either you break up with her because you know she's prepared to dick down Chad and maintain your dignity. Or she becomes more covert when you confront her and she branch swings. And you become the controlling weird guy that went through her purse. Also she deserves 0 explanation. "I don't think this is going to work out." Done. If you feel like being lied to just ask her why they're there. "Hey I was going to grab some gum out of …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 08:59 PM
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I totally get your point, but I'd still error on the side of caution. Ultimately I think the most suitable thing OP can do is not care about it, but remain weary. Anything else will just push her away into other guys.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:55 PM
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Nobody in their right mind would be offended by a girl saying "that sounds nice I have a boyfriend". There's softening the blow, and then there's putting homeboy on the backburner for later. "Maybe some other time" is "Im not available right now, but in the future when I am I'll reach out".
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:42 PM
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I had a moment of weakness earlier this week when a girl and her friend came over at 2:30am drunk to hangout with my roommate. I took her up on her offer to hangout with them thinking I'd get laid. Really she just wanted someone to keep her entertained while she tried to hook her friend up/me to hookup with her friend so she could have a shot at my roommate. She doesn't like me like I thought. If I wasn't hyper focused on getting laid by her I would've gotten a good night sleep and increased my …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 02:40 AM
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This is a phenomenal analogy
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:03 PM
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Bruh this chick is some kind of condom saving Gone Girl level of crazy. Stay away.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:29 AM
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It's a subconscious defense mechanism. When people are perceived as needy it is unattractive because it telegraphs a lack of abundance. That is to say that if someone is needy or desperate they seem to be incapable of maintaining a relationship with attractive people because they have issues that may or may not be obvious making them a poor mating choice. If nobody else wants them why should I.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:34 PM
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Pull a for real break up on her. Ain't nobody got time for that b.s
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:01 PM
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If you have anxiety there's no shame in getting help with it. Anxiety fucking blows
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:48 PM
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To be blunt. From your post and some of your responses you come off as a total egotistical narcissist. You need to start improving by humbling yourself and realizing the world and the women in it don't owe you a thing. Enjoy your time, become the continue becoming the best person you can be, And let things go without a fuss when they end. Then you'll be operating as a confident and emotionally level guy with abundance.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:09 AM
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You can be whatever you want to be. And right now you're choosing to be a 26YO incel (your words). You don't like what you are right now and that's fine you've got plenty of time to change. Focus on what you can control and keep moving forward doing things that you know are positive. I.e working out, eating healthy, taking care of yourself etc. Additionally regardless of your opinion on lockdowns or your life gaining perspective on people who have had much harder or more challenging lives will g…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:03 AM
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Time to punch out.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:23 AM
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Sad, but true lol
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:34 PM
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I've kind of dropped out of the game for this reason. At a certain point it just got boring. There's no reason to pursue most women when things get challenging because you can just find another similar enough with a little effort.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:32 PM
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u/HangTheGods pretty much nailed it, but to elaborate. You contacting her when she has shown with her actions that she doesn't care shows that you have a lack of abundance and rely on her. Women want men who men want to be and women want to fuck. Additionally they don't want to have to be the one leading the relationship they want YOU to lead. You making the choice to breakup and then running back to her shows you lack options, confidence in your decision, and neediness. All things she will furt…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:30 PM
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Just to be blunt I'm willing to bet she fucked atleast one of those guy friends. (Guy friends are red flag #1). That being said stop fucking contacting her. It's honestly pathetic and you're validating her reasons for cheating on you(if she did) and you're also making yourself seem incredibly indecisive and low value. You should probably just accept the fact that she was most likely getting piped out by one if not all of her friends on those "I'm just going to stay here because it's late" nights…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:55 AM
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You can't change what's happening, but you can change how you're reacting to it. Depression due to isolation is very real and cyclical. The more depressed you get the less you want to do things that make you not depressed. Workout daily, eat healthy, take a probiotic, sleep well, avoid alcohol and tobacco. These things you can control will have a big effect on your daily mood. Make a concerted effort to spend time with your friends, go on walks, etc. If this seems hard to you start where you can…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:58 AM
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It's honestly getting so bad they're starting to think they're red flags or cute, quirky, or attractive.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:09 AM
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1 red flag lots of guys friends Bonus red flag story. Brought a tinder girl home after a 3 hour first date. Said girl checks her phone and answers a call in my kitchen after we had sex a few times (standing there topless). (The phone call is from a drunk guy friend of hers trying to invite her to a hotel at 11pm) While I'm there the conversation on her end is "What are y'all doing?" - "whose all there?"- "so its just 3 guys and 1 girl?" "Is anyone else going?"-"Are y'all having an orgy?". (She t…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:00 AM
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Savage i respect it lol. Cover your assets
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:31 AM
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Wipe your clown makeup off and move on
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:11 AM
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Poetry
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:11 AM
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Good point, there was a really good article on RooshV about never feeling bad about losing a girl after you've slept with them. It's not up anymore otherwise I'd link it
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:48 AM
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This. I've thrown away what could be some pretty solid plates if I just had more patience lol.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:25 PM
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In my experience women who are stuck on a guy want him for all the reasons we try to embody and will claw tooth and nail for his attention and admiration trying to lock him down. When she's doing that she's forgoing alot of the active attention she gives to orbiters or other guys. (Orbiters always provide passive attention). She may string them along some, but she puts most of her energy into the guy she is chasing. Untill either A) she accepts his frame in which case you have a plate, but she h…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:30 AM
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Yes they are all the same. Accept it, develop a method that works for you to get laid consistently and maintain a few plates, focus on yourself and don't worry about it too much.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:13 AM
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Tldr: your ego is bruised because you couldn't influence the situation. There's nothing you can do to change her. Accept it. Sexual and emotional relations with these types of women are like hard drugs and you're a recovering addict. It'll take time before you get a high off a lower dose of crazy. Why do you feel like you're not enough? I think your ego is bruised from the perception of being rejected. You're a confident guy with alot going on why doesn't this girl see that and change her behavi…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:02 PM
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Tldr: My recommendation fix your anxiety don't bypass it with escorts. You can fix your anxiety if you put the effort and the work in to slowly confront your irrational fear. I think psychologically if you have a great amount of anxiety from the thought of sleeping with women buying an escort could be a potentially highly addictive move for you as you are simply trading cash for sex to bypass your anxiety. The act of talking to a girl, taking her out and fucking her is almost no different in ter…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:37 AM
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Tldr: "You lost today, but that doesn't mean you have to like it" Women will take control if they dont think they're with an experienced man and they'll resent you for making them have to do it. It's not rejection if its LMR it's arguably the biggest shit test and you failed this time. Take this L as a lesson and move on to other things for now. Next time a girl says no at the 1 yard line in a situation like this she is trying to see how controllable you are. Acknowledge it and go cold on her."O…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:36 AM
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Yeah that's going to be a yikes from me dawg
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:26 AM
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Oof, it be like that sometimes. On to the next one
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:56 AM
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Up to you then. I don't think there'd be harm in hitting her up to make plans, but if you don't feel like reaching out and she doesn't then it seems like a pretty natural ending point
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:53 AM
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If you've made attempts to make plans with no positive reciprocation back then let it be
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:21 AM
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She just wants more. Keep the frame you want and if the plate breaks let it. She'll come back at some point or she won't. Doesn't really matter either way because you should have other plates to shift your focus on
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:42 AM
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It's a multilayered thing, but ultimately it's their insecurity manifesting. Seeing successful and aspiring people forces individuals to look in the mirror and re-evaluate themselves which in turn highlights their own misgivings. It's alot easier to be dismissive or devalue people and their hard work than confronting yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:42 AM
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My advice is take the L and move on. If she hits you up to hangout some other time cool otherwise forget her. Anybody who goes on a date knows what their intention is before. Either something changed or she was just bored.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:30 AM
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Jody thanks you for your service
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:52 AM
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I'm in the Air Force. Prior SERE now Weather(we call them AFSCs in the Air Force). The military generally for me is a very love hate relationship, but I don't regret it at all. I couldn't recommend the Air Force over other branches enough especially if you want to do Intel. Just my 2 cents. Your path your adventure and all.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:59 AM
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Active duty mil here. Join the branch that is most in line with your personality and has a career you'd like to pursue. With a 99 asvab pretty much any job is going to be available to you w/ some exceptions so make a list of jobs you'd like and try to pick one most in line with that. Each branch has different nuances and general quality of life. That being said I'll shamelessly plug the Air Force. Lmk if you have any questions
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:29 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:12 PM
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Material possessions/clothes/image telegraph certain things to people and they form images of you based on these things. They're either attracted to initially or aren't. They don't make the man. Majority of the time girls aren't going to see your car untill you've already broken through that initial barrier of attraction. If you have a decent vehicle and above any comment made by them is just a shit test and doesn't matter if you're a confident guy. That being said if you want an el camino get i…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:50 AM
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By not being a huge beta and victim. Starting with improving yourself in all areas because you've realized you have massive character flaws for a man and not because you want to get back with a girl who left you because of said character flaws. Control what you can and don't worry about what you can't.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:31 AM
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Ghost
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:33 AM
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Girls that say "I'm afraid of being used for sex" just means they're afraid of being used/played again. They're changing their strategy from sleep with a guy immediately to make him fall for me to leverage my sexuality and hold out for some form of commitment It has nothing to do with your vibes at all they're just adjusting based on their negative results from previous encounters. These types of girls aren't worth the time based on iron rule #3 alone not counting their damaged psyches
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:43 AM
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Ofcourse you have a high lay count because of your boat. "They could say no, but they're not going to say no... Because of the implication."
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:33 PM
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Say sike rn
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:23 AM
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I upvoted this because I liked it, but more so I could be the 69th like
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:30 AM
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Crazy Stupid Love Ryan Gosling - RP Steve Carell- BP becoming RP It's particularly good at showing the transition of a BP person to RP
/r/askTRP21/03/20 07:21 PM
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